What is the importance of each qualities of a good arnis player?

1)technique
2)alertness and awareness
3) coordination and concentration
4)speed
5)power
6)timing
7)proper delivery of strikes
8)endurance and stamina
9)determination
10) confidence
11)yelling
Child abuse

- Is widespread and can occur in any cultural, ethnic, or income group. Child abuse can be
physical, emotional, verbal, or sexual. It can also result from neglect. Abuse can result in
serious injury to the child and possibly even death.

Characteristics of abusive parents

Low self-esteem has often been cited in the child abuse literature as a characteristic of abusive
parents. However, most of these references have been based on individual case studies and
practitioner reports rather than explicitly designed inquiries that attempt to control bias
associated with clinical observations. Data for this study were derived from a broader
exploratory research project conducted within the states of Arkansas, Louisiana, and Texas. As
part of the project, a total of 111 abusive parents were administered the Tennessee Self Concept
Scale (TSCS). The TSCS score profiles for this group are examined along with a discussion of
the implications of the findings for intervention services. The profiles permit a comparison
between abusive parents' self-concepts, a group of normal self-concepts, and a group drawn from
a mental hospital population. The departure of the abusive parents' self-concepts from the normal
group and the apparent greater similarity to self-concepts of mental patients suggest a lengthier
and more involved treatment than may have been formerly thought.

Helping the young child cope with child abuse.

First, consider the Five Protective Factors

Parental Resilience – The ability for parents to cope and bounce back from all kinds of
challenges.
Social Connections – Friends, family members, neighbors, and other members of the
community who provide emotional support and concrete assistance to parents.
Knowledge of Parenting and Child Development – Accurate information about raising young
children and appropriate expectations for their behavior.
Concrete Support in Times of Need – Financial security to cover day-to-day expenses and
unexpected costs that come up from time to time, access to formal supports like Medicaid,
and informal support from social networks.
Social and Emotional Competence of Children – A child’s ability to interact positively with
others and communicate their emotions effectively.
Helping Children Cope with Violence
Violence – either the experiencing or the witnessing of it – can cause trauma in young people.
Trauma is the after-injury of a stressful situation. It can be physical, mental or emotional, and
can affect both the body and the mind. It can affect a child’s ability to learn, socialize and feel
secure.

Parents and family members play key roles in helping children cope with trauma. It is critical to
the healing process that parents help protect children from further trauma, and help them get
medical care and counseling. The booklet, Helping Children Cope with Violence, from the
National Institute of Mental Health provides some helpful information for parents and caregivers
of children and adolescents.
The Center for the Study of Traumatic Stress provides suggestions for parents to use in helping a
child feel safe after a tragic event, such as a mass shooting.