Gunter Runkel
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Sexual Morality of Christianity
G W E R RUNKEL
University of Lueneberg, Lueneberg, Germany
Law, ethics, and morality in the western culture are essentially formed
by Christianity. Therefore, Christianity re resents the macro theory of
morality that governs the other domains. 79
ORIGIN OF RELIGION
Religion came into being on a historical level on which the world was
seen as shamanistic-prophetic. On this level elements of dreams are
infiltrated into the real surroundings, which the individual does not inter-
pret as an illusion but as an indication of a higher world (p. 31).5
Emile Durkheim saw the origin of religion (p. 83) in the act of calling
ancestors and spirits for help in order to free oneself of the dependency
on nature by propitiatory sacrifice and prayers. He considered the divi-
sion of the world into secular and sacral areas to be characteristic of
religion (p. 50f).I9According to Max Weber, religiously or magically
motivated action is aimed at this world, and the averting of evils and the
allotment of benefits in this world are the goals of all prayers, even in
the most otherworldly religions (p. 27).lo1Religion is extended world (p.
27) ,9 the deities of the moment are adjusted to the level of the respective
knowledge. For the traditional sociology of religion the sacred, the numi-
nous, is the essential part of religion and a category a priori (p. 119) .65
Cicero was more reserved in his definition of religion because for him
the reference is a certain higher nature that one calls divine (p. 148).
Norman Birnbaum proved the fruitfulness of the concept of ideology
for the sociology of religion.6Religion is defined as countertruth, hence
itself becomes ideology, that is, a countertheory of world explanation,
formulation of action opposed to other ideologies (p. 171).86
FUNCTIONS OF REUGION
During the Age of Enlightenment, criticism of the sacrally sanctioned
authority went along with criticism of religion. Holbach was one of the
first to address the domesticating function of religion (p. 71).43This
function helps the authorities to use religion as an instrument for their
own benefit (p. 551) .loo
The integrating function of religion that stabilizes behavior and pro-
vides a socially centered force in society was made a topic early on b
(among others) Holbein, Helvetius, Machiavelli, and Hobbes (p. 14). J
Ludwig Feuerbach humanized the gods again; what w a s looked on and
worshipped as God is now recognized as something human (p. 40).23
Hegel in turn exposed the compensatory function of religion: Religion
especially looked for and recommended for the times of public hardship,
of confusion, and suppression, and pointed to for comfort for injustice
and for hope as substitution for the loss (p. 104).40Religion is seen as
compensation for frustration and restitution for wordly sufferings. This
thought is later carried on by Karl Marx: Religion is the universal theory
of this world,. . . its universal grounds of comfort and justifica-
tion . . . Religion is the sigh of the distressed creation, the soul of a heart-
less world, as it is the spirit of a spiritless condition. It is opium for the
Sexual Morality of Christianity 105
Because religion has arisen from the situation of dependency and trib-
ulation, it is filled with anxiety. The permanent anxiety in religion is
activated by a guilty conscience that originates from the violation of fixed
norms, an example of which is provided in the area of sexuality. Even
Adam became burdened with guilt because he ate the forbidden apple.
Yet the consumption of the forbidden fruit represents only the facade,
as the necessity of guilt for religion, particularly also for Christianity,
stands behind this facade. To be a Christian one has to feel guilty and
develop fear of a reality perceived as alien, the human construction of
which one no longer recognizes or has repressed. Consequently, fear
and a guilty conscience underlie faith as a communication medium in
the same way as physical force underlies power and sexuality love; com-
munication medium here in the interpretation of Luhmann as symbolic
codes that define the rules of possible combinations of symbols and which
thus at the same time can secure a transfer of selections like truth, love,
and power (p. 30).56Accordingly the basis for religion is not the concept
of God, but an underlying principle that only then generated a concept
106 G.Runkl
of God, namely, the fear that precedes sin (p. 85) .47 Religious experienc-
ing is tuned to disappointment, surprise, and anxiety. The anxiety gener-
ating anomic forces must then be reduced by sacralization and taboo.
Thus, the anxiety that lies at the bottom of religion is also the basis for
the rites of pas~age,~ those rights that accompany a primarily biological
change of status in society, as conversely the intensity of the religious rites
of passage shows the significance of anxiety for religion. This relation is
also expressed in the following joke: A lady enters a bookstore and says:
I would like a book for an ill person. Something religious? No,
he is better already (p. 59).lo3
In archaic societies the ritual and religious life of men and women is
guided along life crises, which primitive religion tried to master. Rites
of passage relating to the primarily biological change of status and com-
bines here with their Christian rites-birth and baptism; puberty and
first communion, confirmation; traditionally accepted consummation of
sexual intercourse and marriage ceremony; death and the last rites and
Christian burial-are the subjectively most important religious ceremon-
ies. Even among secularized groups these religious rites of passage distin-
guish themselves from other religious rites by increased resistance. In
addition, one has to take into account the existence of different dimen-
sions of religiosity, like belief, practice, experience, knowledge, and con-
sequence (p. 265f),94which do not diverge completely. Anxiety and the
defense mechanism caused by it lead traditional societies to ritualization
and the invention of ceremonies.
