Beyond Default Human Behaviors

In the name of God, the most Gracious, the most Compassionate.

Beyond

Default Human Behaviors

BY

ASIM ABBASI

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(Dedicated) To the only One

To the only One, Who sees through our eyes, Who listens through our ears, Who has no fear. To the only One. Who knows whats inside our heart, Whether its pure or Jarvik heart, To the only One, Who guides, Who glides the ships to the side, Who finds the grooms for the brides. To the only One, Who let you have a droplet from His sea, Who let you drink honey from His bee. To the only One, Who was the beginning, Who will be the end, Who will decide whether I will be in Heaven or Hell, Whatever name you give Him, Asim! I know one thing for sure, He is the only One.

Acknowledgements
First, I am really thankful to God and I always remember Him as Supreme Programmer. The only One whos every release is a final release and no upgrades, version releases or service packs after words. I salute your sea of computational and engineering skills my Lord and your graciousness for letting me have a droplet from it. I really want to thank my father and mother for their wonderful support. Although my father is no more living but his exceptional sacrifices will never be forgotten I like to thank Arshia, Mateen and Abdulwadud for their encouragement to let me work on this book even during the time which I should had spent with them.

Table of Contents

Reducing

the

factor

of

making

Wrong Decisions...13 Friendship of the Supreme Progneer ...47 Taking things for Granted ...63 Default Human Behavior ..79 The Purpose of Life ....95

Accepting

Something

that

Finally

Happens ...101

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True Happiness ..107 Why Respect Parents & Elders?

...................................................113 Matter of Zero Heaven Value ..121

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Reducing the factor of making

WRONG DECISIONS

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There is a famous saying, All is well that ends well. So even if I teach you the art of making wise decision, there is still a chance that your decision will end up in a failure. Some call it fate or luck, some call it the embedded uncertainty in nature but I call it God factor. I used the word God just to make you understand but I personally remember Him as the Supreme Progneer (Programmer Engineer): designer magnificent creations but not of & The this universe including limited to

Progneer: Programmer & Engineer of this Universe, everything within & beyond.

and enchanting living

ourselves. The echo system and its programming in every aspects,

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how the living things relates to each other. How the existence of one creature is the cause of existence of others e.g. when the lion kills someone and eat to his full, there are thousands others who live on the left over. The development of human from microscopic level when sperm fertilizes egg to a point where it turns to a beauty and can write stuff and differ between good and evil. The level where he/she is an independent person and can eat, walk, talk, and above all can think. The brain is a wonderful design and at the time of child birth its like empty computer just arrived from the factory to your home. If you put this computer in a environment of scholars there is a great probability that it will get utilized for scholarly acts but if you place it in the environment of criminals or bad guys there is a great probability that it will get utilized for bad purposes. Lets take this analogy to a childs brain. If I would had born in Einsteins home there is a great probability that I would

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have continued his research on Unification of Forces. So it but mostly in depends cases on if the the environment some

Progneer gives you light provided you have asked for it then you can shine in mud too. Again it comes down to what I say Progneer Factor. Whenever we study stuff sciences processes relating or in to other nature

If you do good it will get reverted back to you, irrespective of religion

there is one embedded fact that we should keep in the back of our brain i.e. Natural processes are programmed and have been made automated unattended processes but those processes can be over-ruled by the Progneer: the designer/programmer of those processes. This fact basically took us to the world of probability, uncertainty, and fuzziness in

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nature. As long as the process is running own its own; its running as programmed by the Progneer but when he wants something to happens, He says and we in the world discuss that although but was it the very happened likelihood

Doing good falls under unattended automated process of Nature or Gods Design
unattended we that all we as pray dont

low but it happened! All the things we

would be discussing in this book relates to the High Probability stuff or like I said, natural processes as long as they are running Thats one automated, of of the

programmed and designed by the Progneer. reasons so irrespective religion

encounter any uncertain situation in life. When He sends the uncertain situation, He also sends the unpredictable solution and thats why we

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sometime say, it was a miracle. We were not expecting this. The art we are going to study will make you master in High Probability area but remember the Low Probability area which is although low but still there. Our job as human is to give the best we can and leave in rest to the is Supreme ultimate in Progneer as He Justice too. The are model going we to

Adaptive Machines efficiency increases with time

present will help you in reducing the factor of making wrong decision. It is Adaptive in nature. Adaptive in nature means that you have to adapt it in your life and gradually you will start seeing its results. In the beginning you may or may not feel drastic change but you will notice that the factor for you being

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ending up in a wrong decision is greatly reduced. Any machine which is adaptive in nature will give you not much output in the beginning but with the passage of time its efficiency gradually increases to 100%. For example, in Electrical Engineering there is something called Adaptive Filter which a layman may consider as a machine having ideally zero efficiency the time it was designed but once you put that machine in a real working environment its efficiency will increase and a time will come when it would be working ideally at 100% efficiency. Regular machines are designed for specific environment but adaptive machines are designed for all environments. A regular machines efficiency is ideally 100% and it deteriorates with the passage machines of time where is as the 0% adaptive and it efficiency ideally

increases with the passage of time.

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Efficiency vs. Time Graph

Time
Figure 1: Adaptive Machines Efficiency ~ Time Graph

On the vertical axes its the efficiency of the adaptive machine whereas on the horizontal axes it shows the time. The time could be in hours or days. Adaptive machines in the beginning, shows zero efficiency but with the passage of time it will be very efficient. On the same lines if you adapt the model we are going

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to present, it will definitely reduce the factor of your decisions to end up in failure. The art is based on two things

Adaptive-Decision-Making-Model (ADMM) Optimizing the working of Brain

This art is applicable to every walk of life wherever decision involved the solution problem. to explain or most there is making getting optimal for a Before whats Back we in

Bottom line: ADMM & Optimizing Working of Brain

meant school learnt with optimal from every

moving ahead I want solution. days, that

mathematics

have

problem has one answer (solution); simplest example would be 2+2 is always equal to 4. Contrary to this concept, in real life one problem might be having numerous solutions. 22

Let me give you the analogy of computer programming. If you have to achieve certain target, you can do it by writing 5000 lines of code. An experienced programmer can achieve the same target by writing less lines of code e.g. 4500 or even 2000. So for every problem in real life there could be numerous solutions and our job is to pick the most Optimal Solution. And selecting the most optimal solution is called wise decision making.

