Tierra Hudson
Professor Graue
English 1201
21 March 2019
“I did not want him but my mother forced me to keep him. I was very hard on him; I
slapped him around a lot. I never took to him. I did not like him.” (Today’s Child Abuse Creates
Tomorrow’s Criminals). Child abuse and trauma are topics that coincide but require a special
amount of explanation and understanding. Many children go unnoticed or are simply pushed
away by adults due to these accusations of abuse or a traumatic experience. Experiencing these
types of abuse whether it be physical, sexual, or even verbal can cause serious psychological
damage to a child. At a young age children are in a vulnerable state and being exposed to such
traumatic experiences can hinder their abilities to do average things later on in life. Many people,
including the parents of some victims, are either blind to the situation or they do not have a
complete understanding of how to handle it. Child abuse and trauma is a sensitive subject, but it
is one that needs to be discussed, especially among those who want to help and those who need
help. The psychological effects of child abuse and trauma should be discussed more in today’s
society because many people have a misconception of how it can affect one’s life.
To begin, the aspects of child abuse are clearly explained in today’s society. Most people
have a clear understanding of what abuse is and what it looks like. On the other hand, trauma can
be presented in many ways. Traumatic experiences seem to be more personal due its
individuality aspect because not everyone will view the same experience as a traumatic one. An
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example of this would be if someone experienced a death in their family. This could definitely be
a traumatic experience for them because their loved one has just passed and that memory will be
stuck with them forever. Whereas another family member who might not have known the person
who passed that well, may feel sad but it won’t be traumatic event that will change their life
forever. Many adults experience these types of events and are unaware of how to help
themselves, so imagine a child going through that same situation. Trauma can come in various
forms but it all depends on how the person receives it, which creates an even more dangerous
event for children seeing as though they are so vulnerable at that stage in their lives.
Although abuse is one of the main examples of a traumatic experience, there are also
instances where the event is uncontrollable. The example mentioned in the previous paragraph
could be an uncontrollable event that turned out to be traumatic for the child. In some situations,
these uncontrollable events seem to be more harmful to the child because there isn’t always a
clear explanation on what happened and why it happened, which leaves them both hurt and
confused. These feelings often result in the child having a traumatic stress disorder which can
ultimately cause them to experience mental and overall health issues. Sarah Peterson from The
National Child Traumatic Stress Network stated, “Although many of us may experience
reactions to stress from time to time, when a child is experiencing traumatic stress, these
reactions interfere with the child’s daily life and ability to function and interact with others” (The
National Child Traumatic Stress Network). As adults, people come into contact with daily issues
that cause stress but they are able to handle that amount of stress and pressure because their brain
has fully developed. A child’s brain cannot process the event as an adult would because their
brain in still trying to develop and understand the world around them, and when this process is
Additionally, there are many personal connections within these events including
emotional abuse and self-esteem issues. Many adults deal with daily complications due to their
past experience with child abuse. Emotional abuse is believed to be the most disastrous type of
abuse because it has such a deep psychological connection with the person. Specifically,
emotional abuse can create a lack of self-confidence within the individual, making it difficult to
interact with others and create positive relationships. Chuqi Lui the author of “Relationship
Between Child Emotional Abuse and Self-Esteem” stated, “It has been found that emotional
abuse is negatively associated with self-esteem (e.g., Brodski & Hutz, 2012), and is positively
associated with hostility and aggression (Nicholas & Bieber, 1996), as well as with depression
and negative attributional styles” (Relationship Between Child Emotional Abuse and Self-
Esteem). Lui is trying to convey the message that emotional abuse is removing self-confidence
from the person while influencing hostility and aggression. This can cause a disconnection
between the individual and others around them because they cannot feel comfortable around
themselves or others.
