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Learn all you need to know about
coping with stress in the workplace,
1994 to 1996.
Reducing
Stress
Tim Hindle
DK PUBLISHING, INC.
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Project Editor Sasha Heseltine
Editors Marian Broderick,
4 Introduction
David Tombcsi-Walton
US Editor Ray Rogers
Designers Elaine Monaghan.
Austin Barlow
C Understanding
Assistant Editor Felicity i rowe
Assistant Designer Laura Waison Stress
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W'iivi Is
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26 Jobs
nr> Assessing Managing
10 Relationships 46 Time
nn Assessing Communicating
• >u the Workplace 48 Well
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m Coping with
Daily Life 50
Gaining
Inner Balance
Making Time
52
Dealing with to Relax
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Stress at Work 54
Seeing Stress
in Others
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Identifying
Attitudes
Devising
a Strategy
Taking
Positive Action
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Analyzing
Personality
Helping
Others
Taking Action
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Reclaiming
Your Desk
at Home
a*) Sll DYING Taking
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Work Patterns
Learning
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Developing
s^ '•!!<* 66 Interests
Improving
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72 Acknowledgments
Introduction
Stress will probably affect all of us at some
time in our lives. Reducing Stress will help
you manage the stress in your life so that it
Understanding
Stress
Stress has been called "the invisible disease." It is a
What Is Stress?
On occasion, all of us experience
stress. Beneficial stress can help drive 1 Learn how to spot
2 Do not be afraid and are increasing steadily. Society bears the cost
of public services such as healthcare for those
to talk about
made ill by stress, pensions for early retirement
situations that
brought on by stress, and disability benefits for
you find stressful. accidents occurring because of stress. In addition
to this, stress often makes people irritable, and
this affects the overall quality of everyone's lives.
ItsEffect Hypothalamus
on the Body activates adrenal
glands to release
Pupils dilate
the alteration of targets, may cause stress, you have too much
or stress may be built into an organization's to do, delegate
structure. Organizational stress can be at least one task.
Organizational Stress
Learn from those Stress affects organizations as well as the individuals
who do not suffer within them. An organization with a high level of
complaints and lost customers costs time m its products and services
and money. Complaints take time to deal • Poor organizational image A company
with, and replacement products or ma) recruit only a low-quality - or
• High stafl turnover. Both time (for • Dissatisfied workers Valuable time is
retraining) and mone) (for recruitment) spent in disputes with management over
are spem on replacing unhappy workers. terms ami conditions of employment.
10
Di fining Stress at Work
Anxious about
<4 FOLLOWING THE PATH OF STRESS
company's
THROUGHOUT AN ORGANIZATION
annual results
//us chart shows one example oj the stria ture oj a department
in an organization, indicating typical causes oj stress thai max
affect staff at certain Inch in the structure and particular causes
that arc affecting individuals. Stress is contagious: anyone who
Senior m vnager is not performing well due to stress increases the amount oj
pressure on their colleagues, superiors, and subordinates.
Demands of
superior and
subordinates
may conflict.
Manager
Involved in detailed
arrangements jor
jorthcoming
business trip
Personality clashes
may
at the
workers
affect
same level
senior
is
Anticipating
promotion. since
due
manager
to retire
X Manacjkr
in the hierarchy.
SUBORDINATE Subordinate
Inexperience
may cause staff
to make errors
1
.
in meetings
1 1
Understanding Stri s^
Recognizing Symptoms
r I
y here is no single symptom that
A can identify stress - stressed and 10 If you suffer from
unstressed people may equally well regular headaches
Physical Signs
Some physical symptoms of stress can be life-
RECOGNIZING
STRESS AT WORK
// is often quite easy to spot signs
12
Recognizing Symptoms
Emotional Signs
The emotional symptoms of stress can include 12 Listen to what
general irritability, acute anxiety attacks, depression, your body tells
lack of libido, the loss of a sense of humor, and you as objectively
an inability to concentrate on the simplest of
as you can.
routine tasks. Understanding unusual emotional
responses and related changes in behavior is the
key to recognizing stress in yourself and others.
people, social events, or previously enjoyed • Hobbies and interests are healthy
activities, such as a favorite sport; mood enhancers; their absence,
especially if sudden, may worsen
• Poor concentration, difficulty in remembering,
underlying stress.
and an inability to make decisions;
• Sadness, guilt, fatigue, apathy, and a pronounced
• Almost everyone has a certain
weakness that comes to the
feeling of helplessness or failure;
fore when they are stressed. For
• Loss of confidence in personal ability, often example, many resume smoking
coupled with a lack of self- worth. even though they "quit" before.
