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30 Ways to Act in Solidarity With Marginalized

People
MAY 26, 2017 | EDITOR | 3 COMMENTS
By Anonymous

“Solidarity” is a word that gets a lot of attention these days, but what does it actually mean? This wis-
dom from several Seattle anarchists of color gives concrete examples of how to support our comrades.

How often do you see yet another story about the current administration doing something devastat-
ing? If we are not personally the targets of bans, threats, and loss of protection, we know someone
who is. It is unfortunate that much of what we see now was set in motion long before Trump. It has
been communities and individuals affected the most – Black/African, Indigenous, Latinx, Muslim,
Middle Eastern, Asian, Disabled, Womxn, Queer, Trans, Nonbinary, Poor/Working Class, Unshel-
tered, Anarchist, etc. people, who have been calling from the margins to tell everyone that this has
been happening and has been harming us for centuries. Now is the time for all to heed that call.

This work may seem intimidating at first, and it is understandable: we are all up against real proba-
bility of harm and death to many individuals and communities that have so much historical pain and
trauma, as well as current fears and exponentially heightened present danger. Those who don’t expe-
rience these oppressions also may worry about showing up imperfectly, but please know that it is far
better to try and fail and learn and try again than to give up before you even begin. This work is the
most important, and truly the simplest. This work is acting with compassion and in solidarity, and
not just in words. Words matter, but actions solidify the words and produce the material assistance
that actually promotes survival. And make no mistake: lives are on the line.
What does solidarity actually look like?

1. Make sure your friends and family make it home safely–especially if they’re at risk of hate
crimes or if they’re not straight, cisgender men. A quick text doesn’t cost much and means a lot.
Walk people to their cars or bus stops, too.

Resources:

On Lying: Street Harassment Is Too High A Price For Being Ourselves (https://medium.com/gender-
2-0/lying-c08b89230b66#.9s9bqhspn)

Why Women Smile At Men Who Sexually Harass Us (https://medium.com/@mshannabrooks/why-

women-smile-at-men-who-sexually-harass-us-cf4eeb90ed30#.1234juam1)

The Thing All Women Do That You Don’t Know About (https://driftingthrough.-
com/2015/11/20/the-thing-all-women-do-that-you-dont-know-about/)

2. Share food with your people. Cook for everyone if you have the time/money/energy. If you go
out to eat with someone on a tighter budget than you, pay for their meal. Bring snacks and water
most places, and offer them to folks when they mention they haven’t eaten or are thirsty. Bring a
meal to a chronically ill friend when food is hard for them to get/make. If you don’t have any
chronically ill friends, check out Seattle’s abled-disabled support group (https://www.facebook.-
com/groups/280360818833411/)!

3. Do the dishes. Or the laundry, or the sweeping, or the cat litter. Sometimes we get overwhelmed
and daily chores can feel like too much–solidarity can literally mean doing housework so our
friends can spend their energy doing things we can’t help them with. Help set up before, and
clean up after rad events so that the people who did the organizing can network and answer
questions.

4. Offer people rides if you have a car. Schedule things in places that are easy to get to by public
transit (http://kingcounty.gov/depts/transportation/metro.aspx), at times when transit is run-
ning. Notice who has to commute the longest and reconsider locations, taking disability into
account.

5. Offer your couch or spare room to a friend who has insecure housing, who is fighting with a
housemate, or whose home address was just leaked to neonazis (see: doxxing (http://www.dai-
lyuw.com/opinion/article_586eec3a-e43b-11e6-906e-8389e04a23e6.html)). If you don’t know folks
 struggling with housing, some people use couch surfing (https://www.couchsurfing.com/) to
make it between temporary homes without having to sleep on the street. Sign up and help out a
new friend!

6. Educate yourself about various systems of oppression. You have the most control over your own
self, and committing fewer micro & macro aggressions is always helpful!

Resources (not exhaustive!):

“Check My What?” On Privilege and What We Can Do About It (http://blog.shrub.com/check-my-

what/)

How To Survive In Intersectional Feminist Spaces 101 (https://crossknit.wordpress.-

com/2017/01/23/so-you-wanna-be-an-intersectional-feminist/)

What Is Ableism? (http://whatisableism.tumblr.com/allytips)

Sex Workers Outreach Project — Further Reading (http://www.swopusa.org/learn-about-sex-

work/further-reading/)

15 Best Trans Women Movies According To Trans Women (https://www.autostraddle.com/15-best-

trans-woman-movies-according-to-trans-women-303713/)

ReducingStereotypeThreat.org (http://www.reducingstereotypethreat.org/)

The Body Is Not An Apology (https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/)

Everyday Feminism (http://everydayfeminism.com/)

7. Redistribute resources. Think about where your work, school, government, etc., invest and spend
their money–can it be funneled into the community? Especially to folks most impacted by state
violence and people struggling for survival? Without strings attached? What about material goods
or services, can you get those to folks who need them?

