The Wussication of the American Male

-by Rion Williams

w w w. m e n s g u i d e t o w o m e n . c o m
10/12/05

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THE WUSSIFICATION OF THE AMERICAN MALE

-Rion Williams Is it about time for some information on this subject to come out or what!? There is a HUGE and growing ri in our society where American men are confused as to how women are behaving and treating them. And women are wondering, Where are all the real men? Are men supposed to be ultra sensitive or wussied so that they kiss up to women all the time? No. Im going to look at the root of where this came from. However, worse than the wussication of the American male is something even griier which is the real behavioral cause for most marriages failing. Some people may think is blasphemy that I would even think it, yet, sadly it is true despite all violent opposition it may gain from progressive, educated, liberal, feminist thinkers and some of our media. However it is up to you to deal with our modern social dynamics and know where you stand as a male in our modern society and for the rest of your life; especially in relating and living with women. It is up to each man to do his best part. Ultimately relationships should be a good harmony between a man and woman. Hopefully I can bring that balance back or at least give the American male awareness of his own inherent power. I feel and know that I am the messenger for this great social issues awareness because

of the level of clarity I have realized aer studying and observing relational social psychology, behavior paerns, biology, tradition, religion, personal experience and cultural dierentiation. Also because no one has even brought it up from a universal perspective. Because of the inherent truth of my discoveries and its multi-paradigm approach, man today can be re-awakened and empowered again. The root of our problems are so obvious that the rest of the world must be snickering at the goings on in America. Why dont any of them stand up and say anything? Maybe they are everyday; I dont know. Partly because I think most Americans (sadly) wouldnt believe them because were so busy, wrapped up in our cultural lifestyle (yes there is one), and only see what is right in front of us. Even if someone was telling me some insight I would have ltered it out. We have to become aware of it ourselves. With this information you can be aware for yourself. As an American man myself who did realize the universal contextual dynamics without anyone telling me (through my own observations of cultural dierentiation), I think American men (and women) will stand up and listen to me. We need an insider who gets it and someone with enough balls to take on the media, imminent feminists, and jaw-dropping emotional retaliatory response from our female population to start it going. From there, men can start being open to their own right to power instead of wussiness and can spread it from there. The point for me is to just get the message out. I am founded in multiple paradigms of truth and this is where I draw my strength from and you can too. The divergence and frustration in our society is reaching a peak in the last few years and its time for some universal clarity without the shallow solutions of pervasive 50/50 dating advice, tips, or how to pick up chicks. This is the global macro-dynamics of our relationships and not a shallow x. If you relate to women at all, then this eBook and my Mens Guide to Women concerns you. Whether you may be more interested in the short term success of aracting women or not; these issues are far more important and essentially lead to your ultimate success anyways. None of those seduction experts bother to go into relationships because they

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know thats a big mess as well. They are also unaware of the global dynamics which explains this behavior in the rst place that they are working against; theyre just happy to see results because sex is a short term solution to a long term desire. I will not be bashing women directly but rather looking at their own behavior paerns (which I may bash) as part of the culture in which they were brought up; accepting that they are who they are, but not giving them any slack for it because as a man YOU have to know how to deal with it and where to stand. I will say that part of the problem is that men are being wussies to women and this is part of what is making things worse in the short term but I think you can tell who is destroying the long term relationships (without their own awareness or acknowledgement). Independent women have added unparalleled value to our society and culture and it wouldnt be fair to not mention that here, but primarily, this is going to have a promale stance; it has to be because of the opposite is happening in our media and society. However, I will cover things not from the angle of a solely hardcore traditionalist (keep her barefoot and pregnant over the kitchen sink) but rather from a universal perspective that really puts the natural alignment back into place for men to be successful with women (hence giving women what they want in the short term). Primarily this information will make a man more comfortable in who he is and in HIS relationship to our fragmented and ipped society. I will purposely cover primarily the long-term view for two reasons: #1: It is what really maers the most throughout a mans life (unless he really is a permanent bachelor) and his dedication of time, money, destiny and peace #2: The global perspective of stepping forward to explain the results, consequences, reality and ultimately the foundational behavior paerns and dynamics of our wussied society (and the powerful women) is more important than short-term sex or even a dating xation which may lead to disaster in the long run with the wrong type of woman #3: I teach the other stu (how to meet women, state of mine, DEwussication, dating, etc.) in my other materials

Let me talk about the wussication of the American man and get straight to the point. Today men are acting unnaturally around women, especially when meeting them and even dating them. This is vastly hurting their chances of success in dating. Unfortunately few can look beyond at the REAL consequences of this type of woman to prevent disaster ahead; but before I primarily talk about the long-term dynamics here Ill say some more about the wussyness factor upfront when meeting women (no one talks about the long term REALITY). Women WILL oen reject men even before they approach her. Why? She has extrasensory perception and intuition of body language. She knows where he is coming from. Her social prowess is very adept at picking these things up, so much so that a man may not even be aware but she has already decided if he has a chance or not. Its more important that a man be a man that knows how to make her feel the inherent magic of her own unexplainable and biological response mechanisms. Shell say she wants one thing and obviously go for another because of how the man makes her feel. Looks arent important anymore because the real counterparts of our hoest women, have for the most part become wussies. They kiss up to her, give her the power and let her squeeze their balls. She doesnt want this power and she cant tell him how to be or not to be. Shes waiting for a man who just KNOWS how to be a man who she can respond to and start the sexual mating dance with. Most men are not behaving like their real self around women and women are wondering where are all the real men? Men think that being nice to her will work and they see her run o with a bad boy while she cries on the nice guys shoulder. She can tell they are being weak. She doesnt want another wussboy at her heels who sucks onto her energy like a leech and keeps calling her or wanting to buy her things. Hes essentially trying to cover up the fact that he wants to get into her pants by putting on a facade upfront and really not being his true self. A woman respects honesty and congruency. If she can see who a man is who doesnt make apologies for who he is; she knows hes not a wuss (unless he proves wrong and turns sappy aer a few weeks professing his love for her and then its over). Wussies are coming from a shaky foundation in the rst place that isnt natural. They are doing what society has taught them to do; court her and take her on traditional

dates. Well, times have changed and theres too much implied intention and pressure on women in these scenarios. Todays women are more carefree and do want things to happen naturally. Plus, theyre being chased by all kinds of wussies that they just dont have time for. These men think that because theyre interested in her that shell be interested in them; NOT if theyre acting like a wussy. A wuss is someone who is just handing over the power and favor to her, oen without even knowing it. Most of these men (and I used to be a wussboy as well) really are great guys with a lot to oer but are confused as to why women are the way they are. I could talk on and on about how men are wussies (from buying her things to impress her to chasing her instead of her chasing him to just not being his true self up front with her) but its more important to understand how we were wussied. From there its even more important to briey look at the long-term dynamics that even 50/50 relationship counselors cant grasp because of their limited vision. Yes its going to piss people o but am I dependent on having to marry an American woman just because Im here? No. You dont have to deal with it or accept it yourself; its not running from anything (actually it is..running from turmoil), instead its wanting peace and fulllment by making an educated life decision and not being sucked into a trap if there are warning signs. This may seem a lile out there for you to even comprehend if youre thinking of course Id marry an American woman...well...just think about things, thats all. Look at whats really going on in marriages here. If youre still single, you dont owe any woman anything. You can see how adamant I am about the long term issue but before that continues let me cover more of how we became wussied in the rst place. This is covered indepth in the Mens Guide through its historical and cultural coverage but basically the U.S. is dierent. Who we are as a culture has become invisible and second nature to those of us who are in it. We take what we see for granted. Lile do most of us realize that our culture is quite dierent from other cultures around the world. More importantly, our behavior paerns are distinctively dierent from other cultures around the world still despite much American inuence.

