kI
prvrIx
-Aj Afadat-
-fehirSt-
n.| sfa
xumar ]nvanat n.|
1
pexe lFj
1
2
AjeR murTtb
AYyame rjaAt
xadI ka phela buinyadI mkSd idla ka sukUn
3 xadI ka dusra mkSd pakdamnI
3.1
xadI ka tIsra mkSd [.sanI nsl ko bakI rqna
3.2 xadI ka cO4a mKSd ]Mmte muSlIma kI mjbutI
3.18
AOlad kI trbIyt ke bara sunehrI ]
3.19 sUl
2
3.20
6rka mahol i#k hona j=rI
3.21 phla ]sUl AOlad ke il0 duAa kre.
3.22
hsn bsrI ke xagIdaR ka vakIya
3.23
nbI kI bCco. ke il0 duAa0.
3.24 dusra ]sUl bCco. ke sa4 nmIR AOr xfKkt ka mAamla krna
3
4.15 nbI ka bCco. ko muqaitb krne ka A.daj
5.5
sYydna iseke Akbr ka Adb
5.6
bCco. kI [manI trbIyt
5.7 {man Kya hE ?
4
bEAt AOr mamulat ke jrIye {man sIqana
5.10
dusra nuKta-bCce ke idl me nbI kI muhBbt
5.11 pEda krna
tIsra nuKta-bCce ke idl me kurAan mjId ke sa4 [Xk pEda
5.12 kr dena
co4I cIj-bCce ko nmaj sIqana
5.13
pa.cvI cIj-bCce ko roje kI Aadt Dale.
5.14 73I cIj-bCce ko hj sIqana
5
nbI kI quxAqlakI ka vakIya
6.7
6.8
bCco. kI muAaxratI trbIyt
6.9 phla dayra-6rke A.dr rhna
6.10
bCce ko Pyare Alfaj sIqana
6.11 Ameirkn lDkI ka vakIya
bCco. ko trtIbpe lga dena
6.12
bCco. kI doStI Apne hI 6rke bCco.ke sa4 ho
bE=n dayra-dusro. ke sa4 hmd\dIR,gmgusarI sIqana
dusrI bat-dusro. ke sa4 hmddIR,gmgusarI sIqana
7
hmddIR ka nam [.sanIyt
7.1
[brahIm ibn Adhm ka vakIya
7.2
[mam bha}In nKxb.dI buqarI ka vakIya
7.3 tIsrI bat bCco. ke ijMme j=rI kam lgana
7.4 cO4I bat-muqtlIf tkrIbat me AOr mjils me bCco. ko sa4
7.5
rqna
pa.cvI cIj mheman nvajI
7.6
mheman nvaj qatun ka ikSsa
7.7
6
7.15 bCce ke A.dr [Lm kI muhBbt pEda kre.
7.16 [mam buqarI kI kuVvte haifja ka vakIya
imskInpur xrIf ke karI sahb ka vakIya
7.18
[mam muhMmd kI trbIyt ka vakIya
7.19 kaifr ]stad ka muslman bCco. ka {man qrab kr dena
8.5
AOlad kI ijsmanI trbIyt
8.6
7
8.13 muxIRde Aalm ka vakIya
8.14
bCcIyo. ko nbI kI tlkIn
shabIyo. ke vakIyat
9.3
valIdEn kI Ajmt
ma>-bap kI Ajmt
9.4 tIn duAa0. jo ykInn kbul hotI hE.
8
73a nuKta-valIdEn kI trfse hj AOr ]mre kI ksrt krna
satva. nuKta-valIdEn kI quxI ke il0 Aamale Svailha me
jLdI krna
9.11
Aa#va. hk-vaildEn kI ksm ko purI krna
9.12 nOva. hk-vaildEn kI trfse nflI roje rqna
dsva. hk-mdoR. ke il0 vaildEn kI kbr kI Jyart krna
9.13 ma>-bap kI [taAt pr [nam
fjRe ikfaya me. ma> bap ko fOkIyt dena
9.14
bnI [sra{l ke tIn AadmIyo. ka vakIya
9.15
ma> ka idl duqanepr iftne me pD jana
9.16 AvEs krnI ka vakIya
9.17
ma> kI mmta
9.18 ma> ko mnana Aasan kam hE
0k sCca vakIya
10.5
nek bIvI ka vakIya
AOlad kI trbIyt-ma> bap ka iftrI Aml
10.6 ma> bap kI duAa bexk kbul hotI hE
phlI bat-hlal mal se AOlad kI prvrIx kre.
10.7
bCce ko ma> Apna du2 pIla0
bCce nKkal hote hE.
bCce ko hya xmR AOr pakdamnI valI ij.dgI isqa0.
10.8
9
ma>-bap kI narajgI ALlah kI narajgI
10.12
bIve ke hukUk ApnI jgh,ma>-bap ke hukUk ApnI jgh
10.13
10
rote bCco. ko kEse DIl kre.?
11.10 7o3o. ke zgDe bDo. ke zgDe kEse bnte hE.
11
shabIyat ka [Lm pane ka xOk
12.6
la [LmI kI vjhse bCcIyo. me bura{ya> AajatI hE.
12.7
bCcI ko ma> 6rdarI,qanadarI ke kam sIqana
12.8 nbI ke be3Iyo. ke vakIyat
12.9
bCcIya> ma> bap kI duAa0. le.
12.10 ma> ko Apna doSt bna0.
12.11
musa ka vakIya
nbI kI bhn ixma ka vakIya
12.12
bCcIya> 6rke kam kaj s.wale.
12.13
sYyda Asma ka vaikya
12.14
sYyda Asma kI Aklm.dI ka vakIya
12.15
sYyda faitma ka vakIya
12.16 tsbIhate fatIma
12.17
sbse bhetr AOrt
12.18 sYyda fatIma ka ALlah kI muhBbt ka vakIya
12.19 bCcIya> 6rke kam kaj ko [Jjt smze.
12.20 be3Iya> bDI muhBbt valI AOr qEr v brkt valI hotI hE.
ALlahtAala ke yha> nek bCcI kI kdr v kImt
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ma> ka du2
13.8
DBbe ke du2 nuksanat
13.9
bCce kI thnIk krvana
13.10
bCce ke kan me Ajan khna
13.11 bCce ka AC7a nam rqna
AkIka krna
13.12
ma> kI itlavat ka Asr
13.13
ALlah ka nam bCce ko sIqana
13.14 nek ma>Ao. kI lorIya>
13.28
bCce ke nFsIyat ka mutala krna
13
13.33 ibbI mrym kI duAa
ihfajt ka ihsar
bavju qana pka0.
14.12
bCce ke idl me ALlah ka tsVvur pEda krna
14
15.7 [mam bakr kI nsIhte.
15.12
nek AOlad kI trbIyt
15.13 ALlahtAala se nek AOlad kI duAa ma.ge
15
16
16.1
16.2
16.3
16.4
16.5
16.6
16.7
16.8
16.9
16.10
16.11
16.12
16.13
16.14
16.15
16.16
16.17
16.18
16.19
16.20
16.21
16.22
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16.23
16.24
16.25
16.26
16.27
16.28
16.29
16.30
16.31
16.32
16.33
16.34
16.35
16.36
16.37
16.38
16.39
17
17.1
17.2
17.3
17.4
17.5
17
17.6
17.7
17.8
17.9
17.10
17.11
17.12
17.13
17.14
17.15
17.16
17.17
17.18
17.19
17.20
17.21
17.22
17.23
17.24
17.25
17.26
17.27
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17.28
17.29
17.30
17.31
17.32
17.33
17.34
17.35
17.36
17.37
17.38
18
18.1
18.2
18.3
18.4
18.5
18.6
18.7
18.8
18.9
18.10
19
18.11
18.12
18.13
18.14
18.15
18.16
18.17
18.18
18.19
18.20
18.21
AjRe murTtb
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AYyame rjaAt
sbse phla mksd idl ka sukun haisl ho ja0| ALlah rBbul [Jjt ne kurAan
mjId me. frmaya
bkra :
ik jEse ilbas [.san ke ijSm ke 0ebo. ko !a>p leta hE [sI trh xadI ke bad
[.san ke il0 gunaho.se bcna,pakIjgI kI ij.dgI gujarna Aasan ho jata|
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tIsra mkSd hE [.sanI nsl ko bakI rqna| itbranI me. Abu hFsa
se irvayt hE ik nbI ne [rxad frmaya ik tum AOlad ke
hone ko mt 7oDo|be AOlad AadmI jb mr jata hE to ]ska namoinxan im3
jata hE|
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| AOlad kI caht imya> ibvI kI
iftrI tmNna-
leikn xadI ke bad imya> ibvI kI 0k iftrI tmNna hotI hE ik ALlahtAala
hme. AOlad Ata kr de| [sil0 ik bCco.ke bgEr qubsurt 6r wI vIran AOr gEr
Aabad njr Aata hE| ALlahtAala ne hr mdR ke idl me. ye caht rqI ik mE.
bap bnu.|hr AOrt ke idl me. ye caht rqI ik mE. ma> bnu.|
[sil0 hmne deqa k{ mtRba 0k lDkI ijskI xadI ko ku7 sal gujr g0,p!I ilqI
hE,qubsurt he,qaivNd kI muhBbt ]se imltI hE,6rme. hr icj kI shult mOjud
hE leikn ]das njr AatI hE|]skI vjh Kya? ik ]sko ]MmId nhI lg rhI AOr vo
ma> nhI bn rhI|[sil0 vo [laj wI krvatI hE|duAa0. wI krvatI hE|thJjud wI p!
tI hE,AOlad kI duAa| kurAan p!tI hE, AOlad kI duAa|iksI ALlahvale kI
mjils me. g{, AOlad kI duAa|iksI fkIr ko ku7 idya, AOlad kI duAa|hj ]mre
pr g{, AOlad kI duAa|Ab [s nOjvan bCcI ko malum hE ik Agr AOlad ka
islisla xu= huva to nO mhIne to muze iblkul ibmar jEsI halt me. rhna
pDega|n qana AC7a lgega AOr hr vKt ]bka{ Aa0gI AOr ijSm ke A.dr AjIb
sI halt hogI AOr ]ske bad jb bCce kI pEda[x ka vKt hoga to AOrt ke il0 to
ij.dgI AOr mOt ka mamla hota hE|ifr ]ske bad ]sko pta hE ik bCce kI
vjhse muze do sal km se km Sleepless nights n so kr gujarnI pDe.gI|
leikn vo ye sarI prexanI brdaXt krne ko tyar hE AOr duAa0. ma>gtI
hE,ALlah muze AOlad kI neAmt Ata kr de|[sil0 khte hE. ik be3I rhmt hotI
hE|[ske il0 A.bIya ne wI duAa0. ma.gI|
A.ibya:
hjrt jkrIya ne ijs trh AOlad ke il0 duAa ma>gI AOr ijtnI AajIjI se
ma>gI sure mrym kI c.d xurvatI Aayte. p! kr Aa>qo.se Aa.su inkl Aate
hE. ik yu. kh rh h.E
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0e ALlah mere bal sfed ho g0 hE. leikn [ske
bavjud
mrym :
0e mre prvridgar mE. AwI wI duAaAo. ke kbul hone se mayus nhI
huva|
yanI AOlad kI duAa ma.gt ma.gte bu!apa Aa gya AOr AwI ALlah kI trf
lO lga{ huvI hE|ifr kha
mrym:
0e ALlah muze nek be3a Ata kr idjI0|
saFfat:
0k jgh frmaya
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AalI [mran :
bkra:
to deiq0 ApnI AOlad kI wI nekI kI duAa ma.g rhe hE.|0k jgh frmate hE.
[brahIm:
[brahIm:
Apne il0 wI duAa ma.gI AOr AOlad ke il0 wI duAa ma.gI| 0k jgh kha
[brahIm:
furkan:
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0e ALlah hmarI ibvIyo. AOr AOlado. me. se 0esa bna jo
khf:
AalI [mran:
0k jgh frmaya
hdId:
AOr ]nme se 0k hE " vldun sailh " Agr ]sne Apne pI7e nek AOlad
7oDI to ye nek AOlad Apne ma> bap ke il0 sdka 0 jarIya bn jatI hE|
[mam gjalI ilqte hE. ik jb momIn ko ALlahtAala AOlad Ata frma
dete hE. AOr vo ]nko nekI ke raSte pr lata hE,talIm v trbIyt ka qyal krta
hE AOr vo klma khne vala bn jata hE ,nek bn jata hE to AOlad ke hr-hr
sa.s pr ma> bap ke nam 0 Aamal me. ALlahtAala 0k nekI ilq dete hE.|
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ye AOlad nek n bn ja0 to ye purI ij.dgI ka gm hE| ye mhIne ya sal kI
bat nhI hE blik ye purI ij.dgI ka gm hE|cuna.ce deiq0 ik hm nmaj p!te
hE.,nmaj bCce ko xu= krva{ jatI hE sat sal kI ]mr se to vo duAa p!ta
hE|
[brahIm:
Ab sat sal ke bCce kI AOlad to nhI hotI leikn duAa ma.g rha hE|ye to
qud bCca hE AOr ye bCca wI yhI duAa ma.g rha hE|
[brahIm:
AalI [mran:
0e ALlah jo mere bdn me. hE mE. ]s hone vale bCce ya bCcI ko dIn ke
il0 vKf kr idya,ALlah [sko kbul kr iljI0|
Ab soic0 ik ma> ke pe3 me. AwI bCca hE AOr ma> ]skI nekI kI ifk/ me.
lgI huvI hE|ifr jb ye bCce jvanI kI ]mr ko phu.cte hE. to ma> bap ko ifk/
lgI hotI hE|[skI imsal kurAan AjImuXxan me. hE|sYydana nuh
ka jvan be3a samne qDa hE Aap ]sko bulate hE.|
hud:
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to jvanI me. wI ifk/ hE [skI|
ifr jb ma> bap bu!e ho jate hE. to wI AOlad kI ifk/ hotI hE|kurAan mjId
ne gvahI dI frmaya,
bkra :
yakub kI vfat ka vKt Aaya |]s vKt Apne bCco.ko jma krke pu7
the hE. " 0e mre be3o.,mere bad ikskI [badt kroge? "mrte mrte AOlad
ka gm hE|to malum huva ik ye ko{ mhIne ya sal kI bat nhI hE blik ye
ij.dgI wr ka rog hota hE|ma> bap ko koxIx wI krna pDtI hE| [sil0 AOlad
kI trbIyt bDI Ahm hE AOr hm me. se hr 0k ko j=rI hE|ye ma> bap kI
ijMmedarI hE ik vo AOlad kI trbIyt kre.|
thrIm:
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AOlad ko nek bnane ke il0 Kya Kya koxIxe. kI.?hr AOrt [skI pab.d hE ik
Apne bCco.ko nek AOr dIndar bna0|Agr nhI bna0gI to ye AOlad kyamt
ke idn pkD kI vjh bnegI|
[mam gjalI ne ApnI iktab AYyuhl vLd me. ilqa ik drQt do trh ke
hote hE|0k hote hE. qudrO,ye jb pEda hote hE. to be !.ge hote hE.|khI.
#hnIya> b!I huvI hE.,khI. 63I huvI hE.|khI. qubsurtI njt nhI AatI,be joDsI
cIj njr AatI hE|[sil0 ik qudrO drQt jo huva|0k AOr drQt vo hota hE ijs ko
malI qud ]gata hE AOr xu= se ka>3-7a>3 krta hE|to bCce kI imsal 0esI
hI hotI hE|jo ma>-bap AOlad pEda hone ke bad ]nse gflt brtte hE. vo
AOlad qudrO pOde jEsI hE|
[skI imsal ye smz iljI0 ik bahr muLk me. jo nOjvan jate hE. jab ke
il0,p!ne ke il0 to ]nme se ku7 bhut jLdI gflt ka ixkar bn jate hE.|]l3e
kamo. me. lg jate hE.|kLbo. me. jate hE.,hram qate hE.,hram kam krte
hE. leikn 0ese gaifl ikSm ke lDke dIn ko nhI 7oDte|xrabI hE,janI hE.,jo
mjIR cahe krte hE.|leikn jb pu7o ]nse to ALlah ka [krar kre.ge|nbI
kI irsalt ka [krar kre.ge|to hme. bhut vKt tk ye soc jhn me. rhI
ik 0esI ij.dgI jo deqne me. muslman AOr kaifr ka fkR hI pta nhI clta leikn
{man kI muhBbt AwI wI idl me. hE|ifr ja kr ye bat clear huvI ik Asl me.
{man ]Nho.ne ApnI ma> kI god se isqa 4a AOr Aamal ]Nho.ne bDe ho
kr qud Apna0 4e|to jo icj qud Apna{ 4I ]sko 7oDna Aasan AOr jo icj
ma> kI god me. imlI 4I ]sko 7oDna muxikl 4a|[sil0 ma> kI god se bCca
jo pa leta hE vo sarI ij.dgI ]ska asset
bna rhta hE|
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sYyda Aa0xa isIka frmatI hE. " jo AadmI bCce kI prvrIx
krta rhta hE yha> tk ik vo la [laha [llLlah p!ne lge to ALlahtAala kyamt
ke idn ]s AadmI ka ihsab nhI le.ge|" subhanLlah|
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[sil0 jo AadmI cahe ik AOlad nek bne,to phela kam ye kre ik vo nek
ibvI !.u!e|ifr AOlad ka nek bn jana Aasan ho ja0ga|bap ijtnI mjIR koxIx
krle,jb tk ma> ]ska sa4 nhI degI AOlad nek nhI bn sktI|qaivNd bCco.ko
smza smzake jata hE|ye kro ,vo kro,ye mt kro, vo mt kro AOr jb 0k 6.3e
kI nsIht krke 6rse inklta hE to pI7e ma> bCco.ko kh detI hE ik tuMhare
bap ka to idmag qrab hE|[s 0k jumle ne 0k 6.3e kI mehnt kI nsIht ko 2o
kr rq idya|
AOlad Kya nek bnegI? [sil0 phla Point ye ik ibvI nek ho|nek ibvIya>
nek AOlad ka buinyadI vjh bntI hE.| Aage to hr 0k ka Apna nsIb hota hE|
mgr Aam tOr pr ]sUl yhI hE ik ma> Agr nek hogI to vo ApnI AOlad ko wI
nekI isqa0gI|[skI dlIl sun iljI0|
khf :
deqe. ALlahtAala ]n ytIm bCco.ka ilhaj frmate hE. ik ]nke bap nek 4e|to
nek ma> bap ka ilhaj duinya me. wI AOr nek ma> bap ka ilhaj AaqIrt
me. wI|vo kEse ? ik AOlad kyamt ke idn hoga|bCce ApnI trfse duinya
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me. nekI kI koxIx krte 4e|mgr ma> bap ke djRe ko nhI phu.c ske|to
ALlahtAala frma0.ge AC7a,cu.ik tum fla> kI AOlad ho AOr tumne koxIx
kI clo hm tuMhara hxr ]nke sa4 krte
hE.|
tur :
deqa kurAane mjId ne mohr lga dI ik ALlahtAala 0esI AOlado. ko ma>
bap ke sa4 svab Ata kre.ge|
Ab Aaj ke idn bCce kI pEda{x se lekr ]nkI du2 pIne kI jo ]mr hotI hE
ijnko AYyame rjaAt khte hE.,]nke bare me. c.d bate. bta dete hE.|ifr ]
ske bad AOlad kI trbIyt kEse krnI hE ? vo rojana 4oDa-4oDa mjmun
byan ikya ja0ga|
mrym :
0e kax mE. [sse phle mr hI g{ hotI|to ma> ke il0 vo 0esI hI kEfIyt hotI
hE|to ]lma ne ilqa jb iksI AOrt ko labor pains ho|bCce kI delivery ka vKt
krIb ho to ]s vKt me. wI ]sko 0k to klma p!na caih0 AOr dusra ye duAa
ma.gnI caih0 " ya ALlah mere il0 AasanI frma"|ye 0esa mujrbR duAa hE
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ik jo bCcI ]s vKt me. ye duAa p!tI hE, ALlahtAala kI mdd ]trtI hE|
ALlahtAala Aasan frma dete hE.|
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jb bCcekI pEda{x ho to 0k kam hota hE ]ske sI2e kan me. Ajan
khna AOr ba0. kan me. [kamt khna| hdIse mubarka me. hE ik sYydna
| thnIk krna-
0k kam ye wI krna hota hE jo ik suNnt hE, thnIk|Asma
ihjrt krke jb mdIna tYyba phu.cI to ]s vKt vo haimla 4I.|kuba ke mkam
pr phu.cI to ]nke yha> be3a huva|ijs ka nam ]Nho.ne AbduLlah rqa AOr
ye bCca AbduLlah [bne juber khlaya|ye muslman muhaijrIn ke yha>
phla bCca 4a jo mdIne me. pEda huva AOr muslamno. ko [skI pEda{x
pr bDI quxI 4I|vo [sil0 ik yhud ye khte 4e ik [n muslmano ne Apne
purane dIn ko 7oD idya Ab [nkI Aage nsl hI nhI clegI|to Ab
ALlahrBbul[Jjt ne muslmano. ko [s be3ese nvaja to quxI AOr b! g{|Asma
| AkIka krna-
satve. idn 0k AOr Aml hE|]sko khte hE. AkIka krna|AkIka ye hE ik Agr
be3a pEda huva to do bkre,be3I pEda huvI to 0k bkra,ye ijbah ikya ja0
AOr ifr AjIj AkarIb irxtedaro.ko davtpr bulaya ja0 AOr ]nko iqlaya ja0|ye
AkIka krna Ahm hE|iksI ne [mam mailk se pu7a ik [tna grIb b.da
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hE ik AkIke ka bkra qrId nhI skta to ]Nhone frmaya,AC7a wa{ tum
mugIR hI ijbah kr do|ku7 n ku7 ALlah ke nampr kubaRn j=r kro AOr ye
wI j=rI nhI ik isfR 0k bkra k3ana hE|Agr fjR kro ko_{ 0esa AadmI hE ik
ijsko ALlah ne bhut mal idya hE to vo k{ bkre wI ka3 skta hE|hjrt Ans
ne Apne hr bCce ke honepr 0k }.3 ijbah frmaya krte 4e|ye
AkIka Kya hE? hdIse mubarka me. hE ik bCca jb pEda hota hE to 0k to ]
s bCceke ha4 b.2e huve hote hE.|jb vo bCce ke il0 AkIke ke bkre id0
jate hE. to Ab ye bCca kyamt ke idn Apne ma>-bap kI xfaAt ka hk pa
leta hE|[sil0 ye AkIka ApnI ij.dgI me. bDe ho kr wI ikya ja skta hE ik
AkIka krne se bCce ko ma>-bap kI xfaAt ka hk iml jata hE|hjrt xah
vlIvuLlah muhIse dhlvI frmate hE. ik Asl me. [n janvro. ko
kubaRn krne se [brahImI suNnt yad krna mKsud 4I AOr sa4 me. ye wI
frmate hE. ik AkIka krna Asl me. doSt irxtedaro.ko bCce kI [Ttla dene ka
behtrIn trIka hE|Ab fjR kro ko{ AkIka na kre. to ]sko to hr 0k ko btana
pDega ik jI mera be3a huva,merI be3I huvI|to xrIAtne kha ik tum jo 0k-
0k ko btate ifroge|]sse behtr hE ik 0k idn sb irxtedaro. ko bulaAo taik vo
wI tuMharI quxIme. xaiml ho. AOr vo wI bCce ke il0 nek bQtI kI duAa
de.|
leikn jhn me. 0k sval pEda hota hE ik satve idn AkIka iKyo. ikya
gya? ]sI idn kr lete|to xah vlIvuLlah frmate hE. ik pEda{x ke idn
to ma>-bap bCce kI pEda{x ke bad s.walne ke Aml me. mxgul hote
hE.| ]nko vKt caih0 ik vo janvr !.u!e,]ska [.tjam kre.| irxtedaro. ko bula0.
ifr mehman nvajI kre.|to xrIAt ne ye sat idnka munaisb vKt de idya taik
[sse tum ApnI hEsIyt ke mutaibk AkIke ka [.tjam krlo AoEr ApnI
irxtedaro. ko ]ske il0 bulalo|
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Aasan ho|k{ mtRba log 0ese nam rq dete hE. ik logo. ke il0 nam
pukarnahI muxkIl ho jatI hE|vo nam ibgaDke lete hE.|
hdIse mubarka me. hE ik c.d icje. iftrt me. hE.|kuLlI krna,nak me.
panI Dalna,mU.7e ktrvana,imsvak krna, naqUn ktrvana,bgl ke bal saf
krna,jere naf bal saf krna AOr lDko.kI qtna krvana|0k hdIse mubarka
me. hE ik car cIje. sunnul murslIn hE.|yanI tmam rsulo. kI suNnt
hE,Common suNnt hE|]nme se 0k quxbu lgana,dusra imsvak krna,tIsra
qtna krvana AOr cO4a inkah krna AOr satve idn jb ye Aamal ho g0 to
Ab [s bCce ko do sal tk du2 pIlana ye [skI ma> kI ijMmedarI hotI hE|
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ne hd jarI frmaya|yanI bCceko du2 iplana [tna Ahm kam hE ik
ALlah ka huKm hE hd jarI krna ]sko wI [ske qatIr do sal derI krdI|
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hotI hE.|ya to ma>-bapne gflt kI vjhse bCce ko vKt nhI idya hota|ya ifr
ma>-bap ko pta hI nhI hota ik bCcekI trbIyt krnI kEse hE|Aaj kl hmare
mahol me. ye buinyadI Reason vjh hE|
bCcIya> ma> bn jatI hE. mgr ]nko ye pta nhI hota ik ma> kI
ijMmedarI Kya hotI hE |vo Apne Akl ke mutaibk, tjubRe ke mutibk,sunI
sna{ bato. ke mutaibk ]s bCce ko Handle kr rhI hotI hE|to jo smzdar
hE,budR bar tbIyt valI hE,]Nho.ne jra bCco. ko jra AC7I trbIyt dedI AOr
ijs kI tbIyt me. guSsa Jyada hE ]sne bat-bat pr bCce ko izdkI dI,kos
idya,bd duAa0. dI|bnane kI bja0 ApnI AOlad ko ]l3a ibgaD idya|to [sil0
AOlad kI trbIyt ka ye mjmun hr AOrt ke il0 p!na,isqna j=rI hE AOr [skI
AhmIyt ka janna j=rI hE|ye Point jhn me. rqe. ik Agr hmne AOlad ko nek
bnane kI koxIx n kI to ye AOlad bDI ho ke hmare il0 vbale jan bnegI|
[sil0 [lmane ilqa hE ik jvan hone ke bad AOlad ma>-bap kI doSt hotI
hE ya ma>-bap kI duxmn hotI hE|Agr nekI pr Aa g0 to ma>-bap ke
doSt AOr Agr ibgD g0 to ma>-bap ke duxmn|[sil0 hmne deqa ibgDe
huve bCce ma>-bap ke il0 sr ddR bn jate hE.|ma>-bap ka jIna hram
krte hE.|
Ahjab:
0e ALlah hmne to Apne bDo. kI [Tteba kI ]nkI bat manI
Ahjab:
ALlah [Nhone hme gumrah ikya
Ahjab:
0e ALlah [nko Dbl Ajab idjI0|
Ahjab:
AOr ALlah [npr lanto. kI barIx kr idjI0|
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frmade|taik ma>-bap kI Aa>qe. #.DI ho.|ALlahtAala jo saihbe AOlad
hE. ]nkI AOlad ko nekokar bna de,jo saihbe AOlad nhI ALlahtAala ]nko
nek AOlad Ata frmade|
AOlad kI
trbIyt ke bara
sunehrI ]sUl
Aaj kI [s mjlIs me. AOlad kI trbIyt ke bara sunehrI ]sUl bta0 ja0.ge|
[n ]sUlo. ke il0 0k Prerequisite icj j=rI wI hE|[skI imsal yu. smze ik Agr
Aap ke pas ko{ bIj hE AOr Aap cahtI hE. ik ]sko jmIn ke A.dr bo de,to ]
ske il0 mOsm ka shI hona ye j=rI hE|Agr sQt sdIR ho ya sQt gmIR ho to
0ese me. Agr bIj bo wI id0 ja0. to vo nhI ]ga krte|hala.ik Apne panI wI
idya,j=rIyat wI purI kI.|mgr mOsm ke shI n hone kI vjhse vo pOda ]g n
ska|[sI trh bCce kI trbIyt krne ke il0 6rke mahol ka AC7a hona
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[.tha{ j=rI|Agr 6rka mahol AC7a nhI hoga to Aap ijtnI mjIR koxIX kr le.
bCce kI trbIyt nhI ho sktI|ye 6rka mahol kEse AC7a ho?
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ib#a0.|]nko smza0. ik ye tuMhare ABbu hE.|to qaivNd bCco.kI njr me.
ma> kI Ajmt b!a0. AOr ibvI bCco.kI njr me. bap kI Ajmt ko pEda kre| to
ifr bCce ma>-bap dono. kI bato. ko mane.ge|
k{ jgho. pr imya> ibvI dono. Apne bCco.kI AC7I trbIyt krna cahte hE.|
6rka mahol i#k nhI hota|imsal ke tOr pr sas-ssur sa4 rhte hE.,nn.d rhtI
hE,to imya> ibvI to cahte hE. AOlad ko nek bna0. AOr bakI 6rke log
subah xam 3I|vI deqte hE.|Ab 0k musIbt qDI huvI|ma>-bap kmre me.
bCce ko rok wI nhI skte AOr Agr jra bahr inkle to gano. kI Aavaje. AOr
Screen ke }pr hrkt krte huve ijSm bCco.ko njr Aate hE.|to bCca ]2r
iq.cta hE|to 0ese me. ma>-bap ko caih0 ik vo Apne valIdEn se ye
irkveS3 kre ik hm Apne bCco. ko nek bnana cahte hE.|mherbanI krke
hmarI mdd kre.|
[sil0 xrIAt ne kha sbse AC7I bat to ye hE ik xadI ke bad Apne be3e ko
krIb ka mkan lekr de idya ja0 taik ma>-bap ke sa4 wI rhe.,mgr ]nka
Apna 0k mahOl wI hE|[s trh zgDe qTm ho jate hE.|vrna deqa ik imya>
ibvI qun ke Aa>su rote hE.|ijtna bCco.ko smzate hE.,sas saihba ya ssur
saheb ifSkofujur valI ij.dgI gujarne vale hote hE.,vo ]l3a pure kam ko hI
ibgaD dete hE.|to [sme [n tIn icjo. ka muAaifk hona ye j=rI hE|
phlI bat ik ma> pusukUn ho,qux ho AOr ]sko qaivNd kI ta{d hsil ho|
dusrI bat ik ma> ne bCco.ke idl me. bap ka vkar ib#aya ho|AJmt
ib#a{ ho,bCco.ko pta ho ik ABbune jo khna hE hme. vhI krna hE AOer
tIsrI icj ye ik 6rka mahOl i#k ho|Agr dusre log 6rme. rhte hE. to vo wI ]n
bCco.ka qyal rqe. ik bCce Agr nekIkI trbIyt pa rhe hE. to hm [nko
ifSkfujUr kI trf n bula0.|jb ye sara mahOl #Ik ho ja0 to ye Prerequiste
hE|Ab Aap yu. smzI0 ik bCce kI trbIyt krnI Aasan ho ja0gI|to bCce kI
trbIyt ke barh ]sUl|
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[s AajIj ko bcpn kI bat yad hE|ye vo vKt hE jb AajIj ApnI vailda ke sa4
0k ibStr pr sota 4a|do tIn sal kI [mr hogI|to rat me. k{ bar Aa>q qultI to
ye AajIj deqta ik vailda ibStr pr nhI hE|]#ke bE# jata|to Aam tOr pr yhI
deqta ik isrhaneje trf vailda saihbane musLla ib7aya huva hota 4a|to vo
]ske }pr thJjud ke nfl p! rhI hotI 4I.|]nkI Aadt ye 4I ik nmaj purI krne ke
bad }.cI Aavaj ke sa4 duAa ma.gtI 4I. AOr Apne AOlad me. se hr 0k
be3e AOr hr 0k be3I ka nam lekr duAa ma.gtI 4I|to k{ bar 0esa hota 4a
ik ye AajIj kI vailda ko duAa ma.gte deqta to [.tjar krta,mera nam kb
Aa0ga|hala.ik 7o3a 4a,pta nhI hota 4a ik vaild kOnsI duAa ma.g rhI hE.
AOr ye sb Kya hota hE? isfR [tnI smz 4I ik bDe wa{yo. ko bhno.ke nam
il0 ja rhe hE.|Ab 0k vKt Aa0ga ik mera nam wI ilya ja0ga AOr jb AaqIr
me. vailda [s AajIj ka nam lekr duAa0. ma.gtI 4I to ye AajIj Aaram se so
jta 4a|Aaj 0hsas hota hE ik xayd vaild kI thJjud kI vo duAa0.e hI hE.
ijsne [s AajIj kI jhalt pr prda Dala huva hE|to ma>-bap kI duAa0.e AOlad
ko nekbQt bna detI hE|
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bat sunI AOr nhI manI|Ab wI vo [sI trh mera vKt brbad krega|to ]Nhone
kha ik Aap ja0.,mE. ]s bCce ke pI7e Apna vKt brbad nhI krna cahta|
ma> vaips Aag{|]sne bCce ko btaya ik tumne ]nka idl duqaya huva hE
ik vo kh rhe hE. ik mE. ]ske pI7e Apna vKt brbad nhI kr skta|
bCce ke idl pr co3 pDI ik mE. [tna bura hu. ik vKt ka vlI mere qatIr
c.d imN3 wI dena nhI cahta|Ab ]ska idl ALlah kI trf lg gya AOr ]sne
ALlahse duAa ma.gI ik 0e ALlah tu hI merI tOba ko kbul frmade|mere
gunaho.ko maf frma de AOer [ske bad ]sne ApnI vailda se kha ik AMmI
Ab merI mOt ka vKt krIb hE|jb mE. mr ja}.,0k to muze 6rme. dfn krna ik
kbirStan me. dfn krogI to kbirStan ke dusre mudo.R ko merI vjhse tklIf n
phu.ce AOr dusa ye ik mE. jb mr ja}. to mere gle me. Apna dupa Dal
kr merI lax ko 6sI3na [sil0 ik jb kuTta mr jata hE to ]skI lax ko 6sI3a jata
hE|]s bCce ke [s AajIjI wre Alfaj ALlah ke hujur ps.d Aag0|AwI bCce ne
kilma p!a 4a,Aa>qe. b.d huvI 4I. ik drvaja q3-q3aya gya|
vo AOrt drvaje ke krIb AayI pu7a kOn? jvab imla hsn bsrI |hjrt
Aap kEse txrIf le Aa0? frmaya mE. so gya 4a Qvab me. muze [xara
huva ik hsn bsrI tu mera kEsa vlI hE ik mere 0k vlI ka jnaja p!
nese [Nkar krta hE|mE. Aap ke be3e ka jnaja p!ne ke il0 haijr hu.|
ma> ko k{ mtRba Decision making fEsla krne me. pexanI hotI hE|
bCceko Handle h>Dl prexanI hotI hE|[sil0 ik hr bCce kI Alg trbIyt hotI
hE|ku7 bCco.kI trbIyt me. tej hotI hE.|ku7 kI trbIyt me. 2Imapn hota hE|
dono ko h>Dl krne ka trIka Alg Alg hota hE|ifr be3o. ke A.dr
Rebelliousness muqailft krna Jyada paya jata hE|bCcIya> Submissive
frmabrdar hotI hE.|to dono ko h>Dl krne ka trIka Alg-Alg hota hE|to iks
mOke pr Kya krna hE ye to Ab ALlahtAala hI idl me. Dale|to ifr ye bat bn
sktI hE vrna k{ mtRba to ApnI Akl,smz kam nhI AatI| to duAa me. 0k to
bCco.kI nek bnne kI duAa ma.ge AOr dusra ye duAa ma.ge ik ALlah
bCco. ke bare me. jo wI ko{ bat ho mere idl me. Dal dIjI0|taik mE.
mOke ke ihsab se AC7a fEsla kr sku.|bCco. ko shI trIke se h>Dl kr sku.|
cuna.ce ye ma>-bap kI duAa0. AOlad ke il0 jqera hotI hE.|
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tIn nOjvan bCce 4e|tIno ka nam AbduLlah 4a AOr tIno nbI kI
iqdmt me. rhte 4e|nbI thJjud me. ]nka nam lekr duAa0. frmate
4e|ntIja ye inkla ik AbduLlah [bne ABbas [mamul mufSsrIn
bne|AbduLla ibn ms]d [mamul fuKha bne|AbduLlah ibn ]mr
Aap gOr kre.,tayf valo.ne nbI ka iktna idl duqaya 4a AOr nbI
ne bdduAa ke bja0 ye kha 4a ik,ho skta hE [nkI AOlado. me.
se Apne Aap ko 7upaya huva 4a AOr 0k kona cadr ka mere srpr wI Dala
huva 4a|to nbI kI iqdmt me. phu.cI AOr kha ik 0e ALlah ke nbI
mere be3e ke il0 duAa frma0.|nbI ne duAa frma{|frmate
hE. ik vo duAa 0esI lgI ik nbI ne frmaya 4a,0e ALlah [ske mal
AOr AOlad me. [jafa frma,brkt frma|0esI brkt huvI frmate hE. mera bag
4a jo sal me. do mtRba fl deta 4a AOr mere pas [tna sona hota 4a ik ]
sko mE. lkDI ka3ne ke kulhaD se toDa krta 4a|Aap jra gOr kre. vo iktna
sona hoga ijs ko kulhaDI se toDa jata hoga|to [tna ALlahne mal idya|
AOlad ALlahne [tnI dI ik frmate 4e ik 0k sO be3e be3Iya>,pote potIya>
mE. ne ApnI Aa>qo.se deqe|to nbI kI duAa ]nke kam Aa[|to
phlI bat duAa krna|
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xfKkt ka mamla krna-
dusra ]sUl bCco. ke sa4 nmIR AOr xfKkt ka mamla krna|k{ bar
deqa ik ma>0 qud guSse valI hotI hE.|jra jrasI bat pr bs bcco. ko Da>3
DP3 krtI hE.|hr vKt bCco.ko Da>3 DP3 krna,[sse wI bCca nafrman bnta
hE|bCca 7o3a hota hE kCca hota hE|]ska idl muhBbt ko jLdI krta hE|
[sil0 nmIR AOr xfKkt ka mamla kre.|bCca jhalt kI bat kr lega,]l3e kam kr
lega,ma> ko brdaXt ke sa4 bDe hOsle ke sa4,sbr ke sa4 Apne bCce se
bat krnI caih0|to nmIR AOr xfKkt ye bCco. kI trbIyt ka dusra ]sUl hE|
#hre 4e|jb rat ka AaqrI phr huva nbI jag g0 AOr Aap ne ]#
kr ye duAa ik namtIl ]yun v gartIl njum v bakIyl hYyul kYyum ifr
Aapne sure Aail {mran kI Aayt p!I|
AalI {mran:
ifr vuju frmaya AOr musLlepr g0|to [bne ABbas frmate hE. ik
mE. wI ]#a vuju ikya AOr nbI ke ba0. trf pI7r Aakr qDa ho gya|
jb mE.ne inYyt ba.2 lI to nbI ne muze k.2e se pkDa AOr sI2e trf
Apne krIb qDa ikya|4odI der ke bad mE. ifr vaips ]sI jgh pr cla gya|nbI
ne [sI trh Apne krIb qDa kr ilya|mE. ifr ApnI jgh cla gya|nmaj
ke A.dr tIn bar 0esa huva|tIsrI mtRba ALlah ke hbIb ne mere k.2e pr
ha4 rqa AOr muze Apne sI2e trf krIb kr ke qDa kr ilya|jb nmaj purI huvI
to tb pu7a tum ]s jgh iKyo. n qDa rhe ijs jgh mE. ne qDa ikya 4a? to mE.
ne jvab idya,0e ALlah ke hbIb mE. Aap ke krIb kEse qDa hota,muze
izjk ho rhI 4I|muze pI7e qDa hona AC7a lg rha 4a|to mere [s jvab ko
sun kr nbI qux huve AOr Aapne duAa dI,
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tfsIr ka [Lm Ata frma|
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raSteme svarIke vKt bCceko Agr ko{ bat khI ja0 to ]ske idmag pr jLd
Asr krtI hE|
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| tIsra vKt- jb bCca qana qata
hE -
0k tIsra vKt hota hE jb bCca qana qa rha hota hE|]s vKt wI bCca
bhut bate. krta hE,pu7ta hE|nbI ne qaneke vKt wI nsIhte.
qaAo AOr Apne krIb se qaAo|vo khte hE. ik brtn me. khI. jI cahta vha>
se gox ]#a kr qa rha 4a|to ALlah ke nbI ne Pyar se nsIht
kI,sI2e ha4 se qaAo AOr Apne krIbse qaAo|to ye qane ka vKt wI bCco.ko
smzane ka behtrIn trIka hE|
nhI dI|0k idn vo bCca bImar ho gya|to ALlah ke nbI ko pta cla
to Aapne frmaya ]s bCce ko deq Aate hE.|Aap ] ske 6r txrIf la0|
yhudI bap bDa qux huva ik mere be3e ko deqne Aa0 hE.|nbI
ne muskurakr ]sse bat kI,bCca wI bDa qux ho gya|0ese vKt me. jb
ALlah ke nbI ne deqa [ska idl mutvJja hE to frmaya ik 0e bCce
mE. tuze [slam kbul krne kI davt deta hu.|jEse hI nbI ne
frmaya to ]s bCce ne Apne bap kI trf deqa to bap ke idl pr wI Asr
huva,vo khne lga be3e Abulkaism kI bat ka [.kar n kro|Ab ]s bCce ne
kilma p!a AOr ku7 der ke bat ]skI vfat ho g{|to bImarIka vKt wI bCco. ko
smzane ke il0 behtrIn vKt hota hE|
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| cO4a ]sUl-bCco. ke jhnI sth
Level ke mutaibk bat kre.-
cO4a ]sUl ye hE ik bCco. ke jhnI sth ke mutaibk bat kre.|
kLlImuNnas Ala kdrI ]hulI logo.se ]nkI Akl ke mutaib bat kro|to
bCco.ka jhn 7o3a hota hE|to ]nko wI bat bhut Simplify qol kr bhut
smzake krnI pDtI hE|Aam tOrpr ma0. 0k bat kr detI hE. AOr Agr bCce n
smz ske. to Da>3 DP3 kr detI hE.|[s trh kam nhI clta|bCco. ke jhnI sth
ko deq kr ]ske mutaib bat kre.|
| nbI kI ihkmt-
hdIse pak me. hE ik nbI jb bdr ke il0 txrIf le g0 to raSte
me. 0k jgh Aap ne shaba ko weja ik ja0. AOr duxmn ke lxkrkI qbr
lekr Aa0.|to shaba ko 0k lDka iml gya jo kaifro. ke lxkr me.
se Aarha 4a AOr ]ske bare me. pura pta 4a|shaba ne ]sko pkD ilya|]sse
pu7a btaAo wa{ [n kaifro. kI tadad iktnI hE? vo kwI ku7 btata,kwI ku7
btata|shabane sQtI kI yha> tk ik ]skI ip3a{ wI huvI|mgr vo bta nhI pa rh
rha 4a ik vo iktne hE.|kwI ku7 khta to kwI ku7 khta|shaba ]
sko nbI ke pas lekr Aa0|
iksI mtRba 0k ba.dI nbI kI iqdmt me. Aa{|vo Anp! 4I|to nbI
trf ikya hE AOr kha [sne kilma p!a muslman ho g{|]skI smzhI [tnI 4I|
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0k mtRba 0k hbxn bCcI 4I|to nbI ne ]se hbxI juban ke lFj
khkr pukara|0k bCcI ]Mme qalId 4I|to nbI ]nke 6r g0 to ]nkI
AMmIne ]sko kurta bdlvaya|to nbI ne ]sse kha ]Mme qalId
tuMhara kmIj sna hE|sna ka lFj hE AOr [ska mtlb qubsurt hota hE|to
deqo ALlah ke hbIb ] s 7o3I bCcI ke sa4 ]sI juban me. bat-cIt fmaR
rhe hE.|
lukman :
]n nsIhto. ko p!e. AOr ]sse sbk sIqe. ik ma>-bap ko Apne bCco.ke sa4
kEse saf-saf bat-cIt ke sa4 nsIht krnI krnI caih0|
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hUd:
yad hE [s AajIj ko ik sEfuLlah bhut 7o3o 4a|tIn car sal kI ]mr hogI|to
0k bar mere pas Aakr bE# gya to mEne [ske samne jNnt ka tjkIra jra
tfsIl se ikya|0esI hogI,0esI hogI,0ese ALlah ka dIdar hoga|jb ko{ p.drah
bIs imnI3 jNnt ka mjmun mEne [ske samne qola to bCca [tna mutm{n
huva ik muzse khne lga,ABbujI cle. jNnt me. ? to deiq0 AwI bCco.ke
samne bat kI AOr AwI ]ska jNnt me. janeko idl kr rha hE|to vakIyat byan
krna ye wI bCco.kI trbIyt ke il0 0k [.tha{ behtrIn ]sUl hE|
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jb ye log neAmto. kI ij.dgI gujar rhe 4e,to vo phlevale b.de ke pas
Aaya,mE. mohtaj hu.|Aapke pas ALlah ka idya huva bhut ku7 hE|0k vKt
4a Aap ke pas ku7 nhI 4a|ALlahne [tna ku7 idya|Aap muze ALlahke
nampr de de.|[sko bDa guSsa Aaya,tumne ye kEse kh idya ik tuMhare
pas ku7 nhI 4a|mE. to AmIr bap ka be3a hu.,mera dada AmIr,fla> AmIr|
cle jaAo yha>se|]sne izDka kr ]se vha>se inkal idya|jb ye jane lga to
[sne kha,AC7 imya> jEse 4e ALlahtAala tuze vEsa bna de.|to vo ifr bsR
ka mrIj bn gya AOr 0esI bImarI huvI AOr ]ske sare janvr mr g0|
Ab Agr bCce ko ye vaikya suna0. AOr ifr ]sko bta0. ik jo ALlah hme
neAmt deta hE,hme ]ske nampr qcR krna caih0|to bCce ke A.dr iktna
jJba pEda ho ja0ga ? vo khega ik AMmI,sb ku7 qcR kr idjI0|[strh A.ibya
ikram ke vaikyat ,AOlIya ALlah ke vaikyat sunakr ]sse ntIja inkala kre.
AOr ifr bCce ko sIqaya kre. ik ye hona caih0|to bCco.pr 0esI bate. jLdI
Asr kr jatI hE.|ye bat ]sko jhn-nxIn ho jatI hE,yad ho jatI hE|
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jEse nbI shaba ko frmaya sLlU Kya rAEthunI ]sLlI tum
0esI nmaj p!o jEse muze nmaj p!te deqte ho|yanI ye 0k tujubaRtI deqa
trIka hE|0k krke idqana Demonstration dena AOr dusre ko khna ik 0ese
kro|to ma>-bap ko wI caih0 ik vo Apne bCco.ko k{ mtRba kam krne ke
il0 [s trIke ko [QtIyar kre.|]nko bta0. ik w{ kEse ikya jata hE|imsal ke
tOrpr ma>-bap ka 0htram sIqna hE|Ab Agr bCco.ko dada dadIke pas g0
to ma>-bap qud bqud ]nko 0htram kre. ]nse AC7e A.daj se guFtgu
kre.,Aadb ke sa4|to bCca qud b qud smz lega ik [Nho.ne Apne ma>-bap
ke sa4 Agr 0esa mAamala ikya to muze Apne ma>-bap ke sa4 0esa
krna hE|ye tjubaRtI trIka bCceke il0 bhut AC7a hota hE|
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nmaj iKyo. nhI p!I ? w{ bCce ko nmaj p!ne ke il0 Aap kh rhe hE. to qud
wI 4oDI tklIf ]#a iljI0|]s bCceke samne jb Aap nmaj p!e.ge to bCca qud
Aap ke pas Aakr nmaj p!na xu= kr dega|to nekI me. bCco. kI mdd krna
j=rI hE|
nox frma rhe hE.,qana qa rhe hE. AOr Aap ke sI2e jainb 0k 7o3a bCca
Aakr bE# gya|ALlah ke nbI ne panI bcaya to Aap ke ba0. trf Left
Side pr 0k bDI ]mr ke shabI bE#e huve 4e|Aap ka idl cahta 4a ik Aap ]s
shabI ko panI de. mgr Aapne sI2e trf bE#e bCce se pu7a ik tum mere
sI2e trf ho,tuMhara hk Jyada bnta hE,Agr [jajt do to ye panI mE. ba0. trf
vale ko dedu.|vo bCca smzdar 4a khne lga,ALlah ke nbI ,Aap ke bce
huve panI me. to mE. iksI ko [jajt nhI du.ga|ALlahuAkbr,ALlah ke hbIb
ne bCce ko pIne ke il0 panI Ata frmaya|[sil0 ]lmane ilqa hE ik bgEr
iksI vjh ke bCco.me. wed-wav krna hram hE|sb bCce hE.|
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nIle Aasman kI trh hE|duinya me. jha> wI Aap ho Aap njr ]#a0.,Aap ko
nIla Aasman njr Aa0ga|ij.dgI ke iksI moDpr wI Aap qDI hE.,jra Aa>q ]#a
kr deqe.|mere Aaka kI sIrt nIele Aasman kI trh njr Aa0gI|hr kdm pr
rhnuma{,hr jgh pr rhnuma{|
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Ab ]mEr 0k 7o3e shabI lDke 4e|]Nhone icDIya palI huvI 4I|
jEse 6rme tota palte hE. ya ko{ AOr icj mEna pal lete hE.|to vo ]s icDIya
ke sa4 qelte 4e|hjrt hsn ]nke krIb 0k kuTte ka bCca 4 vo ]nko
AC7a lgta 4a vo ]sko ro3I ka 3ukDa Dal idya krte 4e|to deqa ye bCce ]s
jmane me. wI ku7 n ku7 qelne ka [nka imjaj 4a|[sil0 ye iqlOne ya 0esI
icje. bCco.kI ij.dgI me. hotI hE.|mgr [spr Aap gOr kre. ik ye icje. bIgaDne
valI nhI honI caih0|imsal ke tOr pr Agr bCca khta hE ik muze Music saj
sunne ke il0 fla> icj lakr de. to 0esI icje. lekr nhI denI caih0|ha> kurAan
kI itlavt sunna hE to,nat sunna hE to ]ske il0 lekr denI caih0|to icje. wI
0esI jo [nke nek bnne me. [nkI mdd kre|Aajkl ma0. ApnI ms=ifyat kI
vjhse bCco.ko ms=f krna cahtI hE. ik mE. Apna kam kr sku.|to ye
ka3Run vgEra lakr detI hE. i3|vI ke }pr AOr bCco.ko ifr i3|vI deqne kI
Aadt pD jatI hE|
[ske il0 jyada AC7a to yhI he ik Agr bCca jra bDI ]mr ka hE to ]nko 0k
7o3asa Computer k.ipyu3r lekr idya ja0 AOr ]s Computer k.ipyu3r pr ]
nko Games qel lgakr de dI ja0.|ku7 Programs 0ese hote hE. jo ]nme
Games qel hotI hE.,imsal ke tOrpr 0k AadmI hE vo 0k jgh par krta hE ifr
dusrI jgh ifr tIsrI S3ej ifr cO4I S3ej|to bCce ]spr bE# kr qel rhe hote hE.
