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BRIEFLY LOCAL ..............................................16
OPINION ........................................................... 26
COVER STORY ................................................ 32
DVAR TORAH........................................... 36
ARTS & CULTURE .......................................... 37
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Noshes
AT THE MOVIES:
top flunky.
The youth market is
served by centering the
story, at first, on Marla,
a pretty young actress
(Lily Collins). Marla is
signed by Hughes and
soon falls for Frank,
her RKO studio driver
(ALDEN EHRENREICH,
26). Frank and Marla
have a cute romance.
They are both virgins
and religious Christians. But their swooning puts them at risk
of being fired because
Hughes has an ironclad
rule barring driver/actress romances. Sadly,
most reviewers say the
Hughes story and the
young couples story
never really mesh, and
the couples story is not
resolved satisfactorily.
Ehrenreich, as Ive
reported, has been cast
to play Han Solo in the
upcoming Star Wars
re-boot film. Collins is the
daughter of famous musician Phil Collins. Her maternal grandfather, JACK
TAVELMAN, was Jewish
and owned a swank Beverly Hills clothing store
that be-suited many big
studio execs and some
stars, including GEORGE
BURNS. It was at its peak
during the period in
which Rules is set.
Voice actors
represented by the
SAG-AFTRA union
went on strike against
video game makers who
record dialogue on Oct.
21. SAG represents about
160,000 actors, broadcasters, and voice-over
Lizzie Caplan
Matthew Broderick
Alden Ehrenreich
Gabrielle Carteris
Andrea Zuckerman on
Beverly Hills 90210.
In 1990, the producers
didnt know her real age
29 or religion when
they hired her to play
a 16-year-old. However,
they did decide to make
Andrea the most explicitly Jewish character in the
series. So they shouldnt
have been shocked when
Carteris decided to wear
a star of David on set. A
Jewish executive asked
her to take it off, saying
Middle America doesnt
want to see this. Carteris, a practicing Jew, refused to remove the star
unless other cast members also were banned
from wearing religious
symbols like crosses.
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the main character in this novelists new book. He gives
the manuscript to his ex-wife (Amy Adams) to read. The
story of her failed marriage to him and the harrowing
tale told in the novel, both told in full cinematic form,
constitute the bulk of the film. ISLA FISHER, 40, costars as the wife of the novels main character.
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JOANNE PALMER
There were so many big gifts, of course, and they mattered tremendously. Shirley Gralla, who died last week at
87, and her husband, Milton, who died in 2012, gave very
big gifts.
The Grallas were among that generation of Bergen
County donors whose generosity shaped the Jewish community, and whose legacy is visible not only in the institutions they created, but also in the density of the Jewish population they attracted. There are, of course, many
forces that have gone into creating this areas unique and
flourishing Jewish community, but those philanthropists
are prominent among them.
Much of the Grallas philanthropy went to young people, across the country, in Israel, around the world, and
locally. They were major supporters of Birthright Israel,
and the prime underwriters of the Genesis program at
Brandeis. They supported Boys Town Jerusalem, and the
Solomon Schechter Day School in New Milford.
But they certainly did not neglect adults. They supported as in very heavily subsidized a UJA Federation
trip to Israel. (That was in 2004, before the organization
now known as the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey took on that name.) And the Shirley Gralla Rehabilitation Center has been a vital part of the Jewish Home at
Rockleigh for more than a decade now.
Thats far from an exhaustive list of the organizations
the Grallas supported, and that kind of list doesnt provide
a full picture of Ms. Grallas instinct for philanthropy, her
children say.
My mother was a giver, Dennis Gralla of Mahwah said.
If my father came to my mother and said that he wanted
to give to something, my mother would say, Thats great,
but give more. She always would give more. The word no
did not exist in her vocabulary when it came to helping
people out.
If she could give a dollar tip, shed give a five dollar tip,
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and mom said absolutely not, Ms. Galinko
said. My kids will be raised Jewish. She
won that argument.
There was just one synagogue in town
then the Jewish Center of Teaneck. The
Grallas joined it, and soon it became one
of the centers of the familys life. The children went to Hebrew school there. Later,
when the Grallas became more prosperous, they moved from their smaller house
to a bigger one on the other side of town.
Dad always said that the hardest donation he ever made was to the Teaneck
Jewish Center, his children said. Thats
because they couldnt afford it, but they
did it anyway.
Over the years, as the business grew, giving became easier. The Grallas gave more
and more to the causes they supported.
Our parents realized that they had more
money than they needed, Ms. Galinko
said. They werent flashy. They still drove
Chevrolets. They were financially very
conservative. And Shirley Gralla, who
had joined Jewish organizations and had
seen from the inside how hard it could be
to raise money, knew that she could help.
She also gave to friends money, but
also time, attention, and love. One of her
grandchildren, Laura, reported that once
she brought a friend to her grandparents
The Grallas established a school at Boys Town Jerusalem in 1971, at the request
of Israels ministry of education. Its for both day and boarding students.
house in Florida. The friend was distraught because shed just broken up with
her boyfriend, so Shirley Gralla sent her
to a spa for a full day. And she barely knew
her! Similarly, but on a much larger scale,
when the parents of a 17-year-old boy Ms.