Most countries are still grounded in tradition; they are more slow to change than the U.S...ironically their divorce rates are much lower. The wussication of the male population began with the empowerment of the American woman. Basically around the surage movement in the early 1900s and geing women to vote. Im not here to argue about the empowerment of women; feminism has a lot of advantages but unfortunately its GREATLY aected our relationship dynamics for the worse and both sexes are suering. Today women have more power than ever before and are mans equal on many fronts. Of course we take this for granted as just part of who we are and how we live. No one questions it. Lile does anyone (especially most relationship counselors) realize that the real cause has been covered up in the rst place. We just deal with the fact that women are independent today and thats how it is...most counselors and lawsuits ironically favor women anyways and this doesnt help either. Men have become wussied through our society and cultural and its inuences. The media has had a big role to play in this. The days of Leave it to Beaver are over. Despite all of the glamour and glory of our beautiful social exterior as a nation, there is a lot of hurt going on inside; especially in relationships. The portrayal and exploitation of beauty and its consistent inundation has become so pervasive that of course we are used to it) but it really has a big eect on the wussication of the American man. They allow themselves to fantasize about the women they see and become so emotional about it by lingering on the topic that when they see a woman in public who has this social level of validation that they instantly connect her beauty to, they become weak and when she turns him down (rooted because of the power shi) he wants her even more. And if he keeps looking more and more at pictures of beautiful or sexy women hell continue to build the value of it in his own mind and hell want it even more because he cant have it. Women continue to treat him like this (for their place in our forced reality) and he

becomes more escapist and repressed. It changes his behavior and the way he acts towards women even if he is a grounded man in all other ways; hes not being himself, hes being a wuss just by his body language and actions upon the sight of someone he perceives to match this ideal. The entire glorication and edication of beauty this forced reality has given women more power than ever before in history and some of the world is still looking on in shock. You have to understand that this didnt exist before. The U.S. was (and arguably still is) the most progressive country in the world, leading in many industries, civil rights, womens rights, equal opportunity and more. It was probably inevitable that her power was going to happen. Am I saying theres anything wrong with it? Im saying there are implications both good and bad (both extremes), but what I think most of our women are underestimating is that their traditional female counterparts around the world (while not having as many options in life), are quite content to play their natural and biological role of nurturing, raising a family and being a mother and oen times dont WANT to have the level of opportunity American women do because they clearly see what its done to families. You start giving this level of power and opportunity to women elsewhere in the world (as is happening in major cities worldwide), she will be inuenced but will normally hold true to the base cultural context of her country. This means that in a strongly traditional culture (Japan, Thailand, etc.) women should keep it in check without geing too independent because they know that theyll turn away men who want to marry them because they wont be as good of a housewife and supporter of her husband. Its just in the U.S. that we promote this and actively want women to express their freedoms but it just ends up hurting relationships and the women would never acknowledge it was them who was doing it. Remember out men are acting more biologically accurate in the long-term, and sorry to say but are women arent. I have to give it to the conservatives who have been saying that tradition is what works and is the way its supposed to be for long term success. Our cultural deance of that tradition and her empowerment to create a 50/50 society is now so strong it aects almost people in the entire U.S. Because of this level of permeation, men on a mass scale over the last several decades have become weaker and weaker generally with the more power we have given to

women. Im sorry but I dont know whats going to happen if Hillary becomes President that will HELP guys become less of a wussy. I would predict that silently the men of American would become even more wussied, women would become even more empowered than ever before, our media would step things up a couple notches and therell be an EVEN greater need for this information (and the success with women information). Women are free to go about their lives as men once did (objectively stating) and the wussy men are now becoming the matches to these dominant women. Its up to you whether you want to fall for this long term. Your awareness is your key to power so you can change. Short term you have unlimited options for short term relationships (without the drama) once you understand how to live in the natural paradigm of your reality instead of seeing the forced reality (Mens Guide), but here I really want you to see the big picture. Just listen to the words of feminists and how they view men and youll see a big clue into why our marriages are failing. Women are strong and theyre proud of it...what does this mean in a marriage though? Who is going to lead? You can see why theres turmoil because the power struggle ensues. Ive seen and experienced personally around married families and we ALL know couples that have trouble and that have broken up; we take it for granted. She wasnt supposed to have this power; its not accounted for in the Bible or elsewhere. Although its great in certain ways, its unnaturally shied the relationships dynamics and caused men to be intimidated, oppressed and wussied by her aura, power and the growing cultural representation that men are weaker sex (maybe it started with Roseanne, maybe earlier). We used to have Archie Bunker with All in the Family on one extreme and now we have Will & Grace towards the other extreme. Ive only seen a few minutes of each show but I know what the relationship dynamics are. I think its depressing that so many sitcoms dont show alpha male behavior but instead have strong women and sensitive men where oen times the woman will be the smart one and save the day while men are portrayed as bumbling idiots. Our media continues to propagate feminine beauty because sex sells and the fact that women arent giving it up to every wussy that comes along puts them further up the pedestal to make sex sell even more.

The U.S. consumes glamour, beauty and porn like mad. Women become the goddesses to the average guy who would do anything to be with her. He is inuenced by what he sees and then listens to our song lyrics that just REEK of male wussiness. This especially apparent in the last decade. This is further making the wussication more eminent. Lyrics like Shes so high above me, Id die for her, Id do anything for love, etc. And these are oen catchy songs that women will love too because its emotional and is connecting with her altruistic social personas ideal of a man professing his undying love for her. This makes our women run in real life. Its the crap all kinds of guys want to profess to her before he even knows her or who she really is. Hes placing his ideal onto her. They have these wussies chasing their tails everywhere and cant get rid of them. You have to look at the behavior of women in how they act and react with men and not at what they say they want or feel sappy about. Cinderella used to want her Prince Charming and he was a nice guy. Most American men are nice guys at heart. Our women are not behaving naturally (on a deep evolutional level) anymore and therefore may dream of Prince Charming because of the stories they were told to nd a nice guy who could take care of them. Now our Cinderellas are falling for the bad boy hanging on the outside of the ballroom steps. Why? Because her alpha male options have run dry; her real counterparts arent acting like alpha male men anymore so she has to accept whats le. If you look deeply Prince Charming wasnt really a wuss; he was a good looking guy who had his act together who would make a great husband. Most men in the world arent wusses because their women actually RESPOND to nice guy behavior (hard to believe isnt it? Ive experienced it countless times myself); otherwise wed all go extinct. Youre not the problem. You shouldnt want to be a bad boy just to align yourself with these womens model of reality. Its dangerous, imbalanced and unstable. Our women have run out of options because our men have edied them too much and have changed their own behavior; theyre treating every hot women that comes along as another Queen and they as the servant just by their own body language (in which

their unstable thoughts are transmied). Prince Charming wasnt Cinderellas servant. Our society has twisted this out of proportion. Then we have our movies. Just tell her how you feel is in countless movies. Most of this stu actually works on really traditional and emotionally balanced, healthy women but you have to be careful there because there is usually more expected commitment on your part. There is a great incongruency on dierent levels in our society; no wonder men are confused. Movies will end with the guy profession his love to her and kissing her but we dont see what happens aerwards that if shes a feisty one theyre going to break up because he was a wussy. Men can be charming as long as they are grounded in their own reality; its a mixture of behavior that intrigues women. Its just the way I am and most men are trying to gure out how to act around women when it doesnt even maer if youre grounded in the natural reality of not giving up your own power. You arent selling out to her but every now and then youll do something that really pleases and surprises that SHOWS how much you really do care for her. Dont ever tell her I love you 100 times a day like some sources literally suggest and women say they want you to (socially programmed); that is super wuss. You communicate more strongly through your actions that youre there for her, etc. You have to live in your reality if you want real success in life and with women. If you get wrapped up in what societys pervasively throwing at you of all the wrong things to do (because our women have changed) youve most surely been wussied. If we had a nation of women that were more traditional, say like our grandmothers were, we wouldnt have as much excitement in our culture, true but we would have much more stable relationships. The book and movie Stepford Wives is another byproduct of our forced reality. It thinks its geing a lesson through but I can see right through it and so can the rest of the world. Theyre almost making fun of the fact that traditional women are comically braindead; I think this is an INSULT to most of the women in the world who are raising stable, healthy families. How about Mona Lisa Smile? Another byproduct of our forced reality. An independent teacher (Julia Roberts) encourages her traditional female students to be indepen-

