58 - January 1, 2011 1
Attorney Famuyide Wins Stokes
Interview Cases in New York
The Law Office of Joseph
Famuyide recorded unprecedent-
ed victories for all immigrants in
the year 2010. From New York
to New Jersey, from Philadelphia
to Ohio, from immigration inter-
view to immigration courts, from
National Benefit Center to Board
of Immigration Appeals, the suc-
cesses of year 2010 will.... Con’t on Pg 6
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Who’s in Charge?
Another Way to Obtain Obtain Your Green Card
Green Cards for Desperate Through Cancellation of President Barack Obama
Immigrants Removal
pg 7 pg 12
1st C C C C C C
2nd C 22JUN06 C 08MAY06 C C
3rd 22MAR05 15DEC03 22MAR05 01FEB02 15APR03 22MAR05
Other Workers 22APR03 22APR03 22APR03 01FEB02 15APR03 22APR03
4th C C C C C C
First: Unmarried Sons and Daughters of try limit;
Citizens: 23,400 plus any numbers not re- B. Unmarried Sons and Daughters (21 Certain Religious
quired for fourth preference. years of age or older): 23% of the overall Workers C C C C C C
Second: Spouses and Children, and Un- second preference limitation. 5th C C C C C C
married Sons and Daughters of Permanent Third: Married Sons and Daughters of Targeted Employment
Residents: 114,200, plus the number (if Citizens: 23,400, plus any numbers not re-
Areas/ Regional Centers C C C C C C
any) by which the worldwide family pref- quired by first and second preferences.
5th Pilot Programs C C C C C C
erence level exceeds 226,000, and any Fourth: Brothers and Sisters of Adult
unused first preference numbers: Citizens: 65,000, plus any numbers not re-
A. Spouses and Children: 77% of the quired by first three preferences. First: Priority Workers: Fifth: Employment Cre- visa demand exceeds the
overall second preference limitation, of 28.6% of the worldwide ation: 7.1% of the world- per-country limit. These
which 75% are exempt from the per-coun- employment-based pref- wide level, not less than provisions apply at present
erence level, plus any 3,000 of which reserved for to the following oversub-
Diversity Immigrant (DV) Category numbers not required for investors in a targeted rural scribed chargeability areas:
fourth and fifth preferences. or high-unemployment CHINA-mainland born,
area, and 3,000 set aside DOMINICAN REPUB-
Second: Members of the for investors in regional LIC, INDIA, MEXICO,
Professions Holding Ad- centers by Sec. 610 of P.L. and PHILIPPINES.
vanced Degrees or Persons 102-395. 5. On the chart below, the
of Exceptional Ability: listing of a date for any
28.6% of the worldwide 4. INA Section 203(e) pro- class indicates that the
employment-based pref- vides that family-sponsored class is oversubscribed (see
erence level, plus any and employment-based paragraph 1); “C” means
numbers not required by preference visas be issued current, i.e., numbers are
first preference. to eligible immigrants in available for all quali-
Section 203(c) of the Immigration and being reduced to 50,000. DV visas are the order in which a peti- fied applicants; and “U”
Nationality Act provides a maximum of divided among six geographic regions. No Third: Skilled Workers, tion in behalf of each has means unavailable, i.e.,
up to 55,000 immigrant visas each fiscal one country can receive more than seven Professionals, and Other been filed. Section 203(d) no numbers are available.
year to permit immigration opportunities percent of the available diversity visas in Workers: 28.6% of the provides that spouses and (NOTE: Numbers are
for persons from countries other than the any one year. worldwide level, plus any children of preference im- available only for appli-
principal sources of current immigration numbers not required by migrants are entitled to the cants whose priority date is
to the United States. The Nicaraguan and For January, immigrant numbers in the DV first and second preferenc- same status, and the same earlier than the cut-off date
Central American Relief Act (NACARA) category are available to qualified DV-2011 es, not more than 10,000 of order of consideration, if listed below.)
passed by Congress in November 1997 applicants chargeable to all regions/eli- which to “Other Workers”. accompanying or following
stipulates that beginning with DV-99, and gible countries as follows. When an allo- to join the principal. The
for as long as necessary, up to 5,000 of cation cut-off number is shown, visas are Fourth: Certain Special visa prorating provisions of
the 55,000 annually-allocated diversity available only for applicants with DV re- Immigrants: 7.1% of the Section 202(e) apply to al-
visas will be made available for use under gional lottery rank numbers BELOW the worldwide level. locations for a foreign state
the NACARA program. This reduction specified allocation cut-off number: or dependent area when
has resulted in the DV-2011 annual limit
The Department of State has available a recorded message with visa availability informa- *NOTE: For January, 2A numbers EXEMPT from per-country limit are
tion which can be heard at: (area code 202) 663-1541. This recording will be updated in the
middle of each month with information on cut-off dates for the following month.
available to applicants from all countries with priority dates earlier than
Employment Third Preference Other Workers Category: Section 203(e) of the NACARA, as 01APR05. 2A numbers SUBJECT to per-country limit are available to ap-
amended by Section 1(e) of Pub. L. 105-139, provides that once the Employment Third Pref- plicants chargeable to all countries EXCEPT MEXICO with priority dates
erence Other Worker (EW) cut-off date has reached the priority date of the latest EW petition
approved prior to November 19, 1997, the 10,000 EW numbers available for a fiscal year are
beginning 01APR05 and earlier than 01JAN08. (All 2A numbers provided
to be reduced by up to 5,000 annually beginning in the following fiscal year. This reduction is for MEXICO are exempt from the per-country limit; there are no 2A num-
to be made for as long as necessary to offset adjustments under the NACARA program. Since bers for MEXICO subject to per-country limit.)
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set barriers to their to apply for permanent service. The alien was discharge. information only; it is
cont’d from pg 4
ability to fulfil their residence after 3 or required to have com- not a legal advice and
111th Congress was dream of being useful 6yrs on a probationary pleted at least 1 of the Let me just say em- should not be substi-
a complete failure as to humanity. status. These catego- following: (i) acquired phatically that it is not tuted for legal advice
far as an immigrant ries of aliens were re- a degree from an insti- over with the Dream which can only be
is concerned. They It is estimated that quired to meet certain tution of higher edu- Act. With proper pub- given by an attorney
promised and failed. about 2 million im- requirements which cation in the United licity and education of after evaluating your
Harry Reid, the Senate migrants in the U.S. included amongst States or had com- the American people peculiar situation. If
President ought to be would have qualified others that “the alien pleted at least 2 years, through the media, you need more infor-
ashamed of himself for the Dream Act has demonstrated good in good standing, in a the Dream Act could mation, please visit my
for baiting immigrants if passed into law. It moral character. The program for a bach- still be passed during websites www.usim-
with the Dream Act to has also been pro- alien should not have elor’s degree or higher President Obama’s migrationnewspaper.