8. Emotional labor! Listen to somebody vent, remind people of their appointments or when to take
their meds, send platonic love notes of encouragement and appreciation, etc.. Be aware that emo-
tional labor is almost always disproportionately done by more marginalized folks for more privi-
leged folks without compensation. Actively reverse that trend. Compensate others doing emotion-
al labor for you with money, resources, favors, and/or expressions of genuine appreciation.
Resources:

Emotional Labor: The MetaFilter Thread Condensed (https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B0U-

UYL6kaNeBTDBRbkJkeUtabEk/view?pref=2&pli=1)

Emotional Labor Checklist/Self Assessment (http://ask.metafilter.com/283189/Emotional-Labor-

Checklist-Self-Assessment)

“Where’s My Cut?” on Unpaid Emotional Labor (http://the-toast.net/2015/07/13/emotional-

labor/)

9. Don’t center yourself when someone is upset by a power imbalance that you benefit from. This
‘white (male, cis, etc.) tears’ response keeps the power imbalance intact.

Resources:

What Are White Tears (http://usesforwhitetears.tumblr.com/post/27949841377/what-are-white-

tears)

How Not To Be Part Of The Problem: #NotAllWhitePeople (http://wifey.tv/video/how-not-to-be-

part-of-the-problem-notallwhitepeople/)

White Fragility (https://libjournal.uncg.edu/ijcp/article/viewFile/249/116)

10. If you are in a management position, pay your workers well above minimum wage. Fight for their
benefits. Hire trans womxn of color with disabilities and criminal records. Tell your employees
you have their backs with respect to -isms in the workplace, and then actually have their backs in
material ways. Kick out customers who harass your people.

11. Take risks. Lock yourself to a bulldozer to stop an oil pipeline from poisoning your comrades’
drinking water, call your boss out for being problematic, shout down a neonazi. Communicate
with your people around support, because risks are risky.

Resources:

Accomplices Not Allies: Abolishing the Ally Industrial Complex (http://www.indigenousac-

tion.org/accomplices-not-allies-abolishing-the-ally-industrial-complex/)
From Charity to Solidarity: A Critique of Ally Politics (https://roarmag.org/essays/ally-politics-
racism-solidarity-critique/)

12. Practice consent culture. Ask before hugging or touching someone, every time. Make collabora-
tive decisions on things as mundane as where to go for lunch–and make it clear that “no” is al-
ways an acceptable option. Practice maintaining your own boundaries. Support others when they
assert their boundaries by respecting and appreciating those boundaries (no guilt-tripping).

Resources:

7 Ways to Practice Consent Outside of the Bedroom (http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/11/prac-

tice-consent-beyond-sex/)

Creating A Consent Culture Means Holding Ourselves Accountable For Perpetuating Trauma
(http://www.forharriet.com/2016/02/building-consent-culture-means-
holding.html#axzz41VdWJOmY)

Survivor Mom: Teaching Consent (https://medium.com/@lizandrade/survivor-mom-teaching-con-

sent-16888274edf1#.cu85rjx23)

13. Cuddle and hug and kiss cheeks and give back rubs and high fives more; consensual physical
contact is healing. Always ask before touching someone.

Resource: Touch Isolation: How Homophobia Has Robbed All Men of Touch (http://www.films-
foraction.org/articles/touch-isolation-how-homophobia-has-robbed-all-men-of-touch/)

14. Don’t call the cops. Police have a lengthy track record of hurting or killing people they are called
to help, especially marginalized folks, and jails make our communities less safe. This means learn-
ing and practicing de-escalation and accountability for ourselves. Dig into this with your people:
what does safety look like? When do we feel unsafe? How should we react in those situations?
There are many resources out there for domestic violence survivors — API Chaya
(http://www.apichaya.org/) or the Northwest Network (http://www.nwnetwork.org/), for
example.