dent when they just want to be good housewives. Its pathetic how no one can see whats going on...we just take it for granted without viewing it from another context of realizing that this social programming encouraging women to grow (amongst other things) is the root of our relationship failures. This subject of media inuence is so pervasive over the past decades I could go on for days on how it has aected the wussiness of the American male (Martha Stewart, Mr. Mom, divas, actresses, etc.) and the newfound power of the female, leading to drastic relationship consequences. Even the movie, Cheaper by the Dozen the wife really is a supermom and never le the kids until she writes a book and has to leave them with the busy dad Steve Martin. She starts to realize her own independence (which is great BUT...) and views the situation in a whole dierent light. Simply to say, Steve Martin becomes the semi-wussy dad trying to pull things together comically and she has much sharper responses aer she comes back from her trip. Times have changed, things are more complicated but you have to get a grasp on the main issues if you want the most control and choice in your life. You can STILL nd women who want to raise a family and support you as #1 and head of the household but there are very few le in America if any at all (who havent been inuenced by our social programming). There are millions of available women in the world who would be a tremendous RELIEF to American men if they just knew how dierent and refreshing things WOULD be, with these women who dont expect much more than for you to lead the way and provide. You wouldnt be challenged all the time or cut down, oppressed AND..you wouldnt have to be a confused wussy (if you ever were). Take a look at the Russian Bride trend. This is just one of the many paradox outlets I talk about in my Mens Guide to Women. Theres solid reasoning behind this and the way I see it, youre not less of a man to go that route but someone who has chosen to take his power back in a dierent way instead of leing our society tell you what to do. Men arent aware that beneath the forced reality is the natural paradigm of which he can be most successful with women that women are begging for (where are all the real men) but the long term dynamics are a sticky issue with these women. Sure our women will be shocked I might try to sway the power back to where it belongs (in relationships that work) but aer all of the frustration, confusion and inevi-

table anger American men have put up with its about time our women had a taste of their own medicine to feel some of the consequences of their own behavior. I really dont plan on marrying an American woman; the way I see it, they dont stand a chance of catching me and Im NOT a supergeek (well..part of me is); Im a cool guy, high social status with a lot going on. What happens when you take your power back and let them prove themselves and still understand she doesnt have much of a chance for the long term...? Well, short term might work out on your own schedule because you dont really care anyways because youre not a wuss. When youre dewussied, you have your own power and control back. Youre not dependent, clingy or needy on ANY woman. You will slap yourself for not seeing these things sooner and you will laugh at how tragically ridiculous everything going on is but you will be cured and realigned to have the greatest success with women and potentially long term peace. Get my Mens Guide to Women to nd out how. Lets look deeper into the long-term relationship aspects which may be quite boring to you if you only want to get a quick x of geing laid; then at least come back when youre ready to move on in your life because youll nd information here that may shockingly open your mind to the reality of life with the counterpart of the American husband. As in the words of Bill Engvall and I paraphrase, Honey, Im cold... and I got up and walked over to put the heat on...and she probably called her mother and said, Ive got him... It starts slowly...

With the shi of power, man has become CONFUSED. It was his role to be the natural leader and all of a sudden he is competing with women and oen being outperformed by them. They hold higher positions than him in the work environment, etc. A womans power and who she is obviously extends into her relationships with men. She expects things. She can take of herself. She is opinionated and goal-oriented. She has taken on the roles that man used to have available to him. So what does this do to a relationship? Where do I start? At best, our relationships with these empowered women have become 50/50. Even alpha males themselves are caught up in massive power struggles with an independent woman in a relationship. They are both used to leading. Obviously this creates drama, turmoil, tension especially aer the initial sparks (shes so much like me). Finding a woman who has it all together may seem GREAT when dating but unfortunately means that your long-term relationship has AT LEAST a 50% chance of NOT being together. Even more if you are an alpha male who is very set in your ways and opinionated. Shes become too much like a man. There is no one to suck up all of the drama, energy and light like there used to be...except, the WUSSBOY. The thing is, I dont believe all men are supposed to be wussies; I know they arent. Nature and evolution and theocracy says they arent. Who is the ultimate wussboy? How about a 40 year old virgin? Take this apply it across an entire country who is confused or intimidated by our independent and GPPS (gold-plated pussy syndrome) or pussy power women; then what? No one would be procreating and we would eventually become extinct. This is a deance of nature. All species naturally know how to perpetuate themselves without anyone have to teach them. But something called the forced reality has changed this. This social and cultural reality we have placed upon the traditional and biological reality of our grandparents generation (and the dominant paradigm in most of the world) has thrown the power balance o and deeply aected mans behavior and how he views women. A wuss is blinded by a womans beauty and the constant media exploitation of sex (I

call the blue balls syndrome where we cant get enough). Its just added value and edication, so men think that anytime they see a hot woman theyre going to want to treat her like a Queen and put her on a pedastal. I remember I never used to eat candy but during basic training we were put in an environment where its value was placed so high that people would pay $20 for a candybar. Aer we went through weeks of training and saying we couldnt have cake or candy, the ice cream truck would roll up to the range we were at and everyone would run over with their hands in the air and ries still on semi (literally) and gorge out on candy and ice cream. Can you see the social proof going on here too, everyone else wants some. I was aware of what was going on but got in on it too and never had so much candy in my life as Army basic training (and I still ate the least in my squad). Why? It was edied so much and taken away and then we could nally have some guys went nuts over it. This is essentially a forced or added value reality as well which applies in parallel to how men view women...theyre weak or have a so spot for any of the sweet sugar. A wussies emotional response will be very high and uncontrollable because he is operating from the unnatural paradigm of viewing the world; that of the forced reality. He will be nervous, insecure, hesitant, and lose all grounding in his own true self because he is operating in the wrong reality which women dont respond to. He is placing too much important on his perception of her beauty (founded from the social exploitation that connects with a mans inner desire for sex) and placing it all on her before he even knows what she is really like. This really is selsh. His chance with a hot woman is next to none in our country. Women still want men to be men despite their own sexed up appeal. Womens behaviors are DRAMATICALLY dierent than women around the world and I dont think our men realize this. I have good news: the way she is acting is NOT natural so you can have some comfort there; and this is whether she is even aware of it or not. More good news; YOU, ME (previously), and other American men behaving like a wuss is NOT natural. Its all founded upon this forced reality weve built up and

is limiting your true success with women AND your longtime self-preservation and peace. Its more than not just being a wuss anymore, you really have to understand ALL of the implications, paradigms and behavior paerns. You have to come from a reality which is stronger than the wuss producing forced reality that our society has created that is 100% pervasive in our media. Its hard to be dierent in taming your emotional response if you dont understand a stronger paradigm that is more closely related to what she responds to anyways. Let me say that you dont have to become a student of seduction or pick up or even be a supergeek in order to experience natural success with women. Its not just a thriving buzz-worthy subculture that deserve to have dating or relationship success; its the majority of the men in American and the women as well. In fact, most men although a lile tense and desperate for sex (especially with the carrot being waved in front of us all the time) just dont want to change their own behavior. Lile do seduction experts realize that they are adapting to our own forced reality while not even being aware of the natural paradigm that women are aching for (real men who lead strong lives who arent trying to pick them up but) where it happens naturally. Seduction experts are geing laid but really are just nding eective ways to deal with these womens high level social persona and how to counteraack it by becoming rejection proof warriors (literally) of this new social dynamic. Like I said, most men just arent ready to go to that extreme in order to be successful, they are just confused. They know that women want to meet real men like them but are wondering why they arent. Well, its because theyre acting wussy and giving her the favor. These men dont have to be jerks or bad boys to counteraack not being a wuss (of course that accelerates the biological araction with these women) but there is a completely dierent paradigm that no one is seeing which has goen covered up; that we are ALL naturals. You cant be a wuss and to stop being a wuss and truly be yourself, you have to become fully aware of your own inherent right to power and 100 other things. You have the power and the forced reality is stripping away your success and a huge chunk of your own balance, placement and lifelong happiness. Once you understand fully what has been holding you back and realize there IS