Behavioral Symptoms
As a temporary relief from stress, many people Alcohol consumption can
creep up imperceptibly
indulge to excess in eating, smoking, drinking,
or spending. Stress can turn an occasional Chocolate
provides a
smoker into a chain smoker and the social
short-term
drinker into an alcoholic. Individuals may sugar hig
ABUSING STIMULANTS
Sugar, alcohol, nicotine, and caffeine can all
help overcome fatigue, anxiety, and tension Smoking may
rapidly - but all too briefly. Used to excess, Caffeine consumption ini reast with
they heighten the symptoms caused by stress. ma) nsc rapidly stress levels
13
Understanding Si ri ^^
Measuring Stress
There are a number oj elements
that can be quantified and used as 13 Ask yourself if
Looking at Statistics
One of the most useful sources of information
Mi/
14 Keep a diary of
j- c on the level of stress in society
y is national
statistics - tor example, the annual rate ot heart
the days that you
attacks and suicides. Changes over a period of
feel highly stressed. time in these statistics are particularly significant
Measuring Stress
in Individuals Stress Statistics
Although stress in individuals can be measured The following statistics attest
to some extent by things like heart rate and the to some of the effects of stress:
with how far "out of sync" an individual is with thought to cause hall ol all
their usual physical condition. Since everyone has premature deaths in the US.
a different heart rate or blood pressure, there is • In the EC, some 10 million
no average statistic to indicate personal stress. Also, people suffer from work-
a lack of sleep or a loss of self-esteem. There are the Gross National Product
also thought to be different responses for men and • In the UK, 180 million work
women. Whereas women may become withdrawn days per year are lost through
14
Measuring Stress
Measuring Stress
in Organizations
Companies and other types of organization have
15 Treat yourself to
certain widely recognized quantitative measures of
something you
the level of stress, the most popular of which is
want but would
the absenteeism figure. This is the percentage of
staff work on any one day However,
absent from not normally buy.
you cannot deduce that the company with the
highest rate of absenteeism is necessarily the most
stressed; certain industries are more prone to
absenteeism, through injury for example. In fact,
15
Understanding Si ri ss
existence
hurdle to beating stress
- acknowledging
is recognizing
that stress is a Options
problem is a vital step toward reducing it. Measure
1 Never
your level of stress regularly by responding to the
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like I want to explode.
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I notice negative changes I focus on the negative
in my behavioral patterns rather than the positive
when am under my
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to read newspapers as or service immediately.
often as I would like.
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true emotions both at than can handle at once.
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Understanding Stri ss
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25 I avoid delegating tasks
u I deal with tasks before
to other people. prioritizing my workload
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How Stressed Arf: You?
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no to requests and demands. outstanding work each day.
a a a aj
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to
think
cope with
I will not be able
my workload
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me from taking action.
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a a
Analysis
Now that you have completed the self- 32-64: You manage your stress level very
assessment, add up your total score and well. Too little stress can be unstimulating,
check your stress level by reading the so strive to achieve the optimum balance
corresponding evaluation. However low between positive and negative stress.
your stress level may be, there is always 65-95: You have a reasonably
room for improvement. Identify your safe level of stress, but certain
sections in this book. Here you will find 96-128: Your level of stress
practical advice and tips to reduce your own is too high. You need to
19
Analyzing i mi: Causes o\ Stress
Analyzing the
Causes of Stress
Society, the working world, and daily life have changed
almost beyond recognition in the past 50 years. These
changes have contributed to a major increase in stress.
Changing Societies
Demographic change has been dramatic
in recent years. Changes include rapid 17 Use travel time
population growth, migration from rural to plan your day
areas to cities, a rise in the number oj elderly or switch off - not
people, and the developing role oj women. All to do extra work.
these changes have increased stress levels.
Increasing
Urbanization
The most stressful change in recent decades has
been rapid urbanization. some industnalized
In
20
Changing Soc ii riES
Aging Populations
Life expectancy is increasing - people live longer CHANGES IN
than ever before. This is due to better diet and WOULD POPULATION
The i harts below show how the av<
a rapid improvement in medical knowledge over
age of the world's population changed in
the past 200 years. The fall in the birth rate
a 50-year period. From 1950 to 2000,
(especially in urban areas) means that the worlds the population pyramid turns upside
industrial nations now have an aging population - down, ending up with the largest slu e o)
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Analyzing rHE Causes 01 Stress
Changing Organizations
recent years, many companies have
In
launched new products or services while 19 Try to anticipate
also making cutbacks. Such changes can be corporate change
vital to a company's survival, but employees by constantly
may find themselves working harder than updating your skills.
Responding to Pressure
The Language The upheaval triggered by the need for cost-cutting
of Change and increasing productivity has two main causes:
Acoi ISITION: the purchase by • Globalization has left local suppliers facing stiff
MERGER: the combining of two be more productive have led them to pursue certain
or more organizations into one. strategies that put their workers under stress.
22
Changing Organizations
Changing Operations
In the search for improvement, companies look
closely at how they operate - the way production 21 Protect your
processes work, for example, and ways of keeping
job by drawing
track of stock. Many companies have experimented
attention to the
with reengineering their structures and involving
employees in controlling product quality and value of your work.
Encountering New
Work Cultures
22 Take advantage of The changes occurring in the workplace in recent
years have radically altered the work culture of
training programs
many companies, large and small. For example,
to learn as much opportunistic takeovers have put old-fashioned
23
Analyzing i mi Causes of Stress
Changing Practices
Change is less stressful when anticipated.
