BySwati Kumari Sanya Kumari Sibani Murmu Debopriya Das

FAMILY
Family (from Latin: familia) is a group of people affiliated by consanguinity, affinity, or co-residence. In most societies it is the principal institution for the socialization of children The family is the first and formative unit in which human beings grow up.

It can also be the stage for many clashes and tensions

A family begins with the husband's and wife's choice for each other. Communion between husband and wife which in turn establishes a new communion The children who are born have also been given a place in one particular family.

FAMILY

Members of the nuclear use descriptive kinship terms:

Mother: a female parent Father: a male parent Son: a male child of the parent(s) Daughter: a female child of the parent(s) Brother: a male child of the same parent(s) Sister: a female child of the same parent(s)

Grandfather: father of a father or mother

Grandmother: mother of a mother or father Cousins: two people that share the same grandparent(s)

Various relation in a family are:

parent-children

Husband-wife Brother-sister relation between elders

Among these parent-child relation is most important and there are observable changes are arising.

CHILD-PARENT RELATIONSHIP

Early child-parent relationships lay the foundation for : Childrens later social life Emotional

Mentality
School functioning

Changing Relationship Reason

Change in relationship between child and parent

This is arising due to following reasons:
Conflict in their mindset

Generation gap
Unable to get emotionally connected to the child

Cultural conflict
Unable to fulfill the circle of security

Cooper, Hoffman, Marvin &Powell , 2000

Parent-Adolescent Conflict
Parents unable to understand child leading to argument Relative control over personal choices by adolescent Parents over expecting nature bringing immense pressure on the child Conflict is minimized and has more positive outcome if parent-adolescent relationship is renegotiated across the adolescent years

Cultural Conflict with Parents

Not allowing the child to work freely according to their will cultures adherence to parental and generational authority leads to conflict Not allowing the children to freely interact with people of different culture

Historical Change in the Family

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Increase in divorce rate Child unable to handle this and become rebellious in nature Unable to get the love of mother and father at the same time

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Increase in two wage-earner families Unable to give sufficient care to child so the relation weakens The child is unable to share his emotional and social querie and isolation begins

Physical Abuse in the Family

Families in distress are more likely to have physical abuse (e.g. economic, psychological, health stressors) Males more likely than females to be physically abused Abused adolescents: more aggressive, depressed, other problem behavior

MEASURES TO AVOID NEGATIVE CHANGES

Educating Parents

Parents should be more open to their children They must become friends to their children with whom the child can share his feeling Parents need to understand childrens histories to be on alert for trauma the child facing Be realistic about attachment issues but recognize parents ability to hear the concerns Encourage parents to seek treatment

RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PARENTS AND TEACHERS

It would be great if both, school and home unite for the betterment of children and if parents trust teachers and teachers eradicate the bad practices and they cooperate with each other, we are able to provide children a good social environment.

Role of a Teacher
A teacher should be fair, encouraging and praising when there is an occasion for it. A teacher should not play any favorites and should also not form any firm opinion about a child. A teacher should avoid corporal punishments. A teacher should give each child a chance to develop his talents to the fullest extent.

Conclusion

The better the relationship between child & parents, the more successful the child will be

HUSBAND-WIFE RELATIONSHIP

HUSBAND-WIFE
They are the root which hold the family tree firm Work together, play together, and grow up together.

Practice sympathy, good humor, and mutual understanding and take good care of family
Establish your own home, even in a one room flat.

Fight for each other, but not with each other.

Build home on religious faith, with love and forgiveness as the watchword Bear and forbear.

The change in relationship

Reason :
Too many expectations: every couple expect their life partner to be perfect which on making mistake lead to fight No compromise: putting ones choice always before other and not respecting the choice of other Male ego: the mind set of supremacy always lead to increasing distance between each other

Time spent together: due to work load, the required time is not available for each other lead to separation

How to improve the relationship

1. no communication gap between each other 2. spend quality time with your partner 3. involve each other in decision making.

4. respect and value each other

5. no 3rd party involvement during argument especially family members 6. unconditional LOVE is important. 7. appreciate each other.

BROTHER AND SISTER

BROTHER AND SISTER

Now-a-days, the mentality of male siblings are changing towards their sisters.
There is increasing understanding between them. They bond of friendship is becoming more predominant They share everything with each other and relaxes their unease mind. The feeling of male dominancy is eradicating in this relationship.