another paradigm that women are desperate for men to be coming from INSTEAD of being wussies (or even pick up artists which they will fall for now and then), and that is that of a natural. Dewussifying yourself can come through the mass understanding of all of these dynamics as taught in my Mens Guide to Women. It is THE single greatest tool for dewussifying the American male because it covers the root psychological and social issues that seducers and even 50/50 relationship counselors cant even see because theyre dwelling in the wrong paradigm in the rst place. If youre not going to go the route of seduction expert to try and get some from women, but would rather have them be aracted to you and (like a more natural man anyways) live in alignment with your true self and give women what they want, then youre going to have to have a massive leverage of change to stop being a wussy. That leverage really is all within the Mens Guide. Surface solutions or the next pick up line just cant cut it; those are such short term xes that are variables anyways. Women really respond powerfully to a man who is fully ground and congruent in his reality and there leverage to nd these men is GREAT. You have a decision. Continue on with your behavior paerns (which arent your foundational fault so dont beat yourself up over it, but youre accountable for) or make the change; the massively leveraged changed and the only one that can bring you back into a level of power and control over your life that youve never had yet. When I achieved this breakthrough all of my fears of women disappeared because I understood everything and how it all t together. It is nothing less than seeing the matrix because it IS our underlying foundational paradigm which has been clouded over. You can have this power. With seduction it could take 2 years of intensive in the eld experience to develop a persona to relate to women to get success; its your call. Combine both if you want but the REAL POWER lies in being a true natural and being your real self without your perceptions of women upfront get in the way. The Mens Guide is the only information like it in the world because its context includes seduction, NLP and why they even have to do that in the rst place. Wussiness it NOT being a true natural. Its time to take your power back.

Its not about being a pure conservative traditionalist but really about understanding why you deserve the power from all of the dierent angles. If you really want to be around a woman who is your everything you need to step back and realize how wussy this really is. Does she really control your own actions and emotions that much? Are you like this all of the time and how would your behavior be in the future when youre actually being your true self? Taking your power back is all about understanding our forced reality, the natural paradigm of reality as well as your options (for short term and long term success). I am the only coach who is teaching both for real success on the male perspective, and ultimately giving what women want in the short-term. They just really have too many issues to solve for the long-term in relationships in order to sele down and be like a simpler mother; she just vcomes with baggage (more like a highly developed man like me except my role IS the provider). I cant even give my approval stamp for independent American women for marriage though they really are awesome people and some of the most fascinating women in the world. Sadly enough many of them really are homewreckers without their own knowledge or acknowledgement of it. I would say that goes for alpha males specically. If youre a man who wouldnt mind some extra drama and challenge in your life and arent as strongly goal oriented as others, maybe it might work as 50/50 but its all about you having the power and choice; its YOUR life. Ironically a man will be more his normal self in a marriage situation when all of the pressures are o only to nd out that the pressures are actually on. Maybe it was like me going through basic training and then thinking things would get beer at my unit but it was the worst psychological time of my life. Things were supposed to be ok, but got worse. Millions of American men have found this out. How did this come about and are men naturally wussy? Remember the historical truth; female empowerment (stemming from the early 20th century) has thrown o the balance of the natural paradigm of relationships that worked. It is the root cause. Because women have the opportunities, freedoms men do and in many cases are just as capable or moreso than men in dierent areas, there is at best a balance of power 50/50 and oentimes completely in her favor. Women are very aware of their power.

So is female rights an issue? Why do I bring it up? Isnt it something that we live with and take for granted? Thats the whole point. Despite its double-edged sword (or burning the candle at both ends) we have to live with the current state of our society. However if we can understand WHY things are the way they are, and see something dierent, you can beer live your life in natural harmony and alignment. This empowerment has thrown o the balance of all types of interpersonal relationships (though we are used to the work environment for several decades now). Her now inherent power extends INTO her relationships. The relationship becomes two people who are unknowingly struggling for power. She has demands and can take care of herself just ne. Men have become confused as to their natural and expected role as leader of the relationship and have understandably let this confusion oppress them. This has changed their behavior paerns around women, partly because of intimidation and the high level drama she brings with her and has led to a subtle shi of power. A man has taken on more feminine qualities in the sense that he has become more wussied. Our media and society does not help this either. What I call the forced reality makes it even harder for men to understand their place in life. Men do not want to be wussies but will oen act like it so as not to hurt an independent womans social persona. Media propagation and the portrayal of men in sitcoms is only perpetuating this new identity of the sensitive man, essentially being made to t in a stronger female inuenced society. It is also directly or indirectly tied to the number of gay people we have as well as the power of sex and beauty exploitation. Men are being oppressed through cultural inuence and perceptual expectations and when they go home to a go-geer wife who voices more opinions than him, he sinks further into his shell. It is not directly our fault that we have been wussied as a national majority of men, neither is it a womans fault that she was brought up to be who she is...its part of life that we are used to. Underneath the cultural forced reality which has been built up in the 20th century, lies a traditional paradigm where women are forced biologically to respond to a man who knows how to create araction in the male rst, female second relationship dynamic.

Underneath it all, man still has his biological right to power despite its almost complete smearing by our mass media except for a few male role models. This means, if you can understand a dierent paradigm; (one in which most of the rest of the world is aligned with) you can live a more naturally aligned life as a man. You can rediscover your own power without shame or confusion and you can BE who you were meant to be while laughing in the face at wussication and how its unnaturally been holding YOU back from clarity and living your life purposely. Millions of lives are in relational turmoil because of the opposite eect of part of the greatness of our culture. Families are being torn apart every single day in America. Millions or billions of dollars won and lost yearly in ridiculous lawsuits by victimized or gold-digger mentalities. Lives destroyed and why? I think you might be seeing it. Maybe I wouldnt have to be so adamant if millions of mens lives really were being massively aected. What about lighter issues such as 40 year old virgins (which is NOT a light issue to those who are it)? What about how women will oen reject men before they even approach her? Why do women treat men the way they do? Why do men dread marriage and oen refer to it as a ball and chain? Why do a large number of wives nag? Is this natural? Keep reading.. Sadly, for our women, if men took all of their power back, women would be disadvantaged for long term relationships because men will nd that there are generally FAR more desirable women for marriage than an American woman. The power right now is currently in womens favor and massively so for starting relationships (despite what they may say, they dont want it to be). Unfortunately millions of American men are limiting their thinking and geing themselves into yet another troubled relationship without understanding why or what is really going on. The U.S. has a 50% divorce rate; second to none in the world. We have relationship and marriage counselors who themselves have been divorced. Everyone is looking at the surface level dynamics. In fact, how we live today is so pervasive or saturated that we cant even remember what it used to be like or see the real root of the problem. I guarantee you there are grandparents le today that are shaking their heads at what has happened in our soci-

ety and marriage. How is it that aer 57 years of marriage together, my remaining grandmother will still talk to my grandfather aer his death (and they had rocky times), when today some women will curse, nag, throw appliances at her husband and take him for everything hes worth in a bier divorce? What has changed here? What did MEN do to deserve this? Maybe act a lile friendly or wussy to her when he met her and then seled into his comfortable own self when they got married? Is this reason alone for the behavior paerns of millions of American wives to nag? Is money really the cause of divorce? What do you think? Money is an inanimate object..too much of anything can be hazardous (ie. water). Thats just an answer our relationship counselors and others have come up with to try and explain because they cant see what the real root of the problem is. And yes it is a problem. Ask the millions of divorced men who were just being themselves in a marriage. Should marriage have to be like this? Im here to bring some hope to men but also to explain a lile bit about where the wussication came from and the dynamics in our long term relationships with our new women. It will be up to you how you deal with it and make decisions in your life. Its not your fault no one taught you this before or made you aware. It took me a decade to nally see it aer much observation, objectication and insight. Ive had to step outside our society many times and view things from a dierent perspective. Is it a womans fault for acting the way she does towards men or expecting so much? She has even more power than men in many cases. Its how she was brought up. These are great women that are really more like us (and in some cases smarter and more capable), but just have a lot of drama for the long haul that I cant deal with. Could you? What is sad is that most American men cant explain why they are so confused when its comes to dealing with and especially living with American women. In their relationship they do not feel that everything is right. I will be heavily focusing on marriage relationships here because I want to take you to the end in mind so you are really aware of what is going on in our society. I will say