win re-election only jected by experts that abandoned the alien’s degree in the United presidency. I hope the com or call Attorney
to abandon them few about 800,000 of them residence in the United States. (ii) Served in President will do what Joseph Famuyide at
days later. would have applied for States. The DHS Sec- the uniformed servic- is necessary to lead in 718-647-6767 or send
the benefit. retary was to presume es for at least 2 years this area. email to jfamuyide@
The Dream Act was that the alien had and, if discharged, re- aol.com
about children brought In summary, the abandoned such resi- ceived an honorable This article is for your
into the United States Dream Act would dence if the alien was
legally or illegally have provided illegal absent from the United
before the age of aliens who entered the States for more than
sixteen. A large frac- United States before 365 days, in the aggre-
tion of the estimated the age of sixteen and gate, unless the alien
12 million undocu- who were under 36 demonstrates that alien
mented aliens in the with benefits much had not abandoned the
United States today quicker than their alien’s residence. An
are these children who parents, because they alien who was absent
after completing High were brought to the from the United States
School or College cur- United States without due to active service in
rently face the reality any input in the deci- the uniformed services
of their illegal status. sions that brought them has not abandoned the
The country they grew here. As previously alien’s residence in the
up knowing as home proposed, these aliens United States during
now draws a line and would have been able the period of such
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contd. pg 14
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A
fisherman, by the if they kept catching feel alone and frus- He has already settled and life instead of you give out or share
name of Simon, nothing. trated? the matter. Jesus sees death (1 Kg. 17:10- from anything you
went fishing. He you getting employed, 16). In Mark 6:34-44 have. All the examples
and his co-fishermen Dear reader, I ask above show that none
tried all night to catch
you, what do you see? of them had surplus
fishes but to no avail.
Catching and selling fish- When you look at at the time they gave.
es was their livelihood. your life, do you see Don’t delay Jesus’
They were not amateurs yourself as someone visitation because of
at all. However, that night who may never make your stinginess. It is
was unexpectedly disap-
it because you’ve wrong to think you
pointing. They brought
two ships manned by been trying your best cannot help because
able fishermen but abil- but catching nothing? you are not rich yet.
ity and experience did Did you loose your Yes, share your little
not work that night. We job and now see money, your small
do not know how many
poverty looming over house, and your idea
months, weeks or days
this kind of disappoint- you? Does the present about how you got
ment had been their real- economic chaos with that small job. Share
ity, but we know that this the unbelievably high your faith in God with
particular night was bad. unemployment rate someone else, even
For businessmen who
cause you to wonder though you have not
needed not only to make
profit but also to put food if your family won’t become a leader in
on the table for their fam- starve? Do you see Don’t give up. Keep the job search. Keep the prayers going. your church. Loan
ilies, catching no fish all a marriage to which your life to Jesus. He
night was devastating. Jesus will come to you at the location of your trouble & struggle.
you dedicated your will pay you back
best but all you get is
“And the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see richly. [See all the
To Simon and the continuous growing it together: for the mouth of the Lord hath spoken it” [Isa. 40:5]. May references previously
other fishermen in frustration? You’ve the Lord open your eyes to see what Jesus sees and has already sited].
both ships, the reality tried your best to established concerning you. Amen. 2. Believe in the
was that they had become documented name and the word
“toiled all night and in this land but you I owing your own busi- of Jesus. Do what
have taken nothing” see no way out? Do have good news for ness and taking care the disciples saw five He commands you
(Luke 5:1-7). They you see someone that you: WHEN JESUS of you. In the midst of loaves and two fishes to do. It might not
saw a wasted effort will probably end up TAKES OVER a depressed economy, but Jesus saw plenty make sense to your
Jesus sees you thrive of food to feed five natural self but your
[Isa. 43:19]. Jesus thousand people. The spirit understands it.
sees you not as a disciples saw scarcity Just follow what He
barren but a mother but Jesus saw surplus. says. Give your life to
of many children. I ask you, what do you Jesus today. He is the
[Isa. 54: 1-8]. see? only one that makes
sense. When Jesus
You know, Simon TO SEE WHAT told Simon to “launch
saw an all night toil JESUS SEES out into the deep and
resulting in nothing, You need to take the let down your nets
but Jesus saw the steps that other believ- for a draught,” Simon
deep full of fishes ers have taken: said, “…nevertheless
and blessing. Simon 1. Simon gave up at thy word I will let
saw frustration and his ship for Jesus to down the net.” He did
hunger, but Jesus use for the gospel; the not argue with Christ.
cont’d on pg 14
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OH BABY! contd.
nations, yet, they were still lessons about life. But … Richard looked at her that she’d heard him. Her How could he understand
without a child. come to think of it, did briefly and back at the eyes remained closed, the how she felt? She thought.
Lord, we are not living in he have to see the man? road. He replaced the right tears still coming. It was He was a man, not a woman.
sin, and we are praying Richard wondered. Did hand on the steering wheel obvious Tammy was not How could he know how
and serving You. We didn’t he need to bother to see a with the left hand, and took happy but crying would not much people’s thoughtless
mess around before we man who did not believe Tammy’s hand with his free solve the problem, would comments hurt her? She
got married. Our family in his pastor and who was hand, placing it on his thigh it? He sighed. was the one people usually
members are also praying so narrow minded as to silently. “You don’t need to cry.” He pointed at, not him. It was
with us. Why have You not believe that the pastors That act seemed to loosen told her confidently. her tummy they looked
given us a child? Tell me must be living in sin or her tongue. She cried, That confidence again, at for signs of pregnancy,
what we need to do, Lord? powerless or not praying “God, why?” as she re- Tammy thought. But it not his. How could he un-
Richard’s heart cried out. enough just because the membered the scene in her couldn’t give her what she derstand the pain and the
Rev. Taiwo I. Odubiyi
USI News Columnist
When he stopped at a traffic senior pastor had one child office. wanted, a child. shame she faced regularly?
light, he glanced briefly and the other didn’t have He squeezed her hand “You know very well that She remembered a time
They entered the car and at his wife. He saw tears any child yet? gently. what the woman said is not when one of his relatives
immediately hooked the dripping down beneath her Richard shook his head She closed her eyes again true. You shouldn’t weep had come from their home-
gray seat belts. Richard closed eyes as her head laid in thought. If the man’s as she thought about their when you hear such talks.” town and asked her, “Are
started the car and drove on the head rest. He knew mother could make chil- situation. This was not Richard said. you now pregnant?”
