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John Brewer, in his article "The most polite age and the most vicious", is careful to note that although
he is discussing culture, he is not using the term in the "inclusive, all-embracing way deployed by
anthropologists" (341). Instead he "limits" his discussion of culture to the commercialized culture filling
commerci alizedculture can be characterizedin an all-embracing way: "the seductive woman is analogous
to the culture of which she is apart. She . . . is a prostiti'te...(358). Kathleen Wilson, in her article
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"Imperialism and the politics of identity", describesimperialidn (foreign policy), initially, as something
which was imagined in eighteenth-centuryEngland in various ways (238). But, she concludes that "[a]s
the antidote to national effeminacy, the imperial project was describedand valorized in the images of an
its hands. Historians seemto prefer to keep their subject multi-faceted, slippery, and thus not amenable
as a subject for social science. Yet they are coming to conclusions which cannot be characterizedas
anything other than singular and totalistic. The dangerousfemale characterizesperceptions of the
domestic "public sphere" and determinesreactionary hyper masculine conceptions of foreign policy.
What spaceis left? Community life? Nope, Laura Gowing tells us that this is all about the dangerous
female too. How about the "private" mind? Nope, Anthony Fletcher tells us that gender "shows itself
above all in the mind, in the intimacies of personal behavior and the unspoken and often unrecorded
convention of private and public life" (xix). Fletcher cuts to the chase. Eighteenth-century England was
a patriarchy. Men, being men, prefer to dominate women. But if all aestheticcomplexities of culture
have at their core this hard, brutal reality, perhaps its time for historians to incorporate the hard, brutal,
uncompromising researchof social science. And wouldn't it be funny if it turns out to be sciencewhich
legitimates studying a subject which, lets face it, if it turns out to be all about men's inhumanity to
women, after excavating its "archaeology of power" so that it doesn't happen again, deservesto be left
Gender history is beginning to seemakin to deism: once you're on this track you're on your way to
total disbelief, and disenchantmentwith history. John Tosh, for example, concludes a book on
in gender definition i.e., gender history, is a trivial sport glossing over the fact that the male, biological,
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sex remains depressingly the sameover the years (Tosh would object to this characterizalion; he tries
(twice) to explain that this is not what he is suggestingwhich is instead that male gender remains
perennially the same - leaving me to suspectthat this distinction is more about a conversation Tosh is
having with himself about what possibilities are, and which ones are not, permissible for a historian to
consider than it is about real substance). Culture is often defined in various ways, but certainly history is
axiomatically about change over time, isn't it? Doesn't anthropology, sociology, social science, get all
the cards if change over time comes to seem trivial? Fletcher, too, in apparentdespair over realizing that
"fc]ivility and politeness on the one hand and sexual power on the other begin to look like two sides of a
coin" (346),begins to wonder if there isn't some fundamental male wound. Liam Hudson, a psychologist
(not a Lacanian psychologist, or languagedoctor, but a real one!), is called in to tell us about the
"universals", the "always", of male drives (339). All the nuances,possibilities, the existential glories of
History are becoming hegemonic nonsense,at worst, or an aestheticallypretty way to imagine the past, at
best. For the non-sentimentally inclined though, without his emperors' clothes, our King History,
It really is a Darwinian journey which Anthony Fletcher chronicles in his Gender, Sex and
Subordination in England 1500-1800. Norbert Elias, the social scientist studentsof manners, and morals
gender historians normally refer, and react to, is far too optimistic for the base tnrths that these historians
are uncovering. Elias, after all, in his account of how a libidinally driven society changed into a super-
ego managed one, believed that all that was gained and lost in this transition was at least sharedby
discursively manipulate their environment - gender definitions - so that women become bordered up into
a servile narow niche, leaving all the best fruits for themselves. This is the "other side of the coino'of an
account of the eighteenth-centuryEngland as the rise of a'polite and commercial people." According to
Still, dominion has its price - its own shadow side. "By definition fFletcher tells us] a system of
ideological subordination produces continuing anxiety in those who are doing the subordinating, together
with a constant need for reiteration and for responsesto those who are contesting the system" (407;
emphasismine). (Who can argue with this? My mother, for example, has ideologically defined some
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plants as 'keeds" that constantly threaten to invade her garden,which is why it is, of course, by
definition, impossible for her to relax while in her garden.) But, then again,Fletcher doesn't quite mean
this, becausethe whole point of his book is that the construction of separatespheres,using an ideology of
separategenders,is effective in easing male anxieties about the dangerousfemale. He tells us that "[a]s
men's confidence grew about the ideology of gender construction, they could afford to take a more liberal
attitude than previously to women's learning and intellectual fulfillments" (397). He notes the sheer
confidence, in tone, of John Gregory's A Father's Legacy to his Daughters (1774). He credits this
But it is true that Fletcher's account of men's situation before ttre miraculous (for men) development
of Lockeian empirical psychology, fits an equation of male dominance with anxiety. For awhile, at least,
women were fortunate that though they had brutish husbands,sons,and brothers, that these same
husbands,sons, and brothers were apparently rather stupid (Fletcher's suggeststhat men might have been
affectionate to their wives, but note below what he says the fundamental goal for men in early modern
England was). Give them an ideology to work with they could craft great evils - or as good as the
particular ideology permitted. But if this ideology was inadequate,men could wait, apparently for
millennium, until, like a gift from God, they were given a better ideological framework to work with.