Resources:
What To Do Instead of Calling the Police (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1_Y0LwX0uOz-
P63FVhV0OFkDObbBXcy16YPOcsqnBqto/edit)

NOT Calling the Kkkops — EVER (http://www.poormagazine.org/node/5464)

Killed by Police (https://www.facebook.com/KilledByPolice/)

The Radical Work of Healing: Fania and Angela Davis on a New Kind Of Civil Rights Activism
(http://www.yesmagazine.org/issues/life-after-oil/the-radical-work-of-healing-fania-and-angela-
davis-on-a-new-kind-of-civil-rights-activism-20160218)

Addressing Harm, Accountability, and Healing (http://criticalresistance.org/resources/addressing-

harm-accountability-and-healing/)

Transforming Harm (http://transformharm.tumblr.com/)

9 Ways to Be Accountable When You’ve Been Abusive (http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/02/be-

accountable-when-abusive/)

No One Is Disposable: Resources and Context for a Conversation on Prison Abolition (http://bcr-
w.barnard.edu/blog/no-one-is-disposable-resources-and-context-for-a-conversation-on-prison-
abolition/)

Raped By The Deputy: A Texas Case, A US Problem (https://theestablishment.co/raped-by-the-

deputy-a-texas-case-a-u-s-problem-9ba19d5ba1a5#.qjn8yao3v)

Cop Reveals That ‘Planting Evidence And Lying’ Are Just ‘Part Of The Game’ (http://countercur-
rentnews.com/2016/02/cop-reveals-that-planting-evidence-and-lying-are-part-of-the-game/)

National Lawyers Guild Adopts Resolution Supporting Prison Abolition (https://www.nlg.org/nlg-

adopts-resolution-supporting-prison-abolition-2/)

15. Talk about mental illnesses, bad days, places you’re tender. Our culture loves to encourage
grandstanding, pretending like we’re perfect invincible beings who never need other people for
anything. That’s bullshit, and is hella isolating. We need each other, and part of that is allowing
people to see where that need is. There is immense strength in vulnerability.

Resource: The Autostraddle Guide to Queer Mental Health (https://www.autostraddle.com/the-au-

tostraddle-guide-to-queer-mental-health-306921/)

16. Be with someone through a mental health crisis. Much of the time, just giving them your caring
attention is significant. You don’t have to fix them or their problems — don’t try to solve it in the
moment. Just being with them without freaking out, without trying to make their symptoms stop,
 is meaningful. Consent is especially important here, so try to talk about if/when they want vari-
ous types of support, like calling someone, before you do it. Know what support you need to be
able to be there for them effectively. People in crisis can act in ways that make you feel uncomfort-
able because they are violating social norms about how to act, so it is crucial to be checking in
with yourself and keeping track of the difference between the discomfort of “this is not a ‘usual’
social interaction but nobody is being harmed in any way,” (e.g. if the person is rocking back and
forth, screaming, talking to themselves, trembling, hyperventilating, crying, etc.), and discomfort
that means “this situation is now unsafe for me; I need to leave or find more support.”

Resource: Everything is Awful and I’m Not Okay: Questions to Ask Before Giving Up
(http://tosavealife.com/mental-health/for-when-youre-actually-not-okay-a-self-care-printable/)

17. Check in with folks when they’re not in crisis. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
“For real, how are you really doing?”

Resource: If Community Were a Safe Place To Fall Apart (http://www.onbeing.org/blog/if-commu-

nity-were-a-safe-place-to-fall-apart/)

18. Push for accessibility. Not just accessibility in name, but looking at all the little things that will
make it so that certain folks can’t participate, from monetary barriers to lack of childcare to miss-
ing ASL interpretation. So often, this takes real investment of time, energy, and resources. But if
we are all in this together, we have to act like it.

Resources:

How To Make Your Social Justice Events Accessible To The Disability Community: A Checklist
(http://www.rootedinrights.org/how-to-make-your-social-justice-events-accessible-to-the-disability-
community-a-checklist/)

Fragrance Free Femme of Colour Realness Draft 1.5 (http://www.brownstargirl.org/blog/fragrance-

free-femme-of-colour-realness-draft-15)

19. Organize! Many issues cannot be fixed by a single person, so gather folks who care and dig into
what can be done to change things. Direct action can look so many different ways, but the most
effective strategies are often more direct confrontation than purely symbolic action.
Resources:

Transit Fare Victory Highlights Power of Student Led Organizing (https://southseattleemerald.-

com/2015/11/29/transit-fare-victory-highlights-power-of-student-led-organizing/)

What Then Can I Do? Ten Ways to Democratize the Economy (http://www.truth-out.org/opin-
ion/item/18908-what-then-can-i-do-ten-steps-toward-transforming-the-system)

Block The Bunker (https://blockthebunker.org/)

Anti-Racist Rednecks with Guns: An Interview With Dave Strano (http://www.hamptoninstitu-

tion.org/anti-racist-rednecks-with-guns.html#.WJjnhzcWhFK)

20. Value, encourage, and support your own and others’ healing. Know that healing looks different
for each person, and that there is a long history of Western medicine harming various communi-
ties — again, consent is key; don’t push people to do things they don’t want to do. Offering op-
tions and talking about your own experiences with different types of healing allows people to
make their own informed decisions.

