· How should parents teach their children good manners?
I suppose there is a multitude of methods that parents can adopt to bring
up children in the way that they always behave themselves. First of all, parents themselves have to be an ideal role model for their offspring to follow because youngsters often emulate the behaviors of their parents, no matter how good or bad they are. Second, parents should have some prevention of children’s exposure to the ubiquitous inappropriate contents in the media to make sure that they will not be influenced by those behavioral disorders. Last but not least, rewards and penalties can probably be set up to serve as a motivation for the juveniles.
· What’s the difference between being polite and being friendly?
Well I suppose it is somehow the matter of how we appear to others and we can draw some conflicting analogies between these two concepts. On the one hand, being polite does not necessarily mean being friendly. One example of this may be a celebrity may speak pleasantries but is still aloof from the public. On the other hand, friendliness just does not include politeness all the time. To illustrate, close friends are hospitable to each other, often in an cozy and informal way, and sometimes can even exchange four-letter words with one another, a situation that seems awkward in formal settings.
· How long do you get along with your friends?
I would say that as I have undergone various vicissitudes in my life, I often make deliberate decisions when it comes to relationships with the others. Normally it would take quite long before I am really on good terms with someone. Some friends when first coming to me may consider me distant and hell on wheels, but as they have more contact with me, they will come to sympathize and want to develop a close rapport with me. For example, there used to be bad blood between me and one of my best friends because of some misunderstanding, but the situation was not ephemeral when we found out more about each other through group works at school, we settled every conflict we had had and grew a stronger bond.
· Are people in your country friendly to foreigners?
Well as far as I know, many foreign tourists to my country often regard Vietnamese people as one of the most hospitable ones in the world. They automatically raise a broad smile and appear helpful whenever they see a tourist from another country. For instance, a great many indigenous people are willing to offer a lift when tourists get lost on the street. However, I suppose it is not always the case when a number of people still take advantage of foreigners’ ignorance and innocence to perform fraudulent acts such as overcharging fees for services or robbing them of personal properties.
. Should children be punished if they are rude to other family members?
It is undeniably morally unacceptable that children are rude to other family members, especially the elder ones, so I can say with certainty that they should be punished. Early childhood education is important to their conducts in later stages of life. Once the rod on them is spared, these children may stick to such disrespectful behaviors and become spoiled and end up developing an anti-social behavior when they grow up. That is the reason why parents should apply timely punitive measures to deter the children from forming bad behavior patterns.