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Adaptive-Decision-MakingModel (ADMM)
When a average person encounters a problem he will take the decision right at the spot utilizing the knowledge he has in his mind. On the other hand, an intellectual person will handle the problem in the following manner:

He

will

first Writing very and I to why like

analyze/understand

the

problem. Then, he will write down the target. is important thats would use down the target

Many times we start the project without having clear goal in mind

the

word than down.

engrave rather write rock.

So, he will, engrave the target/goal on a

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Then he will try to figure out which the the time frame during solve problem. he/she has to

Analyze & Understand the problem on reception

Next he will lay down all the possible sources he has to solve the problem, for example, if he is an Electrical Engineer and he has been given the task to design some circuit, the possible sources of input for him would his be: his Own Knowledge, etc. professors,

Classmates/Colleagues, Internet, Books, He will then follow the ADMM to end up in a most optimal solution during that time frame.

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Note that the following steps are optional:

Next

he

will

divide

the

solution

to

modules and for each module he will write the steps of implementation. For dividing the optimal solution into modules or steps of implementation he may follow the ADMM again.

Next, he will assign those modules & steps of implementation to related departments.

The manager of each department will give him feedback regarding the progress. There are lots of web based project management tools using those the project director can watch the progress of the modules assigned to each department as the managers of those departments are constantly update the progress. As it is web based so no one has to move from his chair and it is universally accessible.

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I have also heard people saying, There is no solution to this problem. Or Thats the only solution to this problem. I always explain to my students, There is no No to anything. If you dont know something, doesnt mean it doesnt exist. Moreover, if you are a solution provider, always add one statement at the end of your solution, Thats the best I can give possess. with the I knowledge

If You dont know doesnt mean its not possible

If you dont want to write it down, at least keep this in mind. The smiley faces as shown in the diagram (Figure 3) represent problems. These problems could be anything relating to any aspect of life. Lets suppose we got the first problem at time

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t1. The first thing we have to do when we encounter a problem is to understand the problem. As shown in the figure we are spending time (t1 to t2) in analyzing the problem. This duration could be 1 minute or 1 month depending upon the complexity of the problem. Once you have understood what the problem is, the next step is to write down the problem in words and the possible sources of input to the model. At t2, use your own knowledge to generate all possible solutions for that problem and give them preference. First, will be what you consider the optimal solution at t2. How truly someone has said, Let the ball rolling. Lets see how the cat jumps. Let the time take the decision. With the passage of time many options will appear redundant clearly. So at t4 the set of 28

options will squeeze down to three. Also note that the preference is not the same as it was in the beginning. At t6, you got input from Books, one of the etc.) sources (Colleagues, Internet

Let the time take the decision

which resulted in

expansion of options and may bring change in the preference too. Again as the time pass many options will appear redundant clearly. Just before of t8, we

would be having less number options and finally at t8, we will take the decision by selecting option 1 as most optimal for the solution problem. Always remember the

Average person neglects the time factor in decision process

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solution you will end up with at t8, would be the best possible solution, utilizing all your mental power, time and available sources. Following this model will help you in reducing the factor of ending up in a wrong decision.

ADMM Adaptive Decision Making Model

At t1 This is the time when you encounter the problem

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t1 t2 Analyze/Understand the problem Just Before t2 Engrave the Target/Goal. Write down all possible sources of Input to the model At t2 Start writing down all the possible solutions. Give them preference. t2 t3 Preferences may change t4 Some options will appear redundant, clearly t5 Preferences may change

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ADMM (Adaptive Decision Making Model)

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t5 t6 May get input from other sources like Internet, Colleagues, Books etc. t6 Start writing down all the possible solutions. Give them preference. t6 - t7 Preferences may change t7 - Just Before t8 Squeeze the options by dropping the least preferred solutions t8 Most Optimal Solution

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Implementation of Optimal Solution

Once you have the optimal solution, the next step is optional. Usually we divide the solution into modules and for each module we write down the steps involving of all implementation project team collaboratively members.

Optimal Solution Implementation

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Depending upon the problem, you may have to follow ADMM again for each module. Like I said, time line could be 1 hour or 1 year depending upon the complexity of problem.

Physical Architecture of Human Brain

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Optimizing Human Brain

the

working

of

To get the most out of ADMM we have to optimize the working of our brain and to do so we have to first understand the logical architecture of brain. In the following lines we will be discussing three things.

Understanding the logical architecture of brain Working of brain Best Practices beings all of are the God.

Human supreme amongst creations

creation

Physically our Brains look exactly the same.

They are considered supreme because of the architecture or

more precisely the logical architecture of the brain that we have, is different from His other

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creations. activities,

Human

Brain

the

center

for

emotions,

relations,

reactions,

anxieties, happiness, grief, in short everything, is the central processing unit in a body. Its just like microprocessor of the body. The physical architecture of all human beings resembles but its the logical architecture which makes one Einstein and other me. The following architecture Brain. I picture of the this gives you the logical made

Logically our Brains differ & its the way we configure it.

picture with the best of the knowledge and experience I have in

my mind. I felt it necessary because someone was right when he said, A picture is better than thousand words. In the following lines I am going to explain the picture or in other words the logical architecture of brain.

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Logical Architecture of Brain

As I mentioned before, the physical

architecture of all human brains resemble i.e. two hemispheres packed with winding/curly tubes. On the other hand the logical architecture of brain can be divided into following three sections 1. Database Inside Brain 2. Processes 3. Sources of Input to Brain

Figure 6: Logical Architecture of Human Brain

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Every person has data/information residing in his/her brain and by the time child comes into the world its size is very small but with the passage of time the size increases. In this database the information is residing in the form of Categories. A person who is an electrical engineer, his category of electrical engineering information must be having lots of pages compared to his knowledge about medical stuff.