AOr ]nka vKt gujr rha hota hE|[s trh ke iqlOne i3|vI kI insbt bdrjah behtr
hE. mgr Computer k.ipyu3r me. ]nko Internet [.3rne3 ka Connection
knekxn kwI wI nhI dena caih0 AOr Programs vhI ho. ijnko ma>-bap qud
qrIde. AOr ifr bCco. ko de. taik ]sme. beprdgI kI tsvIre. n ho|mOsIkI n
ho,[s trh kI icje. n ho|to Agr 0esa kr ilya ja0 to hmne deqa ik bCco.ke
qelne ke il0 wI surt inkl AatI hE AOr vo prexan wI nhI hote ik hmare il0
to krne ke il0 ku7 wI nhI hE|to [nke iqlOne wI 0ese ho. ik [n iqlOno.se ye
bura{ ka Asr n le.|
sure Aaraf:
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ik mE. tuMhe nsIht kr rha hu.|ALlah hu Akbr|to hr vKt mlamt krna AOr
bCco.ke samne krna ye wI bCco.ke ibgDne kI vjh bn jata hE|ifr vo bCce
mlamtp/uf bn jate hE.|hjrt ]mr frmate hE. ik tuMhara be3a
tuMhare turkx ka tIr hota hE|jEse tum bnaAoge vo vEsahI bnega|Ans
frmate hE. ik mE.ne nbI kI ds sal iqdmt kI AOr ds salo.
Agr bCcene ko{ kam ]l3a wI kr idya to bja0 ]sko Da>3 DP3 iplane ke
smzake bat kre. ik be3e Agr Aap 0esa krte to Jyada behtr hota|to bCca
bat ko smz ja0ga ik ha> 0ese krna caih0|
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le rha hE AOr ]sko smza wI rhe hE. ik ye Amant 4I AOr tuMhe phu.canI
4I|
bCco.kI
nFsIyatI trbIyt
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Aaj ka ]nvan hE bCco.kI nFsIyatI trbIyt|soc ifk/ ke 0tbar se bCce ke
A.dr 0k AC7a [.san bn ja0 [sko nFsIyatI trbIyt kha jata hE|
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0k bar 0k bCca nbI ke sa4 bE#a huva qana qa rha 4a|Aap
ne frmaya,0e lDke,ibsimLlah p!o AOr sI2e ha4 se qaAo|0k bar hjrt
[Bne ABbas nbI ke pas 4e|to nbI ne
frmaya,0e mere wtIje|ye hJjtul ivda ka idn 4a|mEdane Arfat me. 4e|to
nbI ne frmaya ik ye 0esa idn hE ik jo AadmI kan,Aa>q v juban
kI ihfajt kre ALlahtAala [s idn me. ]ske gunaho. kI mgifrt frma deta hE|
Ans 7o3e bCce 4e|nbI kI iqdmt me rhte 4e|to Aap
k{ bar ]nko 0e be3e kh kr pukarte 4e|Ab nam se pukarna wI AC7I bat
hE leikn Agr ]sko wtIja khe.,be3a khe. to [sse ]sme AOr Jyada Apna[yt
ka 0hsas hota hE|
]nko jubEnb frmate 4e|to [strh ]ske nam me. tbdIlI kr dena
nam ko Apna{yt ke isre ke sa4 Ada kr dena [sse bCce me. wI Apna{yt
pEda ho jatI hE|vo bCca ifr tvJjoh ke sa4 bat sunta hE|Apna smzega to
nsIht ko pLle ba.2ega|[s bare me. ma>-bap ko caih0 ik vo bCce ko
iqtab kre. to hmexa Aap deqe. bDa AadmI ho AOr dusra b.da =qe lFjo.
me iqtab kr de to iktna guSsa Aata hE|b.da feel 0hsas krta hE ik [sne to
merI ko{ Respect [Jjt hI nhI kI|to jb bDI ]mrka AadmI cahta hE ik muze
0htram ke sa4 bulaya ja0,]sko jb 0htram ke sa4 ko{ bula0 to ]ske mn
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me quxI hotI hE|7o3e bCce ka wI yhI mamla hota hE|to phla ]sUl ye hE
ik AC7e A.daj se bCce ko bulaya ja0|
mugEra ibn xoba lDkpn kI ]mr me. 4e|vo frmate hE. ik nbI
se dJjal ke bare me ijtnI tfsIl mE. ne pu7I [tnI iksI AOr ne nhI
pu7I|yanI ye topic ]nvan ]nko AC7a lga to ]Nhone [skI tfsIlat malum kI|
jb wI mulakat hotI dJjal ke bareme ko{ na ko{ svalat pu7te|frmate hE.
ik nbI ne muze wI frmaya 0e mere be3e yha> se 0k msla inkla
ik j=rI nhI ik nsbme be3a ho to hI ]se be3a kh skte hE.|krIb me. hr
bCceko be3a kha ja skta hE|jEse pukarte huve,bCce [2r Aana,be3a [2r
Aana|be3e tum 0esa kr lo|to ye 0ese Alfaj hE. ijsse bCce mutvJjah hote
hE. AOr dusrekI bat sunne ke il0 tyar hote hE.|
ne Apne baju]. me. lekr Apne sIne se lga ilya AOr ]nko bosa
[sil0 jb bCca Skul se Aa0 to ma> Apne kam me. ijtna wI ms=f ho
Aa2a imN3,0k imN3 inkal kr ]s bCceko Welcome [Stkbal j=r kre.|]sko
Ahln v shln j=r kh.e|]sko Pyarse bula0.,muhBbt kI njr ]spr Dale.|bCce ke
}pr jo muhBbt kI njr pDtI hE ]ske Apne srpr 0k 7trI mhsus hotI hE|0k
saya mhsus hota hE|mera ko{ bDa hE,ko{ mera qyal rqnevala hE,mE.
iksI ka hu. ye Apna{yt ka 0hsas bCce kI xqsIyt ke A.dr huSn pEda kr
deta hE|
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ik [s bCce kI prvrIx i#k nhI ho rhI hE|to ma>-bap ko caih0 ik bCce ko
deqkr quxI ka [jhar kre.|
| nbI ka Aml-
jb ko{ bCca nbI ke pas haijr hota to ]sko j=r bosa dete|
ye bosa AjIb icj hE|ye dusre b.de ke idl me. Apna{yt ka 0hsas pEda kr
deta hE|0k bosa k{ bar bCce ke idl ko mutvJja kr deta hE|kwI nbI
pexanI pr bosa dete,kwI nbI cehre pr bosa dete AOr
ifr bCce ke sa4 h.sI AOr idl lgI frmate AOr bCce ke sr pr xfKkt ka ha4
ferte|ye wI 0k AjIb neAmt hE ik bCce ke srpr ko{ ha4 fere to ]se Feel
0hsas hota hE ik ko{ Umbrela 7trI mere srpr hE|ko{ mera bDa
hE,Akelapn ]se mhsus nhI hota|cuna.ce bCce mdrse me. se p! kr
Aa0,bCca Skul me se p! kr Aa0 to ma> AOr bap dono ko caih0 ik Apne
pas ]se bula0.,bosa le.,Pyar muhBbt kI njr se deq.e AOr srke }pr ha4
fere.|srpr ha4 rqne se ]s bCce ko AjIb 0hsas hota hE AOr nbI ifr
bCce ko k{ bar ApnI god me ib#a0|
k{ bar Agr mjils me. ko{ fl imlta to nbI duAa p!te AOr mjils
me. jo sbse 7o3I ]mr ka hota to vo phla fl ]sko Ata frmate 4e|[sse bCce
ke idl ko quxI hotI hE ik sbse phle ye icj muze dI g{|to phla ]sUl AC7e
A.daj se bulana AOr dusra bCco.ka idl qux krna|
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| nbI kI nsIht-
nbI 0k bar ]sman ibn mjhun ko imle|vo Apne
bCce ko Pyar kr rhe 4e|to nbI ne pu7a,Kya tuMhe Apne be3ese
muhBbt hE ? ]Nhone jvab idya,0e ALlah ke nbI ,muze be3e se bhut
muhBbt hE|to nbI ne frmaya,mE. tuMhare sa4 [skI muhBbt ko
AOr n b!a du. ? khne lge,0e ALlah ke nbI j=r b!a0.|to frmaya ik jo
AadmI Apne 7o3e be3e ka idl qux krta hE ALlah rBbul [Jjt ]s bap ka idl
qux frma deta hE|Ab deqe. ik ALlah ke hbIb ne Kya mje kI bat
frma{ ik bCco. se muhBbt to iftrI icj hE leikn Agr ]nse Pyar ka [jhar kre.
AOr bCco.ka idl qux ho ja0| bCceka idl qux krnepr quda qux hota
hE,ALlahuAkbr kbIra|[skI Ahimyt ka A.daja lga0.|to nbI ne phle
frmaya,Kya tuMhe muhBbt hE ? jI 0e ALlah ke nbI muze [s be3e se bDI
muhBbt hE|to ifr frmaya,Kya mE. tuMharI muhBbt ko AOr b!a n du.|0e
ALlah ke nbI j=r b!a de.|to frmaya,jo Apne 7o3I ]mr ke be3e ka idl qux
kre ALlahtAala ]ska idl qux krte hE.|jb yha> be3ese murad bCca
hE,be3I ho ya be3a ho mksUd ye hE ik 7o3I ]mr ke bCce ka idl qux
krega [ske bdle ALlahtAala ]s b.de ka idl qux krega|
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muhBbt ke A.daj me. mamla krna ye ALlah ke yha> [badt hE|Aaj jra
gOr kre. ik Kya hm [se [badt smzte hE. ? hm to isfR musLle pr bE#ne
ko hI [badt smzte hE.|xrIAt kh rhI hE ik 7o3e bCce ke sa4
imlna,bE#na,Pyar krna,qelna ye wI [badt hE|[sil0 k{ jgh deqa ik bCce
ke sa4 ma> Hide and Seek lpa 7upI qel rhI hotI hE|Ab ma> 7uptI hE to
bCca !.Dne ke il0 Aata hE|khI. bCca 7upta hE to ma> ]sko !.Dne ke il0
AatI hE|ma> ka bCce ke sa4 [strh qelna nflI [badt ke manI.d hE|
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]mr kI tarIf krna-
AbduLlah [Bne ]mr ne 0k bar rat ko Qvab deqa AOr ]
jvan hote hE. [sme [.san kI nI.d bhut ghrI hotI hE|nOjvan bCceke il0 rat
ko ]#na 0k muxikl kam hota hE|khte hE. ik ye 6oDe becke so jate hE.|
to nI.d 0esI hI hotI hE|Ab nbI cahte 4e ik AbduLlah [Bne ]mr
ko thJjud ke il0 trgIb de.|jb ]nke samne ko{ Qvab byan ikya
kI [s bat ko sunne ke bad merI ij.dgI me. xayd thJjud kwI kja
nhI huvI|to deqe. ye A.daj hota hE bat krne ka|ALlah ke Pyare hbIb
ne hmare il0 ij.dgI ko iktna Aasan kr idya|bs Aap kI talImat ko hm p!te
ja0. AOr ]ske mutaibk ij.dgI gujare. to ij.dgI Aasan,fulo. kI sej bn jatI hE|
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trf clI g{ AOr ko{ wI n bola|to 4oDI der bad nbI ne frmaya vo
qjur ka drQt hE|AbduLlah [Bne ]mr frmate hE. ik jb nbI
ne bat pu7I to mere idl me. qjur ka qyal Aaya AOr mE. bolne
lga 4a mgr bDo. ka Adb muze =kav3 bna ik vo bat kre. mE. iKyo. k=.|to
sYydna ]mr qux huve AOr frmaya,be3a Agr tu bat kr deta to
muze [sbat pr quxI bhut Jyada hotI|to deiq0 ALlah ke Pyare hbIb 0 k
sval pu7 kr ]nkI jhnI slahIyto. ko jgate hE.|
ke sIne se Aakr lg jata,ko{ k.2ese lgta,ko{ pI# ke }pr c! jata AOr Aap ]
nko Receive palene ke bad quxI ka [jhar frmate|]n bCco.ke bose
lete|]nko Apne sIne se lgate|[sse bCco. ke A.dr [jtma{yt ka 0k 0hsas
hota hE|vo bCca [.fradIyt valI ij.dgI nhI gujarta|iml jul kr rhna ye
mukabla bajI [strh bCco. me krvane se [strh faydam.d hota hE|Ab Aap
soce. ik ye nbI kI suNnt hE mgr iktnI AOrto. ne [s suNntpr Aml
ikya ? pta hI nhI 4a,ikya wI hoga to bhut km|to deiq0 jb Aap ke 6rme
Aap ko furst ho to Apne bCco.ko,Apne be3Iyo. ko,be3o. ko Aap [s trh
Apne sa4 AOr Jyada manus kr sktI hE.|ifr jb vo bCce Aapse manus ho
ja0.ge to Aap ke juban se lFj inklega AOr bCca Aml ke il0 fOrn tyar
hoga|
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| 73a ]sul-bCco.kI hOsla Afja{
krna-
73a ]sUl ik Aap bCco. kI hOsla Afja{ frmate 4e|hOsla
Afja{ ka Kya mtlb ? ik AC7e kampr ]s bCce ko [nam dena, incentive
[nam dena|hmne deqa Aaj kl kI duinya me logo.ne janvro. ko isqaya
huva hota hE|to janvr Alg-Alg kam krte hE.|to ]n janvro. ko isqane ka
trIka wI yhI ik jb vo ko{ kam caht ke mutaibk krte hE. to ]nko ku7 n ku7
incentive [nam imlta hE|
bIvI Agr ko{ AC7a kam kre to ]MmId hotI hE ik qaivNd merI tarIf kre|
becarIyo. ko ixkayte. hI rhtI hE.|mE. [tne AC7e qane bnatI hu.,qaivNd ke
mu.h se kwI tarIf ka 0k lFj wI nhI inkla|mE. ne fla idn [tne Pyare kpDe
phne,qaivNd ne Aa>q ]#a kr nhI deqa|to deq.e bDI ]mr kI mature
AOrte. hE.|vo wI expectation ]MmId rqtI hE. to bCce to ifr ]sse wI Jyada
expect krte hE|[sko khte hE. hOsla Afja{|qivNd bIvI kI hOsla Afja{ kre to
bIvI ke idl me. qaivNd kI muhBbt b!tI hE|
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ALlama xamI frmate hE. ik mere vaild jb wI muzse qux hote
4e to mere [Lm ke xOk ko deq kr muze p!ne ke il0 iktab lekr dete 4e|jb
mE. bDa huva to mere pas 0k bDI layb/rI 4I AOr [n iktabo. kI brkt se
ALlahtAala ne muze fkIhe xhr bna idya|to [n bCco. kI hOsla Afja{ krna
ye bhUt kaibl kam hE|
[sil0 ApnI batko bar bar bCco. ke sa4 dohrana caih0|]nko yad krvana
caih0 AOr Agr vo 0k hI sval ko bar bar pu7e to ]nko lDka tsLlI ke sa4
jvab dena caih0|hmne deqa baj bCce 0k sval pu7te hE.,ma> ne jvab
idya mgr ]nkI tsLlI nhI ho rhI|vo ifr vo sval pu7te hE.|ifr ma> jvab detI
hE|bCce ifr sval pu7te hE.|to Agr bCca bar bar sval kr rha hE to hmne
deqa ik dusrI mtRba ma> ]nko izDk detI hE|Kya hr vKt pu7te rhte ho ?
to [sse bCce ka qula huva jhn ]l3a b.d ho jata hE|[sil0 bCco.kI prvrIx
me. ye pa{.3 jhn me rqe. ik ]nko bar bar yad idlanI hE,]nke bar bar
pu7ne se sbr ke sa4 ]sko jvab dena hE,ye repeatation dohrana ]skI
ij.dgI ka 0k ihSsa hE|[spr ifr Aapko guSsa wI nhI Aa0ga AOr Aap bCce ko
AC7e A.dajse DIl wI nhI kr pa0.gI|[sil0 to xrIAt ne wI kha ik bCca 7o3a jo
hota hE vo mrfAl klm hota hE yanI name Aamal me ]nke Aml nhI ilqe
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jate [sil0 ik vo bCca hota hE|to xrIAtne wI [ska ilhaj rqa ik bulug se phle
ke jo Aamal hE. vo ]ske name Aamal me nhI ilqe jate to hm [s 7o3e
bCce ke sa4 0ese hI DIl kre. jEse xrIAtne hme isqaya hE|
insa:
0esI halt me nmaj n p!o ik tum nxe me ho|to deqo [sse idlme ye bat
Aa{ ik xrab ko{ ps.dIda cIj nhI|to bhut sare log to 0ese 4e ik [sI pr hI ]
Nheo.ne xrab pInI 7oD dI|jo pIte wI 4e mhsus krte 4e ik ye Unwanted
naps.d cIj hE|ifr dusre mrhle me. xrIAt ne kha ik
,
bkra:
[ske fayde 4oDe hE. nuksan Jyada hE.|to ku7 AOr logo.ne xrab pInI 7oD
dI|AOr tIsra jb mrhla Aaya to xrIAt ne kha ik
ma[da:
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| nOva. ]sUl-bCco.ko trgIb AOr
trhIb dono trh kI bate. krna-
nOva. pa{.3 ke bCco. ko trgIb v trhIb dono trh kI bate. krnI
caih0|trgIb khte hE. ik Agr ye kam kroge to ye imlega AOr trhIb khte
hE. ik na krnepr ye sja imlegI|ALlahtAala ne hm [s.ano. ke il0 kurAan
mjId me yhI trIka Apnaya hE|khI. jNnt kI tfsIlat bta dI. ik nekI kroge to
tuMhe jNnt ka [nam imlega,quxqbrI Ata frma dI AOr khI. pr jhNnm ke
Ajab ko qola ik deqo nafrmanI kroge to tuMhe yu. jute pDe.ge|to [.san
trgIbse mutasIt hota hE,kwI trhIbse mutasIr ho jata hE|bCce kI trbiyt
me. wI ye dono cIje. bhut Ahm hE.|Agr Aap vn sa{DeD Pyar de. to wI
bCca ibgDta hE AOr vn sa{DeD Da>3 Dp3 krte rhe. to wI bCca ibgDta
hE|ye dono icje. j=rI hE.|jEsa vKt ho,jEsa mahol ho,jEsa mOka ho to
ma> ko caih0 ik ]sI ke ihsab se bCce ko bat smza0.|to ye trgIb AOr
trhIb bCce ke il0 Aml ka raSta Aasan kr detI hE|
rhe 4e|to ]mr 7o3I 4I AwI lDke hI 4e|leikn 0k kam kr rhe 4e|nbI
ne ]nko kam krta deqa to ]nko brkt kI duAa dI|Ab ye jo ]nko nbI
ne brkt kI duAa dI to [sse ]s bCce ke idl me 0k kaNfIDNs pEda
to Aap wI bCco. ko 7o3e 7o3e kam [s trh se bta0. jo bCce kr ske. AOr
jb kre. to ifr ]skI tarIf kre.,to bCce ko ivn pozIxn me rqe.|AcIChme.3 kI
se.s ]s ke A.dr pEda kre. ik bCca ko{ kam krke ye Feel mhsus kre ik mE.
ne Apna 3arge3 Achieve pa ilya,pura kr ilya|mE. ne AaBjek3IVh ko mI3
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kr ilya|mE win jIt gya|ye jo win jItne kI quxI hE na ye bhut bDI neAmt
hotI hE|to bCce ko vo pozIxn me lena,bCce ke A.dr kaNfIDNs ko b!a
dena j=rI hE|to qud Apne Aap soce ik 7o3e 7o3e kam,7o3I 7o3I bate.
0esI bCco. ko bta0. jo vo kr skta hE,Aap ko pta hE ik vo krega AOr jb vo
krle to Aap ]skI tarIf kre.,]sko Feel mhsus ko ik mE ne win jIt ilya|to [sse
bCce ke A.dr qux 0etmadI pEda hotI hE|
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AC7I bate. ]ske jhn me nKx ho ja0.gI AOr burI bate. ]ske jhn se im3
ja0.gI|
[sil0 Agr bCce jra bDI ]mr ke ho ja0. to ]npr njr rqe. ik vo iknke sa4
doStI kr rhe hE.|p!nevale,layk bCce,frmabrdar bCce ]nke sa4 doStI
kre.ge to ifr ye wI vEsahI bne.ge|qrbujeko deq kr qrbuja r.g pkDta hE|k{
bar bCcene Apne Aapko iDfeND krte hE.,AMmI vo mera doSt bura hE
mgr mE to ko{ bura[ nhI krta,mE to bs ]ske sa4 qDa hota hu.|jb bCca
0esI bat kre to Aap smzle. ik ye hkIkt byanI se kam nhI le rha hE|AadmI
vhI ku7 krta hE jEse ]skI sohbt hotI hE|to AC7e doSto.ko bna0.ge to
bCca qud bqud AC7a rhega|
]s vKt smz n Aata ik wa{ [tnI sQtI iKyo. krte hE.|[sil0 ik ijnse vo mna
frmate 4e vo S3orIya. sunate 4e|vo [2r ]2r kI ApnI kI huvI xrarte.
sunate 4e,to idl qux hota 4a|jI cahta 4a ik ]nkI bate. sune mgr wa{ mna
krte 4e|to mjburI me ]nse dur rhna pDta 4a|bCca 4a,kCca 4a,smz nhI
4I,leikn jb bDe huve tb ye hkIkt qulI ik ijtne logo.se vo mna krte 4e vo
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sare ke sare p!a{ me fel hone vale 4e,4DR iDVhIjn me pas hone vale
4e|iksI ne gaDI lga{,iksI ne mnIyar kI dukan bna{,iksI ne fla. dukan
bna{ vo [sI leVhl ke log 4e AOr ijn bCco.se doStIka vo khte 4e ]n bCco.
ko Aaj ye AajIj deqta hE to ko{ fOj ke A.dr jnrel bna huva
hE,ko{ ib/geDIyr bna huva hE,ko{ kmIxnr bna huva hE|Ab 0hsas hota
hE ik wa{ ne 0ese logo.se doStI se bca kr mere }pr iktna bDa 0hsan kr
idya|[sil0 ko{ idn 0esa nhI jata ik ye AajIj ]nke il0 ALlah ke yha. bul.dI
drjat ke il0 duAa n ma.gta ho|ALlahtAal [s AajIj ke drjat ko bul.d
frma0,AamIn|to ye bat jhn me rqe. ik AC7e doSto.se doStI krva0. AOr
bure doSto. kI doStI se bca0.|
to 0k idn ]nhone [rada ikya ik Aaj mE [s bCcese jra tfsIlI bat k=.ga|to
bCcene Aakr dStrQvan ib7aya AOr qana lakr rqne lga AOr jb rq cuka to
[Nhone ]sse bat 7eDnI cahI to jLdI me [Nhone kha ik bCce tum sbse
bDe ho ? iKyo.kI ]nke AOr wI bCce 4e|to jb mehman ne yu. pu7a ik
bCce tum sbse bDe ho,to khte hE. ik vo bCca xrmasa gya AOr pI7e h3a
AOr khne lga,Ak.l sCcI bat to ye hE ik ALlahtAala sbse bDe hE.,bhn
wa{yo. me merI ]mr Jyada hE|vo khte hE. ik bCce kI [s batne mera idl
moh ilya ik mE ne to jLdbajI me yu. kha ik bCce tum sbse bDe ho,leikn
bCce kI Perception xu]r deqi0 iktnI barIk bInI 4I ]ske A.dr ik Aage se
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jvab deta hE,A.kl sCcI bat to ye hE ik ALlah sbse bDe hE.,bhen wa{yo.
me merI ]mr Jyada hE|
bCco.kI {manI
trbIyt
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Aaj ka ]nvan
AOladkI {manI trbIyt
ye sbse Jyada muxkIl kam hE AOr ye kam vhI ma>-bap kr skte hE.
ijnke Apne idl me {man kaiml ho|Agr ApnI hI b3rI iDScajR hogI to ifr
[.san bCce ke A.dr {manI =h ko nhI fu.k skega|
| {man Kya hE ?
{man Kya hE ? ku7 der [skI tfsIl sun iljI0 ik [.san ko ye ykIn ho ja0
ik nbI jo xrIAt la0 hE. vo % sO fI-sd sCcI hE|ye duinya AarjI
hE|0k idn ALlah ke samne pex hona hE AOr Apne Aamal ka ihsab dena
hE|yha> tk ik [.san ke idlpr ye kEfIyt jm ja0 ik mE ALlah ke samne hu.|
ALlah mere sa4 hE.|vo muze hr vKt deq rhe hE.|
hdid :
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xhro. me bDe bDe S3oAr,bDI bDI dukane bnI hotI hE.|0k vKt me
se.kDo. log xapI.g kr rhe hote hE.|mgr Shop Picking ko{ nhI krta|hjaro.
laqo. cIje. pDI hE. samne mgr ko{ ]#ake jeb me nhI Dalta|]skI vjh Kya
hE ik hr AadmI ko ye pta hota hE ik 0k Security camera ka injam hE|iksI
kmere se deqa ja rha hE|mEne Agr ko{ wI cIj ]#akr jeb me DalI to ge3
pr phu.cte hI muze pkD ilya ja0ga|[sil0 kaifr log wI xapI.g krte hE. mgr
ko{ cIj nhI ]#ate|dhrIye wI xapI.g krte hE. mgr ku7 nhI ]#ate|hala.ik ]
Nhe ]#ane me ko{ =kav3 nhI hotI|leikn 0k Dr hE ik muze deqa ja rha
hE|mE. under surviellance hu.|muz pr njr rqI ja rhI hE|ye momIn ka
0hsas hota hE|
[sil0 0k bDe muLk me ibjlI c.d imN3 b.d ho ja0 to Millions of Doller
laqo. =pye kI cIje. ga/hk cura lete hE.|Ab ]nko pta 4a ik ko{ ]Nhe nhI
deq rha hE|to malum huva ik ye 0hsas ke muze ko{ deq rha hE b.de ko
gunaho. se bcata hE|momIn ke idl me wI ye 0hsas hota hE ik
ALlahtAala muze deq rhe hE.|[sil0 vo gunaho. ke iksI wI kam kI trf kdm
nhI ]#ata|
momIn :
| nbI ka nOjvano.,bCco.ko
{man
sIqana-
nbI ne ye {man shaba ke A.dr wI wr idya 4a|0k 0k
shabI AOr shaibya ]nko yhI kEfIyt haisl ho g{ 4I|[sil0 ]nka hr Aml xrIAt
ke mutaibk 4a|
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nbI nOjvano. ko,bCco.ko,vhI kI bat sIqate 4e|cuna.ce [skI
dlIl sun iljI0|
hEran hote 4e ik deqo tnha{ me jha> ko{ deqne vala nhI [sko
gunaho. se bcane ke il0 ALlah ka kEsa qOf nsIb hE|
bu!I ma> khtI hE. ik be3I du2 me panI Dal do|ga/hk lene vale
Aa0.ge,gay ne km du2 idya hE [skI imkdar purI kr do,AOr kOnsa ]mr
deqta hE|to nOjvan bCcI khtI hE Agr qlIfa ]mr nhI deq rh to ]mr ka rb to
deq rha hE|to [n imsalo. se pta cla ik nOjvan lDke AOr lDkIyao. ke idl
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me ye 0hsas hr vKt 4a ik ALlahtAala hme deq rhe hE.|kurAan mjId me
frmaya,
Alk :
Kya vo nhI jante ik ALlahtAala deq rha hE ? [sil ]nko ALlah kI bato. pr
pKka wrosa 4a|ykIn 4a|[sil0 gunaho. se bcna ]nke il0 Aasan 4a AOr yhI
kEfIyt ifr hmare bad ke Aanevale bujugo.R ko wI haisl 4I|
msijde nbvI me ]bEd ibn ]mer 0k bujugR 4e|0k qaiv.d ne ]nka tjikra
ikya jo bDe nek AadmI hE.|c.cl bIvI 4I,qubsurt 4I|khne lgI AC7a mera
cehra deqe. to muzse imlne kI tmNna krne lge.|]Nhone kha 0esa nhI
hE|khne lgI Agr tum [jajt do to mE tuMhe idqatI hu.|kEsa bDa naj 4a ]
sko Apne huSn v jmal pr|
0k idn vo ko{ msla pu7ne ke bhane Aa{ AOr ]sne Aake ]bEd
ke samne Apna cehra qol idya,to ]Nhone fOrn ingahe. zuka lI.|ye khne
lgI ik mE to Aapko Miss krtI hu. AOr rh nhI sktI|jo gane gatI hE. lDkIya>
mdoR. ke samne [sne vhI gana xu= kr idya|to ]Nhone Aage se 0k jvab
idya ik ye btaAo kyamt ke idn jb nbI wI ho.ge,sare [.san
ho.ge,]s vKt tum ps.d krtI ho ik muze AOr tuMhe h4kDI lgakr pex ikya
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ja0 ik ye dono janI 4e|ye bat sunte hI ]s AOrt pr 0k qOf Aagya|khne lgI
nhI ye to mE ps.d nhI krtI|]nhone kha ik ifr iKyo. muze gunaho. kI davt
de rhI ho ? ye sunkr vo AOrt vaips Aag{ AOr 6r Aakr ]sne purI ij.dgI kI
trtIb bdl dI|khne lgI ik Agr mdR [tne nek ho skte hE. to mE. iKyo. nhI ho
sktI|
vo rat ko thjjud p!a krtI 4I AOr ALlah ALlah||||||||ALlah ikya krtI 4I|to ]
ska qaiv.d khne lga ik mE ne ]bEd ka Kya ibgaDa 4a ik ]sne merI bIvI ko
raihba bna idya|to ye ALlahvalo. kI kEfIyat hotI hE. ik jo 4oDI der ke il0
wI Aata hE ]ske idl me wI {man wr jata hE|
0k AOr vakIya sun iljI0,0k nOjvan ko ba.dI ke sa4 glt muhBbt ho g{|
nfsnI muhBbt ho g{,to vo mOke kI tlax me 4a ik ye khI. muze Akele me
imle|0k rat iksI jgh vo lDkI [sko Akele me ikl g{|to [sne kha ik bs mE to
tuMhare bgEr rh hI nhI skta|muze tumse bht Pyar hE|jb [sne ye Alfaj
khe to vo lDkI jvab dene lgI ik ijtna Pyar tuMhe mzse hE [sse Jyada
muze Aapse hE|leikn mE ALlah se DrtI hu.|]s nek bCcI kI 0esI bat 4I ik
[s nOjvan ke idl me ]tr g{ AOr [sne hmexa ke il0 gunaho. se tOba kr
ilya|
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| {manI trbIyt kI [Bteda-bCco. ko
sbse phle ALlah ka nam isqa0.-
[skI xu=vat kEse hotI hE ik ma>-bap bCce ko bcpnme sbse
phle ALlah ka nam isqa0.|hdIse mubarka me Aata hE jo ma> Apne
bCce ko sbse phle ALlah ka nam isqa0 AOr vo bCca ALlah ka lFj bole to
[spr ma>-bap ke ip7le sb gunaho. kI mafI ho jatI hE|
ifr jb bCca jra AOr bDa ho ja0 to ]sko kilma isqa0.|hdIse mubarka me
btaya gya ik ijs idn bCca, la [laha [llLlah p!ta hE|ALlahtAala kyamt ke
idn isqanevale ka ihsab nhI le.ge|ifr bCce ke A.dr ye 0hsas Dala ja0 ik
hm b.de hE.|hmara pEda krnevala quda hE AOr vo hme hr vKt deqta
hE|to jb ye 0hsas ]ske idl me pEda kre.ge to vo bCca ko{ wI kam glt nhI
krega|[sko khte hE. {manI trbIyt|
hdid :
Alk :
bCce ne krna xu= kr idya|ku7 idno. bad ]sse kha ik tum sat dfa kh
ilya kro|ku7 idno. ke bad kha ik tum Gyarah bar kh ilya kro|jb Aadt bn
g{ to 0k idn frmaya ik tum roj hI 0esa ikya kro|frmate hE. ik mE tIn-car
sal ka bCca 4a AOr mE roj sote huve mE yhI bat socta ik ALlahtAala
muze deq rha hE,ALlah mere sa4 hE|yha> tk ik ye 0hsas [tna mere idl
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pr gailb Aa gya ik mE. ko{ wI kam nafrmanI vala nhI krta 4a|vo frmate
hE. ik [skI ye brkt huvI ik ma>-bap ne muze kurAan mjId yad krne pr lg
gya AOr mE ne 7: sal kI ]mr se phle kurAan mjId pura p! ilya|7:
sal kI ]mr purI nhI huvI 4I ik mE kurAan mjId ka haifj bn gya|to deqo
bCco. ko iks trh vo 0hsas idl me Dalte 4e AOr ifr bcpn ke A.dr se nekI
krnevale bn jate 4e|
hmare mxa{q sulUk ke jrIye yhI cIj sIqate hE.|hmare islisle AalIya
nKxb.dI ke Asbak hE.|vo ALlah ALlah ke ijkr se xu= hote hE. AOr jo
solhva. sbk hE,
hdid :
0k bujugR 4e,]nko iksI ne kha ik jI hjrt Aap fla. se to bhut Pyar krte
hE.|bakIyae. se ]tna pyar nhI krte to ]Nho.ne 0k idn mehmano. ke il0
ku7 murgIya. ijbah krvanI 4I|to 0traj krnevalo. ko wI dI.,7urI
pkDva{ AOr ]s nOjvan ko wI dI AOr kha ik ye mugIR 0esI jgh ijbah kro
jha> ko{ n deqta ho|sb dusre log g0,iksIne dIvar ke pI7e,iksI ne drQt kI
AaD me,iksI ne kha>,vo mugIR ijbah krke la0 AOr nOjvan ijs pr ]nko
muhBbt kI qas njr 4I vo 4oDI der bad Aaya|vo ro rha 4a|hjrt Aapne
huKm idya AOr vo huKm ko mE pura nhI kr ska|w{ iKyo. ro rhe ho ? hjrt
mE jha> wI gya hr jgh ALlah muze deq rha 4a|to deqo mkSud ye hE ik
ye [Stehjar hmexa haisl ho ja0|Ab ye kEfIyt ma> ne,bap ne Apne bCce
ke idl me pEda krnI caih0|to Aap smz rhI ho.gI ik jb ApnI hI Battery
Discharge hE,Apne hI idl me gflt hE to bCce kI {manI trbIyt 0k muxikl
kam hE|qux nsIb ma0. hE. ijnke Apne idl me wI ALlah ka 0esa qOf hota
hE,vo ifr Apne bCco. ke idl me wI vo qOf pEda kr detI hE.|to bCce bcpn
hI se gunaho. se nfrt krte hE. AOr nekI kI koxIx krte hE.|
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Aaj wI Agr ko{ ma> idl me ye Ahd kre. ik mE. qud wI nek bnu.gI 0esa
{man kaiml qud wI haisl k=.gI AOr Apne bCco. ke idl me wI ye neAmt
wrne kI koxIx k=.gI,to Aap deqna Aapko ALlah kI qulI mdd njr Aa0gI|
deqna Aap bCce ko ibjlI kI tar se bcatI hE. AOr ifr bCca bcta hE| iksI
bCce ne ha4 lgaya ? ko{ nhI lgata|[sI trh ]nko gunaho. se bca0.|be3a
gunah krne se Ajab ka z3ka pDega AOr tuMharI =hanI mOt Aaja0gI|to
bCce gunah nhI kre.ge|Aaj hm khte hE. bCce ibgD g0,hmne ]nko bnane
kI koXIx kb kI ? hm [ljam ]nko dete 4e mgr ksur Apna hI inkl Aaya|
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muhBbt AOr tIsra kurAan mjId kI muhBbt|[sil0 ijtne shaba 4e Kya bDe
AOr Kya bCce sb ke sb nbI ke sCce pKke AaxIk 4e|
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AOr mere Aaka ne frmaya mn kl surtul vakIyta kLla lElitn
lm tuiSbh fakt Avda ik jo hr roj sure vakIya p!ta hE ]sko kwI wI
fake nhI ho skta|subhanLlah,Kya ykIn 4a idl ke A.dr|Aaj kurAan mjId ke
bare me hmara ykIn Kya hE ? ALlahu Akbr, to ALlah kI muhBbt ko idl
me wrna,nbI kI muhBbt idl me wr dena,tIsrI bat kurAan mjId
me 0k surt hE AOr tIs Aayat kI yanI sure muLk,mera idl cahta hEr ik vo
surt hr ]MmtI ke idl me ho|hmme se hr AOrt ko hr mdR ko yad nhI hE ?
gflt kI [.teha deiq0|to kurAan mjId kI muhBbt idl me ib#ana|kurAan
mjId kI Aayte. [.san p!ega ]spr Asr hoga|
ne frmaya
thrIm:
[brahIm:
ALlahe ke nbI frmate hE. ik jo mere vade se Drega AOr mere samne
qDa hone se Drega ye jNnt kI neAmt ]sko Ata kr dI ja0gI|
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deqa to kha ik bCce dukan pr bE# kr kurAan p!na #Ik nhI hE|pu7a iKyo.
? ]sne kha ik jo tum p!oge to hr b.da sunega nhI|gunah ka murtikn
hoga AOr dusra ye ik b.da tuMhe nek smz kr tuMharI cIj qrIdne kI koxIx
krega|to ye to Marketing kr rhe tum|bs ye bat sun ke yha> se ]#e AOr
ABbuse kha ik ABbu muze dIn sIqna hE|
to [s ]mr se bCce Apne ma>-bap ke sa4 nmaj p!ne me xrIk rhte hE.|
to ma> ]nko ifr nmaj sIqa0,yad krva0,manI sIqa0 AOr ifr ]nko nmaj p!
ne ka trIka smza0.|ye ma> ka kam hota hE|Ab ma> qud nmajI hogI to
bCco. ko wI nmaj sIqa0|qud nmaj kI pab.dI nhI krtI to bCce kha. se
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pab.dI nhI krtI to bCce kha> se pab.d bne.ge ? phle vKto. me ma0.
bCco. kI nmaj ko [tna behtrIn bna detI 4I. ik bCco. ko ivlayt ka nur iml
jata 4a|bat AjIb sI hE leikn mOke ke ihsab se munaisb hE to btata clu.|
[mam gjalI AOr ]nke 0k wa{ 4e|bDe ka nam 4a Ahmd gjalI AOr
[nka nam 4a mohMmd gjalI|ye qtIbe xhr 4e,fkIh 4e jame msjId ke [mam
4e|leikn jo [nke bDe wa{ 4e vo [mam gjalI ke pI7e nmaj nhI p!te
4e|vo bDe wa{ sahb bDe jaikr,xaikr 4e,saihbe kXf 4e leikn nmaj Alg p!
te 4e|[mam gjalI pr log 0traj wI krte 4e ik [mam sahb Aap ke to
Apne hI wa{ Aap ke pI7e nmaj nhI p!te to [Nhe bDa bura lgta|0k idn
ApnI ma> ke pas Aa0 AOr khne lge AMmI wa{ mere pI7e nmaj nhI p!te|
ma> ne bDe be3e ko bulaya Ahmd tum mohMmd ke pI7e nmaj p!a kro|
#Ik hE AMmI p!u>ga|Ab AglI nmajme. [mam gjalI musLlepr 4e,Ahmd
gjalI pI7e hE.|nmaj kI inYyt ba.2 lI|phlI rkaAt ho g[|jb dusrI rkaAt
xu= hu[ to Ahmd gjalI ne nmaj kI inYyt toDI AaEr sf me. se inkl kr 6r cle
g0|vha> jak r nmaj p! lI|lo Ab to xor mca|logo. ne kha ik ye Kya bat
huvI ? [mam gjalI ko bhut Jyada subkI mhsus huvI,xmR mhsus
huvI|ye bDe iDp/exn kI halt me 6r Aa0|AMmI mere wa{ ne to muze
=sva ikya,jlIl ikya,logo. ke samne xmIR.da ikya|ma> ne bDe ko bulaya|
be3e tuMhe kha 4a wa{ ke pI7e nmaj p!na,tumne ye Kya hrkt kr dI ? ]
sne jvab idya AMma||||Aap ne kha 4a [ske pI7e nmaj p!na|jb tk ye nmaj
kI halt me 4a mE. [ske pI7e 4a|jb ye nmaj me nhI 4a to muze [ske pI7e
qDe hone kI Kya j=rt 4I,ma> ne pu7a Kya mtlb ? ]sne kha [sI se
pu7o,Ab [mam gjalI ka sr xmR se zuk gya|ma> ne pu7a Kya hal
4a be3a ? AMmI mE ne dsR dena 4a AOr nmaj se phle mE. AOrto. ke
ku7 msa{l p! rha 4a,hEj v infas v gusl ke bare me|nmaj ka vKt ho gya|
mE ne jb nmaj xu= kI to phlI rkaAt me to nmaj me tvJjoh rhI|jb dusrI
rkaAt huvI to muze 0k msla yad Aaya AOr mE ne ]s msle ke bare me
socna xu= kr idya|to bDe ne kha deqo ye nmaj me qDa AOrto. ke msle
soc rha hE|to mE. [ske pI7e iKyo. qDa rhu. ? ma> ne ye bat sunI to 0k
#.DI sa.s lI AOr khne lgI Afsos||||||||||mere do be3e 4e AOr dono me se
to mera ko{ n bna|to }nhone pu7a AMmI iKyo. Aap ke n bne ? khne lgI
ik 0k musLle pr qDa nmaj me Aorto. kI bate. soc rha 4a AOr dusra ]ske
pI7e qDa ]ske idl kI trf deq rha 4a|ALlah kI trf to @yan hI iksI ka nhI 4a|
vo msle jo bDe bDe mxa{q isqaya krte 4e ]s vKt kI ma0. Apne bCco.
ko vo msa{l isqa idya krtI 4I.|[sil0 ik ]n maAo. ne qud dIn sIqa hota 4a|
iksI n iksI ALlahvale se ]n ka tAaluk hota 4a|
AwI krIb ke jmane me hjrt imjaR mjhr jane jana ]nse bEt 0k
qatun 4I|]ske do bee3e 4e|mohMmd AlI AOr ]nke dusre wa{,to jb AajadI
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ka msla xu= huva to ma> ne Apne bCce ko bulakr qud kha,muhMmd
AlI kI jan iqlaft pr de do|deqo ye ma> hotI hE|
ye [manI tribyt mksude ijNdgI hE AaEr ye krnI bDI muxikl hE|to phlI
bat bCce ke idl me. ALlahrBbul[Jjt ka @yan wr dena|muhBbt AaEr qaEf
wr dena|taik muhBbt me. [.san nekI kre AaEr qaEf kI vjh se [.san
gunaho. se bce AaEr ye 0hsas ho ik mE. hr vKt ALlah ke samne hu.
AaEr vo muze deq rha hE|dusrI bat nbI kI muhBbt ko wr dena|
bCca suNnto. pr Aml kre|tIsrI bat kurAan mjId kI muhBbt ko wr dena
taik bCca ]skI tIlavt kre AaEr ]skI talImat ke mutaibk ijNdgI ko gujare|
caE4I cIj bCco. ko nmaj isqana,vaild ko caih0 ik vo Apne bCce ko jb vo
jra bDa hoja0 to nmaj ke il0 ].glI pkD kr sa4 le ja0|
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rqne kI Aadt Dal denI caih0|bulUgt se bhut phle AOr AlhMduilLlah iktne
bCce 0ese hE.,nabailg hE.,smzdar hE. mgr roja rqte hE.|shaba
frmate hE. ik jb nbI ne hukum idya ik ds mohrm ko
roja rqo to hm Apne bCco. ko roje rqvate 4e AOr Agr bCce wUq AOr
Pyas kI vjh se rote to hm ]nko qelne ke il0 iqlOne de idya krte 4e|
to [s hdIse pak se pta clta hE [tnI 7o3I ]mr hotI 4I,]n bCco. kI ke ]nko
vKt gujarI ke il0 iqlOne dete 4e|to [sI trh 6ro. me bCco. ko roja rqne kI
Aadt DalnI caih0|hmara 0k Class fellow 4a|]s ]mr me jb kalej me [.san
hota hE strah-A#rah sal kI ]mr ]ska vjn 100 iklo se wI Jyada 4a|[tna
mo3a,rmjan ke roje nhI rqta 4a|to mE ne pu7a ik tum roje iKyo. nhI rqte
? khta hE AMmI khtI hE ik tum kmjor ho jaAoge|subhanLlah||||ik A#rah
sal kI ]mr se bCce kI ]mr me bCce ka vjn 100 iklo AOr ma> kh rhI hE. ik
nhI roja rqne se tum kmjor ho jaAoge|[sil0 ik ma> ke idl me qud 0hsas
nhI hota 4a|
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kbul kr lIjI0|to 7o3e bCco. ko wI jb jvanI kI ]mr ko phu.c ja0 to jkat dena
ka trIka [nke jhn me Dala ja0|Aaj to bCcIyo. ko jevr bnane kI ifkr hotI
hE|jkat dene kI ifkr nhI hotI|Ab ye sat pa{.3 0ese hE. ijnko sIqane se
bCce kI dInI trbIyt ho ja0gI|
ifrAOn ne ApnI bIvI ko [sI trh juLm ikya|kha ik pI7e h3o {manse,]sne
wI kha ik mE pI7e nhI h3 sktI|ALlah ko ]s AOrt kI sja brdaxt krnI [tnI
pas.d Aa{ ik ALlah ne ]ska tjikra kurAan mjId me ikya|to bCco. ko dIn ke
]pr saibt kdmI [ska wI jjba sIqana pDta hE|
vakIyat sunane pDte hE.|qud dIn pr saibt kdm rh kr idqana pDta hE|
to ifr jakr bCce saibt kdm bn jate hE.|cuna.ce vakIyat suna kr mE. ApnI
bat ko pura krta hu.|
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quda{ cmktI 4I|vo jadugr bu!a ho gya|]sne badxah se kha ik jnab iksI
ko kho ik muzse jadugrI sIq le.|taik mere bad jo Aap ke Alg-Alg kam hE.
vo krta rhe|to badxah ne 0k nOjvan ko kha ik tum [sse jadu sIq lo|vo
bCca jadu sIqne ke il0 ]s jadugr ke pas jata 4a|ALlah kI xan ke raSte me
0k raihb rhta 4a|bCce ka tAa=f ]sse ho gya|]s raihb ne ]sko btaya ik
imya> ye badxah hmara quda nhI hE,quda to ko{ AOr hE|bCce ko raihb
kI bate. AC7I lgtI 4I.|[sil0 ye raSte me ]sse wI bate. sIqta 4a AOr jadugr
ke pas wI cla jata 4a|yha> tk ik raihb kI bate. idl pr [tnI Asr krne lgI. ik
bCce ne ye ykIn bna ilya ik hmara quda 0k hE|badxah quda nhI hE|
bCce ke idl me {man wr gya|ye wI bat bE# g{ ik nfa nuKsan ka dene
vala ALlah hE|muxikl ko hl krne vala ALlah hE|
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trIka ye hE ik xhr ke sare logo. ko [ka kro AOr ]nke samne muze 0k
jghpr qDa kr ke mere turkx se hI tIr inkalo AOr tIr inkalne ke bad ye kho
ik mE [s tIr ko fe.kta hu.,ibSmI rBbI hajl gulam ]s rb ke nam se jo
[s gulam ka rb hE|
Ab deqe. Aag jla dI g{|logo. ko Dala gya|0k AOrt 4I ijske pas du2 pIta
7o3a bCca 4a|]s AOrt ko Dalne lge to vo AOrt bCce kI vjhse jra 6bra
g{.|to Dalne vale ne bCce ko 7Ina AOr bCce ko phle Aag me Dala|jb
ma> ke samne ]ske 7o3e bCce ko Aag me fe.ka gya to ma> ka idl dhk
gya|mgr ]s bCce ne A.dr se Aavaj dI|AMmI jLdI AaAo,yha> to bDa mja
hE|ye 4e ijnko Ashabe ]qdud kha gya|kuraAne mjId me [nka vakIya hE|
bu=j:
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bCco. kI
AqlakI trbIyt
94
4I jb wI vo fon ]#ate 4e to kht 4e,hlo,cIf [.jInIyr m.gla SpIkI.g|vo khne
lge 0k idn mE nhakr vax =m se bahr Aaya to mE ne deqa ik 6.3I bj rhI
hE|to mera tIn car sal ka 7o3a be3a vo waga huva gya AOr ]sne jakr
fonka ke/Dl ]#akr Apne kan se lgaya AOr khne lga hlo,cIf [.jInIyr m.gla
SpIkI.g|to [s trh 7o3e bCco. ke idlo idmag me vo bate. nKx ho jatI hE. jo
ma>-bap ko krta huva deqta hE|
to ma> bapko caih0 ik vo Apne A.dr qux AqlakI pEda kre.|Agr ma>-
bap hI hr vKt 0k dusre se zgDte rhte hE.,].cI bolte rhte hE.|0k dusre ko
lajIk se dete rhte hE.|to Agr ye A.dr kI j.g hI qTm nhI hotI to bCca Kya
qux Aqlak bnega ?
