At this point, it’s important for you to recognize that thoughts create and sustain emo-
tions. To reduce the frequency of painful emotions, you need to listen to what you think,
then ask how true your thoughts are. Remember, what you think ultimately creates what
you feel.
The next section deals with catastrophic thinking. Assuming that the worst did happen,
predict the consequences you most fear. Then spend some time figuring out what you
would tell yourself and what you would do in order to cope with the catastrophe. When
you have a clear picture of possible coping strategies, make a revised prediction of the
likely consequences if what you fear does come to pass. Then rate your anxiety again and
see if it has diminished.
The next section addresses the issue of overestimation. List the evidence against the very
worst outcome happening. Figure the odds as realistically as you can. Then list all of the
alternative outcomes you can think of. Finally, once again rate your anxiety and the prob-
ability of the event. You should find that both your anxiety and your probability ratings
have declined as the result of your doing this full and objective risk assessment.
Feared event:
Automatic thoughts:
Alternative outcomes:
Rate the probability of the event from 0 to 100 percent once again:
Instructions for the Probability Form
In the first column, write down the event that’s triggering anxiety. Under “Automatic
thoughts,” write your interpretations and beliefs about the event. Try to include your
worst and most catastrophic thoughts. As you focus on your automatic thoughts, use the
next two columns to rate the percent probability that what you fear will come true and the
intensity of your anxiety. A probability rating of 100 percent means the catastrophe will
assuredly happen. Note that many probabilities are less than 1 percent.
Rate your anxiety on a scale of 0 to 100, where 100 is the worst anxiety you’ve ever ex-
perienced. The next two columns will help you examine your automatic thoughts. Under
“Evidence,” write down any facts or experiences that either support or contradict your
automatic thoughts.
Move on to the “Coping alternatives” column. Here, describe your action plan if the
worst should occur, how you’d cope with the crisis. Take your time with the “Coping
alternatives” column. Brainstorm until you’ve developed at least three believable coping
strategies.
The last step in completing the Probability Form is to once again rate percent probability
and anxiety. Typically, people discover that the probability of catastrophe seems lower
after weighing the evidence and developing coping alternatives, as does intensity of anxi-
ety.
Once you fille out the form, you can compare how you’re currently living your life with
your key values. To begin, review your responses on the Important Life Domains and
Key Values form. For each domain, think about the values you associate with it and
consider whether you’re satisfied with what you’re currently doing in your life in that
domain. Do your actions in that area reflect your values? If not, consider what you could
do differently to bring your life more into alignment with your values. Take some time to
write about this on a separate piece of paper.
Parenting
Family of origin
Spirituality
Take your time. Describing the details of your behavior and feelings and what you want
is also important because this information provides clues for generating solutions later.
Situation (from the checklist of problems or described briefly in your own words):
When does it happen? (What time of day? How often? How long does it last?)
How does it happen? (What rules does it seem to follow? What moods are involved)?
Why does it happen? (What reasons do you or others give for the problem at the time?)
What do you do? (What is your actual response to the problem situation?)