'sorry'
Tory Paez, Catalyst
Apr. 27, 2015, 11:36 AM
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In scene after scene of the ad, women are shown apologizing for a series
of silly reasons.
So heres a quick list of some common reasons women are quick to say
sorry and five things we could be saying instead!
Instead of: Im sorry you were late because of terrible New York City
traffic.
Try: How frustrating that you were late because of that awful traffic.
2. To fill air.
Just like words such as um, uh, and like, sorry can fill empty
conversational space. It might be because we are nervous or just
babbling while our mouths catch up with our brains. Either way, in these
cases, sorry loses its meaning entirely.
Instead of: We need to sorry ... first, get the correct data from
Finance.
Try: We need to < Pause | Silence >, first, get the correct data from
Finance.
3. To interrupt.
Most girls are raised to be unfailingly polite at all times, especially at
work. For this substitute to work, it is crucial to know your environment.
Try: Excuse/Pardon me
Consider the Pantene video. The man in the video shows up late and the
two women scoot over to make room, apologizing repeatedly in the
process. If they explained WHY they were sorry, it would go something
like this: Im sorry that you were late to this meeting and I now need to
move over, so you can squeeze into the space I was previously
occupying. (See? Totally unnecessary!)
Especially at work, its smart to figure out when its appropriate to say
Im sorry and when you should say something else instead.