the quality of your life. At the same time, you dont need to wait a long time in order to see the measurable
results that come from taking positive action. All you have to do is take small steps, and take them
Below youll find 60 small ways to improve all areas of your life in the next 100 days.
Home
1. Create a 100 Days to Conquer Clutter Calendar by penciling in one group of items you plan to
declutter every day, for the next 100 days. Heres an example:
2. Live by the mantra: a place for everything and everything in its place. For the next 100 days follow these
3. Walk around your home and identify 100 things youve been tolerating; fix one each day. Here are some
examples:
The fact that every time you open your top kitchen cabinet all of the plastic food containers fall
out.
Happiness
4. Follow the advice proffered by positive psychologists and write down 5 to 10 things that youre grateful
5. Make a list of 20 small things that you enjoy doing, and make sure that you do at least one of these things
every day for the next 100 days. Your list can include things such as the following:
Taking the time to sit down and read a novel by your favorite author for a few minutes.
6. Keep a log of your mental chatter, both positive and negative, for ten days. Be as specific as possible:
Also, make a note of the emotions that accompany these thoughts. Then, for the next 90 days, begin
changing your emotions for the better by modifying your mental chatter.
7. For the next 100 days, have a good laugh at least once a day: get one of those calendars that has a
different joke for every day of the year, or stop by a web site that features your favorite cartoons.
Learning/Personal Development
8. Choose a book that requires effort and concentration and read a little of it every day, so that you read it
the capital of a far-off country, or the name of a piece of classical music you hear playing in your favorite
clothing boutique as you shop. If its time for bed and you cant identify anything youve learned that
10. Stop complaining for the next 100 days. A couple of years back, Will Bowen gave a purple rubber
bracelet to each person in his congregation to remind them to stop complaining. Negative talk produces
negative thoughts; negative thoughts produce negative results, says Bowen. For the next 100 days,
11. Set your alarm a minute earlier every day for the next 100 days. Then make sure that you get out of bed
as soon as your alarm rings, open the windows to let in some sunlight, and do some light stretching. In 100
days youll be waking up an hour and forty minutes earlier than youre waking up now.
12. For the next 100 days, keep Morning Pages, which is a tool suggested by Julia Cameron. Morning Pages
are simply three pages of longhand, stream of consciousness writing, done first thing in the morning.
13. For the next 100 days make it a point to feed your mind with the thoughts, words, and images that
are most consistent with who you want to be, what you want to have, and what you want to achieve.
Finances
14. Create a spending plan (also known as a budget). Track every cent that you spend for the next 100 days
15. Scour the internet for frugality tips, choose ten of the tips that you find, and apply them for the next 100
Go to the grocery store with cash and a calculator instead of using your debit card.
Take inventory before going to the grocery store to avoid buying repeat items.
Keep track of how much money you save over the next 100 days by applying these tips.
16. For the next 100 days, pay for everything with paper money and keep any change that you receive. Then,
put all of your change in a jar and see how much money you can accumulate in 100 days.
17. Dont buy anything that you dont absolutely need for 100 days. Use any money you save by doing
18. Set an hour aside every day for the next 100 days to devote to creating one source of passive income.
Time Management
19. For the next 100 days, take a notebook with you everywhere in order to keep your mind decluttered.
Record everything, so that its safely stored in one placeout of your headwhere you can decide what
Appointment dates.
To Do list items
20. Track how you spend your time for 5 days. Use the information that you gather in order to create a time
budget: the percentage of your time that you want to devote to each activity that you engage in on a regular
Transportation
Housework
Leisure
Income-Generating Activities
Make sure that you stick to your time budget for the remaining 95 days.
21. Identify one low-priority activity which you can stop doing for the next 100 days, and devote that time to
22. Identify five ways in which you regularly waste time, and limit the time that you re going to spend on
these activities each day, for the next 100 days. Here are three examples:
Spend no more than half-an-hour each day on social media sites, such as Facebook, Twitter, and
Stumbleupon.
23. For the next 100 days, stop multi-tasking; do one thing at a time without distractions.
24. For the next 100 days, plan your day the night before.
25. For the next 100 days, do the most important thing on your To-Do list first, before you do anything else.
26. For the next 14 weeks, conduct a review of each week. During your weekly review, answer the
following:
27. For the next 100 days, spend a few minutes at the end of each day organizing your desk, filing papers,
and making sure that your work area is clean and orderly, so that you can walk in to a neat desk the next day.