Furthermore, not only can emotional abuse create lack of self-esteem but it can be the
root of a life-threatening situation. As the symptoms of abuse continue throughout one’s life they
can become a serious burden. During these situations many people are unaware of how to talk
about their experiences. They rarely seek help because they either don’t believe people will help
them or they are simply ridiculed for what they’ve been through. This can result in severe
depression and overall emotional dysregulation. Carolien Christ the author of “Linking
Childhood Emotional Abuse and Depressive Symptoms” says, “Numerous studies have
associated childhood abuse with a variety of adverse effects, such as mood and anxiety disorders
and suicidal behaviors. In particular, childhood abuse has consistently been linked to depressive
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disorders in adulthood in both retrospective studies and prospective studies” (Linking Emotional
Abuse and Depressive Symptoms). The studies conducted on the effects of emotional abuse
concluded that these events can cause serious psychological problems. These psychological
problems have been known to be the cause of many suicides and it is often seen as a motive for
While emotional abuse can have serious effects on one’s mental state, physical abuse can
also contribute to a life of instability. Many children experience physical abuse from parents or
any adult around them, and these incidents often go unnoticed. A recent study was taken in rural
Bangladesh to shine light on the numerous reports of physical and sexual abuse the children are
experiencing. While explaining their life at home, it was clear that the children were dealing with
economic disparities as well. There were many cases of maltreatment and negligence due to large
counts of instability within households. Although there are many cases of physical and sexual
abuse, very few are fully reported and only the severe cases are handled. Not only are the
children dealing with physical and sexual abuse, but they are victims of economic issues as well,
which prevent them from receiving the help they need. Their reports of abuse are put on hold
because those in charge believe that fixing other economic issues are far more important than a
child’s safety. Of course maltreatment and negligence are important issues that need to be taken
care of, but the reports of abuse should be handled with the same efforts. When cases like these
go unnoticed it creates an ongoing cycle of abuse because it shows others that abuse is
Nevertheless, it is believed that children who are exposed to violence and criminal
activity at a young age are more likely to involve themselves in the act. Dr. Chandre Gould the
author of “Today’s Child Abuse Creates Tomorrow’s Criminals” performed a research study on
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20 men who were incarcerated in South Africa, to understand what landed them behind bars.
During her study she learned that majority of the men came from crime infested neighborhoods
where society did not create a safe place for them. They experienced a life of crime and abuse at
a young age and were unaware of any other possibilities for their lives. Dr. Gould states, “I
concluded from my research that preventing and reducing stubbornly high levels of violence in
South Africa can only be achieved if the country focuses on ensuring that children are not
exposed to violence or toxic stress at home…” (Today’s Child Abuse Creates Tomorrow’s
Criminals). This is not just an epidemic present in South Africa, but all over the world. When
children are around violence or any type of criminal activity it can become normal to them and
they grow up believing that’s how they are meant to live. Even the abuse aspect can become
normal to them and they become abusers and violent towards others thinking that it is acceptable
because people allowed them to be hurt. These issues can be solved if children were protected
from their abusers and not overlooked by those who believe this type of behavior is okay. As
long as the abuse and exposure to violence continues, it will create more and more criminals out
Furthermore, a fairly recent case of sexual abuse involving many underage girls and
Larry Nassar showed how easily people can take advantage of children. Larry Nassar is a former
physician for the American gymnastics team who provided camps for girls at his home and the
Michigan State University Clinic. At the times of the abuse all of the girls were underage and
were unaware that his actions were wrong. Two of the girls who were sexually assaulted by
Nassar explained that he penetrated them with his fingers, claiming that it was a medical
procedure. Although it is true that pelvic floor therapy exists, it was not needed in these sessions
with Nassar. Nassar manipulated these girls into believing these incidents were for medical
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purposes and he got away with it for years. There were more than 150 victims in the courtroom
at his hearing to speak on their experience with Nassar. These victims were not just gymnasts,
they were swimmers, runners, divers, etc., all people who trusted Nassar to help with their
dreams of becoming an elite athlete. On January 24, 2018 Nassar was sentenced to 40-175 years
in prison, assuring that he would be there for the rest of his life. This case shows how adults can
easily take advantage of children and manipulate them into believing anything because they
don’t know any better. Those victims now have to live with that memory of being sexually
assaulted by someone they trusted. This dreadful experience could have affected them mentally
and even hindered their ability to have a trusting relationship with anyone else later in life.
Although abuse can cause negative feelings of hostility and overall aggressiveness, it can
also allow one to have empathy. Children and even adults who have experienced abuse often
have a heightened sense of empathy for others. Empathy is the ability to understand and connect
with another based on experiences. Many victims show empathy because they understand what it
is like to be a victim of abuse or any traumatic experience. Some may even relate when it comes
to support because not many people had support or people to listen to them when they needed
them the most. David Greenberg the author of “Elevated Empathy in Adults Following
Childhood Trauma”, conducted a study on 387 adults to examine their emotional status after
experiencing child trauma. The study was focused on the amount of empathy they showed
towards different situations compared to an average adult who did not experience childhood
abuse or trauma. They each were given a forty question “test” to complete that would ultimately
show how much empathy they have towards certain situations. Greenberg stated, “Trauma
increases attention to emotion, environmental cues, and increases amygdala responsiveness. This
increase in awareness could improve the ability to recognize, understand, and react appropriately
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to these states in others, in comparison to individuals who have not had a traumatic experience”
(Elevated Empathy in Adults Following Childhood Trauma). After completing the study,
Greenberg concluded that adults who experienced childhood trauma have a heightened sense of
empathy for others because they were more understanding of each situation and others feelings.
