Communication rituals
Deborah Tannen, an established communications specialist, has specialised
in gender specific communication in the workplace, to which she refers to
as rituals. Men and women tend to communicate in different ways.
Increased awareness and an understanding from both sides is crucial for
career success. Consider the following powerful example based on Gloria
Feldts (a renowned gender expert) interview with Deborah Tannen.
Technical competence, emotional and cultural intelligence
As mentioned earlier by William George from Harvard Business School, a
global leader needs technical competence, but most importantly, emotional
and cultural intelligence. Thus, this entails seeking out cultural learning and
investing in personal development.
Leadership style and authenticity
Womens genetic predisposition matches considerably well with the
authentic leadership style, which allows a leader to embrace value and
purpose, whilst embracing the vulnerability (George, 2012). Moreover,
leaders are most effective when they embrace their purpose, especially
when their values are aligned with those of the company 2004).
Finding Mentors:
Professor Mary Rowe from MIT gives some tips on how to find a mentor.
For instance, if you attend a meeting and opportunistically meet someone
that could be a potential mentor you should follow up, starting by
introducing yourself on a professional subject, and ask questions about their
work. Eventually, ask this person for some advice on your work, and make
sure you acknowledge and be grateful for their advice
Encourage proactive investment to build own brand equity
Women should take personal responsibility to invest in themselves to build
their own brand equity and embrace the requirements/additional skill sets
needed to become part of the talent pool that is leader ready. As part of
this is that they should identify areas that are not in their natural comfort
zones but are important to reach their career aspirations and bridge the
gaps e.g. financial knowledge.
Join or create networks and circles of influence
Joining networks that are broadly aligned with personal and career
objectives can create enabling environments for learning, sharing, building
relationships and generating opportunities. For example in the UK we have
interest specific networks such as women in politics and women in
engineering. There are also benefits in embracing mixed gender
professional and business networks in order to build relationships, broaden
perspectives and learn about opportunities
Become a role model and be part of the solution to drive change
Working from within to drive change in organisations can help impact
culture by seeding great ideas that improve corporate performance and also
move towards women friendly and ultimately family friendly policies. Lastly,
women should embrace their journey and keep awareness of other women.
Whenever possible, they should endorse each other as they move up the
ladder. This section serves as toolkit for women to empower themselves