28. Make a list of all of the commitments and social obligations that you have in the next 100 days. Then,
take out a red pen and cross out anything that does not truly bring you joy or help move you along the path
29. For the next 100 days, every time that you switch to a new activity throughout the day stop and ask
Health
30. Losing a pound of fat requires burning 3500 calories. If you reduce your caloric intake by 175 calories a
day for the next 100 days, youll have lost 5 pounds in the next 100 days.
31. For the next 100 days, eat five servings of vegetables every day.
32. For the next 100 days, eat three servings of fruit of every day.
33. Choose one food that constantly sabotages your efforts to eat healthierwhether its the decadent
cheesecake from the bakery around the corner, deep-dish pizza, or your favorite potato chipsand go cold
34. For the next 100 days, eat from a smaller plate to help control portion size.
35. For the next 100 days, buy 100% natural juices instead of the kind with added sugar and preservatives.
36. For the next 100 days, instead of carbonated drinks, drink water.
38. Create a list of 20 healthy, easy to fix meals which can be eaten for lunch or dinner.
40. Use your lists of healthy breakfast meals, lunches, dinners, and snacks in order to plan out your meals
for the week ahead of time. Do this for the next 14 weeks.
41. For the next 100 days, keep a food log. This will help you to identify where youre deviating from your
42. For the next 100 days, get at least twenty minutes of daily exercise.
43. Wear a pedometer and walk 10,000 steps, every day, for the next 100 days. Every step you take during
the following:
Your weight.
45. For the next 100 days, set your watch to beep once an hour, or set up a computer reminder, to make sure
46. For the next 100 days, make it a daily ritual to mediate, breath, or visualize every day in order to calm
your mind.
Your Relationship
47. For the next 100 days, actively look for something positive in your partner every day, and write it
down.
48. Create a scrapbook of all the things you and your partner do together during the next 100 days. At the
end of the 100 days, give your partner the list you created of positive things you observed about them each
49. Identify 3 actions that youre going to take each day, for the next 100 days, in order to strengthen your
Say I love you and Have a good day to your significant other every morning.
Hug your significant other as soon as you see each other after work.
Go for a twenty minute walk together every day after dinner; hold hands.
Social
50. Connect with someone new every day for the next 100 days, whether its by greeting a neighbor
youve never spoken to before, following someone new on Twitter, leaving a comment on a blog youve
52. For the next 100 days, when someone does or says something that upsets you, take a minute to think
53. For the next 100 days, dont even think of passing judgment until youve heard both sides of the
story.
54. For the next 100 days do one kind deed for someone every day, however small, even if its just sending
55. For the next 100 days, make it a point to give praise and approval to those who deserve it.
56. For the next 100 days, practice active listening. When someone is talking to you, remain focused on
what theyre saying, instead of rehearsing in your head what youre going to say next. Paraphrase what
you think you heard them say to make sure that you havent misinterpreted them, and encourage them to
57. Practice empathy for the next 100 days. If you disagree with someone, try to see the world from their
perspective; put yourself in their shoes. Be curious about the other person, about their beliefs and their life
experience, and about the thinking process that they followed to reach their conclusions.
58. For the next 100 days, stay in your own life and dont compare yourself to anyone else.
59. For the next 100 days, place the best possible interpretation on the actions of others.
60. For the next 100 days, keep reminding yourself that everyone is doing the best that they can.
Research, as well as common sense and personal experience, is showing us that small steps get us to far
away places. The key is to consistently take those small steps in the same direction. Building a big, life-
changing habit is difficult: its hard to keep the willpower going long enough to see change.
But building a tiny habit? Thats doable. BJ Fogg, Director of the Persuasive Tech Lab at Stanford, has done
extensive research this very topic.The Fogg Method uses the effectiveness of tiny, specific habits to create
Here are 25 tiny habits you could add into your life. They dont seem like much, but if you practice them
regularly, they can change your energy level, your fitness, your relationships, your work, your community,
so busy throughout the day that we dont think about stopping to replenish our supply. Or we replenish with
soda or coffee or tea but not water. Trigger yourself by leaving a big glass out on the counter or table. Or do
what I do, and get a big travel mug with a lid. At night, I fill it up with a lot of ice and a bit of water, and in
the morning its waiting for me: a nice, cool cup of water. Flush the toxins, kickstart your system, wake
yourself up.