Gralla knew died, his mother took him in
and treated him like one of her own, Mr.
Gralla said.
There are too many of Ms. Grallas beneficiaries to list here, but strikingly among
them are the daughters of Leon and Marilyn Klinghoffer, Ilsa and Lisa. Leon Klinghoffer was the man who went on vacation on a cruise ship, the Achille Lauro,
in 1985, when he was 69. Members of the
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LOIS GOLDRICH
By her own account, Joann Lublin of Ridgewood got into journalism in the fourth grade.
We decided to start a newspaper, said Ms. Lublin, the Wall
Street Journals management news editor, recalling her days
at an elementary school in Syosset, Long Island. We had a
contest and my name won: Walt Whitman News and Views.
While the work she has done since has had considerably
more impact in 2003, she was a member of a WSJ team that
was awarded the Pulitzer Prize for a series exposing corporate
scandals she still remembers her first interview. I asked the
school nurse how she knew when to send a kid home. She
said, I take their temperature. If they have a fever, we call
their mothers. Now, she points out, the nurse might well call
their fathers instead.
A longtime member of Temple Beth Or in Washington
Township, Ms. Lublin will speak at a meet-the-author breakfast on December 4 about her recent book, Earning It: HardWon Lessons from Trailblazing Women at the Top of the Business World, published by Harper Collins. The book includes
anecdotes from her own career as well as stories detailing the
experiences of 52 women at the highest rungs of the corporate
ladder. At the end of each chapter are leadership lessons
drawn from the narrative.
Ms. Lublin majored in journalism at Northwestern College and got her masters degree in communications from
Stanford University. During her college years, she landed
a job as a summer intern at the Wall Street Journal. I was
hired by the Journal straight out of college, she said. That
was 45 years ago.
She has since worked at various bureaus throughout and
outside the country. Starting as a reporter in San Francisco,
she transferred to Chicago in 1973 so that her husband, also
a journalist, could complete his graduate studies. From there
she moved to Washington, where she covered labor issues,
housing and urban affairs, and other beats. In 1987 she was
named news editor of the Journals London bureau, and
became its deputy bureau chief in 1988. She transferred to
New York in 1990.
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ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN
In 1990, Israeli athletic coach Yuval
Higger sought local host families to
house an Israeli youth basketball
team he was accompanying to New
Jersey.
Larry Seidman of Wayne stepped
up to the plate, so to speak, making
all the arrangements.
The two men, who quickly
became close friends, saw the positive impact of this simple home
hospitality. They decided to establish the Israeli Sports Exchange, a
program that has evolved over the
years to focus almost exclusively
on tennis.
Were a very, very mini Birthright, said Mr. Seidman, a lawyer who runs an investment
partnership.
Birthright, a free 10-day heritage
trip to Israel underwritten mainly
by American philanthropists
and the Israeli government, has
brought about 40,000 young people to Israel every year since 1999.
ISE, underwritten by an endowment set up by Mr. Seidman and a
few friends, brings six to eight serious players to Israel each summer
after their junior or senior year of
high school for 20 days of tennis,
touring, and friendship-forming.
I love sports and I love Israel,
so I concentrate on both, Mr. Seidman said. I think its important to
have kids go to Israel and meet kids
their own age and become friends.
At the end of the three weeks, the
sport has become secondary to the
relationships.
Nevertheless, applicants have to
prove their mettle. Local teenagers
participate in tryouts on the last
Sunday in January to gauge their
level, while out-of-towners are
required to provide two references
from the tennis world.
A lot of these kids would never have
gone to Israel otherwise, because theyd
have to give up a whole summer of training, Mr. Seidman said.
He and Mr. Higger, who has coached
world-ranked Israeli tennis players Gillad
Blum, Harel Levy, and Shahar Peer, volunteer their time to the program.
Participants come from across the country. ISE has fielded campers from North
Jersey municipalities including Allendale,
Fair Lawn, Glen Rock, Mahwah, Ridgewood, Saddle River, Upper Saddle River,
Wayne, Woodcliff Lake, and Wyckoff. Mr.
Seidman would like to recruit even more
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Local food artist makes edible candidates; they go viral
ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN
If the presidential campaign left you wondering what is really inside the candidates
heads, Melissa Alt can tell you: A ball of
aluminum foil.
Ms. Alt knows this because she put the
foil there herself when she constructed
edible busts of Donald Trump and Hillary
Clinton.
Ms. Alt lives in Manhattan, but her yearand-a-half-old business, Melissa Alt Cakes,
is based in Teaneck, where she grew up.
Shes 24 years old, and graduated from the
Pratt Institute in Brooklyn.
The head is made of modeling chocolate sculpted around a ball of foil, with
chocolate on top, Ms. Alt said. It takes
15 hours just to sculpt the head. The body
is chocolate cake, with chocolate frosting
and fondant for the suit. Ms. Alts giant
portrait cakes are priced at $7,000.
