It was an informative,
inspirational, joyful, tiring
whirlwind of a time; it was energizing and balanced, fun,
fellowship-filled satisfying hopeful event. So said lay and
clergy attendees of the annual meeting of the diocese
held mid-November at the St. Charles Convention
Center. This issue of Seek is a recap of meeting high-
lights from Bishop Wayne’s address to the diocese to
the resolutions passed by the 171st convention.
Karen was sitting with four others adults, ful man. What happens when he comes around? My God, is this
meanness or blindness?
whose own kids are youth and young adults,
Trying to plan a kids’ club, though Now TJ was cleaning up the parking lot in back, which we
we’ve forgotten what kids love and don’t own but maintain, even though now we have a parking lot
We are still chary to ask them face to face. out on Fountain Street, because our unofficial clients, anonymously
recovering alcoholic and addicts, prefer to park out of sight. And
Our parish can claim only two or three grade school kids
everyone knows, though we cannot bear to say it, that this at least is
that we can never gather in one place. one place that the Holy Ghost raises us from the dead today. So, by
In fact our own folks aren’t too sure all means, take care of the back lot.
the church is where kids belong.
When along comes this slinky, nosey, bouncy boy, Asking TJ,
Since they have too many music and theatre and travel and
“Man, what are you doing?” “Can I help? And can I have a job too?
sports and academic appointments, You don’t even have to pay me.”
Already.
But the neighborhood kids got nothing “Well, yes, if it’s okay with TJ,” and “since you ask so nice, we
will pay you too.” And from that day forward Marquand was head
to do after the bus drops them off,
man of the Fountain Street clean up squad. Within days he had
Yet. Karen sits, embarrassed and she wonders recruited two more. He hired Tom Sawyer style, and as quickly as
in silence, some quit, others stepped up. A nickel per piece of paper, plastic,
What am I doing here? No, why? glass or can, collected and sorted into recyclable and land fillable.
And once, after work, while getting dreamsicles at the Corner
And her answer bursts in the back door with a whoop. store, I saw him, bane of the school principle, nightmare of his
Heeling to tiptoe when he finds the room mother, transfigured as a leader of his peers, the first member of
full of excellent women. the Red Door Kids’ Club. Now he comes around often. We teach
A spring loaded eight year old, one another the ground rules. Hugs are free and so is watering the
who tells all the girls his name is Shaq and plants around the church. Litter control is paid, and he’s in charge
he’s fifteen years old. of hiring and firing.
He slips over to the side of the pastor for a hug and a whisper. But it was TJ taught me that the difference between friendship
Let’s get together tomorrow, Marquand. and patronage is the friend knows who is your mother, and respects
You got it, man. See you then, he chirps, that too. And the patron knows your social security number.
hi lo later, Father. Marquand’s mother lives where
TJ used to live, where Angielie and
There, said Karen, goes the answer her daughter are the only ones with
to my unspeakable question; the seniority to tell the landlady
Let’s plan this party. what’s broke and needs be fixed. A
year ago, Marquand brought his
mother and his great grandmother,
The Backstory: How Marquand Mamma Grace, to the Community
Meal. After we prayed one of her
and the Red Door Church wilder granddaughters back home
one Sunday afternoon, Mamma
found each other Grace started bringing more of her
family around for supper. Imagine
Nine years ago, under the arc of the long range my surprise as on her bony arm she
vision team, TJ came knocking at the back door with a brings her daughter, Mary Gray,
five gallon blue plastic jug. The city had turned off his a blue eyed black fallen angel of
water, and might he tap our supply so he could flush the neighborhood, whom we have
his toilet? At the time he lived in the HUD approved counseled, prayed and paid out of
building across the back lot of the church where all many a tight corner since we decided
the Episcopalians parked. Which oddly worked since to become a neighborly church eight
none of the residents owned a car. In the unlikely years ago. Mary, turns out, is Mar-
event that HUD ever inspected this property, failure quand’s grandmother.