out of the place, on their it. He drew in a deep breath dren or knew how they what she expected. She The words he said seemed Tammy had replied
way to the house of another as he returned his gaze to could have children, why continued to think of some as if he was scolding angrily “Only God makes
family without saying any- babies,” and went inside
thing to his wife. He knew the bedroom. She knew the
she was upset by the things comment and her action
she’d heard at Ngozi’s had angered the woman,
place. He was upset too. more so as the woman was
Who wouldn’t be? He an older in-law but that
didn’t bother to look at was the third time during
Tammy. She was probably the course of their then
crying as she usually did three year old marriage
when someone brought up that the woman would be
the issue of their childless- asking her such a question
ness. He drove on silently, and Tammy was tired of
both of them busy with it. The woman had called
their thoughts, handling Richard immediately and
their emotional pains. complained to him. He’d
Why had Tammy not con- defended Tammy but still
ceived a child? God, are advised her to apologize
we missing it somewhere? to the woman for walking
Richard silently asked out on her. The woman had
God as he had been doing not bothered Tammy again,
since they began to go for though.
medical tests and treat- Who knows if there are some other church members who think they can’t have children just How could he know how
ments, and seeing fertility hurt and embarrassed she
because we don’t have ours yet and the senior pastor has only one or members who think
experts. It was Tammy who was by the comments of
first expressed concern and that our faith is not strong enough? How many other couples or even singles have left the Pat in her office? And how
went to see their family could he know how bad
doctor when she found the road and waited for the then had she not given them people’s looks and com- her which upset Tammy she felt afterwards at her
she was not yet pregnant light to change to green. children before they joined ments about her childless- further. When he talked own reaction to the com-
six months after wedding. He remembered what the church? Moreover, ness. to other people, he used ments? Tammy could still
The doctor had told her Ngozi said her mother-in- even if he talked to the Richard’s voice interrupted a voice that told them he remember the sorry look on
that she should not worry law’s opinion was and he man, he might not return to her thoughts as he sighed understood them but when Pat’s face and the pity look
and that there was no cause became very angry. Who the church as it seemed the and called her full name, talking to her he used a Mercy had given her.
for alarm until if twelve knows if there are some mother had a strong control “Oluwatamilore?” voice that said he expected
months of regular sexual other church members over him. Well, he would He usually called his wife her to know better. Should To be continued
relations with her husband who think they can’t have think more about the matter ‘honey’ or ‘Tammy’, an she not be concerned about This story is from the novel
failed to result in concep- children just because we later, Richard decided. abbreviation of the last their childlessness after Oh Baby! by Pastor Taiwo
tion. She relaxed a little, don’t have ours yet and He shook his head sadly eight letters of her name almost seven years of mar- Odubiyi
praying harder. the senior pastor has only again. This life! He used ‘Tamilore’. He called her riage? And should he not be To order this book and
But when another six one or members who think his right thumb nail to tap full name ‘Oluwatamilore’ more understanding? others by the same author,
months passed and it had that our faith is not strong his two front teeth impa- which meant God gave me She didn’t respond as she contact:
not happened, Tammy enough? How many other tiently. a gift, when he wanted to compressed her lips. Tel: 1-410-5196888
went back to the hospital. couples or even singles The light changed to green win her over or plead with He continued, “They don’t E-mail: pastortaiwoodu-
This time, he accompanied have left the church un- and he drove on. He caught her. matter. We both know they biyi@yahoo.com
her to hear what the doctor noticed because of such up with the white car in He hadn’t called her full are wrong and that we will Website: www.pastortai-
would say. Since then, she thoughts? front of him. He flicked on name in a long while, have kids someday. Delay woodubiyi.org
had been frequenting dif- Why should the man and the signal light and over- Tammy thought, but this is not necessarily denial.” Facebook: pastor mrs taiwo
ferent hospitals for tests his mother say those things took the car. was not the time to analyze She didn’t respond still as odubiyi
and treatments, and some about them? Richard Tammy opened her eyes, or ask why. She remained she silently asked the ques-
of the doctors insisted on thought again. Well, he pulled a Kleenex tissue silent. tion, ‘But when?’
seeing him too for exami- would see the man on Sat- from the box on the dash- Richard looked at her “I understand how you
urday and teach him some board and wiped her face. briefly. There was no sign feel.” He said.
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up missing the chance. the Visa Bulletin for cut-off dates for most the 6months rule. If touch with immigra- immigration lawyer
The opportunity was January 2011 and the Family preference your case has been tion developments because your priority
not meant to last 2nd category was hit categories advanced approved and now at all times through date is about ripe for
forever. As a result of with adverse effect. at a very rapid pace with the National Visa the U.S. Immigration the issuance of visa,
the opportunity, many According to the during the past two Center, that means News. If you have do not leave things to
immigrants applied January edition of years. Those move- a visa number has a pending immigra- chance.
and within few months the Visa Bulletin, any ments have resulted already been assigned tion case requiring a If your petition was
all the unused visas green card holder who in a dramatic increase to your case and it will waiting period, it is my filed as far back as
were taken and slowly petition for their loved in the level of appli- be processed under advice that you watch 2003 and you are yet to
but surely, the second ones in January 2011 cant demand received the December 2010 the monthly Visa Bul- get an approval letter,
family based visa cat- or whose petition is in recent months. Visa Bulletin showing letin like a hawk. Do something might be
egory is creeping back yet to be ap- wrong. It is possible
to the old average of proved, will that your case has been
5years waiting period now need Alas, the opportunity was not to last forever. As a result of the oppor- denied because you
before spouses and to wait for tunity, many immigrants applied and within few months all the unused did not respond to the
children of green card about two visas were taken and slowly but surely, the second family based visa This period request for
holders could migrate years to bring category is creeping back to the old average of 5years waiting period additional documents.
to the United States. their spouses before spouses and children of green card holders could migrate to the Please consult with an
In December 2010, the to the United immigration attorney
category A of the 2nd States. The
United States. for immediate assis-
family based prefer- January 2011 tance.
ence of the Visa Bul- priority date now This has required current. not miss the opportu- This is article is for
letin was holding at stands at January 1, the retrogression of As immigrants in the nity to apply timely. your information only.
August 1, 2010. The 2008, which means many Family prefer- United States, this If your brother or It is not a legal advice
priority date for De- that it will now take an ence cut-off dates for period is a desperate your sister petitioned that can only be ren-
cember 2010 showed average of two years to January in an effort time. All immigrants for you around year dered by an attorney
an average waiting bring your loved ones to hold number use must identify and seize 2001 and you are in after evaluation your
period for a permanent to the U.S. Please note within the various nu- every available oppor- the United States, it is case. If you need legal
resident alien to bring that this deterioration merical limits. Further tunity to become legal time to consult with advice, please feel free
his or her spouse and is likely to continue retrogressions cannot in the country. Snip- an immigration at- to contact Attorney
under 21 children to until we get back to the be ruled out should pets of opportunities torney because your Joseph Famuyide at
the United States was old 5years average. demand continue at the will come from time priority date is now 718-647-6767 or send
about 5months. Un- According to the U.S. current levels.” to time that will take ripe. If you petitioned email to jfamuyide@
fortunately, around Department of States, Let me assure those care of a handful of for your brothers and aol.com .
