Catalysis Coaching Education&Learning Strategy PeakPerformancemanagement

Purpose&Passion
Woman: TheHelperTheInfluencer TheRib
whyarewehere?
1.Togetyouthinking
2.Toleaveyouwithquestionsratherthananswers
TheGenie:UnequalledAbilities

Inthesimplestterms:TheFemalebrainhastwiceas
muchgoingonInit.Shecommunicatesback&forth
betweenthetwobrainhemispheres,socomparedto
themaleshehastwiceasmuchtounderstand,tosay
andalsotwiceasmuchpotentialforerror.Because
herbrainprocessesmoreinformationshehasgreater
difficultymakingadecision.

Themalehasanarrowerview,butisgenerallynotas
easilyswayed
Five TennisPlayingTipsToHelpYouImproveYour
TennisGame

Tip1
Workonyourstrokesinslowmotionathome.Make
surethateverypartofthe strokeisinrhythmand
feelsverysmoothandloose.

Tip2
Makesurethateveryballyouhithasa specifictarget.
Aimforeithertherightorlefthip.
Tip3
Learnto havecertaincuestohelpyouwithyour
strokes.Inmatches,whenthepressureison,
everybodygetstightandlessfluid. Bytalkingto
yourself, youcanincreaseyourchancestostayloose
andfluid.

Tip4
Whenyou'rehittingtheballfocusonfluidityand
weightbyusingbothyourupperbodyandyour
lowerbody.Toomanyplayersarejustarmhitters
anddon'tusethelowerbodywell.
Tip5
Usepracticetimeintelligently.Whenyougotothe
courtsalwayshavesomethingyou'reworkingon
perhapsashotyoudon'thitwellnowbutknowthat
youneed.
Forexample,youmightwanttoimproveyourslice
serve.So,whenyou'rewarminguporplayingpractice
points,makeitapointtotrytohitsomesliceserves.
Evenifyoucan'tdoitproperlyyet,it'simportantto
keepexperimentinguntilyougetabetter
understandingoftheshot.
Overall

ThetwotimeSydneychamp,JustineHenindefeated
AnaIvanovicinagruelingbattleoncentercourtatthe
MedibankInternational. Heninstruggledabitwithher
serve,going47%onfirstserveswith11double
faults. Buttheweatherconditionsweretoughforboth
players,Theconditionswereprettytough. No,it'snot
ashotasitisinMelbourne,butstillitwasquite
difficultonthecourtandprettywindy,
AnaIvanovichadanothertoughthreesetmatchtoday,
beatingKatarinaSrebotnik633662. TheSerbtook
thefirstsetfairlyeasily. Shewasservingwell,with
threeaces,andreturningwell,onSrebotnikssecond
serve. ButshewasntaseffectiveonherSrebotniks
firstserve.
ThenoiseoftheSerbianfansmayhavealsobeena
littledistractingforAnaIvanovictoday. Itcertainlywas
forSrebotnik,whostoppedherservicemotionseveral
timestoquitethecrowd. Thechairumpirealsogot
involvedandmaderepeatedattemptsatquittingthe
crowd. Thereweretimestheywerealittlebitnoisy
betweenthepints,evenbetweentheservestalking,
Ivanovicadmitted
DanielaHantuchovaandNicoleVaidisovafacedoffin
thefirsteveningmatch. Therearealotofsimilarities
betweenthesetwoplayers. Botharetall,havebig
serves,andbothareconsideramongtheattractive
girlsontour. Anothersimilaritywastheybothfaced
threesetscaresyesterday.

ButtodaywouldbestraightsetsforNicole
Vaidisova. Shebroughttheheatinthefirstset
servingupfouraces
LifeisalotlikethegameofTennis.Thosewhodonot
SERVEwellenduploosing.
Thereare3levelsofService&Existence
Serviceto/focusonSelfi.e.onesneeds.

Survival:

Thiswordmeanscontinuedexistence.
Thefactofremainingaliveorinexistence.
Itcouldalsomeanendurance,theabilityorpowerto
bearprolongedexertion,pain,orhardshipdespitethe
ravagesoftime.
UnfortunatelymostNigeriansandindeedblack
peopleperpetuallyoperateatthislevel,whereall
theythinkaboutistheirownindividualsurvivalin
spiteofthenextperson.
Serviceto/focusonselfi.e.oneswants&ambitions

Success:

Thiswordmeansanachievementofsomething,i.e
somethingthatturnsoutasplannedorintended.
Itcanalsomeantheimpressiveachievementof
something,especiallytheattainmentoffame,wealth,
orpower.

