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Theoretical Framework
One way to help youth develop more accurate perceptions about older people is through educational experiences that expose youth to the realities of aging and
challenge ageist stereotypes. Educational film is an effective medium for challenging the dominant cultures
portrayal of the intersections of powerful social locations, such as gender, race, class, sexual orientation, and
age. By using independently produced videos, educators can engage students in reflexive questioning of the
politics of representation about such issues as who has
the power to name and construct social identities (Boler & Allen, 2002). Hearing real people tell their stories
about controversial topics allows students to uncover the
complexities of how dominant cultural stereotypes are
constructed and challenges students stereotypes about
intersecting categoriesin this case, ageism and sexism. Educational film also enhances students agency by
offering them views of reality different from those that
dominate the visual, social, and cultural horizon (Boler
& Allen) and thus encouraging them to envision their
own possible selves in the future.
We approached this study from a feminist perspective, presuming that older womens experiences as
sexual beings have been excluded from that which is idealized in the popular, as well as the academic, imagination. The standards on which people are judgedWhite,
Western, educated, propertied, heterosexual, masculine,
young, able-bodiedexcludes women to one degree or
more (Code, 2006). Older womens lives, in particular,
have been rendered invisible because older women are
not, according to the dominant discourse, useful as sexual objects or reproductive partners. Feminist inquiry,
then, begins from the standpoint of womens lives so as
to write women back into the present, the observable,
and the conceptual (Smith, 1999).
Guided by a critical feminist theoretical framework,
we derived three overarching research questions for our
study:
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Method
Educating Young Adults About Aging and
Sexuality: Classroom Settings
Specific lectures or units on aging and sexuality in
the college curriculum most commonly occur in gerontology, human services, and nursing courses. Students
in these disciplines often are more open to discussions
that focus on feelings, behaviors, and interpersonal relationships and may hold fewer negative attitudes toward
aging than the general population of college students
(Cottle & Glover, 2007; Kane, 2008; Luketich, 1991).
In contrast, students in general education classes, such
as university core classes open to all majors, likely will
hold more stereotypical and prejudicial attitudes toward
older adults.
Rather than working through the typical courses in
the fields in which gerontology students are likely to be
prepared for professions in aging (e.g., human services,
family studies), we informed students about sexuality
in late life by infusing aging issues into a general human sexuality class. This class covers a broad array of
interdisciplinary topics and global issues about human
sexuality over the life course. To augment lectures, students view films and participate in panels and written
assignments in which they further explore and analyze
the sometimes graphic and controversial content of the
course. As part of the universitys core curriculum (i.e.,
liberal arts requirements), the class is open to students
in every major across campus. The most common majors
for students enrolled in the class are business, biology,
engineering, psychology, communications, and university studies.
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Data Analysis
After students written responses were transcribed
into a Word file, the authors conducted a grounded
theory analysis of the 277 responses using the constant
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comparative method. Our purpose was to identify patterns and themes in order to make distinctions in the
data at each level of analysis (Charmaz, 2006). In
the first stage of open coding, we independently read the
data multiple times, paying attention to students use of
language and their meanings, as revealed in words, sentences, paragraphs, each of the six questions, and their
entire responses as a whole (Charmaz). In each of our
independent readings, we wrote analytic memos and detailed theoretical notes about the students perceptions
of older womens sexuality and intimacy, as well as how
they expressed ageism and sexism. We paid particular
attention to students expressions of their own ageism
and ways in which students reflected on what the older
women said, as opposed to how they merely parroted the
older womens own words.
After the independent coding, we coded the data
question by question, examining all of the male student
responses, then all of the female student responses, and
making comparisons by gender and across the six questions. We shared our respective coding schemes and
memos, developed coding schemes for each of the six
questions, and compared our schemes across questions.
We discussed discrepancies so that we could reach 100%
agreement in the coding process. This question-byquestion coding generated an expanded coding scheme
of many overlapping categories.
In the second phase of coding, the axial coding process, we conducted an in-depth analysis of the major
categories we had initiated for each of the six questions,
combining codes across questions to reduce overlap and
creating overarching categories with individual properties. Some concepts appeared in each question, such
as older womens assertiveness (boldness) about sex in
later life, as well as ageism. In the case of boldness, for
example, we developed the properties associated with
the circumstances under which boldness appears. One
aspect is the gendered nature of which group of students
(in this case, males) is more likely to use graphic language
in their attribution of a bold attitude to the older women.
Another is the use of more romanticized language among
female students (again, a gender difference).
As a result of axial coding, we streamlined the
coding further and arrived at a description of the data
with nine major coding categories: (a) sex matters, (b)
attitudes and knowledge, (c) life-course issues, (d) descriptions of older women, (e) sexual behaviors and relationships, (f) sex is better than when you are young, (g)
ageism, (h) comfort levels, (i) how students think about
aging (people). We continually compared notes throughout the axial coding phase and discussed each code until
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Results
How Young Adults Perceive Older
Womens Sexuality
Older women still feel sexual. The overwhelming response from both female (95%) and male (93%) students
was the acknowledgment that contrary to stereotypes
and, thus, expectationsolder women still feel sexual in
their later years. Gilberto stated: Older women still have
sex drives. Older women talk freely about their sexuality. Its never too late for sex. Furthermore, the young
adults in our study viewed older women who feel sexual
as full of life. As Brittni wrote: It seems like they have a
thirst for life rather than just being or getting older. Little things dont matter. Alana commented, Old women
have a refreshing view on the value of life.
