Unit 1
Definition of Communication (1 of 2)
The exchange of thoughts, messages, or the like, as by speech, signals or writing. To express oneself in such a way that one is readily and clearly understood.
Definition of Communication (2 of 2)
Communication is shared feelings/shared understanding. If you can honestly achieve that goal, you are communicating.
Communication Skills
7% words
38% style
Communication Skills
Why Communication
to express our emotions achieve joint understanding to get things done pass on and obtain information reach decisions develop relationships
Communication Skills
Communication Skills
Informal
Methods of Communication
One-Way
Two-Way
Collaborative
Components of Communication
Components of Communication
Context
Every message whether oral or written begins with context. It is a broader term which includes country culture, organization, internal and external stimuli. Context prompts you for sending / receiving messages and helps you in designing a successful message. Your education, past experience, liking, disliking, job status, age and confidence influence the way you communicate with others. For effective communication, your ability to translate the context of your receiver is as important as is yours. Receiver context includes his culture, expectations, values, opinions, mental ability, needs, skills, etc.
Components of Communication
Sender Encoder
As a sender encoder, you use symbols that express you message and create the desired response.
Message
You must first decide what the main point of your message is and what other information to be included. It consists of both verbal (spoken and written) and nonverbal symbols
Components of Communication
Medium
Your medium depends upon all the contextual factors (already discussed), and the nature of the message. The choice of the medium depends upon the relationship between the sender and receiver 1- Inside your organization (Memo, Reports, Meetings etc.) 2- Outside your organization (Letters, Proposals, faxes, ads, discussions, interviews etc.)
Components of Communication
Oral
Immediate feedback Shorter sentences; words Conversational Focus on inter personal relations Prompt action More imperative, interrogative and exclamatory sentences
Written
Delayed feedback Longer sentences More formal Focus on content Where evidence of record is required Detailed documentations Possibility of review
Components of Communication
Receiver Decoder The message receiver is your reader or listener also known as decoder, as s/he decodes your encoded message. Receiver is influenced by his context and by his mental filter.
Feedback
Feedback can be a desire action, an oral or written message, or simply a silence. It is the most important part of communication process.
Communication Process
Encoded Message
Sent Message
Received Message
Receiver
Sender
Received Feedback
Feedback
Decoded Message
Components of Communication
1.
Context
a) b)
Have you considered the cultural and organization convention concerning the environment of your message? Have you thought about the specific reasons for and objectives of your message?
2.
Sender encoder
a) b)
Recognize the internal attitudes can influence your message Realize that the words you are using reveal something about you
Components of Communication
3. Message
a) b)
Is the central purpose clear ? Verbal and nonverbal elements are considered ? Which medium should be used? Oral for urgent; written for less urgent; Ask yourself: Are the symbols used are clear in the medium I have chosen? Are you, as the sender, aware of the attitudes and perceptions of your receiver? Are there any physical, emotional, mental or cultural factors in the receiver mind that could affect your message?
4. Medium
a) b)
5. Receiver - decoder
a) b)
Components of Communication
5. Feedback
a)
b)
Have you allowed for feedback to your receiver / message? Have you been precise about when you desire the feedback?
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Event X
Perceptual screens
Perceptual screens
Influence message quality, accuracy, clarity Include age, gender, values, beliefs, culture, experiences, needs
Reflective Listening
Reflective Listening - the skill of listening carefully to another person and repeating back to the speaker the heard message to correct any inaccuracies or misunderstandings
This complex process needs to be divided to be understood What I heard you say was we will understand the process better if we break it into steps
Reflective Listening
Emphasizes receivers role Helps the receiver & communicator clearly & fully understand the message sent Useful in problem solving
Reflective Listening
Reflective listening emphasizes the personal elements of the communication process the feelings communicated in the message responding to the communicator, not leading the communicator the role or receiver or audience understanding people by reducing perceptual distortions and interpersonal barriers
Expressive speaking
Empathetic listening Persuasive leadership Sensitivity to feelings Informative management
Defensive Communication
Defensive Communication - communication that can be aggressive, attacking & angry, or passive & withdrawing Leads to
injured feelings communication breakdowns alienation retaliatory behaviors nonproductive efforts problem solving failures
Nondefensive Communication
Nondefensive Communication communication that is assertive, direct, & powerful Provides
basis for defense when attacked restores order, balance, and effectiveness
Defensive Tactics
Defensive Tactic Power Play Speaker Boss Example Finish this report by months end or lose your promotion.
