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CHAPTER
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H BODIES
OW OUR
AGE
Many more surprises concerning the aging process
are likely to be forthcoming. . . .The questions never end,
they just get more complex.
—Reubin Andres, MD
A participant in The Baltimore
Longitudinal Study of Aging
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T HE GOOD STUFF
We can all make our own personal lists of the “bad” things about
aging, things we have to accept in order to feel comfortable as the
years pass. To help with handling the inevitable, we’ll make jokes
about our graying hair, our “senior moment” memory lapses, our
sagging breasts and chins. They become material for birthday
cards, stand up comic routines, and sit coms.
But what about the good? The qualities of aging that, like
fine wine, improve in the golden years? Believe it or not, there are
quite a few:
Experience counts for a lot. “The older we get, the wiser we
become” is not just a cliché—it’s the truth. The more we know,
the more information we can use to better understand and per-
form. Our executive functions, those skills that help us focus, stay
organized, and plan, become more sharply developed.
Maturity is a good thing. There’s nothing more embarrassing
than people not acting their age. Like the gray-haired, former
cheerleader trying to keep her “school days” alive by nagging the
“young ’uns” at every local game. The woman of a certain age
who wears mini-skirts and blue nailpolish. The gum-popping,
pot-bellied grandma trying to recapture “Dirty Dancing” on the
dance floor. We feel embarrassed for these people. Far better to act
our age, poised and graceful. And with this maturity, comes more
than a “class act” persona. We’ll be less impulsive—and exhibit
better judgment. We’ll be able to solve problems that used to
panic us. We’ll be more flexible. We’ll have self-control, self-
discipline, and a healthy perspective— in other words: maturity.
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W HY AGE?
It’s one thing to appreciate your age, to grow old with grace, but
there’s still the irony of “why.” Yes, your executive functions are
getting fine tuned. Your experience is paying off. You’re more at
peace with your life than ever before. But, let’s face it, it would be
nice to have all these plusses—and the body and face of a viva-
cious 20-year-old woman!
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Aging, like taxes, is a fact of life. Here are some current the-
ories that explain why:
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