Jaeho Eun
Ph.D. Political science
EUN, Jaeho
- Ph.D. in Political science (Policy science)
Ecole Normale Supérieure de Cachan, France
- Senior Research Fellow, The Korean Institute of Public Administration (KIPA)
Currently
- Vice president of the KIPA
- President of the Korean Association for Conflict Studies
- Invited professor, Graduate school of University PARIS 1 (Panthéon-
Sorbonne), France
There is nothing
more difficult to take in hand,
more perilous to conduct, or
more uncertain in its success,
than to take the lead
in the introduction of
a new order of things.
Machiavelli 1513
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Contrary to the opinion of many people,
leaders are not born.
Leaders are made, and
they are made by effort and hard work.
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Table of Contents
Communication patterns
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PART I
Conflict management
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3 Perspectives of Conflict
* Robbins, S. P. (1974), Managing organizational conflict : A nontraditional approach, Englewood Cliffs, NJ : Prentice-Hall.
Conflict…
Good or Bad ?
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Attributes of conflict
dysfunction function
Conflict is a by-product of history Perspective Conflict is the motive power of
history
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What is conflict?
Conflict is something
internalized within
humans.
Attribute of conflicts is
not derived from the
conflict itself but
prescribed by the result of
conflict management
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What is Conflict Management?
Conflict management is the process that switchovers
dysfunctions of conflict to desirable functions.
Conflict
Conflict Management
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5 patterns of
conflictmanagement
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Assertiveness
Competing Collaborating
My position Win-lose Win-win
ASSERTIVENESS
Compromising
Mini win-mini lose
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Avoiding Accommodating
Lose-lose Lose-win
Unassertiveness
Uncooperati1ve Attitude toward others Cooperative
COOPERATIVENESS
(Attempting to satisfy other’s concerns)
Two-dimensional taxonomy of conflict handling modes (adapted from Thomas & Kilmann, 1974:11)
5 Types of conflict management
COMPETING
Purpose Assertiveness and uncooperative-an individual pursues his
own concerns at the other person’s expense.
Attitude “I know what is right. Do not ask my judgment and authority
anymore”
Logical This is power-oriented mode, in which ones uses whatever
background power seems
appropriate to win one’s own position
Probable I think I already have given explanation but others think “lose
result or be insulted”
Use When quick, decisive action is vital—e.g., emergencies
on important issues where unpopular courses of action need
implementing-e.g., cost cutting, enforcing unpopular rules,
discipline on issues vital to company welfare when you know
you’re right
5 Types of conflict management
COLLABORATING
Purpose Assertive and cooperative—the opposite of avoiding
Attitude “what is your opinion? I want to find out the best solution”
Logical Collaborating involves an attempt to work with the other
background person to find some solution which fully satisfies the
concerns of both persons
Probable It is likely to find an alternative which meets both sets of
result concerns
Use To find an integrative solution when both sets of concerns
are too important to be compromised
When your objective is to learn—e.g., testing your own
assumptions understanding the views of others
To gain commitment by incorporating other’s concerns into a
consensual decision
To work through hard feelings which have been interfering
with an interpersonal relationship
5 Types of conflict management
COMPROMISING
Purpose Intermediate in both assertiveness and cooperativeness
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Scoring
■ Circle the letters below which correspond to the letter you circled on each item of the questionnaire.
Competing (forcing) Collaborating(problem solving) Compromising (sharing) Avoiding (withdrawal) Accommodating (smoothing)
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2 b a
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6 b a
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14 b a
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9 10 7
80% 9 8
8
9 6
70% 8
7
7
60%
6 8 7 6 5
Middle
50%
50%
5 7
40%
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4 6 5
30%
5
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20% 3
3 4
5
10% 2 4 3
Low
25% 4
3 3
2 2
1 2 2
1 1
0 1 1
0% 0 0
0 0
PART II
What matters is
communication
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Communication Process
Communication is the process of sending and receiving information
among different subjects… Communication is to make it common, to
make it shared.
Medium
Confirmation bias
Self-coupling
SENDER Etc. RECEIVER
(encodes) (decodes)
Noise
Barrier
Feedback/Response
NATURE OF COMMUNICATION
Communication is a continuous process that composed of :
1. Sender ( thought and encoding ).
2. Medium (means, channels).
3. Receiver( reception, decoding, and understanding ) .
4. Message. (Transmission )
5. Feedback.
6. Noise.
To ensure
understanding
To persuade
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Verbal communication skills
• Communication skills help a person share feelings, thoughts, and
information with others.
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Communication code scheme
Johari Window
5 means “I always act like this” and 0 means “I never act like this”
*Attention : sum of two articles always has to be 5
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Calculating Your Scores
• Copy your point values from the questionnaire to the appropriate spaces
below. Add up the total points for each column.
9B 7A
11B 8B
13A 10B
15A 12B
17B 14B
18B 16A
19B 20A
Total Total
>> to vertical >> to
axis horizontal axis
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Charting Your Scores
On the top line of the graph below, mark your score for Solicits Feedback, then
draw a vertical line downward.
On the left line of the graph below, mark your score for Willingness to Self-
Disclose/Gives Feedback, then draw a line across horizontally (left to right)
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PART III
Communication skills for
Conflict management
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HOW TO USE CONFLICT-
RESOLUTION SKILLS
Remain Calm, Set a Listen to the needs Feed-back your
positive tone and and feelings of needs and feelings
Ask others. • Positive and negative
• Define the conflict ta • Active listening feed-back
king responsibility for • I-message
personal actions
Asking is defining
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General Reasons We Ask Questions
• Gather information
• Seek clearer understanding
• Who, what, where, when
• Clarify direction
Situations Where Questions Can Improve
Effectiveness
• Managing people
• Building teams
• Shape strategy and enable change
• Personal relationships
Important Uses of Questions in a Business
Setting
• Gain a new perspective
• Encourage people to see things from a different
perspective
– Surface and challenge biases
• Get all the issues on the table
• Get engagement on important issues
• Build relationships through personal coaching
Coaching and Questions
Listening is compassing
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Hearing Vs Listening
Hearing – Physical process, natural, passive
Listening – Physical as well as mental process, active, learned
process, a skill
4 • Ask Questions
5 • Paraphrase
5. Ensure Understanding
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You can do anything, but not
everything.
The function of leadership is to
produce
more leaders,
not more followers.
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One of the true tests of leadership is the
ability to recognize
the existence of conflict
before it becomes an emergency.
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Leadership is not one day
thing.
It is a constant
commitment to
excellence, a habit,
a daily practice.
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It’s not a shame to fall
but
it’s a shame
not to get up again.
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Questions
jaeho eun
Ph. D. Political Science
The Korea Institute of Public Administration (KIPA)
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