Control your Brain and dont let it control you

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Figure 7: Logical Architecture of Human Brain

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Similar if a person is a doctor, his category of medical information must be having lots of data in it compared to his knowledge electrical about stuff.

Create one monitor process in Brain whose duty would be to make sure that Brain is following ADMM

Similarly, we all have certain categories in common e.g. food categories. Every one has data relating to food in their mind like taste fruits, different of different smell of dishes,

deserts, recipes of making different food etc. One interesting category also in database we get is the

Experience. There are many things we learn through experience; experiences from the life of other people.

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Its because of this category that a person who did PhD in any field might end up in a wrong decision compared to his father who did just BS but has experience more than the PhD guys age. This reminds me something, once an author said, By the time a man realizes that his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks that he is wrong. Always that ADMM would remember in one be of the of the the

Learn from your elders experiences not just ignore them

implementation

great sources of input old/experienced people around you.

Processes on the other hand helps in the improvement/update, addition & deletion of information in the database inside the brain based on all the sources of inputs that are

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coming to the brain from all these five sense mentioned in the diagram e.g. experience process helps in the improvement and addition of information in the Experience category in the brain. Now lets have a look on best practices. One of which is to increase the size of this database by consuming all the inputs we have, my suggestion would be to make the most use of ear and eyes than tongue. The cause of many problems is tongue and once an author said, The tongue says: you take me out of mouth and I will take you out of xyz. If you are married and if your wife owns the home

Some folks learn the Hard way, dont be amongst them

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Conclusion Create a new process in your brain whose job would be to make sure that: 1. Your brain should always follow ADMM 2. Other processes are performing well as far as increasing and improving the data inside the database 3. You should listen/observe more and speak only when its extremely required.

Further Information (Mathematical Aspect)

If you want to learn the mathematical aspect to making decision, if you have large number of options and each option has factors associated with it, the key word is AHP (Analytic Hierarchy Process). There is lot new

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mathematical processes developed but AHP is the place to begin with. There are companies who have software that helps you in making decision. At the back of those softwares, the code follows AHP algorithms. You can make a search @ Google to see the list of those companies.

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The Friendship of the

Supreme progneer

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To be friend of Supreme Progneer there are following four criterions. 1. From your hand & tongue other humans should be safe 2. Extreme Patience 3. Extreme Humbleness 4. Dzkir (Remembrance of God) We will be following the order as described above in explaining each of these points and why they are essential. Lets one i.e. start from the your

Bottom-line: 4 Key things, Not Hurting, Patience, Humbleness & Dzkir

discussion with point hands and tongue

every human should be safe. No matter how many hardships

you get, no matter how extreme the injustice could be; but from your hands and tongue

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other human should be safe. Your hands and tongue should get utilized for the benefit of others. On the other hand show extreme patience; achieve a patience level that even the Supreme Progneer could not resist saying in the gathering of His angels, "What a person he is?" I have sent him so many climates and still he is busy doing my Dzkir. Dzkir: a very special way of meditation; calling Supreme Progneer in heart all the time. Like, Thank you God You are the Creator Your are the All-Merciful You are the Absolute Ruler You are the Pure One You are the Source of Peace You are the Guardian

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You are the Victorious You are the Greatest You are the Shaper of Beauty You are the Forgiving You are the Giver of All You are the Knower of All You are the Exalter You are the Bestower of Honors You are the Hearer of All You are the Seer of All You are the Judge You are the Just You are the Subtle One You are the All-Aware You are the Magnificent You are the Rewarder of Thankfulness You are the Highest You are the Preserver You are the Nourisher You are the Accounter You are the Mighty You are the Generous You are the Watchful One

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You are the Responder to Prayer You are the Perfectly Wise You are the Loving One You are the Majestic one You are the Resurrector You are the Witness You are the Truth You are the Trustee You are the Possessor of All Strength You are the Forceful One You are the Praised One You are the Originator You are the Restorer You are the Giver of Life You are the Taker of Life You are the Ever Living One You are the Self-Existing One You are the Finder You are the Glorious You are the Only One You are the One You are the Satisfier of All Needs You are the All Powerful

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You are the Creator of All Power You are the Expediter You are the Delayer You are the First You are the Last You are the Manifest One You are the Hidden One You are the Protecting Friend You are the Supreme One You are the Doer of Good You are the Guide to Repentance You are the Avenger You are the Forgiver You are the Clement You are the Owner of All You are the Lord of Majesty & Bounty You are the Equitable One You are the Gatherer You are the Rich One You are the Enricher You are the Preventer of Harm You are the Creator of the Harmful You are the Creater of Good

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You are the Light You are the Guide You are the Everlasting One You are the Righteous Teacher You are the Patient one and one of my favorite Dzkir (prayer), Oh! my Designer, Only You give the power to good deeds and only you give the strength to refrain from badness. Calling the Supreme Progneer with such

beautiful names just like as if one fell in extreme love with someone and wants to be with him/her always, all the time. The Supreme Progneer says, Remember Me I will remember you

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You will believe it or not, His Dzkir has lot of power. If you are following all these 4 criterions you will extremely see Him

Zkir is the remembrance of God

talking with you in your surroundings. Let me give you one example, how you can see Him talking with you. One day I was in my office, I was writing a email. Thinking about the spelling of a difficult word, within a second, one of my colleague came to me, gave me some documents. I flipped the first page and that word was on the first line. Its just the one incident out of hundreds. Some call it coincident but I call it thats how Supreme Progneer talks with His friends.

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As its not possible or more precisely very difficult to say all the Praises/Gods Names mentioned above all the time. The way I do Dzkir is as follows. I take one per day. For example, I dedicate one day for the statement, Thank

Only He gives the power to do good deed; only He gives the strength to refrain from badness

You God. I try to say this statement as soon as I wake up in my heart. While doing tooth brush all the way up to my office, each step that I take, each breath I exhale and inhale, I try my very best to say this statement.

While in a meeting or writing something as soon as my mind gets free. I put my self back on track. This process goes until I reach at home, with repeating His praises in my heart.

