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Professionals Often Lose Sleep I felt guilt (/bipolar-and-letting-go-of-guilt/) for having left my wife to answer the question,
Over Work “Where’s Dave?” The difference between being inside and out was only the proximity to the
people. When someone came or went I slipped lower in the seat. God forbid they saw me.
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One day I hope to just heal. I don’t know if this day will ever come. This is one more pain of
living with bipolar disorder.
And those of you with bipolar disorder (/bringing-bipolar-into-focus/) who go to these family
picnics and other events, you are very brave. Pat yourself on the back for facing your fear and
suffering in silence. Sometimes it is better to hide in public than to hide alone.
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Sometimes the smallest healthy Dave Mowry is the author of the new book, “No Really, We Want You to
habits can have a big impact when Laugh. Mental Illness and Stand-Up Comedy: Transforming Lives.” The
practiced regularly, whether getting book tells the story of Dave and five others whose lives have been
a monthly massage, adding lemon impacted by mental illness Dave has bipolar disorder and severe anxiety
slices to your water bottle to make and suffered in silence for most of his adult life Five years ago Dave took a
hydration more appealing, or stand-up comedy class and it transformed him by showing him how to
forming an intention for the next find humor in his darkest experiences. Dave now teaches stand-up
day when you go to bed. What are comedy to other folks with a mental illness and sees the same
your favorite wellness rituals transformation happen in them. Dave recently received the Community
and why? Champion Award for his work in mental illness in Oregon. He speaks
Click here to share your regularly to large and small groups and was interviewed on the Think Out Loud program on
experiences. (/connect/soundoff/) Oregon Public Radio after the Robin Williams suicide. Dave was also featured in an article by
The Oregonian newspaper in 2011. The article focused on the fact that most people with a
mental illness are not dangerous or threatening. Dave worked as a peer support specialist for
NAMI from December 2010 to December 2014. During this time he worked with well over 1200
people and this experience informs his writing, teaching, speaking and performing. Dave and
stand-up class graduates perform regularly to audiences from 50 to 500 people in Oregon and
Southwest Washington shattering stigma one joke at a time. Dave lives just outside Portland,
Oregon with his wife Heather, daughter Meghan and grandson Van.
As a family member who loves an d wants to relate to our person with anxiety disorders, is
there anything that I (we among relatives) can do to make our family times easier for this
person?How can we show that we totally accept people with problems and are not judging
them?
JULY 1, 2017
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Another great article about the little things that we suffer from. I have a take an extra pill for
anxiety when I head out for a gathering. I plant myself as far off on the edge of the gathering as
I can. I take a walk, that what I do. I like nature luckily, makes my walks more believable.
Sometimes I have to take a second pill at the gathering if it’s full of strangers and a really noisy
gathering. Sadly, I have to do this even for small family gatherings too. It’s just too much energy
flying around. I’m glad to know that there are so many others out there like me. Keep up with
the fantastic articles.
Now I understand why I feel like hiding at family functions. I too feel like I am on the verge of a
panic attack and I end up just leaving every one behind. Thank you for sharing your experience
with us!
Thank you for posting this article Dave. All these years I thought I was the only one who felt like
this. Unfortunately, all of my family died before I was diagnosed. Now I understand why I felt
the way I did around those I loved.
I feel that way most of the time when going to parties, especially cocktail parties, and places like
conventions. I do better when I have a “role” to play that is my armor. Funny thing is my anxiety
is rarelybspecific, but hangs over me like a cloak influencing my comfort level.
I have always been sensitive about having pressured speech, even before I was diagnosed I was
cautious about speaking because I sensed people had a hard time following me.
I wish I could change, but I am an introvert at heart and prefer one-on-one interactions to
group events.
MARCH 5, 2016
And, frankly, I would rather be inside that than exchanging socially acceptable banalities in
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My condition is as much a gift as a curse; if the price of that is anxiety and introverted solitude,
then so be it.
When I was severly depressed I thought that people could just look into my eyes and see how
sick I was. Nobody knew, couldn’t fathom my pain. Then I just put on my false face with
everyone exept my imediate relatives.
It has gotten to the place that I don’t attend any functions. Birthdays, parties, and dinner with
friends and family have become too tiresome, frightening, and irritating. If I don’t want to be
there, I don’t go. Essentially, I have become a hermit. One of the few things I do is go to church,
where I can sit in the back and run out before everyone else leaves. I don’t make eye contact
with anyone. I don’t initiate conversations. If someone does talk to me, I grunt an answer and
turn away. If I have to run to the store, I look down constantly, and don’t respond to people if
they talk to me. I’d rather act deaf than have to converse with someone.
You describe the world of suffering in silence perfectly. You writing this will help other
people.
Thanks Dave for sharing! It was a brave thing to do, which prompted me to
respond. You are one step above me. I can’t seem to make myself go to a
function where I know a lot of people are going to be. If it’s a small family
gathering (no strangers) I can muster up the courage to go, but then and only
then!
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