2. Park as far away as you can from the door. Fight the effects of a sedentary lifestyle by getting more steps
into your day whenever you can. In fact, simple things like a longer stroll from the car to the door might be
more effective than a vigorous work-out at counteracting the effects of long hours at a desk.
3. Eat raw fruit or vegetables with every meal. Think: a green side salad, a slice of melon, some berries, a
few carrot sticks and cucumber slices. Not only will you get more nutrients in, you will also be getting in
more fiber and potentially helping your body lose weight, retain energy, and decrease hunger.
4. Stand up and stretch every hour, on the hour. Trigger yourself with a beep on your phone or watch (do
people still wear those?) or computer. Sitting for extended time periods is a bad idea for both your body and
your brain. You need a mental and physical break, and it doesnt have to be a big deal. Just stop, when your
on-the-hour beep sounds at you. Stand up where you are, reach over your head, take a deep breath, touch
5. Carry a small bag of nuts or beef jerky everywhere you go. Something protein-rich will help stave off
hunger as well as keeping you from getting to that ravenous point when youll eat anything in sight, no
matter what the calorie count is. Getting a little more protein in your diet can help boost your metabolism
bigger, better questions. Avoid asking questions that can be answered with a simple Yes or No. Try questions
that start with What do you think about? and How would you.? or What is your experience
with? Then listen to the answers with the attitude that you are here to learn. Having an open perspective
and initiating deeper conversations will help you to relate with others, cultivate empathy, keep your own
problems in perspective, make new friends, and learn new ways of approaching life. Imagine the wisdom
you would gain in five or ten years if you just have one of these conversations every week.
2. Keep a tray of art supplies out on your table/desk/shelf. Dont force or even expect yourself to clock in a
certain number of minutes or productions. Just keep them out, in reach, so that when you feel like doodling
around with something artistic, it is effortless. Bonus points: switch the art medium out every week or month
(pastels, crayons, watercolors, ink, clay, playdough, carving knife & wood block).
3. Sit in silence for a few minutes every day. We dont have to call this meditation, because that might be a
little too intimidating. You dont have to sit cross-legged. You dont have to close your eyes. You dont have
to be Zen-like in anyway. Your brain can be flying a hundred miles an hour, but dont say or do anything.
4. Jot down everything on your mind for a few minutes at the end of the day. This is a brain dump in the
easiest way possible. Its not a big deal like a daily journal or to-do list or planner might feel. Keep a simple
notebook by the bed, and give yourself a few minutes to pour out everything thats on your mind before you
go to sleep. Dont edit. Let it all out, in any format, in any order. It doesnt have to make sense, even to
you. Studies show that this type of writing can reduce anxiety and depression. Alternative: use a voice
recorder and simply talk, in unedited stream-of-consciousness style, for a few minutes into your recorder.
5. Repeat a personal mantra to yourself when you hit stress points. Make it something simple to remember
that calms you and reminds you of the important things in life. This is a simple way to retrain your brain and
tell it how to respond to stress. Instead of letting stressful points send you into a panicked mode, you pull out
your mantra and tell your brain that its going ot be okay. A few of my favorites: This too shall pass. I am
stronger than I think. I can learn what I need to learn when I need to learn it. Ive handled worse than this. I
am not alone. There is freedom here. When I take responsibility, I take power.
career leap, an important meeting, think about a hero in your industry or career. Then ask yourself what this
person would do in your situation. How would she handle it? Would he be intimidated? Fearful? Or
confident and calm? Now imagine yourself doing exactly what you think your would do. This helps to
clarify what the right actions are for you by removing the self-doubt and negative self-talk that can bog you
down in uncertainty.
2. Do a 5-minute daily review at your desk at the end of the day. Before you leave work, or from your desk
at home before you wrap things up for the day (or night!), take five minutes. Write down what you
accomplished in a quick, bulleted list. Write down what you didnt accomplish that you had hoped to, and
what stopped you. Dont beat yourself up for your failures, just notice, if you can, what caused you to get off
track. And notice how much you did accomplish. This type of review is a way to help your brain focus on
the positive (I did accomplish something today) and will help you to become more aware of the things that
3. Turn off all notifications for at least one long block of work time every day. Our brains are not adept at
switching from one task to another. The single ding of an email notification or text, even if its about
something completely unimportant, can cause you to lose up to 40% of your work time. Is it really worth it?