Fletcher explains the starting point for men in early modern England involved a "need to find a more
securebasis and future for patriarchy' (401). Men were stuck with a conception of womankind that "left
them in possessionof sourcesof power which men found mysterious and threatening" (402) and of men
defined "in terms of hierarchy rather than incommensurable difference [which] gave them an
insufficiently competent means of imposing a patriarchal order rooted in nature" (402). Men were stuck
with a one-sex model of the body invented by Galen fifteen hundred years before them. They could use it
so that men possessedmore of the good humoral stuffthan did women, but becausegender was not
firmly separated,there could be no fully private and public realms, and men would always be susceptible
to women's "poisons" i.e., they could never get the woman "out of their systems." Moreover, women
might be imagined as men, perhapsas easily as by donning male clothing. And as women, they were
voraciously sexual, so for men to demonstratetheir household superiority, the basis of patriarchy, they
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had to sexually satisfy their women. No easy chore - leaving possibilities of feeling sexually inadequatea
very real possibility for most men. This conception, though, of the voracious woman, according to
Fletcher, is an example of what mencould make of this one sex model. He says that "the problematising
of women as themselvespowerfully sexual as well as irational was a solvent to the male senseof
responsibility for making relationships endure" (28). So while this made demonsffating household
superiority a problem, it did still serve men's purposes. But it still amounted to gender disorder. A new
model was needed. Until then, much of popular culture involved an obsessionwith scolds, witches,
Before the two sex model was invented, men were left soothing over their felt inadequacies,and we
S u.r"* tca' should be left wondering why it took so long to come up with a better model. Once culture is defined as a
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static, base, man: the improving man. It is a story which will eventually turn to a developmentql
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accountfor humanbehavior. Tosh's concemis that the fluidity andmovementof ideasare a nismatch
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instance, he points out that "[c]onduct book writer gave as careful attention to the relationship of master
and servant as to that of parent and child" (2L2) but also that "there is plenty of evidence in diaries and
letters that most mothers and many fathers were deeply involved with and strongly attached to their
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children" (188). Remarkable, considering that the "biological and social role of a fertile married woman
made her life arduous" (184). But he does not allow all this goodnessin the family areal connection with
social changes. The same sort of social changethat Stone might connect with the growth of affective
individualism in the family, Fletcher maintains has more to do with patriarchal oppression. The 1624
Infanticide Act, for instance,according to Fletcher, originates from "an obsessiveconcern about the
problem of uncontrolled female sexuality among the poor" (278). According to Fletcher, it was clearly
Fletcher would likely not have consideredwhether patriarchy was the consequence,not the product, of
household anxieties becausethe generative ability of his loving and warm householdsis apparently quite
limited. Once young boys were taken away from their loving mothers, and subjectedto punitive
apprenticeshipsor schools, they apparently becamethe samemen who kept patriarchy afloat. However,
if we consider household environment as a powerful generative agent of the social environment, could it
"personality type with 'low gradient' affect, whose capacity for warm relationships was generally limited,
and who diffused what there was of it widely among family, kin, and neighbours" (268) predominated,
might be part of an explanation for the omnipresenceof male anxieties for the period?
Fletcher, whose thesis seemsa parallel work to Stone's, covering the sameperiod, and the same subject
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he insists should be characteized as examplesof parental love), but leavesus with a sensethat this option
is in essencevery difficult to explore. Alas, intimate source material is limited. The nature of relations
between husbandsand wives, and parents and children can only be a matter of conjecture, and perhaps
should be left to common senseanyway. Common sensewould tell us that "[t]he age, like all ages,had
its child abusers" (208). As a way of getting at private master and servantrelations we could use public
records. But public records, according to Fletcher, "predictably reveal sadistswho went far beyond the
bounds of what was considered acceptableat the time" (2I4). However, common sensewould also tell us
that something is amiss when public records are used to defuseany sensethat barbaroustreatment of
servantswas the nonn, and also to prove and emphasizethe importance ofthe omnipresenceof
"moderate" violence against women in the household. Fletcher saysthat "[t]he absenceof systematic
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records of wife-beating would seemto suggestthat it was common and that a moderate level of violence
within marriage was seenas acceptableand not as a matter of public order" (194). But here he is not
defusing marital violence. Instead he usesthis statementto introduce a lengthy documentation of the
horrors of being a wife in this period, towards a conclusion that ["s]uch incidental evidence reminds us of
a huge untold story of the contestednessof English Patriarchy within the early modern home" (198;
emphasismine).
If we turn to anthropology to help us gain insight into aspectsof history where we might especially
events we describe" (1987,86), we'll realize why this oft-repeatedwish might be somewhat
disingenuous. What I am suggestingis that if we like the stories we tell about a period of history we are
interested in, the absenceof evidence might help us keep these stories the way we want them to be.
