Alexandria Gonzalez
English IV
03 April 2019
20Time
20Time Outline
Social Anxiety
Alexandria Gonzalez
04/03/19
II. Copping
c. Cellphones
Does cell phones cause social anxiety? This question has been asked more in the 21
century than ever. What is social anxiety The defining feature of social anxiety disorder, also
called social phobia, is intense anxiety or fear of being judged, negatively evaluated, or rejected
in a social or performance situation. How do you cope with social anxiety you can belope your
own maths for social anxiety and what are some ways you can do to help with social anxiety.
What is social anxiety the defining feature of social anxiety disorder, also called social
phobia, is intense anxiety or fear of being judged, negatively evaluated, or rejected in a social or
for online social interaction and problematic use” (” Mary Ann Liebert, Inc. | Home, ).
Loneliness is one of the dig factor of anxiety and social anxiety. There are other signs of social
anxiety like not talk to your classmates and being active with people your age also just being
active in a group sitting. Even though social anxiety is a very common thing in the 21 century
most people do not know how to talk to or bring up the topic of social anxiety. So to take a
school example would be in class discussion. Students with social anxiety would talk just enough
ok not talk at all. So does social anxiety come from cell phones or is this a chemical imbalance in
your drain. “ Most people misunderstand the meaning of "chemical imbalances" in the brain.
This phrase has become the buzzword to use today to explain mental health problems, including
social anxiety. Chemical imbalances exist because the neural pathway systems of the brain
sometimes lead to emotional pain (i.e., anxiety) and irrational conclusions.” this talks about the
chemical imbalance of the brain and the neural pathway of the brain” (“Social Anxiety,
Chemical Imbalances.” What Is Social Anxiety?). This is saying that there is pathway in your
How to cope with social anxiety there is five things that you can do to help you
with your social anxiety. The first step is to work with your emotion also how people can
help you with your emotion. “The key thing to remember is that anxiety is not a rational
disorder. Therefore, a rational response will most likely not help, especially during a
moment of distress. Instead, try to work with the emotions. Accept that they feel anxious
and, rather than being direct, be patient and kind. Remind them that while they may feel
distressed, the feeling will pass”(“How to Really Help Someone with Social Anxiety.”
Healthline, Healthline Media). This is saying that a person with social anxiety you should
just simply understand where they are coming from and let them work on there emotions
as need just be there for them and the feeling will pass. Second step would be foces on
there feelings. “Don’t ask why the person is feeling anxious. Instead, ask them how they
are feeling. Encourage them to list their symptoms. Give the sufferer room to feel without
interruption. If they’re crying, let them cry. It’ll release the pressure faster.” (“How to
Really Help Someone with Social Anxiety.” Healthline, Healthline Media). This is
saying that when a person is having feelings of anxious you should give them their space
and let them cry when they need to. Do not be all over them let them breathe and have
time to think about what's going on. Third step use distraction techniques “Perhaps
suggest taking a walk, reading a book, or playing a game. When I’m having bad anxiety,
my friends and I often play word games like I Spy or the Alphabet Game. This will
distract the anxious brain and enable the person to calm down naturally. It’s also fun for
Media). By playing games or listening to music it helps a person with their social anxiety
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and let them not think about their anxiety. Fourth step be patient “ Patience is a virtue
when it comes to anxiety. Try not to lose your temper or snap at the person. Wait for the
worst part of the attack to spike before taking action or trying to help the person
rationalize what is happening.” (“How to Really Help Someone with Social Anxiety.”
Healthline, Healthline Media). When you try to help someone with their social anxiety
make sure you do not lose your patience with them let them take their time do not rush
anything. Step five just have fun and be funny with them “Laughter kills stress like water
kills fire”(“How to Really Help Someone with Social Anxiety.” Healthline, Healthline
Media). This is saying that you just need laugh with them and it helps with there anxiety.
Being active with a person that has social anxiety just being with them helps them but not
on your phone. Cell phones have an impacted on young people lives “there are also
negative impacts on young people's’ peer relationships. These can include ostracism and
cyber bullying. Similarly, the mobile phone has lead to changed dynamics in the family,
with issues of safety and surveillance from a parental perspective leading to negotiated
changing freedoms for young people.”(Campbell , Marilyn A. (2005)). A cell phone has
can have a negative impact on someone's life. We live in a day and time where
everything is on phones and how many likes on a picture or how many followers you
have on social media. Most young people might feel like they need to be a point where
they have to have a lot of friends and because it looks bad when you do not. This give not
needed stress and gives out anxiety so yes cell phones gives out social anxiety.
What are the benefits with talking about you social anxiety. By talking it out you
have time to put out your feelings and vent about what's going on. Like in the paragraph
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before it talked about how other people can help people with social anxiety. It say “ You
generally need about 12 to 16 therapy sessions. The goal is to build confidence, learn
skills that help you manage the situations that scare you most, and then get out into the
world.” this talk about that you need some therapy sessions to be ready and better to go
out and be ok”(“Treatments for Social Anxiety Disorder.” WebMD, WebMD,). This is
saying that when you have therapy sessions it helps when you walk out of the office.
With researching talking to people would have a better alternative than with taking
medicine. The medicine can help you but it messes with your drain and can be a chose for
you social anxiety when you go off it you would not know how to cope with it. Taking
the natural way to help with your social anxiety is good. But if you get medicine from
In conclusion after doing my reacher cell phones are a choice of teens social
anxiety. Teen and young people are very much in there phone and when they have to talk
in perone they do not know how to. Also going back to wanting be linked with how
many followers you have or with how many like you get. The phone has chosen a gap
between people and their anxiety. There should be a place in the school or even in
workplaces where people can go to cry or just be alone when having some type of social
anxiety.