December 12, 2010, “As reported in the who heeded the call to immigrants at a time, sisters abroad on or USI News
the U.S. Department December Visa Bul- file that they will still please do not miss about 2002, it is time
of States released letin (number 27), the be processed under your chance. Stay in to begin to talk to an
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DARE TO BE DIFFERENT! …
Stop Following the Crowd.
reply was, “I vow
by the Lord and by
your own life that I
will go wherever you
go, no matter what
happens, whether it
means life or death.”
If we compare this
to what Shimei, a
Re. Grace Eledan member of Saul’s
USI News Columnist family said to David
in Chapter 16:7, we
Crossword
Across 43 “I Kick Out Of short
1 Joyous
6 Novel
You”
44 Escargots
8 Claret, e.g.
9 Auditing time Sudoku
9 Time for a revolu- 46 Planting site 10 Gave rise to
tion? 48 Exercises 11 Make reparation
13 End of __ 50 Ascend 12 Daltrey of The
14 Auditory 51 “The King __” Who
16 Inner beginner 52 Matter-of-fact 15Multimedia device
17 Music group 58 Bulgar, e.g. 18 Steel beam
19 Bug-eyed 59 Oily 24 Pioneer talk show
20 Analgesic 60 Capture host
21 Painter Magritte 61 Dough drawer 25 Notion
22 Bird bill part 62 Attracts buyers 26 Invalid
23 Kitchen drawer 63 McGregor of 27“Stairwayto
item “Trainspotting” Heaven” singer
25 Strapped 64 From an earlier 28 Nerds
28 Ask peremptorily time 29 Comfort
30 They have to be 65 Tot’s transport- 32 Enthusiasm Rules: Fill all empty squares so that the numbers 1 to 9
paid Down 34 Sampras of tennis appear once in each row, column and 3x3 box.
31 Book before 1 Lock part 35 Govt. agent
Nehemiah 2 Pier, in architecture 37 Pair ANALOGY
33 Skilled 3 Spirit of Persian 38 Moving gingerly
36 Actor Wallach folklore 41 Animate 1. ITINERARY-TRIP
37 “Sister Carrie” 4 William and Harry, 43 Not as experi-
author e.g. enced A. syllabus-course
39 Radiation unit 5 New Englander 45 “A house - home” B. surplus: shortage
Can you Find these Missing 40 Strike site 6 High-born 47 Lend a hand C. farce: sham
Words in the Diagram? 42 Mimicked 7 And others, for 48 Use unwisely D. turmoil:order
E. timidity:audacity
2. GEAR-TOOTH
A. mellow:favorable
B. hospitable:unfavorable
C. vindictive: favorable
D.screw-thread
E. lax:favorable
3. COMPLIMENT-FLATTERY
Neglected
Bills on the island. An hour later
JOKES
Abe and Esther are flying to Abe turns to his wife and asks,
Get Out Of The Car why. It was for the same reason she had Australia for a two-week va- “Esther, did we pay our $5,000
wondered why there was a football, a cation to celebrate their 40th PBS pledge check yet?”“No,
(This is supposedly a true account record-
Frisbee, and two 12-packs of beer in the anniversary. Suddenly, over sweetheart,” she responds.
ed in the Police Log of Sarasota, Florida) the public address system, the Abe, still shaken from the crash
An elderly Florida lady did her shopping front seat. A few minutes later, she found
Captain announces, “Ladies landing, then asks, “Esther, did
and, upon returning to her car, found her own car parked four or five spaces and Gentlemen, I am afraid I we pay our American Express
four males in the act of leaving with her farther down. She loaded her bags into have some very bad news. Our card yet?”
vehicle. She dropped her shopping bags the car and drove to the police station engines have ceased function- “Oh, no! I’m sorry. I forgot to
and drew her handgun, proceeding to to report her mistake. The sergeant to ing and we will attempt an send the check,” she says.
scream at the top of her lungs, “I have a whom she told the story couldn’t stop emergency landing. Luckily, I “One last thing, Esther. Did you
gun, and I know how to use it! Get out of laughing. He pointed to the other end of see an uncharted island below remember to send checks for
the car!” The four men didn’t wait for a the counter, where four pale men were us and we should be able to the Visa and MasterCard this
second threat. They got out and ran like reporting a car jacking by a mad, elderly land on the beach. However, month?” he asks. “I didn’t send
woman described as white, less than five the odds are that we may never that one, either.”
mad. The lady, somewhat shaken, then
feet tall, glasses, curly white hair, and be rescued and will have to live Abe grabs her and gives her the
proceeded to load her shopping bags on the island for the rest of our biggest kiss in 40 years. Esther
into the back of the car and got into the carrying a large handgun. No charges
lives!” pulls away and asks him, “What
driver’s seat. She was so shaken that she were filed. Moral of the story? If you’re was that for?”
could not get her key into the ignition. going to have a senior moment...make it Thanks to the skill of the flight Abe answers,
She tried and tried, and then she realized memorable. crew, the plane lands safely “They’ll find us!”
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A
unrealistic nature of to accept that ‘he/she
nother time of
all I wanted to change is only a child”. In
the year when
or due to my inability the eyes of a mother
people try to
to prioritize values ap- the child never grows.
think about their previ-
propriately. She said Nothing is so sacred
ous actions and words
that was her problem to reserve to privacy
with a view to making
too. I told her that one any more! Too much
necessary changes for
resolution I asked God talking has caused
better life style, or for
better control of future
to help me keep yearly The heart controls all. The next resolution may be “keeping wrong more harm than good.
after some dark expe- thinking low far below positive thinking.. giving others credit to be
repetition of certain
riences is “to remem- able to do right not wrong all the time, suppressing the urge to always Woman to woman re-
evils in their life. As far
ber to keep my mouth associate evil deeds to others…perhaps that may affect what we say lationships in offices,
as many great think-
shut when I am not gatherings, schools,
ers are concerned, the about them, even to or of “our enemies’.
sure of how to respond and at home is often
most important thing
or say something; or fraught with bad
about the ritual New
when what I would say verbal communica-
Year resolution is that
would hurt others dis- average mother asks their minds. They were descriptions, innuen- tion. That is why many
it provides a point
respectfully, and also if the home work is seen not heard. With does, outbursts, accu- believe that most
in time when collec-
the wisdom and guts done; or done right; time, some women sations, references etc friendship between
tive thoughts and self
to detect unwhole- announces that break- muster courage and that offends the other women would col-
evaluations are made
some friends (popu- fast, lunch or dinner manpower to protest consistently until that lapse at inception or
real. For once, many
larly called unfriendly is ready; talks to each over gender oppres- other decides to get thereafter due to pa-
stop the rat race and
friends) in advance child in various setting sion, and now women some peace through rading of gossip and
think about life, hu-
and run away before and also to a husband are just talking, some- separation or divorce’. scandal over trivial
man behaviors, soci-
I could be trapped at various settings, times talking too much Some mothers have issues. Just by some
ety and continuity. No
in their mess” She including when she ( and even cursing too ran bad mouth to one talking too much
matter how unrealis-
screamed that every accuses him of “infi- like men in America). ‘ teachers on phone for or assuming too much
tic yearly resolutions
woman should have delity”, real or imag- I am not afraid to say unverified accusations avoidable wrongs
seem to look, they ac-
those as a top list on ined. The research anything” is a phrase from their untamed have been committed
tually make some peo-
resolutions. described females as often heard from child. “oh you can’t by concerned parties.
ple think genuinely.
