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Jul 13 · 7 min read
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In Herman Hesse’s novel Siddhartha, the title character and his friend
leave home, disowning all possessions, to seek spiritual enlightenment.
They decide to live on the road, homeless, journeying away from the
known towards the unknown. It’s not a life of ease, but it is one they
embrace.
When they are hungry, they fast. When they are unoccupied, the
meditate. When they are looking for answers, they wait. And as they
move from place to place, they get more and more xated on their goal.
This pursuit takes him through both space and time: He settles down in
a city, falls for a woman, and over the years, becomes a successful
businessman. This, of course, doesn’t ful ll him either, so he leaves. His
next stop, his nal stop, is a small home by a river where he lives with a
ferryman.
At the end of his life, Govinda, who is still searching for enlightenment,
hears about an older ferryman who people whisper has the answer.
This ferryman is Siddhartha, who has now taken over from his old
mentor at the river.
When Govinda tells him that he is still a seeker, his old friend — right
before the book ends — shares what it is that he has learned after all
these years:
“When someone seeks,” said Siddhartha, “then it easily happens that his
eyes see only the thing that he seeks, and he is able to nd nothing, to take
in nothing because he always thinks only about the thing he is seeking,
because he has one goal, because he is obsessed with his goal. Seeking
means: having a goal. But nding means: being free, being open, having
no goal.”
The Problematic Zone of Fixation
The story of Siddhartha and his friend is set in a world far di erent
from the one we occupy. It’s a simpler world, one with fewer forces
swaying minds.
Their quest, too, is not the unhealthiest one you can pursue. Aspiring
towards ful llment is, generally speaking, far better than many of the
things that occupy our desires in modernity — think money, status, and
pleasure.
The core problem, though, is the same. It’s the root of all self-in icted
misery.
We all have some in uence on what this reality has to o er, but
ultimately, many things are out of our control. The only solution, then,
is to adjust our expectations by managing our personal desires.
Unfortunately, the likelihood that the average person will forgo desire
and nd enlightenment is a small one. That said, what anyone can
learn to do — which is a healthy step in the right direction — is expand
their zone of xation.
We all have things we want, and we all have things we look to achieve.
But many of these things are far more negotiable than we make them.
Sure, making more money may make your life better o , and of course,
winning that prize or capturing the praise of someone you admire can
be life-a rming, but if there is a world of people who can live
completely in peace without these things — and there almost always is,
no matter what it is you desire — the chances are that you can, too.
The only way not to fall into this trap is to expand the zone of your
xation when the time arises. It’s to loosen the de nition of your
desires so that they can accommodate the feedback given by the
objective reality. And that’s only possible if you’re willing to step back
and let go.
The question of meaning, for example, is one such case. In the western
world, we are growing increasingly secular. Religion is on the decline.
You may see that as good or bad, but either way, that opens up a
question: What is the meaning of life? What, in fact, is meaningful at
all? Why?
The solution to most problems isn’t to ght them, but to ask better
questions.
The Takeaway
Both Siddhartha and Govinda spent their whole lives seeking
enlightenment, but it wasn’t until they simply stopped looking that they
found it.
The question they had xated on was the wrong one, and their inability
to consider the possibility that they may have to rethink their initial
premise forced them through a path lled with years and years of the
wrong answers.
It takes a lot of work, and even more courage, to look at yourself and
decide that maybe it’s time you saw things from a di erent angle, with
a di erent question, but it’s precisely this kind of work that is rewarded.
Avoiding misery isn’t easy, but it is simple. It’s on you to take the right
steps.
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