Dar, ce-mi
pas, d-l ncolo de sprncenat, parc o s cotcodceasc
vreodat gina mea pe gardul su?
Sensibilitate de seismograf
Eu am un temperament nefericit: ma plictisesc repede, sufar cand sunt contrariata. Enigma Otiliei
"If you're pretty, you're pretty; but the only way to be beautiful is to be loving. Otherwise, it's just
'congratulations about your face.'" John Mayer
What had she said about that muleteer? I felt two packets fond of him. And one death fond
of me. The magus
, Important este sa-i punem pe oameni sa jure mereu, explica el trupei lui. Nu conteaza
daca o iau sau nu n serios. De aceea fac juraminte nca din copilarie, nainte de a sti macar
ce nsemna cuvintele juramnt si loialitate. Catch 22
Indienii huambisa scuipa in timp ce vorbesc, ca sa arate ca spun adevarul. Cine nu scuipa
cand vorbeste este pentru ei un mincinos. Povestasul
Am oare abilitatea de a-l nva s-l transforme pe aa a fost s fie" n aa am vrut eu"?
Plansul lui Nietzsche
poate c simptomele snt mesageri ai unui sens i vor disprea doar atunci cnd mesajul lor
este neles. Plansul lui Nietzsche
nu trebuie s renuni la pasiune. Dar trebuie s schimbi condiiile pasiunii tale. Plansul lui
Nietzsche
Poate, Josef, c a tri sigur este periculos. Periculos i mortal. Plansul lui Nietzsche
Josef, am crezut ntotdeauna c sntem ndrgostii mai mult de dorin dect de fiina
dorit! Plansul lui Nietzsche
Simptomul nu e dect un mesager aducnd vestea c frica erupe din stratul cel mai interior!
Plansul lui Nietzsche
Contientul nu este dect nveliul transparent care acoper existena: ochiul antrenat
poate vedea prin el pn la forele primitive, la instincte, pn la nsui motorul dorinei
de putere. Plansul lui Nietzsche
Mormintele m liniteau cumva, mi permiteau s banalizez banalul din viaa mea. Plansul
lui Nietzsche
Prietene, opti el, eu nu pot s-i spun cum s trieti altfel pentru c, dac a face-o, tu
ai tri iari dup proiectul altcuiva. Plansul lui Nietzsche
Dac nu ai ajuns la tine nsui, atunci datoria" este doar un eufemism pentru folosirea
altora n dezvoltarea ta. Plansul lui Nietzsche
Poate c sntem toi tovari de suferin incapabili de a vedea fiecare adevrul celorlali.
Plansul lui Nietzsche
Poti sa-ti imaginezi ca lacrimile au glas? Da glas lacrimilor tale. Ce-ar spune ele? Plansul
lui Nietzsche
"Our main business is not to see what lies dimly at a distance, but to do what lies clearly at
hand." How to stop worrying and start living
The best way to prepare for tomorrow is to concentrate with all your inteligence, all your
enthusiasm, on doing todays work superbly. This is the only possible way you can prepare
for the future. How to stop worrying and start living
In my estimation, this cigarette executive with all his millions was not half as successful as
my father-a Missouri farmer- who died at eighty-nine without a dollar.
Lion Against Himself, by Dr. Karl Menninger
"If a man will devote his time to securing facts in an impartial, objective way, his
worries will usually evaporate in the light of knowledge."
Let's not allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget.
Remember "Life is too short to be little."
"you are not what you think you are; but what you think, you are."
"A man will find that as he alters his thoughts towards things and other people, things and
other people will alter towards him. ... Let a man radically alter his thoughts, and he will be
astonished at the rapid transformation it will effect in the material conditions of his life.
Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are. ... The divinity that
shapes our ends is in ourselves. It is our very self. ... All that a man achieves is the direct
result of his own thoughts. ... A man can only rise, conquer and achieve by lifting up his
thoughts. He can only remain weak and abject and miserable by refusing to lift up his
thoughts."
