Jailyn Alvarado
Professor Batty
English 102
10 December 2018
In life, we believe in the traditional boy/girl aspect of relationships. The first question we
ask the doctor when a newborn arrives is “boy or girl”. If it’s a boy, you buy boy stereotypical
items such as toys affiliated with “boy” things such as monster trucks, blue clothing, blue bib,
blue room, blue blankets, etc. If it’s a girl it is affiliated with “girl” things such as barbies, pink
room, pink blanket, unicorns, princesses, pink bib etc. It is so normalized that most people don’t
think about this concept twice until we are questioned as to why we must think this way. The
best way to understand this concept is seeing it in different perspectives. In the play M. Butterfly
and the famous book Left Hand of Darkness discusses these stereotypical problems in a personal
In the play M. Butterfly by David Henry Huang shows the significance of a male
portraying a part of a woman. I personally don’t see the problem in this I believe in the idea of
allowing people to express themselves through a character in that way is beautiful. This play
shows symbols and metaphors that naturally forms the relationship between the two as a couple.
The male (seemingly heterosexual) falls in love with the woman (man disguised as female) and
is later surprised at the fact that he has fallen in love with the man. Although Gallimard was very
unknowing of Song being a man, is he still seen as a gay man or is he a victim in this game of
love? In M. Butterfly Gallimards affection for Song as a woman is no surprise throughout the
whole play, “Then make me crazy. Marry me.” (Hwang 64) This is what Gallimard said to Song
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as they were talking about him divorcing his wife for her. In Gallimards defense he had no idea
about Song being transgender. In Songs defense he just wanted to find love although it was all an
act of being a woman but how is this scenario seen in the eye of society? My argument focuses
on the homosexual identities of Gallimard and Song as individuals and the essential gender roles
Some may argue that Gallimard is “gay” for falling in love with a man but to me in this
case Gallimard first fell in love with the type of person Butterfly displayed herself as. Once
Gallimard had realized that Song was a woman he was completely disgusted so can you
conclude on Gallimard being gay? I suppose not. I believe that Gallimard was a victim in the
game of love as Song lied about her image and that was the price he has to pay. I believe that
Song would have done anything to win the love of Gallimard. She was just as in love with him as
he was. They were crazy about each other but nobody seems to care about Song’s feelings as he
was the reason for Gallimard’s imprisonment which I understand. She is known to be the bad
guy of the play being the reason why they didn’t get to live happily ever after.
In addition, the book Left Hand of Darkness by Ursula Le Guin is a created world where
men may change their genders accordingly during Kemmer. What does this say about the
stereotypes we have as homosexual beings? The significance of this book is that there are no
gender roles. There are no stereotypes because everyone is seemingly asexual (nonsexual)
human beings. This leaves no space for true judgement on each gender specifically due to the
equality shared between both. In Left Hand of Darkness it states, “I tried to, but my efforts took
the form of self- consciously seeing a Gethenian first as a man, then as a woman, forcing him
into those categories so irrelevant to his nature and so essential to my own.” (Le Guin 12). In this
part of the book I believe that this person was stating the power of masculinity in a sense of
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being able to control a woman which is typical when guys are seen as strong and women are
usually portrayed as weak (although this is not true). In this book men can be feminine and
nobody questions it. In our world, men are seen as homosexual for having sexual desires for
another man and vice versa for women. Why is this so? One word: society. Society has taken
over the normalization of being gender specific. Even some colors aren’t seen as gender neutral
independent, dominant, tough, logical, and decisive may pop up on your screen. When entering
“feminine” in google search you may find the words emotional, verbal, kind, nurturing,
indecisive, and dependent may fill up the screen. This is not new to us woman though. This form
of defining each femininity and masculinity has its history. It all started when men had to go to
wars and the woman would often stay home to take care of their child on her own. In addition to
this idea the woman often raised the child herself. She was better known as a home body rather
than a human. Gender stereotypes are often demeaning towards woman. It shows an obvious lack
of masculinity which is often not very true. According to uwire.com, “In just the past century,
women have altered the stereotype that they cannot do a man's work. We can think of the
obvious and suggest that women are not built with the same strength, nor stamina, nor capacity
to have free thoughts and ideas as a man would. But through the years, this has been proved
otherwise.” (Gonzalez) I believe it is highly disrespectful towards woman that others think we
are unable to do a job simply because our gender it is as if a man is unable to do “feminine”
things such as crying, which is not true. We are highly capable of doing what the other gender
may do, vice versa. In fact, women have changed history in their actions they have taken on
through the Woman’s rights movement. According to nwhp.org, “The staggering changes for
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women that have come about over those seven generations in family life, in religion, in
government, in employment, in education – these changes did not just happen spontaneously.
