Muslim societies. As Jim Wafer argues, “The reason that Arab cultures
have so much difficulty dealing with sex between males is that [a] man’s
masculinity is compromised by taking the ‘passive’ role in sexual
relations; and for an Arab male to have his masculinity doubted is ‘a
supreme affront.’ ”29
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Some Muslim men penetrate others less for sexual pleasure than
to humiliate their partners. In several Islamic texts, argues Wafer, anal
submission is linked to the submission of male non-believers to Islam
(“Islam” literally means “submission”). Non-Muslim elements are
sometimes conceived of as effeminate and must be made to submit
through jihad, the holy war that in this context acquires an erotic meaning.
Therefore, Wafer writes, “the West is regarded as ‘decadent’ by
Muslims not just because it is becoming more accepting of homosexuality
. . . but because, according to the initiatory symbolism of Islam,
it has to be seen as effeminate.”30
These arguments can help us comprehend the nationalistic rhetoric
and the feminization of Israeli males by the Palestinian man quoted in
Sofer’s interview, as well as his fear of being anally penetrated. Similar
notions of interracial sex between men can be found in another testimonial
cited by Sofer. The subject is Salim, a twenty-two-year-old
Palestinian who lives in East Jerusalem:
He [Salim] told me that he fucks men because it is his only
chance to have sex, but that, needless to say, he prefers women.
However, meeting a Palestinian woman for sex before marriage is
almost impossible. Jewish women, he says, do not go with
Palestinians. Even female Jewish prostitutes discriminate against
Arabs: they charge prices Salim cannot pay, or reject them totally.
So he looks for sexual satisfaction with men in the park in Tel Aviv
and West Jerusalem. Mostly he does not ask for payment, but if
the man is old or looks rich he does. He is not interested in a lasting
relationship with a man, because “I am not a homosexual. I
was never fucked, and I will never let anybody fuck me. As soon
as I have enough money and get married, I will stop coming here.
Men who let themselves get fucked are not men. They have lost
their respect. Among Arabs, this is a shame for the whole family.”31
This description refers to the moral and political norms governing sexual
relations between men in Palestinian society.32 In the context of the
Israeli-Palestinian conflict, the lack of reciprocity in national relations
is reflected in the sexual contact, but with a different structuring
of power relations. Interracial sexual relations between men must
be hierarchical. For the Palestinian man to maintain his masculine and
national integrity, he must not stand in a sexually symmetrical relation
to the Israeli gay man; he must obtain sexual pleasure solely by
penetrating the body of his Jewish partner. At the same time, the sexHOMOLAND
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ually superior partner, the Palestinian, is socioeconomically inferior
to sexually “passive” Israeli men. Asking for money from old or rich
Jews and enjoying the “active” part in the sexual act give the Palestinian
man temporary male mastery that ostensibly rescues his national
pride. Anal sex is configured in this vision as a disappropriation of
Israeli masculine authority, transforming the Jewish male body into a
“feminine” receptacle for Palestinian power.
Interracial sex between men has a different meaning for Palestinian
men who define themselves as gay. The marginalized status of Palestinian
gay men in both Palestinian and Israeli societies, as well as in the
Israeli gay community itself,33 leads Palestinian queers to identify with
Western notions of homosexuality in reaction to the traditional Palestinian
social structure, which does not legitimize same-sex desire, and, at the
same time, leads them to refuse this identification by clinging to traditional
Muslim social roles as a means of resisting Israeli’s practical and
discursive domination of Palestinian society. But Palestinian gay men’s
attitudes toward the heterosexual and homosexual Palestinian and
Israeli societies remain to be explored. The Israeli-Palestinian conflict
offers a complex, fluid, and paradoxical network of interracial sexual relationships
between males from the perspectives of both Israeli and
Palestinian men. Multiple cultural notions of masculinity and femininity,
homo and hetero, “active” and “passive,” power and submission, “top”
and “bottom,” honor and shame together produce ambivalent intersectionalities
.of race, sex, gender, and nationalism