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Transformational Communication
for Self, Life and Others!
How dialogue relates to transformation.


As of February 8, 2016 -

Thoughts on a conversation today with an intelligent gentleman

who happens to be my housemate and a budding new friend as
well.[1] The conversation included mention of a couple systems
that my budding friend has seen used by communities that have
successfully addressed emotionally-charged needs. After listening
to his summary on the ZEGG Forum[2] I saw that the most
essential thing that this and other techniques support is dialogue.

I see dialogue engaging individuals in multi-directional ways. We

can have inner dialogue with our selves as well as inter-dialogue
with others. I've posted "Interpersonal Communication in the Spirit
of Dialogue" at "Son of Truth of Self"[3]

Earlier I had conversation with another housemate who

expressed frustration over not having the kind of communication
in the house that is sufficiently effective. The idea of establishing a
communication system was mentioned. I "dialogued" some about
the idea and added that a system can only work if people are
willing to communicate. Unfortunately we have a couple people
who have considerable resistance to communicating with one
another. And now (having reflected more on this subject matter)
I'd add that: "a system can only work if people are willing to"
dialogue with one another!

Dialogue relates to transformation in a number of ways. In fact, I

can most readily identify at least twenty-three "Gifts" in the Gene
Keys (considered to be the “Golden Path” for personal
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transformation) that I think people could recognize as directly

pertinent to dialogue.[4]

The realization of the Gene Key “Gifts” is a transformational

process resulting from embracing the shadow/fears that exist at
the lower frequencies of each and every Gene Key. The release
of each of these Gifts support genuine dialogue, a dialogue with
others that requires b both presence with the other and
awareness one’s inner dialogue. The world is waiting for the
release of our hidden gifts that in turn will allow us to connect
more deeply with others!

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February 11th, 2016 -

Dialogue is the new community and therefor it is the new

foundation for a healthy social life and for new societies.[5] The
use of Dyads can be a most effective communication support
system for developing one's ability to dialogue. However, people
are not trained in how to dialogue with one another. People need
to learn ways to transform their "communication".

The approach for transforming communication that follows here is

based on the use of dyads.[6]

Dyads are most effective in a one-to-one private session. The

transformation of one's communication via dyads is one approach
that most anyone can learn once they know how the dyad works.

If I work with a client then I'll have the individual list all the people
they have or had relationships with starting with their family of
origin. Then we do Dyads for each family member starting with
the "mother and father". An example of the basic Dyad is: "Tell me
an incomplete communication that you have with your mother".
Then we redirect the individual's response for a new
communication that is focused directly on the individual's mother -
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just as if she were present with us. We repeat that Dyad until all of
the incomplete communications are completed. Then we continue
the Dyads regarding the father followed by all the other family
members. Once all of these Dyads are completed the individual
can have a Dyad (if they wish) with the actual family members
whom they had previously focused on in the Dyads. The previous
Dyads prepared the way for direct communication/dialogue with
the actual family members.

"While they are on this earth, human beings are not capable of
living with principles alone; they need the support of forms."[7]
Dyads are one type of form that I find highly supportive of the
principals as well as the High Ideals that one may hold.

May 16th, 2016 -

The Table Of Contents for: Burnout Remedy -

1st item is: "RECONNECT WITH YOURSELF"

I think for some people that would be better stated as "Connect

With Your Authentic Self"!

The 4th item in this Table Of Contents is:

ENJOY NATURE!

Tonight a few of us in our house hold began an interviewing

process for a potential new housemate and a goodly amount of
that conversation included our nature-rich land and the interests
here to "enjoy" nature here! For a number of us - along with the
enjoying part there is the land management part!

#7 "Burnout Remedy" is: "CONNECT WITH OTHERS"!

This is the one that I want to read first as it is of greatest interest
to me (being a Libra plus both a King and a “6” of Hearts!
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December 6, 2016 -

Do you know that the first function of the mind is communication?

(See "A Course In Miracles") Why is that? It's because
communication is life! This axiom on the quintessential purpose
for our mind is "hard wired" into our body through the totality of
our spirit-psyche-brain-organ-body matrix and includes every cell,
every system from every possible perspective. In contrast - it is in
the breakdown of "Communication is Life" that every conceivable
"ill" is able to enter the human experience. The truth of this starts
with every individual in their first relationship with their own self.
This is why "self talk" (by whatever "name" or terminology we use
for this primal mode of communication) is referred to in the
Scripture as well as in courses for healing, recovery, personal
growth, etc.

However - there is a wide spectrum of different kinds of "activities"

that one may think is "communication" and this is where a deeper
understanding of communication is required if we are to be
effective in our communications with self and others. I regard
dialogue as one of the highest forms of communication and hold
that it can be referred to as a model of what communication truly
is.

If you know someone who is able to dialogue then I would

encourage you to have communication with this individual to gain
practical experience in the "art" of dialogue. I've also previously
mentioned that Dyads can support the dialogue process. By
mastering dyad communication you'll be well on your way to
mastering "the highest form of communication"! Dialogue as a
form of self-talk would then give you "the highest form of
communication" with yourself! That, my friend, is the best
foundation that I know of for personal transformation! Self-
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dialogue will transform you by "renewing" your mind because it

will recover the original and primary purpose of your mind!

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Notes:

[1] One of the thresholds I have in the evolution of a relationship

from acquaintance to "companion" to friend is a demonstration of
trustworthiness and this man is proving his trustworthiness to me!

[2] http://www.zegg.de/en/community/zegg-forum.html

[3] http://www.curezone.org/blogs/fm.asp?i=2221475

[4] Gifts such as the 4th Gene Key: Understanding, 5th Gene Key:
Patience, 6th Gene Key: Diplomacy, 19th Gene Key: Sensitivity,
22nd Gene Key: Grace, 23rd Gene Key: Simplicity, 25th Gene
Key: Acceptance, 27th Gene Key: Altruism, 30th Gene Key:
Lightness, 31st Gene Key:
Leadership plus probably at least fourteen more!

[5] See the following:

"Choosing Seeds For Dialogue - Dennis Klocek, on the subject of

consciousness in health ...":
http://www.curezone.org/blogs/fm.asp?i=1963536

"Interpersonal Communication in the Spirit of Dialogue +":

http://www.curezone.org/blogs/fm.asp?i=2221475

"Reiki Plus Communication Dyads":

http://www.curezone.org/blogs/fm.asp?i=2344517

"Dialogue - 'The new community'! Without dialogue there is no

genuine community.":
http://www.curezone.org/blogs/fm.asp?i=2211300
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"Up The Creek? Here's An OAR! - More understanding regarding

the ways of true communication.":
http://www.curezone.org/blogs/fm.asp?i=2082540

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Also see:
"On Dialogue" by David Bohm: http://www.dennislewis.org/
articles-other-writings/book-reviews/on-dialogue/

[6] See: "The 'Dyad Ways' to Your Enlightenment of Who & What
You Are!:
http://www.curezone.org/blogs/fm.asp?i=1749164

[7] http://with-omraam.com/science-religion-principles-forms-final/

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Keywords:

dialogue, transformation, embracing the shadow, fears, dyads,

communication, psyche, mind, self talk, connection, self talk,
community, gene keys, shadow frequency, gifts, Understanding,
Patience, Diplomacy, Sensitivity, Grace, Simplicity, Acceptance,
Altruism, Lightness, Leadership, A Course In Miracles, healing,
recovery, personal growth
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Revised: 8-4-17.