Reassessing Markets
The ability to anticipate change depends on
25 When learning
recognizing shifts in supply and demand in the
Understanding A Sl'RFI.NCi
THE INTERNET
New Technology The advent of e-mail
you
stages are available to help
improve your computer skills -
utilize them, since computer
24
Changing Practices
Relocating Offices
Information technology provides more flexibility in
Diversifying Careers
27 Make sure your One spin-off from the rapid changes occurring in
home office is the workplace is the opportunity to enjoy several
25
Analyzing mi Cu si s 01 Stri ss
Analyzing Jobs
Some jobs are intrinsically more stressful
than others. Jobs at different levels 29 Assess the stress
within the hierarchy of an organization each factors of any
have their own stress factors. Likely stress new job before
levels are an important consideration when you accept it.
mortgage consultants, bank tellers. amounts involved, the greater the stress on the staff.
Medicaj When people's health and even lives are at stake, there
Nurses, doctors, anesthetists, can be enormous pressure to make the right decision
pharmacists, physical therapists. quickly. There is great stress in dealing with human distress.
Pi OH E-B tSI l) These jobs require skills such as tact and discretion that
Personnel managers, social workers, can make it difficult to socialize with colleagues. It may
counselors, any managers with a be necessary to implement job reductions, disciplinary
team of staff working under them. procedures, and other decisions that cause people distress.
26
Analyzing Jobs
Motivating
Stress in staff
Management
Frequently, managers find Meeting Staying
o
deadlines within budgets
themselves in isolated positions.
They are often caught between
trying to satisfy the needs of
their staff on the one hand and Reporting to ^—^_ 1 m ^K- J Adapting
financial
incentives
e«
r
Feeling the
lack of job
status
too little and not
responsibility
enough control over a heavy
and tedious workload. An
employee on a production line
may become ill as a result of
unstimulating, repetitive work.
STRESSES ON A CLERICAL WORKER
Many clerical jobs are so repetitive and undemanding thai
Stress among manual laborers
the worker receives very little job satisfaction. There is too can often be caused by the
little responsibility and therefore a lack of potential for physical demands of their jobs,
creativity The boredom and lethargy thus induced can such as dangerous or high-level
be highly stressful and difficult to shake off.
work on a building site.
27
Analyzing mi Causes of Stress
Assessing Relationships
Poor relationships with colleagues at
work can cause stress. Try to analyze 3 I Treat all staff with
relationships that could be improved and dignity and respect,
identify any problem areas. Is it difficult to regardless of their
control your subordinates, for example, or positions or titles.
Experiencing Change
New organizational structures lay great emphasis
Cultural Differences
The opportunities for misunderstanding irrelevant - in fact, youth is seen as being
thai arise when working with people from linked to energy. In East Asia, howtf
If you do business with a society that is experience and wisdom Senior managers
culturally different from yours, familiarize may not expect to have dealings on an
yourself with the values espoused by that equal basis with a younger person, and you
society For example, in Europe and the US, should always be sensitive to this when
the age of senior staff is regarded as largely negotiating with someone ol a different age
28
Assessing Relationships
Observing Relationships
Despite corporate restructuring, relationships at
around your office: who goes to whom for help? visiting their offices.
Colleague
Team members may be competing with
Manager
i you for promotion. If you work together,
be aware of any conflict of interest,
not assume you share the same
and do
priorities.
Analyzing Problems
Layers of formality at work may make it difficult to
29
Analyzing ihi Cai si - 01 Si ri ss
36 Always be flexible
TRHADING
GENTLY U CASE STUDY
Sharon was apposed discussed the
Sharon's attempts to change the company's
new product P^ successes with the
company policy wen- vetoed by development sales
™nager at Tiny Tim ^cton then
ha boss, putting her in a Toys spoke to the
™kers of quality
stressful situation. Aftei learning
ch-Wrma-.e was
toys £ sales
how
representatives to
the company's
see
faced w*h products
more about the company, she arg ldmarket ng
realized that her original ideas decl n ng
( (
S a,e,
,
The doctors
S^'^d
She then
by toy stores.
produced a report
were too radical, she went on to constantly
rejected her lowing that T,ny
new T,m Toys
develop successful new products Product ideas, was respected
and after by reta.^
^veral months b "t was seen
}i\
building on the company's she became as unexc,t,ng.
very frustrated. The board
existing strengths gave Sharon
Ur »der pressure ^e go-ahead to
to come update ,ts
U P with ideas most
that the successful |,ne
board of toys,
-ould find
acceptable, she ^d sales figures slowly
°egan to improve.
30
Assessing the Workplace
checklist below. If conditions need improving, • Good use of space allows each
person some privacy, even within
make the changes that you can implement, then
open-plan offices.
ask your organization to make it a priority to
• Natural light can lift moods
make further improvements if necessary:
and prevent eye strain.
• Are the desks arranged to maximize space?
• Investing in good storage systems
• Is there noise or other pollution?
cuts down on the time wasted
• Is there enough natural light? looking for lost papers or files.
MAKING
CHANGES
If necessary, rearrange
the layout of an office to
31
Analyzing rHE Causes 01 Stress
100
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Research has revealed thai the death qj 1
a partner is at the top oj the list qj life's CO « "j5 ° 1
Q. >v
most stressful events Even positive events
V — a
such us marriage can cause tremendous 20 O ¥
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stress. Experiencing a number of major C §
O 9 E
life events in a short period oj time
* I
greatly iru reascs the risk qj stress
Life events
32
Coping with Daily Life
of other life experiences that can cause high stress what your children
levels. These include moving, having a baby (for say to you.
both mother and father), taking a job in a foreign
country, and retiring from work. Such events all
a week off work to move. Use up any paid or few times a week.
unpaid leave. Take time and care to say goodbye.