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Next day, I take the next statement. I am not prefect but I try my very best and always pray and asks my Creator to indulge me in Your remembrance all the time. I hope you got the essence of what Dzkir is. As far as extreme humbleness is concern you must be asking yourself what is extreme level of humbleness? And my response is when few you moments meet ago anyone, imagine as if you received a call from your doctor that you are suffering from terrible disease and you know that you will be dead

Helping someone with His thought in mind is Dzkir

within days. A richest man of the world who is about to die because of illness is poorer than the poorest but healthy man of the world. The same concept applies to education and beauty too. So one should be humble without having

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any proud in the heart because of these worldly things. In eyes of Supreme Progneer, the only thing that makes one man superior than other is the deeds. You must be thinking at this moment; what's the benefit of doing such un-natural stuff like someone ruined your life and you are showing him/her extreme humbleness, patience and you are not doing any harm to him/her in return using your hands and tongue even with a good thought of just stopping him. Now I am going to tell you very important stuff; if God accepts you as a friend and if someone hurts you then its between God and him/her; you are out of the game. Just imagine, if for example, President level person (country, organization etc.) accepts you as his/her best friend and if someone hurts you; he/she will be in trouble.

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All the prophets that God sent were having these qualities e.g. Prophet Jesus (Peace Be Upon Him), faced extreme did hardships it; said, them and "God they brutality but at the end prayed for those who

Discussing Supreme Progneers Artworks is Dzkir

forgive with

don't know". Similarly Prophet (Peace Mohammad

Be Upon Him), angel Gabriel came to him and said, "By the order of God, if you

say, I can minced this valley in between these mountains" and He (PBUH) responded back with a prayer, "Oh! God forgive these people & guide them to righteousness". This is the mental level only very few people can reach...

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God says, "There are very few people who reaches a level in worship & deeds that I become their feet with they walk; I become their hand

Having Patience & Humbleness irrespective of life events requires very high mentallevel

when they write and I become their tongue when they speak." Oh my Lord, Oh the only One who live so close to me, Oh the only One who live in my heart,

Oh the only One who gives live, Oh the only One who confers death, Oh the only One who give power to do good deeds, Oh the only One who gives strength to refrain from badness,

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With deep inside me heart I ask immensely to forgive me and put me on the path of true glory for success here and after. May God forgive us all. Ameen

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Taking Things for

Granted

Taking Things For Granted (TTFG) Intensity Control

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The property which has been embedded into our systems is basically the cause which is making us not to think about our Designer a lot and which results we getting involved more and more into the glitters of the world. Its none other but Taking things for granted.

Its because of this property that I pass by a charming flower without saying, what a marvelous design and color combination it is. All praises are to its Designer only. Just Imagine for a second that this property has

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been deleted from out system, then its really hard to even go to the office. Once I will look into the mirror, our face, its design etc. we will be in great astonishment. So whats really the reason behind having this property embedded into our systems? What really God wants? The answer comes from, by asking our self another question. What if God shows himself to the world? Then there would not be any crime or any thing bad. Everyone will see (not believe) that God is watching them no matter wherever they are or what ever they do. I think, then it doesnt really make any sense to have a world. Check greatness, embedding out His by this

Once TTFG Intensity Decreases, Love for God increases

quality in us He has basically freed ourselves. But He also says,

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We have opened the doors for those who seek Those who search for Him, He starts making this property weaker and weaker and we all sometimes this process feels like as if Intensity Control unit in our souls.

are having Virtual Taking Things For Granted

Taking Things For Granted (TTFG) Intensity Control For those who fell in great love with Him, are actually having this control at Zero level. It does not really mean that they forget the world

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and their duties towards humans, animals etc. Having this control at zero level means that such folks never leaves a single moment in praising to the Supreme Progneer for whatever He has bestowed them. From hair, eyes, all the senses, millions of systems running inside our body in such coherence fashion to all the things that pass before their eyes and all the matters they do from dawn to dusk. Let me put this thing in someone words who came across me and shared his thoughts. I consider Progneers that design someone as Supreme where he made this control at zero level. He said, I consider my any that

A person with Max TTFG will be a machine i.e. no feelings & humanity

single

breath

went leaving my body without taking Thank

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you God (or His discussion) with it as if that moment of life was spent in Sin. Although you can control this TTFG Intensity Level Control in your soul but also do pray to the Supreme Progneer to make it as low as possible. Once you have this control at the minimum level then you will be remembering Him all the time. But if its at the Max level then you of will the the totally world. life is indulge yourself in the glitters Remember

short and all the glitters will leave behind. The only deeds. thing that will accompany you is your

If

we

just

look

at

ourselves when we were born and what we are now. How something, which we, one time invisible turned into a 69

Human. How something which was so small turned into so many systems like Nervous system, Respiratory system, Reproductive system, excretory system etc. which work coherently in a great synchronization. Look at the fingers how wonderfully they are attached with the brain. Whatever I want to write my brain sends the signals and my fingers press the keys of the computer. The process is so fast that we dont even pay attention to it. If something is happening from years and years or from to generation

A person with Zero TTFG will be someone in great love of God

generation we dont think about it or pay any attention to it. For example the birth of a child year and its year and dead. development after eventually

People come into this

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world and they die. When they come, others say whats a big deal about it. Everyone has a baby. When they die, we say whats a big deal about it. Everyone dies. Just imagine for a second that you hava a company and you are having 100 employees and you are taking good care of them. In response you want all the employees to be loyal with you and to your company. Those who are not, you would like to give them a chance but if they remain not sincere you definitely would not like to keep them in your company. Now lets take this analogy to God and Humans case. We have been bestowed with thousands of blessing of the Supreme Progneer and still we say whats a big deal about it. Everyone can

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walk why I feel astonished that I can walk or praise Him for having this quality. What people thankful about who to those cant God?

Exam will be even harder for Rich than for Poor

walk. Should they be

What about those people who are extremely poor that they dont know from where the next meal will come from. Should they be thankful to God? Its really makes sense for an extremely rich person to be thankful to God but it doesnt make any sense for a extremely poor person thanking God all the time or one having no legs thanking/praising God all the times. Why there is such an inequality in Gods world? In the Spider Man part one movie, the Spider Man says at the end, With Great Power, Comes the Great Responsibility.