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frma{.|Ab ma> ne tIn me se 0k 0k qjur bCco. ko de dI AOr tIsrI qjur qud
qane kI bja0 [.tjar krtI rhI|jb dono bCco. ne Apne ihSse kI 0k 0k qjur qalI
to ]s ma> ne Apne qjur ke do 3ukDe kr il0 AOr 0k 0k ifr Apne bCco. ko
de idya|to Aa0xa isIka bDI hEran huvI|nbI txrIf la0
to ]nke samne ye vakIya sunaya|nbI ne frmaya ik [sne bCco.
pr rhm ikya [ske bdle ALlahne ]spr rhm ikya|
| nbI ke vakIyat-
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Abu hurEra frmate hE. ik nbI 0k mtRba qDe 4e|
sYydna husEen Aa0,ye 7o3e bCce 4e|to Aap ne ]Nhe.
Apne pa.v pr qDa ikya yanI ]nke pEr nbI ke pEro.pr 4e|to ifr
nbI khne lge ha4 ko pkD kr mere }pr c!o|jra gOr ikjI0ga Ab vo
bCca pEr ke }pr pEr rq kr jEse sI!IAo. pe ko{ c!ta hE,to nbI kI
mubark 3a.go. ke }pr pEr rq kr c!ne lga|]pr se ha4 to Aap ne to
pkDe hI huve 4e|to Aap ] ske ha4o. ko }pr qI.cte g0 AOr vo AapkI
mubark 3a.go.pr kdm rqte rqte [tna ].ca c!e ik ]ske pEr nbI ke
sIne mubark tk Aa g0|jb sIna mubark tk ]nke kdm Aa g) to tb ALlah ke
nbI ne ]nko sIne se lgakr ]nka bosa ilya|ye ALlah ke Pyare hbIb
ka trIka 4a|ALlahu AkbrkbIra||
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0k mtRba njaxI ne nbI kI iqdmt me tohfa weja,]sme 0k bDI
A.gu#I 4I|to nbI ne Ajdvaje muthrrat se frmaya ik ye A.gu#I to
mE ]sko du.ga jo mere ijgr ka 3ukDa hE,mere idlka 3ukDa hE,bhut
muze PyarI hE|to sb hEran ik Ab deqte hE. ye A.gu#I iksko imltI hE|to
nbI ne ApnI nvasI ]mama ib.te jEnb ko bulaya AOr ]sko vo
A.gu#I Ata frma dI|
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mere =qsar pr ha4 fera,Aap ke ]s mubark ha4 kI #.Dk AOr quxbu mE.
Aaj wI mhsus kr rha hu.|
99
me hE ik ko{ vaild ApnI AoElad ko huSne Adb se behtr tohfa nhI de
skta|to bCco. ko vaildEn ka Adb,]staj ka Adb,]lema ka Adb,wa{ ka
Adb,pDosI ka Adb,qane pIne ka,ilbas,mehman nvajI ye sb cIje. ma>
bap ko sIqanI pDtI hE.|[ske il0 ba Adb ba nsIb iktab ko p!a kre. AOr
qane ke vKt qane ke Aadab Discuss byan ikya kre.,kpDe phnate huve
kpDo. ke Aadab,mjils ke A.dr Alg-Alg Aadab Agr bCco. ko smzatI rhe. to
bCce ba Adb bn ja0.ge|
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Agr ko{ bat deqI to qamoxI [QtIyar kro|]sko ibla vjh dusro. ke samne
nkl krne kI Kya j=rt hE|
hjrt Ans khte h.E ik mE qel rha 4a|ALlah ke nbI txrIf la0
AOr Aapne muze iksI kam ke il0 weja AOr qud vhI. txrIf frma huve|mE
kam krne ke il0 cla gya,kam me muze kafI der lg g{,vaips Aaya to nbI
qux huve|jb 6r Aaya to vailda ne pu7a,be3e tum [tnI der kha>
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duXmn hE. AOr [s halt me wI ALlah ke hbIb ] nkI Amanto. ka ilhaj
frma rhe hE.|to momIn [tna AmIn huva krta hE|
| shaba kI AmantdarI ka
vakIya-
0k ijhad me duXmn badxah ktl huva,muslmano. ko ALlahtAala ne
ftah Ata frma dI|male gnImt ko tksIm kr idya gya|log qux 4e,mutm{n
4e|bhut idn gujre to 0k muslman ispahI sa2ase kpDe 4e,sa2I sI xqsIyt
4I,AmIre lxkr ke pas Aaya|to ]ske pas 0k kpDa 4a,ijsme cIj ilp3I huvI 4I|
khne lga ik AmIr sahb jb j.g huvI to badxah ko mE ne ktl ikya 4a AOr ]
ske srpe 0k taj 4a ijsme kImtI hIre AOr motI juDe huve 4e|vo mE ne ]#a
ilya 4a AOr mE ne Aakr ]sko Apne saman me rq ilya AOr ye soca ik clo
phle bakI sb saman Aapke pas phu.c ja0 mE badme phu.ca du.ga|iksI
ko nhI pta 4a ik mere pas taj hE ya nhI|mE vo taj lekr Aaya hu. iKyo.kI
ye mere pas muslmano. kI Amant hE|ye khekr ]sne vo taj AmIr ke hvale
kr idya|AmIr ke ha4 me jb vo taj Aaya to vo deq kr bDa hEran
huva,iktnr kImtI hIre AOr motI jDe huve 4e ik Agr ye ispahI ]sko Apne
pas rq leta AOr 0k 0k hIre motI ko becta rhta to purI ij.dgI ka qcR [ska
inkl jata AOr iksI ko pta wI nhI clta ik taj ikske pas hE AOr ye ispahI Aaj
qud ]s tajko vaps krne Aa gya|to AmIr ne ]s taj ko ha4 lekr quxI se ]sse
pu7a tuMhara nam Kya hE ? to ]s mujaihd ne vaips jane ke il0 pI# ferI
AOr AmIr kI trf pI# ferte huve kha ik ijs ALlah kI rja ke il0 mE ne ye taj
lO3aya vo mera nam wI qub janta hE AOr mere bap ka nam wI qub
janta hE|ALlahuAkbr kbIra||||ik ijs ALlah kI rja ke il0 mE ne ye taj vaps
ikya hE vo mera nam wI janta hE Aor mere bap ka nam wI janta hE|yanI
muze Aapse ko Appreciation [nam ke do lFj wI sunne kI j=rt nhI hE|[sko
[qlas khte hE. AOr ye AmantdarI shaba ke ij.dgIyo. me 4I|
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Ans frmate hE. ik nbI ne [rxad frmaya 0e be3e,Agr
tum subh xam [s hal me kr sko ik tuMhare sIne me iksI ke bare me kIna
na ho to 0esa kr lo|ye merI suNnt hE AOr jo merI suNnt pr Aml krega vo
jNnt me mere sa4 hoga|to mSturat ko caih0 ik Aap nbI kI [s
suNnt pr Aml kre. AOr idlo. me ijs iksI ke wI iqlaf ko{ bat hE ]sko ALlah
kI rja ke il0 maf kr dena|sas bhu ko maf kre de,bhu sas ko maf kr de|
bhen bhen maf kr de,irxtedar AOrte. 0k dusre ko maf kr de.|
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itmIRjI xrIf kI irvayt hE ik 0k muslman jb dusre muslman ko deqkr
muskurata hE to ye muskurana ]ske hk me sdke ka svab ilqa jata hE|Ab
deqe. muskurah3 me Kya lgta hE ? leikn isfR muskurah3 pr b.de ke
name Aamal me sdkeka svab ilqa ja0 to iktnI Aasan nekI hE|
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jatI hE|[sI trh qux qulk [.san ke gunah qux qulkI kI vjhse ip6lte hE.|to
bCce ko ye cIj smzanI caih0 ik deqo tumne Apne wa{ ka idl qux krna
hE,bhen ka idl qux krna hE,mma ka idl qux krna hE,ABbu ka idl qux
krna hE|tumne Apne bDo. ka,Apne sa4 valo. ka sbka idl qux krna hE|to
ifr deq.egI ik bCce kI xqsIyt me hmddIR pEda hogI|imlnsarI hogI,AC7I
trbIyt hogI,vo dusro. ko duq dene kI kwIwI koxIx nhI krega|dusro. ko
tklIf phu.cane kI koxIx nhI krega|[sil0 bCce ko qux qulkI smznI caih0
AOr ye wI nhI ik bCca cup cap ApnI duinya me gum rhe|[s trh h3 k3 kr
ij.dgI gujarna wI ALlah ko ps.d nhI hE|imljul kr rhe.,imlnsarI ke
sa4,muhBbt ke sa4,[sI ka nam [.sanIyt hE|
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Aap wI kwI Apne qaiv.d ko Unexpected gErmamulI quxI phu.caya
kre.|bCce ko wI smza0. ik vo wI [sI trh Apne ma> bap ka Acank idl qux
kre|0esI bat kre,0esa kam kre ik ]ska idl qux ho ja0|[s trh bCce ke idl
me,idl ko qux krne kI Ahimyt malum ho jatI hE|0k bat yha> pr smzna
j=rI hE ik idl qux krne se murad xrIAt ke dayre ke A.dr rhte huve
ko{ kam krna|ye nhI hE ik bCce ko ko{ khe mere sa4 bE# kr 3I|vI deqo
mE. bhut qux ho ja].ga,ya iksI AOrt ko ko{ khe tum mere pas Aa jaAo
mE bhut qux ho ja].ga|nhI,gunaho. ke jrIye iksI ko qux nhI krna|nek AOr
jayj kam ke jrIye iksI ka idl qux krna|[spr ye sb Ajr [.san ko nsIb hota
hE|to jb bCce ke A.dr ye isft pEda hotI hE to bCca 0k mhbub xqsiyt bn
jata hE|hr ma> cahtI hE ik ]ska bCca 0esa ho ik hr ko{ ]se ps.d kre|]skI
be3I 0esI ho ik hr ko{ ]se ps.d kre|to ]ske il0 bCco. ke A.dr quxqulkI kI
Aadt Dale.|isft pEda kIjI0 AOr ]nke samne [skI talIm dIjI0|iktabo. me se
qux qulkI ke vakIyat p! kr suna0.|jo tjubeR me vakIyat,muxaihde me
Aa0 ho. vo ]nko suna0.|taik bCce dusro. ke kam Aa0. AOr dusro. ke sa4
0k AC7a [s.an bnkr pex Aa0.|
| nbI kI quxAqlakI ka
vakIya-
ALlah ke Pyare hbIb kI ijd.gI hr kdm pr hmare il0 rhnuma{ krtI
hE|Aap kI qux AqlakI ka Kya Aalm ? 0k vakIya suna kr bat ko purI
krta hu.|
vo bate. suna rhI hE AOr ALlah ke nbI bate. sun rhe hE. AOr vo
nsIht kr rhI hE ik be3a tum ma>-bap ke dIn pr jme rhna|Agr kwI mOka
imle to ]skI bat mt sunna|vo to ko{ jadugr hE|idlo. pr Asr krta hE|b.de
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ka idl 7In leta hE AOr log ]ske pI7e lg jate hE.|]skI bat me bDI ko{ tasIr
hE|ijtnI bate. wI vo kr rhI 4I ALlah ke Pyare hbIb bate. qamoxI se
sun rhe 4e AOr ]ska saman lekr cl rh 4e|jb ]sko ]skI jgh tk phu.caya,bu!
Iya bDI qux huvI khne lgI,nOjvan tu iktna AC7a hE|jra Apna nam bta|mE
Agr kwI mKka vaips Aa[ to mE tuze j=r imlu.gI|tu to muze be3o. kI trh
Pyara lgta hE|jb bu!Iyane pu7a to ALlah ke nbI ne frmaya,AMma ijs
nOjvan ke bare me sare raSte me Aap bat krtI Aa{ hE. mE vhI nOjvan
muhMmd hu.|ye ALlah ke hbIb kI quxAqlakI deiq0|]s AOrt ko Kya
pta 4a ik ijsne mera saman ]#aya,[sne to purI [.sanIyt ka boz Apne
k.2o. pr ]#aya huva hE|ye hmare Aaka hE.|ye hmare srdar hE.|ijNhone
[strh qux AqlakI ke sa4 pex Aane kI hme talImat dI.|
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bCco. kI
muAaxratI
trbIyt
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drimyan me lga dene se bat ka A.daj hI bdl gya|Apna{yt Aag{,muhBbt
Aa g{|AajIjI Aa g{,0htram dusre ka Aa gya|Ab ye bat-cIt ka trIka ]sko
ma> ne isqana hota hE|baj logo. ko deqa ik tum,tum lga0 rqte hE.|
hala.ik Aap khnese muhBbt b!tI hE|to ye ma> ]sko bta0 ik be3a ye lFj
[Stemal krna hE AOr ye lFj [Stemal nhI krna hE|dusre bCce ko ya iksI
bDe ko AC7e nam se pukarna ye wI bCce ko isqana pDta hE|jb ko{ b.da
ko{ cIj de ye ko{ AC7a kam kre to ]ska xukrIya Ada krna ye xrIAt ka
huKm hE|xrIAt ne btlaya mLlm yxkurINnas lm yxkurILlah ik
jo [.sano ka xukr Ada nhI krta vo ALlah ka wI xukr Ada nhI krta|
ye AajIj 0k iktab p!ne bE# gya mgr yu. Feel mhsus ikya ik ]sne bCcI
ko ApnI god me ib#aya AOr jo qana samne rqa ]sme se 0k cMmc ke
A.dr c.d cavl ]sne Dale,4oDese rice Dale AOr ApnI bCcI kI mu.hme
lukma Dala|ifr ]ske bad vo wait lg g{|jb bCcI ne vo lukma qa ilya to vo
khne lgI Say thank you.7o3IsI bCcIne kha Mom thank you khlvaya|[s
AajIjke A.dajeke mutabIk 0k qane ke dOran ]s ma> ne ApnI ba3I se
xayd pE.tIs mrtba Thank you ka lpj khelvaya|muze [tnI hEranI hu{ ke
deqo ye kafIra hE leikn [nke mahoEl muAaxre me cu.ik 0k Aadt bn
g{ to [sne xuk/Iya [tnI bar Ada krvaya ik ye Aadt [s bCcI ke 6uI me
me pD g{|hala.ik ye muAamla muslman bCce ke sa4 hona caih0 4a|
leikn Aaj hmarI iktnI ma0. hE. jo bCco. ko qana iqlatI hE.,du2 pIlatI
hE.,Kya ]sko ye wI sIqatI hE. ik tumne ka Mom ka xukrIya Ada krna hE|
jb ma> bap kI god me hI vo xukrIya Ada krna nhI sIqatI to ifr log ]ske
sa4 ijtna mrjI 0hsas krte ifre vo bekdra bn jata hE|[se ko{ kdr nhI hotI|
ntIja ye inklta hE na b.do. ka xukr Ada krta hE na b.do. ke prvridgar ka
xukr Ada krta hE|
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yanI k{ bar bahr muLko. me mdrso. ke A.dr ye deqa ik muslman
bCco. ko talIm dI ja rhI hE,to hmne sica ik Aaj hm ku7 Cookies bCco. me
tksIm kre. to In a row 0k ktar me calIs pcas muslman bCce samne se
gujre AOr ]nko Cookies dI AOr iksIne xukrIye ka lFj na kha|
[sI trh bCce se ko{ gltI ho ja0 to ]sko Sorry krne ka trIka smzana ye
ma>-bap kI ijMmedarI hotI hE|Agr bCca ApnI gltIpr Sorry nhI khega to ]
ske A.dr 6m.D b!ega|vo ApnI gltI ko wI Justify sfa{ dne kI koxIx krega|vo
glt raStepr cl inklega|ye 7o3I AOr buinyadI cIje hE. mgr [NhI.se [.san kI
xqsIyt Aage b!tI hE|ma> ko caih0 ik bCca jrasa bDa ho ]ske sone ka
Schedule vKt,jagneka,]ske p!ne ka ]ske qelne ka ye pura ty hona caih0|
hm Apne 6rme k{ bar deqte hE. Bahr se bCce Aate hE. to vo Aaps
me imlkr qelte hE.,lDte hE.|bCce bCce jo huve|to hnana iksI vKt Agr
0esI bat kre to ]skI ma> durse ]se khtI hE hnana behave ALlah kI xan
ye lFj 0esa ibjlI kI trh ]s pr Asr krta hE ik ye lFj sunkr ]skI Aa>qo. me
Aa.su Aa jate hE.,vo ma> kI trf wagtI hE,]sko mnatI hE,Sorry krtI hE|Ab
ye ma> ne ]se tuning kI hE ik bCce ne fOrn phcan ilya|
ye AajIj soc rha 4a hmare bcpn me hme ko{ sO bar behave khta to
hme ptahI nhI clta ye Kya kha ja rha hE|to ye ma> kI ijMmedarI hotI hE
ik iks bCce ko vo Kya smzatI hE. iks lFj ka Kya mtlb hE ?
Aaj to ma> bap ijtne wI 0hsas kre. bCce ]ska ilhaj hI nhI rqte|]skI
buinyadI vjh ik ]nke jhn me iksI ne ye Dala hI nhI hota ik 0hsan ka
xukrIya wI Ada krna caih0|to ye bCce kI Akele kI ij.dgI jo 6rke dayre ke
A.dr hE [sko ma> ne hI to s.varna hE|Agr vo Ac7e Aadab kI malikn
rhegI to bCce ke A.dr Specification qususIyat Aa0.gI|]skI xqsIyt ke A.dr
jajbIyt Aa ja0gI|bCca 0k magnetic personality imknatsI xqsIyt vala bn
ja0ga|[sil0 dStQvan pr bCce ko qane ke Aadab AOr dusre logo. ke sa4 ]
sne kEse DIl krna hE,6rke log,]nke Aadab,7o3e bCco. ka 0k dusre ko cIj
de dena iKyo.kI bCco. ke il0 ApnI cIj ya qelne kI cIj iksI dusre ko dena ye
bDa muxikl kam hE|mgr ye bCce ko ye kurbanI dena ]skI ma> hI isqatI
hE|to ye AkelI ij.dgI ka jo 0k 7o3a dayra hE ye sbse phle ma> ne isqana
hota hE|jb bCca 6rke A.dr 0k AC7a bCca bnkr rhna xu= kr deta hE to ifr
bahr ke logo. se jb ]ska interaction mel jol hota hE to vo ykIn se kha
ja0ga ik vo 0k AC7a [.san hE|
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deqa hE|Abu n{m kI irvayt hE ik bCce qel rhe 4e to nbI ne
frmaya, ASslamu kum ya isbyan |7o3e bCco. ko wI
ALlah ke hbIb slam de rhe hE. AOr ]nko ye trIka isqa rhe hE.|
ko slam ikya krte 4e|[sil0 jo qaivNd 6rme daiql ho kr slam kre,]s 6rke
A.dr ALlahtAala brkt Ata frmate hE.|Ab muskurana AOr slam krna iktnI
PyarI suNnt hE|to bCca bcpn se ye bat isqega to bDe ho kr wI ]spr Aml
krega|to bCce ko ye suNnt trIka isqana caih0|
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hm log Apne kalej ke jmane me A.ge/jI iktab me 0k mjmun p!a
4a|vo 0k sekxn 4a jo qyalI tOrpr 0k saynsdan ne ilqa ik duinyame bDI
sa>y3ifk improvement trKkI ho ja0gI|kyamt ka idn hoga to 0k
sayNsdan ALlahrBbul [Jjt ke samne khega,ALlah Aap ne [.san bna0 AOr
mE ne robo3 bna0 AOr mere robo3 [.sano. se bhut bhetr hE.|[sil0 ik ]skI
mxIn S3enles S3Il se bnI huvI hE|n ]sko j.g lgega n deterioration
hogI,]skI la{f la>g hogI|ifr ye wI ik [.san 0k jban bolta hE AOr mere
robo3 ke A.dr burI duinya kI jbano. ka Da3a Dala gya hE to vo hr jban
bolta hE|[s.an to isfR rOxnI me deqta hE|mere robo3 me to na{3iVhjn
kI slahIyt wI hogI|[.san to kam krke 4k jata hE,vo mxIn 4kne ka nam nhI
letI|[s.an to isfR krIb kI Aavaj sunta hE,vo robo3 to bhut du kI Aavaj ko
wI sun leta hE|[s trh ke comparison mvajne se yu feel mhsus hoga ik
jEse mxIn kI slahIyte. Jyada hE. [.sano. ke mukbale|
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| [brahIm ibn Adhm ka vakIya-
[brahIm ibn Adhm ka mxhur vakIya hE|0k muLk ke badxah
4e| 0k rat Aa>q qulI to deqa ik kmre ke A.dr rOxnI hE AOr 0k AadmI jo
bhut nuranI xqsIyt hE,vo }pr bE#a ku7 ilq rha hE|]Nhone pu7a kOn ? ]
sne kha ik mE frIxta hu.|Kya ilq rhe ho ? ]sne kha mE. ]n logo. ke nam
ilq rha hu. jo ALlahtAala se muhBbt krte hE.|[Nhone pu7a ik mera nam
ku7 idno. ke bad ye vakIya ifr pex Aaya|Ab [Nhone pu7a kOn ? ]sne
kha frIXta|pu7a Kya ilq rhe ho ? ]sne kha mE ]n logo. ke nam ilq rha hu.
ijnse ALlah muhBbt frmate hE.|to [Nhone ifr pu7a mera nam ? ]sne kha
ik [sme sbse phla nam tuMhara ilqa huva hE [sil0 ik tum ALlah ke il0
ALlah ke b.do. se muhBbt krte ho|[ske ntIje me ALlahtAala Aapse
muhBbt krte hE.|
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[nam imlta hE to 6rka ko{ b.da bImar ho gya,iksI kI tklIf ko [.san ApnI
tklIf smze,[ska ALlah ke yha> Kya =tba hoga ? to bCce ko ye sIqana
hota hE ik vo dusro. ke il0 rhmt bne jhmt ne bne|]nke gm quxI ko Share
ba.3ne vala bne|[sIka dusra nma [.sanIyt hE|
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Ab Agr drvaje pr ko{ Aaya hE to be3I ko wejne kI Kya j=rt hE ?
ALlahne Agr be3a idya hE to vo ja0 AOr drvaje pr jakr deqe ik kOn Aaya
hE ? iKyo. Aaya ? to 6rke A.dr ke kam,jatI kam [s trh ke kamo. ko krna
AOr ijMme lgana ya bap AOr ma> kI ijMmedarI hotI hE|[sse bCce ke
A.dr 0hsase ijMmedarI pEda hotI hE AOr bCce ke A.dr responsibility
ijMmedarI kI Sense AatI hE|bCce ko sfa{,pakIjgI ka dsR ye ma> se
imlta hE|
| pa.cvI cIj-mhemannvajI
pa.cvI cIj hE mheman nvajI|ye xrIAt ka Ahm huKm hE AOr ma>
bap ye isft bCce ke A.dr pEda krte hE.|nbI mnha ne frmaya
kana suimnu ibLlahI vl yOiml AaqrI kl yukirmu jEfhu
[rxad frmaya ik jo ALlah ke }pr AOr kyamt ke idn pr {man rqta hE,Kya
mtlb,ik ALlah ko manta hE AOr kyamt ke idn ALlahke samne pexI ko sc
janta hE ]sko caih0 ik vo mhemano. ka [kram kre|
Arb logo. ke A.dr mheman nvajI ka Kya qubsUrt trIka deqne ko imlta
hE,subhanLlah|]lma 0 mavr ka ye hal hE ik vo frmate 4e ik yu. smzo ik
6rme ko{ mheman Aaya to [tnI iqdmt kro ik fjR kro prvridgar tuMhara
mheman bnkr Aata to tum kEse mheman nvajI krte|hmne deqa ik ]nke
yha> ko{ mheman cla ja0,subhanLlah,[tnI mheman nvajI krte hE. ik
hEran ho jate hE. AOr [s mheman nvajI se [.san ke irjk me brkt AatI hE|
hdIse mubarka me hE ik mheman badme phu.cta hE,ALlahtAala
mheman ka irjk phle ]s 6rme phu.ca dete hE.|
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sEYydna [brahIm to mhemano. ke isva qana hI nhI qate 4e|
k{ k{ mIl dur jakr Agr iksI b.de ko lana pDta to wI mheman ke sa4 bE#
kr hI qana qate 4e|0k AOr hdIse mubarka me hE ik ijs qane se [.san
roja rqe ya roja [Ftar kre ya ijs qane me mheman xaiml ho ALlahtAala
kyamt ke idn ]s qane ka ihsab nhI le.ge|hmare hjrt muxIdRe Aalm
[s kdr mheman nvaj 4e ik haitm ta{ kI yad AatI 4I|
ku7 vKt ke bad ]ske idl me qyal Aaya to [sne ]nke il0 ku7 Snacks
naXte ka b.dobSt xu= kr idya ik Aane valo. ke il0 panI ka [.tjam,ya ku7
7o3a mo3a qane-pIne ka [.tjam ho|[s trh hote hote vha> hmexa ke
qane ka b.dobSt wI bn gya|jo log rat ko vha> #hr jate to ]s AOrt kI trfse
]nko qana idya jata,log wI log hote hE.,0k shult imle,AasanI se imle ifr
D3 kr fayda ]#ate hE.|Ab log jo hE. vo PlanI.g hI 0esI krte 4e ik hm
yha> se cle.ge AOr [xa ke vKt vha> phu.cege|rat vha. rhe.ge,qana
qa0.ge,Agle idn xhr ja0.ge|cuna.ce kwI tIs AadmI kwI pcas AadmI AOr
roj ]nka qana bn rha hE AOr ]nko iml rha hE|jb wI ko{ qEr ka kam hota
hE to ku7 log hote hE. ik ijnka digest krna vo kam bDa muxikl hota hE|
[s trh ke log j=rt se Jyada qErQvah log 4e|]Nhone ]s AOrt ke qaivNd ko
Aakr kha ik jnab roj ke tIs,calIs,pcas b.do. ka qana|||||log to 0ex kr rhe
hE.|lgta hE ik Aapke pas muFt ka mal hE|Aap khI. drQt se ]tar kr to nhI
late ? ye to k.gal ho ja0.ge AOr ye log to Aap ka mal qa ja0.ge|0esI
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icknI cupDI bate. ]n logo. ne kr dI. ik vo qaivNd feel mhsus krne lga ik
ye to [tna pEsa ibla vjh brbad ho rha hE|[sil0 ]sne vo l.gr b.d krva idya|
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mheman kI g.dgI saf kr rhe hE.|2o rhe hE.|jb ]sne nbI ka ye
Aml deqa,kilma p!a AOr muslman ho gya|ALlah ke hbIb kI mheman
nvajI kI ye xan 4I|
[sil0 bCce ko smzana ik iksI cIj ko qrIdne me ikn ikn bato. ka qyal
rqna hota hE|ye Aap kI ijMmedarI hE|sOda sLf qrIdne jra bDI ]mr ka
bCca huva to ]se sa4 rqna caih0 AOr btana caih0 ik be3e ye deqo mE
ne ye Select cuna|ye cIj [sil0 cUj kI|ye [sil0 ps.d kI|taik bCce ko pta cta
rhe ik Agr muze ye kam krna pDe to muze ikn bato. ka qyal rqna hE|
to bCce ko qrId v froqt kI se.s honI caih0|bap phle qud qrIdarIya> kre
AOr bCca deqta rhe AOr bCce ko smzaya ja0|ifr 0k vKt 0esa Aa0 ik bap
Apne be3e ko lekr ja0 to ]se khe ik tum sb kam kro|mE isfR tuMhe vac
k=.ga|Agr ko{ btane kI cIj ho to bta dI ja0 AOr Agr bCca AC7e decision
making fEsle kre to ]skI tarIf krnI caih0|to bCco. ke A.dr confidence
hOsla Aa jata hE AOr ]sko 0k kam krne ka trIka Aa jata hE|
| doSto. ka [.tqab-
satvI. cIh hE doSto. ka [.tqab|[sil0 bahr ke logo. me nek logo. ke
sa4 bCca rhe AOr bure logo. ke sa4 bCca bce|hr trh ke log hote hE.|[sI
mahol muAaxre me [.san kI xkl me hEvan wI ifrte hE. AOr [.san kI xkl
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me xEtan ifrte hE.|to bCco. ko [n hEvno. AOr xEtano. se bcana caih0
AOr nek [.sano. ke sa4 [ska irXta joDna hE|nbI ne frmaya,Al
mr] Ala idnI qlIlIhI fl y.jur Ah=kum mE. yuqaill ik b.da
Apne doSt ke dIn pr hota hE|[tna Jyada bCca doSto. se isqta hE ik hm ]
sko soc hI nhI skte|[sil0 hjrt xequl hdIs ke vailde gramI mOlana
yhya frmate 4e ik Agr ko{ talIbe [Lm jhIn ho leikn doStI lgane kI
mjIR ho to ]skI kXtI bIc drIya ke A.dr j=r Dub ja0gI AOr Agr doStI lgane
kI mjIR nhI AOr ku.d jhn wI hE to kwI n kwI ]skI kxtI iknare lg ja0gI|
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bure doSt kI imsal bure sa>p kI trh hE|ijs trh jhrIla sa>p [s.ano.
ko Ds leta hE AOr [.san ijsmanI mOt mr jata hE|[sI trh bura doSt wI
[.san ko Ds leta hE|[.san =hanI mOt mr jata hE|hmare yha> 0k bDe
ALlahvale gujre hE.,bah sultan ]nko kha jata hE AOr p.jabI juban me ]
nka bhut hI AjIb AarIfana klam hE,to vo ApnI 0k =ba{ me bure doSt se
mna krte huve khte hE.|
s.g khte hE. doStko,ku.sgI khte hE. bure doSto. ko|to vo khte hE. ik
bure doStse hm doStI n lga0. AOr Apne nsbko 2ba n lga0.|
frmate hE. jo kDve ku.ve hote hE.,kDve panI ke vo mI#a nhI hota cahe
tum ]sme 0k laq mn guD ]ske A.dr Dal do|jEsI hI vo im#as ka Asr qTm
hoga nIcese ifr kDva ho ja0ga|
sa.pke bCce kwI doSt nhI hote cahe tum ApnI h4elIse ]sko du2 pIlate
rho|jb bDa hoga vo tuMhe ka>3ke rhega|
Aor jo kVveka be3a hota hE vo kwI h.s nhI bn skta cahe tum qaneme ]
se matI hI iKyo. iqlate rho AOr AqIr me khte hE. ik
to [sil0 baj 0ese bure doSt hote hE.,xkI ikSm ke,Apne bCco. ko ]nkI
doStI se bcana [.tha{ j=rI hota hE|ye ma> bap ne trbIyt denI hotI hE|
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ALlah kre ik hmare bCce 6ro. me ma> bap ke jrIye se AC7I trbIyt
pa0. AOr muAaxreka 0k AC7a fdR bnkr ij.dgI gujare|
bCco. kI
talImI trbIyt
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Aaj kI bat cIt hE dIne [slam me bCco. kI talImI trbIyt|dIne [slam ne
[Lm haisl krne ke il0 ijs kdr Ahimyt byan kI ye ]sse phle khI. njr nhI AatI|
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pas,p.DIto. ke pas hota 4a|ye dIne [slam ka [.sanIyt ke }pr 0hsan hE
ik ]sne ]n tmamse [Lm inkal kr purI [.sanIyt tk phu.ca idya|
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to bakI rhta hE|to bcpn kI yaddaXt bhut tej hotI hE to [.san kI
permanent memory hmexa jhn ka ihSsa bn jata hE|[sil0 jo bCce bcpn
kI]mr me kurAan mjId yad kr lete hE., sal sal sal kI ]mrse ]nka ihFj
bhut pKka hota hE AOr jo jvanul ]mr hoene ke bad ifr yad krte hE. to ]
nko bhut mhent krna pDtI hE|
rgo. me daiql ho ja0ga AOr bu!ape me jakr to ifr muikl ho jatI hE|[sil0
lDkpn kI ]me me [Lm isqane kI behtrIn ]mr hotI hE|ma> bap ko caih0
ko bCce ke A.dr [Lm kI muhBbt pEda kre.|yha> tk ik iqlOne wI le kr de.
to 0ese ik ijs iqlOne se vo learn isqe|to bCce ke A.dr jb [Lm ka xOk
pEda ho ja0ga to vo [Lm doSt xqsIyt bn ja0ga|[Lm ka duxmn vhI hota
hE jo jaihl AOr beAkl hota hE|Aklma.d [.san hmexa [Lmka kdr dan hota
hE|to [sil0 ma> bap baj AOkat ye smzte hE. ik bCca 7o3I ]mr me fKt
qele|bDa ho kr p! lega,p!na to bDa ho kr hI hota hE leikn p!ne ka xOk
7o3I ]mr ne ]s pr Dal idya jata hE AOr Aam tOr pr ma0. hI ye kam A.jam
detI hE.|[sil0 hmare yha> bhut 7o3I ]mr me bCce ko kurAan mjId p!ne
ke il0 wej idya jata hE|to bCca phle kayda p!ta hE,ifr kurAan mjId p!
leta hE to ]ske A.dr p!ne kI isft pEda ho jatI hE|
hmare Akaibr bCco. kI talIm ke ]pr bhut Jyada tvJjoh dete 4e|yhya ibn
hmId ibn tvIl ne ilqa hE ik hmja ibn slma bCco. ke hdIse. suna rhe hE.|to
ye c.d mxa{q vKt 4e,muhIsIn 4e ye ]nkI iqdmt me phu.ce AOr qamoxI
se bE# g0|to hMmaj ibn slma bCco. ko p!ate rhe|kafI der ke bad jb ]
Nhone p!ana b.d ikya to [n mxa{q kI trf mutvJjoh huve AOr ]nse bate.
krne lge|to yhya ne kha ik Aap ke pas mxa{qe vKt Aa0 4e|Aap ne ]nkI
trf tvJjoh hI nhI ikya AOr bCco. ko hI p!ate rhe|to [spr hMmaj ibn slma
ne kha ik mE ne Asl me Qvab deqa 0k nher hE AOr ]sme Dol le kr qDa
hu. AOr bCce mere samne 0k 0k krke Aate hE. AOr mE. [nke il0 nher se
panI Dalta ja rha hu.|[s vjh se mE ne [n bCco. ko p!ane kI trf Jyada
@yan idya|
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[mam buqarI ne ds salkI ]mr me hdIse mubarka ko ihFj
krna xu= kr idya|Ab deq.e ds sal kI ]mr iktnI 7o3I ]mr hotI hE|leikn ]nko
bhut sarI AhadIs yad ho g{ 4I.|vo frmate hE. ik mE 0k idn Apne ]stad kI
iqdmt me haijr huva to ]stad ne 0k hdIs pak kI irvayt krte huve kha ik
suifyan ne Abu jubEr se AOr ]sne [brahIm se nkl ikya|to mE ne kha hjrt
Abu jubEr ne [brahIm se nkl nhI ikya|to ]Nhone kha ik Abu jubEr kI
[brahIm se mulakat nhI,ijs jubEr se mulakat huvI vo jubEr AdI hE.|[sne
[brahIm se nkl ikya hE|cuna.ce ]stad ]sI vKt A.dr 6rme cle g0 AOr Asl
nuSqa jb ]Nhone deqa to ]sme suidyan jubEr AdIse AOr jubEr AdIne
[brahIm se nkl ikya hE to ]stad be kha ik [s bCce ne i#k kha ik yha>
ravI ke nam me fkR pD gya hE|
hmne 0k mtRba Asr ke bad deqa ik vo bCca sure yusuf p! rha heE|
msijd ke shen me AOr pure mdrse ke tulba,p!ane vale ]stad ]ske igdR
jma hE. AOr ]ska kurAan sun rhe hE.|[s AajIj ne jb suna to [tna Pyara
lga ik ko{ 0k 6.3a ya [ske krIb krIb ye AajIj wI qDa ]ska kurAan sunta
rha AOr bCce ka ihFj [tna pKka 4a ik gltI to Aane ka sval hI pEda nhI
hota|]ske ]stad ne ]s bCce kI AjIb khanI suna{|
khne lge ye dehat ka 0k lDka 4a|ma> bap ne sat sal kI ]mr me [sko
bkrIya> crane pr lga idya|Ab car sal se bCca 2up me dophr ke vKt
bkrIya> crata 4a|[ska AabId logo.se ko{ vaSta hI nhI 4a|[sko lDkpn me
hI vIrana imla|to iblkul jEse janvro. valI kEfIyt hotI hE,[s bCce kI Aadte.
vEsehI 4I|[ska kam yhI 4a ik subha ]#na hE AOr naXta krne ke bad
bkrIyo. ko sa4 lena hE AOr le kr bahr cle jana hE,qeto. me,vIrono.
me,sdIR me AOr gmIR me|bs ]n bkrIyo. ko crana hE AOr sara idn 4ka
4kaya xamko vaps Aana hE|ye bCca k{ dfa t.g wI bhut hota iKyo.kI
mehnt bhut 4I,bkrIyo. ke pI7e bhut wagna pDta 4a|
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[ska 0k bcpn ka doSt 4a,vo imskInpur xrIf ke mdrse me ihFj krne ke
il0 Aaya,]ske ma>-bap ne ]sko daiqla idlvaya|Ab vo bCca juma ke idn
7u3I ke idn vaps gya|ALlah kI xan [skI mulakat ]s bCce se huvI|dono.
bCco. ne Aaps me bat-cIt kI|mdrsevale bCce ne pu7a sunaAo kEse vKt
gujrta hE|]sne kha Aaj kl to bkrIya> hE. AOr mE. hu.,AOr ko{ nhI hE|
psIna Aa rha hota hE,pIne ko panI nhI imlta,Agr khI. imlta hE to ]bla
huva hota hE|2ag 2ag ke merI to mt marI jatI hE|jb ]sne pu7a ik tum
kha> se ho to [s bCce ne btaya ik mE to 0k mdrse me kurAan pak ihFj
kr rha hu. AOr vha. to ibjlI ke p.qe me bE#te hE.,saya hota hE,mje hote
hE.|subh naXta imlta hE,dophr qana imlta hE,rat qana imta hE|hm to
imya> xhjade kI trh vha> rhte hE.|]s bCce ne ku7 0esI bate. bta{. ya
0ese A.daj se bta{. ik ye bCca khne lga muze wI mdrse le clo,merI [s
musIbt se jan 7u3 ja0|]sne kha mE to le ja].ga|lo Ab dono bCco. ne
Aapse me ty kr ilya|Ab jb hFte ke idn vo mdrsevala bCca jane lga to
subh subh ye wI 6rse wag ke ]s bCce ke sa4 ho gya|mdrse me vo bCca
Aaya jo phlese p!ta 4a|]sne Aake mohtimm sahb ko kha jI ye bCca
hmare ga>v ka hE AOr ye wI p!na cahta hE AOr ]ske ma>-bap ne mere
sa4 weja hE|
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| [mam muhMmd ka vakIya-
[mam muhMmd 0k nvab ke be3e 4e|bhut qubsUrt 4e AOr
bhUt jhIn 4e|[nke vaild ne soca ik mE [sko dIn ka AalIm bnata hu.|AwI
nabailg bCce 4e,to [nke vaild ]nko [mame Aajm Abu hnIfa ke pas
la0 ik hjrt mere [s bCce ko xagIdIR ke il0 kbUl kr iljI0|[mam Abu hnIfa
lete,sunate,cle jate|k{ sal gujr g0|0k idn [mam muhMmd iksI bat
ko pu7ne ke il0 Aa0 to [mam Abu hnIfa dIvar kI trf muh. krke
bE#e 4e AOr 2up 0esI 4I ik bCce ka saya dIvar pr pDta 4a|to [mam
deqa,khte hE. ik [mam Abu hnIfa kI phlI njr ]s vKt pDI jb bap le
kr Aaya Aor dusrI njr ]s vKt pDI jb ALlah ne ]nko [tnI bDI suNnt ke
mutaibk da!I Ata kr dI|drimayn me ye njr hI ]nke cehre pr nhI pDI|0ese
tkva vale ]stad,subhanLlah|||||ifr jakr ]stad kI slahIyte. xagIdo.R me
mu.tikl hotI hE.|
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ke pas ifr Aa0|to [mam sahb smze ik xayd imlne ke il0 Aa0 hE.,to
pu7a,muhMmd kEse Aana huva ? hjrt Aap ne jo huKm idya 4a mE ne
0k hFte ke A.dr pure kurAan mjId ko yad kr ilya|k{ iktabo. me ilqa hE ik
bCca ma>-bap kI bat ko glt smz leta hE,]stad kI bat ko glt nhI smzta|
[sil0 k{ log dInIyat p!ane ke il0 gEr mukaibl ikSm ke ]Stado. cun lete
hE. AOr vo bCce ko iblkul k.Fyuj kr dete hE.|to nek,muTtkI ]stad ko !.u!
na shI Akaydvala ye ma>-bap kI ijMmedarI hE|[sse bCce ke A.dr Asrat
Aate hE.|log pu7te hE. ik jI ALlama [kbal kI jaihrI ij.dgI to Aam sI njr AatI
hE,leikn jb ]ske AxAar p!te hE. to hEran hote hE. ik jEse ]sne ]Mmt ke
bare me bate. kI AOr dIn ke bare me AOr [slam ke bare me AOr momIn
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ke bae me to lgta hE ik ko{ vlI bn rha hE|to [skI buinyadI vjh ye ik ]n ke
halate ij.dgI me ilqa hE ik ]nko bcpnse farsI juban p!anevale jo ]stad 4e
vo bhut tkve vale b.de 4e|]nka tkva mxhur 4a|ye ]s ]stad kI mehnt hE
ik ]sne ]s bcpn kI ]mr me [s bCce ke idl me [slam kI 0esI muhBbt wr dI
yanI bcpn kI ye brkte. 0esI hotI hE. ik jaihrI ij.dgI sO fIsd xrIAt ke
mutaibk na wI bCca pn pa0,]ske idl ke A.dr vo kEfIyt mOjud hotI hE|
[sil0 jb vo bolte 4e to hkIkt me ]nka ]stad A.dr se bolta 4a|[sil0 muTtkI ]
stad ka hona bhut j=rI hE|
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ifr bCca jb bDa hota hE to cahe pcas jubane isqe,sb ]ske il0 jayj hE
AOr Ahm hE|ijtnI jubane bCca Jyada isqa ]tna hI better bhetr|Aaj kl to
DaK3rI ke il0 hr juban AanI caih0|
bCco. kI Kya slhIyt hE|Aaj ko{ hE bCca jo 0k mhIne me ko{ dusrI juban
sIqe ? 0k mhIne me to pta hI nhI clta ik juban hotI kEsI hE ? leikn ALlah
ne ]n logo. ko slahIyte. [tnI dI. 4I ik purI juban 0k mhIne ke A.dr A.dr sIq
lI|
Aaj to bCce phlI se xu= krte hE. AOr cO2vI. tk A.g/jI sIqte jate hE.
AOr ifr wI A.g/jI ilqne p!ne me gltIya> krte hE.|to ye ]sUl smz le. ik
muslman hone kI vjh se bCce ko xu=vat ArbI se krvanI caih0 AOr vo
kEse hogI ? vo kurAan mjId ke p!ane se hogI| xu= me bCce ko Aap sfR
v nhv nhI xu= krva0.ge|vo to 7o3a hota hE|]s bCce ko ArbI juban p!na
isqa0.|ye ArbI se xu=vat ho g{|Ab vKt ke sa4 bCca ArbI wI p!ega AOr
bakI jubane. wI p!ega|
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suifyan ibn irAana frmate hE ik 0k mtRba vo hdIs ka dsR
de rhe 4e ik 0k bCca Aaya AaEr bDI ]mr ke mdR sb bE#e hu0 4e,]n
bDI ]mr ke mdoR. ne [xare se ]se pre kr idya ik w{ tum bCce kCce ho
AaEr ifr ]ske bad ye logo. ko btaya ik deqo 0k vKt mere ]pr 0esa
gujra 4a,]mr wI merI 7o3I 4I,kd wI mera 7o3a 4a|[tna 7o3a kd 4a ik mE.
mjils me. bE#ta 4a to jEse iksI lkDI me. kIl gaD dete hE. vo kIl kI jgh mE
gDa huva hota 4a|[tna 7o3a sa 4a AOr merI dvat Aqro3 kI trh hotI 4I
AOr mera klm bdam kI trh hota 4a|leikn jb mE [Lm haisl kr gya to 7o3e
kd ke bavjud mera ye hal 4a ik jb mE muhsIn kI mjils me jata to vo
khte ik ye xeqe sgIr yanI 7o3e xeq ke il0 jgh qalI kr lo|yanI 7o3a sa
bCca 4a leikn ]ske pas [Lm 4a|to frmaya ik muze log xeqe sgIr kha krte
4e|
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muze [mam mailk se imlne ka xOk 4a|mE mKka mukrRma se
mdIna tYyba ].3o. ke kaifle ke sa4 cla|hme raSte me p.2rah idn lge AOr
mE ne p.2rah idn me p.2rah bar kurAan xrIf ko pura p! ilya|Aaj hm
mKka mukrRma se mdIna tYyba jate hE., Air conditioned gaDIyo. me
car se pa.c 6.3e ke A.dr AOr hm car se pa.c pare nhI p! pate|p.2rah idn
me ]Nhone p.2rah mtRba kurAan mjId p! ilya|frmate hE. ik jb mE
msijde nbvI me phu.ca to nmaj huvI,]ske bad mE ne deqa 0k }.ce lMbe
kd ka AadmI hE|]sne 0k cadr ba.2I huvI hE|0k lpe3I huvI hE AOr vo
0k }.cI sI jgh pr bE# kr khne lga kal =suluLlahI
to mE ne phcan ilya ik ye [mam mailk hE.|mE wI bE# gya|ye vo
jb mjils qTm huvI to log AglI nmaj kI tyrI ke il0 cle g0,mera cu.ik vuju
ne ilqva{ 4I.|mE ne sarI kI sarI mtn AOr snd ke sa4 ]nko suna dI.|
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0k mtRba 0k AadmI Aaya AOr khne lga ik jI mE ne bulbul becnI 4I
AOr qrIdne vale ko ksm qake mE ne kh idya ik ye bulbul sara idn boltI
rhtI hE AOr bad me muze qyal Aaya ik w{ sara idn to nhI boltI,cup wI
hotI rhtI hE|Ab mE ne ksm ]#a{ to mE hains to nhI bna ? [mam mailk
hotI hE|ye hans nhI bnega|to [mam malIk ye bat sun kr hEran
huve|ifr ijtne idn ye vha> rhe [Nho. ne [Lm hasIl ikya|frmate hE. ifr mE.