Commuting
to Work
Our daily journeys to and
from work are among the most
stressful regular events in our
lives. Worries about punctuality,
traffic jams, and overcrowded
trains and buses are experienced
on a repeated basis, and over
weeks and months this can lead
to an accumulation of stress.
33
Di \i ing wim Si R] ns at Work
Dealing with
Stress at Work
Everybody responds to stress in a different way It is only
by understanding the nature of individual responses that you
can start fighting stress in yourself and others.
Identifying Attitudes
Organizations, like individuals, differ
swim at lunchtime
important to be able to identity unacceptable
to alleviate stress. levels of workplace stress; disguising stress can
make- it harder to deal with the long term effects
34
DENTIFYINC, ATTITUDES
new«
CASE STUDY suffered because
that t«c f
d
^ GLAMORIZING
he knew
STRESS
Hebegantoexpe This case reflects a common
problem. Many high-powered
^^r^ape^c^er. employees accept the heavy
workload imposed by their
the efforts
of d-ffe^ent streSS
mL he took a long
d ° rt0rt
their responsibilities to disguise
Changing
Assessing Commitment Attitudes
to Staff If your organization ignores
Some indication of a company's commitment to stress in the workplace, try
minimizing stress among its employees can be persuading its decision-makers
gleaned from its expenditure on the following: to take stress seriously by making
Training and Development them aware of the benefits of a
Companies sometimes give a figure for this in their new attitude. For example, point
annual accounts. If there is no figure, ask why. out how much money stress can
Rewards and Promotion cost in absenteeism, and explain
A company that appreciates good work may give how much other companies have
financial or other incentives, or reward by promotion. saved - several American
Recruitment and Selection companies claim to have reduced
The company that spends little time on recruitment absenteeism by up to 60 percent
does not mind if it loses its recruits. Candidates by introducing counseling for
applying for jobs may find that a slow selection staff. Remind employers that
Pension Funds
A company with a generous staff pension plan
is probably serious about keeping its employees and
46 Challenge racism
or sexism within
looking after their general welfare (including their
working conditions) over a long period of time your company.
35
Di \i [NG with STRl SS a i Work
Devising a Strategy
\ny organization should view devising a
l\ strategy to reduce stress as a necessary 47 Think about
part oj the cost of maintaining its most introducing a pilot
valuable asset - its workforce. The ideal program before a
Considering Elements
48 Set up support The following elements can be included in an
systems to help organizations strategy for reducing stress:
absenteeism, being careful the long term, such as the provision of sports
not to increase stress. facilities, flextime, health insurance, and
3. Promote stress awareness regular medical cheeks
in in-house publications.
36
Devising a Strategy
Deciding on
Levels of Change
When you are devising your strategy, you need to
51 Encourage healthy
choose a level of intervention: primary, secondary,
eating by improving
or tertiary. Each level will bring changes to bear on
in-house cafeteria
a different aspect of the stress problem. Primary
intervention concerns fundamental change and is lunch menus.
rare; secondary intervention combats specific
causes of stress; and tertiary intervention is
an entire
organization. « Redesigning premises, and # If staff are adversely affected
rebuilding if necessary, to while building work takes place,
upgrade and modernize facilities. organizations may be obliged
to offer compensation.
stress by tackling
problems directly. Providing an improved diet for 1 In-house cafeterias should be
staff where in-house cafeteria able to offer a wide choice of
facilities exist. meals and provide for those
with special dietary requirements.
37
Di ai [NG wi n Si RESS a
i i Work
Starting Gradually
Taking steps to minimize stress involves change,
which itself is often stressful. Remember that
the costs of a stress-management program can
include poor morale the plan Introduce
if fails.
53 Monitor cases of
such programs gradually to ensure that each step
absenteeism: which
achieves its aim. For example, if employees are
given free membership at a local gym, monitoring
days of the week
the staff usage will provide a good indication of are the worst?
how popular it is. If the facilities are well used, it
Direct costs to
• Expenditure on staff allocated
to planning program
organization
• Expenditure on implementation
38
Taking Positive Action
Committing to Change
Stress management is not a quick-fix solution.