Though it was Ms. Alts Trump cake
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in print from The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon to the pages of People
Melissa Alts bust cakes of Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton are both winners.
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Standing, from left, are presenter Adele Shafman, Bernice Fleischmann, Judith
West, Alice Goldfarb, Wendy Salkin, Lauren Babus, Pnina Govrin, Lauren Rublin,
regional president Stephanie Z. Bonder, and presenter Lila Barsky. Abby Vine,
Marlene Markoff, Claire Rosenbaum, Miriam Adelsberg, Marilyn Ziemke, and
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Linda Scherzer, director of the CRC of
Greater Metrowest, a former Middle East
correspondent for CNN, and the founder
of the Write On For Israel program,
received Hadassah of Northern New Jersey
Regions Myrtle Wreath award on November 6. In addition, Women of Valor from
local chapters were honored at the annual
Myrtle Wreath brunch at Congregation
Bnai Shalom in West Orange.
The Myrtle Wreath is awarded to a community member who has demonstrated
strong support for the Jewish people and
the state of Israel, and has made a difference in the lives of people in the community at large.
Over 180 members and guests attended
the brunch, which focused on the achievements of Hadassah, the Womens Zionist
Organization of America. The regional
president, Stephanie Bonder, talked
about the ways in which Hadassah has
given Jewish women a voice for more than
100 years, and has empowered women to
make a difference through their support
of medical research at its hospitals, as well
as their advocacy for Israel and for causes
that affect women, such as reproductive
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Hadassahs past national president,
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including Lonye Rasch, Miriam Aron, and
Karen Goldman.
Local Region Women of Valor recipients
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chapter, Laura Menter of the Paramus Bat
Sheva chapter, Lauren Babus of the Pascack Valley chapter, and Claire Rosenbaum and Wendy Salkin of the River Dell
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WASHINGTON In his first interviews since Donald Trump named him a top White House aide Stephen Bannon denied being anti-Semitic or a white
nationalist.
At the same time, he continued to advance a theory
of globalist conspiracy that echoes centuries-old
anti-Semitic libels, but without mentioning Jews.
Breitbart is the most pro-Israel site in the United
States of America, Bannon told the Wall Street Journal in an interview posted last Friday. He was talking
about the conservative news site where he was CEO
until this summer, when he joined President-elect
Trumps campaign.
He dismissed as a joke claims that he was peddling
anti-Semitism, noting that he has Jewish colleagues
and hires.
There have been expressions of alarm from an
array of Jewish groups, including the Anti-Defamation
League and the Reform movement. Those groups
have not denied Breitbarts and Bannons pro-Israel
posture, but have focused on echoes of anti-Semitic
theory and cant found elsewhere on the site and in
Bannons messaging for the Trump campaign.
Some critics have called out Bannon for at least two
recent uses in Breitbart of Jews or Jewish that
some saw as pejorative, and for claims by his ex-wife
that he was hostile to Jews. Bannon has vigorously
denied his ex-wifes claims, and the writers of the articles denounced as anti-Jewish have noted they are Jewish and say their use of the terms was misconstrued.
More substantively, Bannon also has been criticized
for using Breitbart during the final weeks of the presidential campaign to advance conspiracy theories that
involve international bankers, secret meetings, and a
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involvement in the war as Jewish manipulation.
Bannon acknowledged, as he has in the past, that
the nationalists he admires have attracted anti-Semites
and racists to their ranks but also that he rejected
these expressions, and believed that these elements
soon would fall away.
I have admired nationalist movements throughout the world, have said repeatedly strong nations
make great neighbors, he told the Journal, apparently referring to movements led by Nigel Farage in
Britain and Marine LePen in France, both of whom
have celebrated Trumps victory. (Farage campaigned
with Trump and met the president-elect within days
of his win.) Ive also said repeatedly that the ethnonationalist movement, prominent in Europe, will
change over time. Ive never been a supporter of
ethno-nationalism.
While many European nationalist movements
have distanced themselves from explicit anti-Jewish
comments in recent years, racially charged theories
remain integral to their platforms, particularly those
targeting Middle Easterners and, in central Europe,
Roma. Jewish groups in those countries tend to be
skeptical of claims that the nationalist movements
have divested themselves of anti-Jewish hostility.
In the Journal interview, Bannon praised the altright movement, which he defines as younger people
who are anti-globalists, very nationalist, terribly antiestablishment. He also acknowledged the alt-right has
some racial and anti-Semitic overtones. But he also
makes clear, according to the interviewer, that he
has zero tolerance for such views.
He also said, as he did describing European nationalists, that he believes the less savory elements of the
movement will fall away one day.
He also said that while Breitbart offers the alt-right a
platform, it is not the only outlook represented in the
publication. We provide an outlet for 10 or 12 or 15
lines of thought, Bannon said. We set it up that way.
In his interview with the Hollywood Reporter,
Bannon also tried to distinguish the nationalism he
embraces from white supremacism, but segued immediately into theories of globalists maintaining control
over the working class.