though that my DEwussication manual (Mens Guide to Women eBook) will allow you to have massive success with beautiful, independent women in shorter term relationships (consenting adults). There is a great leverage of powerful knowledge in the Mens Guide which will allow you to have natural success with women without having to become a super-devoted PUA (pick up artist) or student of seduction. You will be able to give women what they want as well as more fully understand the global dynamics I am introducing here. Geing that ebook is a simple solution for the American man to have much more success in dating (loosely dened term) women. But the long-term implications of these dynamic women leads to turmoil in at least half of all relationships in the U.S. because the man thought he was supposed to have the power. She cant help being who she is. You can have the power if you so choose to stop any wussy behavior you have had, clear away all confusion if you open your mind and be more successful in all of your relationships with women while being more naturally aligned as a man. Men do not want to be repressed; its NOT in our nature. Our general wussication is the pure result of the empowerment of women and the changing dynamics it presents. I have personally felt oppression and wussication while in some relationships with American women...I just stopped being myself around her..the glimmer in the tigers eye faded. This is what our nation of men is going through and they KNOW that something isnt right but they are having to deal with the challenge and trying hard to make relationships work. Weve all found ourselves going along with what our society is and preaches (on feminine power) because its now the part of the fabric of our nation and is probably irreversible. Despite its advantages, not until I realized what dire problems this really reveals did I understand why its so important. Millions of men are confused when it comes to dealing with women and relationships and especially marriage with our 50% divorce rate. Millions of families are broken and not because of money. What is the reasoning behind this? There IS reasoning and up until now its just been invisible.

Some pussy-tranced men cant really see down the road when choosing to be around an exciting fascinating desirable and drama-ful woman; shes everything. They also dont realize that theyre NOT acting like their real self when meeting her; theyre putting on a nice front to try to appease her when she knows what they want anyways. But further down the road if he chooses a real go-geer, lile does he realize his price to pay will be a lot of his own character in the power tradeo. If shes the world to you, shell probably OWN YOU and there is trouble down the road unless you WANT to be an oppressed and wussied man with nothing beer to do than to get your drama and energy from your beauty queen. If youre thinking shes the one and youd do anything for her, think about the long term implications; is it really going to be like this a year into marriage or are you going to be more who you really are as a man? Many men are wussied because of our culture so much so that it is part of their character and personality permanently. This is sad but if they want to get their inspiration from a woman who can unintentionally play the lead in the family, then maybe it would work out. But if the man is strong and the woman is strong, watch out (just look at our celebrities). The signals are really quite obvious and can even begin if she orders something from a restaurant and is extremely picky. There are signs that you can look for by using my fast forward technique to prevent future stress. Why are men oen so afraid to stand up to women? Especially in a long term relationship? Oen it may seem like a losing bale and they just let her have control due to their confusion. Hey, those men got themselves into that situation in the rst place, but maybe they didnt see it coming or didnt realize there were other options. Maybe they just didnt see the signs. American women generally today are so demanding, picky and nicky more than EVER in the history of the world. Their qualities have become more like a mans yet oen exacerbated due to their more emotional nature and actions are oen quite unexplainable. Once again, am I the hardcore traditionalist who thinks a woman should be barefoot and pregnant over the kitchen sink? No. You see...the problem with the hardcore traditionalists is that they wont admit that

there have been women of power or inuence who have added value to all of our lives. They dont think that ANY women should have power. Could you imagine how boring our world would be without that? If women wouldnt be allowed to do anything like sing, dance, work, compete or build a business? I just cant agree with the hardcore traditionalists on the angle that no woman should have power. If its up to me, hey, give more women power because Ill be dating them short term and being friends with the rest of them BUT I just wont marry one unless I expect drama and daily bales. There are other options for that, plus I understand the macro dynamics, how to create araction, etc.. I want peace in my life long term because I have too much drama in what I do for work. Men have drama at work and are coming home to even greater drama. They didnt ask for this level of stress (or did they unknowingly by marrying her?). Marrying an independent go-geer woman could possibly be a losing proposition for the average guy. Despite her positive aributes, if youre married now to a strong woman, please try to make it work and be very careful with the powerful information you have now. What you do is in your hands and I dont recommend that you start treating her much dierently just because you realize a few foundational things now. This information is more geared towards single men to get them informed on our REAL social dynamics and the implications it brings. Of course in relationships there is love and Im not denying that. But there is also a lot of additional baggage of drama and love/hate that men are nding out when theyre married. Her behavior paerns will change. Sometimes within a week aer the honeymoon especially if she thinks youre a hot catch with a lot of money and even if you have it all together yourself; shell dupe you whether intentionally or not in many cases. Look at Scarle OHara and Rhe Butler in Gone with the Wind. Same story. He had it together and she was a feisty one that withheld sex from him. Im a strong-minded man and no woman is going to hold me back or down in life. It just cannot and will not happen. I know what my destiny is and you could oer me Adriana Lima herself on the condition of Id have to give up my destiny and I would without thought turn her down.

I wouldnt do it. Why would I get myself into a situation where anything prohibits me from completing my life goals? What kind of magnet do you think I am for women if I stand this strong? I also teach you in my work to develop your own strong lifestyle so you cant be swayed by emotional response of the wrong paradigm. If you choose a woman who is strong, beautiful, opinionated and independent there are GOING to be consequences; its a double-edged sword and aer a while you may be asking what positive benet there is at all especially once your perception of her glory fades and the other side of her comes out. Short term, as soon as you let a woman like this know how you feel is the time that she will stop returning your phone calls. Its a predictable paern. Men today though are oen questioning their role as leader of the house because of the constant demands on her part; hey, its just part of who she is and now you have to live with it. It was like puing my class reunion together where I was in control but my go-geer vice president being outspoken as she is made it seem like she was doing all the work (which was great, less for me). Im a producer though...at one point she went weak and of course I pulled us through in the end. But I couldnt imagine being married to a woman like this but wussy men really are and maybe they dont mind; its up to you to decide where you are. A man will be himself and wondering what he is doing wrong (if anything)? Repression (which he didnt know about) on the womans part will turn to nagging her husband. Is this natural? It is for HER. She is socially conditioned to expect a lot and she knows how to take care of herself, why should she have to listen to everything he says? This is just pushing American husbands into a state of confusion and more wussication. Theyre (understandably) questioning their own ability to lead the family when they ARENT the problem in the rst place; theyre just living with an independent woman. And if thats just how they are...well, Im not going to live with that, Im just going to go a dierent route and nd a woman who just doesnt come with all of the drama and baggage in the rst place anywhere near that level. Men naturally know HOW to lead a family but women today are challenging that with their actions. The power of women has thrown the traditional paradigm of balance o in a marriage.

Is it supposed to be 50/50? Two equal partners coming together? Hah. We only THINK it is because thats all weve been taught and shown. Its more like this 50/50 formula = 50% divorce rate. Her behavioral characteristics are unknowingly threatening the very existence of the relationship because the man IS being himself (and trying to) in the long term relationship. Its her power that dees all of tradition and has thrown the balance o and people cant gure it out. There have been a few Joan of Arcs and Cleopatras throughout time but rarely like there are today in our culture. There is no question in the Bible and I believe in all major religions that the man is the obvious predestined head of household and its not even to be questioned. But oh... its questioned by the feminists. How dare women be repressed through all of time? which translates to our modern day How dare men know their place as head of the house to keep the family together and try to tell her what to do? Well..thats whats happening. Traditional women KNOW their role and dont question it. They arent on power trips like many women in our society today (as we know why). Our men are wussied and oppressed because of having to deal with their own wives more independent and mature/opinionated aributes. They were the natural leader of the house but her behaviors make them question everything. Men should ultimately be their true self in a long term relationship and wussication isnt leing that happen because even though a husband may be comfortable on the couch with a beer and her resentment grows into nagging, he is still being held back partly in fear of the response she will have to more of his actions, like hes actually doing something wrong or something. There are dierent traditional roles that can be taken on so things are balanced. For example the husband can earn 90% of the income and spend 10% of his time with the kids while the wife spends 90% of the kids. 50/50 is just what were accustomed to in our culture. Balance in the marriage is traditionally more role focused, whereas now that ground is fragile to walk on. Will I start and raise a family? Yes, I want to. But for it to work, Im going to have to get a wife who knows her biological and traditional role of taking care of the kids 90%