To be effective, intervention must extend indefinitely,
54 Seek out factual
and the emphasis should gradually shift from cure
evidence for the
of stress to prevention. Initially, the aim should be
effectiveness of
to reduce absenteeism by removing or changing
the factors that create stress. Once the drop in any intervention.
absenteeism levels off, the program should aim to
suggested
consults then
CASE STUDY employees should
go
company that all
courses
« BUILDING
A large electron.es
Vufflned a sharp
drop m profit
on team-building
taking part .n
a ON SUCCESS
involving
staff turnover. Here, company structure
due to a h,gh rangeofoutdooractwrt.es.
of management resistance was found to be the cause
A team Desp-te initial
the problem;
investigate
they reported
^ course went
members noted
an increase
aheadTeam the fundamental changes
39
Pi \i [ng wi 111 Stri ss ai Work
• Old newspapers should be thrown every useless or out-of-date note. In most jobs,
away - news becomes stale fast. however, you can safely follow the three-month
• Large pieces of paper are best rule. Anything that has remained unread on your
for writing notes. Scraps get lost. desk months is due for
for three a move on to
• Records of phone calls are useless another destination - either to a file for long-term
if you cannot remember when storage or into the wastepaper basket. If you
they occurred, so date notes.
have not organized your desk or done your filing
Getting Organized
Equip your desk with an in-box, pending A DISCARDING
tray, filing tray, and out-box - use a
WASTE
/( is less stressful to have
stacking system to save space. Make sure an empty desk and a lull
you sort through your pending tray and wash- papa basket than (he
40
Reclaiming Your Desk
Improving Surroundings
Stress is affected by other visual stimuli, such as
the color of our surroundings. Companies use
57 Try out different
color to create moods - in stores, reception areas,
room plans before
and so on. Do the same for the space around your
desk. The color you select will depend on whether you settle into
Filing cabinet
is close at hand
ENHANCING YOUR
WORK SPACE
Make your workspace as aesthetically 58 When you move to a new work
pleasing as your home. After all, you space, spend time thinking how
probably spend more waking hours
there than you do in your home.
to make it more pleasant.
41
Di \i [NG Wl i ii STR1 SS ai Work
Recognizing
Stressful Times
In the aftermath of a stressful time at work,
60 Overestimate it is
42
Si i dying Work Patterns
order of urgency
To Do - Persois \i. To Do- Person \i
43
Dealing with Stress at Work
Getting Feedback
A crucial part of dealing with stress is being able
to communicate effectively with the people you
63 Never knowingly
spend so much time with - your colleagues. One
embarrass people
way of doing this is to ask colleagues for help and
advice in response to stressful situations.
by asking for help
If you find yourself under stress, try to make they cannot give.
contact with colleagues who are sympathetic
and attentive listeners - those who can resist the
GAINING
CONFIDANTS
Sharing information bonds
people, both in and out of the
44
Studying Work Patterns
High
Low
A Working Day
45
Di \i [NG wi m STR1 ^ a i Work
Managing Time
One the
of the major
workplace
symptoms of stress
is the feeling that there
in
65 Ask a member of
are just not enough hours in the day to do your support staff
everything that needs doing. This feeling can to field calls if you
be reduced by organizing time better with have urgent work.
the implementation of a few simple systems.
Prioritizing Objectives
In order to manage your time better, you must
begin with an assessment of your overall objectives
66 Try to take a
in life. What do you want to achieve - a happy
five-minute break
balance of work and family life? Are you actively
from your work chasing promotion in your present job? Will you
every hour or so. settle for a position in middle management, or do
you want the chief executives office? Once you
have decided, work out your long-term priorities,
• Checking on subordinates in
minute detail takes time and 67 Cross each job off your "to do"
will probably demoralize them.
list when the job is done. It is
• Telephone interruptions waste
satisfying to see a list shrink.
time. Tell people to call back.
46
Manac.inc Time
Allocating Time
To make the best use of your time and minimize 24th
8 a.m. 1 p.m.
stress, you need to manage each day carefully.
Read mail <m<l message* I. urn li
Look at all the tasks you intend to do, and allocate I h, 20 muu (I hi)
them in the back of your mind all day. Set out your reread background material
12 p.m.
Travel Imrk mint make
-t.~> .-
Urgent tasks
Tuesday. Things to Do notes for 2 p.m. meeting
(category A)
• Finish report for are placed
• / pdate computer
TASK LISTS same. Mark in your diary how long each
lists (B)
Make a list of all the tasks task takes and the duration of each meeting
that you have to do. Place (including time spent preparing and
• ( 'heck minutes of
them in order oj priority, traveling). Over a period oj time, note any
meeting for Friday (B)
deciding where they rank habitual discrepancies and build extra time
• Filing (C) according to their urgency into future schedules to avoid pushing
and their importance. tasks forward, causing them to build up.
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Communicating Well
On 1
average, managers send and receive
78 messages every day oj their 68 Do not overload
working lives, while their secretaries handle people with
even more. Ij this load increases without information that
proper management, it may eventually they do not need.
lead to a communications gridlock.
Managing Information
Knowing how to communicate effectively is
fCV^
Bill
&ioe
^dthe the decision had been difficult Man feli that writing a nu
t)r»e
and that Bill would be positively was an inappropriate way
.********[ .nary
qj
considered for promotion in the informing Bill qj the situation.
future. Since appreciated
arranged
am Bill
Telling him in a one-to-one
^ounongl^ tMt Mary's honesty and accepted
meeting that he was valued, and
before
her explanation, he did not feel
giving him hope qj a promotion m
aPPO^terooore-^' bitter undervalued, or resentful
the future, helped minimize th*
toward Joe and Mary.
stress oj not being promoted.