She may be right. Re- “talking gender”. I do women in America. do that to my child That is the reason
Many do follow up on
search has shown that not consider this depic- Oh they are not afraid and get away…I am most mother daughter,
some of the changes
women in America tion derogatory. Sure, to talk as Oprah Win- going to sue…” A sister in law relation-
they resolve to make.
(and indeed all over the we are and for obvious frey‘s and other talk New York base teacher ship hardly work out
Even those who fall
world) talk too much good reasons. The high shows televised indi- confirmed this. he well any where in the
by the way side at least
and use almost three verbosity of woman- cate. said “even when some world.
started the journey to
times more words than hood is God given and mothers, especially
change. The willing-
men daily. The re- it has been abused like A Marriage counselor single moms come to By abuse of power of
ness to change is the
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the food into alcohol.
EDUCATION & KIDS
Body? may act totally out of ing life — and alcohol. mitted diseases can
Fermentation is used character. When large Many parents and other change — or even end
to produce many nec- Alcohol is a depres- amounts of alcohol are adults use alcohol so- — lives. The risk of in-
essary items — every- sant, which means it consumed in a short cially — having beer juring yourself, maybe
thing from cheese to slows the function of period of time, alcohol or wine with dinner, even fatally, is higher
medications. Alcohol the central nervous poisoning can result. for example — alcohol when you’re under the
has different forms system. Alcohol actu- Alcohol poisoning is seems harmless to influence, too. One half
and can be used as a ally blocks some of the exactly what it sounds many teens. Parents of all drowning deaths
cleaner, an antisep- messages trying to get like — the body has who use alcohol when among teen guys are
tic, or a sedative. So to the brain. This alters become poisoned there are stressful situ- related to alcohol use.
ations teach their chil- Use of alcohol greatly
dren that alcohol is increases the chance
good when things are that a teen will be in-
Lisa-Anne Ray-Byers bad. volved in a car crash,
speechlrb@yahoo.com homicide, or suicide.
Why Shouldn’t They Who wants to gain
Q
. I am a high school Drink? weight? Teen drink-
teacher and I know ers are more likely to
that many of my Although it’s illegal get fat or have health
students drink alcohol. I’ve to buy alcohol in the problems, too. One
spoken to them about it United States until the study by the Univer-
and they don’t seem to be age of 21, most teens sity of Washington
concerned as long as they can get access to it. It’s found that people who
don’t drink and drive. I’ve therefore up to you to regularly had five or
even heard them say that make a decision about more drinks in a row
their parents know about drinking. In addition to starting at age 13 were
it. Can you alert teens and the possibility of be- much more likely to
parents to the dangers of coming addicted, there be overweight or have
alcohol? are some downsides to high blood pressure by
drinking: age 24 than their non
A. Yes, it is amazing The punishment is drinking peers. People
that we have so much severe. Teens who who continue drink-
information about the drink put themselves at ing heavily well into
damage alcohol can risk for obvious prob- adulthood risk damag-
cause yet our teens “ If your child struggles with a subject, secure additional help at lems with the law (it’s ing their organs, such
continue to drink it. illegal; you can get as the liver, heart, and
The teen years are the beginning before a problem becomes overwhelming. Some arrested). Teens who brain.
challenging ones parents choose to spend time working one-on-one with their drink are also more How Can They Avoid
because teens think child, while others may hire an individual tutor or enroll their likely to get into fights Drinking?
that they are invinci- and commit crimes
ble, they have little life child in one of the many after-school educational programs. ” than those who don’t. If all their friends
experience, and they People who drink drink and they don’t
think that adults are alcohol regularly often want to, it can be hard
out to ruin their fun. if alcohol is a naturala person’s perceptions, by large amounts of have problems with to say “no, thanks.”
I will provide some product, why do teens emotions, movement, alcohol. Violent vom- school. Drinking can No one wants to risk
information here that need to be concerned vision, and hearing. iting is usually the first damage a student’s feeling rejected or left
you can share creative- about drinking it? In very small amounts, symptom of alcohol ability to study well out. Different strate-
ly with your students When people drink alcohol can help a poisoning. Extreme and get decent grades, gies for turning down
and parents to open alcohol, it’s absorbed person feel more sleepiness, uncon- as well as affect sports alcohol work for dif-
the discussion. Infor- into their blood-
relaxed or less anxious. sciousness, difficulty performance (the coor- ferent people. Some
mation gathered from stream. From there, More alcohol causes breathing, dangerously dination thing). people find it helps to
the www.kidshealth. it affects the central greater changes in the low blood sugar, sei- They can look really say no without giving
org website reveals the nervous system (the brain, resulting in in- zures, and even death stupid. The impression an explanation, others
following. Just about brain and spinal cord),toxication. People who may result. is that drinking is cool, think offering their
everyone knows that which controls virtu- have overused alcohol but the nervous system reasons works better
the legal drinking age ally all body functions.
may stagger, lose their Why Do Teens Drink? changes that come (“I’m not into drink-
throughout the United Because experts now coordination, and slur from drinking alcohol ing,” “I have a game
States is 21. But ac- know that the human their speech. They will Experimentation with can make people do tomorrow,” or “my
cording to the National brain is still develop-probably be confused alcohol during the stupid or embarrass- uncle died from drink-
Center on Addiction ing during our teens, and disoriented. De- teen years is common. ing things, like throw- ing,” for example).
and Substance Abuse, scientists are research-
pending on the person, Some reasons that ing up or peeing on If saying no to alcohol
almost 80% of high ing the effects drinking
intoxication can make teens use alcohol and themselves. Drinking makes them feel un-
school students have alcohol can have on someone very friend- other drugs are: also gives people bad comfortable in front
tried alcohol. the teen brain. Teens ly and talkative or breath, and no one of people they know,
may not want to have very aggressive and 1. curiosity enjoys a hangover. teach them to blame
What Is Alcohol? their brains, thinking angry. Reaction times 2. to feel good, reduce Alcohol puts your their parents or another
processes, intelligenceare slowed dramati- stress, and relax health at risk. Teens adult for their refusal.