Im not a white nationalist, Im a nationalist, he
said. Im an economic nationalist. The globalists gutted the American working class and created a middle
class in Asia. The issue now is about Americans looking to not get fed over.
Speaking to the Journal, Bannon outlined areas
where Breitbart has championed Israel.
I have Breitbart Jerusalem, which I have Aaron
Klein run with about 10 reporters there. Weve been
leaders in stopping this BDS movement boycott,
divestment and sanctions in the United States;
were a leader in the reporting of young Jewish students being harassed on American campuses; weve
been a leader on reporting on the terrible plight of the
Jews in Europe.
The Zionist Organization of America and the Republican Jewish Coalition both have defended Bannon
against charges of anti-Semitism, noting Breitbarts
pro-Israel content.
Peter Beinart, a liberal Jewish writer who is critical
of Israel but also has defended it from attacks from the
far left, said that backing Israel and Zionism is not necessarily mutually exclusive with anti-Semitism.
Beinart, speaking on CNN on Nov. 15 during a segment on Bannon, cited as an example the pre-World
War II Polish government, which encouraged Jewish emigration to pre-state Palestine as a means of
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Indeed, there is reason to believe that Le Pens solidarity with Trump is a double-edged sword. In an
Odoxa poll conducted among 1,004 French adults a
day after Trump was elected, 76 percent of respondents said they lamented his election. Even among
National Front voters, the poll found that only 54 percent supported him.
In the Netherlands and Austria, Trumps election
also revealed no discernible shift in polls. Wilders
party, which is running neck and neck with the center-right ruling party, dropped by one point after
Trumps victory in one poll (I&O Research), remained
unchanged in another (Politieke Barometer) and rose
by one point in a third poll (Maurice de Hond.)
As for Hofer, Wilders counterpart in Austria, he
rose by one point in the polls since Trumps election,
remaining within the margin of error in a race pollsters have said is too close to call.
The polls further show no correlation between the
popularity of far-right parties like National Front and
the Brexit referendum of last June, when British voters
supported leaving the European Union.
Undoubtedly, there are some similarities between
the message of Europes rising far right and Trumps
campaign strategy. Both leverage financial insecurity
while warning about Muslim immigration and jihadism
in campaigns themed around nostalgia, xenophobia
and popular resentment of the seemingly detached
ruling elite.
But there also are considerable differences.
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For decades
French centrists,
worried about
the National
Front, have
rallied voters to
vote for other
candidates just
to keep that
party out
of power.
ated with the very political structures
they have been promising to tear down
for years.
In France, Le Pen has been trying to
mainstream her party and move it away
from the more radical anti-establishment message of her father, the partys
founder, Jean-Marie Le Pen. When she
kicked him out of the party last year for
saying the Holocaust was insignificant
a statement for which he was convicted
of genocide denial it caused a split
within the party, costing her the votes
of many supporters who now view her
as a sellout. As for Wilders, in 2010 he
agreed to briefly join a coalition led by
Hollands centrist ruling party a compromise that disappointed many of his
hard-core supporters.
Nevertheless, Trumps victory is
invigorating supporters of these farright parties who are finding themselves in the spotlight of left-wing
media that are now much more willing to listen to angry white voters, as
the Dutch NRC Handelsblad put it last
weekend.
If the Americans did it, so can we!
one National Front voter and activist, a former train conductor in his
fifties named Fredy Deguin-Dawson,
told Le Monde. The article surveyed
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fun either.
Our son Mendy was a summa cum
laude undergraduate at New York University when he abruptly informed us that he
was suspending his studies
to join the IDF. He already
was an accomplished Israel
fighter on campus, and
friends told him the battle
against Israel haters at Western universities was equally
if not more important. But
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North Jersey whose children had chosen
to serve. And we had already had a child
who served in the IDF, and we were very
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to see your child for Jewish holidays, youre taking the whole family to
Israel. Its by far the best experience, but it can be expensive.
Just listening to your son describing the grueling demands of training is itself mystifying. As a parent you can feel pretty useless offering
the platitudes across a vast sea: Bear with it. Youre going to get
through it. There are only six months left. And the ever-constant
Were so proud of you.
And you know your child is lonely. Yes, as are his comrades-inarms. But they were all younger than Mendy, and they all went home
every other weekend. His family was across the Atlantic.
So we felt considerable pride last week, on a cold mountain in the
Golan Heights, under a light drizzle, as Mendys unit celebrated the
completion of its army training. The ceremony can be described only
as moving and memorable. Mendy had finished some of the most
demanding military training in the world. He had done it alone, pushing his body to the limit, sleeping for months in the field, in the cold
and the rain, the mud and the dust, under freezing storms and the
scorching sun. We could not be more proud.
But the ceremony was bittersweet. Mendy had suffered a knee
injury just two weeks ago before the end of training, which forced
him to undergo surgery.
To get his pin, he pushed himself up Bental Mountain in the Golan
Heights with crutches, at the head of his unit, keeping a pace that
I could never hope to. I watched him arrive at the mountain summit with sweat dripping down his cheeks and in excruciating pain.
