Tuliskan apa arti anak menurut anda :

Anak adalah
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Anak harus
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Anak mempunyai
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Anak
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Saya akan bahagia jika anak saya

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Anak yang baik adalah anak yang
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Saya mudah merasa jengkel pada anak saya apabila

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Anak yang pintar dan cerdas adalah anak yang

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Saya merasa anak saya bodoh jika

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Anak saya menjengkelkan pada saat ia

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 Anak

Anakmu bukan milikmu

Mereka adalah putra-putri sang hidup,
yang rindu akan dirinya sendiri
Mereka lahir lewat engkau tetapi bukan dari engkau
Mereka ada padamu, tetapi bukan milikmu
Berilah merka kasih sayang,
namun jangan berikan pemikiranmu
Karena pada mereka ada alam pikiran sendiri
Patut kau berikan rumah bagi raganya,
namun tidak bagi jiwanya
Sebab jiwa mereka adalah penghuni rumah masa depan yang tiada dapat kau
kunjungi,
sekalipun dalam mimpimu
Engkau boleh berusaha menyerupai mereka,
namun tidak boleh membuat mereka menyerupai engkau
Sebab kehidupan tidak pernah berjalan mundur
Ataupun tenggelam ke masa lampau
Engkaulah busur tempat anakmu,
anak panah hidup, melesat pergi

Khalil Gibran
 Menggali self – talk

Coba anda renungkan tentang anak anda dan tuliskan di bawah:

Nama anak:
Inilah persepsi saya tentang .......................................(nama anak)
Selama ini saya melihatnya/ menganggapnya sebagai anak yang ....................................
Kalu dia marah/sedih maka saya
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Dia sering membuat saya jengkel/kecewa/marah kalau dia
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Sebenarnya dia adalah seorang anak yang
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Saya memiliki harapan agar ia bisa bersikap
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Lebih daripada itu saya juga menginginkan agar dia juga bisa
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Selain itu di bidang akademis saya sebenarnya berharap agar ia bisa
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Dan jika saya jadi dia, saya akan menanggapi sikap papa dan mama dengan
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Saya paling sebal dengan papa dan mama saat mereka
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Saya sebenarnya ingin agar kedua orangtua saya bisa
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