Alcohol is created and other neurological cally — which is why 3. to fit in who drink are more Saying, “My parents
when grains, fruits, skills damaged before people are told not to 4. to feel older likely to be sexually are coming to pick me
or vegetables are fer- they even enter into drink and drive. People active and to have up soon,” “I already
mented. Fermentation colleges and their lifewho are intoxicated From a very young unsafe, unprotected got in major trouble for
is a process that uses careers. may think they’re age, kids see advertis- sex. This can result in
yeast or bacteria to moving properly when ing messages showing unwanted pregnancies cont’d on pg 23
change the sugars in How Does It Affect the they’re not. They beautiful people enjoy- and sexually trans-
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station on Flatbush, Brooklyn, Rochdale Mall, Queens. 122-01 Jamaica Avenue Rich- 2. Front of 291 Broadway by
NY mond, NY 11418 26 Federal Plaza, New York
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drinkers than people with percent) of parents say that journals: gov/dangers.html websites.
cont’d from pg 22 low self-esteem! seeing and hearing alcohol
ads makes teens more likely Parents Must: Lisa-Anne Ray-Byers is
drinking once, I can’t do it What Can Parents Do? to drink alcohol than they a licensed and certified
again,” or “my coach would otherwise would be. Minor- 1. Educate themselves. speech-language patholo-
kill me,” can make saying First the facts! A wide gap ity parents are substantially Sign up for The Anti-Drug gist who has worked in edu-
no a bit easier for some. exists between parents’ more likely than are parents Parenting Tips Newsletter cation for over two decades.
If they are going to a party perceptions of their teens’ overall to think alcohol ads or www.Freevibe.com. Call She holds graduate degrees
and they know there will drinking habits and those make teens more likely to 1-800-788-2800; Spanish: in speech-language pa-
be alcohol, teach them habits reported by teens drink, with 76 percent of 1-877-746-3764 (24 hours, thology and multicultural
to plan their strategy in themselves. The largest gap African-American parents 7 days a week). Or visit education. She also holds
advance. They and their is between 15-to 16-year and 73 percent of Hispanic their Web site at http:// certification in educational
friends can develop a signal olds and their parents. Only parents agreeing that this www.health.org. administration. She is the
for when it’s time to leave, 31 percent of parents of is the case. Almost three- author of the book, They
for example. They can also teens in this group say that quarters of parents fault 2. Have The Talk — Let Say I Have ADHD, I Say
make sure that they have their teen probably or defi- alcohol companies for the Them Know You Know Life Sucks! Thoughts From
plans to do something nitely has consumed an al- amount of ads that teens see . Nicholas available at www.
besides just hanging out in coholic beverage in the last and hear. 3. Be Specific About Your Amazon.com. She is also
someone’s basement drink- year, as compared with 60 Girls Targeted More! In Concerns the education editor for
ing beer all night. Plan a percent of teens in this age 2002, underage youth saw The Community Journal
trip to the movies, the mall, group who report having more alcohol advertising 4. Don’t Make Excuses Newspaper in Long Island,
a concert, or a sports event. done this. Parents perceive than adults in magazines, NY. You may contact her at
They might also organize alcohol ads as having a and underage girls were 5. Try to Remain Calm and speechlrb@yahoo.com or
their friends into a volley- serious effect on teen drink- even more exposed to this Connect With Him/Her by visiting her website at
ball, bowling, or softball ing habits, and they see advertising than boys, ac- www.AskLisaAnne.com.
team — any activity that alcohol companies as falling cording to a study in the Good Luck!
gets them moving. far short in dealing respon- July 2004 issue of The Ar-
Girls or guys who have sibly with the impact of chives of Pediatrics and Some information gathered
strong self-esteem are less their advertising on young Adolescent Medicine, one from the www.about.com
likely to become problem people. Fully two-thirds (66 of the JAMA/Archives and www.dontserveteens.
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but made her into the taken on a much bigger Oprah had everything ing new standards. something to blame
very New Year most recognizable face challenge. Oprah is stacked against her. The good news is for what they are,
comes with on TV in the world. starting her own TV She was raised by her that God did not only who they are and
its own set of Many other hosts and network. The Oprah grandmother in rural gift Oprah with these what they have. They
expectations and chal- hostesses of talk shows Winfrey Network poverty until age six, gifts. He gave them sometimes blame their
lenges. We celebrate did not even make it to parents, their origins,
its arrival with much a full decade on TV. their spouse, the bad
joy and revelry but Yet, Oprah through economy, their lack of
all the while we are her empowering style finances, a poor educa-
carrying that million- and carefully crafted tion, a bad neighbor-
dollar question in our shows did what no hood, etc. They use
minds: “What will this other show has been these circumstances to
new year bring?” Yet, able to do in Ameri- define them and thus
more are concerned can TV history. Oprah limit how far they will
about what is in store was able to maintain make it in life. Oprah
for us. We need to see some of the highest Winfrey is a clear
every New Year as a TV-viewership rating example that our cir-
brand-new opportunity ranks for 25 years. cumstances can tem-
for success. The New Despite this extraor- What are you planning to do with your gifts in 2011? How porarily hinder us but
Year grants each of us dinary success Oprah, are you going to take them to another level? What new they should never ever
opportunities to create did not become com- things are you going to create? What things of your past define us. This year
new things, to undo the placent with just being let’s challenge our-
past, to start afresh, to the hostess of a high-
are you going to undo by prohibiting them from holding selves to look beyond
set new goals and work rating show. She went you back? What new standards do you need to achieve? our temporary circum-
towards achieving new on to create and build stances. Let’s own and
standards. The New an empire with a mag- (OWN) is a huge un- then sent to live with to every single one of use the gifts that God
Year marks the begin- azine, films, other TV dertaking even for one her mother in Wis- his children. You and has given us and seize
ning of great things. Shows, a school for of America’s wealthi- consin. Her mother a I have the same pow- every opportunity to
Oftentimes we begin girls in South Africa, est media moguls. Not housemaid, provided erful gifts. The dif- succeed. One thing is
the year with great a book club that cata- only is Oprah putting very little supervision ference is that some for sure: we are each
intentions and great pulted many authors her personal money on and support because of us recognize them solely responsible for
plans but along the to the best-selling list, the line and the money of her long working and seek to multiply what we do with our
way we lose focus and a network that of her very powerful hours. Oprah was mo- these gifts despite God-given gifts. It’s
and become distracted gave away millions of sponsors, she is also lested and raped, and our circumstances, time to own them.
by our circumstances. dollars to the needy. putting her reputation miscarried at 14. Her while others allow our Copyright 2010 by Norka
Before we know it our Oprah became such on the line. Anticipa- story should have been adverse circumstances Blackman-Richards
,Norka Blackman-Richards
circumstances are gov- a powerful influence tion and speculation that of many others to repress our gifts. is an educator, a writer,
erning our choices. Our in media that every- about OWN have filled who have faced similar What are you plan- a minister’s wife, and an
circumstances begin thing and everyone she the air. Many want to life circumstances, yet ning to do with your empowerment speaker on
to dictate how far we recommended on her know why she would it is not. Oprah un- gifts in 2011? How women, education, diversi-
will go and if we will show also became an take such a risk now derstood that despite are you going to take ty and generational issues.
