Use the form below to personalize a wedding ceremony script. You can use this basic ceremony as-is, or as a
starting point when creating your own ceremony. There is no legal form for a wedding ceremony, but most
ceremonies follow these established conventions.
1
Procession
Beginning of the Ceremony
2
Invocation
Minister
3
Declaration of Intent
Minister
Do you
Bethann Green
take this man
Douglas Earl Witte
to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold, in sickness
and in health, in good times and woe, for richer or poorer, keeping
yourself unto her for as long as you both shall live?
Bethann Green
I do
Minister
Do you
Douglas Earl Witte
take this woman
Bethann Green
to be your lawfully wedded wife, to have and to hold, in sickness and in
health, in good times and woe, for richer or poorer, keeping yourself
unto him for as long as you both shall live?
Douglas Earl Witte
I do
4
Vows Exchange, Ring Exchange, and Other Customs
Minister
Bethann Green
and
Douglas Earl Witte
will now exchange rings as a symbol of their love and commitment.
5
Pronouncement
Minister
6
Recession
End of the Ceremony
This is the basic format of a wedding ceremony. All weddings include
these parts, but there are many types of ceremonies with additional
duties and speaking parts. It is your responsibility to coordinate the
details of the ceremony with the couple.
1. Blessing - A blessing to the couple can be offered by the minister or a member of the wedding party.
Blessings can be religious or secular.
2. Charge to Couple - Similar to the Declaration of Intent, a charge has the minister emphasize the
seriousness of the marital contract to the couple. It is often punctuated by acknowledgements such as, "I
agree" or "I understand."
3. Giving of the Bride - The minister calls out to the wedding party and asks who gives the bride in
marriage. Traditionally, the father and/or mother of the bride reply that they consent to giving their daughter
in marriage.
5. Readings - Poems, religious texts, and/or literary passages can be read by the minister or members of the
wedding party.
7. Unity Candle - A unity candle ceremony involves the ceremonial merger of flames. Two candles are lit
and the couple joins their individual flames together to light a third candle (representing two lives joined as
one). Variations include participation from family, such as candles for children to join in the union of the
new family.
8. Sand Ceremony - Sand ceremonies are a variation of the unity candle symbol. Two vessels of sand are
poured together, mixing the sand. Each grain of sand is representative of a thought, feeling, or experience.
A common variation is to give each member of the wedding party a small pebble. Each person offers a
blessing as they deposit their pebble into a container, which the couple uses to combine their sand.
That's it!