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| [Lm ke xOk kI j=rt hE-
Ab yha> pr nuKta pEda hota hE ik hr bCca to hafIj,AalIm nhI bnta|
AKsr v bextr to bCce Skulo. me.,kalejo. me. ja kr p!te hE.|AsrI dunyavI
talIm|to w{ [Lm ka Agr xaEk ho to bCce jEse dIn me. Aage b!te hE.,AsrI
talIm me. wI Aage b! jate hE.|Asl to A.dr [Lm ka xaEk hE|cuna.ce 0k do
vakIyat [s AajIj kI ApnI ij.dgI me. pex Aaye|
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dukandarI me taik cIjo. kI qrIdarI AC7I AOr km kImtpr ke lu.|bapne kha
bhut AC7a|cuna.ce vo subh Apne 6rse inklta AOr ]sne ku7 cIjo. kI lIS3
bna{ huvI jotI 4I|vo xhrme dukandaro. ko de deta,jo holsel ka dukandar
4a AOr ]se khta w{ ye cIje. inkal rqna mE Aata hu. AOr sI2a vha. se
kalej jata|vha. jakr vo pepr deta|pepr dene ke bad vaps Aata AOr cIje.
lekr 6r Aa jata,to vaild smzte ik mera be3a sara xhr 6um-6um ke cIjo.
ko !.u!ke laya hE|0k hFta bCce ne gujar ilya AOr pepr wI sare de id0|Ab
ALlah kI xan deqe. ik jb irjL3 Aaya to Aqbar me ]s lDke kI fo3o 7pI|
mohLlevalo. ne ]ske valId ko mubarkbad dI ik jI jnab Aapke be3ene
topur boDR me pojIxn lelI|vo khne lga mera be3a to dukandar hE|]skI
tsvIr Aqbaro. me kEse hE|]s bCce ne p/ayv3 tOrpr [tnI mehnt kr dI ik 0f|
0s|sI ke A.dr pure boDR me ]sne pojIxn haisl kr lI|Ab jb mohLlevalo. ko
pta cla to ]Nhone ]s bCce ke il0 koxIx kI,0k 3Im 4I jo SkalrxIp detI 4I
hmne ]nko khkr ]sko Skalrixp wI lgva idya AOr 0k AadmI se wI
Skalrixp jarI ho g{|]ske vaild ko smzaya ik deqe. Aapko to mhIne ka
qcR caih0 na ? Aapko 6r bE#e ib#a0 Skalrixp ke pEse imlte rhe.ge|
Aap ApnI ij.dgI gujare.|bCco. ko iKyo. dukan pr ba.2te hE.|ye p!ne ka
xOk rqta hE to [sko Engineering Univercity me daqla iml rha hE,[ska
daiqla hone de.|vaild ne [jajt de dI|0k Scholarship se vo bCca Apne qcR
pure krta AOr dusre Scholarship se vo valIdEn kI iqdmt gujarI krta|car
sal Univercity me p!a AOr Electrical Engineer bna| ifr ALlahrBbul [Jjt
ne ]sko STO kI Position dI|0k vo vKt wI Aaya jb ]sI xhr ke A.dr vo HCL
bna AOr ]ske pas kar wI 4I AOr ko#I wI 4I AOr vo Apne ma> bap ko lekr
]s ko#I me rhne lga AOr ]ske bad xhrke [Jjtdar logo. me ]s bCce ka
xumar hota 4a|Ab deqo vo bCca ma>-bap se 7upke p! rha hE|mgr ]ske
A.dr [Lm haisl krne ka xOk 4a|ALlahne ]sko pure xhr kI [Jjtdar hStIyo.
me xaiml frma idya|to Asl cIj [LmI kI muhBbt hotI hE|
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bCcI 6r hI me p!ne lgI|k{ jgho.pr vo A3k wI jatI|]sne request kI,ABbu
iksI p/ofesr sahb ke pas Tution rq de.|bap ne kha be3I mE nhI cahta tum
iksI mdR se p!o|tum jvanul ]mr ho|to vo khtI hE ik AC7a ABbu muze ye
bat smz nhI Aa{ hE,to Aap kalej to jate hI hE.,to Botony AOr Zoology
ke fla. p/ofesr sahb se [ske bare me pu7 lo|ik Botony ka Question
AaEr Arib ke Professor pu7ne ke il0 professor ke pas jane 4e AOr vo
Professor ArbI ke Professor ko Botony ka sval smzata|Ab vo ArbIke
p/ofesr Kya ba3nI smzte ho.ge|lekIn vo bCcI [tnI jhIn 4I ik jb ArbI ke
p/ofesr 6r Aakr do car lFj sunate AaEr no3s idqate to vo bCcI no3s se ]s
bat ko smz ilya krtI|[s trhse ]s bCcI ne 6r me. p!a AaEr iblAaqIr ]s ka
kalej se daqIla cla gya AaEr jb ]sne [Mtehan idya to ]s ne pure kalej
me. 3ap ikya|yha> tk ik ifr faitma jha> meDIkl kalej 0k 0esa kalej
hE jo meDIkl kI talIm fKt lDkIyo. ko dete hE.|vo bCcI ifr vha> daqIl huvI|
Aaj vo meDIkl DaK3r bnI huvI hE|hEran hote hE. ik ]s bCcI ke idl me.
xaEk 4a,]s ne 6r bE#kr meDIkl kI talIm krke daqla le ilya AaEr Aaj vo
meDIkl kI DaK3r bn kr ij.dgI gujar rhI hE|to AsrI talIm ho ya dInI talIm
ho,Asl cIj [Lm ka xaEk hE|ye xaEk wrna ma> bap kI ijMmedarI hE AaEr
[s ke il0 AC7e ]Stad ka hona mddgar bna krta hE|ilhaja ma> bap ko
cahI0 ik Apne bCce ke il0 AC7e ]stad ko !u.De AaEr ]s ke pas bCce ko
talIm de. to bCca ifr [Lm kI neAmt ko AasanI se hasIl kr lega|
Abu hinfa ka 6r 4a AaEr ]nkI vha> mjlIs hotI 4I|0k idn ye lDka
yakub nam 4a,bad me. Abu yusuf mxhur huva ye ]s mjlIs me. jakr bE#
gya|to [s ko [mam sahb kI bate. bhut ps.d Aa[|[mam sahb wI bhut
Jyada ifrast rqne vale 4e|]Nho.ne wI lDke ko deqkr faErn phcan lIya ik
ALlah ne [s ko bDI slahIyte. dI hE.|]Nho.ne pu7a ik w{ Kya tAa=f hE|ik jI
valId faEt hog0,AkelI valIda hE|]sne muze 2obI ke pas weja ik kpDe
2one ka fn sIqo|[mam sahb ne kha ik tum sara mhIna mere pas Aaya
kro AaEr ijtne pEse 2obI tuMhe dega ]sse ijyada pEse mE. tuMhe de
idya k=.ga|vo tum jakr ApnI valIda ko de dena,mKsd pura hoja0ga|
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Ab ye sara idn to [mam sahb ke pas gujarte AaEr mhIne ke bad
tnqa ke pEse lekr ApnI valIda ko de dete|jb valIda ko pEse mIlne lge to
vo mutm{n ij.dgI gujarne lgI|k{ sal gujr gye|yha> tk ik ye jvanul ]mr
bDI ]mr ke ho gye|0k idn valIda ko pta cla ik mera be3a to kpDe 2ona
janta hI nhI|]s ne pu7a be3e Kyu.?AMmI mE. to [Lm hasIl krta hu.|AaEr
pEse to muze ]Stad de dete hE.|vo mE. Aap ko lakr de deta hu.|to ma>
ne kha be3e tum kpDe 2ona sIqo takI tuMhare Apne AamdnI ka jrIya
ho|cuna.ce [mam Abu yusuf kI valIda ]nko sa4 lekr [mame Aajm
Abu hnIfa ke pas AayI AaEr ]nse kha ik mere be3e ko Aapne p!
ne p!ane pr lga iya|behtr 4a ik ye kpDe 2one ka fn sIqta|to [mam sahb
ye sunkr muskuraye AaEr frmaya,deqo tuMhe qcaR to iml hI rha hE|mE.
[s bCce ko 0esa fn sIqa rha hu> ik jb ye sIq jayega to ye ipste ka bna
huva hlva qaya krega|
ha=n rxId 0k mtRba bE#a 4a|to iksI ne [mam Abu yusuf ko qane ke
il0 ko{ cIj la kr dI|[mam sahbne pu7a Kya ? to ha=n rxId ne kha ik jo
b.da wI Cheif Justice bnta hE,cu.uik ]sko idmagI kam krna hota hE|
[sil0 ]sko hukumt ke qjane kI trfse qane ke il0 ye cIj dI jatI hE AOr hm
badxaho. ko wI kwI kwI imltI hE|[mam sahbne pu7a Kya ? khne lga
ipSte ka bna huva hlva|[mam Abu yusuf frmate hE.,]s vKt muze
bat yad Aa{|
kl.dr hr ce goyt dIn gIyt
sne suna ik bgdad ke A.dr 0k [mam Ahmd ibn h.bl ko{ muhis
AOr fkIh hE. AOr bDe [Lm vale wI hE.|]s bIs sal ke lDke ne inYyt kr lI ik
mE ]nke pas ja].ga AOr [Lm haisl k=.ga|Ab Agr Aap ma> hE. to soce.
ik Aap ka bIs sal ka be3a bgEr Asbab ke iksI dusre muLk jana cahe to ]s
pr Kya gujrtI hE|
yhya ibn muj[n dseR hdIs dete hE.|vo khte hE. ik mE. Asr kI nmaj
ke bad vha> cla gya|]Nho. ne 4oDI der hdIse mubarka ka dsR idya|
cu.kI vo jra AaEr tadlI ke [mam 4e|yanI ravI jo hote hE. hdIs ke ]nke
prqne ke [mam 4e|bDa [Lm idya 4a ALlah ne ]nko ASma]l rjal ka|to ]
Nho. ne svalo. ke jvab dene xu= kr id0|mE. ]#a AaEr mE. ne pu7a ik
fla. muhIs ke bare me. Kya khte hE? ]Nho. ne kha,vo cadr vale|vo to
[tne AC7e hE. ik Agr ]nkI cadr ke nIce tkBbur wI Aajaye to ]nkI skaht
me. ko{ fkR nhI pDta|mE. mutm[n ho gya|
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Ab mE. ne dusra sval pu7na caha to jo b.da krIb bE#a 4a ]sne kpDa
pkD kr qI.ca|]sne kha,wa{ yha> ka dstur ye hE ik hr b.da 0k sval pu7ta
hE|0k hI b.da sare sval pu7e to bakI Kya kre.ge? Aap ne sval pu7 lIya
Ab bE# javo|to khne lge mE. ne ronI surt bnakr imNnt smajt xu= kr dI
AaEr kha ik mE. musafIr hu>|mera hal Aap log deqte hE.|[tna l.ba sfr
krke Aaya hu.,AaEr muze mjils ke Aadab ka pta nhI 4a|vrna mE. vhI
sval pu7ta jo muze pu7na 4a|muze [jajt de de.|jb mE. ne imNnt smajt
kI to logo. ne kha AC7a pu7o|to khne lge mE. ne yhya ibn mu[n
se pu7a ik Aap [mam Ahmd ibn h.bl ke bare me. Kya khte hE.? khne lge
lekIn p!u.ga kEse? [skI ko{ surt nhI bntI 4I|khne lge ik mE. 6r vaps
Aaya to raSte me. mE. ne 0k b.de se kha ik muze [mam Ahmd ibn h.bl
ka 6r bta do|]sne kha,pulIs pkD legI|mE. ne kha clte,clte Aa>q ke [xare
se bta dena,mE. smz ja].ga|hm clte rhe.ge|]sne muze [mam Ahmd ibn
h.bl ke 6r kI inxandhI kr dI|frmate hE. mE. Apne kmre me. vaps Aaya|
sarI rat socta rha ik [mam Ahmd ibn h.bl se mE. [Lm kEse hasIl k=.?
khte hE. rat mE. ne 0k plain.g bna[|
tuMhara Ajr ALlah ke ijMme AaEr log ]nke kxtol me. ku7 Dal dete
4e|khte hE. merI xkl wI 0esI bnI huvI 4I,kmjor 4I,kpDe wI f3e purane se
4e AaEr idqane kI qatIr mE. ne pI wI ba.2 lI 4I|logo. me. se
ko{ ko{ mere kxtol me. ko{ currency Dal deta AaEr mE. sara idn xher
ke A.dr wIq ma.gta ifra|jb Asr ke krIb vKt huva,jb Aam logo. kI chl phl
4oDa km huvI to ]s vKt mE. [mam Ahmd ibn h.bl ke drvaje pr gya AaEr
mE. ne pure jor se kha,Aj=kum ALlah|[mam sahb ne drvaja qola AaEr ]
nke ha4 me. ko{ isKka 4a jo vo dena cahte 4e|mE. ne ]nko deqte hI
kha,[mam sahb mE. pEse ka sayl nhI, mE. to hdIs ka sayl hu>|mE. nbI
kI suNnto. ko jma krne vala hu> AaEr mE. Aap se [Lm hasIl
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ke drvaje pr roj Aa].ga AaEr sda lga].ga,Aap drvaja qol idya krna,Agr
ko{ b.da deqne vala ho to isKka Dal dena AaEr ko{ b.da deqne vala n
ho to 0k do hdIse. suna dena,mE. sunkr yad krilya k=.ga|lo [mam sahb
tyar hog0|
khte hE. mE. pura sal xhrke A.dr wIq ma.gta rha|log muze iwqarI
smzte 4e|mE. logo. kI trh trhkI njre. bdaRxt krta rha|mgr xamko mE.
Apne ]Stad ke drvaje pr phu.cta AaEr jb Aj=kum ALlah khta to [mam
sahb drvaja qolte,log hote to isKka Dal dete,n hote to muze ku7 hdIse.
suna dete|mE. ]nko jbanI yad kr leta 0k bar sunne ke bad|0k sal me.
mE. ne k{ saE hdIse. ]nse yad krlI|ALlah kI xan [s daEran hakIm faEt ho
jb phle idn [mam Ahmd ibn h.bl msijd me. dsR ke il0 Aa0 to
khte hE. ik mE. wI ]NhI f3e kpDo. me. Aap ke samne Aakr jra dur
bE#ne lga|[mam sahb kI njr pDI frmaya logo,[s bCce ko mere krIb Aane
do|[Lm ka Asl talIb to yhI [.san hE|0ese wI hmare log gujre|bIs sal kI
jvanI kI ]mr,xhvat kI ]mr hotI hE|xhvanI,mStanI,nfsanI ij.dgI gujarne ko
jI cahta hE|ye ALlah ka vo b.da [s [Bteda{ jvanI me. sara idn wIq
ma.gta hE,xamko mE. Apne ]Stad se do hdIse. p!lu.ga, subhanLlah|
ye [Lm ka xaEk wI AjIb cIj hE|kl kyamt ke idn jb ]lma qDe ho.ge|
ALlah tAala pu7e.ge,tumne mere dIn ka [Lm sIqne ke il0 Kya ikya?
Ashabe suFfa qDe ho.ge|ALlah, hmare ijSm pr kpDe pure nhI hote 4e|
nbI txrIf late 4e,hm 0k dusre kI Aaerme. ho jate 4e|mere Aaka
kI njr mere bdn pr n pD jaye|[s halme hmne [Lm p!a|vha> ye nvjvan wI
qDa hoga|[ska nam 4a bkI]ddIn [Bne muqLls |ye [Lm hasIl krne
ke ilye wIq ma.ga krta 4a|
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kI srprStI ke il0 ij.dgI gujar ske.|ALlah tAala hme. AaEr hmare 6r valo.
ko [Lm ka ye xaEk Ata frma0|
AOlad kI
ijsmanI trbIyt
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Aaj kI bat cIt ka ]nvan hE AaElad kI ijSmanI tribyt|ALlah rBbul [Jjt
ne bCce ke A.dr iftrI taEr pr qel-kud ka jJba rqa hota hE|[sil0 hr sehtm.d
bCca qelne kudne ko ps.d krta hE|
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]mre fa=k irvayt krte hE. ik nbI ne [rxad frmaya
ApnI AaElad ko tEranI yanI SWIMMING ,tIr A.dajI AaEr 6aeDe pr 7la.g
lga kr bE#na sIqavo|ye cIje. tb hotI hE jb bcpn se bCce ke A.dr Healty
Habits ho AaEr ye ]skI ma> hI ]se sIqa sktI hE|
| AC7I seht ke il0 bCce ka 0k
xeDyul hona cahI0-
cuna.ce AC7I seht hasIl krne ke il0 hr bCce ka 0k xeDyul hona
cahI0|jEse hI vo smzdarI kI ]mr me. Aaja0|Apne da0. AaEr ba0. ke fkR
ka pta cle,qana qane lge,bolne lge to ]ska 0k pura caEbIs 6.3e ka
xeDyul ho|[tne bje sona hE,[tne bje jagna hE|rat ko jLdI sona,subh jLdI ]
#na ye [manI 0etbar se wI fayde m.d AaEr ijSmanI 0etbar se wI fayde
m.d|
khne vale iksI ne kha:
EARLY TO BED EARLY TO RISE MAKES A MAN HEALTHY WEALTHY
AND WISE.
ku7 6ro. ke A.dr rat ko der tk jagne kI Aadt hotI hE|ye [.tha{ na
munasIb hE|ha>,ko{ j=rt pex Aajaye,ko{ vjh ho,ifr to clo AaEr bat hE|
mgr Aadtn der se sote hE|rat ke do bja de.ge,tIn bja de.ge|Ab Agr bCca
rat ko do-tIn bje soyega to fjr me. kEse ]#ega?ifr 0ese logo. kI subh idn
ke barh bje hotI hE|bCca khega AMmI mE. subh svere barh bje ]# gya
4a|to sone jagne ka 0k mamul bnaya ja0|
]l hdIsa vrdha AaEr [xa ke bad guFtgu AaEr bate. krne ko na ps.d
frmate4e|ik bs so javo|to [sil0 koxIx ho ik 6r ke A.dr bCco. ko
sone,jagne ka 0k mamul de idya ja0|]s pr bCco. ko rojana sula idya ja0|
ifr jb bCca subh ]#e to ]s bCce ko smzana cahI0 ik ]sne vju krna
hE,fjr kI nmaj p@nI hE,AaEr ApnI jat ko ]sne saf su4ra rqna hE|
| imSvak kI Ahimyt-
cuna.ce da.to. kI sfa{ ma>-bap ko isqanI hE|imSvak krna hE to
kEse? b/x krna hE to kEse?k{ bCce bcpn me to imSvak AaEr b/x krte
nhI AaEr ifr bDe hokr ]nke da.to. me. jb CAVITIES bntI hE. to prexan
ifrte hE.|
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nbI ne 0k hdIse mubarka me. frmaya ik Agr muze ]Mmt kI
tklIf ka 0hsas n hota to mE. hr nmaj ko imSvak ke sa4 krne ka huKm de
deta,ik hr nmaj imSvak kr ke ifr Ada kI ja0 yanI dato. kI sfa{ xrIAt me
[tnI Ahm hE|to bcpn se Qyal rqe. to bCce ke da.t wI i#k rhte hE.,AaEr
mu.h se bdbu wI nhI AatI vrna to k{ mtRba mu.h se mre kuTto. kI bdbu
AatI hE|to sfa{ bCca bcpn se rqe ye ]sse khna cahI0|
nbI rat ko sone se phle vju frmate 4e,AaEr imSvak ikya krte
4e|[ska mtlb ye huva ik rat ko sone se phle dato. ko saf krna [.tha{ j=rI
hE|
| thart ps.dI-
Aaj kl ke DaK3r log khte hE ik subh ]#kr bexk Aap imSvak n kre.
lekIn rat ko kr ke sona j=rI hE,vjh ye hE ik jb b.da bgEr imSvak kre rat
ko so jata hE to mu.h ke A.dr qana,mI#a AaEr 0esI cIje. maEjud hotI
hE.,to ifr bK3eirya jo hota hE ]sko k{ 6.3e Apna kam krne ka maEka
mIlta hE|sote huve [.san ka mu.h be hrkt hota hE,b.d hota hE to
bK3eirya ]sme. ifr da.to. ko nuKsan phu.ca rha hota hE|
[sil0 rat ko jb bCca soye to ]ska mu.h iblkul saf su4ra hona cahI0|
[sI trh balo. kI sfa{,bCce Apne bal k3vane me suStI krte hE.|ku7 bCcIya.
Apne balo. ko saf rqne me suStI krtI hE.|Agr be3I hE to ]sko smzana ik
vo Apne balo.ko kEse 2oye. sabun sop [Stemal kre. vrna to sr ke A.dr
ju0. la[s hI pDtI rhtI hE.|
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[sI trh rojana nhana ya gusl krna|bCce ko {skI Aadt DalnI cahI0| ibl
qusus mdrsa ya Skul jate huve bCco. ko f/ex hokr ya nha 2o kr jana
cahI0|ye Aadt Agr pD ja0 to ifr srdI grmI bCca hme.xa gusl krta hE|AaEr
Agr subh xam gusl kre to Kya hI AC7I bat hE|bCce kI tribyt me. njakt
ps.dI thart ps.dI honI cahI0|xiryt ne kha hE|
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Aam tOrpr to ye deqa gya ik ijnke pas bDa mtRba hota hE vo 0k jgh
se dusrI jgh ]#ke nhI jate|mgr ALlah ke nbI bhadur 4e|bhadurI ko
ps.d frmate 4e|to deqa shaba AwI 6ro. se hI inkle AOr ALlah ke nbI
Akele rat ke A.2ere me cKkr lga kr wI vaps Aa g0|
mdIna tYyba se bahr jha. nhr AlI hE ]2r 0k bDa sa mEdan hE ]ska
nam hE sabtul qEl|to vha. pr nbI shba ko weja krte 4e AOr
vha. 6oDe dODaya krte 4e|
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wagte|to ALlah ke nbI muskurate wI rhe AOr ]nko wgate wI rhe|kafI
der ke bad AaqIr me ]nko pkD hI ilya AOr ]nko Apne sIne se lga ilya|
badxahe vKt wI haijr huva AOr junEd bgdadI wI AqaDe me Aa0 AOr
[2r se ye sYyd jada wI Aaya|jb Aapse me p.ja Aajma{ huvI to khte hE.
ik ]s sYyd jade ne ye bat khI ik 0e junEd,mE [s trh lacar hu.,fake se hu.
AOr mal kmane ka ko{ jrIya wI AOr muze njr nhI Aaya|mere jhn me ye
Aaya ik mE tum se Request irkveS3 k=.ga AOr tum qud hI igr jaAo|Ab
tum ko duinya kI be[JjtI to ]#anI pDegI,leikn merI 6rkI AOrto. ka faka
qTm ho ja0ga|
rBbul [Jjt kI njre krm ho g{,Aaj hr b.da junEd bgdadI ka nam leta
hE to ivlayt kI duinya ka badxah ka qyal jhn me Aata hE|
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| baba smasI ka vakIya-
hmare islisle AalIya nKxb.dIya ke 0k bujugR 4e|baba smasI
,ye buqara se ko{ bIs iklomI3r dur rhte 4e|0k idn buqara Aa rhe 4e to
raSte me 0k AqaDa 4a|ijs me 0k bDa phelvan 4a AOr vo phelvan 0k vKt
me car pa>c phelvano. se 0k sa4 mukabla kr rha 4a|ye Akela 0k trf AOr
vo car-pa.c 0k trf|ye [tna taktvr 4a ik vo car pa.c [sko igra nhI pate 4e|
vo baba smasI kI njr pDI to =k g0|iksI ne kha ik baba Aap wI phelvano.
kI kuXtIya. deq rhe hE. ? to baba ne kha ik muze [sme 0k mdR njr Aata
hE|
AOr ]ske il0 Alg se walk cla krte 4e|hajI hjrt Akds 4anvI
Asr se mgrIb ke drimyan ha4 me tsbIh hotI 4I AOr Aap iksI jgh pEdl cla
ijn idno. hm log hjrt kI iqdmt me haijr hote to hjrt k{ mtRba [xrak ke
bad ga/].D le jate AOr ijs idn g/a].D me jate hmarI halt ptlI hotI 4I|hjrt to
[tna tej walk cl rhe hote 4e AOr hm pI7e becare wag rhe hote 4e|
ALlahu Akbr kbIra|||||AOr sat cKkr lgane ke bad hmara idl krta 4a ik [2r
hI bE# ja0.|to hjrt hme deq kr muskurate 4e ik deqo ye iktne kmjor
ikSm ke log hE.|to hmare bjugo.R ne wI ApnI seht ka wI bhut qyal rqa
hE|
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cla to hjrt muxIRde Aalm ]sse mulakat ke il0 txrIf le g0 ik mE ]
sko ja kr khu. ik tuMhe ko{ bat krnI hE to ]lma se kro|Aam logo. ko tum
hjrt frmate hE. ik jb ye merI tIsrI xadI huvI to ]s vKt merI sarI da!I ke
bal sfed 4e|0k bal wI kala nhI 4a AOr hjrt mje ka vakIya ye sunate hE.
ik jb mE ApnI dulhn ko bs me lekr Aa rha 4a to kLlr ka har 0k jgh
hE,phaDI jgh hE vha. pr bs =kI to mE ne soca ik nIce ]trkr mx=b ko{ cIj
ApnI dulhn ko lekr du.|to mE sDk par krne lga to pI7e se saykl pr svar
0k bCca Aa rha 4a,muze deq kr khta hE ik dada jI raSta do||||||babajI
raSta do||||hjrt frmate hE. ik mE ]sko deq kr muskuraya ik tuMhe Kya
pta babajI ApnI dulhn lekr ja rh hE. ? hjrt kI bakI ijtnI wI AOlad 4I vo [sI
bIvI se huvI|ye Aap kI mamujad bhn 4I. AOr 0esI iqdmt krne valI AOrt
xayd kroDo. me ko{ 0k hotI hE|
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AOr dusra lohe ka l.go3 ba.2 le to [.san kI seht qud bqud AC7I ho jatI
hE|
| shabIyat ke vakIyat-
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0k shabIyane Apne be3e ke sa4 iml kr nbI ke sa4 iml kr
ijhad ikya|yanI nbI ke sa4 ]nka be3a wI sa4 4a|]hd ke mEdan
me Aa{. AOr vo nbI kI ihfajt krtI 4I.|jb ko{ kaifr nbI kI
trf jane lgta to vo shabIya ]spr var krtI 4I. AOr hdIse pak me Aata hE ik
ko{ 0k kaifr krIb Aane lga,ijsne ]ske bCce ko jQm lgaya to nbI
ne [xara ikya ik ]skI ma> ko,yhI hE vo ijsne tere be3e ko jQm lgaya|
subhanLlah||||||vo shabIya iktnI ihMmt valI ho.gI|
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kwI sI2e kwI ba0.|hr deqne vala socta hE ik ye to bDa hI 6oDa wgane
vala b.da hE,mahIr [.san hE|
frmate hE. jb j.g huvI to vo svar mere krIb krIb 4a kwI mE. ]sko
duxmn se bcata AaEr kwI mE. duxmn ke nrge me. Aane lgta to vo svar
muze duxmn se bcata|yha> tk ik qub hmne ijhad ikya|jb vaps laE3e to
hme. pta lga ik jrar ko duxmn ne igrftar kr ilya hE to qaildun
vlI]Lla ne frmaya,hukum idya ik AwI Aap log Aaram n kre.|hme. [nka
ip7a krna hE AaEr jrar ko vha> se Aajad krvana hE|to frmate
hE. ik jo log 0k sa4 huve ]nme vo nvjvan wI njr Aaya|to qaildun vlI]Lla
ne pu7a ik mn A.ta ? tu kaEn hE? Aage se ko{ jvab nhI|ifr Aap ne jra
sqtI se kha ik mE. AmIre lxkr hu> AaEr mE. pu7 rha hu> ik tum kaEn
ho? jb qaildun vlI]Lla ne ye pu7a to Aage se insvanI Aavaj AayI,ik mE.
jrar kI bhn qvla hu>|to Aap hEran rh gye qvla|||tum AaErt hokr [s trh
mdo.R ke sa4 j.g kr rhI 4I|to qOla ne jvab idya ik hjrt jb wa{yo. pr
muxikl bntI hE to ifr bhno. ko bajar me Aana pDta hE|pu7a ik tumne
iKyo. nhI btaya,hjrt mE ne [sil0 nhI btaya ik khI. Aap muze mna n frma
de.|Ab Aap mherbanI ikjI0 mere wa{ kI tlax me, jb Aap ja0.ge to muze
Apne sa4 riq0|cuna.ca qOla sa4 me hI g{. AOr Apne wa{ ko
Aajad krva kr vaps le Aa{|
shaba ne ]nke sa4 sQt j.g kI AOr ijhad krne lge to ]nkI
ksrt kI vjh se jEse hI muslman pI7e pI7e h3ne lge to muslman AOrto. ke
bare me Aata hE ik vo Apne qImo. me 4I ik muslman pI7e h3 rhe hE.|
to ]Nhone Apne qImo. se D.De ]#a0 AOr muslmano. ke pI7e la{n bna
kr qDI ho g{. AOr Apne qaivNdo. ko ye kha ik Agr tum h3 kr pI7e
AaAoge to hm D.Do. se tuMharI qbr lege.|ye vo mOka 4a jb ih.da ne
tarIqI xer kha 4a,
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bImarI hE|seht m.d khte hE. ]s b.de ko jo cahe ijtna kam kre mgr 4kne
ka nam n le|]sko sehtm.d khte hE.|[sil0 ik 0k bCcI deqne me Sma3R wI
hogI AOr sehtm.d wI hogI mgr 0esI bCcIya. ijnko deqne me pta cle ik
Aaj nhI to kl to [sko 3I|bI j=r ho ja0gI ye to AC7I bat nhI hE|to bCcIyo. kI
wI sehte. munaisb honI caih0|jvanul ]mr bCcI hE to chre pr qun kI surqI
honI caih0|
ifr 6r kI sfa{ krna,zaDu dena AOr [s trh kI sfa{ krna ye mxKkt hotI 4I|
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Ab [sI trh bCce kI qbrgrI,Agr AOrt AC7e trIke se bCce ko attend kre
to 0k bCca mt mar deta hE|hmare 6r hnana 0k bCcI hE|AwI fonpr muze
qbr imlI kI Ab vo hmse s.wltI nhI|]se s.walne ke il0 0k kI jgh do kI j=rt
hE|to 0k bCce ko wI s.walna muxikl kam hota hE|ifr ye AOrt.e 6ro. me
sIna purona wI qud krtI 4I.|Ab deqo jb vo fairg ho kr kpDe sItI 4I. to 0k
ha4 se mxIn clatI 4I to ]nkI vjIRx hotI 4I|
ifr k{ AOrte. to 6rme sut ka3tI 4I.|]sme wI vjIRx hotI 4I|ifr dehat me
rhne valI AOrte. to bkrIya. cratI 4I. AOr bkrIya. crana to [tna mxKkt vala
kam hE ik bkrIyo. ke pI7e wagna,dODna pDta hE|b.de kI mt marI jatI
hE|ye bkrIyo. ka du2 wI qud inkaltI 4I. AOr k{ jgho. pr to 0esa ik panI ka
[.tjam wI nhI hota 4a|to AOrte. Apne sro.pr panI ke m3ke lekr do mIl tIn
mIl dur Apne 6ro. me latI 4I.|to ]s vKt kI nOjvan bCcIyo. kI ye vjIRxe hotI
4I.|
[sil0 ]nko Alg se kLb me jane kI j=rt nhI pDtI 4I|vo 6ro. me hI ApnI
ijMmedarIya. wI purI kr letI 4I. AOr [sse ]nkI seht wI AC7I hotI 4I|ifr [n sb
ko 7oD kr Agr ]nke pas vKt hota to nOjvan bCcIya. rSsI fla.gtI 4I.|do
bCcIya. rSsI 6umatI 4I. AOr 0k bCcI ]sko fla.gtI 4I|to ye wI ]s jmane kI
vjIRx 4I|ifr kwI kwI ye bCcIya. hide and seek lpa-7upI qeltI 4I.|[sme wI
dODna wagna pDta hE|
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leikn brisk walk sbse Jyad sef hE AOr yhI suNnt hE|[sil0 Agr 6rke A.dr
Trade mill rq lI ja0 AOr ]ske }pr vak kr ilya ja0 ya 6rke A.dr Agr courty
yard hE,sehn hE to ]ske cKkr lga il0 ja0.|to ye sbse bhetrIn trIka hE|
[sI trh bDme.3n wI 0k AC7I gem hE|bCcIyo. ke il0 6rme ye gem qela
ja skta hE|[sil0 Agr [s trh kI hlkI fulkI gem 6rke A.dr bCcIya. kre to xrIAt
me ye jayj wI hE AOr j=rI wI hE|
0k AOr sval pEda hota hE ik Aaj kl maxRl Aa3Rs isqa0 jate hE.|Agr
vo lDke hE. to ]nko to maxRl Aa3Rs isqane caih0|taik ]nko seLf iDfe.s
Aa ske AOr Agr bCcIyo. ko ko{ AOrt isqane valI ho to isqane me ko{ hjR
nhI|mdR se isqana hram,iksI kLb me isqne ke il0 jana hram,jha. mdR
hote hE.|
Aaj kl bCce ifjIkl qel qelne kI bja0 kaMPyu3r geMs bhut ps.d krte
hE.|ye vKt gujarI ke il0 to AC7a trIka hE|mgr [ska [.san kI seht pr
ko{ fayda nhI hE|n psIna Aata hE,n 4kta hE, n bdn ko ko{ vijRx hotI hE
to kaMPyu3r geMs bs vKt gujarI ka 0k trIka hE|
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2ak ke tIn pat,mgr AaqIr me. ntIja vhI kano. pr Aakr inklta hE|[sil0 [s
musIbt se Apne bCco. ko bcana caih0|
phle vKto. me. jb bCce 6r ke sare kam kr lete 4e to rat sone se phle
kwI bap ke pEr dbate 4e|kwI AMmI ka sr dba dete 4e|ye wI 0k vijRx hotI
4I|Aaj kl ke bCco. ko ye taEifk bhut km hE|kaEn qux nsIb bCcI hE jo
ApnI ma> ke pEr dba0|kaEn qux nsIb be3a hE jo Apne bap ke pEr dba0|
tahm ye vo trIke hE. jo [slamI wI hE. AaEr [nke jrIye se bCco. kI seht
wI AC7I rh sktI hE|to ma>-bap ko cahI0 ik vo bCco. ko [nme se jo wI
trIke mumikn ho. vo isqay.e taik bCco. kI seht AC7I bn ske|
nur:
{man valo. se kh idjI0 ik ApnI ingahe. incI rqe. AaEr 0k jgh frmaya
nur:
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to deiq0 lDikya> wI ApnI ingahe. incI rqe.|gEr mdo.R pr n Dale. AaEr
lDke wI ingahe. incI rqe.|gEr lDikyo. ke ]pr n Dale.|ye huKm dono. ke il0
hE|
0k Ahm cIj ik nvjvan bCco. ko dayI. krv3 sone ka huKm dena caih0
AaEr [s pr sqtI krnI caih0|ye bhut tvJjoh kI bat hE|ye bhut j=rI wI hE|]skI
vjh ye hE ik 0k to dayI. krv3 sona suNnt hE AaEr dusra ye ik [s suNnt kI
ye brkt hE ik dayI. krv3 sone ke bad le3e le3e bCce ke jhn me. ijNsI
qyalat Jyada pEda nhI hote|
vak{ ik jb bCca bDa ho ja0 to mqlut mhiflo. me. ]sko nhI lejana
caih0|]sko btana caih0 ik lDke mrdo. ke sa4 rhe. AaEr lDikya. AaErto. ke
sa4 rhe.|Aaps me. tb imle. jb 0k dusre ke mhrm ho. to mhrm AaEr gEr
mhrm ka fkR xu= se hI btaye.gI to bCce ke A.dr ye Concept build up
ho ja0ga|
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gyI. AaEr vo isfR nha letI 4I.|]nko fjR ka pta nhI 4a ik vo Kya krna hota
hE?to napak rhtI 4I becarI to fjR gusl wI isqana caih0|
| =hanI napakI-
ifr dsvI. cIj ik [n nvjvan bCco. ko surh-yusuf wI p!anI caih0 AaEr
surh-nUr yad krvanI caih0 AaEr surh-nUr ke mjmun [nke samne qolne
caih0|jEse ma> ApnI bCcI ko smza0 ik deqo hr lDkI jb duinya me pEda
hotI hE to vo pak hotI hE|Ab 0k hE ijsmanI napakI AaEr 0k hE =hanI
napakI|ijsmanI napakI to panI se dur ho jatI hE|leikn =hanI napakI panI
se dur nih hotI to jo bCcI duinya me. pEda huvI,ye bCcI duinya ke A.dr
pak pEda huvI hE|[s bCcI ko koxIx ye krnI caih0 ik mE. kyamt ke idn pak
halt me. ALlah ke Aage pex ho ja].gI|
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ijs trh napak AadmI msijd me. daqIl nhI ho skta,napak AadmI hrm
me. diqIl nhI ho skta|[sI trh =hanI napak [.san jNnt me. daqIl nhI ho
skta|
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kr drvaja b.d kr idya ja0ga AOr vha. pr ibC7u ho.ge AOr vo bC7u [ske
ijsm pr [s trh c! bE#e.ge jEse xhd ke 7Tte ke }pr xhd kI mQqIya. hotI
hE.|hjaro. ibC7u [s ke ijsm pr c!e.ge AOr ye sb ibC7u 0k vKt me ka3e.ge
to [tnI tklIf hogI AOr ye iks il0 ? iKyo.kI tumne duinya me 0es gunah
ikya ik ijSm ke 0k 0k Part ihSsene mja paya|Aaj tuMhare 0k 0k Part
ihSse ko Ajab idya ja0ga|
soic0 ALlah ke hujur kyamt ke idn pex hona hE|qux nsIb hE. vo
be3Iya.,vo AOrte. jo Apne Aap ko pak rqtI hE.|ye kyamt ke idn sI2a jNnt
me jane ke kaibl ho.gI|to hr bCcI ka ye concept jhn bna0. ik ALlahne
muze pak bnaya hE,gEr mhrm ka ha4 ijs jgh pr lgega ijSm kI vo jgh
napak ho ja0gI|gEr mhrm ke sa4 ijna ka gunah huva to pura ijSm napak
ho ja0ga|to Apne Aap ko napak hone se bcaAo|ALlah ke samne
xmIR.dgI bhut Jyda hogI|
bhut bar yhI deqa gya ik jo bCcIya. bevkufIya. krtI hE. vo 0eb wI ]NhI
pr lgte hE.|[ljam wI lgte hE. AOr ijLlt wI ]NhI kI hotI hE|
lDko. ko ko{ [tna bura nhI khta|sar mlba AaqIr me lDkI ke }pr hI Aa
jata hE|to Agr [Jjt n rhI to Kya rha ?
to Aaps me juda hone lgI to tIno. ne kha AC7a Apna pta do ik juda
hone ke bad kha imle.ge|
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[Lm se pu7a||||||[Lm ne kha ik jb mE juda ho jata hu. to mdrso. se
imla krta hu.|yanI ko{ b.da kurAan wul ja0 to w{ ifr mdrsa jaAo,dobara
yad kr lo [Lm iml ja0ga|to dono ne Apna Apna pta bta idya|
[Jjt qamox qDI 4I|to dono. ne pu7a ik tum nhI bol rhI ? [Jjt khne lgI,
mE jb 0k bar juda hotI hu. ifr dobara mE kwI nhI imla krtI AOr hkIkt me
bat 0esI hE ik ijs lDkI kI [Jjt ]s se i7n g{ vo lDkI society muAaxre ke
A.dr [Jjt kI ij.dgI kwI nhI gujar sktI|[sil0 khne valene Kya AC7I bat khI|
valIdEn kI
Ajmt
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AOlad kI trbIyt ke bareme. ijtna ku7 kha gya [s kI tkmIl yha> hotI hE
ke AOlad ko ma>-bap ke hukUk ke bare me. btaya ja0|jb idl me. ma>-
bap kI Ajmt hogI,bCce ma>-bap kI bat ko gOr se sune.ge AOr ]s pr Aml
kre.ge|
xrIyt ne [s phelu ko wI qub ]jagr ikya|0k ]sul bta idya msnd ABdul
rJjak me. hE hdIse mubarka ka 0k 7o3a sa 3ukDa ik jo cahe kro,jEsa
kroge vEsa wroge|[sko khte hE. Adle ka bdla|Tit For Tat.
| ma>-bap kI Ajmt-
to [Nsan jEsa krta hE,]sko vEsa hI ]ska bdla imlta hE|cuna.ce jo
bCce Apne ma>-bap ka 0htram kre.ge,frma brdarI kre.ge,]nke Apne
bCce bDe hokr ]nkI frma brdarI kre.ge|cuna.ce hakIm ne Abu hurEra
se irvayt kI,nbI ne frmaya tum dusro. kI AaErto. se
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ik tuMhare rb kI rja tuMhare bap kI rja me. hE AaEr rb kI narajgI bap
kI narajgI me. hE|[mam Ahmd ibn h.bl irvayt krte hE. ik ma> ke
sa4 vaibSta rho iKyo.kI
h.bl irvayt krte hE.,ABdul [Bne Amr ibn Aas [ske ravI
hE.|vo frmate hE. ik 0k bu!a bap Apne naEjvan be3e ke sa4 Aaya|nbI
kI qIdmt me. ye AjR ikya ik 0e ALlah ke nbI jb ye bCca
4a,mE jvan 4a|ye fikr 4a,]s vKt mE. gnI yanI maldar 4a|Aaj mamla ]l3a
ho gya|ye jvan hE,mE. kmjor hu>|ye gnI hE,maldar hE AaEr mE. fikr
hu>|ye mere ]pr qcR nhI krta|ALlah ke nbI ne ]s naEjvan ko
muqaitb kr ke frmaya,
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cuna.ce Agr 0esa ko{ bCca ho ik ijske ma>-bap gulam hE. AaEr vo
bCca Apne ma>-bap ko Aajad krvaye to xrIyt kI njr me. ye bhut bDa
ik ko{ be3a bap ko bdla nhI de skta isvay [ske ik bap gulam ho,be3a
]sko qirde AaEr ifr Aajad krde|[sil0 AaElad AaEr ma>-bap ke drimyan
muhBbt ka ye tALluk xrIyt ne kaym ikya|iftrI taEr pr ma>-bap AaElad se
muhBbt krte hE. AaEr iftrI taEr pr AaElad ma>-bap se muhBbt krte hE.|
ye Equation vha> ibgDtI hE jha> hm xrIyt kI qIlaf vjIRya. krte hE.,ma>-
bap AaElad ko ignore krte hE. ifr muxikle. hotI hE.|AaEr xrIyt ke
mutaibk bCco. ko raise up ikya ja0 ik ye muhBbte. slamt rhtI hE.|
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fla trxI Amama
tIn b.de 0ese hE. ik ALlah tAala kyamt ke idn ]nkI trf deqe.ge wI
nhI|Ab jra [s gunah kI Gravity ka A.daja lga le.|ik 0esa gunah ijskI vjhse
ALlah tAala ingah ]#akr wI b.de ko nhI deqe.ge|tIn b.de vo kaEn se hE.?
Al Aaku il valIdEn
ma>-bap ka na frman|
vl mrAtul mutriJjla
AOr vo AOrt jo mdoR. kI trh bnna ps.d kre|k{ lDkIya> hotI hE. jo mdoR.
kI trh jInke ilbas phen le|balo.ko k3vana bemhaba ifrna| AOr [sko vo
smztI hE. ik hm bDI maD Ska3 bn gyI h.E| AOr [se nhI smztI. ik hmne
Agr 0esa ikya to ALlah rBbul [Jjt kyamt ke idn hmarI xkl deqna wI
g>vara nhI kre.ge|
vd\\ dYyus
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kuLlu junub ygif=Llahu [la yOiml ikyamtI [Lla hukukul
valIdEn-
ik hr gunah kI sja ko ALlah ne kyamt tk muAaQqr frma idya isvay
ma>-bap kI na frmanI ke|
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lukman:
yha> tk ik vo kaifr AaEr muxirk wI ho. to duinya me. ]nke sa4 tum
AC7a suluk kro|
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Pyare hbIb mere vaild ne muze kha 4a ik tum merI trfse gulam
Aajad krna|Ab mere pas gulam to nhI,0k ba.dI hE AOr bhut hI Anp! AOr
jaihl hE|to nbI ne frmaya ]s ba.dI ko laAo|cuna.ce ]s ba.dI ko
laya gya|Anp! 4I|nbI ne ]sse pu7a,btaAo ALlah kha. hE ? ]s
ba.dI ne Aasman kI trf ].glI kr dI|nbI ne frmaya btaAo mE kOn
hu. ? ]sne kha,ALlah ke rsul hE.|nbI ne muskurakr frmaya
ye tuMharI ba.dI muslman hE|[sko Aajad kroge to tuMhare vaild kI vsIyt
purI ho ja0gI|
fykulu ya rb
ANn lI hajIhI
fykul
ALlah frma0.ge
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[Stgfare vldIka lka
tere be3e ne tere il0 [Stgfar ikya|]ske bdle hmne jNnt me Aap ke drjo.
ko b!a idya|
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| satva. nukta-valIdEn kI quxI ke
il0 Aamale Svaleha me. jLdI krna-
satva. nuKta ik mrhum ma>-bap kI quxI ke il0 Aamale Svaleha me.
jLdI krna|ye AjIb bat hE ik [.san ko nek kam krna hI hE|lekIn nek kam ka
svab ma>-bap ko imlta hE|to ma>-bap ko Aalm-0-bjRq me. [.tjar rhtI
hE ik hmare bCcoe. kI trfse hme. tohfa kb imlega? [sil0 nekI me. jLdI
krnI caih0|
ha>,Qvab me. [Nho.ne ]ske bap se pu7a ik tuMhara be3a kha> hE?
]sne nam wI btaya AaEr ye wI btaya ik fla. jgh pr dukan darI krta hE|
cuna.ce Qvabse bedar huve to [Nho.ne jakr deqa vo naEjvan dukan pr
bE#a huva 4a,g/ahk Aate 4e to ]nko vo saEda deta 4a AaEr jb g/ahk cle
jate 4e to farIg vKt me. vo ALlah ke kurAan kI itlavt krta 4a,]ske ho.#
ihlte njr Aate 4e|to ye phcan gye ik mera Qvab Qvab sCca 4a|
ku7 vKt ke bad dobara kib/Stan ke krIb se gujr huva,ifr [sale svab
ikya|Ab kI bar Qvab me. deqa ik firxta Ajr laya to ijs trh bakI murde jo
4e ]#kr ]s svab ko lene ke il0 daEDe ye b.da wI [s bar svab leneke il0
daEDne lga|]Nho.ne ]sse pu7a,w{ Ab Kyae. daED rhe ho? ]s murdene
kha,mera vo be3a faEt ho gya|Ab ]ska Ajr Aana b.d ho gya|jo Aam
momInIn duAa krte hE. mE. wI ]sI Ajr ko deqkr qux rheta hu.|to ma>-
bap ke il0 nek kam jLdI krna ye ma>-bap kI quxI ka,=h kI quxI ka jrIya
bnta hE|
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Aa#va. hk ik ma>-bap ne Agr ko{ ksm ]#a{ ho to ]nkI ksmo. ko
pura kr dena|
ka ]Mmt pr 0hsan hE|vrna AaErt ijtnI nrm idl hotI hE Agr xrIyt ]
sko wI huKm detI ik tum javo AaEr jvan be3e ko dfn krke Aavo to muze
to lgta hE ik [s AaErt ko phle hI vhI. dfn ho jana pDta|ye qud wI sa4 dfn
ho jatI|ye to ALlah ne mdR hjrat ko idl idye hE.|iktno. ko nhlate
hE.,kfnate hE. AaEr k.2o. pr ]#akr kib/Stan me. dfn krke Aajate hE.|to
ALlah rBbul [Jjt ne ma> ko [s tklIf se bcaya|[sil0 frmaya ik AaErt
kib/Stan me. n ja0|
yha> tk ik mdR hjrat ko caih0 ik vo vKt vKt pr ja0. AaEr Apne ma>-
bap kI kbr pr kurAan mjId kI itlavt krke ijtna wI ALlah cahe. ]nko [sale
svab kre.|
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JyadtI frmate hE.|to ma>-bap ke sa4 AC7a brtav krnese ]mr wI b !tI hE
AaEr mal wI b!ta hE|]mr b!ne ka mtlb do bate. ho sktI hE.|0k to ye wI
fjR kro sa# sal hotI 4I Ab ALlahne ]sko tvIl krke sTtr sal kr idya|ye wI
brkt hE|AaEr 0k mtlb [ska ]lma ne ye ilya hE ik ]mr to 4I ]skI sa#
sal,leikn ]sne cails sal kI ]mr me. BlD p/exr ka mrIj bnna 4a AaEr b/en
hmrej hotI 4I,AaEr [sne falIj ke sa4 bakI ij.dgI mohtajI me. gujarnI 4I|
ALlah tAala [n bImarIyo. se bca kr ij.dgI ke sehtm.d ihSse ko l.ba kr
dete hE.|cuna.ce vo AaqrI lMhe tk iksI ka mohtaj nhI hota|ye wI ]mr me.
brkt hE|ik [feKi3Vh ihSsa ]mr ka b !a idya jata hE|0k fayda ye ik ma>-
bap ka idl qux krne se [.san ke duinya ke gunaho. ka kFfara ho jata hE|
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doSto. AaEr bIvI se wI Jyada ma>-bap kI bat ko faEkIyt|[mam itimRjI
AaEr frmaya,mdR ke ]pr sbse Jyada Ahem hk ]skI ma> ka hota hE|
xrIytne to yha> tk kha ik Agr nflI hj krna ho to ma>-bap kI iqdmt ko
tum ]ske ]pr fjIlt do|cuna.ce Abu hurEra ApnI ma> kI ij.dgI me.