It struck me, three days before my 50th birthday, I had raised a son
who already had exceeded my sacrifice for the Jewish people.
I should mention that my son drew no attention to himself and
aspired only to be part of the famous picture his unit takes, machine
guns in the air, when they reach the mountaintop.
When Mendys name was skipped in the alphabetical order of
the warrior pin ceremony, given by his officers, I was disappointed.
Really? After all that he had suffered?
Until I noticed that all the gathered parents and notables understood that his unit had prepared a special honor for him. Mendys
name was kept last as his entire unit joined him in walking to his
commander to have his warrior pin affixed to his uniform. He literally
was surrounded by all his comrades-in-arms. It was a special privilege,
rarely accorded other soldiers. Veterans of the IDF say they had never
seen it. Im guessing that it was a token of his friends recognizing the
fact that he was the only lone soldier in his unit, and that despite having sustained a serious leg injury he still completed the training in
one of Israels premier and most storied units. And that amid all the
challenges he had never quit.
Mendy also is an ordained rabbi, with smicha from Chabad of
South Africa in Pretoria. It was not lost on his fellow soldiers how few
ordained rabbis complete this kind of training in the IDF.
And how did it feel, watching this as a parent? It felt as if I were
watching someone I did not recognize.
My wife and I raised this boy. We taught him to love freedom and
to be immensely proud of his Jewish identity. That might account for
the values that led him to the IDF. But how to explain his reserves of
perseverance and courage?
I never could have endured the rigors of the IDF training. Truth
be told, I used to get exhausted just listening to what they put Mendy
through: marching tens of kilometers through the searing heat with
impossibly heavy packs, going days with only tuna and crackers for
sustenance, being left in scorching deserts to navigate their way out
alone. And worst of all, being briefed by their commanders that they
were being readied to battle the monsters of Hamas and the battlehardened murderers of Hezbollah.
How did he survive it? How did he complete it? How did he flourish?
I honestly dont know.
But as I watched him rejoin the line formation of his unit with
the decoration that officially labeled him an IDF warrior, I was rendered silent as I watched a familiar face that somehow no longer was
familiar.
As a parent we go through three stages of raising our children.
The first is to sculpt and mold them in our image.
The second is to begin to let go as we allow their natural personalities to unfold.
And the third is simply to stand back in awe and behold.
Religious leaders
need to exhibit moral leadership
Opinion
Normalize Thanksgiving
Americans of all
stripes can
exchange
enthusiastic
Happy
Thanksgiving
wishes without
the slightest
hesitation.
it is an inclusive celebration. And that is
precisely Thanksgivings special appeal
to members of all faiths and ethnicities,
including observant Jews. It is an American holiday with a universal spiritual
theme. You dont even have to be religious
to love Thanksgiving.
Trump on terrorism
Trump repeatedly
spoke of his
concerns about
terrorism and its
global and local
expansion, and
he proposed
actions to
counter the
threat.
and the lesser issues, though nothing about terrorism. Some surveys indicated a close divide among voters about
which candidate would better handle
the threat of terrorism. But a September
poll showed Trump far ahead, with 49
percent on this issue compared to Clintons 27 percent.
Trump repeatedly spoke of his concerns about terrorism and its global and
local expansion, and he proposed actions
to counter the threat. He presented an
extended overview of the subject in
August. There, he listed a dozen terror
Opinion
In addition to
providing a fixed
date to
contemplate and
express
gratitude,
Thanksgiving
enjoins us to
uphold the norms
of civil society.
post-truth politics. We have become
inured to a perpetual stream of manipulative talking points, fake news, disinformation, outright lies repeated over and
over, and disingenuous evasions (The
racist you keep asking about? Never met
In one particular
area, Presidentelect Trumps
approach to
terrorism will
make more
sense than
Obamas.
Namely, calling
terrorism what
it is.
President-elect Trump gives a hand to his supporters.
Doomsday predictors are not credible.
Some, like CNBCs Nyshka Chandran,
reported that Trumps victory had
enraged Muslim militant groups, which
will fan the flames of global terrorism. The doubtful presumption here
is that terrorist groups are not already
trying their best to plan and execute
terror attacks.
In one particular area, Presidentelect Trumps approach to terrorism
will make more sense than Obamas.
Namely, calling terrorism what it is.
To the distress of many analysts, when
Obama took office he effectively banned
administration officials from using
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Stephen Bannon
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Thank you,
Mr. Lincoln
Rabbi Menachem Genack explains
why Thanksgiving feels Jewish
JOANNE PALMER
hanksgiving is a very Jewish holiday.
It brings the whole
extended family around
one table, safe in a warm
room as the late November wind whips the last
valiant bright leaves off the trees and the
soggy piles of raked leaves yield underfoot.
The menus likely to be the same from
year to year, and from table to table, and
even some of the conversations likely to
flow along long-cemented channels before
it splashes out in new directions. There
might be new babies, or babies turned into
toddler; there might be adults who look,
for the first time, strikingly older, who are
moving more slowly, less steadily. There
might be talk of nursery school, or high
school, or college applications, or first
jobs, or midcareer changes, or retirement,
or organ recitals.