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Remember if you have been bestowed with great powers its not a moment of joy. Its a moment of extremely great fear; it means your test will be extremely hard at the end of the day. In the Supreme eyes, all one

Progneers thing

CEO will be having much harder exam than worker with no one underneath

humans are equal the which makes superior than others is the deeds. In front of Him, those who are rich and who are having legs are at more pitiable level

than those who were poor or having no legs. Life is not but a test. Take it as a test to be successful. If you should have granted legs and the ability to walk, those legs should move towards places to help others. If you see a elder than you standing in the bus while you are sitting, its not a moment of pleasure that

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you were lucky and you got the seat. Its a test. No doubt its a test. If you belive me or not, not a single act gets unnoticed. I remember when I was a kid, my mother said, Asim, God is very big and He knows everything? This question was a big trouble for me. Since the beginning, the hard accept. questions things for that me All I to such always cant prove; it was

Spiderman was right when he said, with great power comes the great responsibility

remain in the back of my mind until I proved it or more precisely He showed the light and answers to those questions got revealed to me. Thats the beauty of my Designer, my Creator.

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So when He decides for something, then indeed He says for it: 'Be' and it 'becomes.' How truly, Alexander Fleming said, I didnt invent Penicillin, I discovered it. The word, Serendipity: the art of looking for something great and ending up finding something else great. Its simply wonderful. Like I said, before. All it requires is seeking and leave the rest on God. So when my mother said, Asim God knows every thing. I was in big trouble and started thinking about it. As I grew older the question was still there and it was getting matured and I didnt accept it in a true sense unless the answer got revealed as I always prayed to the God to show me light.

Not a single act gets unnoticed from Him

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This is how a Electrical Engineer got turned into a Database any Administrator. to learn and I never attended Electrical school Computer all my

Databases stuff. The school I attended was a Engineering school classmates are Electrical Engineers but I went into the Database subject so deep that I ended up not only being a Database Instructor for many years but wrote a book too on Oracle: The biggest and most powerful/complex database management systems in the world so far. In short, a moment came when I said to myself I can store all the

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of

the the

Bottom-line: Keep TTFG as low as possible. It helps in acting on 4 key things: Not Hurting, Patience, Humbleness & Dzkir

means faces, do, their I can a the in a they

such pull

database. If I want I information out from database of matter seconds

about anyone I am looking for. If I can do this then surely my Creator can at a much extremely

higher level. This is how the question got answered. So when my mother said, Asim God is watching and He knows everything. She was perfectly right. Remember, the very important

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experience of my life and you can engrave it in your heart. i.e. Not a single act gets unnoticed from Him If you do the good deeds and be kind to others, the nature will revert your stuff back. This is what I say, He speaks provided you follow the four things. 1. From your hand & tongue other humans should be safe 2. Extreme Patience 3. Extreme Humbleness 4. Dzkir (Remembrance of God) And always pray to the Supreme Progneer that You are the One who give me power to do good deed and You are the only One who give me the strength to refrain from badness.

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HUMAN Behavior

Default

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He/she hit me first thats why I hit him/her back. He/she called me with names and I did the same with him/her. He/she treated me badly and I was waiting for a suitable time and when it came I screwed his/her life.

He hit me I will hit him back, this is known as Default Human Behavior

He/she slapped me first back. I hope you got the feeling of what I and then I slapped him/her

mean with Default Human Behavior. We have been programmed in a fashion that once something happens we give a response back. Like Newtons third law of motion,

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For every action there is equal and opposite reaction. But this is certainly not the pursuit of people who want to be friends of the Supreme Progneer. He is sitting on the top, managing billions of people (His creations), He has intentionally made this property as a default thing in humans so that it would be easy for Him to differentiate between those who love Him and those who dont. Lets see how? harm If did to someone extremely

Make yourself a machine whose output is always good, no matter whatever the input is
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you and you are still praying for him/her, God forgive him and put him on path of righteousness. If someone adopts this

pursuit, its a very unusual situation and gets flagged in Supreme Progneers system for human management. In other words make yourself a machine whose output is always good, no matter whatever the input to that machine. For example if you are a customer support specialist, you may come cross folks who would be difficult to communicate with and they may go off track in communication but one who has successfully killed the default human behavior in him/her will never follow and will never go off track but rather he/she would always remain polite and humble under all circumstances. Thats the machine I am talking about even if the machine hears bad words but will always response in good words.

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Once I got the opportunity to be in a meeting having the agenda, Five Star Customer Service and related problems. People who were in this business along with folks who deal with public every day like customer specialist, etc. support

Watch your tongue, it may help you earn reward points or it may bring trouble or no reward points
share with you the

receptionists

(over the phone or face to face) were all there. They pointed sometimes its really hard to deal Let with me customers.

wonderful concept. When I come

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any the to I

human or get face,

phone

In the Bank of God, our tongue is like Gods gifted free VISA card. We can use it to earn rewards points while dealing with other humans

internally

extremely scared only because he can either bring rewards for me or no rewards rather bad credits. If he/she leaves his/her with joy me heart and with filled good

thoughts, what a Man he was. He was so caring There enormous deposited and will into helpful. be my rewards

account in The Bank of Supreme Progneer

(imagine as The Bank of America or any other bank in world). But if he/she leaves with bad thoughts about me or if my words hurted

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her/his feelings then its going to be bad credits to my account or no rewards. One day one of my friends, was showing us the PS II (Play Station II). He said that he got this for free. We all got astonished and asked him how you can get this free. that He he mentioned

Only reward points will work in Heaven everything else will leave behind when soul gets separated from body
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has been using the VISA card for years and for there every was up purchase ended

reward points and I accumulating 31,000 reward points which was equivalent to buying a PS II (Play

Station 2 Video Game) and couple of other stuff. The reward points I am talking about, you can earn with your tongue. Compare it with the VISA card and Swipe Machine (where you swipe VISA card to earn rewards) is basically humans. Remember all the VISA card rewards will remain in this word, but the reward points you had earned before your soul got separated from your body will help you buy stuff in heaven as there is only one bank over there; The Bank of the Supreme Progneer (imagine it as The Bank of America).