Norka is the chief editor
succeed. We become instant success. that she is at the top her life circumstances them to another level? of Empowerment 4 Real
complacent. We lose For many critics and of her game. Oprah she still had the gifts What new things are Women, and the founder of
hope. We forget. supporters her talk herself has confessed that God had given you going to create? 4 Real Women Internation-
This year famous North show is at its peak. that she has awakened her. While she did What things of your al, Inc. She teaches for the
American talk show There is still a lot more at night perspiring not always make the past are you going to City University of New York
at Queens College.
hostess Oprah Winfrey that she could do. from nightmares with wisest choices, one undo by prohibiting
decided to leave the Leaving now would one question ringing in thing she knew for them from holding
security of a powerful seem like an unwise de- her mind: “What Have sure: she was solely re- you back? What things
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ometimes toward about himself, the ex- question in the books our failures, mistakes, failings does not in of the most celebrat-
the tail end of last pressed perceptions of on job interviews). and shortcomings, es- any way change the ed high achievers we
year, I was assigned his friends, his parents, Anyway, after several pecially the ones that fact that they really have come to know
to interview a young and and other people in his questions, I was able have direct bearing do exist; rather, failing experienced failure at
new law school gradu- world about him and to reach another con- on the outcome we to take cognizance of several points in the
ate who had applied for his lofty dreams and clusion: the applicant course of their journey
the position of an intern ambition of becoming was a smart, energet- to the top and they still
with our firm. It was an a well known com- ic, promising young fail sometimes. They
impromptu arrangement, mercial lawyer and a man who is either too are not perfect human
so I barely had time to re- Business Magnate. He focused on his poten- beings and they do
ally scrutinize his resume, spoke at length about tials to notice his fail- not try to hold them-
but at a glance, I noticed his many successes and ings, or he just never selves out as one, but
that the young man apart achievements and for admits them. That to they are people who
from having had a barely his age, I must admit me is one significant are conscious of their
average performance in his drive and ambi- weakness in itself. potentialities, and are
school had interned in tion are quite com- While his potentials not oblivious of their
some of the big law firms mendable. However, and impressive records weaknesses. True, suc-
in the course of his college as impressed as I was would have gotten him cessful people often
and law school education with what he had to the job, his inability to have confidence in
and had written several say about himself and come to terms with his themselves, but there
professional exams, some what people say about weaknesses and find Although it is highly essential, iden- is no denying their
of which made me won- him, I was also curious ways round them, cast frailties, they succeed
der if he was planning a tifying or admitting one’s failings in itself
to know about his past too much murk on his because they have
change of career. At the failures, and his fail- bright side, and cost does not guarantee successful living, one learnt to manage their
time I was perusing his ings, my intention was him a wonderful op- will have to work hard towards overcoming shortcomings well and
credentials, he was al- to find out the lessons portunity to explore explore their strong
ready waiting to meet me. them.
he had learnt from his his potentials in an en- points to achieve
However, within the short failures and what he vironment that seeks to greater advantage.
time I had, I was able to has been doing to deal help him deal with his recorded in that year, their existence puts The is the time to we
draw one inference from with his failures, when weaknesses. admit them as far as one at the risk of being look back and iden-
his resume, he does too I asked him if he had This month marks the we are responsible constantly brought tify what went wrong
many things at the same failed in his life, he beginning of a New and make efforts to down by them. Peo- last year, accept re-
time, and in a way, that coolly answered in the Year, it’s the time ensure that they do not ple’s complaints about sponsibilities for our
could have contributed to negative, I asked him we try to put the past impede our success in you may not matter, mistakes and failures,
his not too impressive aca- if he considered his behind us and start the the New Year. however, be careful to identify our failings
demic records. academic performance year with a renewed As easy as this might ascertain that they are and take constructive
He was soon ushered and indeed his perfor- hope that things will appear to be, it has really wrong, or else, steps towards turning
into my office; he was mance in the struc- turn out better than been observed that, it you will be proving things around for the
sharply dressed in a tured test ( he again they were in the pre- is often difficult for them right every time better. It takes wisdom
black suit, with black scored below average) vious year. However, people to sincerely you fail or make mis- and humility to admit
tie worn on a clean and his answer was mere hoping may not identify their short- takes. one is wrong, it takes
white shirt. I noticed still negative, his bring about the kind comings and admit Although it is highly courage to decide to
he was wearing a tag, excuse was that he did of dramatic changes that it is indeed a chal- essential, identifying make a change, and it
from an ongoing con- not have enough time we expect in our lives, lenge that can hamper or admitting one’s fail- takes determination to
ference on ‘Arbitra- to prepare for the test ( there may be a need to the realization of their ings in itself does not follow-through on that
tion and Mediation’, whose fault?) and that retrospectively con- dreams and ambitions. guarantee successful decision.
that gave me an hint if he had been given sider all the factors There are so many living, one will have
that he came straight more time, he would that made the previous people like the young to work hard towards
from the conference have performed better. year go the way it went man seeking the in- overcoming them.