According to the book of Genesis, the Creator gave man dominion over the whole wide
earth. A
mighty big present. But I am not interested in any such super-royal prerogatives. All I
desire is
dominion over myself-dominion over my thoughts; dominion over my fears; dominion over
my mind
and over my spirit. And the wonderful thing is that I know that I can attain this dominion
to an
astonishing degree, any time I want to, by merely controlling my actions-which in turn
control my
reactions.
So let us remember these words of William James: "Much of what we call Evil ... can often
be
converted into a bracing and tonic good by a simple change of the sufferer's inner attitude
from one of
fear to one of fight."
Let's fight for our happiness!
Let's fight for our happiness by following a daily programme of cheerful and constructive
thinking.
Here is such a programme. It is entitled "Just for Today". I found this programme so
inspiring that I
gave away hundreds of copies. It was written thirty-six years ago by the late Sibyl F.
Partridge. If you
and I follow it, we will eliminate most of our worries and increase immeasurably our
portion of what
the French call la joie de vivre.
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Just For Today
1. Just for today I will be happy. This assumes that what Abraham Lincoln said is true,
that "most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." Happiness is from
within; it is not a matter of externals.
2. Just for today I will try to adjust myself to what is, and not try to adjust everything to
my own desires. I will take my family, my business, and my luck as they come and fit
myself to them.
3. Just for today I will take care of my body. I will exercise it, care for it, nourish it, not
abuse it nor neglect it, so that it will be a perfect machine for my bidding.
4. Just for today I will try to strengthen my mind. I will learn something useful. I will not
be a mental loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration.
5. Just for today I will exercise my soul in three ways: I will do somebody a good turn and
not get found out. I will do at least two things I don't want to do, as William James
suggests, just for exercise.
6. Just for today I will be agreeable. I will look as well as I can, dress as becomingly as
possible, talk low, act courteously, be liberal with praise, criticise not at all, nor find fault
with anything and not try to regulate nor improve anyone.
7. Just for today I will try to live through this day only, not to tackle my whole life problem
at once. I can do things for twelve hours that would appall me if I had to keep them up for
a lifetime.
8. Just for today I will have a programme. I will write down what I expect to do every hour.
I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. It will eliminate two pests, hurry and
indecision.
9. Just for today I will have a quiet half-hour all by myself and relax. In this half-hour
sometimes I will think of God, so as to get a little more perspective into my life.
10. Just for today I will be unafraid, especially I will not be afraid to be happy, to enjoy
what is beautiful, to love, and to believe that those I love, love me.
If we want to develop a mental attitude that will bring us peace and happiness, here is Rule
1:Think and act cheerfully, and you will feel cheerful.
There are thousands of women like her, women who are ill from "ingratitude", loneliness,
and neglect. They long to be loved; but the only way in this world that they can ever hope
to be loved is to stop asking for it and to start pouring out love without hope of return.
"You can be cured in fourteen days if you follow this prescription. Try to think every day
how you can please someone."
Dr. Adler's splendid book, What Life Should Mean to You
"A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives you roses."
"The tragedy of my girlhood and young womanhood," she said, "was our poverty. We
could never entertain the way the other girls in my social set entertained. My clothes were
never of the best quality. I outgrew them and they didn't fit and they were often out of
style. I was so humiliated, so ashamed, that I often cried myself to sleep. Finally, in sheer
desperation, I hit upon the idea of always asking my partner at dinner-parties to tell me
about his experiences, his ideas, and his plans for the future. I didn't ask these questions
because I was especially interested in the answers. I did it solely to keep my partner from
looking at my poor clothes. But a strange thing happened: as I listened to these young men
talk and learned more about them, I really became interested in listening to what they had
to say. I became so interested that I myself sometimes forgot about my clothes. But the
astounding thing to me was this: since I was a good listener and encouraged the boys to talk
about themselves, I gave them happiness and I gradually became the most popular girl in
our social group and three of these men proposed marriage to me."
