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V Competition is eating us alive
V Poor management / direction
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Ô Is an ongoing fact of life
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Ô 6ENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me.

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How to Change Your Attitude

 

Changes happen
personally
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INSI E OUT!

ATTITU E
So . . . Accept Responsibility

I am responsible . . .
. . . for who I am
. . . for what I have
. . . for what I do
 Step #2 Take Control

Negative
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ATTITU E FROM THE INSI E . . . OUT!

How to Change Your Thinking

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This is going to be This is going to

a wonderful day! be a crappy day!

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EHAVIOR
 Choose Your ehavior
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EHAVIOR
 Steps Toward Changing
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The New YOU!

EHAVIOR

4. Unconscious Competence

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D Sprinkle some ³positive´ on the negatives
D Focus on the good of each day
D Stay out of the ³feeding frenzies´
D Say ³please´ and ³thank you´
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D Evaluate [ behavior
D Never miss an opportunity to complement
EHAVIOR
 More POSI +IVE Contributions
D efore you say anything to anyone, ask
yourself three things
1. Is it true?
2. Is it harmful?
3. Is it necessary?
D Keep promises
D Have a forgiving view of people
D Keep an open mind with changes
D Count to 1000 if necessary
D See criticism as opportunity to improve
D Cultivate your sense of humor
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they become your destiny
 The Choice is YOURS

With a ad attitude

you can never have a positive day

With a Positive attitude

you can never have a bad day
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