Fletcher doesn't turn to anthropology, but he does refer to a number of gender historians who as a group
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tend to dip into the anthropological well to help make their cases. With anthropology,you/irdn't need a
omnipresent. But when history takes on subjects like mannersand morals, consumption, and foreign
policy, and finds the "dangerous womar"o we are left with one more reasonto turn to anthropology - and
to anthropologists with their notebooks, tape-recorders,and camerasto investigate pretty much anything
historian's trepidation about anthropology tending "to be one of the most a*ristorical of disciplines in its
lack of interest in change over time" (Stone 1987,85-86) should now newly serve as an advertisementfor
anthropology considering, as we have explored, that some historians are developing the samehabit. And
if we look to anthropology I think a casecan begin to be made that the effort to explain the omnipresence
of male anxieties has thus far failed to explore a more likely explanation for them than we have thus far
been offered.
The anthropologist Donald Tuzin begins a paper written for the reading public of Social Science and
Medicine by stating that if you fn]ame any behavior . . . [you would] probably get agreementfrom most
anthropologists that we need to know more about it" (867). But he arguesthat what is curious about sex
is that anthropologists "seem unable to decide whether they know too little or too much about it" (867).
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He asks: "Facts? We have plenty of facts about sexuality, in the senseof descriptive reports, but few
data, in the senseof facts as they are valoized in a context of analysis" (867). Tuzin's complaint is the
opposite one of gender historians who offer plenty of analysisbut complain about the relative absenceof
accounts of intimate behavior. Tuzin, himself, though, does work with his ethnographic facts to build up
a theory to explain a particular sexual act: the self-administeredpenile blood letting of Ilahita males (a
practice, he explains, that is not unusual in the ethnographic world). The usual explanation offered for
this behavior is that adult males have been socialized to understandthis activity as necessary" in order to
rid their bodies of maternal and other feminine essences"(871). He notes that what could only be
understood by witnessing the behavior was the unmistakably autoerotic element in the observedbehavior.
He asked the man, and he asked himself, how the participant managed to sustain an erection during the
procedure. Were custom or social nonns sufficient to explain why the man would hack at his own glands
with a crab claw? He concludes that "unlike when the ordeal was first administered when a terrified
youth feared castration,penis-cutting has a tonic effect, largely becauseit is a reassuranceof his
masculine power to control, dominate and expel agentswhich owing to their feminine source, are
weakening and debilitating. Importantly lhe writes], this effect occurs not only becausecultural
and by so doing naturalizes the culturally constituted idea that penis cutting is, indeed, an effective means
Thusfar, if Fletcher wanted to use an anthropologist to support his thesis, Tuzin might serye. If early
modern English men, stuck with a model of a one-sexbody and a correspondingpatriarchal model based
on gender hierarchy, rather than inseparability, could figure out a way to substantiate these norms with
the real felt experienceof household dominance, they too would feel pleasure. Tuzin's Ilahita may have
been somewhat more inventive, or perhapswere prepared to go to further lengths, than Fletcher's
eighteenth-centurymale men, becausethe Ilahita, too, lived with a mythological charter myth that left
patriarchy perennially vulnerable (1999, 160). Remember,Fletcher told us that early-modern English
men were stuck with a conception of womankind that "left them in possessionof sourcesof power which
men found mysterious and threatening" (402). In essence,the Ilatrita men believed in a charter myth that
credited the original discovery or inventionof paramount cult objects, like bullroarers, to women. Thus,
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it was feared that should women ever find out these secrets,which were "kept secreto'within the confines
of the male initiation rite - the Tambaran,that the end of secrecywould "mean the end of women's
credulity and men's legitimacy" (159). The Ilahita were stuck within an ideological framework which
was potentially far more disastrousfor them than was true for eighteenth-centuryEnglish men. The
Instead, the Ilahita charter myths gave the greatestpowers to women. So men feared that should women
find out these secrets- secretswhich were told by each generationof men to the next - that there would
be an "apocalyptic collapse of male authority" (159). Apparently, the Ilahita, too, could have used an
ideological reconstruction of their charter myths, becausethey were otherwise left fearing (although
immediately before hand, joyfulty anticipating - explanation to follow) a deluge. And, in fact, that's
what they got: the Tambaran did break down and Tuzin revisited his Ilahita friends to uncover the results.