48
Communicating Wi-.i i
Electronic mail allows you to correspond using and the US, for example, you
your computer. It is the fastest and most effective may be able to drop in to see
way to send messages and documents worldwide. someone "on spec." In Asia,
Working Together
Communicating with colleagues within a work
hierarchy can be stressful. Minimize stress by:
• Communicating and discussing issues face
to face whenever possible to establish good
working relationships;
• Consulting frequently with colleagues and
other teams to get their input;
• Listening to what other people are saying,
even if you do not agree with what is said;
TALKING OPENLY
Face-to-Jace meetings, such as impromptu
meetings between two colleagues, are often
more productive than written memoranda.
Modifying Behavior
Behavioral patterns deeply embedded in our
subconscious often surface in times of stress, even
72 Avoid people and
if they are not appropriate for work. For example,
situations that
if a situation at work makes you feel uncomfonable
tempt you to
and you do not take action it, you may
to change
behave in ways up and is reflected in
find that resentment builds
you are not your behavior - you may become angry and
happy with. intolerant of other people. Learn to find inner
balance and overcome inappropriate behavior by
analyzing any feelings of unfairness and trying to
discover and deal with the root of the problem.
A
important to learn to say "no" graciously. To lead excessive
a balanced life at work, you need to establish your demands on
own priorities, standards, and rights and be willing YOUr time.
to take responsibility for your own actions.
50
Gaining Inner Balance
Handling Anger
Gaining inner balance has much to do with 73 Exercise can be
Thinking Positively
In order to obtain a calm, low-stress working
environment, train yourself to think positively.
75 Try not to be
A positive outlook and the ability to remain
pressurized into
calm under intense pressure are likely to produce
making important
positive responses in your colleagues, which in
decisions hastily. turn will reduce the presence of stress in your
team or workplace. In the same way that stress
can infect a whole team, it can be eliminated by
a conscious group effort to think positively.
Learning to Say No
Some people find it difficult to say no; they are afraid of causing offense or think it might
be career-threatening. Remember that accepting a task you cannot handle can be damaging.
Use the phrases below to say no assertively without being aggressive.
1 am unable to take on
any more commitments
at the moment. ^^
Di \i ing with Si ki ss a i Work
Breathe
through nose
Relaxing at Work
Feel When you spend several hours sitting at a desk
abdomen
Place hand or in long meetings, tension can accumulate in
expand as
on chest you breathe the upper body, particularly around the neck
and shoulders, which can cause muscular aches.
Follow a simple routine during the day to help
you relax, release tension, and renew energy:
• Start by loosening your collar, tie, or scarf, and
untying your shoelaces - or take off your shoes;
• Run through the exercises on these pages,
concentrating on those you find most helpful;
• Repeat the exercises every couple of hours,
A EXERCISE ONE rather than waiting until you feel stressed and
With hands on your chest and abdomen,
breathe in unci out through the nose, tense. Remember, it is much easier to work
letting your abdomen expand and sink. toward preventing stress than to try to cure it.
head I
all fingers over circulo)
backward iollar bone movements
hands ova you) shoulders. Exhale, shoulda and squeeze gently. Hold at the base of you) skull ,\ppl\
let you) head jail bat kward, and fo) several seconds, then rel slow, cin ulai pressure, working
slowly draw you) fingers ova you) Repeat along the shoulda and arm gradually down you) neck and
colla) bone. Repeal several times /)(> the same on the opposite side then out at ross the shoulders
52
Makinc, Ti\ii ro Rl 1 AX
tiring for the eyes and the surrounding muscles. Take a short break from computer work
every hour or so, and move or turn away from the screen. Perform the exercises shown
here at regular intervals to reduce tension and prevent eye strain.
Move thumbs
Massage gently in circular
shoulder blade. Repeat with yow hold the position. Feel the slight then rotate both shoulders together.
right elbow on your left hand. stretch in the back of the m\k Keep your aims loose and relaxed
53
Di .\i inc, w 1 111 Si ki SS a i Work
Tow \m> Own APPE \i< \\« i Tow \m> Own APPE \i< \n< i
54
Seeing Stress in Ohm rs
on recognizing and dealing with in a colleague, you need to start thinking about
stress within a team; pool your the reasons for it. Consider as many options as
ideas to develop a plan of action. possible - from problems home to any difficult
at
• Other people's high stress levels relationships in the workplace. Remember that
can be infectious; try to maintain
the factors that put you under greatest stress may
a level-headed approach to help
calm your colleague.
not affect others to the same extent. Once you
have pinpointed likely causes, assess whether or
• The best way to help a stressed
coworker may be to suggest that
how you can help your colleague. Often, only that
they take a break from the person can help himself, and all you can do is
project or take a few days off. ensure he is not put under additional pressure.
55
Di \i ing wim Stress at Work
Analyzing
Personality
The effects oj stress
Understanding Types
Research in the 1960s into the effects of stress on
tne nean f° un d that some patients with similarities
82 Respect Other
in P ersona ^ l y were more prone to heart disease.
n n'nns - c\n nnt
These people were described as Type A, while those
eei you a ays
^^ were jyp e g
-j-
i
ess at ne former are
c | assecj as
need to be right. competitive and hard-driving and are likely to seek
out positions of responsibility. Whether their health
is at risk because they are in high-stress jobs or
whether high-risk jobs encourage Type-A behavior
is unclear, but these people may need more support.
kpe-A tendencies in colleagues, the) ma) placidity; patience; being laid-back; being
be al risk from stress and should consider relaxed; contentment, enjoying routine,
56
Analyzing Personality
Recognizing Strategies
Strategies for coping with stress can be divided into
two main categories: adaptive and maladaptive.