Wine will be poured, and most likely
wine will be spilled. And then, to moans
of oh-no-I-already-ate-too-much, dessert will appear. There will be the smells
of cinnamon and apples and pumpkins
and chocolate. And then small children
will be packed into warm layers of coats
and scarves and hats and mittens, tucked
into car seats, and taken home; theyll fall
asleep listening to the sounds of their parents voices as they murmur to each other
into the night.
Yes, this is an idealized version; not
every family is as intact or as civil as this
dream family, but dream families do
exist. And the Jewishness of it is clear
the extended, intergenerational family,
the traditions, the knowledge that across
a vast space, most members of the community are doing more or less what youre
doing, with enough variation to make it
personal, but not enough to keep it from
America created
the idea of all men
being created
equal and
Lincoln was the
best of America.
look at the speeches that preceded it, youll see
that theyre always triumphalist. This speech
shows Lincolns humility.
By the time Lincoln gave that speech, on
March 4, 1865, the war was essentially won. But
the speech is not about him, and it is not about
the triumph of the victory. It is about the war as
retribution for the sin of slavery. It asks how we
dare presume to know what the Almighty proposes. The Almighty has his own purposes.
Everything about Lincoln speaks about
humility.
Rabbi Genack moved on to the Gettysburg
Address, which he called the most important
speech in American history. Really, though, he
added, Lincoln was wrong in that speech. He
said, The world will little note, nor long remember what we say here. That was a very poor
prediction.
Lincoln was a skilled politician, and so he was
very good at presenting one face to the public
and another to his confidantes, Rabbi Genack
said. Thats what a politician does; thats what a
politician has to do, is supposed to do, and even
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Abraham Lincoln got to celebrate two Thanksgiving, in 1863
and 1864. He was assassinated in
April of 1865.
So how did Menachem Genack,
an Orthodox rabbi, develop his
love for Abraham Lincoln?
Hes not exactly sure, he said,
although he can trace it all the way
back to his adolescence.
In 1940, Isaac and Rosa Matz
Genack fled Lithuania with their
son. The Genacks were in the diamond business, so they went first
to Antwerp, then to Casablanca,
then to Cuba, and then to New
York, where their other three children, including Menachem, the
Sarah Hale, who wrote Mary Had a Little Lamb,
advocated for the establishment of Thanksgiving.
youngest, was born.
Isaac Genack had been to Palesmeasure of politics, including internal Jewish world
tine in the 1920s; he was a fervent
politics so that makes it very interesting.
Zionist and tried to make aliyah
And what, again, about his love for Lincoln? I
but developed malaria and had
love American history, Rabbi Genack said. Im
to go back home. A cousin, Eliyahu Moshe Genachowski, who
not sure exactly where it came from, but to a family of survivors, America is the ideal. And for our
also went to Palestine and stayed,
people the Jews we wouldnt have survived
became a prominent Religious
without America. America created the idea of all
Zionist Knesset member.
men being created equal and Lincoln was the
The Genacks settled in Forest
best of America.
Hills, Queens, where Isaac Genack
Again, he said, I dont know when my love for
continued to work in the diamond
American history started, but when I was a boy John
trade, this time in Manhattan. Menachem went to the Yeshiva of CenKennedy was president and I was enamored of him.
tral Queens, on to MTA in WashingI would memorize his speeches. And then there
ton Heights, and then to Yeshiva
were the connections made between Kennedy and
University, where he became a
Lincoln, because they were both assassinated, and
Freeman Woodcock Thorp painted four portraits of Abraham Lincoln; one of
protg of the Rav, Rabbi Yosef
because both were proponents of civil rights.
them hangs in Rabbi Genacks home.
Dov Soloveitchik, working with
The American experience is important to Jews.
him to publish some of his work. I
Never in world history has there been a country as
boundaries and changed peoples idea of what is possiwas pretty close to Rabbi Soloveitchik; I took his class for
solicitous of Jews, and Jews never have risen to the heights
ble. We now have 9,000 plants in 80 different countries,
very many years, Rabbi Genack said. He was the greatest
in so many areas as we did here.
because the nature of the economy has changed, Rabbi
mind of his time.
I always tell my kids that if you want to read a book
Genack said. OU Kosher is now 40 times bigger than it
Next, he headed a kollel at Touro College; and in 1980
of mussar of moral discipline read a biography of
was when I took it over.
they asked me to head the Orthodox Unions kosher
Lincoln.
Lincoln was so extraordinary, in terms of his gifts
I didnt think that it would be very interesting when
department, Rabbi Genack said.
and his integrity, his intelligence. He didnt just blunder
I took it over, but because of the nexus of halacha, comOU Kosher is an organization that has changed tremendously as technology and globalization have reconfigured
merce, and food technology and there always is a
into things. He was always willing to admit a mistake, to
President LIncolns
patented invention
was to keep boats
from snagging on
obstacles in the water.
He realized the need
for such a device
because he often
traveled by boat.
