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INDICE
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VIII. INCONDICIONALIDAD RADICAL Y ROLES
INSTRUMENTALIZADOS ,.................. 67
1. La sustitucion del ser real por su apariencia ... 68
2. La crisis del comprorniso en el amor
condicional 69
3. Fortaleza y rnadurez....................... 74
IX. DONACION RECIPROCA Y APROPIA,CION
UNILATERAL .. oj> ,. .. ~ .. io .. , ,.".................. 77
1. La tendencia del amor a la donaci6n radical y
total y sus obstaeulos 77
2. La tendencia a la apropiacion posesiva del
otto .. " " , ~ " ..,................................ 80
3. Inmadurez y egolibertad 82
X. TRASCENDENCIA Y EOOISMO................... 87
1. Madurez y apertura al otro......................... 87
2. EI narcisismo 4......................... 90
3. La fuerza trascendente del amor . 91
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4. Inmadurez y dependencia
de las circunstancias momentaneClC
La persona inmadura se 'D.08 muestra as! como
una 'persona vinculada 'y dependiente unicamenre d&la
circunstancia, del instante, Dependiente de las oir-
cunstancias ambientales porque, estando situada en
ellas y careciendo de un proyecto, es incapaz de Ita..
cerles frente, de eacanzarlas bacia los tines y proposi-
tos que se ha trazado, de manera que sometiendolas
acabe por ensefiorearse de ellas. Dependiente de las
circunstancias momentaneas porque, al carecer de lID
proyecto, se esta subyugado por el instante, por Io
temporal, 0, 81 se prefiere, por 1a tiranfa de los estfmn-
los que acontecen en el tiernpo.
Ahara bien, la vida human a se nos manifiesta en
cierto modo como anticipacion y!uturiza(;i6iJ.
Anticipacion, porque, como el futuro no esta escrito,
todavfa puede escribirse de diversos modos. En este
sentido, s610 la persona que tiene un proyecto puede
anticipar el futuro, mediante la prospectiva, de maneta
que sea capaz de modificar, ya desde el presente, las
condiciones que incrementan la probabilidad de q'llie
ese futuro se haga posible en la forma en que se Ila
elegido. .
Pero tambien futurizacion porque, a traves de las
proyectos, las personas, yendo mas alla del instants e~n •
que los concibieron, configuran 10 que todavfa 'no e~,
10 que acaso estaba Damado a no ser y que, sin embas-
go, en virtud de clio acaba siendo. De algun modo, t<i1-
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