83 Identify and enlist
If colleagues exhibit adaptive behavior, they are
the help of stress-
probably dealing positively with a problem, talking
free, supportive
about it, and actively seeking help. If they are
behaving maladaptively, they may be causing members of staff.
Seeking support
from superiors
Prioritizing
;
V ^r
Taking on more
workload
L than can be handled
\z
Recognizing
limitations
< Working long and
irregular hours
Talking to friends
and dose colleagues
t Avoiding discussing
problems
) J
Noticing Changes ASSESSING BEHAVIOR
Adaptive and maladaptive behaviors are
When colleagues are adversely affected by stress, two ways of dealing with stress. The former
their behavior may change dramatically, and tends to lead to problems being resolved,
while the latter can reasc problems.
negative characteristics may be intensified. For iru
57
Di ai ING wim Siki SS \i Work
Helping Others
Once you have recognized that someone
is under stress and have started to 85 K
k eep a note of
your
on
staff
a daily
and annual
needs to cope with
weekly monthly
basis. You will then
corporate attitudes
y
constructive feedback two-way flow of
are compatible.
) information
58
Hi I PING Ol HI RS
Assessing Relationships
In many ways, the personal relationships that
exist between colleagues are just as important as
87 List all the people
their professional relationships. As a manager, try
who may be able
to be aware of who gets along with whom. Once
to help a colleague
you have a clear understanding of the personal
relationships around you, you can start to build under stress.
MM
in
and is a helpful and tactful way
exploited in the future.
- as a first attempt, at least - to
• Friendships may suffer
bring someone's attention to their between colleagues
own stress levels. This will avoid who become rivals for
OO
if this
Encourage
does not work.
to be supportive
staff
$ •
suffer
of stress to
if
have a degree of
they
signs of
of one another. weakness to senior staff.
For Si rordin vtes
59
"
Implementing Action
Once stress is recognized and acknowledged, 8/ Suggest that your
devise a strategy to help the sufferer deal with it. meetings should
Ask both subordinates and colleagues if they have last no longer
any suggestions on how to reduce their own
than half an hour.
workload, for example, by delegating some aspects
of their role to someone else. Discuss all possible
courses of action that can be taken. Always endorse
alternative arrangements so that the person under
stress does not feel they are letting others down.
List difficulties
Consider causes
Problem Solution
Discuss remedies
J
Agree on action
certain courses of action that can be taken patterns. Make general statements such as
to reduce stress levels without suggesting "I couldn't survive without my wallchart.
that any one individual member of stall has or "1 always need at least 15 minutes before
a problem. For example, everyone knows 1 go into a meeting to prepare mysell Make
thai tunc management can cause problems, colleagues aware that all brilliant leaders
so it is a good idea to pool your knowledge need their crutches Mention areas that you
and ideas on how to streamline the i\.\\ Be personally lind stressful and share solutions
blatant about introducing tkne-saving that have been successful for you
60
Hi I PING OlHI RS
Supporting Others
Occasionally you will need to support others 90 Ask colleagues
who are in the middle of a stressful situation. Take to prioritize tasks
a calm, logical approach and follow these steps: in their diaries.
• Discuss the problems that the individual is
would find most useful - this might take the a colleague, banish
form of work-related help (such as training), all interruptions.
emotional help (such as counseling), or medical
help (such as treatment for a condition brought
on or aggravated by stress);
to the pa under
stress to make them
jeel at ease
free discussion
61
Taking Ai i ion \i Homi
Taking Action
at Home
Stress felt at work is guaranteed to affect home life, which
will have a detrimental impact on family and friends. Learn
to take time off, relax, develop interests, and eat well.
versa. The two can combine to form a vicious each weekend .Try
circle with no escape. Remember: to make not to let the days
any stress-reducing action effective, it must just drift past.
an effort to have lunch regularly with your partner you are condemned to be dependent on
01 tune to throw a hall around With your children. others Ltarn to enjoy yoursel) h\ yourselj
62
Taking Timi Oi i
include at least one special treat. video, listen to music, or go to the movies.
Afternoon Night
yourself with
and
body
be the most pleasurable thing to follow oils. Listen to music while dressing slowly
breakfast. Others may want to set out for for a relaxed dinner in a restaurant with
some retail therapy - a spot of shopping your partner or a friend. Take a taxi, and
and a leisurely lunch with a good friend. do not worry about time. When you gel
Try to leave the car at home and walk, ride home, have a cup o! soothing herbal lea
a bicycle, or use public transportation. before going to bed and drifting oil to sleep
63
Taking Ac i ion at Homi
Learning to Relax
Relaxing completely is not simply doing
. nothing: it is a technique that can soon 7j Listen to your
be learned. Take some time out for a jew favorite comedian.
lessons, and you will then find it easy - and Laughter will help
pleasurable - to enjoy a regular period oj you relax.