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acknowledge that he was wrong and
someone else was right.
He is not the only person to be fascinated by Abraham Lincoln. There
have been about 18,000 books about
him, Rabbi Genack said. That is
more than have been written about
anyone else. International borders do
not restrain the love of Lincoln from
being felt overseas. My wife and I
were in London recently, and we went
to Parliament Square, he added. Its
lined with statues of great statesmen,
almost all British, including Benjamin Disraeli and Winston Churchill. It
includes three foreigners; one of those
three is our Mr. Lincoln.
Through his passion for Abraham
Lincoln, Rabbi Genack met someone
else who perhaps surprisingly has
become a real friend. Its President Bill
Clinton.
I became friendly with Bill Clinton
at an event in New Jersey, when I introduced him, Rabbi Genack said. He
was then the governor of Arkansas;
hes a Southern Baptist, and very familiar with the Bible. I said that The Bible
tells us that when there is no vision,
the people will perish. (Its from
Proverbs 29.) He said, I like this line.
I will use it at my acceptance speech at
the convention.
I thought he was joking, but that
was his rhetorical pivot at his acceptance speech at the convention. When
there is no vision, the people perish.
(That was the speech Mr. Clinton gave
at Madison Square Garden in 1992,
soon after the strains of Fleetwood
Macs Dont Stop Thinking About
Tomorrow quieted.)
So we began a correspondence
about the presidency. Those letters
were published in 2013, in Letters to
President Clinton: Biblical Lessons on
Faith and Leadership.
One of the letters I wrote to him
ended up being prescient, Rabbi
Genack said. It was about why the
kingship goes through Judah, not
Joseph. Rabbi Soloveitchik asked this
question. The answer is that what we
look for is not perfection traditionally Joseph has come to be seen as perfect, while Judahs imperfections, particularly in his dalliance with Tamar,
are unmistakable. We look for the
ability to admit a mistake.
The tension between Joseph and
Judah is like a red thread through the
Bible, he added.
Rabbi Genack owns a few letters
from Lincoln one that he wrote, one
that he signed and it is extraordinary
to look at them. Theyre encased in
protective sleeves, so you dont actually touch them, but theyre there. A
piece of paper that once was on Lincolns desk, partially covered by his
arm as his hand scratched out his
signature, is now in front of you. It is
incredibly moving.
He also owns one of four portraits by
Freeman Woodcock Thorp, an artist who
actually had seen Lincoln twice once at a
whistle-stop, the other on the battlefield at
Gettysburg. The painting looks like the Lincoln we know and see in photographs, but
somehow, despite everything, a bit younger.
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funny ideas and asked people if I could do
them, Mr. Levine said. In one, I tried to
become the mayor of a small town for a
day. They said no. In one video he joins
the paparazzi for a week in Los Angeles.
At 7:30 in the morning we waited outside Ariel Winters house, waiting for a
shot. (Ms. Winters stars in ABCs Modern
Family.) Five minutes in, I was almost
assaulted by a cameraman for getting in
the way of his shot. The next video, a
behind-the-scenes look at the making of
Hamiltoe, will be available soon.
Mr. Levines personal life, however, has
not been a ball of laughs. When I was 10
years old, I had cancer, he said. That led
to a lot of downtime. I started writing a
journal of jokes. A lot of it was boredom.
I was home with my thoughts during
years of surgery and recovery.
Disease, it seems, brought comedy into
Mr. Levines life. When I was 15, I had a
bunch of jokes, so I signed up for an open
mic night at Stress Factory in New Brunswick, he said. It was unlike anything Id
ever done.
Mr. Levine went to the Jewish Educational Center in Elizabeth, and lived in
Israel for a year before starting college at
Yeshiva University. I hated it with a passion, Levine said of his college years.
Calendar
Friday
Sunday
NOVEMBER 25
DECEMBER 4
Interfaith Thanksgiving
in Jersey City: Temple
Bazaar in Teaneck:
Monday
NOVEMBER 28
Senior program in
Wayne: The Chabad
Center of Passaic
County continues its
Smile on Seniors
program with lunch
and a film at the center,
11:30 a.m. 194 Ratzer
Road. (973) 694-6274 or
Chanig@optonline.net.
DEC.
Tuesday
NOVEMBER 29
Needlepoint a mezuzah
in Wayne: Join the
Film in Paramus:
The JCC of Paramus/
Congregation Beth
Tikvah shows Enemies:
A Love Story, based
on an Isaac Bashevis
Singer story, as part of
a Jewish Film Festival,
hosted by Cantor Sam
Weiss, 8:15 p.m. East
304 Midland Ave.
(201) 262-7691.
Author in Franklin
Lakes: Rabbi David
Eliezrie of Chabad in
Yorba Linda, Calif.,
discusses his new book,
The Secret of Chabad,
at the Chabad Jewish
Center, 7 p.m. 375 Pulis
Ave. www.chabadplace.
org/secret.
Women of Chai at
Temple Beth Tikvah to
create a needlepoint
mezuzah, 7 p.m.
