HAPPINESS!

Isn't this to a large extent within its hearth which a man or a woman can find
it? Yes, it is in the middle of his that one can test the useful feeling, to be
appreciated and loved, it to what any human being aspires. One tastes with
this great happiness in his hearth if it reigns there a heat environment and
an atmosphere of confidence, comprehension and compassion. It then
becomes a true haven of peace where the difficulties and the agitation of
the outside are forgotten. As with the children they feel safe there and can
open out completely.
Here is life of family which we wish to know. But since that is not done
automatically, how let us can us achieve this goal? Why, in many parts of
the sphere, the family she is threatened so much? What makes it possible
to be happy within its family? What to make so that it reigns there a cordial
environment and so that it is plain?
You are right completely to sincerely trouble you about the happiness of
yours and to wish to make a success of your life of family. Indeed, an
encyclopaedia (The World Book Encyclopedia, ED. from 1973) declares in
connection with the importance of the family circle: “The family is the human
institution oldest and under many the reports/ratios, most important. It is the
basic cell of the company. Whole civilizations survived or disappeared,
according to whether the family unit were solid or fragile. “
But how much families are narrowly plain today thanks to a major love?
How much between them know the cordial environment which results from
kindness, gratitude and generosity that their members testify themselves?
Many families can note they the veracity of this word: “There is more
happiness to give than to receive”?
Currently, it is a quite different spirit which is spread on all the ground. If it
prevails especially in the Western world, it also penetrates in the East and
in other areas of the world where the family unit was traditionally very
stable. Remarks of this kind are often heard: “Made what you want, but do
not prevent the others from acting with their own way. ““The correction is
obsolete: thus let your children choose themselves their way. ““ Do not give
any opinion on what is good or bad. “The bad fruits of such an attitude
confirm this principle: “No matter what the man sows, it is also what it will
harvest. “
The HISTORY PROVES the IMPORTANCE OF the FAMILY
The History gave on the important role of the family of the lessons which
deserve that one thinks of it seriously. Thus, after having described (in its
book The Story off Civilization, left II) the disintegration of the family in
ancient Greece, Lasting the Will historian adds: “It is mainly because Greek
civilization disaggregated interior which Greece was conquered by Rome.
“This work shows that the force of Rome also lay in its family institutions,
but that, since those disaggregated, the empire started to decline.
In reality, the History confirms this very old declaration: “It does not belong
to the man who walks to direct his step. “The historians report that, while
the Roman Empire was declining, 'the Jews had an exemplary family life
and that, because of their piety and their decency, the small Christian
communities disturbed the pagan world committed in an insane race with
the plaisir'. (The Story off Civilization, left III, page 366.) Why these families
were they different? Because they had a different source of councils.
Insofar as they took its advice, they were happy and peaceful. Such results
gave a guilt feeling to the Romans.
It is true that one counts today thousands of works on the marriage and the
life of family, and that the majority of them contain at least some useful
information. However, the life of family does not cease being degraded.
Another thing is thus needed, something which can give the force to resist
the difficulties which currently threaten the family circle. If husband and
woman like parents and children testify a natural affection, the family will
undoubtedly be strengthened by it. But for much to families, that is not
enough to maintain them plain when occur of serious difficulties. What is
this which is thus lacking?
It is necessary to feel responsible with respect to its spouse, of his children,
his parents and their very attached being.
QUESTIONS WHICH WE MUST PUT
For can example, how somebody find the spouse who agrees to him? How
two joint can fall from agreement on the way of solving thorny problems?
Are two heads better than one, certainly, but after dialogue, which of both
will make the decision? How a husband can gain the respect of his wife and
why is this so important for him? Why a woman does it need the love of her
husband and whom can it make to ensure it?
How do you consider the children? For much, they are the symbol of a
certain condition, an inexpensive labour, an old-age insurance or all simply
a burden. What determines if the children will be this or that? When should
their education be begun? Should they be corrected? If so, up to what point
and how? Is there inevitably a ditch of the generations within the family?
Can one fill it? Better still, can one prevent that it grows hollow?
If you find an answer satisfactory to these questions, you will have made
much to ensure the happiness of your family.