In traditional societies ritual proceedings are managed by a charismat-
ically qualified person-the wizard, the early priest. He instrumentalized
ecstasy as the sign of his charisma because ecstasy is only occasionally
accessible to the layperson. As the social form in which this happens, the
orgy is the original form of religious socialization (p. 228).O Later, the
priests of a religion of redemption stand up against the orgiastic cults to
found a permanent habit of the religious that is aimed at the possession
of the divine itself, at selfdeification whereby the physical area is de-
famed as nondivine. Within Christianity this dissociation of body and
God leads to the dualism of matter and spirit (p. 137f)85that forms the
basis of the Christian enmity with sexuality. The fight against ecstasy
leads to its privatization by which ecstasy as a relevant and binding quality
of experience is annulled (p. 96).89
The disparagement of the natural, the bodily, and the sensual and
the pushing aside of normal sexuality for the benefit of substitutional
abreaction by the priests in turn heightens the anxiety that now is fed
by sexuality as well. If religion continues to be favored for functional
reasons, the increasing manipulability of nature necessitates a new source
of anxiety for religion. In a religion opposed to sexuality (e.g., Christian-
ity), the satisfaction of sexual desires is made out to be something bad
and sinful; permanent production of anxiety and of a guilty conscience
is the result of it (p. 104).* So Christianity represents a religion of fear
that inflicts punishment (hell) on sexual satisfaction, and that not only
condoned the most abominable murder of witches and the most bloody
Sexual Morality of Christianity 107
ASCETICISM
CELIBACY
Celibacy is one realization of asceticism whereby Christianity adopted
the idea from Buddhism that an unmarried man ought to be more highly
respected than a married man (p. 478). Celibacy is a consequence of
the dissociation of the body and mind. It goes back to the idea which
was once spread in paganism and possibly was part of every cult in the
times of the Roman emperors that sexual intercourse made a person
unable to celebrate sacred services (p. 199).15In Catholicism celibacy is
demanded despite strong opposition by the lower clergy; celibacy was
supposed to heighten the respect for the clergy by the people who started
to regard marriage as sinful. In 589 the third council of Toledo set down
the regulation in the fifth canon to sell women who are suspected of
having sexual intercourse with priests and to distribute the purchase
price among the poor. Officially celibacy was introduced in the Catholic
Church only in 1074by the decree of celibacy by Gregory VII and in 1139
by the second Lateran council (pp. 171-173) .16 The strong opposition on
the part of many priests to the decree of celibacy quoted even at that
time among other things the passage from the Bible, 1 Timothy (3:2f) :
A church leader must be without fault; he must have only one wife,
. . . he must be able to manage his own family well and make his children
obey him with all respect, in which marriage is at least not impossible
I10 G.Runkeel
for priests. Therefore celibacy is not in the first place justified by the New
Testament, but by the tradition of the ecclesiastical school of thought and
by the benefit for the Catholic church which the Catholic Kopp sees in
financial and political advantages: Which conflict could the priest get
into, if he had to take care of a family and possibly had to endanger the
advancement of his children. It is also probably no coincidence that the
surge of the Russian revolution first smashed a church largely favouring
priests (p. 59).52Because of celibacy, marriage as a sexual outlet was
dropped after all other forms of sexual activity were negatively sanc-
tioned and were punished in hell.
Celibacy leads to a regression of the celibates into the childlike paren-
tal dependency whereby the part of the mother is taken up by the church
and the part of the father by the bishop (pp. 77,79).72 This infantilization
of celibates who regress to the oedipal sexual level leads to a permanently
reflexively institutionalized sensuality as manifest sexuality is suppressed.
The claim to power by the ecclesiastical bureaucracy is internalized in
the celibate and causes a weak self that is susceptible to manipulation
(p. 139f) .8 A frequently mentioned accusation of young celibates against
their superiors is that they are pigeonholed and that any spontaneous
liveliness is suffocated (p. 355) .38 In Catholicism celibacy institutionalizes
enmity with sexuality and results in a permanent depreciation of real
sexuality in favor of one projected onto the mother church and the
Mother of God, the Virgin Mary. Thus, the sexual anxiety on part of the
celibates produces a fear of women. This then leads to a distinct worship
of the Virgin Mary (p. 257) .42 Consequently celibacy does not only turn
against celibates, but it reinforces the ambivalent relation of Christianity
toward women, as the decree of celibacy is based on magic primitive
perceptions of ritual purification, of the supposed biological and per-
sonal inferiority and of the alleged demonic element of the woman (p.