Insocietytodayapersonisregardedassuccessful
whenheorshebecomeswealthy,famous,or
powerfulbecauseofarecordofachievement.
Serviceto/focusonothersi.eotherpeoplesneeds
&dreams

Significance:

Thequalityofhavingimportanceorbeingregardedas
havingandaddinggreatvalue,havingmeaning,
havinggreatworth.
Asignificantpersonissomeonewithaveryhighsocial
statusorposition,apersonwithgreatinfluence
amongotherpeoplei.ehavingapowerfuland
positiveeffectonpeopleandwhattheydo,oron
eventsthatunfold.Significantpeopleoftenhave
influenceevenbeyondtheirlives.
Examplesofsomesignificantwomen:

RosaPark

OprahWinfrey

MotherTheresa
 SIGNIFICANCE
America

Rosa Parks
United states of america
power
politics

Rasism blacks
freedom
blacks
rights
champion
RosaParkshelpedignitethecivilrightsmovement
andchangetheUnitedStateswhensherefusedto
giveupherseatonasegregatedbusinMontgomery,
Alabama,in1955.Hernamewasbroughttonational
prominence.
AnadmirerofMahatmaGandhiandDrMartinLuther
KingJr,shebelievedthat aheartfilledwithLovecould
conqueranything,sheadvocatedfornonviolence
eveninthefaceofthecivilrightsfight.

Sherealizedthatnosegregationlawupsetblack
peopleinMontgomerymorethanbussegregation.
Over60%ofbuscustomerswereblack;theyformed
themajorityofpassengersandkeptthebuslinein
business.
OnThursdaythe1st ofDecember1955shegotona
busfilledwithpeopleafterwork,RosaParkrefusedto
giveupherseatforawhitemanwhogotonthebus,
hadnoseatandhadnochoicebuttostand,thebus
driverinstructedRosatogetupforthewhiteman
andsherefused,hethreatenedthathewouldgether
arrestedifshedidnotobeyhisinstruction,she
remaineddefiant,shewasarrestedandevendenied
someofherrightsinprison,shewaslaterfound
guilty.Hercasesparkedoffmanyprotests.
Manydemandedthatblacksshouldboycottbusrides
andwalkinsteadorrideonlyintaxisownedbyblacks,
theyalsodemandedforequalrightsonbusses,ifthey
aretoresumeridingonbuses,theyinsistedthatblack
driversmustbehiredtodrivebuses.
Theboycottwasveryeffective,withoutblack
passengers,manyblackrouteswerestopped.
Eventuallyonthe13th ofNovember1956the
SupremeCourtruledthatsegregationonthe
Montgomerybuseswasunconstitutional.WhatRosa
Parksstartedconcludedwithachangeinthelaw,It
alsokickedoffprotestsfromotherAfricanAmericans
inotherstatesintheUSA.
Hersingularactisrecordedasthebeginningofthe
AmericanCivilRightsMovement
NelsonMandelaaskedtomeetherin1990,onhis
firsttriptotheUS,after27yearsinaSouthAfrican
prison,PopeJohnPaulIImetwithRosaParkwhenhe
visitedtheUSin1999andblessedherinrecognition
ofherChristiancontributiontohumanity,she
receivedacongressionalmedalforlifetime
achievementfrompresidentBillClinton,Time
magazinenamedheroneoftheonehundredmost
SIGNIFICANTpeopleofthetwentiethcentury.
Iwouldliketobeknownasapersonwhoisconcernedabout
freedomandequalityandjusticeandprosperityforall
people. RosaParks
 SIGNIFICANCE
Tv Talk Show