Put-Down
Boss
Boss Boss
A capable manager would already be done with this report. You must be a slow learner. Your report is still not done? How can I trust you, Chris, if you cant finish an easy report?
Defensive Tactics
Defensive Tactic Speaker Example
Misleading Information
Scapegoating
Hostile Jokes
Deception
Employee Morgan has not gone over with me the information I need for the report. [Morgan left Chris with a copy of the report.] Employee Morgan did not give me input until just today. Employee You cant be serious! The report isnt that important. Employee I gave it to the secretary. Did she lose it?
Speaker seen as centered, assertive, controlled, informative, realistic, and honest Speaker exhibits self-control & self possession Listener feels accepted rather than rejected Catherine Criers rules to nondefensive communication
1.
2. 3. 4.
Define the situation Clarify the persons position Acknowledge the persons feelings Bring the focus back to the facts
Communication Networks
Y Network All Connected Network
Centralized Networks
Downward
Job instructions Information on organization policies Performance feedback Inform associates about the organizations goals and changes
Upward
Monitor the effectiveness of decisions Provide information Maintain associate morale Ensure that jobs are being done properly
Horizontal
Between associates at the same level Facilitates coordination among organizational units May arise from integrating positions (boundaryspanning positions) 360-degree performance feedback
Interpersonal Communication
Informal includes spontaneous interactions Informal may reach more associates Informal can help build cohesion and friendship among associates Informal may include untrue rumors and gossip
Communication Media
Richest
Message becomes more equivocal Message is more important They need to present a positive self-image
Face-to-face Telephone Electronic messaging Personal written text Do you know which Formal written text media are richer? Formal numerical text
Least rich
Nonverbal Communication
Communication that takes place without using language, such as facial expressions or body language
Facial expressions Use of hands, arms, legs and posture Tone and pitch of voice Use of silence Hand signals Shrugging ones shoulders
Gestures
Nonverbal Communication
No two people are EXACTLY alike No two countries are EXACTLY alike No two cultures are EXACTLY alike
Result Problems with communication occur when the communicator filters are sharply different.
5.
Physical Barriers Psychological Barriers Conventions of Meaning Perception of Reality Values, Attitudes, Opinions
1. Conventions of Meaning a) Miscommunicated instructions b) Reactions towards Denotations, Connotations and Euphemisms Denotation Dictionary meaning of a word while Connotation The emotional implications and associations that a word may carry. For example home and Villa
1. Conventions of Meaning b) Reactions towards Denotations, Connotations and Euphemisms Euphemism is the substitution of an inoffensive term (such as "passed away") for one considered offensively explicit ("died").
Being possessing unique filter (brain) every one of us makes various abstractions, inferences, and evaluations of the world around us. Abstracting when certain facts are selected from provided group of information and omitting the remaining information.
a) Necessary Desirable Abstracts: People other than you may not abstract as you abstract the things because of their limited time, space, interest, etc. Abstraction occurs when a person describe events, people, equipment, projects, animals, objects etc. b) Slanted Statements: (Biased Statements) For example news reporter is taught to include quoted statements in context and to avoid expression of personal approval or disapproval of the persons, objects, or occurrences being described.
2.
Instead
he may state that between 200 and 350 people heard an address yesterday noon by Governor Patton in the auditorium at the Conrad Hotel at Pacific Place.