Forget yourself by becoming interested in others. Do every day a good deed that will put a
smile of joy on someone's face.
The sun is shining overhead. The sky is blue and sparkling. Nature is calm and in control of
the world-and I, as nature's child, am in tune with the Universe.
Act "as if" you were interested in your job, and that bit of acting will tend to make your
interest real. It will also tend to decrease your fatigue, your tensions, and your worries.
Mi-e sufletul schimbat, iar eu sting lampa si visez. De multe ori m-am ntrebat ce am eu n
serile de vara. Dar n-am gasit raspuns. Romanul adolescentului miop
Eu n-am sarutat niciodata zarzari nfloriti. Eu mi-am muscat buzele, pentru ca nu stiam
cine sunt. Eu ma ntrebam si ma chinuiam sa raspund si ma ofileam negasind raspunsuri.
Eu mi simteam carnea tremurnd si ma loveam, pentru ca eram sarac si nu puteam face
ce faceau ceilalti. Romanul adolescentului miop
Lungit n patul rosu, ma copleseste tristetea celui dinti plns nestiut mamei. Romanul
adolescentului miop
Trupurile cauta obraji roz-albi si buze groase, rosii, fierbinti, si ochi mari, albastri sau
negri, si brate care stiu mngia. Ce am eu din toate acestea, pentru trupurile de farmec
ce-mi rasar la colturi nsorite de strazi? Romanul adolescentului miop
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A trecut un an si mi-au ramas prea putine amintiri. Cu att mai bine. Ce sa fac
cu amintirile? Amintirile sunt icoanele timpului pierdut.
Cartile te silesc sa-ti pierzi inteligent timpul. Si, totusi, aceasta pierdere inteligenta nu e
mai putin absurda, prin faptul ca te consuma si te nstreineaza.
Poate si aminteste; sau poate presimte durerea vietii care cere sa fie vietuita toata si nu
ngaduie, n acelasi timp, dect faramituri de desfatare...
Yvo: m-a abordat un tip si m-am dus cu el la o bere ma si gandeam sunt iulia haha
Cu adevrat st scris c blestemai vor fi, i batjocorii, cei care nici calzi nu sunt, nici reci,
ci cldicei. Dr Faustus
E ridicol s-o spun, dar tot la liceu era mai bine, m simeam acolo mult mai la locul meu,
pentru c n cursul preparator superior nvei de toate, una dup alta, punctele de vedere
se succed la fiecare trei sferturi de or, ntr-un cuvnt: nu-i nc vorba de o profesie. Dar
chiar i aceste trei sferturi de or de materie mi se preau lungi pn la plictiseal cel
mai rece lucru de pe lume, plictiseala. Dup un sfert de or, cel mult, pricepusem tot ce era
de priceput, tot ce srmanul om trebuia s le mai blmjeasc bieilor nc o jumtate de
or; la lectura autorilor eu le-o luam nainte, de altfel citisem nc de-acas, i dac
rmneam cumva dator cu un rspuns, asta se ntmpla numai pentru c eram cu gndul
mult prea departe, la ora urmtoare, m aflam cu trei sferturi de or naintea grosului;
pentru rbdarea mea pritocea prea mult unul i acelai lucru, i ca dovad m apuca
durerea de cap (voia s spun migrena lui) durerea de cap nu se ivea niciodat din
oboseal n urma unui efort, ci din dezgust, din pur plictiseal i, scumpe magistre i
prieten, de cnd nu mai sunt un burlac srind din materie n materie, ci-s cununat cu o
profesie, cu o nvtur, durerea de cap s-a agravat i ea. Dr Faustus
"Dac adevrul nu se afl prin dragoste, oriunde s-ar afla el, nu m intereseaz."