Resource:

An Indigenous Approach to Healing Trauma (http://upliftconnect.com/indigenous-approach-to-

healing-trauma/)

How black people can emotionally protect themselves in the age of #BlackLivesMatter
(https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/wp/2015/07/24/how-black-people-can-
emotionally-protect-themselves-in-the-age-of-blacklivesmatter/?utm_term=.48cc89b20f8a)

3 Ways to Prioritize Self-Care While Resisting Dehumanization – Because #BlackWellnessMatters,

Too (http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/07/self-care-resisting-dehumanization/)

11 Black Queer and Trans Women Discuss Self-Care (http://elixher.com/eleven-black-queer-and-

trans-women-discuss-self-care/)

When Doctors Discriminate (http://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/11/opinion/sunday/when-doc-

tors-discriminate.html)

21. Go through insurance/tax/application/legal paperwork with someone. Be their advocate, talk

through stuff with them, figure out how to game the system together. Research the closest psy-
chiatrist covered by their insurance, or what lawyers will work pro bono on immigration cases, or
how to get Medicare to cover top surgery.

22. Buddy up to do things you’ve been putting off or hate doing — writing a paper, filling out job ap-
 plications, paying bills… these can all be friend dates!

23. Set some time aside to reflect on what your heart and gut tell you about what is really important,
how you fit into the various complicated networks of this world, or who needs some extra loving
kindness today. Perhaps this is part of prayer or meditation.

24. Donate to and share those crowdfunding campaigns. Be especially mindful that privilege and
‘respectability’ often create drastically different outcomes for these campaigns, and act to balance
that.

Resource: Gifts, Debts, and Inheritances: Why So Many Minority Millennials Can’t Get Ahead
(https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/11/gifts-debts-inheritances/417423/)

25. Many folks are getting daily messages they they’re not welcome, or worse. Show some love pub-
licly, whether it’s a sign in your window, chalk on a sidewalk, or social media posts.

26. Speak up when an incident happens. Or, if you freeze in the moment or hear about it afterwards,
do not ignore it. Acknowledge what happened, listen to what the person who experienced it feels
and wants, and do what they ask for (e.g., if a friend is sexually assaulted and they ask you not to
confront the aggressor, don’t). “What do you need right now?” is a good question, though the an-
swer may be “I don’t know.” Ask at several different ‘right now’s. “It’s not your fault,” and, “I be-
lieve you,” are also useful.

27. Teach others, especially folks who are in places where you have been, before you knew better. We
have been taught white supremacy, cis-hetero-patriarchy, classism, ableism, etc. from birth. We
must also learn to undo them, and all of us can use all the help we can get. It is not the duty of
those who experience oppression to always be the teachers of how to fix it.

28. Practice asking for what you need. Dismantle the ableist shame associated with not being ‘inde-
pendent,’ because nobody is actually independent. Practice both saying and hearing “yes,” and
“no,” without guilt or resentment (easier said than done).

29. Engage with legislation and legislators. Be careful that you don’t spend all your energy here and
forget about the real actual people surviving real actual hardships. But sign petitions, call the con-
 gress people, show up at the hearings if you can. Follow news sources run by marginalized folks
to make sure that you’re never advocating for something that isn’t supported by those it intends
to ‘help’.

30. Get comfortable messing up, and fixing your messes. We all screw up. The question is what hap-
pens next. Practice taking down your defenses, acknowledging your mistakes, and figuring out
how to repair the harm done — and maybe how to change the whole situation so that it won’t
happen again.

Resources:

How To Fuck Up (http://portlytruestories.blogspot.ca/2007/11/how-to-fuck-up.html)

Getting Called Out: How To Apologize (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8xJXKYL8pU)

Resources for Addressing Harm, Accountability, and Healing (http://criticalresistance.org/re-

sources/addressing-harm-accountability-and-healing/)

Western obsession with rugged individualism, patriarchy, and capitalism have invisible-ized our con-
nections to one another and devalued caring labor both monetarily and morally. But we can (re)learn
how to take care of each other. Learning takes practice, and it often feels strange or awkward at first.
But there are lives at stake, so the awkwardness must be bumbled through. We must keep showing
up.

Of course no one person can do all of this at once — again, it is Western individualism that tells us we
must each be able to take on every problem, burning us out and often discouraging us from even try-
ing. Hope lies in collective access, in community building, in mutual aid and interdependence, in
trusting that we don’t need to solve everything on our own.

Together, in solidarity, we can survive this.

The above knowledge comes from anarchist people of color who have been in Seattle their entire lives and contin-
ue to live and work here. The authors of this article choose not to be credited as they feel placing names, seeking
recognition or celebrity in activism is a toxic hold-over from capitalist ideals of marketing.

Featured image: Alex Garland

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