English 102
Dr. Wynne
3/17/17
Today, any single parents in the world are possibly some of the best multi-taskers in the world.
With the excess amount of work they do every day, they sometimes may be underappreciated.
Being a parent on your own means you are someone who has a child or children that depend on
you and multiple young African-American adults around the world are single mother or father
parents raising their offspring the best ways they can. With the divorce rate as high as it is, more
and more children are growing up in single-parent families. Numerous adversities that may take
place are such as a shortage of economic support, educational and passionate effects of the
youngster, restricted health coverage and parents working extensive hours with multiple jobs.
With some research I have conducted a few questions focusing on single parenting which
include, what is single parenting?, who is available to help single parents?, and what the effects
on parents raising their children on their own?. These questions listed eventually helped me find
individual who accepts most or all the day-to-day responsibilities for raising a child or children.
Usually a single mother is more often the main caregiver in a single-parent family structure due
families is the limited resources available to them. (Kavas 58). Which is why there is diversity of
hardships for a single parent that could take place such as a lack of financial support, academic
and emotional effects of the child, limited health insurance and mothers working long hours with
one or two jobs. According to Burden's research, single mothers and fathers receive lower
salaries, work longer hours at combined job and home responsibilities, and experience greater
job-family role strain and lower levels of physical and emotional well-being than parents that are
not separated. (Kavas 61 ). Many single parents must work long hours to put food on the table,
and may cannot form a bond with their child like planned to.
With my second research question, what are the effects on parents raising their children on their
own, many parents are affected both positively and negatively while raising a child by
themselves. (Borup 55). Some parents struggle to find a job to support them and their child.
Being able to save your energy and time is vital as bringing up a child alone will require you to
play two roles that of both the parent and the provider. (Nelson 24) But there are positive
benefits on having children and raising them by yourself, as a single parent. According to a
researcher, Julianne Holt-Lunstand, stated While caring for children may include daily hassles,
deriving a sense of meaning and purpose from life's stress has been shown to be associated with
better health outcomes,"(Fox News). Additionally, mothers tend to take care of themselves in a
healthy way because they must care of their children. Another positive benefit from becoming a
single parent is changing your personality when raising children. (Alloy 7) Many single parents
learn how to be unselfish because being a single mother is a 24/7 jobs and requires them to put
their childrens need before theirs. They also learn that having children can make you learn
unique things about yourself, as well as increasing patience and love for them.
My third research question includes who is available to help single parents in need. There are
few great organizations such as the Extended Family organization a nonprofit charity established
exclusively for the purpose of offering financial assistance to single parents and their children.
According to Mark Carmer, Founder and President of Extended Family, he states, We assist
single parents who are truly alone and have no assistance from the other parent. These single
parents are employed and working hard for their families, but find its still not enough. (Cramer
8) Extended Family believes that single parents are the people who should be supported the
most.
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Cramer, Mark. "Single Parents and Their Kids Need Your Help... Because as a Parent You Don't
Get a Mulligan!" Extended Family - A Charity Assisting Single Parents in Financial Need. N.p.,