venue and probably In a bid to help him and consciously take ternship position, who Your potentials will
did not have enough understand my ques- steps towards ensuring get carried away with remain in the realm of
time to prepare for the tions, I asked him that things indeed get their strengths and possibilities but may
quiz and interview. if he has any recur- better in the New Year. pay little attention to never be fully real-
After few minutes ring fault his friends One of such positive their weaknesses even ized until you learn to
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speech or tongue, many damages have been cagy and insecure hence she grows into perpet- Many views stated that it is better to keep
done to humanity. So could any female reader ual accuser of other women and may drive away just a few observable resolutions than a long
of this piece in her 2011 resolution add; “ I great friends; fear make us lie against others; fear list of “can’t dos’. “Just the most two or three
must think first of any word I want to say out make us feel jealous of other people’s success things that have been source of tears or stress”
to others; my children, my husband/boyfriend, and gravitate into scheming evil against them; Be brave to keep your life saving resolution and
my father/mother, my brother/other males in my the only fear that are lacking in the society most if you fail a couple of times, it is still ok. You are
life, my friends, my workmates and indeed any preachers say, is the “fear of God” which is the just human. Great women keep few friends and
body I have to say some thing to next year” I very “beginning of wisdom” invest their time in achieving more achievement
mean we all need to do this so that we can keep for humanity. If you have extra time, instead of
great friendship, relationships, marriage, and So next year…what fears would determine calling up a willing gossip friend to get into peo-
even our life from avoidable dangers. Sure great your action towards others…? Go ahead and ple’s business, why not start your biography ( I
thoughts precede great action and so does bad list out your resolutions but please make it real mean every woman in America needs to write
actions are preceded by bad thinking. and indict yourself first before you indict others, a bio for posterity) for your lovely children or
The heart controls all. The next resolution may that is the first step to making it real. Pin point keep your daily memoirs to track out irrespon-
be “keeping wrong thinking low far below posi- where you really need to watch and tell your sibility. Do something positive than just picking
tive thinking.. giving others credit to be able to close persons to watch you lovingly, not critical- phone and gossiping for hours. Dismiss all
do right not wrong all the time, suppressing the ly. If you do not want to be talking about others gossip friends nicely. It is easy. Just stop calling
urge to always associate evil deeds to others… in gossip and scandals, just tell your circle of them and they will trash away. Do not care if
perhaps that may affect what we say about them, friends to remind you your new year resolution they complain about you and do not bother
even to or of “our enemies’. A nice word may when human nature tends to over power you. I to explain your action to any body since your
make friend of an enemy. A philosopher wrote: have started calling few friends I retained and action is self preservative. “Self exclusion is the
“Fear makes enemy of those that should be our have been asking them how far I have kept to most effective type of intimidation and self pres-
friends” The fear operates in the secrecy of our myself to limit creating avoidable problems… ervation” they say. Hold unto friends that make
heart. For instance, fear of losing grips make they think I am crazy to ask them to grade me you improve your self and humanity. Be a realis-
many mothers in-law hold unto marriages of to the scale of 1-10. But how else can I keep it tic New Year resolution maker and keeper. Teach
their sons/daughters and eventually strangulate real? it is true., honest self evaluation first. That your children to do same. Keep the right fear…
it unknowingly: fear makes a suspicious wife “keeping it honest”. .”The fear of God.. the beginning of wisdom”
cont’d from pg 19
3:1-3, “… Did God really say you must not as painful as it was. I am sure that there would also gave to her husband. You do not have to
eat any of the fruit in the garden?“ “Of course have been people who wanted to sway Him (not give up on your marriage because someone did
we may eat it, it’s only the fruit from the tree in that they could). Remember that the devil came it and she is getting a hefty child support check.
the center of the garden that we are not allowed to test Him after He fasted for forty days and God has a better plan for you.
to eat. God says we must not eat it or even touch nights. He attempted to make Him renounce Finally, know that the wide and popular road
it or we will die.” The serpent said, “You won’t Himself and His mission by bowing to tempta- leads to destruction, while the narrow and less
die! God knows that your eyes will be opened tion. What are you facing in your own personal popular road leads to heaven. Choose which way
when you eat it. You will become like God, life that will cause you to make a decision to to go.
knowing everything, both good and evil.”(NLT) follow the crowd? Single parenting seems to be Happy New Year!
You must have a mind of your own! Everyone the in thing because women do not want to be Rev. Grace Eledan is Co-Pastor Leaders
must study the word of God to know what the bothered with men and vice versa. God ordained Church Intl and the founder of Women Aflame
mind of God concerning every situation is. What two parent households, male and female. It must Intl., a friendship network, intercession minis-
is revealed in His word now becomes your mind. not be the choice of anyone because it is now try and charity organization mentoring and mo-
Paul said in Philippians 2:5, “Let this mind be popular. Mother Eve was tempted by the devil, bilizing women to be more productive in their
in you which is the mind of Jesus…” Jesus is she did not stop to think. She looked at the fruit spheres of influence. She can be reached at (718)
humble enough to fulfill His assignment even and it was good. She ate some of the fruit and 503-2580. Prayer lines are open every Monday
contd from pg 12
U.S. for 10years. There is a criminal conviction in which the Notice to Appear document INA §212(a)(2), §237(a)(2), or child who is a U.S. citizen
way the 10years is calculated. the maximum punishment is served on them to appear before or §237(a)(3) of the Immigra- or legal permanent resident
There are situations that could less than one year in jail and the the court. tion and Nationality Act. There alien has a major medical condi-
stop the clock from counting. actually time served is less than The second requirement is that is a long list of criminal activi- tion that could only be effective-
Ordinarily, once you enter the 6months. You will need the as- the alien must be a person of ties and convictions covered ly treated in the U.S., it will be
United States especially with a sistance of a qualified immigra- good moral character. Most by these three sections, so it is easy to meet this requirement.
visa, the 10year clock starts to tion attorney to do the calcula- immigrants are hard working important to consult with an im- Usually, that is not the case. It
run. Any criminal conviction tion for you. people without any problem migration attorney before taking is possible to use aggregate of
will ordinarily stop the clock. Another thing that could satisfying this requirement. any steps if you have any crimi- many things to show the hard-
For example, if you entered the stop the clock is if you are Usually, you will need people nal conviction. ship to relative. Please consult
U.S. in 1999, by now you have served with Notice to Appear to swear to affidavits about who The last requirement which is with a qualified immigration
the 10years, but if in the year before an immigration court you are. You will also need to the most difficult one is that attorney on this matter before
2005, you were arrested and for removal proceedings. The go to the Police Department to the alien must establish that the applying. If you are in removal
convicted of a crime, the clock clock is deemed stopped on have your fingerprint taken and removal of the alien would result proceedings your choices are
stops at 6years even though you the date indicated on the charg- checked for any criminal con- in “exceptional and extremely limited, but if you are not, make
have lived in the U.S. for over ing document, even though you victions. The police will give unusual hardship” to the alien’s sure you can win before apply-
10years. have been in the U.S. for over you a certificate of good stand- spouse, parent, or child who is ing.
Recently, there are some Board 10years. For example, some im- ing if you are clean. In New a United States citizen or legal This article is for your informa-
of Immigration Appeals deci- migrants entered the U.S. in the York, you will get this docu- permanent resident. tion only, it is not a legal advice
sions that suggest that not all early 1990s, but they immedi- ment from One Police Plaza in This requirement could make and should not be substituted
criminal convictions can stop ately applied for asylum because Manhattan. There is a fee for the or mar your success before the for legal advice from your at-
the clock. If your offense is of the gratification of obtain- document. court. Everyone whose relative torney. If you need legal assis-
classified as a petty offense by ing employment authorization The third requirement is that the is deported will suffer one thing tance, please feel free to contact
the Immigration and Nation- cards. Most of them ended up applicant is not subject to crimi- or the other, but this requirement Attorney Joseph Famuyide at
ality Act, your clock will not in removal proceedings. Time is nal bars arising from conviction is asking for more. Usually, if 718-647-6767 or send email to
stop. A petty offense is one considered stopped the date on of any crime under Sections the applicant’s spouse, parent jfamuyide@aol.com.
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