Professor Olivas
English 103
30 May 2017
War is hell, but thats not the half of it, because war is also mystery and terror and adventure
and courage and discovery and holiness and pity and despair and longing and love (OBrien 59). War
does not have a binary black and white set of morals, but a muddled mix of grays, which leaves many
in and out of the combat confused. Now, many wild things happen in a war, events and decisions that
leave lasting damage upon veterans. In their return home, veterans lives can become a hectic mess,
filled with various problems with limited solutions. In todays day and age the shift from war and
soldier to peace and civilian is a heavy burden wrought with hardship, mental illness, and alienation,
Soldiers return from war is riddled with hardships and difficulties. Often people think fighting
in a war is hard enough, but at times the transition to home life can be just as daunting as battle. Once
home finding housing, employment, and medical care can be a rough thing to manage right away.
Attempting to get a hold of a job is often difficult since many soldiers have Insufficient education or
specialized military training that does not necessarily translate to the civilian world, which was noted
in James L. Peases Military Culture and the Transition to Civilian Life: Suicide Risk and Other
Considerations (84). Without a job many are left with the possibility of homelessness, which in turn
creates even more problems with veterans who have sustained physical injuries at war. Another issue
that comes into play in holding veterans back from getting help with these hardships is the reluctance of
actually searching for help. When transitioning to regular life Military culture may unintentionally
instill beliefs that help seeking is a sign of weakness, and veterans may view themselves as a liability or
burden to others (85). This avoidance of seeking help can lead to many problems within veterans
lives. Shedding more light on this is Tim OBriens The Things They Carried. This refusal to seek help
because of looking weak can often make many things about transitioning difficult and hard, They were
afraid of dying, but they were even more afraid to show it (OBrien 22). Besides these beliefs being
pushed by military culture, what can also push these ideas can be the regular civilian society people live
in which make difficulties for soldiers to speak about their problems, Hows you like to hear about
the war? he might have asked, but the place could only blink and shrug. It had no memory, therefore
no guilt (98). This policy of holding everything in can and will create problems and fissures within
oneself, which is all in the name of looking brave and not scared during the battle and war, but when
coming home can grow to new heights. At times returning from war can be just as hard for soldiers as
fighting them.
Mental illness is a serious issue many veterans face when returning home from war. Soldiers
are often at higher risk for psychological issues and substance abuse, which in turn can lead to higher
risk of suicide among veterans. In Sebastain Jungers TED Talk, Our Lonely Society Makes It Hard
To Come Home From War, even though the art of war has become less violent than past wars, more
issues have risen in these past few wars, Every war that we have fought as a country, starting with the
Civil War, the intensity of the combat has gone down. As a result, the casualty rates have gone down.
But disability rates have gone up (Junger). PTSD, or post traumatic stress disorder, is a major issue for
those returning to their home life. This disorder can often lead veterans to believe dangers and threats
are present when there is not, About 20% of peoplewind up with chronic, long-term PTSD. They
are not adapted to temporary danger (Junger). This in turn can lead to problems with family, friends,
and others around. Society is often poor to understand people with mental illnesses, although can be
even more so with those who have recently returned from war. Mental health is a rough and difficult
isolation from society. These feelings of isolation are a huge factor in the way veterans settle back into
normal life away from war. A major way this can take effect is through veterans interactions with their
own families, Some families may believe that the veteran will be able to easily reintegrate into the
familys norms and expectations, which can increase feeling of isolation or alienation (Pease 83).
When soldiers leave for war there are high energies and excited people at and throughout their
departure, but the same cannot be said for once they return home. In a 60 Minute episode, Coming
Home, Scott Pelley interviewed several Marines who had served in Afghanistan, in which this issue
came about, I joked I am never more popular from deployment than right before the bus door opens.