of the time, cleaning, cooking and supporting me while I provide for, protect them and keep working on achieving my lifetime goals. Imagine the train wreck or wrench just thrown into the system like so many American men are experiencing DAILY when a wife wont do the basics of what he thought was expected of her and when does do it, she nags. I have SEEN this. My dads been married several times and his latest wives would just bitch, gripe, nag and complain about anything and nothing. HE had to do the cooking because they wouldnt. Ive been telling him for years that there are no options in Wisconsin. Sorry to say but around there if there are ANY good looking women theyre taken right away. His small thinking le him limited to what was only surrounding him in a couple counties but he is now opening his mind to other options aer the great drama and trauma he has suered through while he was just being himself during marriage. One of my friends was married to a woman that would be a witch when I was there... screaming, yelling and telling him to do things and what shes not going to do while he and I were working on our business. Finally they got divorced. I just cant imagine this level of drama in my life (100% unacceptable) or why ANY guy would want to put up with it. Divorce ISNT supposed to happen but in our new reality its EASY to see why. Its a power struggle. If a guy can come home to a clean house and a good meal aer work without hearing any drama or bickering, in todays day and age for millions of men that would just be a sign from heaven and they would be so grateful. What is WRONG with this picture? Nothing. Thats how it used to be. Thats how our grandparents made it work. Hmm...Oh, but watch what you say around the feminists.. whatever. Im not going to let a group of women who have histories of failed relationships or resentment towards strong men tell me how to live what I know is universally and biologically accurate. Are you? Its your life. Remember who is going to give you less drama; the nagging resentful and repressed wife at home or a wife who naturally does those things because its how she was brought (and more biologically accurate)?

Im talking about the lile things. Cooking and household chores geing done WITHOUT any nagging. Is that even possible some guys ask? Of course. You probably married a strong woman though if youre geing the nagging issue and youre probably not doing anything wrong, just in her mind you are. It does NOT have to be like this. You shouldnt have to wonder Whos going to catch it next? As my dad said about one of my stepmothers who would throw kitchen utensils around and pound hammers into doors. Whether its right for a more traditional woman to demand that her husband cook or clean instead of her or that she should DEMAND more because she heard a bossy American woman say she should be more independent who herself is successful in work and other areas but has her life all screwed up in when it comes to relationships; who do you want to hear it from? Why do you think the Russian bride trend is growing? I speak again for women around the world in most cultures; its ok to want to care for their kids and stay at home and hold the fort together as her main purpose in life. I didnt realize how admirable this is until recently. Raising kids is no small thing...I dont think I could deal with the time, demands, drama and stress of it (because its not in my nature, nor most mens). A mother is supposed to be the primary nurturer role, and the father secondary. What is wrong with having a woman who actually supports you, does her natural roles without complaining most of the time and gives you a massage once in a while (I can hear the feminists cringe on this one)? Nothing. You just have to nd a woman who is naturally like that. My suggestion? Go East. Far East. Because you will not nd her in the U.S. unless you nd an enclave of naturally traditional women that havent had the mainstream social inuence and conditioning. Fathers can actually enjoy raising a family, living domestically with that perfect balance that has been right through all of the ages WITHOUT geing a divorce or having additional drama, keeping the family together if they get a wife who REALLY IS more traditional and natural in her behavior paerns and beliefs. Yes, theyre not as exciting or drama-ful but will allow you to be your true self. And they will be their true self because they havent been brought up to demand things from men. Marriage doesnt even seem half bad when you have an option like this.

Guys, many of you are going to HAVE to look outside the boundaries which our culture has set upon you. Our media itself is so pervasive that its near impossible to escape its inuence. You can go anywhere in the world within 48 hours -ANYWHERE. You get on a plane. Step o a plane and all of a sudden youre in a dierent country still holding the same carry-on bag you had when you le (it still fascinates me). Its a refreshing break to experience women who ARE more natural and who just dont bring the same level of expectations and drama to the table. With traditional women, its not that the man is repressing them; they KNOW what to do as wife or mother and will respect the word of the head of the household, the man. Of course he should not abuse his role though. Guys, theres nothing wrong wanting to come home when youre married aer a hard days work and expecting food to be cooked and your wife to give you a kiss on the cheek without nagging. Actually, there is something wrong with that if youre married to a woman who is too combatant. Its only been recently and because of the power our society has given women that have things changed. Yes, our men have been confused as to this power shi. The women just expect things will work out and that theyll make it work. But modern day man is being repressed and wussied due to these changes. What happened to tradition? Women today in American just ARE dierent. Its up to YOU whether you want to live with that and feel the eects of some wussication (whether you admit it or not). Divorce rates of American men marrying foreign women are of course much lower than American man and woman geing divorced. Why do you think this is? Something just really IS DIFFERENT about most of the other women in the world. Whats dierent? Theyre normal. Theyre traditional. They havent been brainwashed by social programming in a way. Heres the thing...Ive never been aracted to the traditional American woman whose only goal was to get married and have a family. Now I really respect that like never before. HOWEVER, Im still not interested in American women even like that for geing married too. Ultimately yes I may have to sele for quite a bit more boring wife (by some terms) yet one that will not bring all the B.S. drama that a guy just doesnt need in his life.

Wouldnt it be nice when youre ready to have a wife who will support you and know her traditional role because youre playing yours? Im interested in international women especially from Asia now who are more traditional naturally yet to me they arent as boring as American traditional women. They have something dierent, an intriguing twist and a lot of it has to do with the black hair. I think generally blonde women are overrated anyways. Why is there just brunees and it stops there? Black haired women represent the majority of women in the world and arent even represented with a name in the U.S. until now; I call them ravens. If men today could open their eyes to other options they might gure out that what would work best for them in the long run is to consider a more traditional wife who can fully allow the man to be himself and lead the family without any drama or challenge. In todays society in America though, our wussication has become so strong it aects mans behavior around women so that maybe he thinks he would want a woman like this for the long run. Think about the future and be aware of your options. Look at whats really going on. Do you WANT to get divorced and have drama in your life? 50% is a very high number and a high probability. I want to give YOU the power of awareness so you can choose. I understand and accept the responsibility if it comes down to it that I am speaking for millions and millions of American men. I have that courage to stand up to the media and represent us. So if you got a major news media connection, hey let me know. Now...do you think Im going to be afraid of ANY woman who thinks her sh*t dont stink? No. You have to be strong in who you are as a man and not let your perception of her beauty stop you from being your true self at all points in time. Women today want men to be like men and act like men. They dont want men treating them like they are the world; they want you to have your own life going on. It dees biology and tradition itself for HER to be in control (todays women wont say this but they know and feel it). You have to look at her actions instead of her words. Women are just as confused as men but in dierent ways. They expect men to stand up and be men despite their own

feminine empowerment which is basically on his level. She cant tell a man how to act; he just has to know. Wussied men are NOT acting normally or naturally and stand lile chance with the hoest women. So I guess my challenge to you is; are you going to be a man and reclaim your inherent right to power? Are you going to stop puing up with American womens manipulative behavior because you nally see whats going on and the reasoning behind all of it? Thats up to you. Put your foot down (Im talking to single guys). You dont have to put up with any drama that violates your independent paradigm of reality; you dont have time for it and dont accept. In short term relationships this creates araction; long term it will lead to nagging just because of the type of woman were dealing with. You cant tame the shrew long term. American women feel a gut level araction to the bad boy. Why? Because hes really the opposite balance of her in many ways even though its not someone she would sele down with. These women are more likely to get involved with a bad boy because they are themselves strong and need that level of emotional and sensual kick that is missing from their lives. Now...healthy women from around the world will just plain STAY CLEAR AND AWAY from these bad boys because they know that they will probably abuse them. Now they may still have sexual fantasies about that and Im with the women on that. Just because a women may daydream of rape and the scintillating thrill that may come with it doesnt mean that a guy should EVER rape a woman. Always, ALWAYS have consensual relations. Would you sacrice being yourself just so you could have the pleasure of being around a beautiful woman? For the long term? Wheres your own dignity and selfrespect? The women that you really want are aracted to men who know what they want and where theyre going. So what is the type of man a woman would sele down with? Hopefully one that acts like a man in the sense that he is the obvious leader of the relationship. Unfortunately our women are so socially conditioned to have high expectations along with their own