to flush could have been grounds for eviction. Thus we
launched our neighborhood mission with water and the Though I am pretty sure we
Spirit working anonymously, thus far. cannot fix what’s broke back of the church, at long last we are
beginning to see and daring to love our neighbors. And the love of
Five moves in less than ten years have not pulled TJ out of God is taking on muscle and blood. So Karen can touch the reason
our orbit. There is no one else in this very loving parish who lives why we work so hard for those who do not go to Christ Episcopal
closer to my heart, my phone, and my discretionary fund check Church, yet...Kneel in awe at the birth place of God with skin, ar-
book. He takes me into his life week in and week out, but never on ranged by adoring kids, angels, the ass and oxen, sheep and shep-
Sunday. To worship he must sit in his mother’s (she of ten children herds, innkeepers and kings, each just where she or he or it belongs
and blessed memory) church, where he knows all the songs but together marking the unbroken circle around the Christ. And pray
must hide the many truths that do not fit the lyrics. This is the with me we grown-up kids get it half so right next year.
rule of zombie world around us. Poor and middle class don’t mix
on Sundays. But TJ works for us when we have money and he has Robert A Towner,
none. Nine years and still only four of us know this beautiful, faith- December, 2010
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both of whom shall be canoni- Convention of the Episcopal Diocese
cally qualified for office. The terms of Missouri strongly encourages the
of the Senior Warden and Junior Diocesan Council to develop a model
Warden shall be one year each. No
person who has served three con-
secutive one-year terms as Senior
Family Leave Policy for congrega-
tions, to be presented for consid-
eration at the 172nd Convention,
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Warden or Junior Warden shall be Share your story of finding
taking into consideration Resolution
eligible for further service in such L-170 previously passed by this
God’s mission in the world with your
capacity until the expiration of one convention. brothers and sisters in the diocese.
year; provided that, if warranted by
Around the Diocese This has been a time of sorrow and rejoicing
for our friends in the Diocese of Lui, Southern
Church of the Advent in Crest- Sudan. Late in November the Rt. Rev. Bullen
wood used a grant from the Dolli lost his battle with cancer and died. He
diocese to begin a parish nursing was buried and the funeral to celebrate his
program. They use the term “par- life is planned for July 2011. In early January
ish” to denote the neighborhood. the people of Southern Sudan voted in a ref-
Partnerships with two Roman erendum to determine if they would secede
Catholic churches have made the and form a new nation. There were fervent
program an ecumenical success, prayers around the globe for a peaceful elec-
participants come from a dozen tion including in Missouri where a cathedral
faith traditions. Photo from a re- service began the prayer vigil which lasted
cent monthly “Lunch and Learn” through the week of elections. Pictured is
program. Learn more about the program on their website: the Rev. Anne Kelsey, rector of Trinity Church,
CrestwoodParishNurse.org Central West End and a missioner to Lui
diocese. In her recent trip she organized a
Many diocesan parishes held Blessing project to bring art materials to the children
of the Animals services near the Feast of Lui and pictured is one of the traveling
Day of St. Francis of Assisi in October. exhibits available to the diocese. In late
Pictured here is the Rev. Sally Weaver, February, the Diocese of Lui synod nominated three candidate for the
vicar of St. Francis’ Episcopal Church in next Bishop of Lui. Among them was the Rev. Steven Dokolo, the cur-
Eureka. Their day-long celebration held rent Secretary of Lui Diocese and known to many Missourians from
in a Eureka park featured two services, his time studying at Eden Seminary. To read more about these stories
presentations and a silent auction. of partnership between Missouri and Lui visit Luinetwork.ning.com.
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City • Grace Church, Kirkwood • Holy Cross Church, Poplar Bluff • St. Alban’s, Fulton • St. Barnabas’, Florissant • St. Francis’, Eureka • St. John’s, Eolia (Prairieville) • Camp
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