How to Deal With a Workplace

Psychopath
Research reveals how "successful psychopaths" are different.
Posted Aug 04, 2017

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The word psychopath typically conjures up images of sadistic serial killers.

But while some violent criminals are psychopaths, many psychopaths can
also become successful business people.

Individuals who are high in psychopathic personality traits can be

smooth talkers who initially charm their way up the corporate ladder. But at
some point, their manipulative tactics become clear.

Working alongside such a person could take a serious toll on your well-
being, but being proactive about your approach can help reduce some of
the damage.

A 2010 study published in the Journal of Research in Personality examined

what separates psychopaths who end up in prison and those who succeed
in business.

Researchers discovered that successful psychopaths exhibit many of the

same core features and traits as other psychopaths — dishonesty,
exploitation, arrogance, low remorse, minimizing self-blame, callousness,
and shallow affect.

They are charming, carefree, and aggressive, and they lack empathy.
They’re skilled at dealing with people and constantly look out only for
themselves.

What separated successful psychopaths from the rest was

their conscientiousness. Typical psychopaths rank low in this personality
trait. But successful psychopaths rank much higher.

That means that successful psychopaths are less irresponsible, impulsive,

and negligent than others. So while they may still commit crimes, they’re
less likely to get caught. That may explain why they’re more likely to be
found in an office than in prison.

Some of their psychopathic traits may actually be an advantage in

business. For example, they are practically immune to stress, so they’re
able to stay calm in the midst of a crisis. They are also often fearless, and
skilled at influencing people. They often get promoted, despite the darker
side to their personalities.

How to Deal With the Workplace Psychopath

Whether it’s your boss, a colleague, or a subordinate, there’s a good

chance you’ve encountered someone high in psychopathic traits in the
workplace at one time or another. It’s estimated that somewhere between
one and four percent of the population meets the criteria.

Dealing with such an individual in the workplace can be stressful —

perhaps even sickening. But the key to handling them successfully is to be
proactive. Take stock of their manipulative techniques and decide not to fall
prey to their tactics. Here are some ways to take back your power:

1. Don’t act intimidated. Psychopaths try to control others with threats

and aggression. They may stand over you when talking, or make veiled
threats. Stand your ground in an assertive manner, and report harassment
or bullying to human resources.

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2. Stay calm. Losing your cool shows psychopaths that they can
manipulate your emotions, which gives them more power over you. So
practice staying calm, even when their behavior is outrageous.

3. Refuse to buy into their stories. When psychopaths feel like they’re
backed into a corner, they blame other people. Listening to their excuses
and showing sympathy for their problems plays into their hand. Don’t get
distracted by their long-winded tales that try to prove they’re really the
victim in the situation.

4. Turn the conversation back on them. When a psychopath tries to blame

someone else, turn the conversation around. Say something like, “Are you
feeling okay? You lost it in the meeting today and I’m wondering if you
might be a bit stressed.” Pointing out their flaws can disarm them.

Avoid Psychopaths When You Can

Studies are clear that working alongside a toxic person can take a serious
toll on your mental and physical health. So it’s best to avoid a psychopath
whenever possible. That may mean switching departments or changing
jobs altogether, but in the long run, working with healthier people could
greatly improve the quality of your life.

When you can’t avoid a workplace psychopath, get proactive so you

can stay mentally strong, and make sure to always report instances of
bullying and intimidation to human resources.
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