While an elevated sense of empathy may seem like a good thing, it can also be a negative
attribute. Everyone should definitely have a certain amount of empathy in them, but having too
much can result in one being taken advantage of. Most people who are empathetic feel like they
can help everyone and they put there all into one person in order to help them feel better or meet
a certain stage in their life. Unfortunately there will always be those who take advantage and
manipulate empathetic people because they see it as a weakness. This can result in someone
being abused again or even experiencing new trauma from being hurt by someone they trusted
and tried so hard to help. Trust is one of the main points in children and adults that can cause hurt
emotionally and physically because sometimes it is hard to believe that person you once trusted
Unlike other forms of abuse such as physical or sexual abuse, many people tend to ignore
the effects of verbal abuse. Even though verbal abuse may not seem as severe it can have the
same effect on children and it often leads to physical or sexual abuse. Just like any type of abuse,
children are sensitive to what they see and experience around them and being verbally attacked
can fall into the category of emotional abuse. Verbal abuse can create lack of self-confidence and
cause others to feel like they are less than their abuser, which allows the abuser to be in charge.
Witnessing verbal abuse can be just as hurtful as experiencing it themselves. Some children who
have seen their parents or any adults around them having a heated argument learn from that and
it allows them to think that is acceptable. In some cases those heated arguments can turn into
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physical fights, which is domestic violence. As a child they may not understand that those
actions were wrong and they often grow up having anger issues or become very physical with
others because they see it at home. Once again after witnessing this type of behavior the child
has the option to become the abused or the abuser. Verbal abuse affects children and adults just
Fig. 1. This image portrays a child covering his/her ears while an adult is yelling at them
or possibly another person not shown in the picture. This relates to the issues of verbal abuse
because it is clear that the child is being affected by the unnecessary behavior presented by the
Nevertheless, there are ways to try and prevent child abuse or trauma from happening and
affecting their lives forever. One of main ways is for parents to pay attention to their child.
Regarding teenagers, know their friends, and ask where they are going, things as simple as that
can help prevent a child from experiencing a traumatic event. As far as smaller children, be
aware of who is watching them or notice when something is wrong. Parents should always try to
connect with their children so that the child can feel safe when talking to them. As mentioned
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before, some traumatic experiences are uncontrollable and under the circumstances may be
difficult to talk about but should be approached in a special way. No parent or child is perfect but
trying is enough, people notice when the effort is made to connect and try to help. The effects of
an event are different for every child so they should not be treated the same or however someone
else believes they should handle it. With that being said, not every child will be accepting of a
parents help. There will be times when certain things are considered off limits to a parent
because they fear the parent may not understand. The best response to this is to be patient with
the child and allow them to talk on their own time, not force them to talk or ignore them because
Furthermore, those who have already been affected by a traumatic event in their
childhood can be helped too. Adults are often blamed for their reckless actions and while holding
accountability for their actions is important, others should understand that some are taught
different when growing up. For example, seeing criminal activity as a child can influence the
child to do the same because others were allowed. Some people who live a life of crime haven’t
experienced any other way to live, when that’s all you know it becomes normal. Instead of
incarcerating every adult or even juveniles there should be an evaluation and complete
understanding of where they come from and why they did what they did. Even those who do not
live a life of crime but are mentally unstable or unable to connect with others should receive
psychological help. It is not their fault that the world around them showed them no mercy or that
Finally, people need to become more aware of the psychological effects child abuse and
trauma can have on a child’s life. The experience does not end when the madness stops, it
continues to play over and over in the child’s mind and even when they become adults.
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Experiencing abuse can hinder someone’s lifestyle, preventing them from being involved with
others and knowing themselves. Adults need to understand that children know what is happening
around them no matter their age and it can cause life threatening consequences. The child could
be put in danger and they could put others in danger as well. Any type of abuse whether it be
verbal, physical, emotional, or sexual should not be tolerated or encouraged. Environment plays
a huge role in this epidemic because many children are influenced by those around them and if
all they see is violence then they will indulge in the act themselves. If children were protected
and brought up in better environments there would be a huge decrease in crimes and violence
against others. Adults need to become better educated on how to protect their children and help
those who have already experienced these tragedies. These unfortunate events are sensitive to
talk about, but in today’s society it needs to be discussed to create a better understanding of
people. As stated before, it is important to inform those who want to help and listen to those who
need help.
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