IN MEMORIAM: BERNARD W. NEWTON, 1917-2001 Bernard W. “Fig” Newton died quietly at home on March 23, 2001 of acute leukemia, which complicated his long battle with myelofibrosis, He was83 yearsold. He had time to prepare for his end, anc cally aware of the feelings of those who loved him deeply, ben effort to support and counsel his family and write his many friends and colleagues to Say goud-bye and prepare them for his passing, What kind of man was this? The first part is easy. Fig, ash affectionately known, attended St. Lawrence University, receiving his Bachelor of Science degree in biology, psychology, and physics in 1939 and his Mester of Education in 1940. Eleven years later in 1981, he 1 his Ph.D. in psychology at the University of Califurnia, Los Angeles. Predoctural work included student health services’ and research projects at UCLA, and, efter his doctural degree, he became a siatt psychologist at the Veterans Administration Hospital in Los, Angeles while beginning his private practice, During these early years, ho developed an interest in hypnosis and then served as presicient of the California Sos cal Hypnosis from 1977 tw 1979 and as presi- dent ofthe Soc and Experimental Hypnosis (SCEH) from, 1983 bo 1985, He was a Fellow of the American Psychological Association (APA), Division 30, the American Society of Clinical Hypnosis (ASCH), end SCEH. [0 1989, he was one of the very early Diplomates af the American Board of Psychological Hypnosis (ABPH). His papersand c numerous, reflecting his early interest in Multiple Personality Disord (now termed Dissociative Identity Disordes), forensic hypnosis, and the “Hypnotherapist and the Cancer Patient,” his 1981 SCEH presidential adltess. In 1983, he received the Morton Prince Award given by SCEH and awarded “for distinguished contributions to the at oF hypnosis in the science and profession of psychology,” and in the same year he received the Milton I, Erickson Award! given by ASCH, “tor excellence in scientific writing,” He retived in 1989 andl moved with his family to Bozeman, Montana. Affer his wile, Brownie, died in 1998, he marcied Patti in 199%, who cared for hint until his own death this year This next part is not so easy, How to capture the essence of the man himself? Perhaps we can discover the answer by looking at some of his ‘own utterances since his move tu Bozeman 12 yearsago, Within the last decade, Fig began reviewing his awa professivnal life in psychology, He then wondered what his colleagues found when they examined own experiences, Was 50PETER B, BLOOM So, afew years ago, Fig began asking a number of friends who shared joss to describe what they did in therapy nate to be annual meetings, he would sche ‘conversations for an hour for Soin his hotel Suite in front of a professional video camera and ing device. In the beginning, his good friend, Charlie Pace, helped with, the organizational aspects end camera work; then, more recently, Patti ecameinvulved. Suit happened that at the ASCH meeting in Atlanta in March 1999, [found mysclt comfortably seated with him in frunt of the camera, unrehearsed, and avith no topic at hand. We began talking. His ability to ask the right question andi hissensitiv ity that alowed usto feel comfortable was and is legendary, During this particular conversation, our third or fourth over the ars, [ decided to reverse the process and interview him, He readily agreed. Although Lwas aware of his interests, his vears of teaching basic principles of hypnosis and psychotherapy, end his sctolarly contribu tions to the literature, J wanted to balance these aspects of his profes- sional life with a more personal look at the man himself. With this in mind, | asked him what was sacred to him and what contributed to his search for and attainment of authenticity asa person and therapist. Here iswhat hesaid. Lam quoting frum the videotape of that Sunday morning, in Atlanta and have paraphrased and condensed varions portiens of our conversation to fit the format ofthis memoriam. (My remarks during our discussion are in italics) record Thave always loved my work, and believe that hypnosis has m possible for me tu open myself more easily to the emerging oper ty patient. [ wasn't only satisfied seeing them got well, but it was b in that moment of connection that became meaningful and change. Why are these moneuts special? People struggle throughont their lives fo get some connection with another hmman being. Most people don’t experience this very often. Ist anporkant in therapy fora pation feaca howto develop deep contacts wit ther huss beags? Yes, very much so, and it js as important for the therapist as itis for the patient. [ believe itis these moments thet provide the core for change in those secking our help. [tis sacred to me. Flace you ti about therapy? No, [had to learn it, Barly on when [ was a gradhtate student in psychology immediately after World War Il, [had studied psychoanalysis and trie very hard ta bea good didactic patient in my own psychoanalytic endeavor. But I never found it satistying in my practice. I fried hard to follow these principles in my work, but I felt litle satisfaction that Iwas actually being helpful. dually and yet suckdenly, learned from my patients that [had some= thing to offer just being myself. [fas an exciting time of change for meIN MEMORIAM because it seemed to indicate that being there with each patient, cane sapeutic relationship, was more important than using nt learning in actual practice. Georg Groddek desc Hox the patieat to change the terapist se that the Hh ‘apst willbe msore useful toa or her, Do you agree? Yes, that is how it fel. Ln letting go of the way {hac learned to do therapy, [became more present in each session, By the way, | think my gradual attraction to hypnosis allowed me tu experience more freedom to be spontaneous in therapy andin trance work and was another essential element to becoming more authentic asa persian and therapist Why da yon el enconraged ad eager t9 open the sales to you a these corwersations? What qualities do you Hae tat alo fas for us? [like to believe that I have the samme qualities that we all cing present in the relationship, being intuitive and trusting the feel= ings, and having the courage to be real, I convey that in many ways, by What say, my body language, and my facial expressions. [knuyy whee | eqn to Feel it, but if each of these ways of communicating isnot in con- cert with each other, something is wrong, Have you abuts whe you sit down you can create that kind of deep conaectedies fs, [have known that for along time, but it was hard in the beginning to let ithappen. Now itcomes more casily to me, andl [think it makes mea better therapist. guess Ha ns todo with striving nnd becoming authentic. hope so, youu at sane In closing, there is an old saying. “A man’s wealth is the sum of his, relationships.” Fig was one of the wealthiest men | knew. Altho: ‘will miss him greatly, wewill surely continue to celebrate his life, his wis- dom, and his love, PerERB.PLoow Unisority of Per Maticine