Kids have been getting a lot of attention for troubling behavior recently...committing mass shootings, posting disturbing viral videos and lashing out at their parents with shocking rage. What is going on!?! In this episode, renowned author and counselor Kim John Payne clears up misconceptions about "disobedient" children and explains how you can bring a balance of power back to your household. SHOWNOTES: Be Inquisitive, Not Accusatory [18:00] When a Child is Distressed, Connection is Key  [27:00] Why it's a Mistake to Give Kids Too Many Choices [31:00] Don't Take it Personally When Your Kid Pushes Your Buttons [45:00] Are You "Peer Parenting"? [49:00] What You Can Do to Take Back the Leadership Role [58:00] Kim's Take on Youth Involvement in Mass Shootings [1:01:00] How to Parent Post National Tragedy [1:04:00] Your Home the War Zone [1:10:00] The Four Types Love & Why We Shouldn't Confuse Them [1:16:00] For the full web post for this episode visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast185