If you are not a Muslim, you may not enter Saudi Arabia
without an invitation and you may not leave without an exit
permit. Visitors to Saudi Arabia are subject to the same rigorous
Islamic law as Saudis. It is not uncommon for Westerners to be
imprisoned for possessing illegal substances such as alcohol,
pornography, pork or narcotics. Thieves still have their hands
amputated and capital crimes are punished by public beheadings.
The Geert Hofstede analysis for Saudi Arabia is almost identical to other
Arab countries their Muslim faith plays a large role in the peoples lives. Large
power distance and uncertainty avoidance are the predominant characteristics for
this region. This indicates that it is expected and accepted that leaders separate
themselves from the group and issue complete and specific directives.
The Geert Hofstede analysis for the Arab World, that includes the countries
of Egypt, Iraq, Kuwait, Lebanon, Libya, Saudi Arabia, and the United Arab
Emirates, demonstrates the Muslim faith plays a significant role in the peoples
lives.
Large Power Distance (PDI) (80) and Uncertainty Avoidance (UAI) (68) are
predominant Hofstede Dimensions characteristics for the countries in this region.
These societies are more likely to follow a caste system that does not allow
significant upward mobility of its citizens. They are also highly rule-oriented with
laws, rules, regulations, and controls in order to reduce the amount of uncertainty,
while inequalities of power and wealth have been allowed to grow within the
society.
The high Uncertainty Avoidance Index (UAI) ranking of 68, indicates the
societys low level of tolerance for uncertainty. In an effort to minimize or reduce
this level of uncertainty, strict rules, laws, policies, and regulations are adopted and
implemented. The ultimate goal of these populations is to control everything in
order to eliminate or avoid the unexpected. As a result of this high Uncertainty
Avoidance characteristic, the society does not readily accept change.
The Masculinity index (MAS), the third highest Hofstede Dimension is 52,
only slightly higher than the 50.2 average for all the countries included in the
Hofstede MAS Dimension. This would indicate that while women in the Arab
World are limited in their rights, it may be due more to Muslim religion rather than
a cultural paradigm.
The lowest Hofstede Dimension for the Arab World is the Individualism
(IDV) ranking at 38, compared to a world average ranking of 64. This translates
into a Collectivist society as compared to Individualist culture and is manifested in
a close long-term commitment to the member 'group', that being a family, extended
family, or extended relationships. Loyalty in a collectivist culture is paramount,
and over-rides most other societal rules.
Despite the heat, most of the body must always remain covered.
A jacket and tie are usually required for men at business meetings. Men should
wear long pants and a shirt, preferably long-sleeved, buttoned up to the collar. Men
should also avoid wearing visible jewelry, particularly around the neck.
Names are often confusing. Its best to get the names (in English) of those you will
meet, speak to, or correspond with before hand. Find out both their full names and how
they are to be addressed in person.
Communications occur at a slow pace. Do not feel obligated to speak during periods
of silence. "Yes" usually means "possibly".
Your Saudi host may interrupt your meeting or conversation, leave the room and be
gone for 15 to 20 minutes for the purpose of his daily prayers.
At a meeting, the person who asks the most questions is likely to be the least
important. The decision maker is likely a silent observer.
A customary greeting is salaam alaykum. Shaking hands and saying kaif hal
ak comes next.
Saudi Arabia Behavior
It is common to remove your shoes before entering a building. Follow the lead of
your host.
There are several styles of greetings used; it is best to wait for your counterpart to
initiate the greeting. Men shake hands with other men. Some men will shake hands with
a woman; it is advisable for a businesswoman to wait for a man to offer his hand. A more
traditional greeting between men involves grasping each others right hand, placing the
left hand on the others right shoulder and exchanging kisses on each cheek.
The left hand is considered unclean and reserved for hygiene avoid gestures with the
right hand. Do not point at another person and do not eat with the left hand.
Try not to cross your legs when sitting. Never show the bottom of your feet.
Gifts are not necessary, but appreciated. Avoid admiring an item too much, you host
may feel obligated to give it to you. When offered a gift, it is impolite to refuse.
