A THERAPEUTIC JOURNEY
THROUGH SECONDARY TRAUMA
Part One
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ROCK He was so good at hiding
this pain from the world,
with his cheeky smile and
BOTTOM easy going company.
Go back.
While you fight the urge
ROCK to show how well you can
really protect yourself, an
BOTTOM attack starts on a younger
child, a tortured pet, you
H E L E N IN FIGHT feel it overwhelm you,
take control.
You feel it starting
toswellinyour chest, just Now the wild animal
under your skin, you can screaming with rage is
almost see it. you, you lunge ready to
protect the weak but
Ready to protect. knowing deep inside, the
raw nerves screaming out,
Knowing whats coming, the person you're really
it helps you scream trying to save is yourself.
louder, teeth snarling,
mirroring the rage on
your childs face. Seeing
their look of triumph, they
know they've got you.
Part Two
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First and foremost -
FIRST Helens secondary trauma:
This was addressed using
STEPS the powerful trauma
treatment EMDR in
DR LYONS weekly, individual therapy.
The first priority for Helen
A family psychological was emotional stability
assessment showed that and building up her inner
Helen had secondary PTSD resources and resilience.
and blocked care; and that Without this, the rest of
Sam suffered the intervention would not
Developmental Trauma. have been enough.
Part Three
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More profoundly, Helen
HEAR ME, started to feel that she
could see inside Sams
SEE ME heart again; and she
became more and more
DR LYONS confident that he needed
her to protect and
Helen continued to work advocate for him.
tirelessly in her EMDR
therapy, and her secondary She found a new and
trauma was lifting. energised ability to assert
herself on behalf of her
EMDR is quite something son, sometimes with a
it grabs hold of a vengeance!
distressing feeling or
memory that has got stuck I noticed that on the
in the brain & body, and it outside Helen could come
shakes it up until it is all across now as bold in her
worked out.Distressing assertions to othersshe
experiences lose their grip, exuberated: I know what
they lose their power and my son needs from you. I
they take on a new also noticed that with a
meaning. little scratch - just beneath
the surface there was still
Helen realised that her painful self-doubt.
own childhood memories
of feeling ineffectual were
being triggered, because
every parents childhood
memory map is opened
up when confronted with
threat and pain as a
parent.
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This phase of the work
THE DAY THE must not be idealised
LOVE CAME family life was still tough.
Part Five
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I AM ME The therapeutic team and
the family have said their
goodbyes for now.
DR LYONS
We all know that for
Helen has reconnected adopted children, the
with her husband, her milestones of growing up
own family and has often throws up new pain
reached out to other which might mean
adopters who are in the another phase of
dark place she therapeutic intervention
remembers so well. is needed.