Beginning to Relax
It is not always easy to relax at home, since there
are so many demands on our time - telephones
94 Avoid eating or
ringing, meals to be cooked, clothes to be ironed,
drinking heavily
and so on. Find a tranquil place in the house, and
period of uninterrupted time to do the
just before you
set aside a
count oj five.
64
flooi and
s/on/v
relax,
Repeat as required
and deeply
to the
breathing
M
Learning to Relax
CALMING DOWN
The goal of meditation is the attainment
of a state oj calm awareness. If you find it
difficult to concentrate at first, persevere,
and slowly your mind will clear.
Sleeping Better
Seeking Help Everybody needs a different amount of sleep. For
People who have trouble in adults, the average is seven to eight hours a night,
relaxing may find relaxation but many high-achieving people claim to survive
therapies helpful. The many on four or five. Stress can cause us to sleep less
systems available include: than we need over a prolonged period and to sleep
Alexander Technique: poorly. To improve the quality of your sleep, make
learning how to use the body sure you relax before you go to bed. Switch off
in everyday tasks to minimize from all stimulating activities - especially work -
pain, stress, and injury. at least two hours beforehand. Try meditating.
Aromatherapy: massaging Read some light fiction. Listen to some music, or
the body with essential oils. watch television. Have a warm, milky dnnk last
FLOTATION: floating in a water thing at night, or try an infusion of one of the
tank filled with a solution of many herbal plants that are thought to aid sleep,
mineral salts. such as chamomile, valerian, or passiflora.
Shiatsu: using
finger pressure on
certain areas of the
95 When lying down to relax your
body
stress
to relieve
and tension, /
65
Taking Ac hon ai Hmn
Developing Interests
Finding a balanced lifestyle is essential to
7/ Ask your company beat stress. The right pastime can be so absorbing
that it helps you switch off from everything else
to take corporate
and so engrossing that it becomes as refreshing
membership in a
as sleep. A hobby also helps boost self-esteem.
nearby sports club. After a day at the office when nothing seemed
to go right, you can head for your hobby and lose
yourself in your Some peoples hobbies have
skill.
« RELAXING WITH
\ \l\\ iiomn
66
DEVHI OPING 1\ rERESTS
Key
* • • •
• • *
effects of different sports
Excellent effect
Very good effect
* *
*
Use
would
it to
on
choose
suit you.
Beneficial effect
Minimal effect
Q lessons from a
qualified
instructor.
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Taking Action at Home
Improving Diet
We are what
stress,
we eat. When we are under
we tend to Jill ourselves with 100 Breakfast like
with "junk. " Eating well must be part of any prince, and dine
It is just as easy and quick to cook as fast by replacing coffee and tea with water or juice.
foods and is a miuh healthier alternative Drink at least eight glasses of water even,- day.
68
mproving Diet
Vitamins knd Minerals Vitamins come from many sou rces: Vitamin C from
Vitamins help the body function citrus fruits, tomatoes, melons, strawberries;
properly. There is an official Vitamin D from green vegetables, oily
recommended daily intake for every fish, milk, eggs; Vitamin 8 1 from
vitamin. Minerals, as important to meat, yeast, legumes. Leafy
good health as vitamins, consist of vegetables and fish are
some 20 chemical elements. good sources of minerals.
Proteins from Plants Good sources of plant proteins are peas, beans,
The body needs proteins in the and potatoes. Some plant
grains, lentils, seeds,
form of amino acids for cell growth proteins do not contain all or
and repair and to make enzymes for enough essential amino acids, - - ~«-
Proteins prom Animals Red meats are a source of animal proteins that
Proteins of animal origin provide are essential for a healthy functioning body. These
complete protein. In other words, proteins are also found in other
they contain the whole range of sources, including poultry, fish,
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Index
colleagues e-mail. 4<J
communicating with, 4K-4 L >
emotions
absenteeism feedback from, 44 controlling anger. 51
alcohol abuse, 8 helping. 58-61 symptoms ol Stress
back pain. 31 seeing signs ol stress in, 54-55 environment, workplace. 31, 41
(.ausi-s of, 7. 10 working relationships with. 2^
counseling services for, 35 color, m umking hands. 47
measuring stress in environment. 41 for relaxation, 52-53. 63. 67
organizations, 15 communication, 48-49 eye strain, 53
monitoring, 38 feedback, 38, 44. 58
statistics, 14 commuting. 33 F
stress-management competition, between family life, 9, 62
programs, 36. 37 colleagues, 58 taxes 49
adaptive behavior, 57 computers: feedback
adrenaline, 7. 14 e-mail, 4°. helping colleagues, 58
aging populations, 21 eye strain, ^3 helping yourself, 44
air conditioning, 31 home offices stress-management
alcohol, 8, 1 3 learning to use, 24 progran
Alexander Technique, 65 support networks for, 31 financial jobs,26
analyzing jobs, 26-27 in working environment, 40, 41 flattening, 22,28
anger, controlling, 51 coping strategies, 57 flexibleworking hours, 3 3
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Index
M
maladaptive behavior, 57
psychological ailments, 8
R
new work cultures, 23
retraining,
travel:
25
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Acknowledgments
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