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VISA Card

Hands & Tongue

Swipe Machine

Human

As mentioned earlier, that whenever you come across someone be very careful from inside and make your mission by saying explicitly in your heart, I will make this guy leave me with wonderful thoughts about me.

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you

make

it

Each humble, kind, caring word which pleases others brings reward points

mission is he

then once on doesnt

remember, someone mission, care about

whether

he lives or dies, the mission should end in success. Whether the person face words, or hits you you in bad with

should

not work against your

mission. Whether the person is like ant and you are like Lion or vise versa. The mission should get executed with success. Imagine a situation where a ant says to the lion, I will kick you out of the jungle if you make such a horrible scream again. And the lion responds back,

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Please forgive me, I will make sure next time when I scream, I will be having straws in my mouth. Wouldnt this be a astonishing and alarming situation for God and His team of angles. If I would be at God place (Please forgive us our Lord, we are trying to visualize your realm), I will say, Oh! No. What the heck going wrong with my programming Who this Lion is? Is he crazy? Or what. Gabriel (angel) go and ask him, why is he behaving like this. After sometime, Gabriel will come and say, Oh! The Designer, the Programmer of this universe and everything within and beyond, there is nothing wrong with your programming and engineering.

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When I asked the lion, he said, he has discovered You and Your presence and he sees You all-around as he has also turned TTFG Virtual Intensity control at zero level. For him You are the only Lion and he considers himself as the ant. Thats why he started making sure that no one gets hurt from him, from ants to the tallest giraffe animals in the

Not a single act gets unnoticed from Him

like

jungle. Then my I will say,

Gabriel he is one of exceptional creations which with

the power of seeking & utilizing one of my empirical formula (in other words my promise i.e. We have opened the doors for those who seek) has decoded my programming and do take good care of him and let Me know if he gets into some big trouble.

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So if someone calls you for help or you come across some one, always have the mission, I will make this person leave me with joy and good thoughts about me. Either he/she talks with me nicely or not I will make sure my words dont hurt his/her feelings and I will try with the best of my abilities to help him/her Why? Only because of God: The Supreme Progneer. If you see me driving BMW in heaven while you are on a bicycle, dont get astonished. It would only because I was having lot of reward points in my account which helped me convert them towards luxuries e.g. if in the world you were extremely rich but you never cared about others, always treated everyone badly, never did any charity but talked nicely only once with someone then after death you may have 200 reward points in The Bank of God.

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On the other hand there was a guy who was poor but who always cared for others, never hurted anyone, respected his/her parents etc. that person will be having 150,000,000 reward points after death. If God declare that here is the conversion chart., this is how you can utilize your reward points. - 1 or Less Points = Big Trouble 0 Reward Points = Home in Heaven facing Hell 100 Reward Points = 1 Small Pack of M&Ms (candy) 200 Reward Points = 1 Bicycle (With 1 Year Limited Warranty & Free Air) 100,000 Reward Points = BMW plus Miss South-East Heaven 200,000 Reward Points = Luxurious Home in Mid Heaven with Auto Adjustable Outdoor Weather So on and so forth Thats the only reason you will be on bicycle and I will be in BMW in Heaven. The story is

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not over yet. My greediness once asked me, Asim there must be some way where you can bring rewards even after death to your account. Here is how my brain responded you have back, made if a

Pious children are one of such sources for earning reward points even after death
Humbleness, the tool-box

hospital where poor folks are treated for free or planted a tree underneath its shadow people sit to save them from the intense heat of summer. Raised pious kids who are on the righteous Not path and

are practicing the 4 tools (I mentioned earlier: hurting, of Patience, God) in Remembrance

diligently. All these things and similar may bring constant reward points for you even after the death.

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Life

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The Purpose of life is to fully discharge our duties to the fullest extent of our abilities, strength of body and mind. If you look deep into the matter and ask yourself what are these duties. Then my answer would be that there are two types of duties 1. Our duties towards Humans: Relatives, Neighbors etc.

Life is all about discharging duties to the best of our abilities and strength

2. Our duties towards the Supreme Progneer: Worship, Prayers etc. Duties towards God are His and our matter and He is ultimate in Mercy. There is a greater possibility that He may forgive our duties

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towards Him. The thing which He will never forgive is the first one i.e. our duties towards other humans e.g. our Parents, Wife, Kids, Brother, Sister, Neighbors etc. If you have hurted someone then the only way to get away from that sin would be if that person will forgive you. Remember that if you want God to be happy with you then make sure that the people around you are happy from you. If you see anyone is unhappy with you then try to talk with that person and see his/her point of view and try to explain

Two duties: Duties towards God and Duties towards His creations
yours. Always show

compromise and tolerance just to win other persons heart because the sole mission is to win the Supreme Progneers happiness and His happiness lies in the happiness of people

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surrounding you. It could be your parents, brothers, sisters, colleagues etc. If you keep the tool-box that I have given you containing four tools, I think you would be good. Those four things are: 1. No One Should Get Hurt from your hands and tongue 2. Extreme Patience 3. Extreme Humbleness 4. Dzkir (Remembrance of God)

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Finally Happens

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We make plans and time tables but something else happens. This is what I refer to as the God Factor or some call it fate or luck. Whenever something happens which was not according to your desire or wish then dont disappointed depressed. get or Always

Our job as humans is: keep seeking & keep running even if the results are not coming as desired

keep in mind that the stuff we can look at, is the very of small bigger portion see.

picture what God can

Not accepting something that finally happens, give you more harm than anything else. It may lead you to depression and the overall mission or struggle will end in a failure. How truly Thomas Edison said,

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Behind my every invention there were thousand failure. This is the pursuit of champions. For them the mission is keep running and keep seeking. They leave the rest on the Supreme Progneer. The way Nature has been programmed is that who how it helps the those Thats word The seek.