Supermans coming the door opens and Oh, its just him. And they expect you to fall back into
those roles, husband, father, nephew, cousin, uncle as if nothin changed (Pelley). These feelings of
isolation created by the veterans family is difficult. Many of these problems reintegrating back into
society can be found in the differences between military culture and regular society. The military places
high priority on being a cohesive and tightknit unit, whereas other societies outside the military can be
drastically different. This difference can lead to a kind of culture shock when veterans return home to
their loved ones, Scott Pelley: Is there anything that you miss about Afghanistan? Jonathan
Quiceno: Absolutely. The brotherhood. Theres no question about that. You miss the sense of purpose
(Pelley). America and most other modern societies, for example, have a tendency to be very separating,
isolated, and private manner of living. And these separate qualities play havoc upon the people within
them as a whole, not just veterans returning, but can be extraordinarily destructive towards
homecoming soldiers. This sense of isolation and being separate from everyone else can cause trauma,
emotional and physical health problems to continue far longer. In other societies where having
close-knit bonds with those around one another, trauma and specifically emotional problems take far
but the kind of society you come back to. And maybe if you come back to a close,
cohesive, tribal society, you can get over trauma pretty quickly. And if you come back
to an alienating, modern society, you might remain traumatized your entire life. in other
words maybe the problem isnt them, the vets; maybe the problem is us. (Junger)
The sense of alienation on any person can take a huge toll, but to veterans who have just came
home and are transitioning and reintegrating back into a society, it can be much more difficult.
Others would think veterans troubles with transitioning to home life as easy and just a matter
of adapting back to normal life, but it is far more complicated than that. There is often a disconnect
between what non-military people think is the problem and what actually is the problem. And what
people think is the problem when soldiers come home from war is just getting back to normal life.
But what is actually the problem is there is not a normal life to go back too. When veterans are away
from home many things change, the society, the people, the veterans themselves. There is a difference
in what they left and what they came back too. These differences and changes are what is actually
for understanding the challenges in the transition from military service. Homecoming
theory posits that a traveler such as a military service member is separated from home
by space and time. The service member and family members and friends at home have
unique experiences during separation, and thus each will be in some ways unknown
and unfamiliar to the other upon return. The difference between expectations and
reality for the returning veteran and family and friends at home can result in a shock on
both side; navigating homecoming involves reestablishing connections despite these
changes. (Ahern 2)
Expectations of what veterans come home to and what roles they are supposed to fill right away
when back can be faulty, but with that comes some hope for ways to avoid these sorts of cultural shock.
This, For many veterans, family(was) an important foundation that offered help However,
veterans often found it hard to engage (with)individuals who had not shared the experience of
military service (7). In these situations, Veterans who had help from a veteran peerto navigate the
transitionhad substantial advantages (7). A supporting family and other veterans to help, along side
the simple need for time to heal is able to aid in the transition from soldier to civilian. Another issue
with non-military people there is often a disconnect between what movies and television show as what
war is and what it actually is. Which only serves to create a false picture of what soldiers go through at
war, and thus allows for a larger separation between civilian and soldier, and a greater sense of
alienation and isolation, They think Saving Private Ryan. And thats not trueso every time I talk to
civilians I have to explain. Its like giving a lesson (8). Often what is able to help here is taking media
with a grain of salt and realizing that it is not an accurate portrayal of what goes on in a war. These
changes on both sides have the ability to make or break people. Transitioning home from war is a far
The people fighting in a war have an exceedingly hard job to do with many peoples lives on
the line, but working for that goal of keeping others safe, keeps soldiers sane. Yet, when it comes time
to return home to a society, family, life that seems foreign and estranged from oneself; the grip on ones
sanity can slip. Difficulties and hardships plague soldiers in their welcome home in the possibility of
being jobless and homeless. Mental illness and the stigma of that holds the weight of many problems.
And Veterans feel alone. And in that aloneness, problems which were once small can become deep and
raw and terrible, especially when a society whose specialty is being separate from one another. Society
does not know fully how to fix these issues because they do not know how to fully come together as
one.
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