Oprah Winfrey
inequality
compassion love
Poverty lack deprivation
hunger hope hopeless
OprahWinfreyhasdistinguishedherselfoverthe
years;AsthehostofTheOprahWinfreyshow,and
thewealthiestandmostinfluentialblackpersonon
earth.Sheisanextraordinarybusinesswoman,a
philanthropist,andastrongvoicefortherightsand
protectionofchildren.Thisisnosurprisesinceatthe
ageofnineshewasrapedbyhernineteenyearold
cousin;tragicallythatwasjustthebeginningofthe
destructionofherchildhood.Aboyfriendofher
motherVernita,alsosexuallyabusedherandsodid
heruncle,thiswentonforfiveyears;theworstpart
ofitwasthatshecouldnottellanybodyaboutit.
TheabuseOprahexperiencedmanifesteditself
outwardly.Herbehaviorbecameoutofcontrol,and
shewaspromiscuousinherearlyteens.Atfourteen
sheshoweduppregnantatherfathersdoorstep;she
eventuallygavebirthprematurelytoababyboy,who
diedshortlythereafter.Vernonherfatheramilitary
officertookherunderhiswingsandinstilled
disciplineinOprah,heinsistedonherimprovement
fromaCstudenttoanAstudent.In1987Oprahsaid
itisbecauseofmyfatherthatIamwhereIam
today.
Oprahbegantograduallytakeresponsibilityforthe
outcomeofherlife.
Shestartedworkatsixteen,earning$100aweekat
WVOL,alocalblacktelevisionstationinNashvilleasa
parttimeannouncer.In1976shewaswooedby
anotherstationWJZTVasanadvertisingcampaign
anchor,shelaterwaspromotedandbecamea
reporter,shefailedinthatrolebecauseofher
personality,theproblemwithOprahwasthatshewas
toopeopleoriented,tobeahardnosedreporter;
ifshewentoutandcoveredsomeoneshouseburning
down,insteadofcomingbackandwritingthestory
likeagoodreporterwould,shewouldbeonthe
phonetryingtogethelpforthevictims,orworrying
abouttheirpredicament.
Shehowevergotherbreakanddiscoveredher
passion whenshewasaskedtobeacohostofa
morningtalkshow.Afterthefirstepisodeshesaid
thankGod,IvefoundwhatIwasmeanttodo.
Itslikebreathing.
Shedidthisjobforsixyearsandwaslaterpoached
andbecamethehostofamorningtalkshow,A.M.
ChicagoonWLSTV,Oprahwasskepticalbecauseshe
wouldbethefirstblackoverweighthostofaTV
program.
HerbossSwansontoldheryouhaveagift,awayof
connectingwithpeopleshewaspaidasubstantial
salaryof$200,000annually.
Herfirstshowwasbroadcastonthe2nd ofJanuary
1984at9.00am,afterfourweeksOprahsgenius
evolved,herhonesty,compassionandgenuine
concernwonoverheraudiences.In1986Oprahand
hershownowcalledtheOprahWinfreyshow,signed
acontractfor24%oftheearnings;thatyeartheshow
earned$125million,herpersonalincomethatyear
alonewas$30million.
In1990,thesecretofherabuse,pregnancyandthe
deathofherprematurebabywasrevealedbyherhalf
sister,whosoldthestorytothetabloids.Oprahfelt
betrayedthatthestoryofherprivatelifewassoldfor
money,anddidnotspeaktohersisterfortwoyears.
Shelater forgave hersisterandmovedoninlife.
Givingbacktosocietyhasdistinguishedher,tofulfill
hercommitmenttoeducationshesetupten
scholarshipsworth$77,000each,shehassponsored
manybillsontherightsofchildreninthesenateand
shesupportsmanycausesthroughherfoundations.
In1988shewasnamedthebroadcasteroftheyearby
theInternationalTelevisionandRadioSociety;shehas
goneontowinmanymoreawardsovertheyears.She
istodayrecognizedasthewealthiestandmost
influentialblackperson,shewasalsonamedbyTime
magazineasoneoftheonehundredmost
SIGNIFICANTpeopleofthetwentiethcentury.
Donotcomplainaboutwhatyoudonthave.
Usewhatyouvegotnow.Todolessthanyourbestis
asin.
OprahWinfrey
 SIGNIFICANCE
India

Mother Teresa
inequality
compassion love
Poverty lack deprivation
hunger hope hopeless
MotherTeresawasa livingembodimentof
compassionandloveshewascompletelydevotedto
theworldspoorandherdesiretoservethem.
Herdeeplyreligiousmotheralwaystoldherthat
Whenyouacceptatask,makesurethatyoudoit
willingly.Ifyoucannot,dontacceptit

ShelefttheconventinDarjeeling,abeautiful
mountaintownatthefootofIndiasbreathtaking
Himalayanmountains,forthewretchedpovertyof
Indiascities.
Withinfourmonthsshelearntthebasicsoffirstaid
andnursingskills,afterwardssheopenedaschoolfor
thepoorintheCityofMotijhil,nearCalcutta;thiswas
inspiredbyherdiscoverythattheylackedproper
medicalcareandeducation.