You are never a looser unless you quit trying

Serendipity came into existence. Supreme Progneer says,

We have opened the doors for those who seek There was one exceptional scholar, who

described this matter as,

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You are never a looser unless you quit trying Champions like Edison know that the failures cant shatter their determination. Like what a famous author has said, The difference between possible and

impossible lies in persons determination. Whenever you are struggling to achieve some goal there is great probability that between the start point and the final destination you may encounter undesired results or failure but the true seeker knows that his job is just keep running towards the destination and leaving the rest on the Supreme Progneer. There was one exceptional scholar named Isfaq Ahmed in his book Zavia or in English you can call it as Angle has described this using marriage as a scenario. He is no more living but was bestowed with Gods light to look deep into matters. He mentioned that same stuff by

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referring to women and men that if you wanted to have your marriage at some place but something happens and you ended up having marriage somewhere else. Never get depressed. Be happy and thankful to what you have and keep running. He rounded the discussion with the bottom line, anything that finally happens just accept it with true heart otherwise you will end up creating more trouble for yourself and others. So this concept is not just limited to science and research but to other areas in life too. The sole purpose is to save our souls in getting into depression which usually follows failure and which is really not the pursuit of champions.

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Happiness

True

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Some wonderful author while writing in honor of Alexander Flemings the discoverer of Penicillin said, Happy is he who already belongs to history in his own life time. Surely this is what true happiness is. Happy is not he, having a muscular body or one having riches of the world or having a very beautiful wife. True happiness is in doing something for others. Whenever you see anyone needy consider yourself lucky that the Supreme Progneer has given you the opportunity to earn good deeds or in other words reward points. Dont let the opportunity go way just by ignoring it. Be the first to help others e.g. If you see some old lady trying to cross the road and having difficulty doing so. You may see people around her but no one would be helping, jump in the

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situation and be the first one in helping her cross the road. If you have played Mario Brothers video game or similar, you must have noticed one thing that on his way to destination there are numerous places where Mario catch or hit reward objects to energizer himself. Its a similar situation when you leave your home if you see or come across 100 needy, try to gain all the 100 rewards irrespective of the place you are, irrespective of time, irrespective of color or religion of the person you are trying to help because you would not be helping to gain anything from that person but the sole thought would be to gain Gods happiness and His happiness creations. How truly John Wesley has said; I heard this very first time from my father (May God bless his soul and give him higher ranks in Heaven). lies in the happiness of His

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Do all the good you can By all the means you can In all the ways you can In all the places you can At all the times you can To all the people you can As long as ever you can...

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Parents & Elders?

Why Respect

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There is a famous saying, Charity begins at home. I have given you a tool-box having four tools in it. 1. From your hand & tongue other humans should be safe 2. Extreme Patience 3. Extreme Humbleness 4. Dzkir (Remembrance of God) All these four tools are adaptive in nature. You can use these tools in any environment or in other words in any culture or faith. You will see the fruits coming to your life.

Keep the tool-box with you all time and all the places you visit

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Parents are Gods gift for new comers to the world. Its a precious gift and its importance is very hard to describe in words. Many times we take this gift for granted. Everyone has parents and they are obligated to help us whenever we need. Its their duty. How truly someone has said, You will realize the value of something only once you have it than you loose it. In words of someone else, By the time a man realizes that his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks that he is wrong.

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Like I mentioned before, whenever you help others or show you humbleness & kindness to others your reward points increases and if you take this case to parents and elders scenario, the reward points enormously. Remember programmed that in the a Nature has been fashion that if you do good stuff it will get reverted back to you. From today start implementing the tool-box to your parents and elders around you. Talk with them in such humbleness and respect that they get amazed and your mother couldnt resist saying to your father, increases

You will realize the importance of something once you have it then you loose it

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What happened to David? John. He was never like this. Our neighbors said this too. He is so kind, humble and caring. Jean, for past couple of days I have seen him reading some book entitled: The Supreme Progneer. Do you know why I share the good stuff for all the people that I come across irrespective of faith or culture? I have signed a business proposition with the Supreme Progneer. He said, Asim, if someone buys your tool-box and if that person implements it or further sells it. I will give you equal reward points what he/she will earn.

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So I am having my own greediness hidden inbetween the lines. Its a kind of pyramid model where everyone gets their share but my share will be multiple of all those who will implement the tool box.

Doing good is all about doing business with God. You do good and surely there are reward points associated with your every good act

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Matters of Zero

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The concept of Matters of Zero Heaven Value states that we will shun / drop all matters which are of having zero heaven value i.e. if we are arguing with someone on some matter having no potential to get us closer to God or in other words having no potential to help us earn good deeds, the time we spend doing such argument will be considered as waste of time and energy as well. This concept is

Dont waste time discussing or arguing on matters having zero heaven value.

basically Companies time even

extracted dont or

from Market Value. waste their precious developing discussing

products having zero or no market value. On the same lines if we start analyzing our each life matter

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that we come across from dawn to dust and make a rule inside our brain that we will not waste time discussing or arguing any matter which is of having zero heaven value then soon the life will turn from very complex to very peaceful and simple. The time and energy you save as a result of this principle should be spent on earning good deeds. Its a very powerful concept. It will not only help you win the heart of the people surrounding but will also get you closer to God. This is also known as living a life with the concept of God in mind all the time. Remember the goal is still the same, 4

The Life is nothing but preparation for the exam i.e. Judgment Day.

things mentioned earlier i.e. Not Hurting, Patience, Humbleness and Zikr.

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The life is nothing but preparation for exam i.e. judgment day. When some one is preparing for the exam then he/she doesnt waste time discussing things which will never be asked in exam. On the other hand if you come across a good deed or a matter of very great heaven value then just jump on it. Satan will always try his best not to let you earn good deed and to keep you involved in matters having zero heaven value. God says, My men, when they come across a good deed, they just jump on it It means that God's men don't even think about anything once the come across an opportunity to do good deed they act on it.

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The Book Extract

Your decisions should be according to ADMM and you should optimize the working of the brain. Control your brain but not let the brain control you by defining guidelines and then making sure the brain follows those guideless.