Instead
he may state that between 200 and 350 people heard an address yesterday noon by Governor Patton in the auditorium at the Conrad Hotel at Pacific Place.
2.
Perception of Reality 2. Inferring Inferences are conclusion drawn from evidence. We make assumptions and draw conclusions even though we are not able to immediately verify the evidence. Some inferences are both necessary and desirable; others are risky , even dangerous.
1. 2.
Organizational communication
Patterns of communication at the organizational level Purpose is to facilitate achievement of organizational goals Involves the use of
Communication Advantages
Increase productivity. Reduce stress. Better understand what others are saying.
Reactions towards Favorable / Unfavorable information Inadequate or Incorrect Information Closed Minds (Rigid views on certain subject) Senders Credibility Environmental / Business / Personal Stress
BARRIERS TO UNDERSTANDING
Communication Barriers
Communication message Communication barriers True understanding
Organizational Barriers
Information overload Noise
Individual Barriers
Differing perceptions Semantic differences
Time pressures
Network breakdowns Information distortion Cross-cultural barriers
Status differences
Consideration of selfinterest Personal space
Communication Barriers
Exhibit 9-3 Communication Eye contact Time orientation Cultural Communication Differences In the United States Direct PunctualTime is Money Elsewhere In many Asian Countries, extended eye contact is unacceptable. Asian and Latin American cultures have longer time horizons; resolving issues is more important than being on time. Many Asian cultures view being direct as rude and aggressive. Many other cultures (e.g., Asian, Russian) find this rude.
Posture
Indicating no
In Japan, a closed body posture is preferred (e.g., crossed arms and legs)
In Bulgaria, the no signal means Im listening, rather than I disagree.
Communication audit
Analysis of an organizations internal and external communication to assess communication practices and capabilities and determine needs Methodology
Hold a planning meeting with all major parties to determine a specific approach and gain commitment to it Conduct interviews with top management Collect, inventory, and analyze communication material Conduct associate interviews Prepare and administer a questionnaire to measure attitudes toward communication
Individual actions
Know your audience Select an appropriate communication medium Encourage feedback Regulate information flow and timing Listen actively
1. Stop talking. Often, we talk more than we should without giving the other person a chance to respond. If we are thinking about what we will say when we talk, we cannot focus attention on the person we wish to listen to. Do not interrupt. 2. Pay attention. Do not allow yourself to be distracted by thinking about something else. Often, we need to make an active effort to pay attention when others are speaking. 3. Listen empathetically. Try to take the speakers perspective. Mirror the speakers body language and give him or her nonjudgmental encouragement to speak.
4. Hear before evaluating. Do not draw premature conclusions or look for points of disagreement. Listen to what the person has to say before jumping to conclusions or judgment.
5. Listen to the whole message. Look for consistency between the verbal and the nonverbal messages. Try to assess the persons feelings or intentions, as well as just facts. 6. Send feedback. In order to make sure that you have heard correctly, paraphrase what was heard and repeat it to the person you were listening to.
WORD STRESS
SENTENCE STRESS
I got a distinction in my exams. Buy lots of bottles of fresh juices as quickly as possible
WORD STRESS
CHUNKING
Anyone can become a manager. But, of course, the unprepared, the untrained, and those given too much responsibility before theyre ready will fail.
ANYONE can become a successful manager. But, of course, the unprepared, The untrained, And those given too much responsibility Before theyre ready Will FAIL.
SPEAKING IN GROUPS
DIALOGUE
From the Latin, dia = through, and, logos = words
3: Presentation
4: Review
Informational databases Electronic mail systems Voice mail systems Fax machine systems Cellular phone systems
Fast, immediate access to information Immediate access to people in power Instant information exchange across distance Makes schedules & office hours irrelevant May equalize group power May equalize group participation
Communication can become more impersonalinteraction with a machine Interpersonal skills may diminishless tact, less graciousness Non-verbal cues lacking Alters social context Easy to become overwhelmed with information Encourages polyphasic activity