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Fletcher several timesp the work of Lyndal Roper and to her work Oedipus and the Devil. Roper
discusseshow discovering that "[t]he axiom that gender identity was not a biological given but a
historical creation was immensely liberating: the historian's task was to lay bare the precise historical
meaning of masculinity and femininity in the past, thus relativizingthe content of these constructs in the
present"(13). Clever gender historians could excavatethe archaeology of gender construction, and dig up
the nasty secretsthat help keep men in power in the present. Tuzin tells us though that the secretsof the
Tambaran were exposednot by the women but by Ilahita men themselves. He recounts:
He asks himself: "Why did the men do it? What would have incited them to obliterate, in the spaceof a
few moments, the soul of an ancestraltradition that encompasseda vast range of cognitions, values, and
social relationships?"(20). He speculatesthat it was possible that Christianity undermined their sacred
twlhy did it take thirty-two years of exposureto Christian teachingsbefore they made the
final leap to faith? The most general answer is that it took a generation's worth of challenging
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He is referring to the Ilahita Creation myth about the Cassowary-Mother - the story of
This story "foretells the death of male hegemony as an act of revenge,one to which, also prophetically,
the men fatally, avoidably, exposethemselves" (65). The men were as happy about this as Roper is about
the prospects of undermining the myths of patriarchy in the present day. "The men rid themselvesof the
contradiction that had bedeviled them since the inception of the ritual system in the last century: the
reliance on secrecy and deceit, which undermined the legitimacy of male authority and produced a sense
of moral uneaseand vulnerability among the men themselves" (65). The men expressedto Tuzin that "to
reveal the Tambaran to the women meant conquering their fear that its secretswould be discovered . . .
[which is] why, as was later describedto [him], the occasion was triumphant, festive. The act was a
catharsis,a brave, spiritual cleansing. By returning the cassowary's skin to the women . . . the men
resolved a moral dissonancethat had haunted male society from is mythic beginnings" ( 176).
With no deceptionsand secretsto hide, there is no need for masculine, conscience- soothing
considerateness.Domestic relationships are increasingly raw and unbuffered. From both
observed casesand the general impression gotten from living in Ilahita, it is clear that acts of
violence by men against women - mostly against wives, but also against mothers - have greatly
increasedin frequency with the decline and death of the Tambaran. The reason is nearly
always the same: with the Tambaran gone, wives no longer bend to their husband's will; indeed
some wives, believing men are now powerless, attempt to dominate their husbands. What they
find is that, with the Tambaran gone, husbandsresort to their fists, which in the short term hurt
far more than rhetoric does . . . Men no longer dominate women and therefore they no longer
fear them. The loss of the Tambaran has removed the sublimation channel, exposing women to
a level of domestic brutality much higher than was previously observed. Ritual menaceand
rhetorical violence have gone, replaced with the real thing. Ironically, it would appearthat the
Cassowary - Mother's final revenge,the ultimate force of the Deluge, is not the liberated
savageryof women, but the unsublimated savageryof men. (177)
It was a Burkeian horror story made real. But for Tuzin, experiencing this horrid turnabout to a people he
clearly had come to love brought about a clear realization - something he couldn't understandfully until
Tuzin admits that "fd]uring [his] first fieldworlq problems in the mother -son relationship were
detectablebut overshadowedby the effects of ritual controls on this and all other relationships . . . [but]
by the time of [his] return the death of the Tambaran and the altered state of gender relations had yanked
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theseproblems into stark visibility'' (165). He saysthat what the men could not know when the
Tambaran was being dismantled was that "while the Tambaran may have engenderedfears at one level, it
dissipated fears on another. Those fears, older and more primitive than the Tambaran, were not really
fears about women at all, but about Mother - though, of course, it was and is women who suffer because
of them" (177). He says "what is clear in retrospect is that the Tambaran - that most woman hating of
institutions - actually helped to protect the maternal relationship by displacing and diffusing much of its
negative affect" (168). He says that "becausewomen endured a free-floating resentment,which perhaps /-Ca""
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closest to capturing the generalized senseof subordination she experiencedas woman" (172) that it is
"not surprising that the woman's firrstrated anger settled upon her sons - those other males in her life who
were not fully under the protection of the Tarrbaran" (172). "Ironically [he says] this maternal behavior
propagated its own tragedy by giving boys an experienceof women that was consistent with the grim
lessons of the Tambaran. Never mind that the boys may have grown up to be caring husbands, men who
were not always happy with what the Tambaran required of them; the morbid thoughts . . . found outlet in
the violent imagery of the Tarnbaran. It was to those tyrannies that wives responded. Like mothers
before them, wives would vent their frusffations upon their sons, and so the cycle was repeated:men
Tuzin, now really seeing the abuseof sons within the household comes to conclusions he hadn't
previously about the nature of pleasurein penile self-mutilation. Earlier he had been arguing that men
took pleasure from this act becauseit made substantialthe myths concerning the dangersof female
poisons. Now, he begins to argue that the men took pleasure in the myths becausethey made substantial
real felt feelings of female domination and emasculation. Perhapsdriven by the horrors he was now
witnessing, he unapologetically asks questionswhich had been with him for some time. "Why [he asks]
did men of the Tambaran preserve the incriminating charter? If the secrets were lethal to the men's
interests,why did they not simply stop telling them, buryrng the secrets,once and for all, under six feet of
amnesia? Or, better yet, why didn't the mythmaker concoct q set of talesjustifying the men's seizure of
ritual prerogatives from the women?" (160; emphasismine). He answers,definitively, that "[t] he answer
is that the Ilahita men cleaved to these stories in order to cope with felt vulnerabilities . . . Naming or
narratiizing an existential fear is no cure for it . . . [but] [n]evertheless, named fears are less terrifying
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than unnamed ones, and the ability to project thesefears as pictures, stories and ideologies is a large part
ofwhat separatesusfrom the beasts" (160-161; emphasismine). Tuzin is concluding that the myths
which gave to women fundamental powers was a reflection of felt experienceby men within the
household. Boys might resist abuse,but they experiencethe mother as all-powerful. Tuzin refers to the
larger adult turbulences as "a continuation of problems in the mother-child relationship at an . . . earlier
stage . . . before gender differentiation is clearly established;when personal identity is being formed and
the presenceof absenceof essentialtrust in primary relationships is setting the trajectory of future stages
of development" (173). Men take pleasure in getting "the woman" out of them becausetheir personal
identity is being formed at a time when their mothers have clear dominion over them. It works, but its
not enough: "the men keep telling thesestories to themselves[stories of female power, and male
Tuzin has come to a theory to organize his facts which - whether he knows it or not - may explain
why anthropologists have left "facts . . . theoretically unassimilatedand conceptually undeveloped" (867).
FrancesDolan (a gender historian who is apparently quite trendy - she has been recommendedto me a
few times lately) cites Linda Gordon to make a point about "current fears" in gender scholarship:
"Defending women against male violence is so urgent that we fear women's loss of stafus as deserving,
political 'victims' if we acknowledge women's own aggressions." Dolan remarks that "[i]n the last
decadeor so, this reluctance, and a practical concern about diverting scarcefunds away from battered
'domestic violence,'
women, has created deep divisions between researchersand activists focusing on
'family
which is usually construed as synonymouswith wife abuse,and those who define their topic as
violence,' to include attention to women's aggressionas well as their victimization" (221). While Dolan
agrees"with those who focus on battered women that men's violence causesmore harm and is therefore a
more pressing social problem, [she] also think[s] that the reluctanceto scrutinize women's violence
obstructs the project of understandingeveryday life in the past and of improving it now" (221-222; bless
her). It is not the intention of my essayto revisit the material evidence that historians like Stonebelieve
prove growing affective relations, or, like Linda Pollock (note that Pollock turned to evidence from
sociobiology, studies of primates, and (selectively!) from anthropology to make her case(Cunnigham
l4)) or Keith Wrightson, believe disprove Stone's theory. I am simply not yet familiar enough with the
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material evidence to even consider doing so. However, I am hoping I am presenting my own kind of
evidence that might make those who are more familiar with the material evidence than I am consider if
answers as to the nature of parent-child relations in the past lie in further exploration beyond what we
now know, or in considering whether previous interpretations have a lot to do with what historians are
Returning to Dolan. She cites some of the sameevidence Fletcher does - Shakespeare'sTaming of the
Shrew - but to help prove that both men and women used violence in the household. Fletcher says that
the play is about how "[p]atriarchy has its price for women, a price paid in terms of certain requirements
for public behavior" (107). But Dolan points out "that Katharine's violence toward charactersother than
she must learn not to do. For if the blow she strikes at Petnrchio allies her to the shrew tradition, some of
her other outburstsplace her in the tradition of spirited English lassesor, as Petnrchio says admiringly,
'lusty wenche[s]"' (209). She arguesthat "[t]he focus on Petruchio's methods of taming Katherine, as
well as the assumption that domestic violence is always and only enactedby husbandsagainst wives, can
obscure who hits whom and why in the play'' (208). "As Katharine learns to entreat and beseech,then, it
is not surprising that she employs physical force to command her audience's attention, dragging in Bianca
and the Widow 'as prisoners of her womanly persuasion'. The focus has shifted from overt physical
violence. . . to less injurious coercion . . . and to discursive domination ... In relation to more acceptable
targets and by means of more acceptabletactics, Katharine still dominates others" (22lt;emphasis mine).
Continuing to problematise the- sharp dichotomy between aomin# and subordinate,Dolan notes
I 6r";* h.cJ^-erz.'^?,
of womenascasualtiesin courtrecordsandaskillers in a rangeof legaland
"thatthe shalryff:presentation
literary representations- collapseswhen the focus shifts from murder to non-lethal forms of violence. So
does the sharp opposition between court records and other kinds of evidence" (205). She is correct: if
ffue, this does problematise current favoured representationsof patriarchy. For if all the ballads, plays,
etc., about powerful, dominating women, scolds, witches, and whores, can be related to real experiences
these stereotypes or whether real experiences of dominating women maintained patriarchy - the same
As mentioned, Fletcher refers to Roper's work Oedipus and the Devil several times in his text (more
than any other scholar in fact). Yet strangely, he does not do so when he discusseswitchcraft (the subtitle
of Roper's book is: witchcraft, sexuality and religion in early modern Europe). Fletcher saysthat "[w]ell
women and witchcraft predictable. The issue,as in all sexual politics, was one of power. Faced by
women who behaved in away that was suspicious and irrational , men in authority . . . jumped easily to
the conclusion that witchcraft was involved" (26). What Roper says about witchcraft is this:
Roper ends up concluding that the reasonmothers accusedother women of beings witches is so "[s]he
and those around her are able to crystallize her own ambivalencetowards her infant by projecting
intolerable feelings on to the lying-in-maid" (215). She talks about the experienceof new mothers:
"[G]iving birth and caring for an infant might raise memories of her own infancy, recalling the terrifying
dependence on the maternal figure for whom she may have experienced unadmitted, intolerable feelings
of hatred as well as loveothere was another person playrng the maternal role to hand" (2LI). "She
projected the evil feelings about herself on to the 'other' woman" (2ll). Roper's account of witchcraft
leads in an entirely different direction than does Fletcher's. Indeed, Roper points out that it was not a
matter of misogyny: "after all fshe explains], it was becausethe statetook the fears and accusationsof
possible for historians to look at the same material evidence (or essentially the same,Ropers' examples
are mostly about Germany though Fletcher is quite awate of this) and come to nearly opposite
conclusions concerning the nature of the dangerousfemale, how much of this history is self-serving?
Shouldn't we consider whether what gender historians like Roper and Dolan are doing is moving us
slowly, but surely, to the same conclusions about early modern England (Europe) that anthropologists
like Tuzin (there are many others, and his account of Ilahita is widely applicable throughout New Guinea
- at the very least) came to concerning the cultures they were studying. Will we eventually conclude that
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the reason a one-sex model existed for over a millennium is not becausemen weren't capable of
inventing something better until Locke came around, but becauseit accurately characteized what it felt to
be a man during this period? We might need our ideological frameworks to reflect the way we feel (as
Tuzin proposes). If we can allow ourselvesto imagine ideological systemsin this way, then Stone's
account of the development of affective individualism might in fact be linked to the development of a
two-sex gender model (and, unlike Stone's account, this might have been an improvement for both men
and women). Perhapsyou couldn't have a two-sex gender model until men felt less like they were full of
public distinction? Will we eventually realize that collapsing characterizationsof these developments
into forms of gender conffol, might miss the real story that they had more to do with an improvement of
relations between man and woman, between generations,that allowed for a kind of social grourth
previously impossible to imagine? Tuzin offered us an anthropologist's (by and large - he refers to the
work of psychologists) perspective of the consequencesof the maternal abuseof their sons. If we imagine
that the consequenceof being reviled as "the dangerousother" in early modern England was not
Fletchers' Uebermenschenmothers, but was instead the same as for Ilahita women, perhaps its now time
Tuzin refers to the importance of identity formation in the early ygars of a child's life. Stanley
Greenspanoffers an expansive look at this in his book Growth of the Mind. Before I get into this, a few
words about Greenspan. Like Tuzin, Greenspantends to be the kind of scholar that elicits comments like:
"Greenspan generously shareshis insights . . .which are brilliant and exciting. . . a clear guide to the early
stagesof emotional development". (This quotation is from Berry Brazleton, a psychologist that historians
like Linda Pollock and David Stannard have actually used to support counter arguments to the one I am
making). Something in their overall calmness(Tuzin's outburst waited until 1999) in manner, their
respect for other scholars,and perhapsbecausethey "don't take their argumentstoo far" (this book by
Greenspanwould be deemedan exception here), allows them to get away with presenting arguments
which are not politically correct and yet remain on "acceptable" reading lists. Greenspanbegins his book
In recent years, through our research and that of others, we have found unexpected common
origins for the mind's highest capacities: intelligence, morality, and senseof self. We have
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charted critical stagesin the mind's early growth, most of which occur even before our first
thoughts are registered. At each stagecertain critical experiencesare necessary. Conffary to
traditional notions, however, theseexperiencesare not cognitive but are types of subtle
emotional exchanges. In fact, emotions, not cognitive stimulation, serye as the mind's primary
architect.(l)
He continues:
Historically, emotions have been viewed in a number of ways: as outlets for extreme passion, as
physiologic reactions, as subjective statesof feeling, as interpersonalsocial cues. Our
developmental observationssuggest,however, that perhapsthe most critical role for emotions
is to create, orgarize, and orchestratemany of the mind's most important functions. In fact,
intellect, academic abilities, senseof self, consciousness,and morality have common origins in
our earliest and ongoing emotional experiences. Unlikely as the scenario may seem,the
emotions are in fact the architects of a vast array of cognitive operations throughout the lifespan.
Indeed, they make possible all creative thought. (7)
However:
Becausethe formative emotional experiencesthrough which our minds develop vary so much
from person to person, individuals differ considerably in the levels of the mind they master and
maintain. Some have difficulty with forming relationships and modulating feelings and
behavior. Some master only the mind's early levels. They interact and communicate
predominantly though behavior (hitting when angry, grabbing when lusty, stealing when
greedy). Others progressto using symbols, including ideas and words, to communicate their
wishes, feelings, or intentions but still tend to function in polarized, rigid ways. Others who
progress further are capable of reflecting on feelings, dealing with gray-area ambiguities,
collaborating and negotiating with their own and other's wishes, and formulating values and
ideals. Also . . .the depth and breadth of each individual's mental development varies. The inner
world of some people encompassesmay of the emotional themes of life - closeness,
dependency,sexual pleasure,assertiveness,anger,passion, empathy,jealousy, competition.
Others experienceonly a shallow, repetitive drama. (164)
Greenspantells us that "the child can develop a rich inner life only if she has experiencesfrom which she
can derive and refine inner images" (8a) This is intuitively understoodby historians when it comes to,
say, the experiencesof people encounteringthe "enriched" environment of London in early modern
England (when they are not talking about the anxieties of the London environment that is). But according
to Greenspan, although later experiences are important, the most fundamental and determining
experiences (or lack thereof) occur in early childhood with interactions (or lack thereof) between
children and their mothers (within the household). Painful experiencecan polarize patterns. "Projecting
one's own inner desires on others can result in a fixed attitude about how the world operates,one that can
become self-fulfilling. Regarding other people with suspicion, for example, may lead them to act angrily,
which only confirms the individual in believing they are not to be trusted. Fixed beliefs derive from rigid
personal needsthat do not allow an empathic grasp of the complexities of other people's lives" (L22)
Further, if the interactions between the mother and child are overly hostile "emotions fail to cohere into
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comprehensiblepatterns. Intense storms of feeling rage acrossthe mind, whipping up huge waves of
affect that capsize andwreck thought, logic, and the senseof reality''(190). 2
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Assuming you had a generation raised without the affective, interactional involvemeo(t t^nan says
characterizesthe adult who reacts to situations impulsively, who attributes hostile intentions in
ambiguous situations, and who tend to think in a stereofypedpolarized ways, would they be at all similar
to the generationsconstituting eady modern England? John Beattie has argued that "violence was part of
everyday life" (37). Stone concludesthat "[dt already seemsclear. . .that medieval English society was
twice as violence-prone as early modern English society, and early modem English society at least five
this change in the level of violence (Beattie notes the decreasein violence too) is that a commercial
society could not function without sellrestraint. Robert Shoemakertells us that in London, "[i]n a
rapidly, growing metropolis, filled with immigrants and permeatedby new forms of wealth, men of all
social classesneedednew ways of establishing and defending their honour" (1999, 138). So new
tell us it increasedthe use of public insults by men). In Shoemaker'sarticle on "The Decline of Public
Insult in London'he arguesagainst a top down imposition of this civilizing process. He saysthat
interactions between the ruling and upper-middle classes,the changes[he documents] were for the most
part unrelated to the state. . ." (130; unlike, say, Paul Langford 1999). My complaint with historians who
are concernedto tell us not to look at "pressuresfrom above" is that they do not themselvesget to the
"boffom" of the maffer. If Greenspanis right, and if developmentalpsychology is a valid discipline, then
we must stop imagining the mind as tabula rasa, so that it isn't common sensethat if prescriptive codes
start (and if these norlns weren't resistedby "the oppressed")prescribing self-restraint that that itself
Greenspan is arguing that self-restraint has more to do with emotional development and that conflict
awareness. Successfuloonflict resolution requires the ability to put yourself in another's shoes,
to acknowledge and empathically experiencethe other's objectives. It's difficult to give up any
of your own goals if you can't intuitively understandthe reasonthe other person feels so
strongly about his own" (234).
In other words, manners really are related to morals, and that both are not part of a hegemonic ideological
system but signs of real personal, and thus also societal, growth. The conventional explanation for the
development of sympathy (Adam Smith) is related to the new needsof a commercial society, or even
more to new conceptions of the body focusing on "nerves". We are often offered little discussion
whether or not this was related to a real growth in human sympathy and sympathies.
associatedwith "a sffonger senseof the complexity of human psychology, of the range of choices
available, unconsciously as much as consciously. With this went a still clearer notion of the richness of
human experience. Personality becameless, not more, explicable and harder to judge definitively, more
prone to delicate and uncertain distinctions" (294) This resemblesalmost exactly how Greenspan
of the English gentleman - who had read The Man of Feeling - and so he says: "[w]hat real effect it had
on ordinary behavior it is impossible to estimate. Perhapsit was a self-delusion" (295). But Langford
does recognize the growth an entirely new social category (credits it to needsof the state), and for
Greenspan,and I hope for us, this itself a clue as the nature of its origins.
Greenspan remarks that "[i]n both theory and practice we have tended to underemphasize the
generative aspectof intelligence, the oreation of intentions and ideas, instead focusing more on how
intentions and ideas are put into a frame of reference" (127) He speculatesthat "perhaps we have paid
less attention to the generative aspectsof intelligence becausewe haven't understood the processes
involved in their production. Becauseideas emergefrom affects and intentions, it is quite possible that
the dichotomy between reason and emotion is partly responsiblefor our oversight" (127). I think that this
preference for the Hobbesian man in history and the social sciences- or the Darwinian (Darwin does
discuss man's development of morality but characterizesman's ability to replicate or rival the creative
processesof nature as "pathetic" (1859). The overall model of ideological growth we normally
encounter, as I have already mentioned, is Darwinian. The biologist Brian Goodwin complains about the
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not of
organismsbeingseenasthe manifestations
organismiclevel in termsof purecontingencies,
andGoodwin,offer
life asa "shallow,repetitivedrama"(164).Together,Greenspan
the child experiences
new paradigms. Instead, the unusual staying power of an ideology requires explanation.
But if we follow my line of argument, the new two-sex gender model, and the creation of private
(female) and public spheres(male) should be an improvement over the one-sexmodel - and not for the
reasonsFletcher offers. Even Stonebelieves this to have been a disaster. I'm going to let Anne Mellor
Mellor, agreeing with Linda Colley, arguesthat "women writers of the Romantic era in Britain
participated fully in the public sphereas Habermasdefined it. Their interventions - through the agency of
the discursive public sphere- thus had political and economic consequencesso far reaching that they call
into question the prevailing scholarly assumptionthat women did not participate in the public sphereor
that a locatable dividing line between the private and public sphere,existed in England between 1780 and
A striking visual confirmation of their successin redefining the image of the ideal British
woman occurs in a design by Lord George Murray that was widely circulated n 1792 by the
loyalist Association for the Preservationof Liberty and Property against Republicans and
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If Britannia is, as Mellor argues,the mother of the nation, Britannia's porfayal as clearly female does not
seemto limit her importance and power. This is what Fletcher has argued should have happened. If we
compare this Britannia with the Armada portrait of Elizabeth, who, Fletcher tells us, is aligned "with the
armed warrior maidens of the psychomachia" (80) and thus, he says, is partly male, we might wonder if
we are seeing the results of growing warmth between children and their mothers over this time. The war-
like powerful "mother" ELizabethfransforming into a softer - though still strong - mother Britannia.
Consider: Why exactly was Marianne depicted as an Amazon? was she partly male? wasn't this sort of
depiction related to a one sex gender model which had by then been replaced?Or do these images, like all
public images and portrayals of women acrosstime, reflect at a cultural level the nature of the experience
of mothers within the household? Women could still be imagined as Amazon-like, even if the French
Marianne and not the English Britannia, in spite of a two-sex model, perhapsbecausemany men had
grown up with experiencesof a terri$ring mother within the household. Yet, to at least imagine a softer,
though still authoritative image of Britannia,may have representeda kind of growth in the imaginative
acceptanceof the portrayal of women. She could be sffong and yet not be warrior-like, or demonic. I am
not suggestingthat there was a complete turnaround, but perhaps,if we do not limit too closely the kind
of public portrayals of women we might think would characterize female empowennent, hidden in late-
eighteenth century images of women might be signs of a growing toleration of the strong woman as
something other than a terrorizing creature that men neededto tame. We might also remind ourselves
that although gender borders may not be a sign of a mature society they well have been an improvement
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over what existed previously. (And consider Tuzin's account of the collapse of borders in Ilahita society .
..).
Consider, too, according to Shoemaker,from "an examination of conduct books . . . and popular
literature shows, for example, that a key aspectof contemporarybeliefs about defamation, the cultural
stereotlpe that women were prone to scolding, lost much of its power in the eighteenth-century. In these
books complaints that women were naturally loquacious and loose with their tongues virtually disappear
after the middle of the eighteenth-century''(119)Shoemakerbelieves that this was a result of the waning
of humoral psychology. Could it insteadbe becausechildren were growing up with less scolding from
history. Fletcher concludes that the end of the eighteenth-centurydid seea reduction in male anxieties. I
agree - it seemsclear from all the material evidence that he and others provide that (some?many?)boys
were experiencing less anxiety provoking, wanner relationships with their mothers, so there was less
reason to feel anxious. (I am, in part, being playful here - I am not maintaining that the nature of city life,
relations might have made women's greater involvement in the public spherepossible, and it would
certainly be a pre-requisite for Mellor's thesis of women setting the tone of public life (even foreign
policy - she explains that the "concept of the mother of the nation [was] also used to justiff Britain's
colonial imperialism (144)") to be correct. This influence would otherwise, invariably, be construed (and
comrption (1998, 223) and hyper-masculine"patriot" imagery but up until 1785 - a careful look at the
nature of changes in this sort of imagery throughout this period and thereafter would seem warranted (my
next step?)).
I have been trying to show that the eighteenth-century may have been the story of the improving man,
rather than part of a continuing story of the base man. Stone once wondered if social psychology might
one-day capture the interests of modish historians in the way anthropology currently had then done
(1987). I would like to make the casefor developmentalpsychology instead. Stone's concern over social
sciencewas that it tended to be reductive and static. I would argue that though much of the history
gender historians offer is a pleasureto read (surprised?),it is becausemany of them are extremely
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nuanceduriters. But they are collapsingthe nrumcesof history into a singularparadigmof patriarchal
his subjectfrom which he intuits remarkableinsightsinto why peopleare asthey are,and do what they
do, shouldserveasa model of what a historianshouldaskof her/himselfin regardsto the studyof herlhis
(Figure 1)