]nkI iqdmt hI me. mxgul rhe|ma> kI vfat ke bad hj pr txrIf leg0|ha>,Agr
ma> qud wI jana cahe AaEr b.de ko hj me. wI ma> kI iqdmt ka maEka
imle to nu=n Ala nur hE|ma>-bap ke hk ko ALlah ne AaElad ke hk pr wI
fjIlt Ata frma{ hE|
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| bnI [sra{l ke tIn AadmIyo. ka
vakIya
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bCce ko bulva idya|leikn ]sne ma> ka idl duqaya 4a to iftne me. wI pD
gya|nbI ne ye vaikya sunakr frmaya
ik Aves krnI krn ke rhne vale 4e|ma> kI iqdmt me. lge huve 4e|
cahte 4e ik nbI kI Jyart kre.|[man la cuke 4e|mgr ma> kI iqdmt hI
krte rhe|Aa nhI ske to nbI ne ]mr ko bula kr frmaya ik ymn
ke fla> kible me. 0k b.da ]sko 0k dInar ke brabr bsR ka jQm bakI hoga|
bImarI 4I mgr qTm ho g{|ALlah ke yha> ]ska [tna mukam hE|
ALlah ne ma>-bap kI iqdmt ko Kya mukam AaEr Kya =tba Ata frma
idya|jb bCce ko ye sbk idya ja0ga to ykInn ye bCca ma>-bap kI bat ko
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sunega AaEr AC7a [.san bnne kI koxIx krga|Agr iksI ke ma>-bap naraj
ho. to sun iljI0 ik duinya me. sbse Aasan kam ApnI ma> ko mnana|
iKyu.kI? vo naraj wI ho jatI hE|leikn [.tjar me. hotI hE ik mera be3a Aakr
muzse sarI kh le to mE. maf krdu.gI|
| ma> kI mmta
hm ne deqa ik Agr bCca ma> kI Da.3 Dp3 kI vjhse 6rse inkl
ja0,ma> ko cEn nhI Aata|vju krtI hE, musLle pr bE# jatI hE|ALlah mera
be3a iksI bure b.de ke ha4 n lg ja0|mera be3a ko{ [.tha{ kdm n ]#a le|
ALlah mere be3e ko slamtI se vaps le Aana|qane ka vKt ho jata hE to
sare 6r vale qa lete hE.,ma> se pu7te hE. to vo khtI hE muze wuq nhI
hE|hikkt me. ]ske idl me. hota hE,muze Kya pta mere be3e ko qane ko
ku7 imla ya nhI|mE. kEse qa]>?sare 6r ke log sojate hE.,0k ma> hotI
hE jo ibStr pr krv3e. bdl rhI hotI hE|ik xayd mera be3a Aaja0|]sko
drvaje pr [.tjar me. qDa n hona pDe|imya> kI Da.3 wI brdaxt krtI hE|
mgr Apne bCce ke il0 duAa wI krtI hE|Agr be3a ratko derse Aa0 to ma>
be3I ko jgatI hE ik be3I ]#o,tuMhara wa{ Aagya|]sko grm qana bna kr
do|AMmI Aap to naraj 4I.,be3I mE. Agr qfa,guSsa hu>|mgr be3e ko
wuqa to nhI deq sktI|AMmI Aap Kya cahtI hE.? be3I mE. ne tuMhare
wa{ ko Da.3a 4a bure kam kI vjh se,taik ]skI [slah ho ja0|mgr mE. ye
cahtI hu> ik vo Aakr sarI kh le mE. maf krdu.gI|Ab jo ma> [.tjar me.
hE ik be3a Aakr sarI krle mE. maf krdu.gI to ]s ma> ko mnana iktna
Aasan kam hE|
| 0k sCca vakIya
cuna.ce Aapko 0k sCca vakIya suna kr bat ko purI krta hu>|hmare
krIb ke 0k dehat me. imya> ibvI 4e|ALlahne ]nko bu!ape ke A.dr AaElad
Ata krdI 4I|be3a huva|be3a nek bna|honhar 4a,smzdar 4a|yha> tk ik vo
bCca [.ijinyr bn gya|xhr me. ]sko naEkrI lg g{|vo ma>-bap ko imlne
Aata AaEr vaps ApnI Dyu3I ke il0 xhr cla jata|hfte kI 7uI me. ma>-bap
ke sa4 rhta|ALlah ne ]sko kare. wI dI. AaEr bhare. wI dI.|ko#I wI dI|to ]s
naEjvan ne xadI ka p/aeg/am bnaya|ma>-bap ne kha,jha> tuMharI
mjIR hm tuMharI xadI vhI. kre.ge|ij.dgI to Aap ne gujarnI hE|xhr ka 0k
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bDa xrIf 6rana 4a|]n ke yha> 0k be3I 4I,jvanul ]mr 4I,xkl AC7I 4I,Akl
AC7I 4I|p!I ilqI 4I|[s jvan ne inxan dhI kI to ma>-bap ne irxta
weja|]Nho.ne deqa ik irxta bCcI ke il0 bhut AC7a hE,AaEr xadI ho g{|
Ab vo bCcI xadI ke bad dehat me. AayI|ku7 idn to rhI ifr khne
lgI,muzse to dehat me. rha nhI jata|ma>-bap ne kha be3a ibvI ko le kr
xhr vale mkan me. cle javo|mgr hfte me. 0k bar j=r imlne Aana,xkl idqa
jana,hm dehat me. qux hE.|hm ApnI ij.dgI yha> gujar le.ge|be3e ne xhr
me. rhna xu= ikya|ma>-bap dehat me.|0k do sal to mamla AC7a clta
rha|0k do sal ke bad ye lDka kwI ma>-bap ko imlne jata,Estimated
Time hota ik do 6.3e ke bad Aa}>ga|to kwI do kI jgh tIn ya car 6.3e lg
jate|to [skI ibvI bura mantI|tum to jate ho to bs jakr bE# hI jate ho|pI7le
to tuMharI njr me. mr hI jate hE.|tuMhe to ]n ke isva ko{ njr hI nhI Aata|
jo gane gatI hE. lDikya> Apne qaivNdo. ke samne,]s lDkIne wI vhI gane
gana xu= kr idye|ye xrIf [.san 4a,smzata,mgr ibvI vKt ke sa4 sa4 Jyada
0etraj krtI gyI|yha> tk ik 0esa vKt Aaya jb ye ma>-bap ko imlne jata to
ibvI qa-m-qa ka zgDa kr detI|Ab ye prexan ik mE. k=. to Kya k=.? nek
xrIf AadmI prexan hota hE|0k trfse ma>-bap kI prexanI,0k trfse ibvI
prexan kr rhI hotI hE|AaEr ifr bCco. kI ma> wI bn cukI hotI hE|
lekIn ku7 salo. se rabta hI n rha 4a [ska ma>-bap ko|to ]Nho.ne tvJjo
idlayI ik imya> javo AaEr ma>-bap ko rajI krke ifr vaps Aavo|cuna.ce
ye naEjvan Apne 6r Aaya|ibvI ko kha ik mE. ne 7uI lelI hE AaEr mE.
Apne muLk cKkr lga rha hu>|Apne ma>-bap ke pas|ibvI ne
Aaye.,baye.,taye. krne kI koixx kI to Ab [s naEjvan ne ]sko xer kI Aa>q
se deqa to ifr vo dbk kr ibLlI kI trh bE# gyI|naEjvan ne tyarI kI AaEr vtn
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vaps Aaya|jb ye bStI me. daiql ho rha 4a|to ]s vKt ]sko ye 0hsas huva ik
pI7le do tIn salo.se mera ko{ rabta nhI|muze to ye wI pta nhI ik mere
ma>-bap iks hal me. hE.|to mE. pta krlu.|
cuna.ce 0k Aa#, naE sal ka lDka 4a|]sne ]sse pu7a ik fla> babajI ka
Kya hal hE|lDke ne Aage se jvab idya ik vo babajI ko to faEt huve 7e
mhIne ho gye|AaEr ]nkI ibvI jo bu!I hE vo wI falIj me. hE|AaEr suna hE
hmne ik ]nka 0k be3a hE jo saEdI Arb gya huva hE|pta nhI vo kEsa
nalayk be3a hE jo ma>-bap ka qyal hI nhI krta|]s 7o3e bCce ko Kya pta
ik vo ]sI lDke se bat kr rha hE|bat krke lDka to cla gya leikn ]ske idlke
tar 7eD gya|Ab ]sko ndamt huvI,Aaeho,mE. ne hikkt me. bhut bDI gltI
krdI|Ab soc rha hE ik ABbu to faEt ho gye,mE. AMmI ke pas ja}.ga|to
AMmI muze deqna ps.d nhI kregI|vo to muze 6rse inkal degI|bat tk
mere sa4 nhI kregI|to ko{ bat nhI mE. AMmI ko pEr pkD kr mnalu.ga|
mE. ilp3 ja}.ga|Ab ye Plain.g krta ja rha hE|
6r phu.ca| drvaja qula 4a|A.dr cla gya|Kya deqta hE? ik sehn me. car
payI ib7I huvI hE|[ske idl me. ye bat AayI ik mumikn hE ik AMmI soyI
huvI hE.,to mE. jgata nhI|[.tjar krlu.ga|cuna.ce ye dbe pEr jra krIb huva
ik dequ. to shI jb ibStr ke krIb huva to [sne deqa ik [ske ma> ne ha4 ]
#aye huve 4e|AaEr vo duAa ma.g rhI 4I|[sne krIb ho kr suna ik AMmI
Kya duAa ma.g rhI hE.|to ma> ye duAa ma.g rhI 4I ik ALlah mera
qaivNd duinya se cla gya|mera 0k hI to be3a hE|b qErIyt ]se vaps wej
dena|ta kI jb merI maEt Aaye to muze kbr m.e ]tarne ke il0 ko{ mera wI
mhrm maEjud ho|ma> ye duAa kr rhI hE ik ya ALlah mere be3e ko b
qErIyt vaps wej dena ik Agr merI maEt Aaye to muze kbr me. ]tarne ke
il0 ko{ mera wI mhrm maEjud ho|jb [sne suna to khne lga AMmI mE. Aa
gya hu>|ma> caE.k ]#I., be3a tum Aagye|ha>,be3a,moitya ib.d AagyI|
merI ibna{ nhI|mE. tuMhara cehra to nhI deq sktI|Aavo krIb ho javo|
mE. tuMhare cehre ka bosa lU>|mE. tuMhare ijSmkI quxbU su.6 lU>|to
ma> to ma> hotI hE|ma>ko mnana Aasan kam hota hE|ALlah rBbul [Jjt
ma>-bap ko wI nek bnne kI taEfIk de AaEr AaElad ko wI ma>-bap kI kdr
krne kI taEfIk de de.|AaEr jo glitya>,kotahIya> huvI hm [s duinya me.
hI ]nse mafI ma.g le. AaEr Aaiqr neko karI kI ij.dgI gujarne ka idlme.
[rada krle.|
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ma>-bap kI
iqdmt AOr
AOlad kI trbIyt
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[.san 0ese Aamal Apna0 ijs kIvjase ]ska jNnt me. daiqla Aasan ho
ja0 ]s me. se. phla Aml 0htmam ke sa4 vuju krna AOr vujuke Aaiqr me.
duAa ma.gna,
AxhdALLaa [laaha [lLlahu vahdhu la xrIklhu v Axhd v ANna muhMndn
Abdhu vrsuluh,ALlahuMmj AlnI imnTtvabIn vjAlnI imnl muttahhIrIn|
vuju ke bad Aam tOr pr do rkat tihtulvuju p!ne kI Aadt bna le.|[spr
wI jNnt me. daiqla|ifr vuju ke bad msjId kI Ajan hotI hE,to Ajan ka jvab
dene pr wI jNnt me. daiqla|Ajan sun ke mdR log msjId kI trf jate hE. to
msjIdke bareme. wI ijsne ALlah kI rja ke il0 msjId bna[ ALlahtAala ]ske
il0 jNnt me. 6r bnate hE.|ifr frj nmaj p!I jatI hE to jo AOrt AOkat ik
pab.dI ke sa4,0htemam ke sa4 pa>c vKt ik nmaj p!e to ]ska jNnt me.
daiqla|ifr jo AOrt bhut Jyada nifl namje. p!e to [spr ]se jNnt me daiqla
hE|Ab yha. tk vuju,Ajan,nmaj,msijd [ske bare me bate. 4I.|taik trtIb 0esI
ho ik yad rqna Aasan ho ja0|]ske bad frmaya jo 0htmam ke sa4 roje rqe
[spr wI ]se jNNt me daiqla hE|nmaj ke bad ijk/ v Ajkar ik0 jate hE. to 0k
sYydul AStgfar hE la hOl vla kuVvt [Lla ibLlah [ske p!ne pr jNnt
me daiqla hE|ifr hj mubark krne pr jNnt me daiqla hE AOr ifr AaqrI cIj ye
4I ik nbI ne tIn kam bta0 ijn pr jNNt me daiqla imlega|Ab
xusslam ik slam ko fElaAo, AdmuTtAam ik j=rtm.do. ko qana
iqlaAo,sLlu ibLlEl vNnas inyam rat ko nmaj Ada kro jb sare log
so rhe ho. yanI thJjud kI pab.dI kro|to ye vo Aml 4e ijnpr [.san ke sa4
jNnt me daiqla ka vada ikya gya|Ab Agla pa{.3 Aaj qola ja0ga vo no3
kr iljI0,vo hE ma> bap Agr AOlad kI trbIyt kre. to AC7I trbIyt krnepr
ma>-bap ko jNNtme daiqla AOr Agr AOlad ma>-bap kI iqdmt kre to
iqdmt krne pr AOlad ka jNnt me daiqla|
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id0|Agr hm [n hukuk ko Ada kre. to hmara muAaxra duinya me jNNt ka
nmuna bn ja0ga|ijs 6r ke A.dr ma>-bap kI AOlad kI AC7I trbIyt kre. to
vo AOlad Aa>qo. kI #.Dk bntI hE.|jo AOlad ma>-bap kI iqdmt kre. to
ma>-bap ke idl se ]ske il0 duAa0. inkltI hE.|
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smzta 4a AoEr ro ro kr ALlah se duAa ma.g rha hu. ik ALlah muze 0k
AOr be3I kI rhmt Ata frma de jo jhNNm me jane se muze bca le|to nbI
ne AOlad kI trbIyt pr ma>-bap ko jNnt kI quxqbrI suna{|
Ahjab:
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0e ALlah hmne Apne bDo. ka kha mana 4a|[Nhone ne hme raSte se
gumrah kr idya|AMmI khtI 4I ik be3a tum ko DaK3r bnna hE,mE ne
DaK3r bn kr idqa idya|AMmI khtI 4I be3a tum ko ibjnesmen bnna
hE,mE ne ibjnes cla kr idqa idya|AMmI ne to kwI nmaj kI muz se bat hI
nhI kI 4I|AMmI to khtI 4I ik be3a roje rqoge to kmjor ho jaAoge|to
[Nhone hme dIn isqaya hI nhI|Agr ye dIn isqate to hm dIn pr clne vale
bn jate|hm to [nkI bat mana krte 4e|0e ALlah cu.ik [Nhone hme nekI ka
raSta idqaya hI nhI,duinya darI ke raSte pr rqa|
Ahjab:
Ahjab:
Ab soce. ijs AOlad ko Aaj Aap muhBbt wre luKme iqlate hE.,Agr ye
dIn dar n bnI to ye kyamt ke idn sarI mqluk ke samne ALlah ke hujur ye
khegI,0e ALlah mere ma>-bap pr lante. brsa|to soic0 AOlad kI trbIyt
iktnI j=rI hE AOr ye vo vKt hoga ik ma>-bap AOlad ko phcanne vale n
bnege. AOr AOlad ma>-bap ko phcan ne valI n bnegI|
Abs:,,
[sil0 k{ 6ro. me deqa gya ik ma>-bap bCco. kI trbIyt krne kI bja0 ]nko
qelne ke il0 dusro. ke 6ro. me wej dete hE.|glI me wej dete hE.,jEse
bkrIya. crane vala Apne bkrIyo. ko crne ke il0 ha.k deta hE,[strh Apne
bCce AoEr bCcIyo. ko dusre 6ro. me qelne ke il0 wej dete hE.|to ifr 0ese
bCce jo dusro. ke rhm v krm pr ho.,]Nhone janvr hI bnna hota hE|[sil0
AOlad kI trbIyt krna ma>-bap ka fjR hE|0k nuKta jhn me rqe. ik Agr
ma>-bap AOlad kI trbIyt n kre. to yhI nhI ik AOlad nafrman bnegI blik
Asl bat ye hE ik AOlad ya Aane valI jo [nkI nsl hE ]sme se [slam im3
ja0ga|to hmexa ye cIj soca kre. ik mera jo be3a nafrman bna,bedIn bna
to bs yhI bedIn nhI bna blik [skI Aane valI purI nsl hI [slam se gumrah
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ho ja0gI|[sil0 hr 0k b3e AOr be3I kI trbIyt j=rI hE|bhut sare 6ro. me
deqne imla ik ma>-bap AOlad kI dInI ihsab se trbIyt to krte nhI,Ab jb
AOlad nafrman bntI hE to ifr ]nse kam krvane ke il0 ]ko bd duAa dete
hE.|ifr ma> ka 0k hI trIka hota hE,ALlah tuze qux n rqe|ALlah tere sa4
inp3e|Ab ma> hE mgr AOlad ko bd duAa de rhI hE AOr bhut sarI maAo.
ko hmne suna ik vo to bdduAa de de kr Apne kam inklvatI hE.|iktnI burI
ye ma.0 hE. ? jo ApnI juban se Apne bCce ko bdduAa de rhI hE.|to xu=
me Agr trbIyt kr lete to Aaj [nko ye bdduAa0. n denI pDtI|ye wI jhn me
0k bat rqna jo ma>-bap AOlad kI trbIyt nhI krte ]nko AOlad se iqdmt
lene ka hk wI ko{ nhI|
to Agr AOlad kI trbIyt AC7I nhI krnI to bdduAa de kr ]nse iqdmt iKyo.
krvatI hE. ? soce. ik w{ hmne ksur ikya 4a|hmne hI [s bCce ke sa4
JyadtI kI 4I|juLm ikya 4a|[skI trbIyt n kI|to [sil0 ye ma>-bap kI ijMmedarI
hE ik vo AOlad kI AC7I trbIyt kre vrna kyamt ke idn AOlad ma>-bap ke
iqlaf mukma daiql kregI|
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benmajI 4I,bedIn 4I,ye muze ku7 wI nhI khte 4e|ye mera qaivNd hE|ye
qud to dIndar bnta 4a,muzse muhBbt wI krta 4a|mgr muze dIn ke bare
me ko{ ga{D nhI krta 4a|ye mera wa{ hE,ye wI deqta 4a mE ]s 6rme
rhtI hu. AOr mere sa4 nmIR ka muAamla krta 4a AOr ye mera be3a
hE,ye wI nek nmajI 4a mgr muze nmaj ke il0 nhI khta 4a|Agr ye log
muze khte to jEse [Nhone nmaje. p!I to mE wI p! letI|Ab mera Kya
ksur ? hdIse mubarka me Aata hE,[s 0k AOrt ke mukma daiql krne pr
ALlah tAala [n car mdo.R ko wI [s AOrt ke sa4 jhNnm me daiql kr de.ge|
[sil0 AOlad kI trbIyt bhut j=rI hE|taik ]nkI duinay bn ja0 AOr ]nkI AaqIrt
wI bn ja0|
thrIm:
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krne vale ApnI AOlad kI trbIyt krte hE. Agr ]nke pas sone ca.dI ke qjane
wI mOjud ho.|
Aap ne suna hoga ik xer ke bCce cubs jb pEda hote hE. to xernI ]n
bCco. ke sa4 qeltI hE,dODtI hE,]nko ixkar krna isqatI hE,Ab deqo ma>
hE,AOlad kI trbIyt kr rhI hE|icDIya ke bCce jb pEda hote hE. to ]nkI
Aa.qe b.d hotI hE. to ma> ]nke il0 panI,dana latI hE|]nko iqlatI iplatI hE
AOr ifr ]nko ]Dna isqatI hE|]nko ]s 6o.sle se bahr 2kel detI hE|to Agr
janvr ApnI AOlad ko e.D krte hE.,]nkI trbIyt krte hE.,to ifr [.san ApnI
AOlad kI trbIyt se kEse dur ja skta hE ? to ye ma>-bap kI ijMmedarI hE
ik Apne bCco. kI AC7I trbIyt kre.|jo gEr musilm ma>-bap hote hE.,]nkI
trbIyt me AOr muslman ma>-bap kI trbIyt me 0k fkR hota hE|gEr
musilm ma>-bap ApnI AOlad kI fKt duinya bnate hE. AOr muslman
ma>-bap AOlad kI duinya wI bnate hE. AOr AOlad kI AaqIrt wI bnate
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hE.|[sil0 k.jul Aamal kI hdIs hE ik bap kI duAa AOlad ke hk me ALlah
rBbul [Jjt [s trh kbul frmate hE. ijs trh iksI nbI ik duAa ALlah ]skI ]Mmt ke
hk me kbul frmate hE.|
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kI vjhse ye soctI hE. ik jI bCca hE,7o3a hE,bDa ho kr #Ik ho ja0ga|[skI
imsal to 0esI huvI ik dIvar bn rhI hE AOr bnane vale ne 3e !I bnanI xu=
kr dI|Ab mkan ke mailk ne ye soc kr qamox ho ja0 ik }.cI hogI to #Ik ho
ja0gI,w{ jo dIvar xu=se 3e !I ho vo Aasman tk bhut }.cI clI ja0 ]ska 3e !
apn b!ta cla ja0ga|yhI bCco. ka mamla ik Agr bcpn se trbIyt n kI to ijtne
bDe hote ja0.ge ]tne hI ye bure hote ja0.ge|[sil0 xrIAt ne kha ik bCca
jEse hI pEda ho 0k kan me Ajan de. AOr dusre me [kamt de.|hala.kI vo
bCca iktna 7o3a hE,smz wI nhI skta,bol wI nhI skta,lekIn xrIAt ]ske kan
me. Ajan AaEr [kamt khlva rhI hE|to deqa raj yhI hE ik ALlah ka nam ]s
bCce ke kan me. Dalo taik ]s ke idmag me. sb se phle ALlah kI taEhId
ka pEgam phu.ce|to xriAt ne to hme. phle se bta idya AaEr ye jhn me.
rqna ik 7h sal kI trbIyt kI ijMmedarI ma> pr Jyada j=rI hotI hE|iKyu.ik 7h
sal kI ]mr 0esI hE ik [s ]mr me. bCca ma> ke pas vKt Jyada gujarta
hE|]ske bad bap ke pas Jyada gujarta hE|[sil0 7h sal kI ]mr tk trbIyt kI
ijMmedarI ka Jyada ihSsa ma> ka hota hE|]ske bad ifr bap ka ihSsa xu=
ho jata hE|
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ikya|]nkI xadIya. kI|mE beva ma> hu.,Aaj mera Kya ihsab iktab hoga,
[sil0 mE cahtI hu. ik Aap ke sa4 jNnt me ja].|nbI ne frmaya ik
[s Aml kI vjhse ALlah ]sko [tne jLdI jNnt Ata frma0.ge|
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AOlad ke samne [s trh ka ko{ kam n kre. taik AOlad ke A.dr xmR v hya
Jyada ho|
AOlad ko vKt n dena|k{ bar bap kI nokrI 0esI hotI hE 3a{m nhI de
skta|ma> Apne fxno. me ApnI sheilyo. ke sa4 bato. me lgI rhtI hE|
AOlad ko neglect njrA.daj krtI hE|ye AaElad ke nafrman bnneka bDa
jrIya hota hE|Agr ALlahne Jyada mal pEsa idya to hd se Jyada 0ex n kre.
AaEr ALlah ne ihMmt dI to AaElad ko fk/ v faka se bcaye.|ye dono. cIje.
bhut hI burI hE.|Extreme of everything is bad 0ese 0ese luKme iqlana
ik AaElad be prvah bn jaye ye wI glt AaEr AaElad ko [tnI grIbI dena ik
grIbI se t.g hokr vo 7upe gunah krne lg ja0 ye wI glt hE|
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trbIyt se mh=m kr idya|[sil0 ma> ko mmta valI muhBbt nhI honI
caih0,ALlah valI muhBbt honI caih0|
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hE,bat mantI hE to indirectly ]nko ye mesej imlega ik hmne wI Apne
ma>-bap ka [sI trh frmabrdar bnna hE|cuna.ce ma>-bap ko jNnt imlI
AaElad kI trbIyt krne pr AaEr ko AaElad ko jNnt imlegI ma>-bap kI
iqdmt krne pr|
Ab jra ma>-bap kI iqdmt ke bare me. wI c.d bate. muqtsr sun iljI0|
nbI ne [rxad frmaya,
[NnLlah hrRma AlEkum Aquqtum ]Mmhat
ALlah tAala ne tuMhare ]pr ma> kI nafrmanI ko hram kr idya|cuna.ce
kurAan mjId me. 0k vaikya hE ik hjrt iqjr ne 0k bCce ko kTl kr
idya 4a|to jb musa ne pu7a,iKyo. kTl ikya? ijs ka tjikra hE,
khf:
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]nko [ske bdle dusrI AC7I AaElad Ata frmaye.ge|[ska mtlb to ye huva ik
kurAan pak se saibt ho rha hE ik nafrman AaElad ke ijne se ]ska mr
jana Jyada behtr hota hE|
cuna.ce xaf{ ke 0k bhut bDe fkIh gujre hE. xu= me. ]nkI ye halt 4I
ik ]nko faitha wI nhI AatI 4I|bcpn me. ma> kI iqdmt kI to ma> ne 0k bar
duAa de dI|ALlah mere bCce ke sIne ko [Lm ke nur se wrde|ma> kI
duAa 0esI lgI ik bCce ne [Lm hasIl ikya AaEr ALlah ne ]se [Lm ka fkIh
bna idya|to [sil0 AaElad ko caih0 ik ma>-bap kI iqdmt kre AaEr Apne rb
ko [s jrIye se rajI kre.|kurAan mjId ne to kh idya,
bnI [sra{l:
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]f wI n kro,xrIAt ne kha jEse bCca 7o3a 4a ma>-bap ]ske pexab paqane
ko 2ote 4e AOr ]f wI nhI krte 4e|Agr ma>-bap bu!ape me Aa ja0. AOr
bCco. ko ma>-bap ka pexab paqana wI saf krna pDe to [nko ]f wI nhI
krna caih0|to [sil0 jo ma>-bap kI narajgI vo ALlah kI narajgI hE|
AaqrI vKt Aa gya mgr jan nhI inkltI 4I|bhut der gujr g{|jan knI
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Ab [ska ye mtlb wI nhI ik Aaj AOrte. ye socne lge. ik hjrt sahbne to
ma>-bap ka [tna mkam bna idya,Ab hmare qaivNd hmare ha4o. se inkl
ja0.ge|ye bat nhI hotI|
bCco. ke
zgDe
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| hmarI muAaxrtI ij.dgI-
[.san iftrI taEr pr iml jul kr rhne ka AadI hE|ALlah rBbul [Jjt ne [se
socne ke il0 idmag idya|mhsus krne ke il0 idl Ata ikya|to ye jjbat ,
0hsasat rqne vala [.san Akela ij.dgI nhI gujar skta|ye kEse mumikn hE
ik ma> qud to qale jb ik [ska bCca [ske Aaqo. ke samne wuqse tDpta
rhe ye kEse ho skta hE ik be3I bImar ho AaEr bap [ske [laj muAalje ke
il0 tvJjoh nhI de|[sil0 [.san 0k muAaxre me. rhna ps.d krta hE|[sko 6relu
ij.dgI khte hE|0k [.san ke bIvI,bCce ye sb iml kr 0k 6rana bnate hE.|ifr
k{ 6rane iml kr 0k qandan bnta hE|xhr Aabad hote hE.|muLk Aabad
hote hE.|[sI trh duinya Aabad hE|to [s trh iml jul kr rhne ko muAaxrtI
ij.dgI khte hE|
bkra :
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ik ALlah rBbul [Jjt fsad ko ps.d nhI krte|
| bCco. kI nfsIyat-
bCco. kI nfsIyat ko smzna bhut j=rI hE|ijs se ye bat smzane me
AasanI hogI ik bCco. ke zgDo. kI no{Yyt Kya hotI hE|sayNs kI 0k iktab
hE ijska nam hE Birth order b4R AaDRr|[sme maihr nfsIyat
sayNsdano. ne ye ilqa hE ik bCce 6r me ijs pojIxn pr pEda hote hE.,iftrI
tOrpr [nme ku7 Aadte. [ske mutaibk hotI hE.|
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| bDa bCca 0LDr bCca -
0k hota hE sbse bDa bCca ijs ko 0LDr elder khte hE.|Aam tOr pr [skI
Aadto. me Aap ko njm v jbt Jyada njr Aa ja0ga|[skI tbIyt ke A.dr 0hsase
ijMmedarI Jyada hotI hE|baj AOkat ye bCce dictator AamIr wI bn jate
hE|leikn Aam tOr pr ye log kanun ke mutaibk rhna AOr rqna ps.d krte
hE.|[sil0 jb bCca wI 6r me sb se bDa hoga,Aap [sse except tvKko kre. ik
ye bCca gEr ijMmedar nhI ho skta,hmexa ijMmedar hoga|mgr
ijMmedarI ke sa4 [ske A.dr pojIxn mkam haisl krne kI wI tbIyt hogI,vo
dusro. pr =l wI krna cahta hoga,ye cahega ik hr mamle me merI bat
manI ja0,merI follow pErvI kI ja0,muze bDa bna ke rqa ja0|ye cIj iftrI
tOr pr [s bCce ke A.dr hotI hE|
to goya iksI ke Agr pa.c bCce hE. to jo bDa bCca hE vo hE Elder one
bDa bCca|[skI nfsIyat ko [strh se smze. ik [ske A.dr nJm v jBt hoga,isrIys
bCca hoga,[s me. 0hsase ijMmedarI Jyada hogI AaEr drimyan ke jo tIn
bCce hE.,ye bCce imDl bebIj midle babies khlaye.ge,tIno. kI nfisyat 0k
hI jEsI hogI,[nko Apne hk ke ]sul ke il0 lDna pDega|msa{l ko hl krna
pDega| [nko jIne ke il0 mehnt struggle krnI pDtI hE,[sil0 [n bCco. me.
Aam taEr pr mehnt kI ihs sense of struggle Jyada hotI hE|0k hota hE
sbse 7o3a bCca,[s ko Aap yu> hI smz le. ik vo cu.ik 6r ka mehbub hota
hE|7o3I be3I ho ya 7o3a be3a ho,muhBbte. [Nhe. Jyada imltI hE.,AaEr
Aam taEr pr hmare 6ro. ka dStur yanI kanun hE ik ma>-bap wI [sI ke
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sa4 rhte hE.,vo ifr ApnI pojIxn ka hmexa fayda ]#ata hE|Ab ye j=rI nhI
ik jo bate. khI g{ hr bCca 0esa hI ho leikn jb Aap 0k hjar b.do. ko
deqe.ge to Aap mehsus kre.ge ik Aam taEr pr Aam bCco. ka rvEYya [s
ke mutabIk hI hota hE|sa{.sdano. ne laqo. bCco. ko [s bat pr prqa AaEr
[Nho. ne nfsIyat ke ye ]sul inkale,[sil0 bCco. kI ye tIn bate. hmexa jhn
me. rqa kre. ik bCce ka pEda{x ka n.br birth order Kya hE|[sil0 [n se
ku7 bato. kI tvKko rqnI caih0 AaEr ifr [ske mutabIk [sko DIl krnI caih0|ye
jnrl bat Aap ko [sil0 kh dI ik Ap ke jhn me. rhe ik bCco. ko DIl krte huve
Aap ko pta ho ik Aap iks bCce se DIl kr rhI hE.? [ske msa{l problem iks
trh ke ho skte hE.? AaEr Aapne [ske msle ko iks trh hl krna hE?
Aam tOr pr bCce kI Aadt hotI hE ik [ske jb da.t inkl rhe ho. to ko{ cIj
wI [ske mu.h me Dalo to vo ]sko ka.3ta hE|hr bCce kI ]mr me 0k qas
ihSsa 0esa Aata hE ik [se iksI cIj ko cbane kI Aadt ho jatI hE|Aap ].glI wI
de. to ].glI ko ka3ega,ApnI h4elI de. to h4elI ko ka.3ega|ye bCce kI iftrt
hE|
lgwg 0esI hI ]mr hogI ik ijs me [.san ke da.t inklte hE. AOr [sko ka.3ne
me mja wI imlta hE|0k mtRba Aap kI rja{ bhn xIma ne Aap ko ]
#aya AOr Aap ko k.2e se lgaya to nbI ne k.2e pr d.dane
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mubark se ka.3a|ye [tna Jyada 4a ik [ske inxan pD g0|ALlah kI xan
deqe. ik ye inxan [nko rha|0k mtRba iksI gjva me [nke kbIle ke logo. ko
igrftar kr ke laya gya|xIma ]s vKt bu!I ho cukI 4I.|vo nbI kI
iqdmt me Aa{. AOr ]Nhone Aakr btaya ik mE Aap kI bhn hu.|nbI
ne frmaya ik mE to Apne bapka 0k hI be3a hu.,Aap merI bhn
kEse hu.vI ? ]Nhone btaya ik mE hlIma kI be3I Aap kI rja{ bhn hu.|
inxanI ke tOr pr ]sne kha ik 0k bar mE ne Aap ko ]#aya huva 4a to Aap
ne muze ka.3a 4a AOr mere ijSm pr vo inxan Aaj wI mOjud hE|nbI
ne ]s inxan ko deqa to Aap ko wI yad Aa gya ik ha. bcpn me
0esa mamla pex Aaya 4a|]ske bad nbI ne ApnI cadr ib7a{ AOr
ApnI bhn ko ]s cadr pr ib#aya|deqe. ik Aap Aage jakr purI [.sanIyt
ke ]stad bnne vale 4e leikn Aap se wI bcpn me bcpn valI hrkte. ho
rhI 4I.|[sil0 valIdEn ko caih0 ik bCco. se bcpn valI bato. kI ]MmId rqe. ik
bcpn kI ]mr hE.jhn kCca hE,tjuRba nhI hE to vo [s trh kI hrkte. krega,n
kre to ]s bCca kOn khe|
| bCca ya bu!a-
hjrt imjaR mjhr jane jana ne 0k bar hjrt xah gulam AlI dhlvI
krna|bCca jb AC7I trh mamla smz gya to Agle idn hjrt xah sahb
[se hjrt imjaR sahb kI iqdmt me la0|bCce ne slam ikya AOr Adb se 0k
jgh bE# gya|ku7 der gujrI to hjrt ne frmaya,gulam AlI hmne to kha 4a
ik
iksI bCce ko hmare pas le Aana|hjrt xah sahb khne lge hjrt bCce
ko hI to le kr Aaya hu.|hjrt ne frmaya ye ko{ bCca hE ? ye to bu!a
malum hota hE|yanI bCca to [s vKt AC7a lgta hE jb bCco. valI bate.
kre,]7l kud kre,Aap ne bCce ko bu!a bna kr ib#a idya|vo lgta hI nhI ik
bCca hE|
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deiq0 hjrt xeq sadI ApnI bat qud btlate hE.,frmate hE. ik
muze merI ma> ne sone kI A.gu#I phna dI|mE vo A.gu#I phn kr bahr
glI me inkla to 0k cor iml gya|]s cor ke pas guD kI DlI 4I|]s ne muze ]#a
kr Pyar ikya AaEr muze khne lga ik tum ApnI A.gu#I ko cqo,mE. ne
A.gu#I ko juban se lgaya to bemja 4I|ifr [ske bad ]sne guD kI DlI dI ik
[sko cqo|jb mE. ne guD ko cqa to bDa mjedar 4a,khne lga ik mjedar cIj
lelo AaEr be mja cIj de do|khne lge ikmuze guD ka [tna mja Aaya ik mE.
ne ]se A.gu#I ]tar kr dI AaEr guD kI DlI lekr vaps Aa gya|Ab bCce 4e
,kCce 4e,guD kI DlI ke bdle sone kI A.gu#I de kr Aag0|to [s ]mr me.
[.san gltIya> wI krta hE AaEr isqta wI hE|
frmate hE. ik mE. 0k bar Apne bap ke sa4 mela deqne gya,bap ne
kha ik be3a mjbutI se mera ha4 pkDna,iwD Jyada hE,7oDna nhI, mE. ne
kha,bhut AC7a|Ab mE. cl wI rha 4a,[2r ]2r deq wI rha 4a,[2r ]2r kI cIje.
deqne me. 0esa mxgul huva ik ha4 7u3 gya [ske bad bhut der bap
muze !u.Dte rhe,mE. valId sahb ko !u.Dta rha,kafI der ke bad AaEr
prexanI ]#ane ke bad valId sahb ne muze !u.D ilya|jb ]Nho.ne muze !
u.Da to kha ik tuMhe mE. ne kha 4a ik ha4 pkDe rqna,tum ne Kyo.
7oDa? to mE. ne ifr [nko kha ik mE. iksI cIj ko deqne me. mxgul ho
gya,tvJjoh n rhI,to valId sahb ne mere kan qI.ce AaEr kha ik deqo bCce
ijs trh tum ne Apne bDe ka ha4 mjbutI se n pkDa to duinya ke mele me.
gum ho g0,[sI trh tum bDe ho kr Agr Apne bDo. ka ha4 mjbutI se nhI
pkDoge to to ifr duinya ke mele me. gum ho javoge|khne lge bcpn kI ye
valId sahb kI bta{ huvI ye bat muze Aaj wI yad AatI hE ik hikkt me. jo
Apne bDo. ka sa4 7oD bE#ta hE vo ifr duinya kI izlimlah3 ke A.dr gum
hI ho jaya krta hE|
frmate hE. mE. 7o3a sa 4a,Apne bap ke sa4 thJjud me. ]# jaya krta
4a|0k rat mE. ne thJjud p!I to 6r ke ku7 log soye huve 4e,mE. ne ABbu
se kha, ABbu deqo ye log pDe hE.,]# kr thJjud nhI p!te,to valId sahb ne
kha be3a,tum Agr sote rhte to Jyada behtr 4a,[sil0 ik Ab jo tumne ye
bat kI ye gIbt me. daqIl hE,[nko sone pr [tna gunah nhI hoga,ijtna
tuMhe gIbt ke krne pr huva to deqIye iks trh bCca bate. kr rha hE AaEr
Aklm.d bap [s bCce ko sa4 sa4 talIm wI de rha hE,[skI trbIyt wI kr rha
hE|
aya ik roje me. imSvak nhI krnI caih0,[mame Aajm Abu hnIfa ke
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njdIk roje me. imSvak krna jayj hE mgr [mam xaf{ [sme bhut
0hityat krte hE. vo frmate hE. ik nhI jb ALlah ko roje dar kI mu.h kI
mhek hI AC7I lgtI hE to imSvak Kyu. krnI? bherhal ]nka Apna nuKt-0-njr
hE|khne lge ik jb mE. ne ye p!a to mE. ne 6r Aakr Apne valId se kha|
ABbu roje me. imSvak nhI krnI caih0|jb mE. ne ye btaya to mere valId
ne kha ik be3e tum roje me. imSvak n krne kI to [tnI 0hityat kr rhe ho
AaEr AwI 4oDI der phle jo tum ne bat khI 4I vo to gIbt 4I AaEr tumne
goya Apne mudaR wa{ ka goxt qailya,to Kya roje me. ye goxt qana
tuMhare il0 jayj 4a? khne lge tb ye bat mere smz me. AayI ik hikkt me.
roje kI halt me. gIbt se bhut bcna caih0|
Apna tkIya khte ho,hjrt xequl hdIs frmaya krte 4e ik ]ske bad
muze duinya kI ko{ cIj AC7I nhI lgtI 4I|
| sahbjadgI-
ku7 AaEkat jo bDe ]lma ya mxa{q ke bCce hote hE.,jo sahbjade
hote hE.,]nme. 4oDI Ana pEda ho jatI hE|Kyo.ik maElana sahb ka hr
muAtikd Aakr ]sse laD krta hE|ko{ ]se ]#a rha hE,ko{ cIje la kr de rha
hE,ko{ 6umane ifrane le ja rha hE,to [s najbrdarI kI vjh se bCce me.
ku7 jah tlbI AaEr qudgjIR,kamcorI ya [s trh kI cIje. Aa jatI hE. ijs se imjaj
ibgD jata hE|jahIr hE jb imjaj ibgD jaye to ifr bat bat pr zgDa hota
hE,kwI dusre bCco. ke sa4 lDa AaEr kwI Apne bDo. ke sa4 ijd|[sil0 ]lma
AaEr muKtda hjrat ko Apne bCco. pr [s hvale se qas taEr pr njr rqne kI
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j=rt hotI hE|yhI vjh hE ik xequl hdIs hjrt maElana jkrIya ko
valIdEn bcpn me. ku7 AaEkat marte 4 AaEr frmate 4 ik ye sahbjadgI
e e
ka qyal bDI muxikl se hI bCce ke jhn se inkl jata hE|to hmare AkabIr
Apne bCco. ko bcpn se hI sbk isqaya krte 4e|
bhut 4I AaEr xequl hdIs ke sa4 bhut Jyada ghra taALluk 4a|muze
deqa to khne lge ik sahbjade hme. wI bEt krlo|khne lge mE. ne kha
Aa[ye bE# ja[ye muze Kya pta 4a ik ye bDe imya> kaEn hE.?to mE. ne
hjrt mdnI ke ha4 Apne ha4 me. pkD il0 AaEr mE. ne ku7 klmat p!
kr kha ik AC7a mE. ne Aapko wI bEt kr ilya|to deqo bCca hE,lekIn vo
hjrt mdnI ko bEt kr rha hE|bCce [sI trh ke kam krte hE.|
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lgavo|Ab 7o3a sa bCca deqo Apne bhno. ke sa4 iks trh [s bat pr qel rha
hE|
]nkI 0k bDI bhn 4I,0k bar ]sne bcpn me. ]nko ko{ kam kha,]Nho. ne
n ikya,ijd kr g0|to bDI bhn guSsa huvI AaEr ]sne Apne valId ko kha ik
ABbu ye hmare bCce to iblkul sDe huve A.Do. kI trh hE.,jb bhen ne kha
ik ye to sDe huve A.Do. kI trh hE. to ]Nho. ne ]sI vKt Apne mu.h se cu.-
cu. kI Aavaj inkalnI xu= kr dI AaEr kha ik Agr A.De sDe huve hote to ]
sme. se ye mugIR ke bCce kEse inklte? Ab 7o3a bCca hE deqo vo Apne
bhen kI bat pr Kya re Aml idqa rha hE?
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ke bad muze khne lge,Are imya> tuMhare A.dr [tnI ihMmt hI nhI ik tum
do lfj p! do,Kya tuMhe log bevkuf khe. to ye tuMhe. AC7a lgega? mE. ne
kha nhI,mE. to bevkuf nhI hu>|]sne kha ik Agr tuMhe. log g.da bCca
khe. to AC7a lgega? mE. ne kha nhI,mE. g.da bCca to nhI hu>|]Nho.ne
kha ik g.de bCce nhI ho to ifr [nko p! kr suna do,ik tum ibsimLlah p!na
jante ho|khne lge jb ]Nho.ne muze [strh Properly shI A.daj me. iDl ikya
to mE. ne [tne jor se ibsimLlah p!I ik karI sahb to Kya 6r me. bE#ne valI
AaErto. ne wI ibsimLlah kI Aavaj sunI, to Ab deiqye,ik hE to bCca lekIn
Agr [sko 4PpD mara to cup lgI huvI 4I AaEr Pyar ke sa4 [sko iDl ikya to
[sne [tna ]>ca p!a ik idvar ke par wI [skI Aavaje. jane lg g{|to ye bCce
Aam taEr pr 0ese hI krte hE.|Agr Apne bCce ko ko{ bat khI,[sne n
krdI,manne pr tyar hI nhI,to guSsa mt kre.,Aap [ska 4oDasa mahol bdl
de.,bat bdl de.|bCce kI ALlahne me.mrI bhut xa3R bna{ hotI hE|[s
xa3R me.mrI ka fayda ]#ana caih0|AaEr [se iDl krna b.de ko Aana
caih0|
| 7o3e bCco. kI smz 7o3I hotI hE-
khne lge ik mE. 7o3a 4a to 0k idn AMmI ABbu Aaps me. bE#e bat
kr rhe 4e to iksI ne kha ik kyamt ka idn hoga,bhut gmIR hogI AaEr surj
to sva neje pr hoga AaEr psIna hoga AaEr bhut muxikl hogI|to sarI bate.
sun kr mE. h.s p!a to AMmI ne kha ik be3e,h.s Kyo. rhe ho? to mE. ne
kha,AMmI jb [tnI Jyada gmIR hogI to mE. bcne ke il0 kmre me cla
ja]>ga,to khne lge,sare 6r vale hsne lge ik hxr kI gmIR ka tjikra AaEr
bCce ka hal deqo ik kh rha hE AMmI [s gmIR se bcne ke il0 mE. ]s dIn
kmre me. cla ja].ga|to bCce kI [tnI hI soc hotI hE AaEr [tna hI [ska
mamla hota hE|
qlIl Ahmd sharnpurI ke yha> Aaya jaya krte 4e|frmate hE. ik mE.
jb vha> jata 4a to muze vo bkrI ka 7o3a sa bCca bhut AC7a lgta 4a|to
mE. AKsr [s bkrI ke bCce ke sa4 qelta 4a to 0k bar Kya huva? ik log
Aaps me. hj kI bate. kr rhe 4e ik hm ne hj pr jana hE|mE. [nkI bate.
sunta rha,to AaqIr me. ifr mE. ne kha ik ha> mE. wI hj pr ja]>ga|to iksI
ne pu7 ilya ik kEse hj pr javoge? mE. ne kha|rhemtbI kI bkrI ka jo 7o3a
bCca hE mE. [skI pI# pr svar ho kr hj ke il0 ja}>ga|Ab deqo, 7o3a sa
bCca bcpn kI ]mr me. ye jvab de rha hE ik mE. bkrI ke bCce kI pI# pr
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bE# kr hj k=.ga|khne lge,ye bat 0esI mxhur huvI ik maElana qlIl Ahmd
hjrt muftI muhMmd xfI frmate hE. ik merI pEda{x devb.d me.
huvI,ma>-bap vhI. rhte 4e AaEr vhI. pr mere lDkpn kI ]mr gujrI,p!ne kI
xu=vat wI vhI. se huvI|frmate hE ik mE. Apne kzIn AkIl ke sa4 qel rha
4a AaEr hm Aaps me. srk.De qel rhe 4e|yanI c.d srk.De ke 7o3e se
3ukDe 4e,0k dusre ke sa4 qel rhe 4e,yU. rqo,yU. fe.ko,tum ijt javoge ya
har javoge|khne lge srk.Do. ka qel qelrha 4a ik [sne sare hI srk.De
muzse ijt il0|frmate hE. ik mE. [tna DIpres huva ik [tna nuKsan hogya|
Ab soco ik bCce kI duinya Kya hE Agr [s se iksI ne srk.De ijt il0 to goya
[s pr phaD 3u3 pDa|vo smzta hE ik duinya ka [tna bDa qjana [ske ha4
se iksI ne lu3 ilya|bad me. frmaya krte 4e ik Ab mE. socta hu. ik purI
duinya kI mere samne Kya hkIkt hE? mgr bcpn me. mera Kya hal 4a ik
srk.Do. ke cle jane pr mE. [s kdr prexan ho gya 4a|to bcpn me. [.san kI
0esI hI ]m.ge AaEr tmNna0. hotI hE.|
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4e,AaEr be3a wI maxaALlah jvanul]mr 4a [s vKt [skI quxI kI tkrIb 4I to
[s quxI kI tkrIb me. ]Mho.ne 0elan ikya ik Aaj mE. Apne be3e ko 0k
tohfa du.ga|Ab ]Nho.ne tohfa 0k kagj ke A.dr lpe3a huva 4a yanI igF3
pk krvaya huva 4a|khne lge ik sara mjma mutvJjah hogya|be3e kI xadI
hE,vilma kI tkrIb hE,bap [tna [Jjtdar AadmI hE AaEr vo Apne be3e ko
vilma ke ]pr 0k tohfa pex kr rha hE|to log smzte 4e pta nhI sone ka bna
hoga? ko{ Daym.D hoga ya ko{ ikmtI 6DI hogI,Kya cIj hogI? khne lge ik
sb logo. ne idlcSpI lI ik AaqIr [s igF3 pk ke A.dr 7upaya huva Kya hE?
khne lge ik jb valId sahb ne muze kha|be3e [s igF3 pk ko qolo|mE. ne
[se qolna xu= ikya to 0k th4I,ifr [s ke A.dr dusrI th,ifr [ske A.dr tIsrI
th,Ab qolta ja rha hu> AaEr logo. ko tjSsus b!ta ja rha hE,ifr mera tjSsus
wI b!ta gya ik ABbu muze [s maEke pr Kya cIj de rhe hE.? khne lge ik jb
mE. ne AaqrI th ]tarI to A.dr 0k bCce ke qelne ka 7o3a sa iqlaEna
4a jb vo iqlaEna inkla to sara mjma h.sne lga|mE. 4oDasa xrim.da wI
huva ik mere vilma kI tkrIb 4I AaEr valId sahb ne muze ye iqlaEna dena
4a AaEr logo. ke samne merI jg h.sa{ honI 4I,mE. jra qamox ho gya|qEr
log to h.ste,muSkura0,0Njay ikya AaEr cle g0|
c.d idno. ke bad ABbu se merI bat ho rhI 4I|mE. ne kha,ABbu Aap
ne mere sa4 i#k nhI ikya||||Kyo. be3e? [sil0 ik Aapne muze [tne bDe
mjme ke samne mjak bna idya|sare muz pr h.sne lge ik muze Apne [s
tkrIb kI quxI me. ye 7o3a s iqlaEna idya|to [s vKt valId ne bat smza{ ik
deqo be3a,mE. tuMhe 0k msej dena cahta 4a 0k pEgam smzana cahta
4a ik bcpn me. 0k bar mere pas pEse nhI 4e AaEr tumne [sI iqlaEne kI
muzse frma[x,yanI ma.g kI 4I jo mE. qrId n ska to Aap [tna ro0,[tna qfa
hu0 ik 0k hFta muz se bole wI nhI ik muze iqlaEna Kyo. nhI le kr idya?[s
iqlaEne kI Aap ko [tnI caht 4I ik Apne valId se 0k hfta klam tk n ikya|
mE. ne ye soca ik Aaj [s xadI kI quxI kI tkrIb me.,mE. ye iqlaEna Aap ko
le kr du> AaEr Aap ko ye smza}> ik deqo be3e,bcpn me. [s iqlaEne ka
lena Aap kI Aarju 4I,Aap kI tmNna 4I,lekIn jb Aap jvanI me. phu.ce AaEr
wre mjme me. logo. ke samne Aap kI tmNna ko pex ikya to Aap ko qud
wI xrim.dgI huvI ik Kya [s cIj ke pI7e mE. ne Apne valId se mu.h moD
ilya 4a|mE. ye pEgam dena cahta 4a ik be3e bcpn kI tmNna0. Agr b.de
ke samne jvanI me. qolI ja0. to wre mjme me. b.de ko xrim.dgI hotI hE|
tum jvanI me. ApnI ko{ 0esI Aarju AaEr tmNna n bnana ik kl kyamt ke
mjme me. Agr ]se qol idya ja0 to tuMhe vha> jakr xrim.dgI ho,to
deiq0,jo AC7e ma>-bap hote hE. vo bCco. ko 7o3I 7o3I bato. me. hI
AC7I talIm dete hE. AaEr iblAaiqr [n bCco. ko AC7a [.san bna dete hE.|
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hjrt muftI ikfaytuLlah frmate hE. ik bcpn me. mere 6r ke halat
grIbI ke 4e,mgr mE. ne iksI se 3oipya> bnana isq ilya 4a,jEse AaErte.
kurexe ke sa4 bE# kr muqtilf yanI Alg-Alg cIje. bnatI rhtI hE.|khne lge ik
bs mE. wI [s trh bE# kr vo 3oipya> bnata rhta 4a yha> tk ik k{ bar ]
Stad klas me. p!a rhe hote 4e,mE. ip7e bE#a hota 4a,sbk wI sun rha
hota 4a AaEr sa4 sa4 3oip wI bna rha hota 4a|mgr ALlah ne jhn 0esa
idya 4a ik sa4 vale bCce Agr ko{ cIj nhI smz skte 4e to mE. 3oip bnana
7oD kr [nko bat suna deta 4a|to vo hEran hote 4e ik tum 3oipya>
bnate huve ]Stad ka dsR sunte ho AaEr [tna tuMhe yad hota hE|frmate
hE. ik mE. [s trh 3a{m bca kr 3oipya> bnata,[nko becta AaEr [sse jo
muze 4aeDe se pEse imlte,[sse mE. Apne mdrse ka qcR claya krta 4a|
to ku7 bCce 0ese wI hote hE. ik bcpn me. [nko ALlah rBbul [Jjt 0hsase
ijMme.darI de deta hE|
qud hjrt muftI xfI frmate hE. ik mE. ApnI bStI se jb da=l}lum
me. p!ne ke il0 Aata to sidRyo. kI rato. me. [Mthano. ke krIb der tk p!na
hota 4a,tyarI krnI hotI 4I|jb mE. vaps 6r laE3 kr 6r Aata to 6r ke sare log
soye hote 4e|AMmI ]#tI AaEr ]s vKt muze qana grm kr ke detI to mE.