empowerment and independence that they WILL resent a man that tries to hold them down. I dont want to marry a woman who is as independent and developed as men because I have strong lifetime goals. Many women today will wipe a man clean and try and get all of his money. Its in their nature and is unfortunately a very American thing. I think theres a balance...we oer the most value to the world in many ways but there are just as many screwed up things about our country as there are good things it seems. Litigations uncomparable to other countries, victim mentality, poverty, divorce rate, gold-diggers, etc. You know what is really geing irritating? The way that American men are now portrayed in television on sitcoms. I dont even fall into the trap of watching that crap. I watch movies and if I do watch t.v. its for an event or 1 or 2 shows Ill follow each year. But Ive heard that its geing worse and worse. American men are being portrayed as bumbling stupid imbeciles who are weak, cant make decisions and the women are strong and will save the day? This is preposterous. What does this say about our nation? Where are the real men to stand up to this crap?! I will. How about you? Its pathetic and I suppose its mostly women watching it (so they get even more independent) but come on.. Clear wussication. Oh, a lot of guys have fallen into that trap though...met a beautiful woman who was everything they thought they wanted and there were sparks and romance because she was a strong desirable woman. Then the honeymoon is over and they realize what theyve got themselves into and shes happy. It was her goal to snag a man. Thats not a bad goal because its traditional except theres a whole underlying subtext in which you may nd yourself struggling for power, handing over more money to her than you thought you would, etc. Independent women can provide short term passion, drama and romance at the level that more traditional women just cant. And of course men like you and me can give them this much desired emotion and drama or fulllment that they crave on a short term (even drama-free) basis. The more traditional women though...theyre more stable...they have to be stable to

raise a family properly. The downside is theyre not going to be as exciting and this is something Ill probably have to concede in order to have a stable, happy family where I can be myself. Hey if youre a guy who doesnt have a life plan and doesnt want one...you might enjoy the drama that a beautiful American woman can bring to your life. She can be the light in your life but youre going to have to suck up that energy of hers and be struggling with power or mutual decisions (and mutual arguments) all of the time. As a man you have to have standards. Fortunately (for many men) American women are now bending those standards because they can now be aracted to guys that arent at their level of physical appearance or beauty. This gives average or augly guys a chance for once in history to get a hot woman. Otherwise, traditionally it would rarely ever happen I believe in your same country unless there was a forced marriage or he was really rich. Actually now, Ive seen fat balding old guys get hot young women from asian countries. Now part of this araction does have to do with money and opportunity but really the foundation is that hell take care of her; and thats her way of surviving and perpetuating. Just dont look at the guys to judge the girls because they really are of the highest quality and those guys are keeping it a secret. Well up until now maybe it has been a secret but if you havent been to Thailand you just have NO idea. No idea. Im not just talking about bar girls either. Youll nd that the entire Thai culture is about the happiest people on earth. They have a level of respect that I havent seen in most of America. There are hidden droves of real Thai women that arent bar girls who would really make perfect wives. Im keeping a few options on the burner for when I might be ready. Now feminists would cringe at the word perfect wife but why? Only because theyre not going to be the perfect wife. Theyll easily complain that they dont have the perfect husband. That leaves something amiss with them and they cant gure out why they cant hold a relationship unless its with a wussy guy who isnt being his natural self either.

All of this information may shock you. It may bring to you tears. It may cause you to beat your chest and scream like Tarzan and it may change your life - really. Marriage CAN actually be a pleasant, blissful experience of harmony instead of a daily struggle of being tied down with a prison ball and chain. Traditional marriage dynamics are what works and has through all of time. This is where a man is NOT wussied, nor is he challenged in his role as head of the house. Is it a long term plan? If you want to be a lifetime bachelor and stay in the US. go for it. But eventually you might want to sele down with a more emotionally stable woman who wont continue to give you the drama. I have an Uncle whose wife basically controls everything and he just resents it but theyre still married because theyre old time Christians who arent supposed to divorce. Is THAT what marriage is supposed to be like? Millions of couples stay together because of the kids. Come on though; the marriage is that fragile? Hey feminists, women didnt used to be locked in they actually enjoyed their housewife role and didnt give the drama and nagging you women do now. If youre geing divorced because of some of these issues. Please try to just foresee the future of what shes going to be like and ask yourself if you can deal with it. Ive given my dad this advice years ago and hes still hasnt gured it out and its cost him a lot of money and hardship. Women today in America naturally ARE more assertive its WHO they are. You cant try and tame the shrew eectively long term. Shakespeare didnt tell the rest of the story. Just understand that youre ACCEPTING to deal with her drama by choosing an independent woman for however long with the relationship in THE FIRST PLACE. If you go for the more traditional woman who would yes make a beer wife, just try to not break her heart if she isnt the one for you as these women are actually more fragile than the fully independent ones. Now, more traditional women may actually expect a lot more of you in terms of commitment. So just be careful and know when youre ready. Theyre expectations may be quite high for marriage, but I want you to have the power and choice. They may want you to marry them on even a short notice. Its their natural instinct.

Long-Term Relational Recap Let me revisit Stepford Wives. There is a lot going on here and I highly recommend you read the book or see the movie. Mahew Broderick plays the nice guy husband to a strong independent wife Nicole Kidman. Without saying, shes wearing the pants in the family and the power is swayed her way. They move to Stepford Connecticut and without giving away all of the details, the main thing going on is this; everything seems perfect. Too perfect. All of the wives are happy, good looking, respectful of their husbands, supportive, stay home to cook and clean, etc. All of the husbands (wussies) meet at the country club. Eventually we nd out that all of the husbands were nice guys and theyre women were really strong minded. I understand that you shouldnt in reality change a woman who is really strong back down to the more basics. You just might have to start o with a woman who never gets all of these ideas of dominative tendencies as part of her character and psyche in the rst. Who is going to hold a beer house? A nagging, complaining woman (who complains about anything and nothing) or a more traditional wifey who WANTS to play her traditional role because thats who SHE is. America is outspoken. And Ill speak for the probably 1.5 billion housewives around the world to say that you should be proud of what you are doing. It takes a lot to dedicate yourself to raising a family and keeping house. It is a NOBLE thing and dont let any American outspoken feminazi tell you otherwise. Am I also proposing like The Rock says (I almost met him and Seann William Sco once in the same VIP lounge), Know your role! Well...actually, yeah but its trickier than that. Unfortunately youre not going to be able to take a developed woman and take her back down to the basics as happened in Stepford Wives by taming the shrew. So really the answer for me and perhaps millions of other American men (and men around the world) may be to not get in that losing proposition in the long term in the rst place. Look beyond what a catch SHE is and take your own power back.

We can start a movement here. We really could. We can bring back power to the American man. Then what will American women do? You can take your own power back because you were MEANT to have it. This is why our countrys so screwed up in relationships; the balance of power has tilted the other way. Women have more power than men realize and women know it too, just ultimately resent it. It would be kind of biersweet for these desirable American women to run out of long term actions BECAUSE OF her own dramaful behavior if all of the men in America took their own power back and looked at more reasonable options for wives...maybe THEN the women would tame down, I dont know. But this is issue will continue. I didnt realize how much power women have (in America)...its more than you think. Of course it didnt make sense to me because it didnt seem natural but it really is true and most women know this. They know that they can get things from men when they want by using their feminine power and beauty. I go into this in great detail in my Mens Guide to Women 352 page eBook. Popular culture has continued to pervade this reality. From Madonnas Material Girl to Destinys Child Independent Women to even the prospect of a woman running for President (Hillary Rodham Clinton). The feminist and feminazis can be all hardcore but its really just the American family, marriages and the kids that are suering because of it. American men are confused and know that something doesnt seem right even though theyre doing their part naturally but their wife actually is geing in the way. If youre an American man that hasnt gone out of the country to try your hand with women elsewhere, try it! BELIEVE ME...you DONT know what youre missing. Youll be surprised at how easy it is just to be normal and women will actually respond. Especially in 2nd or 3rd world countries; youll nd that mutually benecial relationships are natural and pleasing compared to the level of drama with American women with headtrips. The dynamics have shied and vastly changed in America. Women do have a lot of power. I know of a lot of families where the woman in the house DOES have the power. Really..shes become the head and controls the money and decisions. Is it right or wrong? You can decide where you stand for yourself. Each family for themselves.