Participants should bring
a food donation for
WIN-Wayne Interfaith
Network. 950 Preakness
Ave. (973) 595-6565.
Thursday
DECEMBER 1
Sid Caesar: The Bergen
County YJCC Senior
Lunch program meets
to learn about the
Shabbat in Woodcliff
Lake: Temple Emanuel
of the Pascack Valleys
cantor emeritus, Mark
Biddelman, hosts Shabbat
Yachad, Hebrew prayers
set to easy-to-sing
melodies, 8 p.m. Guest
Cantor Ilan Mamber
will be accompanied by
bassist Dave Richards and
percussionist Larry Eagle.
Free copy of CD at the
shul. 87 Overlook Drive.
(201) 391-0801 or www.
tepv.org.
Shabbat in Emerson:
DECEMBER 2
DECEMBER 3
NOVEMBER 30
Friday
Saturday
Wednesday
Movie/Broadway
highlights: The Fair
Lawn Jewish Center/CBI
holds From Stage to
Screen a performance
with highlights of movie
and Broadway music,
8 p.m. Cast includes
Nancy Bach, Luisa
Fuentes, Lou Steele,
Evie Turner-Salerno, and
guests. 10-10 Norma Ave.
StageToScreen@FLJC.
com or (201) 796-5040.
Susan Eisen
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1. Mufasas son
6. Michals dad
10. John Snows oldest brother
14. Oldest brother of 69-Across
15. Wife of Gustav (Mahler)
16. Wowed, by a miracle
17. Mel of song
18. A challah is one
19. Fitting rooms for people
named Aryeh?
20. Rolling Stones song or Paddy
Chayefsky character in Marty
22. Overseer on a flight from TLV to EWR
24. Merlins a part of his legend
27. Boteachs old pop star pal
31. Neighbor of Isr.
32. Slippery Eilat dweller
34. Troop group Louis Black performed
for: Abbr.
35. Not a rabbi
36. Observe (as the Sabbath)
38. Hockey movie with main character
Doug Glatt
40. Provide with uzis, again
42. Power above all... the italicized folk in
this puzzle
45. Co-star of Shatner and Kelley
47. And G-d ___ ...
48. Lubavitch landmark
51. ___ ledodi
52. Michael on Michaels Saturday
Night Live
54. The world isnt even this old, from a
literal Bible interpretation
56. Haifa to Damascus dir.
57. Carrie and Cujos creator
59. Clevelands savior
61. Theologians subj.
62. One not quick to give tzedakah
64. Tel Aviv-___
67. Goes to the Garden of Eden, perhaps
69. Yishais son
73. Awful African ruler, with 71-Down
74. Mountains in Borats land
75. Home of the founder of Chabad
76. RKOs ape
77. Brazils soccer legend
78. Priscillas husband
Down
1. Moshav performance
2. U.N. working-conditions agcy. that has
condemned Israel. at times
3. Notable yeshiva, with The
4. Holy high place, in the Torah
5. Brooklyns O or J
6. Baba follower
7. Ahava ingredient
8. Matthews The Producers co-star
9. Shawarma wraps
10. Notable Navi scholar
11. Behind, to the Hebrew Free
Loan Society
12. Savage or Kingsley
13. Org. supported by Roger Waters
21. Three-time Red Auerbach Trophy
recipient Popovich
23. Squirrel nosh
24. Pose, like many a sage
25. Jewish bread
26. Fan of Spock
27. River Phoenix, e.g. (sadly)
28. Eli Roth kind of film
29. Blade or Marc Roberges band
30. Wilpons NLE team
33. Give a bound Torah some slack
37. Big Apple order
39. Scent ___ Woman (Brest film)
41. Freudian topic
43. Specialty
44. Biblical no-nos
45. YU helpers
46. One that might help Marvels
Scott Lang
49. Brian of ambient music, who is a big
13-Down supporter
50. Goodman of Dancing with the Stars
53. Robbed (a Bank Leumi)
55. Possible item for 27-Down
58. Projection on a Kosher Lamp
60. Prepare a shankbone for a Seder, perhaps
62. Shabbat dinner, e.g.
63. ___ of Man (World War II Jewish refugee site)
64. Kosher Himalayan animal
65. Yo te ___ (Ani ohev otach)
66. Half a kosher requirement
68. Moses displays it when seeing the
Golden Calf
70. Its equal to 6
71. See 73-Across
72. Bob Igers animated company, on
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Obituaries
Francie Feinberg
Rieva Greenwald
Mark Rapoport
Steve Rivkin
Harold Rosenzweig
Harold Rosy Rosenzweig, 86, of Elmwood Park, formerly of Paterson, died November 17.
A U.S. Army veteran, he was a self-employed painting and wallpaper contractor, and a member of Odd
Fellows Lodge #265 and Bnai Brith Lodge #143, both in
Paterson.
Predeceased by a brother, Benjamin, he is survived by
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and Arlene Goldzweig (David); a sister-in-law, Mildred;
grandson, Joshua; nieces, nephews, grand-nieces, and
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She has no twinges of regret when her works of art disappear into peoples mouths.
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