Afterawhileshehadaflockofnovicesisterstraining
underher,togivecleardirectiontohernewordershe
explainedtothemthe clear,uncompromising
principlesofunconditionalloveandcompassion,she
expectedthemnevertoshyawayfromwashingthe
soresofthediseased,changingbedpansandcleaning
upafterthosewhowereill.
Ifyoudonthavethezealtohelpthepoor,totake
goodcareoflepers,Motherwouldsaytoprospective
sisters,then(you)shouldpackupandgohomeno
needtostay.
Shebelievesthatthebiggestdiseasetodayisnot
leprosy,tuberculosis,hepatitis,aidsorcancer,but
ratherthefeelingofbeingunwanted,uncaredfor,
desertedbyeverybody.Thegreatestevilshe
concludesisthelackofloveandcharity.
Shestartedin1948asasinglewarrioragainst
poverty,theyeventuallygrewtomorethan4,500
nunsand120,000coworkerswithover600housesin
over130countriesfororphans.
Withoutmoneyorinfluence,bythe1960sshehad
becomerecognizedinternationally,winningmany
awardssuchastheAmericanGoodSamaritanaward,
thePopeJohnPaulXXIIIpeaceprize,theNobelPeace
Prize,etc.
TheministryofMotherTeresacanbesummarizedby
astoryshetold.Sometimeagoawomancamewith
herchildtoseemeandsaid:Mother,Iwenttotwo
orthreeplacestobegforfood,forwehadnoteaten
forthreedays,buttheytoldmethatIwasyoungandI
shouldearnmyliving.Noonegavemeanything.
MotherTeresawenttogethersomefood,butbythe
timeshereturned,thebabyinthewomansarmshad
diedofhunger.
LoveorCharitybeginstoday.

Todaysomebodyissuffering,hungry,
homelessNEEDSHELPINONEWAYORTHEOTHER

Donotwaituntiltomorrowshesays,letsshowlove
today.

Lifeisnotworthlivingexceptitislivedforothers.

MotherTeresa
What3keythingsdotheyallhaveincommon?
What3keythingsdotheyallhaveincommon?
1. PURPOSE:

Whatispurpose?

2.PASSIONorLOVE:

WhatisLove?

ItisanUnconditional,AffectionateDedication.
IfIcanspeakALLhumanlanguagesoreventhe
languageofheavenbuthavenotLOVE.
IfIhaveALLspiritualpowers,havingALLknowledge
orunderstandingALLsecrets&mysteries,evenifI
havefaithsoIcanmovemountainsBUTIhavenot
LOVEIamNOTHING.(Auselesssomebody)

LOVEisPatient,Kind,NeverEnvious,Norboilsover
withJealousy,isNotBoastful,DoesNotdisplayitself
Haughtily,itisnotConceitedorProud,isnotRude,
doesNotactUnbecomingly,DoesNotInsistoitsown
way,isNotSelfSeeking,RejoicesonlywhenRight&
TruthPrevails,itBearsupUnderAny&Everything,it
EnduresAllthings&FinallyLoveNeverFails.
Whatelse?
Whatelse?
ATTITUDE
THEBESTOFLIFESREWARDSAREGIVENTOTHOSE
WITHPOSITIVEATTITUDES
1 ActionOriented
20 TakeResponsibility
20 TurnFearsIntoPower
9 Improvecontinuously
20 Transform VEsinto+VEs
21 UncoverYourHiddenTalents
4 DevelopYourself
5 Excelineverythingyoudo
100% Attitudeiseverything
 Lets
TakeOurlast
NOTES
NOTES
Howwill iiberememberedifIdietoday?
Howwill berememberedifIdietoday?
HowdoIwanttoberemembered?
HowdoIwanttoberemembered?
WhoamI?
WhoamI?
WhyamIhere?
WhyamIhere?
WhatgiftsdoIhave?
WhatgiftsdoIhave?
WhatamIpassionateabout?
WhatamIpassionateabout?
WhatvaluecanIaddtopeopleslives?
WhatvaluecanIaddtopeopleslives?
HowcanImakeadifference?
HowcanImakeadifference?
RememberIonlypromisedto:
1.Getyouthinking
2.Leaveyouwithquestionsratherthananswers
thank
you