AMmI kI imNnt smajt krta ik Aap Kyo. sidRyo. me. ]#tI hE.? bs Aap qana
rqidya kre.,mE. qud hI Aakr qa ilya k=.ga|bDI muxikl se mE. ne AMmI
ko mnaya|frmate hE. ik jb mE. Aata to saln jma huva hota,mE. [ske ]
prse jmI huvI th h3a idya krta 4a AaEr #.Da qana qakr gujara krleta|
lekIn mE. ApnI talIm me. hjR Aane nhI deta 4a|Ab deqo ijn bCco. ke
A.dr bcpn,lDkpn se yu> [Lm ka xaEk ho,xgf ho,tlb ho,Ahsase ijMmedarI
ho AaEr [Lm kI qaitr [s trh ApnI j=rto. ko kurban kre.,ye vo bCce hote
hE. jo ApnI jvanI me. [Lm ke Aasman pr istare bn kr cmkte hE.|ifr 0k vKt
Aaya ALlah rBbul [Jjt ne [s bCce ko muftI-0-Aajm paikStan bna idya|
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be3e ifr Apne vKt ke xequl hdIs bn g0 AaEr ALlah rBbul [Jjt ne ]nko Kya
kbuilyte AaMma Ata frmayI|
bDa hokr hjrt karI muhMmd tYyb sahb bna|to deiq0 ik ku7 vKt
0esa wI hota hE ik ma> ke pe3 se hI ALlah [nko ivlayt ka nur Ata frma
deta hE|0esI xqisyt ne pEda hona hota hE to bCce ko bhut sarI bate.
bcpn me. hI pex Aana xu= ho jatI hE.|
hE|hjrt muftI rxId Ahmd g.gohI frmate hE. ik 0k bar valIda ne du2
idya hm wa{yo. ko,mera bDa wa{ 4a AaEr mE. 4a,to mE. ijd krne lga ik
phle mE. ip}>ga|cu.ik valIda ne glas wa{ ke ha4 me. idya huva 4a [sil0
wa{ ne kha ik nhI phle mE. ne hI ipna hE|khne lge jb mE. Jyada roya
2oya AaEr ]2m mcaya to wa{ ne guSse me. Aakr Apna wI du2 ipya
AaEr mere ihSse ka wI du2 ipilya AaEr qalI glas 0k trf ko rq idya ik Ab
tuMhe du2 imla hI nhI|frmate hE.ik 0esa vaikya mere jhn pr nKx huva ik
[ske bad purI ij.dgI mE. ne kwI wI ijd n kI ye socte huve ik ijd krne se to
[.san Apne ihSse se wI mh=m ho jaya krta hE|to 0k sbk isqa [Nho.ne [s
bcpn kI ij.dgI me.|
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tahm ye to jnrl bate. 4I jo Aap ko bCco. ke bare me. btayI. taik
A.DrS3iD.g rhe ik bCco. se DIl krte huve hme. Kya cIj jhn me. rqnI
caih0?
| zgDo. kI no[yt-
bCco. ke zgDe 7o3I 7o3I cIjo. pr hote hE. imsal ke taEr pr iksI ne
iqlaEna 7In ilya,Aaps me. zgDa ho gya,Aam 6r me. lga huva 4a,drqt se
ince Aaigra,0k ne kha mE. ne ]#ana hE,dusre ne kha mE. ne, clo [s bat
pr aaps me. zgDa ho gya|0k bCca bDa 4 0k 7o3a,bDe ne 7o3e ko
mu.h c!a idya AaEr [s bat pr Aaps me. zgDa ho gya|do bCce Aaps me.
qel rhe 4e,qelte huve 0k ijt gya to harne vale ne zgDa kr idya,rona
2ona xu= kr idya to bCce kI ye iftrt hotI hE ik vo cahta hE merI qahIx
purI ho|
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pura trIka hI nhI Aata|ALfaj hI nhI Aate to [nke pas 0k rona 2ona hI to
hota hE|[s il0 bCce naps.dgI ka [jhar ro 2 kr ikya krte hE.|
to bCce k{ bar ApnI ma> ko tvJjoh krne ke il0 idqave ka rona rote
hE.|to jo ma>0 jra sI AaE. AaE. pr faErn wagI AatI hE. ifr [n bCco. ko
rone kI Aadt wI pD jatI hE AaEr godo. ka wI cSka lg jata hE|vo ifr ince ]
trne ka nam hI nhI lete|bCce ka ro pDna ko{ [tnI bDI bat nhI hotI|k{ bar
[ske rone ko bdaRxt krna hota hE|bCce ko smzana hota hE ik hr bar hr
bat pr ro pDna ye ko{ AC7I Aadt nhI hotI|cuna.ce ijn bCco. ko rone kI
Aadt pD jatI hE vo ma>Aae. ke il0 musIbt bne hote hE.|[nko suq kI sa.s
hI nhI lene dete to [s il0 bCco. ke rone pr kb shI irAK3 krna hE AaEr kb
[sko narml lena hE? [s bat ko AC7I trh smzne kI j=rt hE|
Aam taEr pr deqa ik cu.ik ma> ko muhBbt hotI hE,jra bCce ke rone
kI Aavaj inklI AaEr ma> ke mu.h se ALfaj inklne xu= ho jate hE.,bolna
xu= kr detI hE,dusre bCco. ko gailya> dena,dusre bCco. ko kosna,dusre
bCco. pr [ljam #hrana xu= kr detI hE.|yad rqe. ik jb Aap ne 7o3e bCco.
kI mamulI bat se rone pr bDe ko Da.3na xu= kr idya to bDe bCce ke
A.dr Aap ne ApnI na[.safI ka bIj bo idya,[s ke idl me. Dal idya ik AMmI
na[.saf hE|Kyo. ik bCca bgEr [Ljam ke ko{ Da.3,bgEr gltI ke ko{ [Ljam
Apne ]pr bdaRxt nhI krta|jb [ske idl me. hota hE ik mE. ne gltI nhI kI to
[sko smz nhI AatI ik muze Kyo. Da.3a ja rha hE ?to ifr vo ma> se nfrt
krne lg jata hE,ma> ko bura smzna xu= kr deta hE ? socta hE ik bs
ma> to hmexa 7o3e hI kI sa{D letI hE|
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AaEr k{ bar hota hI 0ese hE ik Agr 7o3a hE to bDI bhno. kI xamt
AayI rhtI hE,hr bat pr bhno. ko Da.3 pD rhI hE|wa{ bCca hE,Ab [s bCce
kI qaitr Aap dusro. ko to bbaRd n kre|[sil0 ye cIj jhn me. rqe. ik bCce ka
rona hmexa mjlumIyt ka rona nhI hota|k{ bar bCca qud dusre bCco. ko
marta hE|0k bar mara,dusrI bar mara,tIsrI bar mara,jb bhn ko car bar
[sne mara,[sne wI guSse me. Aakr 0k 4PpD lga idya|jb [sne 0k lgaya Ab
bCca rota huva Aa gya|Ab vo jo rota huva Aa rha hE,hala.ik ye to mar
qake nhI Aa rha blik car dfa mar ke Aa rha hE|hjrt lukman ne
frmaya ik Agr ko{ tuMhare pas Aa0 AOr idqa0 ik mera 0k kan iksI ne
ka3 idya to tum fEsle me jLdI n krna jb tk ik tum dusre b.de se pu7 n lo|
ho skta hE ik [sne ]ske dono. ka3 id0 ho.|Agr ko{ khe ik jI [s ne muze
muKka mara AOr vak{ mara wI hE to fEsla n kre.,jb tk shI bat malum n
kr lo|ho skta hE ik [sse phle [sne ]se do muKke mare ho. ya Aor
ko{ JyadtI kI ho|
mgr [sme AOr wI 0k Ahm bat hE|vo ye ik bCce Agr 7o3I 7o3I bato. pr
Aaps me zgD pDte hE. to ALlahtAala ne wI [nkI memrI [tnI xapR rqI hotI
hE ik c.d imN3 ke bad ifr Aaps me qel rhe hote hE.|bCce ke rone me
AOr bCce ke h.sne me pa.c imN3 ka wI fkR nhI hota|AwI bCce ke Aa>su
bh rhe 4e,AwI [sko ma> ne ]#a ilya AOr [ske Aa>su qTm,[ska rona
qTm,bCce ka rona AOr bDe ka rona AOr hota hE|[sil0 bCco. ko rone kI
hkIkt ko smzane kI koxIx kre. AOr ye wI jhn me rqe. ik w{ [n bCco. ke
rone pr ya zgDne pr hm [sko bDo. ka zgDa nhI bna skte,[sil0 ik bCce
4oDI der ke bad [sko wul ke ifr se 0k dusre ke sa4 6ul iml ja0.ge|
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quda kI pnah|jb Agle idn ma>-bap ne subha ]# kr deqa ik dono. bCce
ifr glI me qel rhe hE.|to bCco. kI lDa{ 0esI hI hotI hE|to bCco. kI lDa{ pr
[tna ma> bap ka ]lz pDna ik 0k dusre ko jQmI kr de.,poils Aa ja0,ij.dgI
wr ke il0 irxta 3u3 ja0|ye bhut hI jhalt kI bat hE|[sil0 bCco. ke zgDo. kI
hkIkt ko smzana caih0|ha. jb bCca lDa{ kr leto Ab smze. ik bCce ne
AaqIr zgDa iKyo. ikya ? ifr [ske bad bCce ko smza0.|
phlI isft-
bCce ro ro kr ApnI bat ko mnvate hE.|vak{ ye iktnI PyarI isft hE|Agr
bDo. ko ye isft iml ja0 AOr vo ALlah ke dr pr ro ro kr ApnI bat ko mnva0.
to iktnI bDI bat hE|ALlah kre hme wI ye isft haisl ho ja0|
dusrI isft-
frmaya ik bCce imI se qelte hE.|[sil0 iksI vjIr,AmIr ka be3a iKyo. n ho ?
jra mOka imle to vo jmIn pr bE#ega,jmIn pr le3ega,jmIn pr wagega|to
bCca cahe kalIno. me rhne vala bCca ho,sone ke p.6oDo me plne vala
bCca ho,jra mOka imle to [sko mja jmIn ke sa4 hI Aata hE|vo jmIn pr hI
bE#ta hE,jmIn pr hI le3ta hE|to frmaya ik jmIn ke sa4
tb{ munaisbt,bCce ke A.dr tvajo kI dlIl hotI hE|tvajo kI vjh se bCca 0esa
kr rha hota hE|to ye 0k AC7I isft hE|
tIsrI isft-
frmaya bCco. ke A.dr 0k Aadt hotI hE ik [Nhe jo iml jata hE,vo [se mu.h
me Dalte hE. AOr qa lete hE. AOr vak{ hmne grIb 6rke bCco. ko deqa ik
bCca jb rota hE to [nko suqI ro3I ka 3uKDa cbane ke il0 idya jata hE to
vo quX ho jate hE.|to bCco. ko jo d.e,sa2a qana dedo,pur tkLluf dedo|
bCce [sI ko qa lete hE. AOr jb [nko wuk hotI hE to Apne pe3 ko wr lete
hE.|goya qane pIne ke mamle me ALlahne bCco. ko be tkLluf bnaya hE|
cO4I isft-
frmaya ik Aam tOrpr bCco. ko deqa ik jb qelte hE. to vo imI ke 6r
bnate hE.|qud hI imI ke 6r bnate hE AOr qud hI [n 6ro. ko toD dete
hE.|frmaya ik ye isft iktnI AC7I hE ik vo bta rhe hote hE. ik duinya da=l
fna hE yanI qTm hone valI hE|0k vKt Aa0ga ik hme [s duinya ke
karqane kI hr cIj ko 7oD kr yha. se cle jana hE|
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pa.cvI isft-
frmaya ik bCco. ke A.dr ye isfr bhut AC7I hE ik Agr bCce 4oDI der ke il0
0k dusre ke sa4 zgDa kr lete hE. to ifr sulah krne me jLdI krte hE.|[nke
sIne bekIna hote hE.|ye idlo. me nfrte. nhI rqa krte|ye isft bCco. ke A.dr
bhut AC7I hotI hE|to vak{ ye bat shI hE ik bCco. ke A.dr ghra{ nhI hotI
ik puranI bato. ko yad rq ske.|
[sil0 jb kwI ma>-bap Aapsme bhut lDte hE. AOr ifr bDe cahte hE> ik
hmare bCce wI 0k dusre se n bolte to yad rqna ik bCco. ke il0 ma>-bap
kI qatIr msnu{ lDa{ lDna bhut muxikl kam hota hE|bCce Apne ma>-
bap kI vjhse msnu{ lDa{ nhI lD skte|[sil0 bCco. kI iftrt ko smze. AOr
[nke zgDo. ko [sI trh se DIl ikjI0|blik [nke zgDo. ko to zgDa khna hI nhI
caih0|ps.d AOr naps.d ka [jhar khna caih0|Aapsme [nke zgDe to
mamulI bate. hotI hE.|[sil0 7o3I sI bato. pr [ska bt.gD nhI bna lena
caih0 AOr [spr bDo. ko envolve xaiml nhI ho jana caih0|
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bCco. kI
trbIyt ke tIn
jrrIn ]sUl
Aail [mran :
yanI AwI bCca ma> ke rhem me. hE,ivladt wI nhI huvI,mgr ma> ko ]s
vKt se ifkr hotI hE Apne AaElad kI AaEr nek maye. vKt se Apne rb se
bCce kI nekbqtI kI duAaye. krtI hE.|nek valId ko wI AaElad kI ifkr hotI
hE,AaEr ye ifkr iktnI Jyada hotI hE [ska sbUt kurAan Aijmuxxanse,ALlah
tAala [rxad frmate hE.,
bkra :
bkra :
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mere be3o mere bad iks kI [badt kroge?[sse valId ke gm ka A.daja
lgaya ja skta hE ik ]ske idl kI AaqrI caht AaEr tmNna ik merI AaElad dIn
pr ho ja0|to [n dono. Aayto.se A.daj hota hE ik ma>-bap Agr nek ho to ]
nko AaElad kI iktnI ifkr hotI hE|
bCco. kI hEisyt 0k molten metal ke jEsI hE|[se ijs sa.ce me. Aap
Dal de. ye vhI xkl [qityar kr le.ge|0k bar ye !l gye to ifr dobara iksI kam
ke nhI|bcpn kI bate. pcpn me. wI nhI inkltI [sil0 ye bcpn kI ]mr bCco. ke
il0 bDI kImtI ]mr hotI hE|ye ijMmedarI ma>-bap kI hotI hE,]Stad kI wI
hotI hE ik bCco. kI trbIyt AC7I kI ja0|
[sil0 AmerIka me. iksI wI Klas me. pCcIs se Jyada bCce nhI rqe jate|
Maximum mjbUrI me. tIs hote hE. AaEr tIs ke ]pr bn lga dete hE.|ik [s
trh ]Stad bCco. pr [NfradI tvJjoh nhI de skta AaEr jo ]nko Skalrixp lene
vale bCce hote hE.,Presidential Award lene vale bCce hote hE. vo 0k
Klas me. bIs hote hE.|[sse A.daja lga{ye ik bCce ka ]Stad ke sa4
Interaction ye iktnI AhmIyt rqta hE|bCce ko sIfR ALfaj nhI p!ane hote
Agr ALfaj p!a de.ge to vo ]skI RAM hogI,bCca Skul se h3a AaEr vo RAM
qTm,AaEr Agr Aap bCce ko talIm ke sa4 trbIyt wI de rhe ho.ge to ye
bCce kI ROM bn g{,ye Built in Memory hE,sarI ij.dgI ]ske sa4 rhegI|vo
bCca khI. wI cla ja0ga,vo bCca dIndar rhega|
tahm tIn bate. [s AajIj ne ApnI ij.dgI me. bhut Ahm payI.,bCco. ke
trbIyt ke mamle me.|[s pE.tIs calIs sala ye jo tjubaR hE bCco. ka bCcIyo.
ka AaEr bhut sare mdarIso. ka AaEr bhut sare muLko. me.|tIn bate. vo
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[s sare tjubeR ka incoD hE.|yU> kha ja skta hE ik Agr [s pure tjubeR ko
0k b.da Summarise krna cahe to vo tIn bbto. me. kr skta hE|ye bate.
ma> ke il0 wI fayde m.d AaEr bap ke il0 wI fayde m.d hE.|Agr ma>-bap
[n tIn bato. ka qyal rqe to bcca 0esI mjbUt buinyado. pr qDa hota hE ik
dIn se h3 hI nhI skta|yU> to khne ko Aap djRno. bate. kr ske.ge|[s bat
ka qyal rqo,[ska wI rqo,[s ka wI rqo|iktabo. pr iktabe. ilqI huvI hE.
AaElad kI trbIyt ke bare me.,mgr [se Thumb Rule khte hE.|vo Agr Apne
jhn me. bE# ja0 ik hmne bCce kI ikn bato. ko mjbUt krna hE|]n pr bCco.
ko ko{ Compromise nhI|muhBbt ApnI jgh,Pyar ApnI jgh,0exo Aaram
ApnI jgh,naj nqre ApnI jgh,[n tIn bato. se bCce se ko{ Compromise nhI
krnI hE|
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deqa,zu# juban se inkl jata|ye Automatically inklega|jb 4oDIsI ko{ gltI
huvI,suStI huvI,kotahI huvI,xrim.dgI bdaRxt krnI pDegI,]Stad Da.3 Dp3
krega|Ab 0ese maEke pr ]sko qud b qud bhane,log khte hE.,hota sI2a
sI2a zu# hE|yad rqna zu# ijtna tejI se wage sc ]s ko jakr pkD leta hE|sc
ke faydo. me. se 0k fayda ye hE ik b.de ko ye nhI yad rqna pDta ik mE.
ne Kya kha 4a?sc sc hE|
Aap ko njr Aa0ga ik sc bolne me. nuKsan hE,mgr 0esa kwI nhI
hoga|ALlah tAala sCco. se muhBbt krte hE.|vo kwI sCce [.san ko duinya
ke A.dr =sva nhI hone dete|
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Aap ne saibt kridya ik muslman hr hal me. sCca hota hE|mE. Aap ke
Aml se [tna mutaiSsr huva ik klma p! kr muslman hone ka 0elan krta
hu>|
c.d lMhe phle ijnke idl gmjda 4e ik Kya bnega,sc jIt gya|vo [slam ka
ispahI bna|[tna smzdar b.da 4a,iktabo. me. ilqa hE ik ]mr [Bne qTtab
]sse ]mure iqlaft me.yanI iqlaft ke kamo. me. mxvre ilya krte
4e|
4oDI dur Aage gye to 0k AaErt kI njr pDI ik 0k 7o3I sI bCcI kI 7o3I
sI ].glI me. 0k 7o3I A.gu#I 4I|to ]sne hjrt se pu7a,hjrt Aap ne kha 4a hm
sara jevr tuMhe de dete hE. AaEr [s bCcI kI 7o3I sI ].glI me. ye 7o3I sI
A.gu#I hE|hjrt ne frmaya ha>.,roko,gaDI =kva{,bCcI kI A.gu#I ]
trva{ AaEr hjrt Dakuvo. ke pI7e cle|Dakuvo. ne deqa ik hjrt Dakuvo. ke
pI7e Aarhe hE.,khne lga ko{ bat nhI|hm Jyada hE.,hm inp3 le.ge|
Dakuvo. ne kha,kEse Aa0? w{ maf kr dena,muzse gltI huvI|0k bCcI
kI ].glI me. 7o3I sI A.gu#I 4I|]s vKt njr hI nhI AayI,mera kaEl 4a ik hm sb
de de.ge to ye wI Aap log le lIjI0|hjrt kI bat ka 0esa Asr huva sb
Dakuvo. ne taEba kI AaEr hjrt ke ha4 pr bEt ho gye|
zu# ijtna tej wage sc hmexa ]se pkD ilya krta hE|mere doSto sc ko
Aajma kr deqo|ye sb salIkIn ke il0 wI nsIht hE|ApnI ij.dgI me. jra sc ko
Aajma kr deqe|[tnI mje kI ij.dgI ho ja0gI ik Aapko [s duinya me. ALlah
rBbul [Jjt kI jNnt ka jEse sukUn imlta hE vEse Aapko sukUn imlega|yad
rqna jo [.san hmexa sc bolta hE ALlah rBbul [Jjt ]ske ]#e ha4o. ko kwI
rd nhI ikya krte|ijs juban se kwI zu# nhI inklta ]skI inklI huvI fryade. mE.
kEse rd krdu>?sc bolne pr mehnt|
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[sil0 iktabo. me. ilqa hE pIrane pIr xeq ABdul kadIr jIlanI rh jb 6rse
clne lge tb ]nke ma> ne Kya nsIht kI 4I?be3a hmexa sc bolna|0khI bat
khI 4I|0k bat ne bCce ko vo mukam idlvaya ik AaEilya ke grdno. pr ]nka
pEr rqa gya|[sko ij.dgI me. Aajma{ye|Ahd krlIjI0|ik Aaj ke bad zu# nhI
bolna Wrong statement nhI denI|xrim.dgI hogI to yhI. pr hogI|do imn3
kI bat hE,maijrt krle.ge,mafI ma.g le.ge|tSlIm kr le.ge|nak hIr ka msla
hE na? mgr sc kI brkte. Aap [tnI deqe.ge hEran ho ja0.ge|to bCce ko
bta0. [sse ko{ Compromise nhI|hm zu# nhI bdaRxt kr skte|Ap hjaro.
=p0 kI cIj jaya krde.ge bdaRxt kre.ge|bDI se bDI ko{ AaEr gltI kr
bE#e.ge bdaRxt krle.ge,zu# nhI bdaRxt kr skte|phlI bat|
zu# ijtna tej daEDe,sc hmexa ]se pkD ilya krta hE|bs ye bat idlme.
ib#a iljI0|[tnI brkte. sc kI hE. ik hm [ska ALfaj me. 0hata nhI kr skte|
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AaEr dusrI Aadt bCce ke A.dr jo pEda krnI caih0 vo nmaj ka
0htmam hE|bCce to nmaj p!te hI hE.|bcpn se ]sko nmaj ka 0htmam
isqana hE|tsLlIse =ju krna hE|pakIjgI ka qyal rqna hE|vKt pr nmaj p!tI
hE,tkbIr-0-]la ke sa4 Agr vo be3a hE|Ajan kI Aavaj sune,be3I ne phle
nmaj p!nI hE,kam bad me. deqe ja0.ge|to nmaj ko 0htmam ke sa4 p!
na|[ske A.dr 0k fayda to ye hE ik ]s bCce ke A.dr pakIjgI AajatI hE|iKyo.
kI be nmajI bCca to [St.je ka wI qyal nhI krega|AaEr Agr nmaj p!ega to
kpDo. kI pakIjgI ka qyal rqega|to pakIjgI wI AagyI AaEr vKt kI pab.dI wI
AagyI|Agr bCca bajmat tkbIr-0-]la se nmaj p!ega to vo ]ska pab.d
rhega|ota hoga AMmI wI no3 kr rhI hE.,ABbu wI pu7e.ge AaEr zu# bol
nhI skta|[sil0 momIn sb ku7 ho skta hE mgr zu#a nhI ho skta|to dusrI
bat nmaj ke 0htmam pr mehnt kIjI0|[sse rajI n ho. ik nmaj p!ta hE,blik
jra fkR smzne kI koixx frmaye.|[sse qux n hojaye. ik bCcI nmaj p!tI
hE,bCca nmaj p!ta hE,nhI,nmaj ka 0htmam|[sil0 bCce ko deqe. ik jLdI
jLdI nmaj p! rha hE to kho nhI|[sse kaMp/oma{j nhI hE|bcpn se [s Aml
kI AhmIyt ]ske idl me. ib#aye.|[s me. ko{ 0kI-fekI nhI cle.gI|muze nmaj
pursukun ho kr p!nI hE|tsLlI se p!nI hE|Agr Aap nmaj ka 0htmam ]sko
isqaye.ge to qud b qud ALlah tAala ke sa4 0k kurb ka irxta AaEr taALluk
hona xu= hoga|bCce ko bta{ye ik w{ Aapne nmaj to p!I,mgr iks kEifyt
ke sa4 p!I?to jb bcpn se hI vo sunega ik ABbu wI khte 4e,iks kEifyt ke
sa4 p!I,to ]sko pta clega ik ye wI ij.dgI ka ko{ mKsd hE|Aaj to [s mKsd
ko hm wulte hI cle ja rhe hE. ik hm ne wI ANta bulLlaha
ANnka tra f{Llm tkuntrahu f{Llm yra cuna.ce 6r me.
AaErte. nmaj p!letI hE.|[s bat se nek log qux hojate hE.|kwI hmne ]sse
ye wI pu7a hE ik iks kEifyt ke sa4 p!tI hE.|
muLk :
0k nmaj Agr 0esI p!lI do rkat,mn sLla rkatEn hdIse pak me.
hE ijs b.de ne do rkat [s trh se p!I ik ]s ke nFs me ko{ bahr ke duinya ka
vsvsa nhI Aaya,guifra lhu ma tkTtAa imn jMbI,do rkat pr
ALlah pI7le sb gunaho. ko maf kr dete hE.|to [s pr nmaj ke 0htmam pr
kaNse3 kIjI0|bCce ko =ju krte vKt deiqye shI kr wI rha hE ya nhI,]skI
pakIjgI ke bare me. ]sse pu7Iye w{ Aap kEse thart krte ho Apne ijSm kI|
Aap hEran ho ja0.ge bDI bDI ]mr ke bCce vo bs nam bnate hE. jI bs
nmaj p! rhe hE.|[s kotahI kI vjh se jo nmaj kI brkte. b.de ko imlnI hotI
hE. vo ]s bCce ko iml nhI rhI hotI|to nmaj ka 0htmam [s pr jor
dIjI0|]Stad Klas me. wI bCco. ko ye smza0.,]nko hdIs suna0.,]nko bta0.
nmaj isfR jahIrdarI hI nhI krnI,nmaj ko jma kr p!na hE|pursukUn ho kr p!
na hE|duinya ke qyalat se qalI ho kr p!na hE|qud wI mehnt kre. AaEr
Apne bCco. ka wI jhn bna0.|yhI to mehnt ka mEdan hE. momIn ke il0|
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ijtna Aap bCce ko nmaj kI mehnt pr ]ware.ge,Excite kre.ge,bta0.ge ]
tna hI ]skI ij.dgI me. ALlah tAala kI trfse brkte. ho.gI|AhadIs me. ijtne
fayde nmaj ke bta0 gye ko{ AaEr Aml ke [tne nhI btaye g0|ALlah tAala
kam ke ijMmedar hote hE.|ALlah tAala ]sko [Jjt Ata krte hE.|irJk me. brkt
dete hE.,[tne fayde ik ko[ hd nhI|
| AC7I nmaj p!ne pr bCceko [nam
de.-
bCce ko jb Aap deqe. ik AC7I nmaj p ! rha hE to ]sko [nam idya kre.|
bIvI ko kwI musLle pr bE#a deqe. to wulese tarIf ikya kre.|iKyo. ik
hmare naEjvan bIvIyo. kI tarIf nhI krte|nek bIvI hogI,pak damn
hE,vfadar hE,nekukar hE,[nkI juban gu.g hotI|deqo w{ ye jo hota hE n
Encouragement ye iftrt hE b.de kI|
Aap A.daja lga0. ik m7lI ko jb sIqaya jata hE|]sko khte hE. ik tum
7la.g lgavo,to m7lI 7la.g lgatI hEto ]ske mu.h me. ifr 7o3I m7lI Dalte
hE.|0k jgh hme. m7lIyo. ka krtb deqne ka maEka imla to enr ne ifr bad
me. Questions ke Answer idye|to ifr hm ne ye Question pu7a ik
w{ tumne ye bal l3kaya huva 4a fu3 ].ca AaEr m7lI ko tumne Aavaj
dI,vo ]s kone pr AayI AaEr iblkul ]ske ince Aakr [s trh inklI ik fu3 ]pr
jakr ]sne bal ko kIk lgayI|ya ALlah [s janvr ko kEse en ikya? hm to
b.do. ko AaEr [.sano. ko en nhI krpate|
Ab bta0. jan vro. ko [NseN3IVh dekr vo 0ese kam krva lete hE|Kya
hm [.san ke bCce se nhI krva skte? bCca wI [NseN3IVh cahta hE|AaErt
wI [NseN3IVh cahtI hE|Aap jayj kam me. ]skI tarIfe. kIjI0|kwI Aap 6r
Aaye ]sko musLle pr itlavt krte deqa tSbIh p!te deqa aap tarIf kIjI0 idl
qol kr tarIf kIjI0|tu musLle pr bE#I to muze bhut AC7I lgtI hE|Aaj to deq
kr mera idl qux ho gya|Aaj mE. bhu qux hu> Aap ko [s trh deqkr,Aap
deiqye,Aa3omi3klI Aap kI bIvI musLle ke ]pr bE#ne kI pab.d hotI clI
ja0gI|to yhI hal bCce ka,ik jb Aap bCce ko deqe AC7a vju ikya,pak saf
rheta hE,sc bolta hE ]sko [NseN3IVh idya kre.,[nam idya kre.|[nam kI
imKdar nhI hotI|[nam la lFj hI ALlah ka [nam hE ik ye bolna mE. [nam
du.ga iftrt hE|[sI se quxI ho jatI hE|to phlI bat sc bolne kI tlkIn AaEr
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dusrI bat nmaj ka 0htmam AaEr ]nko bta0. ik [sme. ko{ Compromise
nhI hE|[sme. hm AapkI ko{ kmjorI nhI bdaRxt kr skte|
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be3a [2r AaAo.,tb car pa{ pr bE#te 4e|vrna kdmo. me bE#te 4e|hmare
bCce 7o3e 4e,vo deqte 4e ik ABbu [s trh jakr Apne AMmI ke kdmo. me
bE#te hE.,hme ]nko ku7 khna hI nhI pDa|]Nhone ij.dgI ke [s Aamal se
[n Aqlak ko qud isqa|ye iqdmt isqanI pDtI hE AOr ifr [s iqdmtse [n
valIdEn kI Kya duAa0. imlI. hm ]nko Alfaj me byan hI nhI kr skte|ma>-
bap bu!e wI ho. ]nke juban se inkle ku7 Alfaj 0ese hote hE. ik ALlah ke
yha. kbul ho jate hE.|to iqdmt ka jjba ye tIsrI isft hE|]nko bE# kr vakIyat
suna0. ik iqdmt [s trh kI jatI hE|[s trh fla. ne iqdmt kI to [s trh huva,taik
bCco. ke A.dr 0k xOk pEda ho|
furkan:
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be3iyo. ke
il0 Aadab
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| Arb ke muxrIkIn logo. ka be3Iyo.
ko naps.d krna-
nbI jb [s duinya me txrIf la0 to Arb ke muxrIkIn Apne
6ro. me. be3I ka pEda hona naps.d krte 4e|[s mamle me. [s hd tk jalIm
4e ik ApnI masum be3Iyo. ko ij.da dfn kr idya krte 4e|vo kib/Stan Aaj wI
maEjud hE ik jha> be3Iyo. ko dfn kr idya jata 4a AaEr ye ko[ 0k do
vaikyat nhI blik Aam Aadt 4I|
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bIvI ko kha bCcI ko sa4 wej do mE. khI. ja rha hu>|]s ne wej idya|mE. ]s
7o3I bCcI ko le kr ivrane me. phu>ca|mE ne g!a qoda|g!a qodne ke
drmIyan mere kpDo. ke ]pr imI pDI to vo 7o3I bCcI mere pas AayI
AaEr khne lgI ABbu Aap ke kpDe mEle ho rhe hE.,[n pr imI pD rhI hE|
muze ]s kI masumana bato. pr trs n Aaya|jb g!a qod ilya to mE. ne ]s
bCcI ko pI7e 2Kka de idya,bCcI hEran rh gyI,mE. ne ]s ke ]pr imI
Dalna xu= kr dI|vo muze khne lgI,ABbu mere sr pr imI pD rhI hE|mere
Aa>qo. pr imI pD rhI hE|mgr mere ]pr 0esI hEvanIyt svar 4I,xEtanIyt
svar 4I ik mE. ]ske ]pr imI Dalta rha,Dalta rha|vo bCcI becarI frIyade.
krtI rhI,rotI rhI,muze jra ]ske ]pr trs n Aaya|mE ne [tnI imI DalI ik
iblAaiqr ]skI Aavaj Aana b.d ho gyI|]s imI ke ince ]sko dfn kr ke mE.
vaps Aagya|
0e ALlah ke nbI ]s vKt hmarI ij.dgI 0esI 4I|Ab mE. [slam laya hu>
AaEr Aapne be3I kI [Jjt AaEr fjIlt qolI hE to ye ijsko mE. ne ]#aya ye
merI wtIjI hE|ye wI muze [tnI PyarI lg rhI hE ik mE. [se kwI gle lgata
hu>,kwI bose deta hu>,muze [s 7o3I bCcI se [tna Pyar hE,lekIn jb mE.
yad krta hu> ik mE. ne ApnI hkIkI be3I ke sa4 Kya mamla ikya to idl
Drta hE|[sil0 ik ALlah ne frma idya
tkvIr : ,
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bIvI [spr juLm ke phaD toDe jate 4e|nbI ne AaErt ko ]s juLm ke
muAaxre se njat idlayI AaEr ]sko [Jjt kI ij.dgI Ata krdI|
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to nbI ne jo [xaRd frmaya ik be3Iya> bDI muhBbt valI
AaEr qEr v brkt valI hotI hE.|to vak{ ye saE fIsd sCcI pKkI bat hE|Ab ye
ALlah tAala kI den hotI hE,
xura :
ijnke yha> AaElad nhI hotI,to AaElad kI kdr ]nse pu7Iye|idn me. wI
AaErte. duAaye. ma.gtI hE.,rat me. wI duAaye. ma.gtI hE.,itlavt ke bad
wI duAaye. ma.gtI hE.,nmaj ke bad wI duAaye. ma.gtI hE.|trs rhI hotI
hE. ik ]nkI god hrI ho jaye|AaEr ALlah tAala ]nko AaElad Ata frmade|to
AaElad 0esI neAmt hE,ALlah ke pEg.br wI [ske il0 duAaye. ma.gte rhe
AaEr jb AaEld huvI to ALlah ke pEg.bro. ne ALlah ka xuKr Ada ikya|
[brahIm :
sb tarIfe. ALlah hI ke il0 hE. ijsne muze bu!ape me. ye AaElad kI neAmt
Ata frmayI|to malum huva ik AaElad ke hone pr ALlah ka xuKr Ada krna
cahIye|be3I ho ya be3a ho,ALlah tAala kI trfse [nam hE,neAmt hE,[s
neAmt ko neAmt smz kr ]skI kdr krnI cahI0|
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| be3I ko kurAan kI talIm dena-
jb 6r me. bCcI pEda ho to ma>-bap ko ]s kI ifKr hotI hE ik [skI talIm
AaEr trbIyt ka Kya kre.?bcpn se hI bCce ko nek bate. isqanI ye ma> kI
ijMmedarI hotI hE|[nxaALlah jb ma> ka ]nvan Aa0ga to ifr bCce kI trbIyt
ke bare me. ku7 mjId bate. ]s vKt khI ja0.gI|bat Aaj ka ]nvan yhI hE ik
Agr 6r me. be3I ho to ]s be3I ko xu=se hI Adb isqana caih0,AaEr Agr ]
sko AaqIr ke do- tIn pare kurAan pak ke yad krva idye ja0. takI kwI ]sne
thJjud kI nmaj p!nI ho to itlavt kr ske,fjr kI nmaj me. l.bI kIrat krna cahe
to krske|iksI idn Agr rat ka ikyam krna cahe to vo itlavt kr ske|to km se
km do-!a{ pare jo 7o3I-7o3I surto. vale hE.,vo to hr bCcI ko yad krvanI
cahI0|[s ke Alava jo ma=f surte. hE,jEse sur-0-yasIn hE,sur-0-muLk
hE,sur-0-duqan hE,[s trh kI ko{ AaEr surte. jo hdIs me. AatI hE.,sur-0-
vakIya hE,ye surte. ma=f surte. wI yad krva denI caih0|to yu> smzIye
ik hr bCcI ko km se km do tIn pare yed krva dene caih0|ha. Agr vo ihFj
ka xOk rqtI hE AOr bDI hI hoxIyar hE to 0ese bCco. ko ifr kurAan mjId
ihFj krva dena caih0|hr bCcI ka kurAan mjId ihFj krna ko{ mksud nhI|
[sil0 ik ]Nhone travIh kI nmaj to p!anI nhI hotI AOr vEse wI mhIne me
ku7 idn 0ese hote hE. ik kurAan mjId vo p! nhI sktI|[sil0 bCcIyo. ka ihFj
Aam tOrpr bhut kCca hota hE AOr ifr bCco. ke A.dr ]lz kr ihFj ko s.walna
muxikl bn jata hE|[sil0 hr bCcI haifja bnne ka xOk n rqe|tIn pare tk Agr
vo yad kr de to ifr ye bhut hE|sarI ij.dgI ]NhI ko p!tI rhe.,nmajo. me
AOr ]sI ke ihFj ka svab pa0.|ha. Agr vo bhut Jyada jhIn hE to ifr vo bCcI
[sse Jyada wI haifja bn ja0 to ye bDI sAadt kI bat hE|
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sat muxikl jgh jo [s AajIj ko kurAan pak me mhsus hotI 4I. mubailge
valI,muxabhat valI,0esI Aayat ]nse sunI.|AlhmduiLlah pa.co. jghse bCcI
ne i#k kurAan pak suna idya|[tnI quxI huvI ik ALlahne [s ]Mmt ko 0esI
be3Iya. Ata kI hE. ijnko [tnI jhant nsIb hE|kurAan pak ke sa4 [tnI
muhBbt nsIb hE ik ]s bCcI ne Aaj ke dOr me sat mhIne ke A.dr pura
kurAan pak ihFj kr ilya|to [s ]Mmt me jha. bCce kurAan pak ke haifj bne
bCcIya. wI pI7e n rhI.|blik hmare tjubRe me Aaya hE ik jo bCcIya. haifja
bnne kI inYyt kr letI hE. to jLd haifja bn jatI hE.|[sil0 ik lDkIyo. me
kansnenexn kI Aadt Jyada hotI hE,prexan qyalt [nko km hote hE.,[nke
jhn insbtn Jyada pak saf hote hE. c.uik ye kansne3 kr letI hE [sil0
haifja jLdI bn jatI hE.|jb ik haifj bCce Apne jhnI qyalat me bDI g.dgI kI
vjhse kwI der lga bE#te hE.|tahm kyamt ke idn log qDe ho.ge ik kurAan
pak ke muhaifj kOn 4e ? to mdo.R ko qDa hone kI sAadt imlegI,vhI. [s ]
Mmt kI be3Iyo. ko wI ]s fOj me xaiml hone kI sAadt nsIb hogI ijNhone
Apne sIno. me kurAan pak ko ihFj ikya,mhefuj ikya AOr kyamt ke idn vo
muhaifjan bn kr ALlah ke hujur pex kI ja0.gI|to bherhal [ska trIka yhI hE
ik hr bCcI ko do car pare yad krva dene caih0|taik hr bCcI ko kurAan
pak ka ku7 n ku7 ihSsa yad ho|kwI vo ]skI itlavt kre 6r ke kam kaj ke
dOran,kwI itlavt kre Akele me,nmajo. me AaqrI ke do tIn pare to hr bCcI
ko yad hone caih0|jb [tne yad kr le to [ske bad ]skI p!anevalI AOr ]ske
ma>-bap Aaps me mxvra kre. AOr bCcI ke kam ko deqe.,]ske xOk ko
deq.e,Agr bCcI me xOk wI hE,mhent wI hE Ab ]s bCcI ko ihFj ke il0
isleK3 kr dena caih0|vrna do tIn pare hI kafI hote hE.|
kmr :
ykInn hmne kurAan mjId ko smzne ke il0 Aasan kr idya,hE ko{ tum me
se smznevala ? hr bCce ke idl kI caht hotI hE ik mE km se km kurAane
pak ka tjumaR sIqu.,mere rbne muze Kya pEgam weja ? [tna to muze
pta hona caih0|Aaj hme Agr ko{ irxtedar qt wejte hE. 0esI juban me jo
hm nhI jante to hmne cEn nhI hota,[timnan nhI hota jb tk iksI jannevale
AadmIse iml n lo Aor ]sse vo qt n p!va le. AOr hme ]ske mksd ka pta n
cl ja0 hme [timnan nhI hota|Agr hme ArbI juban nhI AatI to bCcI ko
caih0 ik iksI p!anevalI ke pas bE#e,]sse ArbI sIqe|[tnI to sIq le. ik
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kurAane pak ka tjuRma AasanI se smz ske.|bherhal bCcI ke il0 dInI
talIm wI j=rI AOr duinyavI talIm wI j=rI hE|
tahm dono. talIme. bCcI ke pas ho.gI,to ye bCcI 6rkI AC7I bIvI bn
skegI AaEr 6r kI 0k AC7I ma> wI bnegI|[sil0 talIm ke lfj ke sa4 jevr ka lfj
lgaya gya|jevre talIm se AaraSta to malum huva bCcI jEse sone ka jevr
phn kr qubsurt lgtI hE,[sI trh [Lm ka jevr phn kr hsIn tr lgtI hE|sone ka
jevr phn kr ]se ijSmanI qubsurtI nsIb huvI,AaEr [Lm ka jevr phn kr [se
=hanI qubsurtI nsIb huvI|jevr sone ka phna,[sko jo hE jahIr kI qubsurtI
imlI,surt kI qubsurtI imlI lekIn jb [sne [Lm ka jevr phna,[sko sIrt kI
qubsurtI imlI AaEr sIrt kI qubsurtI Jyada behtr huva krtI hE|
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| [Lm ka tlb krna hr muslman
mdR AaEr AaErt ke ]pr lajIm hE-
nbI ne [rxad frma idya,tlbul [LmI frIjtun Ala kuLlI
musilmI.v v musilmh
[Lm ka tlb krna hr muslman mdR AaEr AaErt ke ]pr lajIm hE|Ab [sme.
jha> mdo.R ka tjikra Aaya vha> pr AaErto. ka tjikra wI Aaya to dIne
[slam ne jha> mdo.R ko [Lm hasIl krne kI trgIb dI vha> AaErto. ko wI
[Lm hasIl krne kI trgIb dI|[sil0 hm deqte hE. shabIyat ke jmane me.
talIm pane ka xaEk bhut Jyada 4a|
me. hotI hE.|hmare il0 wI ko{ vKt inkal lIjI0 AaEr hme. talIm Ata kIjI0|
imMma v [Llm kumuLlah,]s [Lm me se jo ALlahne Aapko Ata
ikya|cuna.ce nbI ne bu2 ka idn ty kr idya 4a taik ]s idn AaErte.
