English 101
Professor: Cindy Casper
April 12, 2017
Social Media has become a daily part of our lives with many benefits for how to get
access to information and communication. We cant deny that social media is making our lives
much easier; however, in the following essay I will prove some negative facts about it. Teens
spend many hours a week interacting on Social media like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, games
and much more. Family values seem to disappear for our youth as social media through
technology becomes deeply incorporated in our lives. In todays life, we dont have the necessity
of going to places like the movies to interact with our friends or relatives, or the gym to perform
exercises because we can find them in games that can be performed with a Wii or Xbox console,
like Zumba, or just playing any game with sports that can give us some exercising; all of this is
all online. After thorough research, I found that negative consequences are more common than
positive ones. Therefore, I am sure that social media advances the impact of isolation, obesity,
depression, and sleep deprivation. It takes away face-to-face interaction with family connections,
is texting; we know that a big percentage of them own a smartphone and this device can help
them to become isolated. A recent report found that teens text their friends daily, on average,
54% more than interacting with them face-to-face (Ling). This proves one more time how teens
are becoming less social in humans development, it is essential to have verbal communication;
if we dont have face-to-face communication, we will lose the ability to socialize with one
another; as humans, we crave for interaction and this cant be replaced by technology. At this
rate, teens have their friends always available for texting or chatting instead of socializing.
Adolescents and children spend most of the time in a device that provides them with technology,
social media, or any other way of connection. If we think for a moment, about 30 years back,
how adolescents and children were. I can clearly remember my adolescent days. We never
carried a cell phone because it wasnt important to us. Nevertheless, we didnt have to check
every minute of the day for posts of what our friend, relatives, or the world was doing. Instead,
we had social interactions face-to-face; we used to hang out with friends, walk with them, etc. In
modern days, social media leaves our adolescents and children isolated, even in their schools.
Youngsters meet not one of their ages group, even though they cohabit with them in classes,
breaks, hallways, cafeteria because most of the time they spend their time in their devices instead
of learning to know each other. This brings them to feel lonely most of the time, because they
dont have the time to concentrate on a better way of interaction with their peers than social
media, leaving them with the idea that they are really social and popular among them. Instead,
this is leaving them to their own isolation. What Happens When Teens Try to Disconnect from
Tech for Three Days by Katrina Schwartz, she mentions the Tech Timeout Academic
Challenge where the boys volunteered to abstain from using not just their phones but all digital
devices for three days, to better understand the role of technology in their lives. The following
Every kid suffered in diverse ways, they said, however some of them noticed that the first
day was hard, but by the third day, they found themselves feeling more freedom and enjoying
life. They went to surf, they bounced on the trampoline, and they even took walks. One that
impacted me the most was the story of Namara, where he mentions that he became more
dependent to his parents; he engaged with his mother, he needed help looking up for a topic for
his class, but he couldnt because of the challenge he was in. However, he asked his mother and
from there they went from one conversation to another, and even his father joined them. That
never would have happened normally, Namara said (Schwartz). We definitely see that social
media brings isolation in our youth; in this study, they even interact with each other at lunch
time, something they had forgotten how to do. The following video shows an example of the
in our society, we had many of the same parks that we have now, but there is one big, noticeable
problem; they are empty most of the time. Therefore, our youth is engaging in less physical
activity which is increasing obesity among them. Before, we didnt have to think of exercising as
mandatory routine; it just came within us as children and adolescents. We had the quality time to
interact face-to-face with our friends, families, and neighbors. We did things like playing catch,
and hide-and-seek, bringing us to have more physical activity. I believe that in this way, we were
brain (Hampton). The Center for U.S. Disease Control and Prevention reported that
approximately 10% of preschool kids, and 15% of children ages 6-17, are considered obese, with
many others close to becoming overweight (Hampton), and this is why. In my opinion, the
concept of wellness includes physical, mental, social and spiritual components, and social media
interactions may influence a persons weight. If we think of the many hours youngsters spent in
socializing on social media, or playing games online, it is indeed much more than time spent on
physical activities and this is not necessarily exercising; we can increase our way of living with
simple steps, doing things like walking, cleaning the house, raking leaves, playing having fun, or
biking. These are normal things to do, and they dont require much of a big challenge, but for our
teens and children, this means that they must leave their devices on hold and that is impossible
for them nowadays because their lives will be on hold too. All this causes obesity among our
teens and children, making them feel embarrassed, like theyre trapped in a body in which they
dont belong; they struggle to try to get fit, but it is not that simple because they are in the same
Adolescents and children are becoming more vulnerable in many ways, but one that is
impacting them throughout social media is depression among youth. According to AJ Agrawal,
questions are being raised on the severe impact of social networking on teens and their health.