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Tool-Box having four tools: 1. From your hands and tongue everyone should be safe 2. Extreme Patience 3. Extreme Humbleness 4. Dzkir (Remembrance of God) Like what John Wesley has said:

Do all the good you can By all the means you can In all the ways you can In all the places you can At all the times you can To all the people you can As long as ever you can... Dont waste time discussing or arguing on matters having zero heaven value.

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Taking Things For Granted (TTFG) Intensity Control

Logical Architecture of Brain

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Quotations Used
All is well that ends well. There is no No to anything. If you dont know something doesnt mean it doesnt exist. Let the ball rolling. Lets see how the cat jumps. Let the time take the decision. A picture is better than thousand words. By the time a man realizes that his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks that he is wrong. Oh! My Designer, Only You give the power to good deeds and only you give the strength to refrain from badness.

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Remember Me I will remember you We have opened the doors for those who seek With Great Power, Comes the Great

Responsibility. Not a single act gets unnoticed from Him For every action there is equal and opposite reaction. The Purpose of life is to fully discharge our duties to the fullest extent of our abilities, strength of body and mind. Behind my every invention there were

thousands failure. Happy is he who already belongs to history in his own life time.

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You will realize the value of something only once you have it than you loose it. Do all the good you can By all the means you can In all the ways you can In all the places you can At all the times you can To all the people you can As long as ever you can... Charity begins at home.

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INDEX
bicycle 92 BMW 92 breath 68 business proposition 118

A
A picture is better than thousand words 37, 131 Absolute Ruler 50 accepting something that finally happens 103 Accounter 51 Adaptive 19 ADMM 22 AHP 44 All is well that ends well 15, 131 All Powerful 52 All Strength 52 All-Merciful 50 Analytic Hierarchy Process 44 Angle 105 ant 89 anxieties 37 At t1 30 At t2 31 Avenger 53

C
Categories 39 Champions 105 charity 92 Charity begins at home 115, 133 Clement 53 climates 50 Creater of Good 53 Creator 50 Creator of All Power 53 Creator of the Harmful 53

D
Database Inside Brain 38 Default Human Behavior 81 Delayer 53 depression 103 Designer 74 discharge our duties 97, 132 Do all the good you can 111, 133 doctor 41 Doer of Good 53 duties towards Humans 97

B
beautiful names 54 Behind my every invention there were thousands failure 104, 132 Best Practices 36 Bestower of Honors 51

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duties towards the Supreme Progneer 97 Dzkir 49, 56

E
Einstein 37 electrical engineer 39 embedded into our systems 66 emotions 37 empirical formula 91 engrave the target 24 enormous rewards 85 Enricher 53 Equitable One 53 Ever Living One 52 Everlasting One 54 Exalter 51 excretory system 70 Expediter 53 Experience 43 Extreme Humbleness 78 Extreme Patience 78 eyes 68

Giver of All 51 Giver of Life 52 Glorious 52 God Factor 103 God know every thing 75 Google 45 Greatest 51 Guardian 50 Guide 54

H
hair 68 hand & tongue 49 Happy is he who already belongs to history in his own life time 109, 132 Hearer of All 51 heart 106 Heaven Value 121 Hidden One 53 High Probability 19 Highest 51 Home in Heaven facing Hell 93 hospital 94 Humbleness 49

F
face to face 84 fate 103 Finder 52 Five Star Customer Service 84 For every action there is equal and opposite reaction 82, 132 Forceful One 52 Forgiver 53 four tools 115

I
I become their hand when they write 60 I will make this guy leave me with wonderful thoughts about me 88 Isfaq Ahmed 105

J
John Wesley 110 Just Before t2 31

G
Gabriel 91 Gatherer 53 Generous 51 giraffe 91

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K
kindness 117 Knower of All 51

Owner of All 53

P
Patience 49 Perfectly Wise 52 physical architecture 37 Play Station 2 87 power to do good deed 78 Praised One 52 Preserver 51 President level 58 Preventer of Harm 53 Processes 38 Progneer Factor 17 prophets 59 Protecting Friend 53 Pure One 50 pursuit 82 pyramid model 119

L
Let the time take the decision 28, 131 Lets see how the cat jumps 28, 131 Light 54 Lion 89 listen 44 logical architecture of brain 36 Lord of Majesty & Bounty 53 Loving One 52 luck 103

M
Majestic one 52 Manifest One 53 Mario Brothers 110 marriage 106 medical stuff 39 microprocessor 37 Mighty 51 mission 89 muscular body 109

R
Regular machines 20 Remember Me I will remember you 54 Remembrance of God 78 Repentance 53 Reproductive system 70 Responder to Prayer 52 Restorer 52 Resurrector 52 reward points 86, 87 Rewarder of Thankfulness 51 rewards 85 Rich One 53 Righteous Teacher 54 righteousness 59, 82

N
Nervous system 70 Newton 81 Nourisher 51

O
observe 44 optimal solution 25 Originator 52 over the phone 84

S
Satisfier of All Needs 52 scream 90 seeking 91 Self-Existing One 52

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Serendipity 104 Shaper of Beauty 51 soul 87 Source of Peace 50 Sources of Input to Brain 38 strength to refrain from badness. 78 Supreme One 53 Supreme Progneer 15 synchronization 70

tool-box 99, 115 Trustee 52 Truth 52 TTFG 63, 129 TTFG Intensity Level Control 69

V
Victorious 51 VISA card 86

T
t1 t2 31 t2 t3 31 t4 31 t5 31 t5 t6 33 t6 33 t6 - t7 33 t7 - Just Before t8 33 t8 33 Taker of Life 52 Taking things for granted 65 The Bank of America 87 The difference between possible and impossible lies in persons determination 105 the First 53 the Forgiving 51 the Last 53 the One 52 the Only One 52 the Patient one 54 There is no No to anything 27, 131 Thomas Edison 103 time factor 29 tongue 87

W
Watchful One 51 We have opened the doors for those who seek 67, 91, 132 With Great Power, Comes the Great Responsibility 72, 132 Witness 52

Y
You are never a looser unless you quit trying 105 You will realize the value of something only once you have it than you loose it 116, 133

Z
Zavia 105 Zero level 67

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