The Arabs take special pains to make those they deal with
comfortable. They are courteous and solicitous of the other
partys personal needs. Tea and soft drinks are provided and
served in a gracious manner. Delicious sweets, dates and bakery
goods are offered in abundance.
Because of the powerful group experience in the oral tradition, a speaker seeks
to engage the imagination and feelings of the audience. It is not uncommon for an
Arab speaker to use metaphors that may seem outlandish to an American. However,
creative metaphors, analogies, and story-telling are part of the rich fabric of the oral
tradition. In fact, whereas an American may insert facts and figures to illustrate a
point, and Arab speaker may use one strong, vivid example to convey a point. An
Arab speaker also tends to be very generous in her use of descriptive adjectives and
adverbs.
Because of the symbolism of Arabic derived from the aesthetic realm of art and
spiritual realm of religion, words may be more tied to emotions rather than concrete
realities. In contrast, the American cultural preference tends to directly link word and
action. The American preference for "words matching the deeds" is evident in many
common American expressions such as "Practice what you preach," "Do what you
say," and "Walk the walk, talk the talk." Indeed, action appears preferable over verbal
statement: "Actions speak louder than words." If one does not "keep one's word," by
fulfilling a promised action, then one's "words ring hollow." The "word versus deed"
gap in Arab rhetoric may have contributed to a stereotypical image of Arabs as "lazy,"
or "dishonest."
For over five thousand years henna has been a symbol of good luck, health
and sensuality in the Arab world. The plant has been associated with positive
magic and provides us with a link to an ancient age full of good and bad spirits,
baraka and jnoun. Generations of women have used a paste made primarily of
dried ground henna leaves to cover their hands and feet with designs ranging from
simple blobs to intricate geometric patterns designed to ward off evil, promote
fertility and attract good energy.
Historically henna has also been used for medicinal purposes, to dye cloth
and leather as well as hair, to color the manes of horses and other fur of other
animals.
Brides throughout the Arab world still participate in the traditional henna
party or ceremony. Henna is not only decorative but also carries good luck and
fertility; it has baraka and protects against jnoun. In some areas women attend a
party shortly before the wedding during which the brides hand's and feet are
painted with intricate designs. The henna paste is carefully applied and must
remain undisturbed on the skin for several hours to create a strong dark stain.
During this time the bride is waited on by her friends and family and has a final
opportunity to socialize without the responsibilities of a husband and, ultimately, a
family. In other areas henna application can be part of the actual wedding
ceremony or is applied immediately before the ceremony.
The henna plant has significant baraka attached to it. Legend has it that
Mohammed used henna to dye his beard and that the henna flower was the
Prophet's favorite. As a result, henna occupies a unique place in the Moslem world.
It is used for both decorative and magical purposes and has religious sanction.
While the present generation of Arab women may apply henna for fun, some
still turn to it for its magical properties. Henna is used to protect against witchcraft
or the evil eye and many of the motifs used in henna design are designed to ward
off the eye's power. The unique geometry of Moroccan Berber design is a result of
ancient animistic beliefs and Islam's prohibition of artistic depictions of animals or
humans. While the Berbers converted to Islam, many still secretly clung to their
traditional beliefs. They developed simple geometric representations of animals,
which they used without overtly violating Islamic codes. We see these geometric
motifs in rugs, ceramics, and jewelry and in henna design.
In all Arab countries, religion garners great respect. The society is based on
religion or customs that have religious acceptance. What is important for Moslems
is to be respectable in the eyes of God. Rather than being proof of sexual ability,
marriage is considered a sign of maturity because it cannot exist without
responsibility and self control.
Traditionally, the more money spent on a wedding, the prouder the family
will be. Before the wedding there is a party at the bride's house where all the
relatives work to meet the guests needs. Weeks before, women start to prepare
many different kinds of desserts: baklava, makroud (mahk-rood) and other sweet
treats. The dinner will always include couscous with vegetables and meat. Men
will sacrifice lambs to eat in celebration, and shourba (shur-ba: tomato sauce and
meat), chicken and salads are also served. The latitude of choice and multitude of
food are testimony to the parents generosity; otherwise people would consider
them stingy, which is shameful.