0k jgh jma ho jatI. AaEr nbI qud wI Aaya krte 4e|
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AaEr ikrdar Kya hota hE ?n vo [Jjt kI ihfajt kr skI n vo Apne xqsIyt ko
behtr bna skI|zu#,gIbt AaEr lDa{ zgDa sb burI bate. ]nke A.dr kamIl
taEr pr Aa gyI|[sil0 bCcIyo. ko dIn kI ya dunya kI talIm se mh=m krna
ye phle djRe kI nalaykI hotI hE|[s jevre [Lm se [s bCcI ko AaraSta krna
caih0|jha> ye mhsus kre. ik fla> mahol se Apne bCcI ko nuKsan hoga
to ]s se to bcana ma>-bap kI ijMmedarI hotI hE|tahm talIm idlvana
bhut hI j=rI hE|
deqa ik nbI Akele hE.,to ]Nho.ne 6era Dal ilya AaEr phle to ]
Nho.ne ku7 bura wla khna xu= kr idya|ifr mKka ke ]n kmIno. me. se 0k
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kmIne ne nbI ke igreban mubark ko pkD ilya|dusre wI krIb
Aag0|iksI ne kpDa qI.ca,iksIne ku7 qI.ca,yha> tk ik Amama mubark wI
sr se ]tr gya,AaEr bal mubark ibqr g0|irvayt me. hE ik ]n kmIno. me. se
0k kmIne ne nbI ke cehre Anvr pr 4uk idya|]sko deq kr dusro.
ne wI 4uka|0k ne imI le kr nbI ke cehre Anvr pr DalI|yha> tk
ik cehre pr ikcD ke jEsa jo hE lg gyI|ifr ]Nho.ne kha,AC7a Agr Aaj ke bad
tumne hmare mabudo. ko bura kha to hm [s se wI Jyada bura hxr
kr.ege|ye kh kr vo cle g0|iksI ne sEYydna jEnb jo nbI
kI bDI be3I 4I,]nko btla idya ik Aapke valIde igramI ke sa4 ye mamla
huva to vo faErn Pyale me. panI wr kr layI.|hdIse pak ka mfhum hE ik jb
]Nho.ne nbI ko [s halt me. deqa to Pyala idya ik Aap Apna
cehra mubark 2o iljI0|be3I kI Aaqo. me. Aa>su Aag0|nbI ne
frmaya,merI be3I ro nhI|tra valId jo pEgam le kr Aaya hE,0k vKt
Aa0ga ik hr kCce AaEr pKke mkan me. phu.c kr rhega|to deqIye valId
ke ]p rye mamla bna,be3I panI la rhI hE AaEr Apne valId kI gmgusarI kr
rhI hE|to 6r ke A.dr be3I jb be3I kI hEsIyt se ho ]s ko ma>-bap ke duq
ba3ne hote hE.,]sko 6rdarI ke kamkaj sIqane hote hE.,taik vo kl ko ApnI
ijMmedarIyo. ko behtr trIke se A.jam de ske|
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duAaye. lene ka Kya mtlb ik [.san [tna nek bne,[tna hya vala bne,[tna
AC7a bne,[tna iqdmt gujar bne ik be[qityar ]s ko deq kr ]s ke ma>-bap
ke idl se duAaye. inkl rhI ho.,pIr AaEr ]stad ke idl se duAaye. inkl rhI
ho.,to Allah tAala hme. duAaye. lene valo. me. se bna0|duAa krvana wI
AC7I bat hE, mgr lena ]s se Jyada AC7I bat hE|
bher hal ijs ]mr me. bCcI ma>-bap ke 6r hotI hE,ye 6r ke kam kaj
ko Agr n smze,blkI ApnI [Jjt smze AaEr ApnI jo hE ijMmedarI smze blkI
kam kaj jo hE vo phle vKto. me. sarI bCcIya. hI s.wala krtI 4I|blkIijn 6ro.
me. bCce nhI hote 4e to ]s vKt to bahr ke kam wI bCcIya. hI kr AatI 4I|
| musa ka vakIya-
kss :
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pr c3an rqdI,AaEr vaps cle g0|]s vKt brtno. me jo ku7 bca kuca panI 4a,
[n bCcIyo. ne Apne janvro. ko pIlana xu= kr idya|kurAan mjId me hE ik
musa ne jb ye mamla deqa,
kss :
kss :
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[sil0 vo bCcI xmR v hya ka putla bn kr AayI AaEr ]sne Aakr ye bat khI
AaEr [s trh musa ko Aage jo hE xae0b ke 6r me jane
ka maEka nsIb huva|ye 0k kurAan mjId ka vakIya bCcIyo. ke bareme
hme ih.3 de rha hE to bCcIyo. ko caih0 ik 6r ke kam kaj me ko{ izzk
mehsus n kre.,[se ko{ Apne se km djRe kI bat n smze.,ye sAadt hE,nek
bIvIyo. Ke sa4 muxabIht hE ik vo [s k.vare pn me Apne ma>-bap ke 6r
ko sme3tI 4I|ApnI ijMmedarI letI 4I AaEr ma>-bap kI duAaye. letI 4I|
deqI0 6r ke kam kaj ke sa4 vKt kI ihfajt krna,xmR v hya ke sa4 vKt
gujare to Allah tAala ko iktna AC7a lga ik Allah tAala ne ]s bCcI ka tjkIra
kurAan pak me frma idya|
Aaj wI hr daEr AaEr jmane me jo jvan bCcI [n bCcIyo. kI trh xmR v
hya kI ij.dgI gujaregI,prvridgar ne jEse ]nko kurAan pak me tjkIra kr ke
quxI ka [jhar ikya,Allah tAala [s xmR v hya kI ij.dgI gujarne valI bCcI ko
kyamt ke idn mgifrt frma kr ApnI quxI ka [jhar frma de.ge|ye bDI
quxnsIb bCcIya. hotI hE. jo pakdamnI kI ij.dgI gujare. AaEr Apne Aapko
kam kaj me. ms=f rqe.|[sil0 nbI ke 0k hdIs se wI pta clta hE
behtrIn AaErt vhI hE ijske ha4 kam kaj me ms=f ho. AaEr ijska idl Allah
tAala kI yad me ms=f ho|to bCcIyo. ko caih0 ik Apne ha4 ko kam kaj
me ms=f rqe.|
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gyI|mE wI wa{ ka cehra deqtI rhI,ye bkrIya. wI mere wa{ ka cehra deqtI
rhI|muze bkrIyo. ke pI7e wagne kI j=rt hI pex nhI AayI|[sil0 wa{ ko sa4
wejI0|takI mere il0 bkrIya. crana Aasan ho|Allah tAala ne Apne mhbub
ko vo huSno jmal Ata ikya 4a,bhen wI wa{ ka cehra bE#I deqtI 4I AaEr
bkrIya. wI Apne Pyare mhbub ka cehra bE# kr deqtI 4I|to [s se wI pta
cla ik ]s vKt wI jvan bCcIya. 6r ke kam kaj ko Aar nhI smztI 4I|bahr ke wI
Agr ]n ko kam sme3ne pDte to pdRe me ja kr bahr ke kam wI sme3a
krtI 4I|
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6r ke bIvI bCce wI [man late hE.|sara 6rana [man vala bn jata hE|nbI
jb kwI gmjda hote hE. to sYydna Abubkr ke 6r Aa jate
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dena| Aap ne gulam juhEl se kha ik deqo tum bkrIya. crana AaEr
bkrIya. crane ke bhane tum hmare pas Aa kr hme du2 pIla jana AaEr
ApnI bIvI ko kha ik Aap 6r me hmare il0 qana bna dena AaEr ApnI be3I
sYydna Asma se kha be3I tum AwI 7o3I ho,[tnI bDI nhI
huvI,]#tI jvanI hE mgr 7o3I ]mr hE,[sil0 tum qana hme phu.ca
dena,tum pr ko{ xk wI nhI krega ik ye bCcI kha. ja rhI hE|Ab 6r ke sare
logo. ko nbI ik qIdmt pr ty kr ke cl pDe|ye kEsa quxnsIb 6rana
hE ik imya. wI qIdmt kr rha hE,bIvI wI qIdmt kr rhI hE,be3a wI kr rha
hE,be3Iya. wI kr rhI hE.,gulam wI kr rha hE,subhanLlah,ye kaynat ka
Anoqa 6rana prvridgar ko iktna ps.d Aaya ik 6r ke hr hr fdR ko qIdmt ke
il0 kbul kr ilya|
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| sYyda Asma kI Aklm.dI
ka vakIya-
AaEr ]nka ye hal 4a vo Apne ABbu pr kurban jatI 4I|Apne ABbu kI duq
ddR kI sa4I bn jatI 4I|iktne 0ese vakIyat hE. jo bta0 ja skte hE. ]n me se
0k vakIya xayd Aap phle wI sun cuke hE. ik Aap Apne 6r ke A.dr maEjud
hE.|6r me Aapne qana bnaya,hjrt AlI ne qana qailya,hsnEn
krImEn ne wI qana qa ilya,0k ro3I Aap ke ihSse me AayI,jb Aap ApnI
ro3I qane lgI to AwI Aa2I ro3I hI qayI 4I ik idl me qyal Aaya,fatIma qud
to ro3I qa rhI ho,Kya pta tuMhare ABbu ko qana imla ya nhI imla|jEse hI
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idl me ye qyal Aaya to ]Nho.ne ]sI vKt ]s Aa2I ro3I ko ApnI cadr ke kone
me ba.2 ilya AaEr Apne ABbu ke 6r hajIr huvI|nbI ne ]nka
[stkbal ikya|ifr [Nho.ne Apne cadr ke kone ko qol kr vo Aa2I ro3I hdIya
AaEr tohfa ke taEr pr pex kr dI,ik ABba hujur mE Aap kI qIdmt me ye
hdIya AaEr tohfa pex krne ke il0 AayI hu.|ro3I pkayI 4I Aa2I qayI AapkI
yad ne idl ko tDpaya to lekr AagyI,malum nhI Aapne qana qaya ya nhI
qaya|hdIse pak me Aata hE ik nbI ne ]s ro3I ka 3ukDa Apne
mu.h me Dala AaEr ifr frmaya,fatIma,muze ksm hE ]s prvridgar kI ijske
kBje me muhMmde ArbI kI jan hE,Aaj tIsra idn gujr gya tere ABbu
ke pe3 me ro3I ka ko{ 3ukDa nhI gya|to be3Iya. to yu. ma>-bap kI
gmgusar hotI hE.|0esI be3Iya. ALlahtAala hr 6r me Ata frma0|hr ma>-
bap ko ALlahrBbul [Jjt 0esI be3Iyo. kI AaEr 0esI AaElad kI neAmt Ata
frma0|ye ALlahrBbul [Jjt kI rhmt hE. [sil0 nbI ne frmaya
be3Iya. bDI muhBbt valI AaEr qEr v brkt valI hotI hE.|to be3I ko 6r me
muhBbt valI AaEr qEr v brkt val Ibn kr rhna caih0|
mgr Aaj kI k{ bCcIya.6r ke A.dr jhrIlI bn kr rhtI hE.|bat krtI hE. to jlI
k3I|kwI ma> se zgDe kr rhI hE.,kwI wa{yo. se zgDe kr rhI hE.,kwI Apne
bap ke il0 muxkIl pEda kr rhI hE.,ye bCcIya. jra sbk sIqe.|sYydna Asma
se ye sbk sIqe.,sYydna fatIma se sIqe.,ijnko
qatune jNnt kha gya|]nkI ij.dgI me ALlahrBbul [Jjt ne Kya neAmte. rqI 4I|
bap ke sa4 to ]nko bhut hI muhBbt 4I,[ske sa4 sa4 6r ke kam kaj wI krtI
4I|hdIse pak me Aata hE kam kr kr ke ]nke ha4o. me i6e pD g0 4e|
| tsbIhate fatIma-
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frmaya,be3I mE tuMhe 0k 0esI bat n bta du.,jo gulam AaEr ba.dI lene
se Jyada behtr hE|]Nho.ne AjR ikya 0e ALlahke nbI bta idjI0|nbI
ne frmaya,jb tum nmaj p !a kro,hr nmaj ke bad bar subhanLlah,
bar AlhmduilLlah, bar ALlahuAkbr p ! lo|[s ka Ajr wI imlega AaEr [skI
vjh se ALlahtAala 4kn ko wI dur frma de.ge|Ab ye kilmat tsbIhate
fatIma ke nam se jane jate hE.|purI ]Mmt p !tI hE AaEr [s ka svab
qatune jNnt ko imlta hE|
to deqI0 ALlah rBbul [Jjt ke mhebub ne ApnI be3I ko Kya Pyara sbk
idya,6r ke kam kaj krtI 4I,]n ke kam kaj krne ko ps.d frmaya,ye nhI ik
heLp la{n de. blik 4kav3 ]tarne ka trIka bta idya|to 6ro. ke kam bCcIyo.
ke il0 [Jjt hote hE. AaEr 0k to 6r ke kam kaj me ms=f rhe. AaEr dusrI
bat ik Apne [Jjt AaEr namus kI ihfajt kre.,ye bhut hI j=rI kam,ye bCcI kI
ij.dgI ka ijhad hota hE,ALlah tAala [s ijhad me hr bCcI ko kamIyab
frmaye|
Ab 0k bar nbI msjIde nbvI me bE#e bat cIt frma rhe 4e|
bat clte clte yha> cl pDI ik sb se behtr AaErt kaEn hotI hE ? iksI ne ku7
kha AaEr iksI ne ku7 kha,AwI log Aaps me bate. kr rhe 4e,yanI
Exchange of thought ho rha 4a|hjrt AlI ko ko{ kam pDa to vo
Apne 6r Aa0 AaEr ]Nho. ne 6r Aakr btaya ik mhifl me to Aaj ye ]nvan cl
rha hE|sYydna fatIma muskurayI. AaEr frmane lgI ik mE
tuMhe n bta]. Ik sb se behtr AaErt kaEn hE ? ]Nho.ne kha bta idjI0|
frmane lgI ik behtrIn AaErt vo hE jo n qud iksI gEr mherm ko deqe AaEr
n iksI gEr mherm ko deqne ka maEka de|jo 0esI AaErt ho vo ALlah ko
bhut ps.dIda hE|Ab AlI Aate hE. AaEr nbI kI iqdmt me
ye bat suna dete hE. ik merI 6rvalI fatIma ne ye frmaya|nbI
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gujarne valI ho,ye ALlah tAala ko ps.dIda hE|[sil0 ALlah ne ]n ko jNnt kI
AaErto. ka srdar bna idya|nbI ne frmaya ik
bCce dono. xhjade #Ik ho g0 to hm tIn idn roje rqe.ge|Ab ALlah tAala
ne ]n ko ixfa Ata frma dI|[Nho. ne tIn roje kI mNnt manI 4I|Ab roje rq il0|
phle roje ko [ftarI ke vKt jo ku7 4oDa bhut pkaya 4a,drvaje ke ]pr 0k
AadmI Aaya,sa[l Aaya AaEr ]s ne dstk de kr Aavaj lgadI,mE 0k ytIm-0-
mdIna hu>|[sil0 Aaya hu> ik Aap muze ku7 qane ko de dIjI0|jo ku7 4a
sYydna fatIma ne ]#a kr ]s ytIm ke hvale kr idya|qud panI se
roja [ftar kr ilya|ifr panI se roja rqa|Agle idn ifr ku7 4oDa bhut 6r me 4a|
ifr ku7 [ftarI ke il0 tyar kr ilya|[tne me ifr drvaje pr dstk huvI,khne lga
mE imskIn hu>|bDa 6r deqkr Aaya hu>|qalI nhI ja}.ga|]Nho.ne jo ku7
pka 4a ]#a kr de idya|ifr panI se roja [ftar kr ilya|tIsre idn panI se roja
rqa|jb [ftarI ke vKt ku7 tYyar ikya,]s vKt ifr 0k AadmI Aaya,AaEr kha AsIr
hu>|bDa 6r deq kr Aaya hu>|qalI nhI ja}.ga|]s ko wI ]#a kr de idya|
tIno. idn panI se roja rqa|panI se [ftar ikya|jo ku7 pka 4a ]#a kr ALlah kI
rah me qcR kr idya|ALlah tAala ko ]nka ye Aml [tna ps.d Aaya ik
prvridgare Aalm ne [se Apne klam ka ihSsa bna idya|frmaya
dhr :
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ke lfj se iml rhI hE|subhanLlah,idl me ALlah rBbul [Jjt kI
muhBbt kEsI hogI ik prvridgare Aalm ne qud frma idya
malum huva ik fkt qana hI nhI iqlaya blkI [s qane ke pI7e,[s kurbanI ke
pI7e ALlah rBbul [Jjt kI muhBbt galIb 4I|[Nho.ne ALlah ke nam pr ma.ga
4a|jb ALlah ke nam pr ko{ ma.ge to Apne ]pr wuq v Pyas ko bdaRxt kr
iljI0 AaEr ALlah ke nam pr de idjI0|prvridgare Aalm ne [sil0 frmaya,
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[2r Aa>q se Aa>su inkla,]2r prvridgar ke yha> tsdIk ho jatI,ye
b.da hmarI muhBbt me ro rha hE,hmarI muhBbt me ]das hE|hmarI
muhBbt me ye Aml kr rha hE|Ab ]nka qulus deqI0 prvridgar frmate hE.
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jo ijs kaEm se muxabIht [qtIyar krega kyamt ke idn ]sI ke sa4 hxr
hoga|Aaj 6r me rhne valI be3I Agr sYydna Asma kI ij.dgI ko p !
egI,sYydna Aa0xa isIka kI ij.dgI ko p !egI,sYyda hfsa
kI ij.dgI ko p !egI,sYyda fatIma kI ij.dgI ko p!.egI
AaEr ]n ke jEsa 6r ke A.dr rhekr ij.dgI gujaregI,to ALlah tAala kyamt ke
idn ]NhI ke kdmo. me ]sko wI jgh Ata frma0.ge|[sil0 be3I 6r ke A.dr
rhmt AaEr brkt ka jrIya hotI hE|[sil0 bCcI ko guSse valI AaEr tej imjaj
hrgIj nhI hona caih0|
ska be3a wI ho AaEr be3I wI ho ,to vo qane kI cIj phle be3I ko do [Jjt kI
vjh se jo ALlah ne 0k be3I ko Ata krdI|to socI0 to shI ik dIne [slam me
be3I ko Kya [Jjt dI hE,bap ko huKm idya ik 6r me ko{ cIj la0 to be3I ko
phle de|]s [Jjt ko xraft kI vjh se jo ALlah ne ApnI b.dIyo. ko Ata kI hE|[s
bat kI laj rqnI caih0 AaEr 6r me xraft kI Alamt bn kr rhna caih0|[sil0
ALlah tAala ne ku.varI bCcI ko [Jjt bqxI|
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Ab frmaya hdIse pak me ik jo bCcI ku.varepn me. faEt ho jatI
hE,ALlah tAala ]se kyamt ke idn xhIdo. kI ktar me qDa frma0.ge|ye ]s
ko [nam Kyo. imla ik prde me. ma>-bap ke 6r me ij.dgI gujar rhI 4I|
yha> tk ik [sne duinya ka ku7 nhI deqa 4a|qavINd kI ij.dgI ko nhI deqa|
bCco. kI ij.dgI ko nhI deqa|AjdvajI ij.dgI ko nhI deqa|ye 6r ke car dIvarI
ke A.dr ALlah kI kEdI bn kr ij.dgI gujartI rhI,AaEr [sI daEran maEt AagyI|
ALlah frmate hE. ye to Allah kI xhId hE|Ab 0esI bCcI jo nek hogI,6r ke
A.dr prde kI ij.dgI gujartI hogI,gdIse pak me frmaya,0esI ku.varI bCcI ko
twI maEt wI Aa0gI to ALlah tAala kyamt ke idn ]sko xhIdo. kI ktar me
qDa frma0.ge|[s se A.daja lga0. ALlah tAala ke yha> 0k nek bCcI kI Kya
kdr v kImt hE|ALlah tAala hmarI bCcIyo. ko yhI nekI kI ij.dgI Ata
frma0,AaEr 6ro. ke A.dr quxIya. fElne ka jrIya bna0|ma>-bap kI [Jjt
bnane ka jrIya frma0|ma>-bap kI [Jjt b !ane ka jrIya Ata frma0|
mmta-xIr
Qvar bCce kI
prvrIx
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| ma> bnne kI sAadt pr xukr gujarI
kre.-
AaElad kI trbIyt ke bare me mjmun cl rha hE|]lma ne ilqa hE ik jb
ko{ wI AaErt Apne qavINd se hamIla ho ]s ko caih0 ik ALlah rBbul [Jjt ka
xukr Ada kre ik ALlah rBbul [Jjt ne ]s ko ma> bnne kI sAadt Ata frma{|
ye AaElad kI neAmt ALlah rBbul [Jjt kI trf se hotI hE|iktne log hE. ik ijnke
pas mal wI hE,huSn v jmal wI hE,duinya kI sb neAmte. hE.,mgr AaElad
jEsI neAmt se mh=m hote hE.|Alg Alg DaK3ro. ke pas jakr [laj muAalja
krvate hE.|hkIm DaK3r kI hr dva{ [stemal krte hE.,lekIn AaElad nhI hotI|
ye bajar se qrIdne valI cIj nhI|ye to ALlah ke qjano. kI neAmt hE vo ijse
cahe Ata frma de|
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AKsr ye Alfaj p!ne caih0,
ALlah sb tarIfe. Aap ke il0 hE. AaEr Aap hI ka xukr Ada krtI hu>|
blkI do rkat nfl Agr xukrane kI p !e to AaEr bhetr hE|ifr ]s ke bad
ApnI seht ka hr vKt qyal rqe|qane me taja sbijya. [stemal kre|
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Agr xohr kI vjh se sas ya nn.d kI vjh se hamIla AaErt ko jhnI dbav
ka ixkar hona pDe to ye xrAn gunahgar ho.ge|bhut Jyada [ska ilhaj AaEr
qyal rqna caih0|qud AaErt ko caih0 ik vo zu#,gIbt se bce,gunah vale
kamo. se bce,[sil0 ik [skI nekI ke Asrat [ske bCce ke ]pr ho.ge AaEr [ske
gunah ke Asrat wI [ske bCce ke ]pr ho.ge|
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| AC7I bat.e socne kI Aadt Dale.-
Tahm AaErt Apne jhen ke A.dr hmexa musbIt soc rqe.|Positive
Thinking rqe|hr vKt hamIla AaErt ko qux rhna caih0|
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bayjId bustamI ja rhe 4e|n0 kpDe phne,nha0,2o0,msjId kI
trf ja rhe 4e|raste me 0k AaErt ko pta nhI 4a|]s ne ApnI 6r kI 7t se ku7
g.dgI,ku7 raq nIce g!e me fe.kI,]nke sr pr raq pDI AaEr AwI wI socte hE.
ik mere sr pr A.gare brsane ke kabIl 4a,ye to maEla ne krm frma idya ik
raq ke sa4 mamla ism3 gya|to [sI trh jb ko{ musIbt phu.ce to bDI
musIbt ke bare me soce. ik muze ALlah ne ]s se bca idya ye soce. ik log
Agr mere sa4 shI btaRv nhI kr rhe ALlah ne mere sa4 iktnI rahmt
frma{ ik muze ALlah ne ma> bnne kI quxnsIbI Ata frma id|jb [s trh kI
AC7I bate. soce.gI to Aap ke jhen se gm dur ho ja0.ge|
| nbI kI duAa-
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Ku7 jgho. pr deqa ik lDkI kI pEda[x ko bura smzte hE. AaEr lDke kI
pEda{x ko AC7a smzte hE.|ye jmane jaihlIyt kI naps.dIda Aadt hE|be3I
ho ye ALlah rBbul [Jjt ke [qtIyar me Aata hE|
xura :
kss :
bDe bahya trIke se clte huve,to ALlah ne ]nke hya kI tarIf kurAan
me. kr dI|Ab 0esI be3I to ALlah kre hr 0k ko nsIb ho,ijske hya kI tarIfe.
ALlah tAala kurAan me. kre|bIbI mrIym kI pakdamnI kI tarIfe. kurAan ne
kI|cuna.ce ALlah tAala 0esI be3I hr 0k ko Ata frma0|ik jo 0esI
pakdamna be3I ho,subhanLlah|[sil0 be3i kI pEda{x pr Aajurda hrgIj nhI
hona caih0|qud nbI ko ALlah tAala ne be3a to Ata ikya mgr
bcpn me vo juda hogya|ALlah ko Pyara hogya|AaEr be3Iya. slamt rhI|
nbI ne be3Iyo. ke sa4 ij.dgI gujarI to ijs kI be3Iya. ho. vo idl me
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yhI soce muze mhebub kI goya ij.dgI se muxabIht iml g{|to [s quxI pr ]s
ko caih0 ik ALlah ka xukr Ada kre|nbI ne [rxad frmaya ijs kI do
be3Iya. ho AaEr vo ]nkI AC7I trbIyt kre,AC7I trh talIm idlvade,yha> tk ik
]n be3Iyo. kI =qstI kr de,inkah kr de,to nbI ne frmaya ik vo
jNnt me mere sa4 0ese hoga jEse ik ha4 kI do ].glIya. 0k dusre ke sa4
hotI hE.|to be3Iyo. kI pEda{x pr idl t.g hona ye jaihilyt kI rsm hE|
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[feKi3Vh Effective ho gya to be3a huva AaEr Agr mdR ka X ko/mosom
{feKi3Vh Effective ho gya to be3I huvI|kusur to mdR ka bnta hE|mgr
AaErte. kusur bhu ka bna detI hE.|to meDIkl say.s ne ye bat sabIt kr
idya ik be3I hona ya be3a hona [s ka tALluk bIvI se nhI qavINd ke sa4
hota hE|mgr Aam taEr pr becarI ma> ke ]pr musIbte. bn jatI hE.,ye to
be3Iyo. valI ma> hE|hala.kI ma> ka ]sme ko{ kusur nhI hota|[sil0
qavINdo. ko wI caih0 ik vo [s bare me bIvI ko prexan n kre.|Agr iksI ke
yha> be3Iya> horhI hE. to ye to ALlah kI trfse hE|AaEr mamla to mdR
ka hE|ksur to mdR ko Apne ijMme lena caih0|mgr becarI AaErt ko
prexan kridya jata hE|to say.s ne Aaj [s cIj ko saEfIsd sabIt kr idya|ik
[sme AaErt ka ko{ ksur nhI hota|[sil0 be3I hone pr AaErt ke sa4 nfrt
krna [sko bura wla khna AaEr ye khna ik mE. to be3e kI dusrI xadI
k=.gI,[skI to be3Iya> hI hotI hE. ye jahIlo. valI bate. hE.|ALlah rBbul [Jjt
[s jhalt kI bato. se mhfuj frmade|
| ma> ka du2-
ha> jb ALlah tAala bCce kI pEda{x frma de to ma> ke il0 ye quxI
ka maEka hota hE AaEr bCce ke il0 phela tohfa jo ma> ]se pex krtI hE
vo ma> ka Apna du2 hota hE|
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ke du2 ke Asrat AaEr hote hE.|ma> ke du2 ke Asrat AaEr hote hE.|ma>
ko caih0 ik bCce ko du2 pIla0|qud ibsimLlah p ! le AaEr ijtnI der bCca
du2 pIta rhe ma> ALlah ke ijkr me mxgul rhe|ma> ALlah rBbul [Jjt kI
yad me mxgul rhe|ma> duAa0. krtI rhe|ALlah mere du2 ke 0k 0k ktre
ke bdle me mere be3e ko [Lm ka sm.dr Ata frma|to ma> kI ]s vKt kI
duAa0. ALlah ke yha> kbul hotI hE.|
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hE bcpn se bImar hote hE.|sarI ]mr ]s kmjorI ke Asrat hote hE.|[sil0 sb
se AC7a to yhI ik Apna du2 ho ijskI brkte. wI sa4 ja rhI ho|
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rha|Ab [sko jhNnm me mE. kEse Dalu.|0esa nam hona caih0|Aaj kl kI
bCcIya> n0 n0 namo. kI quxI me be manI trIke ke nam rq detI hE.|]l3e
sI2e nam n [skI ma> ko manI ka pta AaEr n iksI AaEr ko pta|bemtlb
nam rqdetI hE.|ye bCce ke sa4 JyadtI hotI hE|bCce ke hukuk me se hE
ik ma>-bap 0esa nam rqe. ik jb bCca bDa ho ja0 AaEr [s nam se ]s ko
pukara ja0 to bCce ko quxI ho ye bCce ka hk hE|jo ma>-bap ke ]pr hota
hE|[sil0 bCce ko hmexa AC7a nam de.|A.bIyavo. ke namo. me. se nam
de.,shaba-0-ikramo. ke namo. me. se nam de.,AaEilya0 ikramo. ke
namo. me. se nam de.|0k rIvayt ke A.dr Aata hE ik ijs 6r ke A.dr
ko{ bCca muhMmd nam ka hota hE,ALlah rBbul [Jjt [s nam kI brkt se sb
6rvalo.ko jhNnm kI Aagse AajadI Ata frma dete hE.|to muhMmd ka
nam,Ahmd ka nam bhut Pyara hE|hmare mxa0q to ds ds nslo. tk bap
ka nam muhMmd ifr be3e ka nam muhMmd ifr [ske be3e ka nam
muhmmd ifr [ske be3e ka nam muhMmd,ye nam [tna Pyara 4a ik ds ds
nslo. tk yhI nam clta cla jata 4a|lekIn Aaj kl [s nam ko rq to dete hE.,sa4
ko{ dusra lfj lga dete hE.,AaEr nam Jyada dusra mxhur hota hE|imsal
ke taEr pr muhMmd Aves nam rqa,Ab Aves Jyada mxhur kridya AaEr
muhMmd ka nam ko{ janta wI nhI|[sil0 muhMmd nam ALlah rBbul [jjt
ko Pyara hE|Ahmd nam kurAan me hE,ALlah rBbul [Jjt ko Pyara hE|cahe
to muhMmd,Ahmd nam wI rq sktI hE|bhut Pyara nam hE|ABduLlah wI
rq sktI hE.|ABduLlah [b/ahIm rq sktI hE.|ALlah ke nek b.do.,ALlah ke
AaEilya,ALlah ke jo pEg.br hE. ]nke namo. pr Apne bCco. ke
nam rqe. takI kyamt ke idn ]NhI. ke sa4 [nka hxr wI ho ja0 AaEr ALlah
rBbul [Jjt kI rahmt ho|bCcIyo. ke nam wI [sI trh jo hE. shabIyat ke namo.
pr rqe.|]MmulmomInIn ke namo. pr rqe.|nbI kI be3Iyo. ke
namo. pr rqe.|be3Iyo. ke nam wI AC7e rqe.|0ese nam n rqe. ik ijn
namo. ka ko{ mtlb wI n ho|
| AkIka krna-
Jb bCce kI pEda{x ho to satve. idn AkIka krna suNnt hE|be3e ke
il0 do bkre AaEr be3I ke il0 0k bkra,ye quxI ka [jhar hE|qud wI [sko qa0.
AaEr rIxte daro. ko wI qIla0.,AaEr grIbo. ko wI de.|[skI [jajt hotI hE|jb
bCce kI pEda{x ho ja0,Ab ma> ne 6r ke kam kaj wI krne hote hE.|[badt
wI krnI hotI hE|to jb wI [badt ke il0 bE#e hmexa [sko caih0 Apne bCce
ko ApnI god me le kr bE#e,AaEr ifr ALlah rBbul [Jjt ka kurAan p !e|Aap
ke kurAan p !ne kI brkte. Aap ke bCce ke A.dr ]s vKt ]tr ja0.gI|
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Ab 0k mxhur vakIya hE|0k ma>-bap ne Apne bCce ko mdrse me
daqIl ikya|bCce ne p !na xu= ikya|ku7 vKt ke bad bap mdrse me
phu>ca,mE. Apne bCce kI karkrdgI ka jayja lU.|to karI sahb se
pu7a|]Nho.ne btaya ik bCce ne tIn pare to [tna jLdI ihfj kr il0|hme ykIn
nhI Aata|0esa lgta hE ik ye phle se hafIj 4a|tIn paro. Ke bad [sne ifr
Aam mamul ke mutabIk Aam rftar ke sa4 sbk lena xu= kr idya|to
qavINd ne ye bat Aakr ApnI bIvI ko bta{|to ye sun kr bIvI muskura pDI|
qavINd ne pu7a ik [sme muskurane valI bat kaEnsI hE|vo khne lgI,bat
hkIkt me ye hE ik mE. tIn pare kI hafIja hu>|jb wI mE. p !ne bE#tI 4I
mE. bCce ko god me lekr bE#tI 4I,AaEr bar bar tIn paro. kI tIlavt krtI
4I|]n tIn paro. ka nur mere be3e ke sIne me ]tr gya 4a|ye ]skI brkt hE,j
bye mdrse me gya to tIn paro. ka hafIj jLdI bn gya|jEse phle ALlah ne ]
ske idl me nur rq idya ho|to ma> kI tIlavt ke Asrat bCce ke ]pr pDa krte
hE.|[sil0 jb wI duAa ma.gne bE#e,kurAan p !ne bE#e,[badt krne
bE#e,to bCce ko koxIx kre ApnI god me le.|jb bCce ko qIlana ho ya
sulana ho to bCce ko lorI wI AC7I de.,AaEr ALlah ALlah ka nam ]ske
samne khne kI koxIx kre.|
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hSbI rBbI [LlLlah,
mafI kLbI gE=Llah,
nure muh.Mmd SvllLlah,
la [laha [llLlah,
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bCce ka [man mjbut krne ke il0 ma> ko caih0 ik koxIx krtI rhe|Agr
kwI bCca bDa hogya AaEr ]sko ko{ Drane kI bat Aag{ to kwI kuTte,ibLlI
se n Dra0. AaEr ijn,wut se wI n Dra0.|jb wI ko{ bat ho bCce ke jhen me
ALlah ka tsVvur Dale.|be3a Agr tum 0ese kroge to ALlah tAala naraj ho
ja0.ge|Ab jb Aap yu> Pyar se smza0.gI ik ALlah tAala naraj ho ja0.ge to
vo pu7ega ik ALlah tAala kaEn hE. ? Ab Aap ko ALlah tAala ka tAa=f
krvane ka maEka iml ja0ga|Aap tAa=f krva0. ik ALlah tAala vo hE ijsne
Aap ko sunne kI takt dI,deqne kI takt dI,ijsne Aapko Akl Ata kr dI,ijsne
muze wI pEda ikya,Aap ko wI pEda ikya,hm sb ALlah ke b.de hE.|jb Aap
ALlah kI 0esI tarIfe. kre.gI AaEr ]ske 0hsanat ka tjkIra kre.gI to bcpn se
hI bCce ke A.dr ALlah kI muhBbt AaEr jNnt me jane ka xaEk pEda ho
ja0ga|ik hm jNnt me kb ja0.ge|muze [tnI AC7I ]skI bat lgI ik deqo bCce
ko jNnt kI bate. suna{ AaEr AwI se pu7 rha hE ik ABbu hm jNnt me kb
ja0.ge ? AwI se ]sko [.tjar AaEr xaEk nsIb hogya|to ma> ko wI caih0 [sI
trh bCce ke idl me nekI ke Asrat Dale AaEr ALlah tAala ka {man mjbut
kre|sbr se kam le|Agr bCce se ko{ gltI wI hoja0 to jrasI gltI pr Da>3
Dp3 krne bE# jana ye AC7I ma>vo kI Aadt nhI hotI|
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smzegI,vo smzegI ik ma> mere 0ebo. Ko 7upatI hE AaEr mera sa4 detI
hE|bcpn me jb ma> Apne bCco. kI hmddR AaEr gmgusar bnegI to bDe
ho kr yhI bCcI jo hogI vo Aap ke duq ba.3egI AaEr AapkI qIdmt me purI
ij.dgI gujar degI|[s trh bCcI ke A.dr xqsIyt ke Ajmt ko pEda kIjI0,AaEr
bCcI ke idl me ALlah rBbul [Jjt kI muhBbt pEda kIjI0|
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totlI juban se 4oDe 4oDe goya Alfaj bolna AwI smza 4a|lekIn ]s bCce ne
p !na xu= ikya,hm to hEran rh g0|]sne tbarkLljI se sbk xu= ikya AaEr
purI sur-0-muLk ]sne qDe hokr suna dI|Aaj tk hm hEran hE. ik [tna 7o3a
bCca purI sur-0-muLk ka haifj kEse bn skta hE|
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0ese 4e|n [Lm 0esa 4a|[sne ]sko Apnaya AaEr [ske jrI0 se merI pEda{x
huvI|to merI ma> vo ijske pas Aqlak nhI,dIn ka [Lm nhI|jb merI pEda{x
hog{ to mere bap ne mera nam jol rqa|jol ka lfjI mtlb g.dgI ka kIDa
hota hE|ye wI ko{ rqne vala nam 4a jo mere ma>-bap ne rqa|ifr Kyo. ik
ma> ke pas dIn ka [Lm nhI 4a,]sne muze ko{ dIn kI bat nhI isqa{ AaEr
mE. bDa hokr jvan ho gya|Ab mE. nafrmanI nhI k=.ga to Kya k=.ga ? ]
mr ne j bye suna to Aap ne frmaya ik be3e se Jyada to ma>-
bap ne [ske hukuk ko pamal ikya|[sil0 ye be3e se Ab ko{ mutalba nhI
krskte|Aapne mukme ko qarIj kridya| to [sil0 ma>-bap ko caih0 ik vo
AaElad ko isqa0. takI bCce bDe hokr ALlah ke wI frmabrdar bne. AaEr
ma>-bap ke wI frmabrdar bne.|
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nbI ne frmaya,
AfxuSslamu bEnkum,
Tum slam ko Aam kro|0k dusre ke drmIyan rIvaj do|to hme caih0
Jyada se Jyada slam khne kI bCce ko Aadt Dale.|[s se bCce ke idl se izzk
dur ho jatI hE|AaEr vo iDp/exn me nhI jata|dusro. ko deq kr qaEf jda nhI
hota|bLkI ]sko slam krne kI Aadt hotI hE|to ma> ko caih0 ik bCce ko
slam krne ka trIka isqa0|Aadt isqa0|takI bCce ke A.dr ifr mqluk ka Dr
dur ho ja0|AaEr bCce ke A.dr jurRt Aaja0|qud bInI se vo bcja0|[s trh
bCce ko xuKrI0 kI Aadt bcpn se isqa0|7o3I ]mr ka hE jrasa smzdar huva
to [sko smza0 ik jb tum se ko{ nekI kre,wla{ kre,tuMhare kam me
tuMharI mdd kre to be3a [ska xuKriya Ada krte hE.|jb vo [.sano. ka xuKr
Ada krega to ifr ALlah ka wI xuKr Ada krne vala bn ja0ga|
nbI ne frmaya,
mLlm yxkurINnas lm yxkurILlah,
jo [.sano. ka xuKr Ada nhI krta vo ALlah ka wI xuKr Ada nhI krta|to
xuKrIya kI Aadt hme DalnI caih0|AjIb bat hE hme [.sano. ke xuKrIya ka
huKm idya gya mgr Aaj xayd hI ko{ ma> ho jo Apne be3e ko xuKrIya
ke Alfaj isqa0|AaEr xuKrIya me 4>k yu ka lfj n isqa0. bLkI
jjakumuLlah,jjakumuLlahu qEra,ye ALfaj isqa0. takI bCce ko yhI suNnt
ke mutabIkxuKrIya Ada krne ke ALfaj Aate ho.|
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se ik ye kr Kya rhI hE|]sne ApnI bCcI ke muh> me 0k luKma Dala|cavlo.
ka AaEr jb luKma bCcI ne qailya to vo khne lgI,Say Thank You |
cuna.ce bCcI ne Thank You kha|ifr dusra luKma Dala ifr Thank You
khlvaya|hr hr luKma Dalne ke bad vo ma> ApnI bCcI se Thank You ka
lfj khelvatI|mere A.daj ke mutabIk 0k qane me ]s fa/NsIsI lDkI ne ApnI
bCcI se bar Thank You ke Alfaj khelva0|Ab mE. hEran 4a ik [s Thank
You kI Aadt vak{ bCcI kI 6uI me pD ja0gI AaEr ye sarI ]mr xuKrIya
Ada krne valI bn ja0gI|to Aml to 4a muslmano. ka,muslman be3Iyo. ne
wula idya AaEr kafIro. kI be3Iyo. ne ]se Apna ilya|[sil0 hme caih0 hm
bCpn se hI bCce ko Aadab isqa0.|slam krne kI Aadt Dale.,xuKrIya krne
kI Aadt Dale.|
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idl ivc rb sa{. rE.De|
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[mam xaf{ ke bare me Aata hE ik terh sal kI ]mr me ]
Nho.ne dInIyat ko hasIl krilya 4a AaEr 0k jgh ]Nho.ne dsRe kuraan wI
dena xu= kr idya 4a|AjIb bat hE|terh sal kI ]mr me ]Nho.ne dsRe
kurAan dena xu= kr idya 4a|hmare mxa0q ne [sI trh 7o3I ]mr me bDe
Alf sanI se barh sal kI ]mr me iqlaft pa lI 4I|to phle vKto. ke hjrat
bcpn se ]nko neki imltI 4I|ma> kI god se ]nko Asrat imlte 4e|to barh
p.2rah sal kI ]mr tk phu>cte vo bDe ]lum hasIl kr ilya krte 4e|AaEr bDI
mAarIf hasIl kr ilya krte 4e|to [mam xaf{ Agrce bcpn kI ]mr 4I
mgr dsRe kurAan dena xu= kr idya|[nke dsRe kurAan me k{ bDe bDe
sfed bal vale bu !e wI Aakr bE#te 4e|mxa0q Aakr bE#te 4e AaEr [nke
{LmI mAarIf pr mdnI dsR ko suna krte 4e|cuna.ce 0k bar [mam xaf{
dsR de rhe 4e AaEr Acank do cIdIya. Aaps me lDtI lDtI [nke krIb
Aakr igrI.|jEse hI Aakr igrI. [Nho.ne Apne srse Amama ]tara AaEr dono.
cIDIyo. ke ]pr rq idya|jb [Nho.ne dsR ke daEran ye ikya to job De bu !e
iksm ke log 4e,s.jIda ]mr ke log 4e ]Nho.ne [s cIj ko bura mhesus ikya ik
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qelte deqa vo muze qel AC7a lga|mE. qel deqne me ms=f hogya|bhot
der hog{|nbI [.tjar frmate rhe|yha> tk ik nbI wI 6r se
bahr txrIf la0|muze qDe deq kr Aap mere pas Aa0,Pyar se mere sr pr
ha4 fera AaEr kha Ans mE. ne tuze jo kam kha 4a vo kr Aavo|mE. ne
kha AC7a mE. AwI krke Aata hu>|nbI ne Da.3a nhI|nbI
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vo Abu ]mEr tere prI.de ne tere sa4 Kya ikya ? tuze 7oD kr cla gya|
yanI 7o3e bCce ke sa4 0esI bat krte jo 7o3e bCce ke idl ke mutabIk
ho,jhenI seht ke mutabIk ho|cuna.ce ye bCce nbI se valIhana
muhBbt krne vale bn jate|cuna.ce Ans nbI kI iqdmt
krte rhe|frmate hE.,mE. ne nbI kI k{ sal iqdmt kI|n Aap ne
muze keI mara n kwI muze 3oka,n muze kwI roka|mE. ne Aap kI juban
se, la, ka lfj nhI suna|[tne muhBbt se ALlah ke mhebub merI trbIyt
frmate 4e|to ye trbIyt hmare il0 Aaj roxnI ka 0k imnar hE|
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hote hE.|bCce Apne AC7e kam ko deq kr qux hote hE.|ijs kam ko Aap
smze. ik ye AC7a hE bCce kI qub tarIf kre.|]sko Encourage kre.|jb bCce
ko Aap Encourage kre.gI to bCca ]s kam ko bar bar krne kI koxIx krega|
imsal ke taEr pr mheman Aa0,to bCce ne jakr slam ikya,AaEr Aakr
btaya AMmI mE. slam krke Aaya hu>|Aap sara idn bCce ko khetI
rhe.,be3e tumne bDa AC7a kam ikya,mera bDa idl qux huva|ok to bCce
kI Aadt pKkI ho ja0gI AaEr dusra vo ye wI mhesus krega ik mE. AC7e
kam wI krta hu>|ye n mhesus kre ik bs AMma to ]s xqsIyt ka nam hE jo
b.de ko hr vKt rok 3ok krne valI hotI hE|to Agr rok 3ok wI kre. to bCce
ko Encourage wI kre.|xabaxI wI de.,tarIfe. wI kre.|hr AC7a kam krne pr
bCce ko [nam de.|[nam se bCce AaEr Jyada ragIb hote hE.|ye to janvro.
me wI deqa gya|
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duAa inkltI hE to vo sI2I ]pr jatI hE|AxR ke drvaje qul jate hE.| duAa
ALlah ke yha> pex kr dI jatI hE|AaEr kbul kr dI jatI hE|
Mgr xEtan bDa mrdud hE|vo ma> ke jhen me Dalta hE,mE. galI to
detI hu>,mgr mere idl me nhI hotI,ye xEtan ka bDa f.Da hE|hkIkt me to
vo bdduAavo. ke Alfaj khelvata hE AaEr ma> ko zu#I tsLlI deta hE|tune
kha to 4a mrjavo mgr tuMhare idlme nhI 4a|kwI xEtan ke [s 2oke me n
Aana|bCce ko bdduAa n krna|k{ ma>0 bCco ko bdduAa0. de kr ]nkI
AakIbt qrab krdetI hE. AaEr ij.dgI brbad kr detI hE.|
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bCco. ko
prvan c!ana
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guijxta byan me ye bat cl rhI 4I ik bCca gltI kre,Aap ko tklIf
phu>ca0,ijtna mjIR sta0 iksI hal me wI bCce ko bdduAa n de.|xEtan
2oka deta hE,ma> ke idl me ye bat Dalta hE ik mE. idl se bd duAa nhI
de rhI,]pr ]prse khe rhI hu> AaEr [s 2oke me k{ bar ma>0 Aa jatI hE.
AaEr juban se bure Alfaj khe jatI hE.|yad rqna ye AaElad ALlah kI neAmt
hE AaEr [sko bd duAa0 dena neAmt kI nakdrI hE|ALlah iktna krIm hE|
hm jEse nakdro. ko wI neAmte. Ata frma deta hE|to [skI kdr ikjI0 AaEr
[sko duAa0. idjI0 bLkI ye t.g kre,to [ske bdle me Aap duAaye. de. to ye
nbI kI suNnt hE|
jo AasI ko kmlI me ApnI 7upale
jo duxmn ko wI jqm qakr duAa de.
]se AaEr Kya nam dega jmana
vo rahmt nhI hE to ifr AaEr Kya hE ?