Mircea Eliade
"Appreciate the moment of a first kiss; it may be the last time you own your heart
- Robert M. Drake
Mai are rost s te-ntrebi dac sunt real, dac exist efectiv? Nu-i oare efectiv ceea ce are
efect, i experiena, senzaia nu sunt adevr? Ceea ce te-nal, ceea ce i sporete
sentimentul de putere i vigoare i dominare, ce naiba, sta-i adevrul chiar dac vzut
din punctul de vedere al moralei ar fi de zece ori minciun. Ce vreau s spun este c un
neadevr de natur a produce o sporire a puterii se poate msura cu orice adevr virtuos
dar sterp. Dr Faustus
Semper idem
Trecutul e suportabil numai cnd simi c-i eti superior, nu cnd, contient de neputina
actual, trebuie s cti gura la el ca un nerod. Dr Faustus
Solomon saith: There is no new thing upon the earth. So that as Plato had an imagination,
that all knowledge was but remembrance; so Solomon giveth his sentence, that all novelty
is but oblivion. Francis Bacon: Essays LVIII
"Un pahar de vin de Alsacia i o bucat de pine cinstit - iat cel mai bun prnz din cte
pot exista."
The truth is that life flows from Being to Doing into Having. If you
are being happy and satisfied - from the inside out - you will start doing
what happy and satisfied people do, and you will have what happy and
satisfied people have. One of the Buddha's greatest contributions was
his teaching that desire creates suffering. This means that when you
want something more and you don't accept what you already have, you
will suffer. Now, this doesn't mean that you shouldn't create more things
in your life. On the contrary, you and I are purposeful, creative beings.
Beyond positive thinking page 97, 99, 104, 114, 120, 127, 134, 136, 147, 155, 160, 162, 164,
165, 177, 180, 183, 188, 190-192, 202
The solution is to determine exactly what you want and go for it.
Can you articulate what you want your life to look like? What is
important to you? If you can answer this honestly, you are off to a good
start. And as you do this please treat yourself with kindness and
respect. Dont put yourself down if you havent been living the life that
you really want. What you have done in the past has nothing to do with
what you would like to do in the present. Respect the life that youve
been living even though you might want to change it. Its all part of
loving yourself.
When you are conscious that you are not present, something interesting happens you
ARE present!
Ce valuri mari..., spuse Thomas Buddenbrook. Vin i se sfarm, vin i se sfarm, unele
dup altele, fr sfrit, i fr int, pustii i nebune. i totui ele te linitesc i te mngie,
ca tot ce e simplu i necesar. Mi-e tot mai drag marea... Poate c altdat preferam munii
numai fiindc erau mai departe. Acum nu mai mi-e dor de ei. Cred c mi-ar fi fric i
ruine n muni. Sunt prea semei, prea capricioi i variai... e sigur c m-a simi umilit n
faa lor. Dar ce fel de oameni sunt aceia care prefer monotonia mrii? Cred c sunt
oameni care au observat prea ndelung i prea adnc ct de complicate sunt procesele
luntrice pentru a nu cere nainte de toate cel puin un lucru celor exterioare: simplitate...
Faptul c la munte trebuie s urci voinicete, n timp ce la mare te odihneti tolnit pe
plaj, este de cea mai mic nsemntate. Dar eu tiu ct deosebire exist ntre privirile ce
admir munii i acelea care contempl marea. Ochii siguri, drji, fericii i plini de spirit
ntreprinztor, de energie i de poft de via zboar din pisc n pisc, dar pentru a visa n
faa acestei nemrginite ntinderi de ape care i rostogolete valurile cu un fatalism mistic,
nruitor, trebuie s ai o privire nvluit, dezndjduit, atottiutoare, care a cobort
cndva, undeva, n adncuri de triste vrtejuri... Sntate i boal: asta-i deosebirea, ne
crm rzbttori prin minunata diversitate a formelor accidentate, ameitor de nalte,
prpstioase, pentru a ne pune la ncercare fora vital din care nc n-am irosit nimic. Dar
cnd suntem obosii de vrtejurile din propriul nostru suflet, vasta simplitate a lucrurilor
din afar ne odihnete.