Research shows that social media is indeed causing
think just for a minute, about our younger days, did we know what Facebook Depression was,
or even just depression? I think not. We used to play, hang out with friends, plan trips, and much
more. Having this many activities didnt give us an option to be depressed, we didnt know what
this was until social media through technology came aboard. We were always waiting for the
time when we could go out and meet our friends or do anything with our parents, so this gave us
different skills than what the youth have now. There is no doubt that they have many skills, and
in a right way they can be wonderful, but most of the time are harmful because of their
immaturity with this kind of technology, throughout social media. As per example, they lack
understanding of online privacy issues or outside influences of third-party groups, which can be
devastating for them. Adolescents and children are getting trapped in social media, and they
dont realize their behavior. They want instant answers back when you chat with them, or have
any social media communication, but we know that some of these sites, like Messenger, allows
people to see if their message has been read or not. This can leave them lonely, depressed, and
even anxious. There are many websites devoted to feelings of depression and loneliness,
reinforcing negative thoughts like Tumblr, a place where teens can go to share their depressions
(Agrawal). Is this website helpful? I think not. How can this be of help for youngsters with
depression through social media, if the only thing theyre going to find there is more depression
stories about hundreds of youngsters like them? Instead I think they should engage with different
social media is promoting a lack of sleep in the youth, which affects them in their daily
academics (Schurgin OKeeffe and Clarke-Pearson). During the last 5 years, the number of
preadolescents and adolescents using sites such as Facebook and Myspace has increased
dramatically. Twenty-two percent of teenagers log on to their favorite social media site more
than 10 times a day, and more than half of adolescents log on to a social media site more than
once a day. Seventy-five percent of teenagers now own cell phones; 25% use them for social
media, 54% use them for texting, and 24% use them for instant messaging (Schurgin OKeeffe
and Clarke-Pearson). However, it has been proven that our youngsters spend more time
consuming a digit diet such as watching television, listening to music, interacting on social
media, playing video games, etc. than sleeping. According to Malcore, on a daily basis, teens
sleep about 7 hours or less. Because of peer pressure, children and adolescents are at some risk
as they navigate social media with sleep deprivation. At this rate, adolescents and children will
struggle more and more in their academics, like testing long exams, writing skills, because they
have their own language in social media. For more details read the following link
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/early/2011/03/28/peds.2011-0054
In an adolescents life, all they want to do is spread their wings and take off to their
dreams. Its important for parents, caregivers, foster parents, or any adult taking care of them to
be part of this process in their lives. With this I mean, we need to talk to our adolescents and
children to be responsible with this new tool and re-enforce with them to always read and trust us
with any questions they come across before entering or creating website accounts. It is important
that parents be aware and monitor their profiles. After all, if our adolescents and children trust us,
we must be doing our parenting right. However, in all the research I encountered, even though
there is a bigger concern about social media in affecting our youth, there are a few positive sides
of the technology. Perhaps, as education is a great tool for the youth, they can find many sources
to help them succeed academically using technology. There are many programs where they can
find help and support, like Khan Academy, so they can tutor themselves or documentaries in a
In my own opinion, we should understand and regulate the use of social media in young
children and adolescents, because overusing social media can lead to compulsive behavior,
strong addictions, and the wasting of time. Our young generation is especially easy prey for
corrupted environments used in social media. Social media is regarded as an addiction for many
people, and it is growing in adults. So, my questions are: What are we doing with 3000 friends
on the internet? Why are we texting all the time? Because it seems to me like a big waste of time.
We should spend more time together with our friends and learn more about them. Lets make the
relationships that count forever, and not rely on technology or social media to do the job for us
because we can do it. After all, humans create technology so, we must be better, right?
Works Cited
Agrawal, AJ. "Are Social Networks Causing Loneliness Among Teens?" The Huffington Post.
Ling, Rich. "Teens, Texting, and Social Isolation." Pew Research Center: Internet, Science &
Families." Pediatrics. American Academy of Pediatrics, 22 Mar. 2011. Web. 13 Apr. 2017
Malcore, Paul. "The Digital Diet of the American Teen [Infographic]." Rawhide. N.p., 20 Jan.
Schwartz, Katrina. "What Happens When Teens Try to Disconnect From Tech For Three Days."