AalI[mran:
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AalI[mran:
ALlah rBbul [Jjt ne ifr ]s bCcI ko kbul frma ilya AaEr ifr ]skI trbIyt
0esI AC7I frma{ ik bhut hI AC7I trbIyt|to ye ma> kI duAa 4I AaEr
murBbI to hkIkt me ALlah rBbul [Jjt 4e|vo trbIyt frmate hE. b.de kI to
ma> kI duAavo. Ko kbuilyt hasIl hE|[sil0 duAa ikjI0 ik bCce pr ALlah
rBbul [Jjt kI qas njr ho ja0|
| ihfajt ka ihsar-
Jb bCce so rhe ho. to ]n pr ihsar ihfajt ka j=r bna ilya kre.|hmare
mxa0q ne 0k ihfajt ka ihsar btaya AaEr [skI [tnI brkte. hE. ik ]Nho.ne
frmaya ik maEt ke isva ko{ musIbt nhI AasktI|mere pIr v muxIRd ne [s
AajIj ko ye ihsar kI [jajt dI to frmane lge ik hmne ihsar ko k{ bar mrne
valo. ko jo kbr ko phu>c cuke 4e [nke igdR wI ba.2a to deqa kxf kI njr se
ALlah ne ]nke ]s rat ke kbr ke Ajab ko maf frmaya|to ye bhut hI mxa0q
kI trf se ikmtI Aml hE AaEr [s AajIj ko [s kI [jajt hE AaEr Aaj ye AajIj sb
salIkIn AaEr salekan ko mdoR. AaErto. ko [jajt de rha hE takI ye ALlah
rBbul kI ihfajt me Aaja0.|vo ihsar Kya hE ? phle d=d xrIf p !ilya kre.,ifr
AlhMdu xrIf yanI sur-0-fatIha purI surt p !ilya kre.,ifr Aaytul kusIR AaEr
caro. kul p !ilya kre.|AaqIr pr ifr d=d xrIf p !le.|yanI AVvl AaEr AaqIr d=d
xrIf p !na,drimyan me sur-0-fatIha,Aaytul kusIR AaEr caro. kul p !na
AaEr ye sb ku7 p ! kr Apne igdR,bCco. ke igdR,jha> ibjnes dukan 6r dftr
vgEra ho ]n sb ka tsVvur kr ke ]n ke igdR Apne tsVvur me 0k dayra bna
de.|ijs cIj ke igdR Aap dayra bna de.gI vo sb cIje. ALlah rBbul kI ihfajt
me Aa ja0.gI|klamuLlah kI hmne bDI brkte. deqI,AaEr sekDo. vakIyat
hE.,ALlah rBbul [Jjt kI ihfajt ke ijn ko btane ka ye munasIb vKt wI nhI hE|
[sil0 [tna khedena kafI hE ik ye ihsar ijs idn me AaEr ijs rat me Aap
bCco. ke igdR bna0.gI Aap ke bCce iftno. se, Aafto. se,musIbto. se
mhefuj rhe.ge AaEr ijs idn ko{ musIbt AanI hogI,Aap [s Aml ko wul
bE#e.gI tb ko{ musIbt Aa0gI|vrna to ALlah rBbul [Jjt kI ihfajt me rhegI|
[sil0 bCco. ke igdR 0k ihsar idn AaEr rat me bna idya kre.,takI xEtan ]s
pr ko{ Asr n Dal ske|
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mjId p !ne se mna ikya gya AaEr napakI kI halt me nmaj p !ne se mna
ikya gya|bakI [s trh ke Alfaj juban se khe ja skte hE.|to qana Agr pkate
huve Aap ALlah ka ijkr kre.gI to subhanLlah [skI brkte. ho.gI|AaEr Agr
pakI ke idn hE. to Aap ko ku7 surte. yad hE. to ]n surto. ko p !I0,takI
kurAan p !ne kI brkte. Aap ke qane me Aa ja0|ye shaibyat ka Aml hE|0k
shaibya ne t.dur pr ro3Iya> lgva{.,jb pk kr tyar hog{,frmane lgI ik
meera qana wI tyar hogya AaEr mere tIn pare kI tIlavt wI purI hog{|
malum huva ik ijtnI der me ye ro3Iya> lgvatI 4I|[s juban se ALlah ka
kurAan wI p!tI rhtI 4I,to ye shaibyat kI suNnt hE|Aap [sko Ada kre.|
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duAa-
jb bCce rat ko sone lge,k{ bar bCce jLdI nhI sote,rote hE.,nI.d nhI
AarhI hotI,vjh hE ik becare bol wI nhI skte|ijsm kI tkilf bta wI nhI skte|
ma> becarI qud A.daja lga0,tb ]se pta cle ik fla> vjh se ro rha hE|Agr ]
ska @yan ]s trf nhI jata to bCca becara ro hI skta hE|Ab ma> qud b qud
]s pr guSsa hotI hE|rota h Eso nhI rha,0ese vKt me brdaxt se kam iljI0|
0k duAa bujugoR. ne bta{ hE|
ALlahuMma gartINnujum
v hdatIl ]yun ANt hYyulkYyum
la taqujuka isntu. vlanaEm
ya hYyu ya kYyum
AhdI lylI v Ainm 0enI|
jb ye duAa p ! kr Aap bCce pr dm kre.gI ALlah rBbul [Jjt bCce ko
sukun kI nI.d Ata frmade.ge|Agr bCcI hE to lyltIha v
Ainm0einha,ke Alfaj yanI isga [stemal krle.|yanI jo moANns,lDkI ke
il0 hota hE to [s trh [s duAa ko p ! lene se AaEr dm kr dene se bCco. ko
nI.d jLdI AajatI hE|
yad rqe. ik bCce kore kagj ke jEse hote hE.|[s pr qubsurt ful bu3e
bnana ya ]l3I sI2I likre. Lgana ye sb ma> ka kam hota hE|Agr ma> ne
AC7I prvrIx kI to ifr sb ful bu3e bng0|AaEr ]sko trbIyt ka pta hI nhI to
ifr ]sne ]l3I sI2I lkIre. lgadI.|AaEr goya [n bCco. ko ibgaDne me [nkI
mddgar bnI|prvrIx se murad yhI nhI hota ik bCco. ka ijsm bDa krna hota
hE bLkI prvrIx se murad ye hE ik ijs trh ijsm b !e sa4 hI idl kI isfat wI b !
e|idmagI Capebilities wI qul kr samne Aa0.|to jo AC7I ma>0 hotI hE. vo
fkt ijsm ko bDa nhI krtI|]ske idl ko wI bDa krtI hE, ]ske idmag ko wI bDa
krtI hE.|]ske jhen ke A.dr 0esI soc Dal detI hE. ik 7o3I ]mr me hI ]skI
idmagI slaihyte. Qul kr samne Aa jatI hE.|ye idl,idmag kI slaihyto. Ko
qolna ye wI ma> kI ijMmedarI hE|k{ ma>0 to [tnI AC7I bCco. kI prvrIx
krtI hE. ik ]nke bCco. ko deq kr duAa0. Dene ko idl cahta hE|
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#ata [tne slIke se vo kam krta ik hmare vo doSt bDe mutaisr huve|jb
vo nhane ke il0 jate,bahr inklte to ]nke jute palIx hE.,]nke kpDe [StrI
hE.| jb nha 2okr kpDe phn lete to dSrQvan pr qana tyar|ye bDe hEran
ik [tnI 7o3I ]mr me ma>-bap ne ye slIka kEse isqaya ?to ye cahte 4e ik
mE. [s bCce se jra tfsIlat malum kr lu.|leikn vo bCca iksI kam kI qatIr
[nke kmre me Aata AOr jEse hI kam pura ho jata fOrn cla jata,=kta hI
nhI 4a|
to 0k idn ]nhone [rada ikya ik Aaj mE [s bCcese jra tfsIlI bat k=.ga|to
bCcene Aakr dStrQvan ib7aya AOr qana lakr rqne lga AOr jb rq cuka to
[Nhone ]sse bat 7eDnI cahI to jLdI me [Nhone kha ik bCce tum sbse
bDe ho ? iKyo.kI ]nke AOr wI bCce 4e|to jb mehman ne yu. pu7a ik
bCce tum sbse bDe ho,to khte hE. ik vo bCca xrmasa gya AOr pI7e h3a
AOr khne lga,Ak.l sCcI bat to ye hE ik ALlahtAala sbse bDe hE.,bhn
wa{yo. me merI ]mr Jyada hE|vo khte hE. ik bCce kI [s batne mera idl
moh ilya ik mE ne to jLdbajI me yu. kha ik bCce tum sbse bDe ho,leikn
bCce kI Perception xu]r deqi0 iktnI barIk bInI 4I ]ske A.dr ik Aage se
jvab deta hE,A.kl sCcI bat to ye hE ik ALlah sbse bDe hE.,bhen wa{yo.
me merI ]mr Jyada hE|vo khne lge muze xmR kI vjh se rona Aagya ik
mE. ]mrse [tna bDa hu> AaEr mE. [s nuKte tk phu>c n ska Aaer [s
bCce kI soc [tnI AC7I hE,[tne pa{.3 pIkAp ikya|mera jumla 4a tum sbse
bDe ho|bCca jvab deta hE,A.kl sCcI bat to ye hE ik ALlah sbse bDe hE.|
ha> bhen wa{yo. me merI ]mr Jyada hE|to jb ma>0 bCco. kI AC7I
prvrIx krtI hE. to ifr bCco. ke ijsm hI fkt nxonuma nhI pate ]nke idl AaEr
idmag kI slaihyte. wI qultI hE.|
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gujare.,ifr deqe. ik bCce qud se hI ma>-bap ke hr kam kI kapI kre.ge|
bCcI vhI kregI jo ma> ko krtI deqegI|bCca vhI krega jo bap ko krte
deqega|
Ab ]s bCce ko ku7 nhI pta ik [ska Kya mtlb hE|lekIn ]sne to Apne
bap ko ye khte huve suna [sil0 vo vhI Alfaj khe rha hE jo ]ske bap ne
khe|to ye jhen me rqna ik bCca iftrI taEr pr nKkal hota hE|vo ma>-bap
kI kapI krta hE|ma>-bap cahte hE. hm to ApnI ij.dgI me jo cahe.
kre.,fkt bCce nek bn ja0.|ye kam 0ese hrigj nhI|dono. me colI damn ka
sa4 hE|ma>-bap maDl bne.ge to bCce ]nke raSte ko Apna le.ge AaEr
Agr ma>-bap kotaihya> kre.ge AaEr fkt nek tmNna0. rqe.ge ik bCce
nek bn ja0. jo ifr 0esI to ifr nhI purI hotI|[sil0 bCco. kI trbIyt ke il0 ma>-
bap ko qud wI AmlI nmuna bnne kI j=rt hE|
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ATthu= inSful {man,
pakIjgI to Aa2a {man hE|to ]nko jb Aap yu> smza0.gI ik [sko ALlah
rBbul [Jjt ps.d frmate hE. to ifr bCca pak saf rhena ps.d krega|cuna.ce
AC7e log pEda nhI hote bLkI AC7e log to bna0 jate hE.|ma>0 ApnI
godo. me logo. ko AC7a bna idya krtI hE.|
bnI [sra{l :
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duinya me gunahgar logo. ka [jafa Jyada ho ja0,mE. bCco. kI 0esI trbIyt
krna cahtI hu>|[sil0 trbIyt kI nIYyt se Agr ku7 vKfa rqne ke il0 ko{ dva
qanI cahe to ftave xamI AaEr AalmgIrI me ]lema ne [ske bare me [jajt
ilqI hE|
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ilya ik merI ko{ hEsIyt nhI Ab tuMhara bap hI Aakr tuMhe i#k krega|[s
jumle ko sunne ke bad ifr bCca ma> ko ALlah imya> kI gay smzna xu=
kr deta hE|]ska Dr idl se inkl jata hE|ifr ma> ye rotI hE ik bCce to
hmara sunte nhI|nhI trbIyt ka mamla hE|Aap ALlah imya> kI gay n bnI0
bLkI xernI kI trh bnkr rih0|bCce ko 2mkana hE to qud 2mka0.,Agr
ko{ 4PpD wI lgvana hE to bap se lgvane ke bja0 qud lga0.|bCce ko Dr
ho merI AMmI merI trbIyt krnevalI hE|to [sil0 [s bat ka wI qas qyal rqe.
ik jo ku7 wI krna hE,ma> ne qud hI krna hE|
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]pr phu>c g{. to bCce ko r.ge ha4o. kwI n pkDe.|deqI An deqI kr de.|
yu> bn ja0. jEse Aapne deqa hI nhI|bCca qamox ho ja0ga,db
ja0ga,lekIn vo jo hE [.sL3 nhI mhesus kre ik muze to pkD ilya gya|0esa
n ho ik ]s ke jhen se hya qtm ho ja0gI|vo khega AMmI ne to deq hI ilya|
to 0k hya bakI rhegI|ifr Pyar Pyar se bat kr ke ]sko smza0.,[s gunah ke
bare me to bCca ifr qud mafI ma.g lega,kim3me.3 krega,AMmI mE. AglI
bar 0esI gltI nhI k=.ga|bCce ko n to Aap Apna gulam bna0. AaEr n hI
bCce ko se# bn0.|k{ ma>0 bCco. ko [tna im#a detI hE. ik bCco. kI ApnI
xqsIyt hI nhI ]wrtI AaEr k{ ]nko xu= se hI se# AaEr badxah bna detI hE.
ik bCco. ke ifr kdm jmIn pr nhI lgte|vo hvaAae. me ]Dte rhte hE.|bCco.
ko jo hE [s trh 0KsIm pr leja kr ibgaDne kI koxIx n kre.|
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Important bate. ho.gI|muze [nam imla,muze mar pDI,]stad ne ye
kha,mere doSt ne ye kha|jb ]s ne ye bat bta dI jo AC7I bate. hE.,bCce
ko xabax de,jo burI bate. smze. bCce kI vhI tnkId kr de.,be3a Aap ke
doSt ne Aap ko AC7I bat nhI bta{|ye 0ese nhI 0ese hE to goya ]sne
Aa# 6.3e ke A.dr jo ku7 isqa ]s me jo AC7I bat bat 4I Aap ne ]s ko ]s ke
jhen me pKka kr idya AaEr jo glt bate. 4I Aapne ]s ko ifL3r kr idya|ye
Aa# imn3 Aap ke Aa# 6.3e pr warI ho.ge|
Agr Aapne bCce se ku7 nhI pu7a to jo ]sne Klasme suna AC7a
suna ya bura suna ill efect of the classes vo bCce ke A.dr pKke ho
ja0.ge|to Apne doSto. se sunI huvI bate. vo Apne jhen me pKkI kr lega|
[sil0 ye car imn3 Aap ke il0 bDe Ahm hote hE.|jb wI ko{ bCca Aa0,6r
me Aakr Aap ko slam kre,slam ke bad j=r pu7e.,be3a Skul me Aapne
kEse idn gujara ? be3I Skul me tumne idn kEse gujara ? vo Aap ko c.d
imn3 me bta degI ye ye ye huva Aap sun le.|AC7e bato. kI tSidk kr de.|
burI bato.se ]sko mna kr de.,ik be3a ye bat to AC7I nhI huvI|Aap ko
doSt ne ye bat AC7I nhI kI|be3a 0ese yu> bat nhI krte|c.d imn3 lgte hE.
lekIn c.d imn3 me Aap ne bCce ko bure Asrat se bca ilya AaEr nekI ke ]
pr jma idya|
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cuna.ce bCce pr xfKkt rqe.,bosa de. AaEr bosa dene ke bad
Aapne phle se ko{ Aa{iSk/m ya mx=b ya ko{ im#I cIj jo bCca ps.d krta
hE ]s ko f/Ij me j=r tyar rqe.,AaEr ifr ]#a kr bCce ko de.,lo be3a Aaj mE.
ne Aap ke il0 rqa,qa iljI0|jb 0ese vKt me ik bCca wuqa,Pyasa Skul se
Aaya hE Aap ]skI mhebub cIj ko{ wI ]se qane ko detI hE. to Aap Apne
bCce ka idl jIt letI hE.|Aap smz nhI sktI bCca ]s vKt Aap se iktnI muhBbt
krne lg jata hE|to bCce ne Aa# 6.3e Skul me lga0,Aap ne Aa# imn3 lga
kr ]s bCce kI 0esI trbIyt kr dI ik bCce ke idl me Aap kI muhBbt bE# g{|
AC7I bate. Aag{,burI bate. ]ske jhen se qtm ho g{|
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mLla yrhmu la yurhm,
jo AadmI rhem nhI krta ALlah tAala wI ]s pr rhem nhI frmate|
0k AaEr dfa 0esa huva ik 0k ArbI ne deqa khne lga,0e ALlah ke
nbI mE to bCco. se 0ese Pyar nhI krta jEse Aap krte hE.|to nbI
ne frmaya,Agr tere idl se ALlah ne rahmt ko inkal ilya AaEr tuze [s se
mh=m kr idya to ko{ Kya kre ? malum huva ik bCco. se Pyar krna ye
iftrte [.sanI hE|to bCco. ko Pyar idya kre.|
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ALlah se ho,taEhId ]nke jhen me rc bs ja0,AaEr vo bCca ALlah rBbul [Jjt
se valehana Pyar krnevala bn ja0|hmare phle vKt kI AC7I ma>0 [n
bato. ka bDa qyal rqtI 4I|
kutub imnar ke pas hI ]nkI kbr hE|jha> ye le3e huve Aaram frma
e hE.|[nke bare me Aata hE ik [nka nam to 4a kutbuIn,lekIn ]ske sa4
ye kakI ka lfj [Stemal krte hE.|kakI hI.dI ka lfj hE|ro3I ko hI.dI me kakI
khte hE.|to ye lfj [nke nam ke sa4 kEse lga,ye wI 0k idlcSp vakIya hE|
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ma> ne mhesus ikya ik bCca ALlah tAala ke bare me Jyada sval pu7ne
lga|AMmI sarI mqluk ko ALlah tAala qana dete hE.|AMmI ALlah tAala
iktne AC7e hE.|hr roj qana dete hE.|
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hdIse pak me Aata hE Apne bCco. ko tIn cIje. isqa0.|ALlah kI
muhBbt isqavo|nbI kI muhBbt isqavo|Ahle bEt kI muhBbt
isqavo|Ab [nkI muhBbt isqana ye to ma> ke bs me hE|]ska trIka ye ik
ALlah kI muhBbt se mutlk vakIyat suna0,nbI kI muhBbt se
mutlk vakIyat suna0.|kurAan mjId kI muhBbt se mutlk vakIyat
suna0,ksusul kurAan ke iktab me AC7e AC7e vakIyat hE.|jb ku7 vakIyat
bCco. ko sunane hI hote hE. to bCco. ko rat ko sone se phle kurAan se
mutaLlIk vakIyat suna0.|takI jb bCce jb bDe ho kr kurAan p !e.ge vo
vakIyat phle se ]n ke idlo. me ho.ge|to bCco. ko AC7I AC7I bate. suna0.|
shaba0 ikram ke Ahval suna0.,AaEilya ikram ke Ahval suna0.,takI bCco.
ke A.dr nekI ka xaEk ho AaEr bCce nek bnkr ij.dgI gujarne ka [rada
krle.|
[sIil0 k{ bar ma>0 khtI hE. ik bCca bap kI bat nhI manta|vjh ye
hotI hE ik trbIyt AC7I nhI huvI|bCce ko jha> wI jana hE fkt tnkId kI jatI
hE|jb bCca jvan ho jata hE ifr vo iksI kI nhI sunta|Ab ]skI ApnI soc kam
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krna xu= krtI hE|[sil0 yad rqna ku7 bCce bDe ho kr Apne bap se 0esI
nfrt krte hE. jEse ko{ gunah se nfrt ikya krta hE,AaEr ]skI buinyad ye hE
ik ]skI AC7I trbIyt nhI kI g{|[sil0 bCco. kI AC7I trbIyt kIjI0|
0k AaEr nKta jhen me rqI0 ik bCco.se bat mnvane ka gur !u> !e|
AaEr quLlm quLla AaDRr n idya kre.|Agr bCce ne na kr idya to vo Aap
kI vjh se gunahgar bnega|hmare bujurgo. ka trIka 4a ik vo bCco. ko bat
wI khte 4e,mgr Pyar ke A.daj me,be3a Agr Aap 0esa krdo to merI bDI
quxI hogI|be3a ye kr do to mE tuMhe bDI duAa0. du.gI|jb Aap [s trh se
bat kre.gI,Agr bCce ne bat man lI to vak{ ]sko duAa0. iml ja0.gI|AaEr
Agr n wI manI to km se km vo gunahgar to nhI hoga|]s ke ]pr [s n
manne kI vjh se nhust to nhI pDegI|bcpn kI na balIg ]mr hE|]sko AwI
purI trh pta nhI ik bat n manne kI Kya nhuste hE.|[sI il0 bCco. ko [n
nhusto. se bcane ke il0 kwI Direct order pass n ikjI0|mxvrtn bat ikya
kre.|
[sil0 bCca xIxe kI cIj ]#ata hE AaEr ifr ]sko ha4 lgata hE|ifr ]se
mu>h me le jata hE|ifr mu>h me jakr ]ske jayke ka ]sko pta clgya|ifr vo
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hr cIj ko jmIn pr fe.k kr deqta hE|vo deqna cahta hE ik [skI Aavaj kEsI
AatI hE|bCce ko ye nhI pta hota ik fe.kne se ye cIj 3u3 ja0gI|]ska to
lnIR.g kVhr hE|to Aap ye jhen me rqI0 jb wI ko{ cIj bCce kI phu.c me
hogI bCca phle ha4 lga0ga|ifr ]se mu>h me Dalega|ifr ]se jmIn pr fe.k
kr deqega|Ab xIxe kI 3u3ne valI cIjo. ko bcana ye ma> kI ijMme darI
hE|bCce ne toD idya to ]s kI pI3a{ n kre.|ye bCce ka iftrI Aml 4a jo bCce
ne ikya|kusur ma> ka 4a AaEr mar bCce ko pD rhI hotI hE|ye to xIxe kI
cIje toD deta hE|bCce ne to toDnI hI hE|]sko Kya pta ik ye 3u3 ja0gI ya
nhI 3u3egI|]sne to ye deqa ik [skI Aavaj kEsI hotI hE|7nake kI Aavaj
Aag{,bCca qux ho gya|[s me 0esI Aavaj AatI hE|]ske to jhen [tna hI
kam krna hota hE|
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jvab iml ja0 ifr Apne bCce ko bE# kr bta0.,be3e Aapne muzse sval
pu7a 4a,]s vKt to mE pura jvab nhI de skI|[ska Asl me ye jvab hE|jb Aap
bCce ko mutm{n krdegI to bCca smzega jo merI AMmI khtI hE Ab muze
[s bat ko man lena hE|[s trh bCce Apne ma>-bap ke frmabrdar ho jate
hE.|]nke jhen me bat bE#tI hE|ma> jo khtI hE vo socI smzI bat hotI hE
AaEr mera kam to ]s pr Aml krna hota hE|
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AalIm,hafIj AaEr karI bna lete hE.|to Apne bCco. kI talIm ]nko hr hal me
dIjI0|Agr bCca quda n QvaSta h>dIkPD hE to bCce ko [gnor n kre.,bLkI
Aap ke ]pr fjR hE ]s bCce ko [Lm isqa0. Agr ]sko [Lm Aagya to Ab ]ske
il0 ij.dgI kI Aasainya> ho.gI|hmne bDe h>DIkPD trh ke logo. ko deqa
bDe bDe ibznesmn hote hE.,VhIlceAr pr bE#e huve hote hE.,mgr ]nke
samne jo hE. laqo. kroDo. Ke fEsle hote hE AaEr vo naEjvan ijnkI talIm ]
nke pas hE h>dIkPD hone ke bavjud [tne behtrIn vo vjIr bnte hE.,[tne
behtrIn [.san bnte hE.,[tne behtrIn AalIm bnjate hE.|to [sil0 bCca kEsI
wI seht ke halt me ho bCce se na]MmId nhI hona caih0|ha>,mehnt mgr
jra Jyada krnI pDtI hE|mgr trbIyt nam [sIka hota hE ik ma> trbIyt AC7I
kre,ma> ne bCce kI trbIyt AC7I kr dI|[ske bdle [sko jNnt imlegI|nbI
ka kubR nsIb hoga|to [sil0 [sko 0k ijMmedarI smzkr pura ikjI0|
[.san Apne doSt ke idn pr hota hE|[sil0 [s bat ka qas qyal rqna|
bCce jra bDe huve,be3I bDI ho g{|Ab tum soce. ik ye ikn lDkIyo. Ke sa4
bE#na ]#na rqtI hE|vo nmajI hE. ya nhI,nek 6ro. kI hE. ya nhI,prde ka
qyal rqne valI hE. ya nhI|Agr be3I Aap kI AC7I hE lekIn [sne doSt 0ese
lDkIyo. ko bna ilya ik jo fasIka hE.,fajIra hE.,kbIra gunaho. ko krnevalI
hE. to kl ko AapkI be3I wI ]NhI. jEsI bn ja0gI|[sil0 [spr Aapne njr rqna
caih0|ye ma>-bap kI ijMmedarI hotI hE|[nko bure doSto.se bca0.|[sil0
phle vKt me mxa0q Apne bCco. ko nsIhte. krte 4e ik iksko doSt bnana
caih0,AaEr iksko doSt nhI bnana caih0|
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[mam jEnul AabIdIn ,[mam jafr sadIk frmate
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qelo. me lgne kI bja0 iktabe. p !te hE.,jo bCco. kI ho,khanIyo. kI
ho,AC7e ntIjevalI ho AaEr bCce ]nko p !te hE. AaEr qux hote hE.|bCco.
ka injamul AaEkat bna de.|Agr jra bDe hoja0. to [sI vKt sona hE,[s vKt
nhana hE,[s vKt qana qana hE,[s vKt p !na hE AaEr [s vKt qelna hE|]sko
jbrdStI qelne pr weje.|bCce ko hmne lula AaEr l.gDa nhI bnana hota|
h>DI kPD nhI bnana hota|qelne ke vKt bCca qele|p !ne ke vKt bCca p !
e|qane ke vKt qa0 AaEr sone ke vKt so0|[sil0 bCce kI AC7I trbIyt wI yhI
hE,AC7I seht wI ho|[sil0 jb AC7I seht hogI tb ifr idmag wI AC7a hoga|0k
AC7a idmag hmexa AC7e bdn me huva krta hE to ye ma>-bap kI trbIyt
hE ijske Asrat bCco. pr hote hE.|
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AC7a fdR bnega|Agr lDkI hE to AC7I fdR bn kr rhe gI,AaEr Aap kI ij.dgI
me quxIya. Aa0.gI|shaba0 ikram [sI bat ko samne rqte 4e|
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vo nbIyo. me rahmt lkb pane vale,
murade. grIbo. kI br lane vale,
]stad ne k{ bar kha ik xa0r ne vala kha hE mgr vo [sI trh p !ta|AC7a Ab
ye [s gltI ko i#k krlega|lekIn bCce ne jb Annual Function ke ]pr nat
suna{ to ifr vale p !a|Deputy Commissioner Aaya huva 4a|]sne Apne
qutbe me kha ik Aajkl ]stad bCco.ka qyal nhI krte|ye deqI0 ko{ kamyab
i3cr ne bCce ko njm ya nat p !a{|bCce ne vala nhI vale kha ]stad ko pta
hI nhI ik xa0r ne Kya ilqa hE ? lDka Kya p! rha hE|cuna.ce ]stad kI be[JjtI
huvI|pure mjme ke A.dr ]skI DubkI huvI|hala.kI ]sne to inxandhI kr id
4I|]sne kha [s bCce ne merI bat nhI manI AaEr muze sb ke samne =sva
kridya|cuna.ce sal pura huva|Agle sal ke Klaso. me bCce cle g0|AjIb
ALlah kI xan deqI0|]s bCce kI Klas ke xu= ke idn 4e|]nme 0k idn
Mathemaitics ka i3cr nhI Aaya 4a|0k Period Recess se phle 4a|Halt
Time se phle 4a|0k Period Half Room ke [slaimyat ke i3cr farIg
hE.|]nka Period qalI 4a|]Nho.ne ]s i3cr ko kha Aap Klas me cle ja0.|]nke
i3cr nhI Aa0|ADimxn ka phla idn 4a|[nke pas iktabe. wI nhI hE.|Aap
[nse jra ko{ Pyar muhBbt kI bate. krte rhe.|bCco. ka vKt gujr ja0ga ye
xaer nhI kre.ge|
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]stad to ye khkr guSse me cle g0,bCce wI ]# g0|lekIn 4oDe bCce
]ske doSt 4e vo ]ske krIb bE# g0,AaEr vo gmjda njr Aa rhe 4e|[s bCce
ko to kwI mar nhI pDI 4I|ye Klas me fS3R Aane vala bCca 4a|Aaj mar
pDI to bCca iblk iblk kr ro rha 4a|4PpD lge 4e,D.De lge 4e|Aa>su po.7
rha 4a|mgr iksI se ku7 nhI kh rha 4a|ku7 der ke bad Ahmd ]#a AaEr
baher gya AaEr [sne vax besIn pr ja kr Apne vehre ko 2oya,fe/x hogya
AaEr ifr Aakr Apne Klas me bE# gya|sarI Klas bE# g{|jb dobara pIreD
lga to i3cr Aa0 Apna D.Da lhrate huve|]Nho.ne kha Ahmd qDe ho javo
to Ahmd qDa hogya|ifr pu7a btavo hmare pEg.br ka nam Kya hE ?
Ahmd ne kha hjrt muhMmd ,]stad qux ho g0 khne lge tum ne phle
Kyo. n btaya ? lDka ifr qamox hE ? ifr pu7a btavo phle Kyo. nhI bta rhe
4e ? lDka ifr qamox hE |Ab ]stad smz g0 [ske A.dr ko{ raj hoga|]stad
krIb Aag0,AaEr krIb Aakr ]Nho.ne bCce ke sr pr xfKkt se ha4 rqa|]sko
Apne sIne se lgaya|=qsar ka bosa ilya|tum mere xaigdR ho mere be3e
ke jEse ho|
ne vale kha|
AaEr ]stad ne pu7a nam Kyo. n btaya ? khne lga mere ABbu muze
kha krte 4e ik be3a nbI ka nam kwI wI be vju n lena|mera ]svKt
vju nhI 4a|AapkI mar mE ne qa lI,Aap merI hDDIya> wI toD dete mE
mar to qa leta mgr nbI ka nam bgEr vju n leta|Ab mE [s haf
3a{m ke A.dr vju kr ke Aaya hu>|Aap ne pu7a mE ne Apne mhebub ka
nam bta idya|socI0 to shI 0k masum bCca Apne bap ke bat kI iktnI [Jjt
rqta hE|4PpD qa rha hE,D.De qa rha hE|mgr nbI ka nam be vju lene
pr Aamada nhI hota|ye to ma>-bap kI trbIyt hotI hE|AC7I trbIyt kre.ge
to bCce bcpn se hI vlI bn ja0.ge|AaEr Agr trbIyt AC7I n hogI to bDe ho
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kr hr idn kI prexanI bn ja0.ge|Aaj iktne ma>-bap hE. jo AaElado. kI AC7I
trbIyt n krne kI vjh se Akele me 7up 7up kr rote hE.|iksI ko bta wI nhI
skte|vo jante hE. ]nko iktna duq phu>c rha hE|ALlah tAala se duAa hE
ik vo hmare idlo.ko nek bna de AaEr Aane valI kyamt tk kI nslo. ko
ihdayt nsIb frma de|hmare bCco. kI AC7I trbIyt frma de|jo koxIx hmare
bs me hE vo koxIx hm kre.|AaEr ifr bCco. ke il0 duAa ma.ge|p.jabI ke
AxAar hE. mumkIn hE ik Aap smz to n ske.|lekIn [s maEke pr p !ne ko jI
cah rha hE|kha
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nek AOlad
kI trbIyt
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[sil0 jb wI ALlah rBbul [Jjt se AOlad kI duAa0. ma.ge to hm nek AOlad
kI duAa0. ma.ge|bCco. ka nek hona,ma> bap ka ApnI AOlad kI trbIyt
krna ye ALlah rBbul [Jjt ko bhut ps.d hE|
hjrt lukman AlE ne Apne be3e ko nsIhte. kI|PyarI PyarI bate. suna{.|
ALlah rBbul [Jjt ko [tnI AC7I lgI. ik ]nko kurAane mjId me nkl wI frmaya
AOr surt ka nam wI lukman rqa|A.bIya0 ikram ne ApnI ij.dgIyo. me ApnI
AOlado. ke il0 duAa0. ma.gI|leikn Agr ]nkI duAaAo. ke Alfaj deqe. ja0. to
isfR ]Nhone AOlad nhI ma.gI blik nek AOlad ma.gI|
hjrt [braihm AlE ko bu!apa jakr AOlad imlI|to duAa ma.gte 4e,
SvaFfat:
mrym: ,
mrym:
mrym:
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mere bal sfed ho kr cmkne lge|
mrym: ,
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hjrt jkrIya AlE duAa0. ma.g rhe hE|ALlah tAala kI xan deqI0 kI bIbI
mrym mehrab me hE,msjId me hE|jkrIya AlE ]nko 7oD kr khI. davt ke
kam pr cle g0|jra der ke bad vaps Aa0|qyal 4a ik bIbI mrym ke pas
qana qtm ho cuka hoga|lekIn jb vha> Aa0 to ]nko bemaEsm ke fl qate
deqa|pu7a
AalI[mran:
AalI[mran:
AalI[mran:
AalI[mran:
AalI[mran:
AalI[mran:
bee3a wI idya to yhya AlE 0esa nam jo phle kwI iksI ne rqa nhI
AaEr ifr ye wI frma idya ik [tna pakdamn hoga ik AaErto. se 0k trf rhne
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vala ALlah ka nbI,nekokar hoga|ALlah tAala AaElad wI dete hE. AaEr
nekokar wI dete hE.|yhI sbse bDI tmNna honI caih0|cuna.ce bap kI
duAa ko kurAan mjId me Aap ne sun ilya ik [b/ahIm AlE ne wI duAa0.
ma.gI AaEr hjrt jkrIya AlE ne wI duAa0. ma.gI|iblAaqIr ALlah rBbul [Jjt ne
]nko AaElad Ata kI|yhI hal ma> ka hota hE,]ske idl kI wI tmNna hotI hE
ik ALlah tAala ]se wI nek bCce Ata frma de.|
AalI[mran:
AalI[mran:
AalI[mran:
to ]skI [s nek nIytI kI vjh se ALlah tAala ]sko nek AaElad Ata frma
dete hE.|
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yha> se ma>-bap kI duAa0. hE.,AwI bCce kI buinyad pD rhI
hE,AaEr kb tk ma>-bap kI tmNna0. rhetI hE. ik AaElad nek bn ja0,jb tk
[s duinya se =qst nhI ho jate|cuna.ce kurAan pak kI trf =ju ikjI0|
bkra :
Ab deqI0 maEt ka vKt Aagya|]s vKt yakub AlE Apne bCco. ko [ka
krke ]nse pu7te hE.,mere be3o. mere bad tum ikskI [badt kroge ?
cuna.ce jb bCco. ne AC7a jvab de idya ik hm Aap hI ke [lah kI [badt
kre.ge to qux ho g0|ALlah tAala ne kurAan pak me frma idya
bkra :
bkra :
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hota,ko{ idn nhI hota,nek ma>-bap kI to duAa0. hotI hE.|ye to [sil0 purI
ij.dgI ka mamla hE|
[brahIm :
[brahIm :
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furkan:
furkan:
[brahIm :
[brahIm :
[brahIm :
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[brahIm :
[brahIm :
0e ALlah logo. ke idlo.ko [skI trf mayl frma idjI0 taik [nko logo. ke
A.dr mhbubIyt nsIb ho|kbulIyt nsIb ho,[Jjt nsIb ho|0e ALlah [nko logo.ka
mjra bna idjI0|0e ALlah [nko logo.ke A.dr kbulIyt Ata frma idjI0 AOr sa4
me duAa wI ma.gI|
[brahIm :
[brahIm :
[tnI PyarI duAa [brahIm AlE ne Apne bCco. ke il0 ma.gI|Aaj wI caih0
hr ma> hr bap ApnI AOlad ke il0 yhI duAa ma.ge|mgr inYyt ye kre kre.
[brahIm :
[brahIm :
[brahIm :
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[sse msijd ko murad iljI0|Aam tOr pr logo. ke 6r,muslmano. ke 6r qas
tOr pr msijd ke krIb hote hI hE.|kwI c.d imN3 ke fasle pr to kwI ds imN3
ke ke fasle pr hote hE.|to ye inYyt ikjI0|0e ALlah tere 6rke krIb me
hmne ApnI AOlad ko mkan bna kr idya AOr yha> ka mahOl dInI nhI,0e
ALlah inYyt hmarI ye hE
[brahIm :
[brahIm :
[brahIm :
0e ALlah logo. ke idlo. me [nkI muhBbt Dal idjI0|log [Jjt se pex Aa0.|
log [nka [kram kre.|tarIfe. kre.|log quxI quxI [nse imle. AOr AC7e Aqlak
ka btaRv kre.|0e ALlah hmarI AOlad ko 0esI kbulIyt idjI0|
[brahIm :
AOr 0e ALlah [nko qane ko fl idjI0|Agr fl iml skte hE. to ro3I panI to
tklIf kI bat nhI hE|[ska mtlb hE ik ALlahtAala fKt ro3I panI hI nhI blik
[ske sa4 sa4 ]nko qane ke il0 fl wI Ata frma0.ge|pakIja irjk Ata
frma0.ge,[ska mtlb Kya hoga ?
[brahIm :
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sba :
sba :
Ahkaf :
deiq0 vo xukr Ata kr rhe hE.,jo neAmt ALlahne ]npr kI ya ]nke vailde
maijd pr kI to nek AOlad to ma> bap ke il0 wI duAa0. ma.gtI hE AOr
burI AOlad to duinya me wI ma>-bap ke il0 tklIf kI vjh bntI hE AOr AaqIr
me wI|burI AOlad ka Kya khe. ? [.sano. ke il0 to vo 73I ].glI kI trh hotI
hE,na [.san ]sko ka>3 skta hE na brdaXt kr skta hE|hotI to AOlad hI hE|
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Ab ma> bap ko ]nke pas rhna to hota hI hE|mgr idl hI idl me 6u3 6u3
ke jI rhI hotI hE|[s burI AOlad ka Kya khna ?
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Ahjab :
Ahjab :
deiq0 kurAan mjId kI Aayt Kya bta rhI hE|Agr hmne AOlad ko dIn na
isqaya,nek na bnaya,duAa0. n ma.gI,ye kyamt ke idn mkma dayr
kre.ge|krtut Apne ho.ge,bdmaxIya> ApnI ho.gI,gunah Apne ho.ge,mgr
Apne Aapko bcane kI qatIr ma>-bap ke sr pr Dal de.ge,khe.ge
0e ALlah [nko dugna Ajab idjI0 AOr ifr isfR Ajab tk kI bat nhI|kurAan
pak me hE ik Alfaj ho.ge,vo wI saf khe.ge,
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ne nhI bta{,blik ye btlaya ik ma> kI god me Aanese phle hI bCcI ke }pr
Asrat Aane xu= ho jate hE.|
| duAavo. ka Asr-
bCce ke pEda[x se phle hI ma>-bap kI duAa0.,duAavo. ka Asr hota
hE|ma>-bap kI nekIyo.ka Asr hota hE|to Asr phle hI se xu= ho jata hE|
deiq0 dIne [slam ne phlese hI inxandehI krdI hE|
hjrt nOman 0k bujugR gujre hE.,]Nhone Apne be3e saidk ko hjrt AlI
kI iqdmt me pex ikya AOr kha ik 0e AmI=l momInIn mere be3e
ko AOlad nhI|Aap [ske il0 duAa frma0.|hjrt AlI ne duAa frma dI|
saidk ko be3a huva,]sne Apne vaild ke nam pr nOman rqa|cuna.ce ye
bCca nOman ibn saidk bna|nOman jb bDa huva to ye Apne vKt ka
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nko ]s ratme brkt Ata frma dI|]nke yha> 0k be3a huva ijska nam ]
Nhone ]mr rqa|ye ]mr jb jvan huva,ALlahne ]sko ]mr ibn ABdul AzIz bna
idya|to ye Asrat hote hE.|to AOlad kI pEda{x ke bad ma> kI god phla
mdrsa nhI hota blik ]sse phle se Asrat xu= ho jate hE.|ye dIne [slam ka
huSn hE|]sne hme inxandehI krdI|phle se hI bta idya ik fla. jgh se,fla.
vKt se [spr Asrat Aate hE.|to ye sb soc iljI0 ik AOlad kI ]MmId lgne se
phle hI ma> bap kI ij.dgI nekI pr ho,AOr ma> ke A.dr [qlas hoga AoEr
ma>-bap ke A.dr ALlahrBbul [Jjt se muhBbt hogI to ]nkI duAa0.,]nke il0
nek AOlad ka sbb bn ja0.gI|cuna.ce ]s ]mr se hI [nke }pr Asrat hote hE.|
ma>-bap nek ho.ge,AOlad me nekI ke Asrat m.utikl ho.ge|
cuna.ce 0k dfa khI. ja rhe 4e|nhr ke iknare pr 4e|wuq lgI huvI 4I,mgr
ku7 wI qane ko nhI 4a|ALla ALlah kI yad kr rhe 4e|[s wuk kI halt me jb ]
Nhone nher ke panI ko deqa to 0k seb ]nko tErta huva njr Aaya,]nko
wuk lgI huvI 4I,]Nhone vo seb le ilya AOr qa ilya|jb ku7 pe3 me cla gya
to qyal Aaya ik ye seb to mera nhI 4a|malum nhI iks b.de qada ka hE|
mE ne to ibla [jajt seb qa ilya|kyamt ke idn jvab dena pDega|Ab prexanI
huvI|deiq0 ALlahvalo. ko 7o3I 7o3I bato. pr wI prexanI hotI hE ik hmse
ALlahtAala kI ko{ wI nafrmanI n ho|iksI b.de ka 4oDa sa wI hk hmare }
pr n Aa0|cuna.ce socne lge ik mE Kya k=. ? idl me qyal Aaya ik jha.se
panI Aa rha hE Agr mE ]2r hI vaips cla ja]. to ho skta hE ijs b.deka seb
igra hE,muze vo b.da vaips iml ja0|Ab duAa0. ma.gte huve ]2r ko ja rhe
hE.|ku7 dur Aage cle g0|[nko seb ka 0k bag njr Aaya,ijskI drQto. kI
xaqe. nhr ke panI ke }pr tk fElI huvI 4I.|ye smz g0 ik iksI b.dene yha. pr
seb igrane kI koxOx kI hogI AOr vo panI me bhta huva muze imla AOr
mE ne qa ilya|clo mE [s bag ke mailk se [skI mafI ma.g leta hu.|mere
pas to pEse to nhI,cuna.ce ye socte huve wI mailk ko imle AOr ]nko jakr
btaya ik mE wuka 4a,seb njr Aaya mE ne qa ilya|bad me qyal Aaya ik
ye iksI ka hk hE|mere }pr Aa gya|Ab ya to muzse mjdurI le iljI0,mere
pas to pEse wI nhI hE. jo mE de sku. AOr ya ifr muze maf kr idjI0|]s bag
ke malIk ko pta nhI Kya suzI,vo khne lga,ha>,mE Aapko maf nhI k=.ga|
mE kyamt ke idn Apna hk ma.g l.uga|tb ]skI imNnt ismajt krne lge|ik
wa{ muzse gltI ho g{|ALlah ke il0 maf krdo|Agr nhI krte to muzse
ko{ makul mjdurI le lo|khne lga AC7a mE maf to nhI krta muft me AaEr
mjdurI lu.ga|khne lge kaEnsa kam krvavoge mE krne ko tyar hu>|
duinya kI tklIfe. ]#ana Aasan hE|AaqIrt kI tklIf ]#ana muxkil kam hE|to
bag ke malIk ne kha,merI 0k be3I hE|jvanul ]mr hE|lekIn A.2I hE,bherI
hE,gu.gI hE.,lul AaEr l.gDI hE|yanI h>DI kPD hE|0k goXt ka lo4Da smz
iljI0|Agr tum ]sse inkah kro AOr sarI ij.dgI ]skI iqdmt kro to ifr mE tuMhe
Apna hk maf k=.ga|vrna maf nhI kr skta|Ab ye becare socte rhe,ifr idl
me qyal Aaya ik [s trh kI ij.da lax se inkah kr lena AOr sarI ijd.gI ]skI
iqdmt krna ye Aasan hE leikn kyamt ke idn iksI b.de ke hk ka jvab dena
ye muxikl kam hE|cu.nace [s bat ke il0 tyar ho g0|
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vKt ty ho gya|inkah ho gya|inkah ke bad =qstI huvI|jb ye phlI rat
ApnI bIvI ko imlne ke il0 txrIf le g0,Kya deqte hE. ? bhut hI qubsurt,ijskI
Aa>qe. AC7I,juban AC7I,kan AC7e,ha4 pEr AC7e,jo [tnI qubsurt 4I ik
jEse hur prI hotI hE|vo bE#I huvI hE dulhn bn kr|[Nhone slam ikya,pu7a
Aap ]s bagban kI be3I hE. ? vo khne lgI jI|pu7a ik Aap kI ko{ AOr bhn wI
hE ? ]sne kha nhI,mE Apne vaild kI AkelI be3I hu.|bDe hEran huve,idl
me socte rhe [ske vaild ne to muze SpesIfIkexn ku7 AOr bta0 4e AOr
mE to [tnI PyarI,qubsurt bIvI ik [.san soc wI nhI skta|bher hal imya>
bIvI kI Aapsme AC7I rat gujr gyI|Agle idn [nkI ssur se mulakat huvI,to
ssur sahb ne slam ke bad fOrn pu7a , suna0. Aap ne Apne mheman ko
kEsa paya ? ye khne lge ik Aapne to btaya 4a ik vo A.2I hE,bherI
hE,gu.gI hE,lulI l.gDI hE AOr mere jhn me to yhI byan 4a|leikn jo merI
bIvI hE vo to shI slamt t.d=St hI nhI blik [tnI qubsurt ik laqo. me 0k hE|
ye Kya mamla hE ?
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bna|to jb ma> 0esI hotI hE AOr bap 0esa hota hE,to be3a wI
AOlIya ka badxah bna idya|
Aaj kl log [s suNnt ka qyal nhI rqte AOr ilbas h3a dete hE.|ijn AOr
xEtan deqte hE.,ifr khte hE. ik jI bCcI pr ijnka Asr ho gya|fla. pr ijn ka
Asr ho gya,xEtanI Asrat ho g0|hmne nbI AlE kI suNnt ko 7oD kr qud
Apne il0 musIbte. qrIdI hE.|[sil0 imya> bIvI ko caih0 ik jb [ka hone ka
[rada kre. to Apne kpDo. ko Alg krne se phle ibsimLlah p! le.|taik ]nko
0k dusre se imlne ke il0 ko{ xEtan deq n ske,ko{ ijn deq n ske|to xrIAt
ne ye nuKta wI yha> bta idya,ye wI frma idya ik dono ko ikbla =q nhI
hona caih0|blik xrIAt ne ye bat khI ik Agr Apna ilbas h3a0. wI shI 0k bDI
cadr ho,ijske A.dr dono. vo 0k dusre se imle.|[s bDI cadr kI vjhse ALlah
rBbul [Jjt ]nkI hone valI AOlado. me hya Ata frma0.ge|[sil0 ]lma ne ye
bat iktabo. me ilqI ik jo imya> bIvI Apne }pr bDI cadr lene ka 0htmam
krte hE.,ALlahne iftrI tOrpr ]nkI AOlad ko xrimla bnaya,hya vala bnaya|
to ye ALlah rBbul [Jjt kI trfse muAamlat hote hE.|
deiq0 xrIAt ne hme kEse kEse barIk bato. ke bare me btla idya|blik
buqarI xrIf me hm ibStrI ke vKt ye duAa hE jo mdR ko caih0 ik vo p! le|
AOr jb mdR ko [.jal ho to hsne hsIn ke A.dr ye duAa hE|]n duAaAo. ko
yad kr lena caih0|ALlahuMm la tjAl ilxxEtanI fI ma rjktnI
nsIba|
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cuna.ce jb imya> bIvI dono. imlap kr cuke. AOr ]ske bad ]nko
caih0 ik thart ke A.dr jLdI kre.|jLdI kI AaqrI hd me hE ik ]nkI nmaj kja n
ho AOr ]lma ne iktabo. me ilqa hE Agr imya> bIvI ke imlap se AOlad ka
nuTfa #hr gya,mgr bIvI ya imyta> kI AglI nmaj kja ho gyI to ]nkI AOlad
faisk bnegI|[sil0 ye 0k 0esa mamla hE ijsme mdo.R AOr AOrto. dono. kI
trfse kotahI hotI hE|imlte hE.,ifr AglI nmaj Agr fjr kI hE to vo kja ho gyI|
ya ko{ AOr hE to vo kja ho gyI|AOrte. pakI AOr gusl ka [qtIyar jra der
krtI hE. AOr [s dOran nmaj kja kr bE#tI hE.|0k bat nuKte kI yad rqna,jb
wI imya> bIvI kI imlap kI vjhse ]nkI AglI nmaj kja huvI,Agr [s imlap kI
vjh se ]nko AOlad hogI to ]s AOlad ke A.dr ifSk v fujur Aa ja0ga|jb ma>
ne hI [s Aml kI vjhse ALlah ke hukum ko toD idya to ifr fl wI to 0esa hI
imlna hE|[sil0 [s bat ka bDa qyal rq.e|
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husEn jNnt ke jvano. ke srdar bna krte hE.|jb bap [braihm AleE
ho AOr bIvI hajra AlE ho to ifr [sma{l jbIhuLlah bna krta hE|[sil0 imya>
bIvI ko caih0 ik ApnI ij.dgI ka =q i#k kre.|nek bn ja0.,ApnI AOlad ke il0
Aaj se hI duAa0. krnI xu= kr de. AOr jb 0k dusre ke sa4 imlap ho,xrIAt
ke 0hkam ke mutaibk ho.|]skI vjhse nmaje. kja n ho.|bexmIR AOr
behya{ ka mamla n ho|blik ALlah se nek AOlad kI tmNna ho|janvro.
vala msla n ho|
phle jmane me soc hI nhI skte 4e|n0 dOr kI bat hE,hme Aakr bap
btata hE ik mere be3e ne muze jute se mara|ma> btatI hE duAa ikjI0
be3e kI ihdayt ke il0|be3I kI ihdayt ke il0|0k ma> ne Ameirka me duAa
krvayI ik mE Apna gm iksko btaAo.,mE ne bee3I ko kha bayf/e.D n
bnaAo AOr be3I ne guSseme Aakr muze jute se mara|jb ma> bap Apne
Aapko [s trh kI janvro. valI hrkto. me [s vKt muliVvs kre.ge to AOlad
0esI hI hogI jo Apne ma>-bap ko juto. se maregI|0ese km bQt AOlad se
ALlah rBbul [Jjt hme mhfuj frma0,[sil0 yurop kI talImat pr Aml krne kI
bja0 [slam kI talImat ko Apna0.|
[sil0 Aaj hmne [s pr iDsks ikya ik ma> kI god se phle hI ma> kI kok
me hI bCce pr Asrat xu= ho jate hE.|hmne Aaj ke [s ]nvan me [s bat ko
qola ik ma>-bap phle hI se duAa0. kre. AOr xrIAt kI bato. ka qyal kre.
taik bCce kI buinyad pDne se phle hI ALlah kI trfse qEr ke fEsle ho.|rBbe
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krIm hmarI AOlad ko neko kar bna de AOr hmarI gltI kotahIyo.se drgujr
frma de AOr jo gltIya> hm kr cuke Ab ndamt ke isva ha4 me Kya hE ?
ALlah tAala hmare gunaho. ko maf frma de AOr hme AOlad kI trfse
quxIya. Ata frma de|AOlad ke gmo. se mhfuj frma de|AOlad ke duqo.
me se mhfuj frmade|AOlad kI prexanIyo.se mhfuj frma de|jb bap ko
be3e kI trfse prexanI ho,ma> ko be3I kI trfse prexanI ho,ko{ b.da ]nke
duq ka A.daja nhI lga skta|dusro. ko Kya pta ? becare 7up 7up kr ro rhe
hote hE.|rote wI hE.,logo. ko Aa>su wI nhI deqne dete|ye to idl ka gm
hota hE jo 0k vKt ka nhI,cObIs 6.3o. ka gm hE,sote hE. to idl gmgIn
hota hE|jagte hE. to idl gmgIn hota hE|ALlahtAala 0ese gmo. se mhfuj
frma de|hmarI AOlado. ko nekokar bna de|kyamt ke idn hm sbko Apne
samne kI srqu=yI Ata frmade|
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