Maybe if you have infinite time at your disposal But we all know that you dont. So do yourself and your
career a favor, and silence all the dings and chirps for at least one long block of time (2 4 hours).
4. Respond to all invitations and opportunities with Ill check my calendar. Stop the knee-jerk response
that you give, whether it is negative or positive. Maybe youre too quick to say no (I am). Or maybe youre a
people-pleaser and youre too quick to say yes, and find yourself over-booked and overwhelmed. Give
yourself time to evaluate each opportunity by simply making it your practice not to answer right away.
Instead, say, Ill check my calendar and let you know. Then, when you have a little time, check your
calendar, your priorities, and determine what you can fit it in.
5. Spend 5 minutes a day thinking about the process you will take that will get you to your career goals. This
is the right kind of positive visualization. Visualizing the end result doesnt usually help you get there. But
visualizing yourself doing the steps you will take to reach your end goal can help you to actually follow-
too easy to only connect with the people we see at work or the ones who just wont stop showing up in our
Facebook feed. Reach out a little further than that to stay connected with the friends and family members
you value. It only takes a few minutes to invest in a relationship, with the result that you have a strong
2. Write a thank you note every week. This can be an exercise solely for you: write a thank-you note to
someone whos passed on but impacted your life, and tell them all the things you wish you could say in
person. Or write a note of thanks to someone who is or was part of your life and send it to that
person. Cultivating gratitude helps to lessen the fear in your life. How much better would your life be if you
3. End your night with a word of thanks or encouragement. This is the kind of simple habit that can make or
break a lifelong relationship. Before you roll over and go to sleep, let your significant other know you accept
and value him or her. You dont have to be elaborate: I love being with you, or Thanks for being there for
me, sends the right message. If youre not in a relationship, give yourself a word of thanks or
encouragement. Sounds silly? Maybe. But it can help build your confidence and keep you from letting one
4. Pause before you answer or respond to people. Train yourself to listen well, by giving yourself time to
think up your response in that pause, not while the other person is talking. This not only shows that you
value what the other person is saying (which communicates acceptance and respect) but it also gives you
time to weigh your attitude and words. In a high-tension situation or stressful conversation, a simple five-
second pause might be what keeps you from blowing up and ruining a relationship you value.
5. Give yourself a time out. Life happens. Youre going to hit points when you feel stressed, frustrated,
angry, or impatient. Thats okay, because if you can give yourself a time-out then you can keep things in
perspective. You cant expect yourself to be a non-emotional robot, but you can train yourself to take a five-
minute break from humanity when things are getting to you. Walk around the block, lock yourself in the
bathroom, take a quick drive with the windows down and the music blaring. Find the time-out chair that
you to be more aware of how you treat your daily environment, and you never know the effect it can have on
others. Sometimes just one person taking the time to make something better can spark others to take better
2. Stop and say hi to your neighbors. Make it a habit to do a little more than a nod or smile. It takes just a
moment, whenever you see them out, to walk over and say hello. Create a friendlier community and help the
people around you get plugged in, too. Some of my best friends are neighbors who were willing to lean over
the fence and chat for a minute. Now theyre the ones calling to see if I need anything when they run to the
3. Borrow before you buy for big purchases. Its not always possible, but why not try it? Save money and
help the environment. Make it a habit to borrow first, try it out, and see if its what you really
need/want/must have. Then try to buy used before you buy new. Obviously this wont apply to every big
4. Set aside money for giving. It can be a small amount. Really. Five dollars can make a big difference to
somebody. Out of every paycheck, or every months total income, put aside a small bit for giving. It has to
be no-strings-attached, and anonymous is the way to go whenever possible. Help out your neighbors. Donate
to a charity. Buy that homeless guy a meal. We are all part of the same human family.
5. Keep your bike out where you can see it. No, you dont have to use it Just put it out there, in front of
you, where you can eyeball it. Every day, when you run to the car and hop in. Wait, you dont have a bike?
Hmmm. Maybe call up a neighbor and see if you can borrow one.