And as long as there is a balance between the two to make decisions and work things out a marriage between two independent people could work out but with a lot of debate, compromise and consolation. Now if youre an American man and married to an independent strong minded woman am I suggesting that you all of a sudden start telling her what to do and expecting more out of her? No. There is a balance of responsibility. I really DO think that if you cant hire a maid, that the woman should do the cleaning and cooking and be a housewife in a marriage. If youre single, decide where you stand on this. In a 50/50 American relationship your wife may not expect to do all of these traditional roles and when she does, may grow up a building resentment towards you for just being yourself which leads to nagging. Shes not used to being treated down (in her perception). So many women now are like, Dont cross my line buddy. Am I saying that women are supposed to be weaker? No. Just naturally as in most cultures around the world, they know what their role is to nurture the kids and stay home to take care of the house; this requires a lot of strength, perseverance and stamina. Youre not going to nd it in relationship counselors. What a eld to be in eh? Many of them have divorced as well. They grew up in this society and they cant see beyond these walls or the big picture of whats going on. Bluntly put: The power our society has given to women by empowering them has led to the degradation of Biblical and traditional foundations built around the natural role of family. Families are broken. And is it because the man isnt providing? No, he is almost always doing his role. Its usually because the woman is more independent than her counterpart in other countries or her great grandmother was. THAT IS WHY. Theres nothing wrong with what has led to female empowerment except that it is the main reason why families fall apart and no one can see this. People say its money why people divorce. No. Moneys neutral. Moneys a tool, a thought. Most people make enough money to cover their family and surviving, hello. Its arguing over money. Lets see here...independent woman who loves to shop and isnt as content as her counterpart great grandmother versus the husband who in

most cases is trying to keep it together. THE REASON FOR DIVORCE ISNT MONEY. Like I said theres something invisible going on that no one can see until now. Its crept into our entire society and way of living. The invisible-ness is her empowerment, for beer or worse (is THAT right?) Not only that, weve gloried and empowered. Of course its expected an American woman will have her way because she knows how to take care of herself. Then comes the power struggle in a relationship because the man knows how to do that naturally so they bicker. And the drama ensues. Let me say again; I love independent women because they are strong like a real man (mentally) except still feminine in their ways. I can talk with them. They have interesting things to say. Were on the same level in many ways. Would I marry one? Not unless I want to bring SUPER drama into my daily life. Im talking unnecessary drama. I am an alpha male provider and I dont do certain things period. Someone like me should really marry someone who is my opposite and I dont mean opposite as equal. I mean polar opposite. So if youre a strong male personality for the LONG TERM try and get a wifey that will not give you additional drama about the roles YOU expect her to have and do. Do we as guys NAG and COMPLAIN to women about work and our jobs or whatever? For the most part NO. Then why in America if men are being men and providing without complaining are our women just nagging and complaining about every lile thing? It IS a cultural thing. Its so permeated into our way of living that we dont even see it anymore. But it just hurts marriages. A woman in America today..its just naturally going to be harder for Her to go back to a traditional role because she wasnt brought up in it. So much of American marriages are a power struggle. I strongly BELIEVE in pertaining to a fathers role that its more important to spend quality time than quantity time with your kids. Its ok to be out there providing for your family but do make sure that you do spend quality time with them and love them and create unforgeable memories. On that note, I also think its the wifes role to spend most of the quantity time. Really.

So what is the answer for a strong independent woman? My advice for Nicole Kidman is just to nd a lowkey wussboy of a man; seriously. Because then the relationship will be balanced because she can be her independent self and the man would be willing to just be there for her.

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Ok, I know that the relationship part was kind of long but I just kept writing when I wrote it and wanted to include it. Its important things to think about, not from a frustrated American mans viewpoint but from one who doesnt accept such drama or give in to anything that would violate his own reality. I recommend that you develop your own strong life goals and reality and instead of focusing so much energy on women, step back and let them come to you. Be selective and dont act like you have to have sex with (and show it) every single hot girl that walks by. So, yes the relationship material was important to look at here because there are two sides to this story here: The Wussication of the American Male AND dealing with her power for the long run. Ive included that information to help you get a picture that you arent the only one at fault (though you are accountable for who you are) if you have been acting wussy (remember I used to be one too from pure confusion). Women are NOT acting naturally and that is the primary cause for the behavior pattern of wussiness in male American society. Also men are partly to blame by leing our forced reality of added value and sexuality get to them so much that it really DOES aect their behavior so that they get skerred and incongruent with who they really are any time they see a hot woman. Ultimately, I think all of us as men have had wussy behaviors in relating to women purely because of how we were brought up in our society and culture which perpetuates a forced reality on top of the natural paradigm of araction and mating where your true success lies. Being a wussy is unnatural; center your life on principles. Its your call now...you know too much. Your aware of information most men will go their whole lives without and that which is will oen destroy them and massively aect their true character and strength of being a man. At least be aware and empowered yourself. You have more self-control and power than you know of. For complete DEwussication, youll have to get my Mens Guide to Women where I

The Mens Guide to Women:

Chapter Titles
The Great (Dating) Paradox Your Greatest Breakthrough: Profound Universal Paradigm Why Mom Was Right & What Went Wrong Prehistory of Her Empowerment: Tradition Feminism: Double-Edged Sword What the Traditionalists are Missing Sexual Revolution: A Flock of Seagulls? Pedestal: The Pervasive Illusion of Forced Reality Global Reality Check & Cultural Dierentiation What Dating Experts & Marriage Counselors are Missing The Oppression of Modern Manhood Sex Sells: Pussytrance & the Stripclub Project The 40 Year Old Virgins Paradox Outlets & The Russian Bride Trend Denying Invisible Forced Reality & Your Oppression Compound Regression & Reclaiming Back Years of Your Life Opportunities of our Modern Social Dynamics Redening Dating for Your Lifestyle Sex & the Modern Metro Woman Similarities Between Average Girls & Models: Take Your Pick Uber Player: AMP NLP, Pick-up Lines & Techniques vs. Your New Reality Your Secret Weapon: Indierence Return to Blue Lagoon Where have all the Cowboys Gone? Drama Queen: How a Beautiful Woman or Model Thinks Traditional vs. Independent Female Psychology What Women Want Being a Man & Her Take on Nice Guys Down Boy!: Your Emotional Control & Anti-Drama Solvency The Bale of Realities Breaking Her Illusory Weapons Grade Social Persona The Importance of Action & Without Fear

Evasive Maneuver & Tactics Stealing Her Frame Fast Forward Power Technique A Shark Tale: Your Greatest Leverage for Wisdom & Action Money & Other Dynamics: A virtual non-issue Shy guy? No Problems Diamond Clarity: Leading the Direction Natural Progression to Sex & Why Youre Already OK Techniques for Further Internalization & Grounding Interdependent Relations with Women Everywhere International Player & Interracial Dating Passion or Coincidence? An Objective View of Bitches & Hos In Our Society Pussy Control With or Without Her: Love Song Lyrics & You Sex, Lies and Videotape: When Stars Collide Long Term Relationship & Marriage Dynamics Bale of the Sexes for a Reason Taming of the Shrew? 50% Divorce Rate Divorce Prevention Center of your Universe The Rules for Men Becoming Congruent with your Own Reality Empowering Incantations & Beliefs Manifestations: Proof of your New Reality Be Cool Be Her Hero A Whole New World Social Buery The World Is Yours: Recap Thanks for reading and please spread this eBook to your friends! Rion Williams rion@modelmagnet.com Find out More Order Mens Guide to Women