This too shall Pass. This too shall Pass. This too Shall Pass.

They’re not giving me a hard time, they are having a hard time.

Share your calm, Don’t join their chaos.

Your words today become their inner voice tomorrow.
Soft voice, Firm Limits.

Little Body. Big Emotions

Be the person you needed when you were younger
Is this the behaviour that I want to model for my child?
I am a calm and confident leader.

Pause, breathe and choose love.

Focus on the good behaviour.
Coach, not control.
I am their safe place.

Do less, Observe More.

I am in charge of being calm.
BE the anchor in the storm
Behaviour = Communication, stop and figure out what they are trying to say.
Be clear, calm, consistent and kind.
Soften, then connect.

DON’T REACT, RESPOND Slow down and model patience.

Set limits. Calmly and peacefully.

I know, I hear you. I’m here for you. I love you.

I am the railing on the dark bridge at night.
I see that you are struggling and I love you in this moment.

Stop. Breathe. Connect.