Students linked older womens liveliness to wisdom
about love and sexuality. As Carly noted, Old women
are a source of wisdom, life, and experience. Almost
30% of the students used words of a spiritual nature, indicating that wise older women have soul and, as Marta
put it, are graceful. Susan stated:
Many of them are romantically wise and have had
many lovers. [They] have learned how to be more
responsible about their feelings, [which] means
having sex is more carefree, easy. They have had
more experience, they know what they are doing,
they are more comfortable with themselves. They
understand that life can get better as you age.
Older women have a bold attitude about sexuality. Students not only viewed older women as sexual but
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At that age, people start to be more themselves because they stop caring what other people think. So
the person rather than the image is sexy. (Bob)
Students reported that sex after 65 is also much
more about the connection between physical pleasure
and intimacy. Sex was frequently defined in relation to
love, as in Kyles comment that older women look for
lust and love. Neva wrote:
Sex after 65 is close and intimate. Experience with
sex makes the older aged couples connect and truly
become one entity. Its not about who gets off first
or how good the partners are. Its about becoming close and intimate. Sharing the two souls. Sex
shows that there is still life running through their
veins.
Its not easy being old: Obstacles to sexual expression. Despite the many positive observations about older
womens sexuality, about one fourth of both the women
(26%) and the men (23%) recognized the problems that
older women confront as they attempt to enact their desires for a full and satisfying sexual life. Marcus acknowledged: Sexual feelings dont go away after the death of
a loved one or as we age. Older women feel somewhat
invisible and think society wants young women, as the
women see in ads in magazines and on TV.
The students saw the disproportionate number
of older women versus older men as a key issue. Jesse
compared older women with older men, stating: There
are a lot of them in this world. The lack of available
partners ones own age was a related impediment to
women having a fulfilling sex life, as Joan indicated:
There is such a low number of older men and many
want younger women causing a problem for single
older women. Kelly wrote, A lot of older women
lose partners through divorce or being widowed, and
feel they will never have sex again. Usually, however,
they can find someone new. Male and female students
recognized that because women are more likely to be
widowed in old age, they are seen as having to pursue
men. As Rachel noted, this scenario may be a challenge:
When youre a lonely older woman, you might have to
be a pursuer for the first time.
Although most of the students commented on the
positive nature of the womens responses about coming to terms with aging bodies and accepting their own
physical changes, students insightfully recognized that
older women were challenged by their aging bodies. Ila
said, Its upsetting for them to see themselves getting
old. Bill noted, They acknowledged that they wanted
to look younger, but had to come to accept their age and
appearance.
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sexy about sex after 65, LeRoy stated, The fact that a lot
of people have sex after 65 is sexy. However, I think Ill
pass on watching people of that age have sex.
In answer to the question What can younger people
learn from older people about sexuality and intimacy?,
nearly one third (32%) of the female responses suggested some underlying ageism, with images of older
adult sex as gross or not sexy, even as they affirmed
positive aspects of aging and sexuality. Donna stated,
Sex between older people is not nasty or gross. It is a
beautiful thing when two people can still connect, especially at that older age. Joan wrote, That sex and
thoughts about sex shouldnt be limited to younger
good-looking women. Toni commented, It is not about
physical appearance, and being young and beautiful.
Older people have a better outlook on sex than younger
people who are out looking for that hot guy or girl.
Thus, the subtext of participants responses suggests
that although students recognized and critiqued prevailing ageist and sexist images, they continued to
evoke negative stereotypes when speaking about latelife sexuality.
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Limitations
Findings from this study contribute to knowledge
about the ways in which young men and women can view
sexuality as a passionate and lively part of life well into
the later years. The research, however, is not without its
limitations. First, the study sample was limited to college students, who may not be representative of all young
adults. In addition, because the university the students
attended has a predominately White population, the
sample lacks racial and ethnic diversity. Because little is
known about the view of aging and sexuality held by the
general population of young adults, including those from
various racial and ethnic groups, we encourage the use of
more diverse samples in future research of this nature.
Second, the older women in the film were more positive about their sexuality than perhaps some women are
in general. Several of the women in the film described
the influence of the womens liberation movement from
the 1960s and 1970s on their sexual attitudes and behaviors. The fact that some older women were comfortable
enough in their own skins, as many of the students indicated, to discuss personal and political issues of sexuality and intimacy and, in some cases, portray themselves
as physically intimate reveals a self-confidence that may
be atypical of the general population. Indeed, many of
the students recognized that the women in the video
had more courage than they themselves would have, at
any age. The meaning, then, of the films title, Still Doing It, had implications for the students beyond sex and
intimacy. The older women in the film were still doing
lifeboldly soand, in that sense, they were showing
the young how to do it, too.
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