The price that are discussed by both the women and man's side family are the
lending, "pitas", a buffalo, and "belanja dapur". The "pitas" is more like "sogit" for
the villagers where it should be done one month or before the marriage. The
buffalo is a must in Kadazan culture and it can be change with money for the
total of RM2,000. The price for "belanja dapur" is upon discuss by both the
woman and man's side family and it is used for the expenses during marriage
such as the foods. The wedding can be done whether at the hall, at the house,
hotel, ballroom, or any place that the spouse wanted.
For example, before the man's side is leaving to the woman's house, on their
way, if they bumped with weird animals such as lizard, snake, and other animals
that are rarely seen, the engagement should not be continued and the man and
woman can be separated. Besides that, before and during the engagement
ceremony, there should not be any glasses broken. If there are glasses broken,
the man and woman can be separated and the engagement ceremony should
not be continued. During the lunch, after the engagement, nobody is allowed to
used toothpicks, and the spouse that engaged, they cannot finished their food
until the plate is clean. There must be some rice or food left in the plate.