f Change:
to management
own role and responsibility
organisational structure redundancies for example.
Recognising these stressors and your emotional response to them enables you
to begin the journey to developing your emotional intelligence. You may already
be well on the way, particularly if your emotional responses are positive ones.
Activity 1.2
2. For each of your stressors, identify the emotional state it causes within you
and whether it is a positive or negative state.
f If the need is being compromised, how are you going to deal with it
objectively without being over-sensitive and emotional?
As a manager or leader, controlling your emotional responses is a vital skill that
gets more natural with experience. It is important to remember that when you
detach yourself from a situation it gives you time to choose how to respond as
opposed to giving a reflex reaction.
Below is an example of potential stressors and emotional triggers experienced
by a police officer and the subsequent emotional strength and positive emotional
response the officer might use to deal rationally and objectively with the issue.
Positive
Emotional Emotional
Work related stressor emotional
trigger(s) strength
response
Using personal protective f Order f Calm and f Channelled
equipment to temporarily f Safety reasonable energy
disable/disarm a violent under f Self-control
offender pressure
Giving evidence in court f To be in f Honesty f Self-control
control
f To be right
f To be
respected
f Justice
Delivering a death f Predictability f Empathy f Pragmatism
message f Justice f Sympathy f Self-control
f Balance f Honesty
Activity 1.3
Using the table below, identify your own emotional triggers in relation to your
personal work related stressors, the emotional strength you would draw on to
deal with it, and the positive emotional response you intend to give.
Role and industry sector:
Positive
Work related Emotional Emotional
emotional
stressor trigger(s) strength
response