We could not be more excited to talk sex and dating with one of the greats, Shan Boodram. We chat with the sexologist/relationship expert/best-selling author about taking control of your love life, making the first move (it might not be what you think), being your most desirable self, communicating better with your partner, asking for what you want in the bedroom, relationship commitment styles and if "monogamy is dead", and more. We're also sharing our listeners' go-to sexts, and giving exciting updates on a few situations from recent episodes. Hope you enjoy! Follow Shan on Instagram @ShanBoody and check out her show Sexology on Quibi. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Uqora: Get proactive about urinary tract health and 20% off at uqora.com/gge. Bright Cellars: Visit brightcellars.com/gge and receive 50% off your first 6-bottle box. Candid: Go to candidco.com/gge, code GGE for your risk-free starter kit + $75 off. Ritual: Get 10% off during your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge.