We should know
first the cirumstances which lead scientists to think about fouding it
1. There's not much point to either wealth or reltationships if you aren't happy.
4. It is hard to have good feelings about yourself if you don't have good
emotional management skills.
Therefore , they concluded that : Emotional management skills are one of the
fundamental ingredients of happiness.
A simpler definition might be: Knowing what feels good, what feels bad, and
how to get from bad to good.
What's the difference between EQ & IQ??
Emotional intelligence refers to the capacity for recognizing our own feelings and
those of others, for motivating ourselves, and for managing emotions well in
ourselves and in our relationships , and it's controlled by right brain side
Also, they are acquired life long
.Intelligence Quotient - the purely cognitive capacities measured by IQ
.It's controlled by left brain side
(But IQ isn't acquired after the age of 21 (ie. Grown ups
Our emotions are the way our bodies talk to us and tell us what they need to
be healthy and happy. Emotions were designed through millions of years of
evolutionary refinement to help us survive and thrive. If we don't listen to the
messages our emotions are sending, we ensure our own unhappiness, while
risking ill health and early death.
EI = Heart + Brain
People with healthy emotional skills, or "high EQ" are happier, healthier, and
more successful in their relationships.