92) .39 Thus, over and over again celibacy creates the dissociation of mind
and body for the Catholic priest anew; the woman is degraded and
demonized in her physical and sexual existence, and as compensation
she is elevated in her Christian existence, that is as a subjective image,
in the worship of Mary and in the belief in her virginity. A masochistic
feature that manifests itselfin celibacy becomes obvious in the demanded
suppression of human libidinous needs, when Miiessener emphasized
the sacrifice of abstinence (p. 26)61and Pope Paul VI explained that
Christian teaching cannot be understood without struggle, neither with-
out deadening, neither without occasional self-sacrifice (p. 16) ,l as tra-
ditionally the ascetic-gnostic defamation of eros is bound up with the
demand for deadening the affects. A sexual feature shows itself espe-
cially for feminine celibacy in the bridal relationship to Christ as com-
pensation for human sexuality. The secret of virginity is . . . the mystery
of the marriage to Christ, the bridal relationship to Christ in a total
exclusiveness of love. This bridal relationship to Christ is the essential
core of virginity (p. 31) ,l whereby in the Catholic Church male celibacy
is also described with the feminine term for
Sexual Morality of Christianity 111
which the severest punishment was imposed. Today the Catholic Church
still prohibits abortion even in the presence of the eugenic indication
(e.g., because of genetic disease), the ethical indication (e.g., after rape),
or the social indication (e.g., economic plight or a mother who is too
young). More liberal positions in Christianity, however, emphasize the
intrinsic value of sexuality in the relationship of two partners (so the
minority comment of a commission that was set up by the British Council
of Churches, 1967); for example, the German Protestant maintained:
The sexual opposite and the contact between men and women have
their meaning in themselves. Therefore sexuality does not mainly serve
procreation (p. 17) .51369
the men. On the other hand, 55% of Mormon men approve of coitus
for both sexes in the same situation, contrary to 33% of Morman women.
In the Midwest these figures amount to 69% versus 40%, respectively; in
Denmark, 90% versus 91% (p. 52).12
In Christianity the woman is put into service and degraded as an object
of lust and of permanent threat on one hand, and on the other hand
she is idealized and raised in the abstract as for example in the cult of
Mary. Her real sexual existence is removed from her, she is robbed of
satisfymg sexual possibilities of expression, and in the image of conserva-
tive Christians she is shaped into a prostitute or a witch or into their
counterpart, the virgin; however, the concretization of the woman as
prostitute as well as the dematerialization of the woman as virgin are
infantile solutions: The virgin typified the elements of purity and the
witch typified the counterpart (p. 125).96Witches were assumed to have
sexual intercourse with the devil: Persons of both sexes forgetting their
own salvation and falling away from the Catholic faith, do misuse with
the devils which mix with them as men or women, . . . (p. 27f).70In
I
This morality produces its own necessity in the awareness of its support-
ers. Thus, for example, the damage that the Christian churches maintain
to follow masturbation comes from their own accusations. Far more than
90% of the patients at risk of committing suicide with the symptoms of
scruples about onanism, of impotence, and of frigidity had experienced
an ecclesiogenically neuroticizing upbringing. The restriction of the
inner living space of these neurotic individuals that never reach their
goal of purity under constantly increasing guilt feelings leads them
essentially to be at risk of committing suicide (of 149 students at risk
of committing suicide, more than half suffered from an ecclesiogenic
neurosis (p. 248) At the same time onanism represents a special p r o b
lem for the ecclesiogenically neuroticized; many of them escape to them-
selves because of the socialized Christian enmity with the body and
because of fear of others.
Christianity suppresses sexuality because this suppression is functional
to its further existence. It follows that an attack on a sexual taboo is at
the same time regarded as an attack on the religion itself (p. 9) .20 Another
modern strategy consists in the fact that attacks on the traditional Chris-
tian sexual morality are themselves made out to be Christian (pp. 7; 123,
respectively).9310
with coital and with noncoital activities (p. 424; 163f, respe~tively.~~*~
Thus the frequency of remarital coitus (p. 84f; 47; 306f; 430f; 255f; 40;
150; respectively) 122732,4 ,498738 and of extramarital coitus (p. 5436 340f)48,49
depends substantially on affiliation. Even the frequency of marital coitus
is directly linked with religion; active followers of religions of redemption
SexaaE Morality of Christianity 117
constraint at the first coitus amounts to 14%,9% and 4% with men and
43%, 38% and 36% with women. With both sexes forced coitus occurs
most frequently with Mormons and least frequently in Denmark (pp.
66-97).12 The most strongly religiously influenced groups feel more in-
clined to use aggression to reach sexual aims than religiously indifferent
groups do. The higher share of aggression and violence with religiously
active groups also stems from the sexual frustration to which those
groups are more subjected. After reaching coitus this heightened aggres-
sion suddenly changes to feelings of increased anxiety and guilt. Thus
with Mormons, persons of the midwest, and Danes, positive reactions to
the first coitus amount to 44%, 52%, and 73%, respectively, with men
and 25%, 40%, and 83%, respectively, with women. The negative reac-
tions are complementary: with men, 56%, 48%, and 27%, and with
women 75%, 60% and 17% (p. 102).
Sexual repression produces anxiety in committed Christian groups
because the restrictive norms cannot be observed. So Christian sexual
suppression is an institutionalized, self-fulfilling prophecy; it offers reduc-
tions for the anxiety and guilt that it causes.
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