Professor Rodrick
English 115
11/24/17
Acceptance
At any point in life, everyone is going to have to come across the act of acceptance.
orientation, beliefs, etc. The author, Luis Alfonso, wrote a story called Minnie Riperton Saved
My Life that demonstrated the problem of having to change his identity to be able to fit into
society. Alfonso and his brother were put into a different school in a completely different
environment. In this new environment, Alfonso doesnt seem to find anyone who is like him. He
attempts to fit in but couldnt when he noticed that he dressed differently and listened to different
music. His love for Jazz wasnt known in this new school, but it was that same genre that later
saved his life. Not Jazz in general but Minnie Riperton as a whole. Riperton was the reason
alfonso fell in love with Jazz in the first place which later became the key to his acceptance of
himself, of who he really is. In the beginning Alfonso was trying to change his identity to fit into
his surroundings but in the end accepted who he really was instead of having to become someone
else that he knew he wasnt. Jazz was there to show him, to let him feel what he was meant to be.
The theme of acceptance can be performed either within our own identity or someone/thing else.
In the beginning, Alfonso just wanted to seem natural in his new environment when he
had to switch schools in a different city. In Alfonsos previous school, the people around him
were a little similar to him with music and the way he dressed but in the new school, the person
who he was in the old school wasnt going to work here. The way his brother and him dressed
made them stand out which led them to having to buy other clothing that would blend in with
everyone else. He also noticed that these people didnt know what Jazz was. So the only way to
make friends at Wilson was to keep soul music inside [his] soul(Alfonso). We see that Wilson
doesnt want to have to make this change but he realizes that no one is going to connect to him in
that way so he has to pretend to listen to their kind of music. With the new students he had to
listen to Eagles and Queen and Alice Cooper and Boston(Alfonso). During school he would
become this new person to be able to fit into the space around there but once he would get out of
the school he would go and listen to Jazz. This portion of the story is a small yet huge example
of how easily Alfonso was able to accept the new environment and become someone who he
wasnt just to fit in even though he had to change a little for it. In the picture, its stated I
wonder if I would be happier if I put as much effort into accepting myself as I do into changing
myself. Changing who he was just to fit in was simple but why couldnt Alfonso do the same
about just accepting the difference and continue dressing the way hes used to and music he
likes. This was just one way he demonstrated acceptance in the beginning but in the end we see
love with the Jazz and had a wonderful effect on him. Jazz was the
thing that had the power to present to him to be able himself and get
involve with others like him instead of doing the opposite. Anywhere
else outside his comfort zone he might not have the success on finding
others like him but with Jazz he was in the world of [his] people. A
corners(Alfonso). The description might not be a lot but its enough to let the readers know how
much he was attracted to the music. He gives the readers this sense of you know the feeling
because we all have that type of music that just hits us in the right spot. The way the music gets
us on our feet and makes us dance and love life at the moment. Jazz was Alfonsos love and it
was enough to help him see himself in a better sense. In the end he comes to the sense that he has
the strength to be himself. This was shown when he states I was free. I was a queer Mexican
boy from the barrio, but I was also one of the soul train dancers(Alfonso). He didnt care about
having to listen to songs that he didnt like to fit in whether it was in school or even his family.
All he cared about was that same moment of pure lust where he hit the high-note and felt the
vibe in that moment. We see how Alfonso demonstrated his own acceptance with himself not
only with sexual orientation but as a whole person. This kind of acceptance isnt only focused
within someone but can also be towards a topic. In this case homosexuality.
Tom W. Smith talks about an interesting occurrence that had happened involving the
of Homosexuality Finds GSS Report. He gave credit to NORC at the University of Chicago
who researched that Although sharply divided, public attitudes toward gays and lesbians are
rapidly changing to reflect greater acceptance, with younger generations leading the way. Smith
supports this proposition with statics and changes between the acceptance/hate between towards
homosexuality. He mentioned that comparing the support from people 2 decades ago went from
11 percent approval in 1988 to 46 percent in 2010(Smith). Just from the small information that
was provided we can clearly see that the acceptance of homosexuality grew. Though some
people view it as a negative thing now, we can still say that most of the people are happy with
the change. This shows the same type of acceptance that we saw with Alfonso in both identity
and sexual orientation. These two can both be connected in that way. Though one talks about
within the person and the other towards others, they both still construct a theme of acceptance.
demonstrated his example of acceptance but Tara Ison also connected to this in her own way of
showing her own acceptance in her story Cactus. In Minnie Saved My Life, Alfonsos main
focus was about how Jazz was able to lead to him accepting who he was but in Cactus, Holly
shows how she accepts not only herself but in a way everything that has happened with Joshs
death and everything after that. She doesnt directly say it to the readers but we can grab the
context when she mentions Each spine taps my blood, then my bones, and this makes me feel
boundless, and vast. This is something I can succumb to, this is something I can feel(Ison). This
way its more visualization rather than literal. Isons goal was not show that Holly was literally
hugging the cactus but for us to see that she accepts what happened and the cactus was the only
reminder. This might not be a direct acceptance to herself but this does follow through the theme
Alfonso was able to express the theme of acceptance in his story in the end when he
agreed that he was a queer mexican boy from the barrio. Readers would see this themselves but
in between lines we see that Alfonso was demonstrating that idea that identity can also be
changed until one can finally accept who they are and who they want to be. Minnie Saved My
Life demonstrated the overall theme while Cactus and the article can support the claim.