PROBLEMS IN FAMILIES
Poor Communication
Financial Difficulties
Parent/Child Relationships
Childrearing Practices
Alcoholism and Drug Abuse
Causes
1. Care of children relegated to others
Parental inaccessibility
Dual career
Over-commitment to work
Consequences
Instability
Behavioral problems
School under-achievement
Juvenile delinquency
Declining parental commitment
COUNSELLORS
1. Call the family to the consideration of God’s will for their lives with one another
2. Point families to the explicit Biblical commands of God to:
Provide for their children
Provide for the physical needs of the young
Provide for old dependent members of the family
Caring for incapacitated family members
Extending help to the needy in the community through family hospitality and
acts of mercy.
CASE ONE
One afternoon, I received a call from the mother of a teenage girl Melinda. She and her
husband wanted to come in for counseling with Malinda because the girl was pregnant and
unmarried. The mother was afraid her daughter was considering an abortion, and as
Christians, the parents found this totally unacceptable. This was the presenting problem. But
what might be the underlying problem?