Women themselves made these changes happen, very deliberately. Women have not been the
passive recipients of miraculous changes in laws and human nature. Seven generations of women
have come together to affect these changes in the most democratic ways: through meetings,
petition drives, lobbying, public speaking, and nonviolent resistance. They have worked very
deliberately to create a better world, and they have succeeded hugely.” I chose this citation from
nwhp.org because it states the courage woman have in stating the right they have in the United
States although it has took a lot of time and effort to change the laws for woman around the
world from the past to now. Woman in history have made changes in the lives of woman who
live in current time. For that we could never say thank you enough. To expand of this idea
women were unable to do important things such as vote. This is something I think about often
simply because I believe voting is something that everyone should be able to do and through
Furthermore, the topic of heterosexual and homosexual has been such a controversial
topic that it has a flag for this acronym, LGBTQ. This allows us all to be specified as a certain
gender. It is no longer male or female. It is more diverse nowadays, which is great. LGBTQ
standing for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer. We now all have a more gender
specific role in the world. It is more socially accepted in this day and age that we are currently
living in. Although this does not mean we have it easier now than others than it was back then.
Some who are part of the LGBTQ community are some are at times treated unfairly. According
to World Journal of Education, “LGBTQ children are overrepresented in the foster care system
in the United States. These children are also at higher risk for homelessness and suicide.”
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(Nourie, Harris) There are children who are treated unfairly easily because of their sexual
interests. This should be a personal choice rather than a world discussion. I don’t blame Song for
hiding her masculinity for so long. I believe she did not want to be shamed for her sexual desires.
She did not want to be judged for the person she is on the inside although it meant hurting the
You may say that it is unfair of Song to do this to Gallimard, and I don’t disagree. How
can one make false remarks of their sexual well-being? The action that Song did to Gallimard
would have someone in trouble. In this case, it did. Since Song as a spy had reported Gallimard it
only made Gallimard look like the “bad guy”. In the eyes of those who part with Song would
state that Gallimard should have known after all those years but love is blind. He was once so
sure of the love he had towards Song that he chose to go on and ignore the signs. In M. Butterfly
Gallimard states, “And so, I was embarked on my first extramarital affair. Renee was a picture
perfect. With a body like those girls in the magazines. If I put a tissue paper over my eyes, I
wouldn’t have been able to tell the difference. And it was exciting to be with someone who
wasn’t afraid to be seen completely naked. But it is possible for a woman to be too uninhibited,
too willing, so as to seem almost too …masculine?” (Hwang 54) I believe that Gallimard had a
feeling about the masculinity Song had as a woman which goes back to the definition of
masculinity and femininity. I suppose ignored his instincts and fell in love with the idea of her.
Brushing aside the imperfections he found through her which I presume is defined by love.
In left hand of Darkness Ai is described as a masculine being, how one would imagine a
man to be from physical and emotional traits. Ai soon has an understanding of the gethenian way
such as the process of kemmer and somer. He is born a with both XY chromosomes. He is a
strong believer of men having all power of the world, it’s a man’s world, I suppose. According
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to W. G. Postcolonialism/s, gender/s, sexuality/ies and the legacy of The Left Hand of Darkness:
Gwyneth Jones’s Aleutians talk back, he states, “…At that point,Genly admits to Estraven that he
cant tell [him] what women are like […]. In a sense, women are more alien than you are.” The
character Estraven is the most unique of all. He is neither man or woman. Ai and Estraven do not
get along in the beginning may I add that they are practically opposites according to their
personality so I saw it coming. As the story goes on Ai and Estraven start to develop feelings for
each other. Does this make them gay? I suppose not as Estraven then enters kemmer as a female.
Although they do not physically engage in sexual activity, Ai is very understanding of Estraven
and they have a deep emotional connection. In the eyes of society today it would be questioned
in the eye of the people strictly due to the fact that they are both men (kinda).
The topic of queer theory is a very controversial topic that is mandatory for people to
discuss. Especially now more than ever as the laws are changing. Reading about queer theory
through books is a great way to understand the topic a little better. Since I have thoroughly read
M. Butterfly and The Left Hand of Darkness and have understood the common knowledge of
their community I now have a clear image of the concept of this theory and will use this
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